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How To Spot A Fake Tarot Reader and TikTok Gatekeeping 🌶️🌶️🌶️ I'm Getting Spicy! 🌶️🌶️🌶️

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Ethony

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@smilingiscontagious5722
@smilingiscontagious5722 Жыл бұрын
I love that she talks about taking your ego out of it but yet her whole video is judging other tarot readers and putting stipulations on them which would be coming straight from her ego! The whole thing is her ego talking! Thank you Ethony you are always a beautiful shining light in a world with dark clouds. Bless you 💗🤗
@ShannaRiley
@ShannaRiley Жыл бұрын
I call projection on that one. 😏
@kathyffarney-keck8593
@kathyffarney-keck8593 Жыл бұрын
At the end she proved the idea that the unaware often project their issue on others when she called out gatekeeping.
@mysterymoonwatcher4817
@mysterymoonwatcher4817 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you spoke on that. Speaking of calming feminine energy she seemed quite tense and chaotic herself. 😂I have never understood attacks like this one. She did not hit on not 1 true warning signed that your dealing with a scammer rather than a real tarot reader, but she did actually commit a sure fire bell ringer herself. Stricking fear into the hearts of those looking for guidance that SHE must be the only true reader and the only one to be trusted.. 😅 I'm with you Ethony please educate yourself before you attempt to educate others and certainly do not throw rocks at those who have spent their life actually studying and practicing the art.. ppl never cease to amaze me with b.s.!! 😂😂
@twixttarot
@twixttarot Жыл бұрын
The point is, she knows entirely what she's doing. It's giving me church vibes.
@wanderingtarot2152
@wanderingtarot2152 Жыл бұрын
I saw her and WOW, I felt instant anger coming from her. I like your spiciness. I was getting a little spicy myself watching this. Thank you for educating those who want to control others by spreading lies. It's not about following a certain pattern but what you know intuitively! Thank you so much for dissecting this.
@patricedeavila4771
@patricedeavila4771 Жыл бұрын
OMG thanks for having this conversation. I'm a Jungian science based reader and don't do any of the "musts" she requires. She totally invalidated my entire practice. As I tell my students, there are as many roads to tarot as there are readers. The must is that you are ethical and honest, everything else is preference. Thanks for all you do!!
@januspatermagnus
@januspatermagnus Жыл бұрын
Maybe we do need some gatekeeping so that we can keep self-righteousness of her kind out. In 20 years of reading, I have never cleansed a deck and I don't intend to start. I mostly don't use spreads (gasp!), I often read with majors only and even though I'm pagan I don't have a sacred space to read in, I'll read anywhere, office, basement, kitchen, living room, park, bar. I'm a man so not very sacred and not very feminine. I don't read jumpers but I shuffle my decks to death because I love how a good hard shuffle feels and I don't educate people unless they ask about something and I'm in the mood to explain and no one has ever complained because they usually want answers to mundane questions about love, money, work, etc. So suck it lady. I can't stand self-righteousness.
@bluebirdandbeetarot
@bluebirdandbeetarot Жыл бұрын
I loved this!!! Be spicy, mama! I love it! Apparently I am not a "real" tarot reader. 🤣 According to Erica, anyway. Also, I LOVED how you pointed out how ableist it is to say that someone's not a "real" tarot reader because of how they shuffle. I have stiff finger joints that have only gotten more painful over the years. I love shuffling live and reading the cards as they make themselves known to me in real time. That's my tarot shuffle love language. 🥰 But there will likely come a day when i can't do that anymore, and that's okay, too. Also, i felt it was pretty ableist of her to say "didn't even bother to learn the meanings of the cards" as if that's just so easy for everyone. I have discalculia, and learning the 5 through 8 range of all the suits was INCREDIBLY difficult. And i graduated magna cum laude from a tier one university...it's not as if i can't learn things. But to my brain, 5 and 7 are essentially the same number, and so are 6 and 8. There's no rhyme or reason to it, it's a cognitive processing disability. Even now, a lot of the time, my brain will blank on those and I read the art intuitively. Bit it's not because i don't care or didn't take the time, and honestly (maybe I am taking this a littler personally, but...) I find her implication that people with disabilities aren't "real" tarot readers to be pretty freaking offensive. *Edited for spelling
@Sassyminaj
@Sassyminaj 4 ай бұрын
You ate this up! Tarot is an intuitive gift! It’s not about rules and laws lol. She’s getting ahead of herself judging other readers.
