How to Spot Exotical Gaslighting, Manipulation & Pandering - Game for Dark Skinned Women

[@ChrissiesWay]

Intro 0:00 Minimization 11:31 False Equivalencies 15:57 Tokenism 17:42 Covert Competition 27:24 Double Standards 30:39 Innuendo & Reverse Psychology 35:02 Manipulative Hypocrisy 47:56 False Motives 1:01:27 False Neutrality 1:03:30 Intellectual Dishonesty 1:06:36 Join KZbin Memberships: bit.ly/JoinChrissieYT Join Patreon: www.patreon.com/chrissiesway Watch Exclusive Website Videos: chrissieonline.com/ Subscribe to Newsletter (Mailing List) chrissieonline.substack.com/ Donate cash.app/$ChrissieYT www.paypal.me/divinedarkskin

[@fatherbewithme]

Anyone threatening bodily harm or dearth to anyone simply because of a difference of opinion should be reported to the highest of authorities ASAP, its enough domestic terrorism (DT) running rampant in our community & its enough missing black girls & women & let's be real most don't care when (dark skin) black females in particular become victims of violence or DT

[@wintersong9870]

I never did. Though I would always try and say that dark skinned black women you're beautiful. In real life. I would literally say that often. I never said that to White women or ls women I don't like that. Was you better basically. So after a while you start to feel like well you never were on that level. Of pedal store or anything so why can't you talk about it especially when you talk about things and it's like that never happened in my life.

[@wintersong9870]

No the issue is that some people will experienced racism. And then you will say that you experience it. Some people who may look not completely like you may experience something similar and then they may be like what about us too. Because they can relate.

[@wintersong9870]

I've never understood why you guys talked about that I mean Megan thee stallion Ciara and Rihanna none of them are dark what have always been called men so what are you talking about? Are we supposed to just gloss over them

[@wintersong9870]

For me I always thought if I keep promoting then maybe you would understand that I'm a friend. And that I'm not a foe banana round 2022 I realized it was just going to be used as a way against me to be told to feel inferior. So that's when I stopped. But yeah I never was trying to be covert I was for real. But attacked by you guys. For just existing. In a different color. And honestly. It's also the other thing why is it that color defines race. Like you create a whole persona off of a dang color. Which is so weird. I mean there's different skin tones. For different people. So there's different hair textures hair lengths for different people. You don't seem to understand that. But you come up with the whole idea of oh somebody cut somebody's hair. Which is a whole assumption in itself.

[@morbiddom9587]

One thing that weirds me out is that when they talk about pretty girl problems they list problems and almost every pretty girl problem they say is due to being light skin is something I have dealt with as a dark skin bw. So it's not really a pretty light skin girl problem it is a pretty problem in general. But they want to colonize being beautiful as if it's not something dark skin women are as well.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

Facts

[@catlady3024]

Right, then get to acting nice nasty when a beautiful and confident dsbw comes in taking their shine 😂

[@summersultra]

It's an attempt to reinforce the narrative that dark = unattractive, light = attractive. I've even heard one of them imply that we have cognitive dissonance/identy issues. Can you imagine that? Implying that we're delusional about OUR value because how can we possible like ourselves if they exist in this society with light skin, loose hair and narrow noses? I think it's also important to note in these conversation the historical nature of modern beauty standards and colonization. In order to justify misappropriation of resources (land, slave labour) wp had to vilify dark skinned people as unintelligent, ugly etc. It's a combination of factors that make one attractive to the eye: balanced facial features, bone structure, condition of skin, styling, grooming etc. and yes, even a human being with bantu features can be attractive in comparison to a person with keen features and light skin. I've seen this phenomenon all the time.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

​@@summersultrawell said

[@bibaolaitan5189]

This!!!..

[@JessJayEel]

OG Chrissie followers know this tactic is not new. Chrissie actually was more militant. She softened up within the last few years due to her trying to seperate herself from extremism growing online and reasonably so. But i vividly remembered Chrissie's biggest issue was with mixed race/light skin women trying to remove her DDS platform from Facebook due to the lack of inclusion. Chrissie's message of exclusive promotion was not taken well and she dealt with a lot of harrassment from all sides. I wasn't 100% convinced on exclusive promotion until I witnessed for myself all the tactics Chrissie highlighted in this live. I wouldnt say they are jealous because everyone one knows in the black community they are a beauty standard but they do not want to share the spotlight. Especially with Dark skin women with bantu/west African features. I'm so motivated im going to do Melanin Monday's on my IG to promote Dark skin beauty consistently. We need to push back and be consistent with self promotion. Thank You Chrissie for all you do for us. ❤

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

Yes I remember all of the backlash Chrissie endured throughout the years. Idk how she does it but she's a tough cookie.

