How to spot a high value man?

[@Tomas-lj9mb]

Stop looking for happiness from others and search for peace and freedom instead. Get them two and happiness will follow afterwards. If your constantly lonely, embrace it, and accept it. Loneliness is your best friend. It will teach you something a partner can not give to you. Understanding. High value men are not your answer. They care about themselves very narcissistic I know but it's the truth and the truth will set you free, I never said it will make you happy. Peace, freedom and happiness will come I promise you that.

[@muzifele6902]

lol I know so many men and I myself have experienced this too. Women will say these things, but then when they find a man like this, they still don’t respect them. Modern women are so focused on correcting the errors of the past and proving that they can be strong and this and that, that they will fight you to prove these new paradigms and concepts. Too many people confuse respect for submission. Too many self centred and selfish people. More than ever people are lonely, check the stats. Decade on decade divorce rates increase. Once again, check the stats. Also more women are making more money and there’s nothing wrong with that but most women won’t date a man who earns less than her meaning that most women are competing for the best of the best men - who are always invariably taken as they’re the most desired. Meaning there’s a lot of single people as connection isn’t what women look for. Security is pretty much it. And as a man your value is determined by your worth - material wealth, social status, etc. I don’t think you’re looking at the whole picture. Only an aspect of it regarding the dynamics between men and women in 2024. And yes; there’s plenty of self centred and selfish men out there too. But nobody wins when everybody is being selfish. Dating is an extreme sport, marriage is wild these days. People don’t persevere and don’t sacrifice anymore. And you can’t be in a relationship if you still want to be selfish all the time. Both partners have to keep putting in the requisite effort to put the relationship and each other first. And that is a daily job. A daily choice. Most just don’t do that anymore. This isn’t to say all relationships are doomed. But it seems like every five years there’s less and less long lasting relationships and marriages. People quit pretty quickly.

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

I agree with a lot of what you said above, hence learning to communicate your desires without powerstruggling with the man and carrying that pride is so important, learning to take care of emotional needs without lashing onto each other is important, and expressing sexuality and sensuality. It is a big topic and patriarchy and feminism has def influenced the relationship dynamics, but even more so globally we are moving into unity type of relationships.

[@muzifele6902]

@@oksanatsimpoaka2144 I just hope for the best. Now as a parent I worry about what world my children will grow up into. What kind of people they will be interacting with. I wish more people had your perspective because the way we are doing things, most of us are losing and the saddest part is most don’t see it. Keep making the content you do. You’re making a difference! God bless

[@fashb2k]

I like what you're doing but judging by the cynicism from the comments, you're better off advising women to become better versions of themsevles BEFORE even looking to date a so called "high value man". That should be the value in your message. I hope you consider this.

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

Hi, thank you for appreciating my work! One should never take the judgment seriously from people who are not my clients neither know my work. I have tons of happy women and men who worked and work with me :) And yes - absolutely, in my programs for women we do inner work for women and in 1:1 for men, we do inner work for men. Ai never teach women nor men to set expectations on one another, this is just wrong. But in my videos, I either speak directly to women or to men🙏

[@damianjones6546]

I agree, your description of women who bitch about other women need some help with learning to love themselves.

[@damianjones6546]

I get what you mean, but I can only think of one person like that I know. And I know for a fact he has cheated on his wife multiple times. I don't consider myself a high value man, but I am totally transparent and honest and would never cheat behind my wife's back.

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

That is your experience 🤍🙏 and honesty is high value man qualities and also what he would cherish in a woman

[@microfarming8583]

​@oksanatsimpoaka2144 Women are attracted to the dark triad of character traits. Secretly this is who they really desire. Honest, nice guys are a societal fantasy.

[@gocalixto]

if that's the case, he's looking for something he doesn't have at home, at the same time, he does not deserve what he has, that's a person living a contradictory life. An arrow only moves in one direction. If someone wish to live in such a confusion manner, that's fine but one only gets one chance to make this experience matter, so better to make it right.

[@anthonyisgro7185]

*Consistency = stoicism*

[@adamseward4713]

"A woman is to be loved by a man; a man is to be respected by a woman." At that, I skip this vid. You make a point of highlighting a false polarity between "love" and "respect," then inflicting this on the woman. If you respect a man, than you don't have to love him? If you love a woman, you are free to disrespect her? "That's not what I said," you say? Yes it is.

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

I knew thie video will have such effect on some people. As you vlosed the dialogue yourself with your last statement, so let it be so ☺️

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

And yet, all this BS goes out the window and you will fawn over Chad and Tyrone 😅

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

Thank you for stepping by and sharing your humour ;)

[@okiedokie1238]

Just be a strong but vulnerable, rich but modest, dominant but not domineering and fun but reliable hot Chad bro and you're set.

[@adamkane7513]

​@@okiedokie1238 You have to be smart enough to be a capable Man... ...yet stupid enough to want to deal with what passes for females in the current era!

[@justgivemeanumber8215]

@@okiedokie1238 damn you forgot tall

[@robertpirsig5011]

Listen, being idealistic is great in theory. But in reality there are very gew people that will tick all these boxes. If a man makes you feel good consistently. He is the man for you. End of story

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

What pointers in the video is so idealistic? I am curious to know!

[@liveandinstereo]

So an eastern European woman showing how to spot a high-value man. So cliché.

[@oksanatsimpoaka2144]

You are probably part of the cliche watching those videos and judging them ;)

[@ArtLogins]

Audio recording needs upgrading