How to Spot Bullying On Your Team - Know the Signs of a Bully at Work

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Күн бұрын

Knowing how to spot bullying on your team as a manager is super useful. Bullying is very damaging to team motivation and performance.
Bullying is very tough for those on the receiving end of being bullying behaviour. Not doing anything about bullying - through ignorance, not knowing what to do or being unwilling to act - is very damaging to your reputation and standing as a manager.
Many signs of a bully at work are subtle and therefore hard to spot. This makes the job of spotting bullying in the workplace a lot harder. Identifying workplace bullying is even harder because may other issues can produce similar symptoms in employees being bullied.
How to spot bullying as a manager is a crucial first step. To help you, this video takes you through 5 symptom behaviours of employees being bullied, and 17 tactics used by those bullying at work.
One of the most critical things to do for how to spot bullying in the workplace is to make the time to observe what is happening around you and check to make sure there are no signs of workplace bullying.
Once you have spotted signs of bullying at work and investigated, then knowing how to deal with bullying at work is the next step. It is super important to take action as quickly as possible.
At the end of this video, I take you through a few tips on how to tackle bullying in the workplace.
Bullying is a horrible thing to have to suffer at any point in your life. Make it as hard as possible for bullies to successfully bully other team members.
Unfortunately, many bullies at work are managers. Managers hold positions of responsibility and have more power and influence within the business as a result. It is easier for them to overstep the mark and engage in bullying behaviour.
Keep an eye on your team members to make sure that they are not being bullied by other managers in the business. Having regularly one-on-one meetings gives you a great platform to discuss these types of issues and demonstrate your support for them.
Do your best to stop bullying in the workplace.
00:00 Intro
02:30 Why the impacts of bullying matter to you
04:21 6 Signs of employees being bullied
06:11 5 types of not-so-subtle bullying
08:07 12 types of subtle or covert bullying
12:43 Summary
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If you have any questions on “How to Spot Bullying on Your Team”, please leave them in the comments section below and I will get back to you.
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@lanovia3838
@lanovia3838 4 ай бұрын
let's be honest - no manager cares whether someone is bullied in their department.
@gjinkalla23
@gjinkalla23 4 ай бұрын
They are the main bullies themselves 😂 As above so below
@lanovia3838
@lanovia3838 4 ай бұрын
@@gjinkalla23 exactly
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 4 ай бұрын
I appreciate that way too many managers don't care - they are probably scared of being bullied themselves. Ignoring it is an easier and safer option in the short term. Bullying damanges trust. A manager not doing anything about bullying damanges trust. If trust falls, team performance falls. Managers are judged on team performance so every manager should care!
@jordanjolley
@jordanjolley Ай бұрын
I can assure you some do (myself ex manager) today witnessed something I thought I never thought I’d see in a professional company that holds it values so highly I’m literally on here right now because I don’t know what todo (I’m not a manager at this company) I’m just the new guy first week day 4 and I’ve witnessed Toxicity and unprofessionalism on a astonishing level making fun of appearances and weight etc on their new team leader (not me) another person that joined the same time as me. There’s literally no senior staff present longest serving staff is 8 months and then ofc manager and team leaders two of them one of which is in training along with me and the other I charge of the whole team while we’re in training (learning company system etc) today was a fucking zoo is the only way I can explain quiet afternoon so everyone was talking to each other being very loud and the occasional call which would be answered by very rude members of staff with no soft skills what so ever. I was about to lose my mind and scream in the middle of the office from what I saw and heard all this was done infront of other departments and because no senior member of staff or leader/ manager present at the time on the floor there was literally 0 discipline and quite frankly I’m not sure wtf todo because this is like a dream job of mine and I’ve finally got it and now I’m here and seeing this I feel disgusted. Disgusted because I’ve seen how the company operates and it’s professional through and through then there’s my department and it’s literally the equivalent to detention with our teachers or adults just complete bedlam Think I’ll be having words with my trainer on Monday and if can’t come to some understanding I’m gonna have to leave and find somewhere else which fucking sucks because I genuinely WANT this job.