@aspasiarising4732
@aspasiarising4732 Жыл бұрын
PICK ME, PICK ME lol -- would love a snake ring. Good on you for calling out the misinformation. I was waiting for the TikTokker to tell us that our first deck has to be gifted to us!! I've been reading tarot for decades and when I first started I didn't even know cleansing deck energy between querents was a thing. I just read -- and it worked out just fine.
@mbmohney
@mbmohney Жыл бұрын
That lady is living in a tiny box. She is the one who I wouldn’t want doing my reading.
@Blu-skies
@Blu-skies Жыл бұрын
Perfect counterarguments. Been exploring and reading Tarot organically for 30+ years who have used spreads sparingly but still appreciate spreads. All this Gatekeeping is absolutely silly.
@whalesong813
@whalesong813 Жыл бұрын
Wow, not sure where to start! First of all thank you for doing this video. I say yes to more spicy videos. I think the one that bothered me the most was "you must teach, the cards and spirituality" I know I'm paraphrasing there. I can't even imagine the ego that thinks that is a must for a tarot reading. I read for myself, family and friends. If I started putting my spirituality on top of a reading when it wasn't part of the question or ask for, I would be called out so quick. Rightly so. Some I read for want just the answer, some want to know more about how I got the answer and are more interactive with the reading and meanings. Yes absolutely to empowering the querent!!! I don't have to put my spirituality forward or give a class on tarot reading to do that. I wonder why this person is so cut and dry. Tarot is a beautiful system of divination. It is certainly a system that can absorb all the wonderful, creative, heartfelt styles of reading. Yes I know there are scammers out there. it is not scamming to have a ethical, diverse, different reading style then the author of the tik-tok video.
@joshuaarmstrong8664
@joshuaarmstrong8664 9 ай бұрын
My wife sees so much gatekeeping of tarot readers on tiktok, and most, if not all, only do free Y or N, which doesnt help in the long run, and everytime she asks for clarification on her problem, they end up blocking her, frustrating to say the least
@donitabishop8101
@donitabishop8101 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Ethony for speaking out on this. I have learned that my practice is way more productive when I practice the way that feels right to me. There seems to be a lot of opinions out there on a lot of topics, especially Tarot.
@threeofcats5803
@threeofcats5803 Жыл бұрын
Really appreciated this Ethony, I was surprised at some of the stuff she said: the music being played? The way you shuffle? Cleansing cards after every reading? I’d love to have a sit down chat with her sometime and try to understand whether these are sincere beliefs or if she was saying what she thought she had to say to attract clients- feminine clients apparently. The femininity thing completely caught me off guard in particular. Beyond having a history of being created by males, the tarot is not just feminine in energy at all. (Looking at you Magician, Emperor, etc). I almost wish she’d respond to you just so we can understand what the heck she meant by that. The last point from her about gatekeeping makes me wonder if she actually understands what that term means- because if I were trying to do a video on gatekeeping in tarot examples, hers would be a very clear example Love the rings and love your video Ethony! ❤
@sigalius
@sigalius 10 ай бұрын
i love your directness and no-holds-barred approach. thank you for speaking up and fighting against gatekeepers who ironically criticize others about things they themselves need work on
@Shannon-kd9rl
@Shannon-kd9rl Жыл бұрын
Wow! Thanks for this spicy video - I thought you were actually very restrained given Erika's TikTok. The rings are fabulous!
