How To Respond When She Tries To Friend Zone You

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How to respond to a woman who tries to friend zone you when you want romance.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who appears to be new to my work. He is a nurse and met a woman that works at his hospital. He asked her out and they went on several dates. Then a friend of his was unable to attend an event in Vegas so he asked her to go. He paid for the plane tickets, hotels and everything. She kept trying to friend-zone him and he didn’t know how to handle it and kept acting like a friend. Now he is quitting his job because he can’t handle working with her and not being able to date her.
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[@krishna335]

Walk away, never look back or reach out

[@ChadOliver-b7y]

Exactly 💯

[@Champ1988]

The great thing about being direct and clear with women is that "friends" is never an option. You can either reject her if it's not for you. Or you can be so clear that she rejects you respectfully; and you never have to waste another moment with her thereafter.

[@SamGatiNHO]

Lesson learned bro

[@derekwalter1334]

Unless you work with them. Living that dream right now!

[@Champ1988]

@derekwalter1334 it is best to leave girls alone at places you frequent. Hardly ever ends well. And they'll 🐓 block you even if they were the one who didn't want you.

[@Gbb93]

Amen brother. Not that women are just so replaceable because like Corey says, “you might only meet 3-5 women that really knock your socks off throughout your life”. Obviously you don’t know if the next girl you ask out could be one of them. So need not waste any time on women that aren’t interested, and best to spend your time on yourself, your mom, and approaching other women that might be one of those.

[@Chuck145e]

As soon as a woman rejects me and put's me in the "friendzone" I lose complete interest. I simply move on and find someone worth my time. I give a woman one chance and one chance only to prove herself to me, otherwise I just move on and find someone worth my time. Either you're in, or you're out.

[@ChadOliver-b7y]

Yup exactly. Once you get burned a few times you learn and never put yourself in that situation ever again. This last woman I dated tried to do that to me after she broke up with me along with telling me she was sleeping with another man. I walked away and never looked back. These modern age women are terrible. I won't be a backup option for nobody

[@CoachSteveJandS]

"Just say NO" is what they used to tell us back in the 80s/90s.... 🎉

[@laurencegoodwin4047]

Oh Lord, haven’t seen Corey for a little while and this is a timely reminder to have self respect and value yourself always

[@AlexMurrell-d9c]

I would not accept "friends" only, I will walk away.

[@41GoingOn14]

Coach! been a while since I tuned into your work, as you mention, after the required reads, it eventually becomes second nature to you, and you can foresee and navigate situations effortlessly. I still pop in every now and again to refresh and appreciate your work. Thank you again. You have impacted my life tremendously.

[@santinogoring8860]

You stoped acting like a bitch

[@chriscarr7397]

Tell her, "I'm not interested in being just friends with women." Cut all ties with her and move on.

[@StuntTriple]

Dude get a grip! Use the pain you feel to remind yourself to never do that bs again lol

[@SamGatiNHO]

Understood bro. That was my email bro. Lesson learned in hard way

[@fereyal]

In her mind, those interactions were not 'dates', they were 'two friends hanging out.'

[@Trazynn]

Getting friendzoned means you've been playing poker with an open hand all this time.

[@brianbondy5667]

A woman recently tried making a lunch date with me. I told her "I don't do lunch dates and if she changes her mind let me know". She blocked me LOL! The weak ones weed themselves out!

[@39utopiaman]

Bro I had something similar happen these women are crazy out here

[@brianbondy5667]

@@39utopiaman Like coach says brother. " When you start doing this stuff the crazy ones weed themselves out". He is right. You really do wanna figure out the bad ones as soon as possible.

[@39utopiaman]

@brianbondy5667 for sure bro ever since I read bis book 10 times the crazy starts coming out after the 1st to second date

[@brandongentile8577]

You hurt her ego . She’s not used to hearing no from guys

[@39utopiaman]

@Michelli01 I have to agree with that some or Corey's philosophy has made me lose some good ones, the whole set a date once and don't call or text them until the date has made me lose them every single time I've done it.