@lanovia3838
@lanovia3838 Ай бұрын
@@jordanjolley get out of there immediately. I also landed in the past in a similar toxicity hoping that if I am neutral and don't bother anybody, I would be safe - Big mistake. Now I know I should have left right away.
@JimmyJaxJellyStax
@JimmyJaxJellyStax 6 ай бұрын
The bully is often incredibly gregarious with forming a positive social connection and charm of the manager as well.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 6 ай бұрын
A very good point you raise - bullies can often be very good at managing upwards. I personally have been fooled for a time. Asking for team member feedback and keeping an eye on interactions between team memebrs is useful in helping spot those bullies who are good at managing upwards. J
@gregoryforrest8970
@gregoryforrest8970 3 ай бұрын
They are grandest of the grand of kiss ups double faced con artists to you and to the stupid manager not bright enough recognize what this person is about, any manager that loves or wants people like this should be on the companies dismissal list, these types of managers promote toxic and corrupt workplaces, yes they encourage dis honestly by liking people who kiss up to them, seriously few people like doing this but will do it if they know their manager is a bozo keep their job.. 14:38
@graceturpin3000
@graceturpin3000 11 күн бұрын
Because they are brown nose and have to maintain their good image. Be charming to co worker and manager , so manager were always on their side instead of the real victim.
@Aerojet01
@Aerojet01 Жыл бұрын
As a person who’s been a victim of bullying throughout my entire life, I can relate to this video in regards to the usual bullying traits and psychological damage it can have on a person long term. I've even contemplated suicide to free myself from the onslaught. From my experience, the most frequent forms of bulling are being the target of unwanted humour (butt of jokes), patronizing/condescending behaviours, over explaining things you already know in front of others, double standards, micromanagement and knit picking, which are designed to make you feel intellectually inferior or incompetent. If you complain about it, people will say you're over-reacting or you can't take a joke. I think most people have the sense to know if someone is genuine and if you’re not good at your job. Just like self-defence classes used in martial arts, there should be mental self-defence to combat against this negative abuse. Bullies usually target people they perceive to be weak. HR and management aren't very supportive, so you're basically on your own. I've learnt to stand up for myself in a calm and concise manner by playing them at their own game, making sure people are accountable for their actions (responding to their remarks openly) and explaining to colleagues/managers I don't feel comfortable with their behaviour. Consequently, I’ve become very strategic. Keeping a record/logbook is very important with what was said, times and dates. I'm on the spectrum, and most organizations see it as a sign of weakness because we’re easier to prey upon and don’t fit in socially.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
Firstly - sorry to hear that you have been bullied a lot. I am very impressed that you have learned how to handle it and fight back in a way that you are comfortable with. That is not an easy step and shows a lot of resilience and perserverance. Very impressed! Keep it up!
@QueenofBluntTruth
@QueenofBluntTruth 11 ай бұрын
I've been bullied all my life as well
@MartinsInMotion
@MartinsInMotion 8 ай бұрын
Can I sit next to you?
@mpat100
@mpat100 8 ай бұрын
@@QueenofBluntTruth blessings for you; stay strong
@AntoinetteSarpong
@AntoinetteSarpong 8 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this happened to you, and thanks for sharing your story of resilience! Great tips to deal with bullies, who have also targeted me at work in the past -- and IMHO, it can often be the HIGH PERFORMERS who are targeted because the bully in question is threatened in some way.
@jarinorvanto4301
@jarinorvanto4301 6 ай бұрын
Changing behaviour could entice, reward, the bullies. I 'defend' by sticking to work and keep outperforming. Once I detected bullying from inferior co-workers, it became ridiculous to let them be the arbiters of moral standard or just about anything. Learning about the dark traits of personalities and toxic work environments, and applying stoic principles, have been helpful.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 6 ай бұрын
How you manage bullying is such a personal thing. I am glad you have an approach that works well for you. If one approach doesn't work that well, try another. I do think it is important for managers to keep an eye for signs of bullying within their team or to their team members. Bully is very damaging as well as being horrible to experience.