@RuBy_00444
@RuBy_00444 Жыл бұрын
Pathetic 😢 Thank you Ethony for sharing. I agree with you 100% we all read differently, and that doesn’t make us any less of a tarot reader.
@RuBy_00444
@RuBy_00444 Жыл бұрын
Ethony””❤️❤️❤️
@AngiePhoenix85
@AngiePhoenix85 9 ай бұрын
As someone is still in the process of learning (3 years strong), I was nervous about the 'right' or 'wrong' of doing tarot, because of alot of GATEKEEPERS on YT. Also, I am still learning the meaning of the cards (because repetition is my style of learning). But, practioners like YOU have made me feel so much better about practicing Tarot. Because you made it where people should do it at a pace that they should be comfortable with. Everyone is entitled to their own methods, interpretations, and how they choose to practice Tarot.
@love-yourself-1st
@love-yourself-1st Жыл бұрын
Shuffling is another form of cleanse ✨️
@bronwenbrotton646
@bronwenbrotton646 Жыл бұрын
I love your spiciness... and that stunning python ring! Thank you for calling out the BS... and yes, definitely do more of these!
@PAB1068
@PAB1068 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing this video. It's people like her that can really ruin it for so many.
@seebyjenn
@seebyjenn Жыл бұрын
So funny how people who started working with cards 30 mins ago have loads of opinion on how everyone else should read.
@rachelar6
@rachelar6 Жыл бұрын
WOW this woman is hurting my head 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm glad I'm not on Tiktok lol it hurts
@WOLFE68
@WOLFE68 Жыл бұрын
Agree with everything you said Ethony! Thanks for sharing and get spicy anytime!!
@louloudark1651
@louloudark1651 Жыл бұрын
I don't watch tik tok I would be an angry old lady if I would. I read tarot since the 80'... the way that people read or present themselves had changed so much. I found important to have a good base but also each reader have their own style ! I am not there to educate anybody but if a person ask a question I will try to answer to my best knowledge. I feel this person is just making a big pub so people will go to her website and buy "the real thing" ... Sadly there will be some to believe her... As for me the ones who are used to come to me for their reading will continu they don't mind how I "cleaned or cleansed" my cards... they are paying me to know... Thank you Ethony for pointing this and speaking out about this... I was baffled to hear this... ps Your hair are so lovely like this ! And I would also be happy with one ring if I am chosen !
@mgcly444
@mgcly444 Жыл бұрын
Mic drop!! Here for the spicy 🔥 I wrote a long, ranty comment on Benebell’s video on this last week. Her whole “my way or the highway” vibes just pissed me right the F off. I am not okay with one rando trying to dictate rules for the community and throw shade at everyone else’s business and reading style. It’s one thing to present these as opinions, it’s another to present them as facts. End rant. 😤 Also, would love to win a ring 😂
@hecatedoe8135
@hecatedoe8135 Жыл бұрын
Ethony, I adore that snake ring and would love to give one a home! And I really appreciate your video presenting a thoughtful alternate opinion, as I tend to be allergic to people posting criticisms of others without looking at their own intentions and methods.
@user-bn2tw9uq3n
@user-bn2tw9uq3n Жыл бұрын
Bravo, Ethony! Ironic that she focuses on taking the ego out of readings, yet the vibes I get from her video are ego and arrogance.
@tiffanystarot29
@tiffanystarot29 4 ай бұрын
I’ve literally had someone read my whole entire story with one card so that lady needs to stop gatekeeping, if you’re truly gifted cards are just there for the client
@lindaostrand7589
@lindaostrand7589 8 ай бұрын
The damn piano music in the background. Also the over the top dramatics. I feel like I'm in high school using a magic 8-ball!! Huge red flags for this old lady 😢
@Ammalu5
@Ammalu5 Жыл бұрын
Those rings are so cute! I love your videos because you are so easy to understand, so accessible, so real! Thank you so much!!