[@dmoon6137]

Heavy on the "bantu/west African" features. I'm so glad you emphasized that.

[@PinkRedBrisk]

Yep I've been following for 5 or 6 years everything you pretty much said is true.

[@missmack2328]

They are jealous baby. Being a beauty standard means nothing. Not wanting to share the spotlight still makes them jealous as they always been. Never think you don’t have something another person will covet

[@missmack2328]

@@garnetbabe2.0godschild40she is sent❤

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I’m a dark skin black woman who was gaslighted by black men, non black people, mixed women, and even some black women for speaking on colorism. I will not stop speaking on it. Just because I’m in a relationship and men approach me because they find me attractive, doesn’t mean colorism doesn’t exist. It doesn’t negate my past experiences with colorism. I won’t allow them to gaslight me. Also I experienced so much hate from black men, non black women, and mixed women for being an attractive dark skin woman with long healthy natural hair. I also keep up my looks and stay in shape and they HATE that.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

SAME. Im also married to a black man which infuriates them into early onset menopause. It shows their loser mentality. An Eagle 🦅 can fly high, there is no reason for it to be on the ground circling a Panther 🐆 on land.

[@gmcmim1]

Exactly. But they can never be jealous of us. But we can always be jealous of them.

[@FreespiritRbelle]

Exactly. Both y'all comments are on point💯🔥

[@1521joe]

All I got from your comment is , I'm beutiful I'm black I'm in a relationship All men want me I'm so desirable. Me me me me me me me. I'm calling you out on your bullcrap. I don't think your as fabulous as you think, because of your self righteous, all about me comment. 😅😅😅😅😅😅 clown 🤡

[@Zimaala]

Same experience..... But I do not respond to them. I just laugh.... I think they have a issue with me because my looks do not match my age... I am older but don't look it.

[@Lisette121]

The person who said you can only call them psychotical not ugly proves your point. Because they're so used to dissing dsbw on looks, they expect everyone to do the same.

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

I’m just wondering where all the Beyonces and Zendayas are at? All I see are beige baby sharks and Pennywise. 😕

[@Lisette121]

@TOFFEETASTICC lol. Right. Most of them claim to be so pretty but don't show their real selves.

[@Starrfyre]

​@@TOFFEETASTICCNot beige baby sharks and Pennywise. I'm crying at work 😂😂😂

[@Stephanie.101]

@@TOFFEETASTICCI love your sense of humor 🤭 your comments during the livestream had me cackling 😂😂😂

[@Sinadarling]

@@TOFFEETASTICCscreaming 😂😂😂

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

I remember when I complimented this lighter skinned lady on her cute outfit and she ignored me. The man that she was with, had to check her to say thank you and she still decided to be nasty after I said it again. A lot of them are definitely in one sided competition with darker skinned women and very insecure. It needs to be studied.

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

That has happened to me before. As a natural I compliment any natural hair on black women..so idc if it type 3 or 4 I just like to see us doing us. A couple of times when I compliment looser curled women they just looked me dead in my face and said nothing. But when it’s us type 4 ladies I always get a thank you and most of time a big kool aid smile to go along with it 🤷🏾‍♀️. I’m not saying it’s all of them. But when it does happen it’s a certain texture that says nothing back. Maybe they get tired of the compliments or something lol

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

@@jasminscarbrough2596 Sorry you had to go through that. It’s like some of them work for the devil or something. They need to be checked for their disrespect.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

@@PurrthaKit That’s why they age like their mothers. All of that hate shows on the outside.

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

@@ChosenChild-j9i facts God don't like ugly 💯💯

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

@@Orphic_museumDid she struck a nerve? 😕

[@RampagingChipmunk]

I do find it noteworthy that they are all anonymous and have the free time to cyberstalk Chrissie’s channel. I have a feeling that they are not the beloved pretty girls they claim to be because that isn’t the sort of behavior a beloved pretty girl would engage in because they actually have better things to do instead.

[@raquel7675]

They're pathetic

[@glamglam8347]

i mean when theyre making big claims like "were pretty and they jealous of us" AND making fun of chrissies appearance (despite not knowing what she looks like) then they better be cammed up looking like zendaya. like you cant have all that mouth but stay hiding under celebs and avatars

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

@@glamglam8347 Its giving “peaked in high school” energy. They’re trying to relive their prime. 😕

[@glamglam8347]

@@TOFFEETASTICC girl its giving "never had a peak" bc even the "peaked at hs" mutts show their face.