@garyrolen8764
@garyrolen8764 5 ай бұрын
I've seen the mod bully. You can't out preform in that environment. They'll work together to undercut you. You're only hope is good management who recognize past performance and who wisely observe the real reasons for current poor performance.
@gregoryforrest8970
@gregoryforrest8970 3 ай бұрын
Most bullies target great performers, yes you are a threat to their lazy incompetence, you are encouraging the organization to do better, and expecting better work performances from all the other toxic loses who don't want to do better on any level, so you are the target get you gone. Some workplace have more than one bully some work in teams and will play like they are your friend beware and becareful few to no one is your friend at work, most are gossipy and love to ad extra logs to the fire, because what you say about your self, better to keep anything about yourself private.. bullies will use anything you say against you and adding more lies to the gossips they spread, it all about destroying you, managers today are stupid and love to listen to it some even actually believe and enjoy it. So beware.
@gregoryforrest8970
@gregoryforrest8970 3 ай бұрын
A experienced manager that is actually interested in making the workplace a great workplace would know how to go forward, however there is a lot of managers that are seriously incompetent close minded and completely not interested in any of team building concerns they believe they are smarter than the teams and do not consult anyone on the team. Such managers usually destroy great organizations.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 3 ай бұрын
@gregoryforrest8970 I agree that there are many closed minded and unmotivated managers employeed. These do tend to damage team performance rather than improve it. Good leadership and culture starts from the top in my view. J
@c.b.295
@c.b.295 4 ай бұрын
Good list and I've experienced things from all the lists presented. Bullies are deceptive sociopaths, they usually feel nothing for others and can be very narcissistic, willing to cause others to lose their jobs to help theirs or make them look good. They dont care if you end up on the street or how much your family suffers due to their behaviour, all they care about is themselves. If I am ever a manager and I so much as hear a squeak of a bully, I will take every disciplinary action available and applicable to the situation. I'll ensure that person thinks twice before trying to bully again.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 4 ай бұрын
@c.b.295 - thanks for the comments. Those that bully can be pretty horrible. I wish more managers would work to stamp out bullying in their teams and companies. It would be very beneficial for them personally if they did, as well as for everyone else.
@EpiicxFuziion
@EpiicxFuziion 11 ай бұрын
Most bullies are bosses
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 11 ай бұрын
The stats certainly back up your statement - well over half of bullies are in management positions. Sad but true.
@QueenofBluntTruth
@QueenofBluntTruth 11 ай бұрын
But why?
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 9 ай бұрын
I think power does funny things to some people.
@kc-qs8qg
@kc-qs8qg 8 ай бұрын
line managers supported by hr/senior personnel - organisational bullying/abuse - I work as a TU rep in the NHS - it is rancid...
@lt8827
@lt8827 2 ай бұрын
I'm an executive manager being bullied by a manager under me. It's really bizarre to know I hired her and she has made my life hell from the day she started. I now have anxiety, panic attacks and nights without sleep. After a recent confrontation I spent an entire day crying uncontrollably in a storage closet and like I said ... I'm an executive
@juliahenderson5418
@juliahenderson5418 8 ай бұрын
Recently Left Corporate America due to my last three employers being Robber Barons. I keep getting offers for employment, but I'm far from ready to take any of them. This last place was so awful that I don't want to go back into an office ever again. Literally, I felt helpless, and HR is never for the employee. Moral injuries are the worst injuries.... most of my coworkers were abused, too.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 8 ай бұрын
Sounds horrendous. I am glad you are out of there and also hope you work out what you are going to do next in time and whatever your choose works out a lot better for you. J
@rebeccaliew2247
@rebeccaliew2247 23 күн бұрын
I feel you, sis. Going through the exact situation. I was forced to leave previous company last year October, or risk termination + black-mark record on my resume which will decrease my chances of being hired in the future. I received job offers too, but I sabotaged myself & didn't take up on the offers, due to lingering trauma & fear I'll experience another set of workplace bullies + same abuse cycle all over again. Not to mention going through conpany's bodyguards a.k.a. HR, who may show initial support, but backtracked on me or you later on, at the behest of bullies (who can be quite persuasive with their own victim narratives, manipulation & threats) + the depression affecting us, etc. Right now, I don't know the right answer to deal with (future) workplace bullies, while you get to keep your job safely. I can only hope & pray the next company won't be as toxic. I hope you'll get or have gotten some side gigs to support you, especially during emergencies + eventually, a better work company who treats you better 🙏🏼
@martinriley106
@martinriley106 6 ай бұрын
Having experienced this so often in different workplaces I think the U.K. workplace has now become so toxic it’s like being back in the 1970’s again when employment laws were nearly non-existent.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 5 ай бұрын
@martinriley106, sorry to hear that you have experienced so much bullying in the workplace. There is definitely too much bullying happening and too little being done about it. 66% of employees have experienced or seen bullying. That is pretty scary. J
@999timepass
@999timepass Ай бұрын
Absolutely. I quit my career 13 years ago with suicidal thoughts till date. I worked as technology project manager. The mobbing experience still gives me panic attacks and flashbacks.