[@39utopiaman]

Had a chick try to do this to me recently I rejected her friendship offer after I spit some game at her and we both mutually walked away, a month later she came back and tried to play me and was flirting with me then at the last second before the date she was like we're going out as friends right I was like nah and canceled that whole date, her ego was bruised by that she got mad and unfollowed me on everything lmfao

[@patrickmillion]

😂that's right don't go out like no sucker bro

[@frawnt7316]

Coach, let me tell you that your work has done absolute wonders for women in my life and for the women I have yet to meet. I’m a pretty attractive dude, I’d say 8 out of 10 because no one’s perfect, and I’ve been dumped multiple times by absolute banger women for being an insecure, neurotic jackass, which I conclude was my inexperience of my control of my feelings and the ineptitude of how women function and their womanese… you are doing gods work by giving out this information and teaching men how to be MEN. If you’re one who’s on the edge of what you’re hearing or don’t believe any of this to be true, good luck. Listen and apply the things the coach says and you WILL, with 100% guarantee, meet and keep the most beautiful woman who walks into your life. Bless you coach, thanks for taking the punches for us and leading us to the holy grail. And remember to periodically check back to the book and videos so even when you get the girl of your dreams, so you keep being the man she fell in love with and she’ll never have a reason to find anyone else because she already found the best. 😉 Thank you coach, from the bottom of my heart.

[@TopDoggyRobby]

Had a girl tell me she felt we were better off friends on our second date at her place to cook dinner. I said thats fine, I’ll be your friend but this will be the last time we hangout then. She asked me why and I said I didn’t drive over here just to be your friend. She said she didn’t know if she had feelings for me or not so I said why don’t you kiss me and find out. We fucked later that night. She admitted she wanted to be friends because she thought I was too nice. Didn’t take her very seriously after that because she conflates kindness with weakness.

[@blahblahblah-uw4uf]

She was telling you that you weren’t being masculine enough and you were too much in your feminine polarity. You were acting too soft up to that point, but then she became attracted to you once you stopped being a p*ssy.

[@RealityHurts2024]

This dude needs to watch the video "Why nice guys finish last." We've all been there.

[@ozmosisnis]

Quitting his job over a girl? That’s wild, priorities are completely flipped

[@CeeT-wg3hz]

At this point, I'm going advance level, I would just go ghost and possibly block them. This situation is way too messy to be in. Let's say she does come back, and at any moment, she can litreally try to friendzone you whenever she feels like it. I would just cut my losses and give her the gift of missing me permanently, and start over with a new gal 💯

[@Jhon-h1z]

I told her direct to her face I am not you’re friend and doesn’t want any type of friendship with you, you can only talk to me work related.

[@dorkga1092]

Corey, you shouldn't act too dopey with those pups, they might friendzone you, dude lol. Great video and advice as always!

[@charlesbrown6364]

Like you wrote in your book Coach: There’s another bus in 10 minutes. If you won’t love me or celebrate me, I will go someone where I am loved and where I am celebrated, not tolerated. Loved this video, thanks for putting it out there today.

[@vincem2320]

I actually admire this guy. His love and affection are top tier and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. He just did incredible things for the wrong person. Yes there were many mistakes and red flags but he took the chance and that’s ballsy. To also let other guys know his story and what went wrong. 👌 Just don’t make things easy for the girl you’re interested in, 90% of girls are already living life on easy mode. Let her prove that she deserves your time and energy

[@SamGatiNHO]

Thank you bro. That was my email man. I’m still here trying to move on from this situation. We both ended up quitting that job and she ghosted me completely. It feels like 💩 bro

[@AkosM]

​@babyelephant5098 you'll get over her, don't worry. You had nothing between you anyway, except your fantasy. Read Correy's book and learn how to meet women wherever you are. You'll be fine.

[@zipeto]

She will be back dont worry,but then do it on your turn​@@SamGatiNHO

[@pinoy122793]

I read the book 9 times so far and plan to read it as much as I can. Ever since I started reading the book, I’ve been reading 20 pages a day every night. That would be about reading it 24 times a year. I recently rejected a woman and got ghosted by this other woman. The reason why I got ghosted is because I’ve been friends with this woman for 21 years. We’ve known each other since we were kids. And she’s my twin sister’s friend also. I am always having an abundance mindset anyway. This book helps. As for the woman who ghosted me, I already moved on and our friendship ended. I just let it go.