[@Respectfully_]

​@@glamglam8347lol literally they are giving us absolutely nothing to work with but just talking hiding behind ai generated pictures from Pinterest. If your a preference always flaunting about having wavy hair, and ls then why does any of those channels ever do face reveals and flaunt it? You cannot exude mean girl energy and be cocky claiming someone is jealous of your beauty while at the same time hiding yourself. A lot ds bw bwe content creators show themselves because they believed in their message and stood ten toes down on it. However they are preferences so it can't be because of bm if all those men do is uplift them like they say. They know they gonna get ate up because they really aren't pretty girls. They are just mean girls.

[@shakirasmith6454]

Thank you for speaking on this, I’m so sick of KZbin recommending me their channels. Even when I hit the “don’t recommend” option 🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

Yutbe loves the divisvness' among bp/mxd

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

Same girl! Happened to me yesterday

[@nyaholorunda7167]

😂 I cackled so hard. KZbin is like a toddler and we all know toddlers never listen to you...

[@ninawestlake5005]

I thought i was the only one. I hit "don't recommend" each time and still

[@Lisette121]

Also they're trying to twist this around like Chrissie's channel is centered around them. Nope. Everyone is equally called out.

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

They have very weak rebuttals.

[@Zimaala]

I spoke this on one of their channel... I told them that woman was calling out all types of women. Not just one type

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

I’ve even had some flip their hair at me, but I never even give them the attention they crave. I don’t want their hair. I prefer my own 😅

[@iidentifyasaPSLGoddess]

Me too they be so angry bc I look better than them with my short (shrunken tho) 4c hair! Sorry boo this face card ain't going to decline even next to a Blondie

[@LeeLyanKing]

THAT MF PART 😂😂😂😂😂

[@myturn2runit]

She probably has more hair than you bffr

[@iidentifyasaPSLGoddess]

@@myturn2runit Yes, yall normally do bc ours is shrunken, in my case despite her hair looking like a long lions mane and mine looking much smaller, she still felt the need flip her hair at me. All women are insecure, if you mostly or only get hate from 'uabw' then maybe you're not that pretty (Cause pretty 'uabw' get hate from all races too) You're not just that girl, if its so terrible, go hang out with other races. Go on.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

​@@iidentifyasaPSLGoddessif they were so secure they wouldn't be trying to flex their hair to get a reaction. Because we don't be thinking of them, but the fact that they do those antics show they be thinking of us. They depend on comparing themselves to dsbw to feel beautiful.

[@JolaadeAOke]

As a dsbw you should never find yourself following an exoticals channel that’s just the truth

[@CrockyDile15]

I followed one only bc I resonated with the pretty woman talking points she had and had never seen that part of life that I experienced be expressed on the Internet. But lately, as time went I realized many of her talking ideas come from Chrissie videos and others. I heard her use a Chrissie-created phrase. Which is cool... but give credit when due 😂

[@Ricoque-u2m]

I agree and side eye those women.

[@chinaking918]

@@Ricoque-u2mNgl same.

[@TBTMovies96]

Even in the hair community... cease and desist!!!

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@TBTMovies96 Press uninterested!! And press do not recommend!!

[@Timetrae]

They could NEVVVEEERRRRRR turn us against you Chrissie!!!! NEEEEVVVVVAAAAAA!!! That’s truly delusional. I can tell when people haven’t been a Chrissie follower for long just by their commentary!!

[@LadyOO]

I’m a dark skin woman and I’ve have experience girls (lighter than I) being obsessed with my hair. One even threatened to cut it.

[@LadyOO]

I have “Type 4” hair and it was straightened at the time.

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

I’ve had one try to put nair in my shampoo. Luckily i knew something was off with that shampoo. That’s why I laugh when they say we try to destroy their hair. Believe it or not…. Our hair gets attacked verbally and physically from them as well😢

[@sunnyV1010]

​@@jasminscarbrough2596 😱 It's very evil. How can someone do this ?

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

@@sunnyV1010 in her case I knew it was pure jealousy bc her boyfriend had a crush on me. The funny part is I never would have crossed that line. She attacked the wrong person 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sunnyV1010]

@@jasminscarbrough2596 I'm glad that you dodged that trick, it's pure evil. Sorry for what I'm going to say but many of the lightskin/biracial girls only/strongly count on men, thay can do anything for male attention against another woman. The division that men created works strongly with them. All the subjects that dskn bw put on the social medias have been hijacked by all the other women including our 'lightskin sisters' and our 'half-sisters the biracials' because it's only the dskn BW that suffer the most all over the world. Sad Men, men, men always men for many women, all their life is men-centered.