@stellameii
@stellameii 5 ай бұрын
Withholding information is SUCH a big thing. I was victim of this often. Thank you for bringing this up Oh also a new thing: it depends on the work surroundings but I've once worked on a canadian farm with 2 mean french girls from france and belgium who were new there, too. The girl who told us the instructions was french, too (I can't speak french) and she explained everything in french so that I got excluded and made mistakes. They also gossiped right next to me in their language and even tho I didn't understand every word, I knew they talked about me. I had to ask them about every task so they made me dependent on them. The constellation 2 against 1 played a role, too. I feel like this would have never happened if it was only one girl and me. But anyways. I'm back in Germany now, thriving in a field they thought I wasn't capable of doing ;)
@c.b.295
@c.b.295 4 ай бұрын
A very similar thing happened to me. I worked on a production line and was new. The more experienced people are supposed to teach you and show you the ropes. Instead they withold information from you, exclude you from discussions on whats happening, and gossip constantly behind your back. And unfortunately the area I work in, most of the guys are like this. It makes people very unproductive and the entire team and company suffers as a result. Either way, I have a game plan. And I realized most are very threatened by me, thats why they dont want to show me anything, in case I get ahead of them. Thats the case more often than not, insecure people who dont want to share knowledge.
@stellameii
@stellameii 4 ай бұрын
@@c.b.295 thank you for sharing! Good to know I'm not alone with this experience. Sometimes I really was thinking I'm the weird one or the freak because I didn't do anything to them and they behaved like this. One girl once shouted at me "now it's too late!!" when I just followed her instructions and made a mistake. So basically, she made me do a mistake to ridicule me afterwards. I was actally older than her and she was so disrespectful still. And you are totally right. They know you are good and feel competitive.
@c.b.295
@c.b.295 4 ай бұрын
@stellameii That's one of their tactics to try and belittle and undermine you, by setting you up to fail a task or look bad. They will then blow it entirely out of proportion to make you feel like you made a horrible mistake. I've had this happen too. But it's definitely not you and you aren't a freak, this is very common and it happens alot at my workplace, so much that good people left the company because of horrible co workers that treat them like trash. And I work for a multi billion dollar company, just our factory has over 1400 employees. You'd be shocked that a company that is so big has such bad people employed there. Its a sad reality. I'd leave but the salary and benefits are very good. I have a game plan to change the sector I'm in as there are much better areas with better people, I'm literally in the worst section on the worst shift, and I've spoken to others that know it too. So dont worry you aren't alone and dont blame yourself. Even if you do great, those sorts of people will never be happy and always try put you down.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 4 ай бұрын
@stellameii - I agree withholding information is a big thing and a big problem. It is easy to withhold information, relatively low risk in terms of undermining behaviour and harder to prove than many other bullying actions. The leaders in the team set the tone of behaviour. There is lots that managers can to stop team members withholding information - such as very visibly sharing information themselves, asking people directly and publicly to share information and expertise and so on. Insecurities can get the best of all of us at times.
@KimK_greenpreneur.
@KimK_greenpreneur. 3 ай бұрын
I have worse experience with frecnh too.....I feel you.