@CheyenneShining
@CheyenneShining Жыл бұрын
Your hairstyle today looks fabulous! I thought that the original tiktok was…. Sigh. No words really 😩😩😩 I am glad however that there are so many voices in our community disputing the statements that were made. But yes, the rings are super cute and I think it would be awesome to win! Thank you for your take on this and also for the possibility of winning a ring! 💕💕💍💍💕💕
@papermoontarot4219
@papermoontarot4219 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting. I thought there is no wrong in readings, it's you applying your lens to the system. I think the only rules here are to learn the system and not to con people that you're going to solve their problems and make them happy or predict a future which they cannot change. I'm one who doesn't see tarot as a spiritual practice. I heard a quote, trusting yourself involves recognizing what you already know, and I feel that's what tarot does for people.
@Rachel-sv9pq
@Rachel-sv9pq Жыл бұрын
I never claimed to be a "real" tarot reader so maybe she's not talking to me anyway but that said.... I almost entirely read for myself using jumpers. I didn't even know until this video that that's something frowned upon. But I don't mind being a fake ass reader because those jumpers almost always tell me EXACTLY what I need to hear in that moment even if it hurts. Anyway, spicy Ethony is fun. ☺
@debrapurdykong8129
@debrapurdykong8129 Жыл бұрын
As someone who's just starting to learn about Tarot, I really appreciate your clarification on the points made by the Tik Tok reader. Otherwise, newbies like me could easily take what she said to heart. And I like the spicy approach :)
@clareozcbear2640
@clareozcbear2640 Жыл бұрын
You go girlfriend!! 🌶🌶 Smackdown!!!💥🥊 Love the Gecko ring so cuuuute!! 🦎
@lunnafraticelli6131
@lunnafraticelli6131 Жыл бұрын
Felt the 🔥!! lol Good video... the basics of Tarot, what we read, what we incorporate is all essential for the practice...how we develop ourselves...the style, methods we adapt down the road...is all good... Those who want to define or emphasize too much in the don'ts by unconciously self projecting themselves or perpetrating their super ego kicking in, you can feel that something is not right with that.... Follow your intuition, empower 💯..use your knowledge and intelligence wisely. Again...good video. That snake ring look gorgeous...sing me in the drawing..thanks.🙏💛
@MamaKek
@MamaKek Жыл бұрын
Her video is a huge “look at me!” Like most of TikTok so I wouldn’t have even made it through her video if I had come across it. Love the rings! ❤
@machashadowstep6352
@machashadowstep6352 Жыл бұрын
I'm honestly curious where she gets her information from. Thank you. Stances like this need to be addressed for the sake of others. I find it ironic that she speaks about predatory behavior when her information seemed to be exactly that. ❤❤❤
@ellemusic.
@ellemusic. Жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this video, Ethony! This tiktok person was wildly out of line about basically everything, sadly. You breaking it down and chatting about each point was perfection, and very much needed for this community. I have to randomly tell you this - I bought a deck from you years ago (A manifestation oracle deck with a unicorn on it I think it was from Australia and I couldn't find it in Canada) and a couple months ago my house was literally falling down a hill and the city had to do an emergency demolition and I lost so many things BUT your beautiful thank you card survived it under all the rubble! (and deck!) I still have it as I am so grateful for your work and this wonderful channel. You bring all of us so much joy! 💜✨
@Tarot-by-the-sea
@Tarot-by-the-sea 6 ай бұрын
Blimey….The Tarot deck is a an unbound-book. And reading the cards 🃏 is reading a story-interpretation. I use intuition…. so it depends what I feel on the day…. I agree with you Ethony. One of my TikTok videos was kicked off because I spoke of the Devil card and domestic violence, Tiktok said it was for entertainment purposes only….. Tarot consultations with via video or in person are much deeper and obviously all sorts of situations are on the table. Gosh that woman has SO MANY rules and regulations, she sounds judgemental and hostile… I’m getting ‘Judgment’ card Moon card vibes, she’s living in fear and needs to go with the flow… talk about EGO! LOL 😂
@ElizabethTremblay-nt9tg
@ElizabethTremblay-nt9tg Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking up and speaking out! Honestly! I’m forever shocked (but not surprised) when people are so gatekeepy and one-dimensional as she. Thank you, too, for being inclusive of all styles. Those rings are adorable! I love the voice of the gecko! 🦎
@autumnmaya
@autumnmaya Жыл бұрын
Loved this video and those rings are so cute! I hope Erica sees this and changes her thinking a bit (or a lot!) but you're probably right that she knows what she's doing to get views and comments.