[@JamesNGames]

She's not yours, it's just your turn...

[@PentaKillMedia]

Corey you're like the uncle that I always wished i had.

[@FUNNYMANERICWHITE]

Thanks for all you do. OG fan

[@vermithor51ac]

this guy should read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" also

[@martinboumans]

Most guys should!

[@jameshunt3504]

Who's the author???

[@vermithor51ac]

@@jameshunt3504 Robert Glover

[@martinboumans]

​@@jameshunt3504Dr. Robert A Glover

[@Psych1_-]

I think she probably was interested, at first which is why she agreed to a date. He probably gave off vibes very early on, and turned her off.

[@Hexadecimal_QueenofChaos]

she was interested enough to give him a shot and he fumbled it, probably displayed unattractive behaviour but was too clueless to know it. this email is full of excuses/delusions that he is using to block out that fact... even after everything he did wrong he says hes "proud of himself"... typical nice guy playing the victim.

[@Psych1_-]

@@Hexadecimal_QueenofChaos He's probably proud of himself for recognizing he fucked up, and learned from it which is why he wrote the email. Nice guys don't play victim, weak guys do. You can be a nice guy without being a pussy.

[@starseed855]

The first minute was for me enough to say: COME ON MANNN🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[@carlrav5660]

It's crazy how some women fight so hard to get a particular guy to be her friendzone guy. They get really upset if you walk away from that. I dont understand why they just dont date the guy

[@thischaneldoesntexistnon497]

How to be a 3% pup

[@DJSpencer-kq1mf]

Hang out, have fun, woof up!

[@djim823]

And read the book 10-15 times

[@lionelt7882]

Don’t ever accept the friendzone. It’s low key manipulative because you really just doing it in hopes of her changing her mind. Which will very rarely happen. And even then, she will never completely love you. I know a guy who escaped the friendzone, after years of his GF picking other dudes over him…and she cheats on him regularly. Why? Because she knows he ain’t going anywhere, no matter what she does😂

[@Throwaway75418]

I don’t think I’ve ended up dating a girl who friendzoned me, but I did have a girl who wouldn’t date me and wanted to stay casual. Needless to say when we finally did end up dating because she realized I had another girl I was seeing I cheated on her throughout the relationship. What women don’t understand is that treating us like shit or as lesser makes us resent them, and at least in my case reduces my willingness to be loyal

[@daveblackman816]

Man spent all that money on her in Vegas and didn’t even kiss her yet lol. Bruh… that trip shouldn’t have even been considered yet at all.

[@Gbb93]

I approached a girl that I felt was checking me out. I got around to flat out asking her if she had a boyfriend because I’d like to take her out. She replied almost disappointed, but she did have one. Kinda a mix between “sorry to disappoint you” and “I kinda wish I didn’t.” Anyways, when I was about to walk away she quickly added that “we can be friends though!!” I just laughed and said “ha sure” but I don’t intend to be friends at all. Next time I see her (at my gym) I don’t want to make it awkward so if I’m right up next to her or something, I’ll probably say hi. Worse to be obviously awkward/butthurt. But I also don’t want to act like a desperate puppy dog. She’s also 19, which does change things in some sense because usually 19 year old women aren’t going to settle down with the guy they’re with… they’re still kinda on the market. So I feel like keeping it open and friendly and appearing unbothered, unperturbed without being desperate, is a safe option. However, at some point I’ll tell her look, I couldn’t be just your friend nor has that been my intention from the first time we talked. I’d be pretending and that’s not fair to either of us. If anything changes between you and your boyfriend, give me a call. Here’s my number. Any critiques? Is that doing too much? Should I even say anything or just smile and give a head nod/wave or something, and keep it at that?

[@smilinjoe23]

That's why you don't dip your pen in the company's ink !

[@39utopiaman]

Yo that's the best one I've heard so far 😂😂😂😂

[@smilinjoe23]

@@39utopiaman tom leykis's line

[@pablogiorgio7479]

Hey man, what a great puppy

[@chuckfrysbee8567]

Cute dog

[@evanhiggins7298]

They should be a regular

[@LoneSilentWolf]

The Dogs were the best part of this video tbh 😅.