@Eri-Wi-
@Eri-Wi- 6 ай бұрын
It used to be called slightly bullying behind closed doors. Or in the back office in the company with the bullying within the business. Also, if the manager or management team will also assist within the bullying process of the business. Course some time it's the whole damm management team.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 6 ай бұрын
When you are in a toxic culture where bullying or agressive management practices are common place, moving is often the better option. J
@xismecwilliams9604
@xismecwilliams9604 Жыл бұрын
I’m a manager and I feel like I’m being bullied, I’m being so badly micromanaged my manager has been examining my spelling in emails to the point she has called me out for poor spelling because I missed the “d” off acknowledged. She’s also made me physically read out my emails to her so she can find a fault, to the point one time she told me have I proof read my email? I said yes what’s wrong with it? She said ok read it to me, so I started.. nothing told me to read the next paragraph again nothing. Eventually she said oh must just be me must have been another email.. I feel so degraded I have dyslexia and she knows this, my spelling will never be perfect even with tools to help. I stood up for myself today and said she’s done spelling mistakes so have my colleague and so have many others across the department but they never get highlighted so why are mine. She couldn’t say just put me on a support plan that I’ve refused to sign.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
Well done for standing up for yourself. I know this is not an easy move. Putting you on a support plan for spelling alone seems very unfair and given you have dyslexia and she knows it - potentially very risky for the company. I have this video to help with bullies who are you manager kzbin.info/www/bejne/fHbWlnyqrJqApdE Fighting your manager for fair treatment is tough - getting supporters is vital. It can be easier to get a job elsewhere.
@patrickwolf795
@patrickwolf795 Жыл бұрын
If she's mistreating you/singling-you-out for a learning disability, you may have a legal claim against her. If HR doesn't help, you may want to speak with an employment lawyer. This doesn't mean you have to sue your company. Sometimes a strongly-worked email from a person of authority (i.e. lawyer) can do wonders for getting HR to actually do something in your favour. The last thing the company wants is a lawsuit and potentially bad press.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 9 ай бұрын
agreed
@nighatr
@nighatr 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate you making this video. This kind of behavior from people that bully is NOT right and they would face Jesus to explain how they treated HIS children!
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comments. I agree bullying is not right. It is important to make it has hard as possible for bullies to get away with bullying within the workplace. This helps everyone.
@jenniferjohnson7975
@jenniferjohnson7975 Ай бұрын
I am the sole target of the workplace bully. Any time I bring it up to my manager. He tries to turn it on me being the problem and makes excuses for her. She is a friend of his that he brought into the organization. Currently looking because I can't take it anymore
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Ай бұрын
@jenniferjohnson7975 You are in a difficult and unfair situation. Getting a new job is likely to be ht easiest route out of the situation. It might be a hassle, yet you spend so much time at work it is not worth putting up with poor treatment while you are there. Best of luck to you. J
@dwaynericketts882
@dwaynericketts882 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful but what if the manager is the bully?
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
Around half the bullying at work is done by managers (per various surveys). It is extra tough tackeling a bully who is a manager. Building allies and getting lots of evidence showing a bullying pattern is really important. Take a look at this video for managers undermining you kzbin.info/www/bejne/fHbWlnyqrJqApdE
@martinriley106
@martinriley106 Жыл бұрын
Quit the job first chance you get! I know I’ve been there!
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
If you don't want to fight, nor put up with the bullying, then leaving the only sensible option left. I am have been there too.
@dazza9859
@dazza9859 11 ай бұрын
Gain evidence and confront.Don’t back down or leave.If it’s covert bullying then record for labour tribunal.I’ve been there,not at tribunal but being bullied.Don’t wait.
@QueenofBluntTruth
@QueenofBluntTruth 11 ай бұрын
For me it's always the bosses
@OK-wb1dy
@OK-wb1dy 3 ай бұрын
As to physical threats. I was the target of an incident where a boss threw a pen at my face. He justified himself by saying that “… the pen flew off his hand…”
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 3 ай бұрын
Physical threats (I hope for most) are pretty rare at work. Repeated incidents or "accidents" would be a major concern and probably something you could take the police as much as internally to leadership or HR. Bullying in whatever form it takes is not easy to deal with, especially when managers are the bully. J
@OK-wb1dy
@OK-wb1dy 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for that info. It’s good info when I’m trying to put things into perspective.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 3 ай бұрын
You are welcome.