@sylviegiroux9210
@sylviegiroux9210 Жыл бұрын
Love your fire! You go, girl! 👏 Thanks for giving us the facts... and of course, I hope I win!
@remember_nostalgia
@remember_nostalgia Жыл бұрын
Great video! Love all your thoughts and comments - I love spice 😉 The original video feels really gatekeepy, thank you for opening up the conversation and offering a perspective that resonates much better with me
@sunsetreiki
@sunsetreiki 8 ай бұрын
Haha, just came across your channel and love this! ~ My sister questioned why I was shuffling like I would a deck of regular playing cards, with an air of disapproval. I shuffle how I want and it's more to do with the size of my hands and how the cards feel in them. Thanks for a great video, looking forward to checking out more.
@JustACrone
@JustACrone Жыл бұрын
Last thing in the list is an eh? moment for me. I've joined groups learning tarot and Love reading is the mostly asked about.
@shaunaraetarot
@shaunaraetarot Жыл бұрын
Your hair is amazing in this vid! Absolutely gorgeous! Thanks for your thoughts on this topic 💚
@sheilagibbons5167
@sheilagibbons5167 Жыл бұрын
Love the spicy! Thank you for dispelling the inaccuracies of her video. The world needs proper understanding and education regarding Tarot! Thank you, thank you!
@kristibrown48
@kristibrown48 Жыл бұрын
I watched your video -hit the thumbs up and left.. I rarely take time to comment because I honestly don’t even check reply’s to comments I make. First I realize TikTok is THE social platform but I’m old and it seems so impersonal to me. I’m sure it’s easier for the people who make the videos because they are so short. In my spirituality, which is an eclectic witch, I really don’t need Somebody who is claiming to be a professional on a divination tool ( tarot ) to make a short video about basically her personal opinions… And that is exactly what this lady has done. I have a been very intuitive since I was born.. But I don’t need somebody to tell me how to spot if somebody is fake.. because I can feel their energy immediately. So if I had to give a warning or post a video which I would never do, and I have no idea how to do that, I would say before one of the most powerful tools everybody has is intuition..learning that getting in tuned with that will not only guide you in your spiritual path ….it’ll also make you spot bull$hit or fake a mile away ….😂 Also, a tarot reading is fluid meaning that at that time where you are emotionally, if you keep going, the exact same way, your answer will be your most likely outcome however, you have the ability to change that… terrell readings are not the end all answer to your questions.. Rather a spiritual guide.
@FloraSprout
@FloraSprout Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, I can easily recognize an attitude of toxicity and defensiveness from the person you were responding to. What authority does she have to act this way? Yikes on bikes!!! Especially the divine feminine art stuff. She’s calling other people uneducated, saying people that don’t cleanse their cards don’t know how to read them…pot meet kettle. She’s exactly the kind of person that I avoid because their ego is overinflated and they have an extreme sense of self importance. It’s honestly embarrassing.
@Tarotwhispers1o1
@Tarotwhispers1o1 Жыл бұрын
Eloquently and all brilliantly and beautifully said Ethony!!! Thank you so much!!!❤🙏🏽❤️🥰
@Dracorvid
@Dracorvid Жыл бұрын
My thoughts are inline with your own, and I’ve never been able to deal with people who are “there’s only one right way!” 😝 I’m in love with that gecko 🦎 ring 😍
@user-xt4vr1ws2z
@user-xt4vr1ws2z Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. She almost sounds like if you aren't Her, you're not for real. Everyone's gift is not the same, spirits, intuition and gifts speak differently to each one, styles are different with your personality. Nothing wrong with having your own style instead of trying to be just like everyone else. I want to win too ! Good video feedback to her post.