[@blahblahblah-uw4uf]

Friendzone shouldn’t exist to you. You’re either hooking up and dating or nothing.

[@Tom-cp6yj]

Even if you're already with someone else?

[@blahblahblah-uw4uf]

@@Tom-cp6yjI mean yeah you can be friends with women if you want to at that point.

[@StephenJones_901]

This poor dude has the worst case of oneitis that I've ever heard of. He's literally letting this one woman chase him out of his job, which is something that NO WOMAN is worth. I've been divorced since March of last year, and when I decided to start dating again, I made this same mistake, trying to lock down the first woman who I went out with. Of course that didn't end well for me. No amount of money or attention can force a woman to love a man. You have to just let her come to you. If she doesn't come to you, you have no choice but to take the L and move on. Don't get all wrapped in one woman who hasn't made any sort of commitment to you. That sort of thing is terrible for a man's mental health. I hope this guy comes to senses and doesn't quit his job over this woman. I can guarantee that she isn't worth it.

[@Hexadecimal_QueenofChaos]

next up "help me Corey, I made myself homeless because of a rejection from a woman I haven't even kissed"

[@SuperNintendoChalmers1]

What a cutie! The puppy is not bad either. Thanks for all you do Corey!

[@SteveWeingart-wd5in]

Main thing is that he had her with him for a few days and then sell himself. Don't worry about the sex until there's a green light to try for 2nd base. He had a great chance.

[@john-evanbear8783]

The thing about trying to kiss her on the first date is that you run the risk of being MeToo’ed, especially if you are not attractive and she decides that she didn’t like the date.

[@dakotaporter3148]

That's why you look for signs that she's prepared to be kissed. Is she looking at your lips, is she close and touching you? Once you pick up on the signs you know when she wants it and when she doesn't.

[@GrowWithTrung]

New members of the 3%. And they’re fluffy

[@successartistry3023]

Title of the video should be: How to be a 3% simp

[@39utopiaman]

Nah it would be how to be a 97% man 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jonstroud3080]

More of the dogs!!

[@nurulkarim6525]

No, I've friends. Bye.

[@kevinperlow4595]

No. It's that simple.

[@RobertClark-p8o]

I had a sexual relationship with a girl, after she hurt me she said I feel bad what i did, but let's be friends first. What should I do or react?

[@stevemora7845]

The doggie is adorable ❤

[@supersaiyangrl3]

Umm coach introduce us to mini coach!! 🐕

[@kvs7876]

This show is going to the dogs😂😂

[@john-evanbear8783]

If your book is so good and well written, why do we have to read it 10 to 15 times to understand the book?

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Read it once and then you will understand.

[@Hexadecimal_QueenofChaos]

dude wtf... LOL quitting the job when he was probably the one displaying all the unattractive behaviour that turned her off and this email is full of excuses/delusions that he uses to block out that truth. she just wasn't into you, it happens all the time on both sides, but quitting your job because you can't handle seeing a woman who rejected you is the opposite of showing confidence and strength.

[@AndrewAung1992]

Of course the most negative comments here are from a woman. Maybe if you don't have anything nice to say, you shouldn't say anything at all. All of us guys make mistakes clearly he made several and can now learn to be a better man for the next girl.

[@Suspicious_Elmo]

I agree, that’s weak af. You get stronger by embracing and laughing at the awkwardness

[@davidlouis2354]

Interested in romance. LMAO.

[@vekash868]

10:42 😂

[@Danosman8326]

A side topic: when a man meets the woman, who should talk more? Corey says let her do the talking. However in Mystery’s method, he says a man should be talking mostly. Any thoughts Corey? Or anyone?

[@gaple1995]

LOL these videos are funny. Men, sometimes youre just not what a woman is looking for but thinks you're great as a person, hence friendship. Sometimes there's just NOTHING you can do to trick us or make us feel otherwise. And the offer of friendship isn't intended as a low blow or consolation prize. Sometimes we genuinely like you as a person, but KNOW UNEQUIVOCALLY that there is no romantic potential. So just stop with this crap and learn to use discernment as to when that is the case and when the offer of friendship is genuine. You are NOT ENTITLED to a woman just because youre interested.