@alanefoug1025
@alanefoug1025 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, very helpful
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Blackmagicphenom17
@Blackmagicphenom17 8 ай бұрын
This is amazing. Thank you so much for this.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 7 ай бұрын
You're very welcome! Glad you found it useful. J
@Chandran0
@Chandran0 10 ай бұрын
Great, very useful information. It’s happening in the pass 3 years I know and don’t know how to stop and point out. I learnt from this video.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 10 ай бұрын
I am glad that this video was useful to you. Good luck! J
@MrGhostBoxer
@MrGhostBoxer 8 ай бұрын
It usually is the manager.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 8 ай бұрын
The research shows that over 50% of bullying at work is done by those with more authority than you i.e. managers. Sad but true. It is very important for managers to have a good toolkit, and to use power very responsibly so they don't need to resort to bullying to try get their staff to perfrom. J
@breaks3085
@breaks3085 2 ай бұрын
Its happening to me in the gym the manager is tellin all the members not to talk to me an spreading Rumours, everyone's just staring at me, when i walk in the gym everyone Leaves, now im isolated an cut off ​@@Enhancetraining
@FionaGreen-do1cn
@FionaGreen-do1cn Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Very useful information. I am a new employee who has experienced bullying behaviour by my manager. I feel isolated and that my account has not been validated. I am considering tendering my resignation
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
If you are new to the role and already being bullied you are in a very tough position. Leaving may well be the best move - get a better job with a better boss! Here is a video on how to tackle bullying if you go down this route kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWqmqp6ljdKrb68
@karleighe1023
@karleighe1023 3 ай бұрын
Most bullies are narcissistic, in my experience
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 3 ай бұрын
Many are - I agree.
@TrapmasterzEnt
@TrapmasterzEnt Жыл бұрын
i feel like a bully because i keep calling people out in front of everyone at the meeting about the things they say i dont like ...ive also told them i will not tolerate any disrespect
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
May I suggest that you talk in general terms (without naming specific people) while in public, and then have conversations in private with specific people. I think it is important to follow "praise in public, criticise in private". You suggest that your team does not respect you as much as you want... have I got that right?...How do you feel towards your team? How are you helping them as a manager (which leads to earning their respect as a manager)? Maybe worth thinking about both questions?
@MrGhostBoxer
@MrGhostBoxer 8 ай бұрын
It sounds like you need to stop doing that.
@Cobra427Veight
@Cobra427Veight 5 ай бұрын
I have had a rough 17 years of Covert workplace bullying, can you tell me if all the devotees and bystanders will become upstanders if an external investigation takes place, especially if they are made anonymous.?
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 4 ай бұрын
If feedback is truly anonymous and they trust that it is, you usually get people telling the truth. Depending on how an external investigation is run, I would hope that bystanders will be of use in creating change. Sorry to hear you have had such a tough time. It really is horrible to be subject to covert bullying from anyone at work. J
@sedwards2207
@sedwards2207 6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, some of the biggest thugs and gossips in my organisation are on the Senior Leadership team …
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 6 ай бұрын
Yes I agree. The stats show that over 50% of bullies in the workplace are in more senior positions. J
@metalbelles3662
@metalbelles3662 14 күн бұрын
Unfortunately many companies dont care or not a lot if ypure bully. They may even side with the bully manager .they just hope you leave so it makes things easy for them
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Күн бұрын
In my opinion, any company or manager worth working for will care a lot about bullying. Bully is very damanging behaviour to any team, not to mention tough on the victim. I agree that human nature is often to take the easier route. Easy is not always best!
@chilloften
@chilloften Жыл бұрын
Everyday.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Жыл бұрын
That is really tough. Do you have reasons to stay?