@mesamag10
@mesamag10 Жыл бұрын
If I had watched her video, which I didn't, I would have been literally laughing out loud!! What cute rings. I would love to win one!
@hausinnermagic
@hausinnermagic Жыл бұрын
" Tarot is not a show" BUT one also must ACT like a tarot reader . "we take our ego out of it" UNLESS am telling you how to be a tarot reader.. Erica talks a lot about the ego but her entire spiel is based on her own ego . The art of tarot reading is very intuitive and here she is putting a lot of rules !! I am glad that i came across Kelly, Ethony and other amazing readers/ teachers rather than gatekeepers, otherwise i might have never given myself the opportunity to connect with the art of tarot and oracle reading
@carissa.explainsitall
@carissa.explainsitall 8 ай бұрын
i love that spice!! I dig your energy and vibes so much! great video!
@lorrainethomas241
@lorrainethomas241 Жыл бұрын
Spice it up, girl! Interesting how she was so concerned about gatekeepers, and yet she was being so black and white about the practice...which is about as gatekeepy as it gets in my view.
@carissamoser37
@carissamoser37 Жыл бұрын
Love the spicy take with your videos. I dislike when people gatekeep in anything, but on the flip side I feel bad for the people who are acting that way because all I can think is what happened in their life that caused them to be that way? Love the cute rings!!!
@duchessofautumn
@duchessofautumn 9 ай бұрын
I'm so happy that my instincts are strong enough to tell real spiritual advisors from fake ones.
@ivyrose7657
@ivyrose7657 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video! I enjoy listening to your videos & always learn. Thank you!😊💕
@jessicaw1839
@jessicaw1839 Жыл бұрын
I use jumpers almost exclusively. It’s just my preference. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’d love a chance to win a little snake ring!🐍
@starandflurry
@starandflurry Жыл бұрын
Spicy honesty is wonderful and highly underrated! Thank you for your take on all of this.
@amberclear7326
@amberclear7326 Жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you said. I also think she contradicts herself, especially with the thing about spreads and logic. Using a spread brings more intellect and logic into the reading. When you use a spread you are using a structure, a framework (intellect and logic) and fitting your intuition into that.
@XsTarot
@XsTarot Жыл бұрын
Oooh i did not know about that video! I’m still learning and I love your book. Greetings from Argentina!
@0xymor3
@0xymor3 Жыл бұрын
Love the video and she only prooved to me she had too many issues with ego and empathy. Anyway, I would love to participate to the little contest, if it's open outside US (I'm in Europe) ! 🍀
@yeetfios
@yeetfios 11 ай бұрын
you’re so pretty 🫶🏽
@statiawoertendyke3187
@statiawoertendyke3187 Жыл бұрын
As a relative noobie, gatekeepers intimidate me.... Makes me insecure.
@chrisc4987
@chrisc4987 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. She is too hung up on rules. In reality, a true reader doesn't even need the cards. They are a tool, a visual aid for both the reader and the client.
@jinxminx55
@jinxminx55 Жыл бұрын
that snake ring is adorable!
@strawberrypie2258
@strawberrypie2258 Жыл бұрын
You go girl! I agree with you and love your cool jewelry. 💜🧚🏻‍♀
@librasings4life1331
@librasings4life1331 9 ай бұрын
Well I stumbled across your page to look at some of your deck reviews and I love you. You are perfect. And maybe you're a little sassy or salty but you know what you need to be cuz that chick is batshit crazy. You go girl 💪💪💪💯💯💯🌟
@xGreyxRainbowx
@xGreyxRainbowx Жыл бұрын
If I listened to that woman I would be invalidated straight into the moon - And awww love those scaly rings! :)
@weekendsareforwitchery
@weekendsareforwitchery Жыл бұрын
OMG dying! You are so awesome and on point … I just can’t! And gimme a ring! ❤️❤️❤️
@Sobekhotep888
@Sobekhotep888 Жыл бұрын
I saw that tik tok and immediately was like that’s bs and kept scrolling.