@SilentForest-be4bi
@SilentForest-be4bi Ай бұрын
My teachers should have seen this like 15 years ago
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Ай бұрын
Your school sounds tough...
@harinibala5396
@harinibala5396 2 ай бұрын
I have been and some of my team members got criticised in team meeting and to avoid that local language we have to hardword to complete the task I'm afraid of complaining it as I couldn't boldly talk about it i I have some recordings of that lady speaking harshly could it be used to complaint against her ... I have health issues because of the stress caused by her😢😢😢
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 2 ай бұрын
Recording colleagues or managers proably won't be looked on very favourably by the company and should only be used as a last resort. Are you able to write down exactly what she said and how she said (along with where and when). Would your colleagues back you up or provide their own examples? The more people raising the same issue, the more action favourable to you will happen. J
@user-qv7vi2ls6j
@user-qv7vi2ls6j 5 ай бұрын
😢
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 4 ай бұрын
@jeffknowlton5200
@jeffknowlton5200 2 ай бұрын
Is it bullying if let's say you have a misunderstanding or communication breakdown with a team member and your temper gets the best of you?
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining Ай бұрын
I think this depends on how often this happens. If it is a one-off or a rare occurance, then in my opinion no it is not bullying (we are all human and make mistakes etc). If tlosing your temper happens regularly then it could be argued you are trying to intimidate and therefore could be bullying. J
@jeffknowlton5200
@jeffknowlton5200 26 күн бұрын
@Enhancetraining or it can be argued someone has maladaptive coping behavior and doesn't handle stress or conflict well.
@smolville
@smolville 7 ай бұрын
And if you believe the lies that some people tell and you decide to punish the victim, you and the victim will quickly be out of a job.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 7 ай бұрын
I would agree - always check a version of events. You can then understand exactly what had happened and understand the honesty of each party. Both very useful in these difficult situations. J
@AlexandraTabares1
@AlexandraTabares1 3 ай бұрын
Honestly, if men can learn this at home, I think you probably have a beautiful household
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 2 ай бұрын
Bullying where ever it happens is not for anyone. I agree that if everyone worked harder to make sure bullying didn't happen (especially the bullies!), our homes and offices would be a much better place. J
@SB-131
@SB-131 3 ай бұрын
I cant imagine this guy this guy getting bullied
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 3 ай бұрын
Anyone can be bullied.
@SB-131
@SB-131 2 ай бұрын
@@Enhancetraining I'm sure you are right about that and this guy proves ur point- he seems nfident tall handsome and articutale I wld not expect it
@GulMuhammad-fb3hv
@GulMuhammad-fb3hv 9 ай бұрын
I want to talk to you
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 8 ай бұрын
Please email me at support@enhance.training and we can go from there. J
@woltzwurld6760
@woltzwurld6760 8 ай бұрын
Nice video, but no one cares. It’s up to the victims to change jobs.
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 8 ай бұрын
I disagree. It is in the company's and management's interests to stop bullying. Bully damages trust, which in turn damages team performance. Plus on top of this the company exposes itself to legal and reputational risk and potential damage/cost. Added to that - who likes to be bullied - so there is a moral obligation too. I appreciate these compelling reasons may not change some peoples actions.
@born101
@born101 8 ай бұрын
I realize that my experiences are not all-encompassing, but your video is for a world that does not exist. I once reported a bullying boss ( and quite frankly mentally unstable) and was fired the next day. I worked in numerous places where at least one manager was notorious for mistreating his/ her people and nothing was ever done. I understand that your video is aimed at managers but I’d be shocked if even one took it to heart.@@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 8 ай бұрын
It would seem that I have had very different experiences to you. Sorry to hear that you have not had good experiences. I know there are plenty of companies and managers that have horrible cultures and approaches and are much more focused on protecting the status quo that doing the right thing - morally and for the business. There are good companies too. J
@andrearidgeway939
@andrearidgeway939 6 ай бұрын
Victims don't always have the option to change jobs.
@user-qv7vi2ls6j
@user-qv7vi2ls6j 5 ай бұрын
😢
@Enhancetraining
@Enhancetraining 4 ай бұрын
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