@harsishava
@harsishava Жыл бұрын
First off those rings look really amazing! Just casual observations for someone incredibly new to tarot. Well I don't know if it was a sound cross over thing but Erica's music choice sounds like a cheap 1950s sci-fi soundtrack to an equally cheap film production. Not razzing on cheap 50s sci-fi films/music scores, that's just how it sounds. I am chaos. The universe is chaos. So I read with tarot spreads and just free style. When I meditate with my spirit guides (finding them thanks to a course of Ethony's) I do free style and when I have a specific question or questions I use spreads. Also because I'm chaos (I don't consider it ego) I sometimes use cards that fly out and sometimes I don't. My shuffling style is odd but it seems to get the job done. I think her comments on shuffling style is ableist. I think her comments on feminine art thing to be condescending and it is ignorant to tarot readers that may feel equally masculine and feminine at the same time. Then again, I don't read for other people and I may not do so. People like Erica doesn't fill me with confidence that my style would be welcome. Considering it was once a game for entertainment (from a rudimentary study, apologies if that's incorrect) I don't know other people can be so rigid about how tarot is used. It's a tool, isn't it? Not conjugations or mutations in language where you have to follow rules in order to be understood. Finally, I was hoping for a tad more spice, but then I'm a spicy gal in general. Thanks for Ethony's responses to this Tiktok thingy.
@MrAlfonsohid
@MrAlfonsohid Жыл бұрын
Had to pause the video after the first BS to get some popcorn... so habanero level spicy good vid ‍🌶🔥
@nickiecee1564
@nickiecee1564 Жыл бұрын
Yasss👏🏽 Ethony 👏🏽 Please set this shit straight!!!! ❤️ 🔥 🔥 🔥
@WitchyWallflower
@WitchyWallflower Жыл бұрын
This was awesome, thanks Ethony!❤
@CandySoulAndSoil
@CandySoulAndSoil Жыл бұрын
Love the spice🔥 as somebody who works with jumpers as a way to give free reign to the voice of the deck i guffawed at the ego comment. I’d love to win. ❤
@giftedsoul777
@giftedsoul777 Жыл бұрын
That first one had me like... wow!!! Guess I'm not a real reader then! I cleanse them, pray over them, knock on them , charge with crystals etc, when I feel called to, if it's weighing on me to do it. It's not a constant thing for me. Oh wow.......where is she getting this stuff from? I'm not necessarily judging, but she has this all wrong!! I'm convinced that she was trying to be comical, she doesn't even seem like she is taking herself seriously. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this and also debunking what she has said.
@Barbarella85
@Barbarella85 Жыл бұрын
What da fu.... Seriously? I mean, who is she, to judge about what's "right" or "wrong" - as there would only exist one (her) truth... Tarot is the exact opposite of this. “Tarot is for everyone, because everybody has an intuition. Tarot is a way to connect to that." I am a 95% intuitive reader, sometimes with spreads, sometimes without. Sometimes I use only one deck, sometimes more. And sometimes I even mix Tarot and Oracel decks - which means an absolut "Tarot Mayhem" I guess. As a neurodivergent person I basically live in chaos, I am chaos :). I can focus best when hearing loud music and I am a loud person. For me, jumping cards are the ones that want to be read, they need to jump out because they have something important to say. But thats just how I feel it, which does not mean its the only way or the only right way in Tarot. So I tick all the boxes for a "Classic Fake Tarot Reader" LOL :) Thanks Erica, at least I know now. Do I know everything about Tarot - no, but who does? Cards have so many different meanings, depending on so many different things. Sometimes I feel more "Crowley" sometimes more "RWS" (according to Miss Tarot Police the typical "feminin" women in Tarot history. But do I know what a card means in a particular reading - I fu....ing do so. I do use traditional decks as well as modern ones, and it happens that I read a "modern" card in a traditional meaning and vice versa. As soon as you can only see and read "what their meant to be according to Book XYZ from Person ABC" - you completely take out everything Tarot stands for. When there is one correct way to read Tarot cards, how comes that there are so many different Tarot decks, so many different influences that are part of Tarot or "define" Tarot (Kabbalah, Ancient Egypt, Astrology, ....). And all this false information about the "female art" and stuff like that.... I mean - come on... Srsly? Thanks Ethony, I really enjoyed the spicyness :) lots of hugs and love from Europe
@reneedulmaine4066
@reneedulmaine4066 Жыл бұрын
I love your hair!!
@8polyglot
@8polyglot 8 ай бұрын
Totally agree, Ethony. Thank you.
@karaodom6615
@karaodom6615 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and all your amazing content!! Love everything you do ❤ That ring is 🔥 Would love love love to win it!! Keeping rocking the tarot world!!!
@emzz1310
@emzz1310 Жыл бұрын
To each their own. Every practice can be valid if done properly!
@thehealingrose
@thehealingrose Жыл бұрын
OMG 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 This is why I love your channel so much 💖
@Ireanna
@Ireanna Жыл бұрын
I don't read jumpers either I was starting to feel like I was the only one lol I was rolling my eyes listening to all her BS!
@megferguson8035
@megferguson8035 7 ай бұрын
I only read “jumpers” as clarifiers. To each their own. But I’m a gentle shuffler because I want my cards to last. I figure if I’m nice to the cards they will be nice to me. I agree with you on every point lol.
@nataliewinters6735
@nataliewinters6735 Жыл бұрын
Love the 🌶🌶🌶 (and your haircut 👌)
@pjnaylor
@pjnaylor Жыл бұрын
Spicy!!!!❤ The comments on her tiktok were as bad as her video. The hognose is my fave snake. They are so cutey patootie. I would love to win one.
@restlessmermaid9543
@restlessmermaid9543 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand the mentality of "you're doing it wrong unless you do it MY WAY!" because I wanted all the rules and damnations, I *might* still be with the church. Ugh, people like this are just cringey. Love the rings!! -Vegas
@TheEmpressgoth
@TheEmpressgoth Жыл бұрын
I am still on the music issue what??? no heavy metal or Coolio? lol then shuffling? divine feminine, the entire deck hmmm she sounds like a trip Thank you for sharing.
@leecevictoria481
@leecevictoria481 Жыл бұрын
I don't cleanse my decks, cuz it rubs my own energy off. I keep my decks pristine and clean from dirt! 😂
@queenlibratheempress
@queenlibratheempress 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video because I have been feeling this lately about a few of the readers I was first drawn to when I was very very new on my spiritual journey and lately I’ve noticed that everything you are speaking of is all facts. Thank you💚
@joylangtry
@joylangtry Жыл бұрын
Just love watching you being your real self! And the rings, love those too!
@chakrawitch
@chakrawitch Жыл бұрын
Not everyone wants to learn or know the tarot, not everyone wants your guidance on their spiritual practice. If people book a reading with you they want to hear your perspective or translation or message or answer to the question they hired you for. If the question is “am I on the right spiritual path?” Then fine but honestly what people want to buy as a reading is nunya business. That’s between the client and their chosen reader wherever that reading is. Im surprised she didn’t try to convince people that you need face to face live zoom or in person readings only. Maybe if people just focused on what they need to do for their clients and not what other readers are doing or not doing that they don’t like this would be a better thing.
@erinlee4310
@erinlee4310 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking on this!! It’s really becoming a problem. Also, the rings are gorgeous! Would be blessed to win.
@rachdoesmagic
@rachdoesmagic Жыл бұрын
Lmao I read at rock events all of the times 😅😂😅😂 of course it’s a skill to learn but it is not a “must be calm” thing
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