[@DH-uw3us]

I couldn't imagine being a DSBW and supporting those channels. They have got to either have low self esteem, or some level of delusion. I'm glad they are waking up. It took me some time to catch on myself because we're taught to try to get along and accept our place in society. I'm glad I have found spaces like this that have taught me to level up and understand when we're being manipulated and to not fall for it. The fact that the exoticals (psychoticals) have created their toxic spaces in response to spaces like these proves exactly what Chrissie says about them. They always have to center themselves and always try to be one step above DSBW. We aren't having that anymore. They're helping to perpetuate the divide they accuse us of. I hope more people see those channels for what they really are.

[@Inkpinkierosie]

I just commented this under another person’s comment, but that’s exactly what they’re doing. I just saw a dark skin black woman who follows Chrissy that said during one of her lives 2 to 3 days ago she was almost manipulated, lol by a colorist which is insane as a dark skin, black woman, but I blame society for trying to make us get along for considering biracial. People is black for Black people being taught and told that we’re all black and we’re all equal, even though we’re not.

[@bayindo.pronoms]

Preach

[@CrockyDile15]

I admit I do follow one of them bc I resonated with her pretty girl content and she did specifically say her content was for any woman who resonated although the channel as a whole was geared toward mixed women. I could respect that - fair enough. I resonated only with the pretty girl content and believe she made some fair talking points. But lately, it seems as though they are running out of talking points and studying what unambiguous black women are doing in order to come up with more content? So I've found that I have not been watching much anymore. They seem to need us and what we do to make more content. Whereas we can just make our content out of our lived life experiences. Even heard one use a Chrissie-created phrase in her video lol. We didn't start these channels as a rebuttal or a "get back", we started our channels to cope and heal and uplift ourselves. We never needed to watch them to come up with video ideas bc our experience was from real pain and REAL LIFE exclusion on a wide scale.

[@chinaking918]

This. Swear if Chrissie wasn’t addressing this I wouldn’t even know that space existed. Sound like a bunch of weirdos I don’t know how any black women watch them. 😩😮‍💨

[@bayindo.pronoms]

@@chinaking918 this 🔥

[@SelenaBESTT]

When I watched big brother 24 and how those white women and exoticals ganged up on this beautiful dark skin black women who was a pageant queen. They were so jealous and the whole America saw this. But she ended up winning at the end. The whole show was a social experiment of what UABW women go through in corporate America, but it’s also a testament to how powerful we are too because we can always win at the end despite the obstacles and unfairness we face.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

So many fully black girlies get isolated in social situations from the playground, to education to corporate America etc., by females of no color & multi racials with the help from treasonous Gloctavious. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. We don’t always win against the ganging up and bullying. We end up overeating or have mental health issues. We’re just girlies in the end.

[@SelenaBESTT]

@@Ricoque-u2m I understand. I’m not a religious person but I am a follower of Jesus and I don’t want to feel like I’m forcing any religion on anyone. But I do realize that when I started taking my walk with God seriously, I noticed I was able to win these obstacles against us more easily in corporate America. Just a food for thought :)

[@tamid2225]

Do you mean big brother season 24? I would like to watch this

[@pariscarla822]

@@tamid2225me too, I need to see this

[@obinnamorton773]

Yes I saw this too, clips, not the show though. I couldn't believe it because there was no reason for how she was treated. Only one reason that made sense because of how illogical it felt and seemed. Because she was Black and competing with them on her own merit.

[@Itcouldallbesosimple45]

If these women are so secure in this position, then why do they care about what us "ugly" women have to say and do to survive? This is crazy. They would not exist without at least one non-ambiguous black person in their bloodline so this negative stance on us is very weird.

[@mindzirmetayer3648]

I also find that these exotical channels tend to ride the coattails of DSBW in hopes of increasing their reach. That’s why it’s imperative to NOT interact with their content at all

[@professionalrealtor4957]

Mixed women feel threatened when you’re unbothered by them being a preference. I grew up with high self esteem and during the lightskin / dark sin era. My mixed friend would get all the attention from black men & I would get attention from yt men: at the time I was in my teens so didn’t think of dating out. I was unbothered by Her getting all the attention. I just thought ohh she’s lighter and they want to follow trends. Doesn’t mean I’m not pretty. I understand it now. Clearly

[@ledam2654]

What was the reaction at school/in your teens when you attracted White men?

[@professionalrealtor4957]

@@ledam2654 that friend didn’t say anything bc she already felt like she gets attention everyday, we spent a lot of time together going home from school. So I would hear lightskin, lightskin a lot. From black men catcalling to get her attention.

[@professionalrealtor4957]

@@ObedientPurity yes, the girl I was friends with is also a baby & experience abuse, sucks but reality.

[@insaneartistizmywuname]

They used to wanted all the attention from bm and now they want all the attention from non-bm that date bw since more dsw are dating out.They think it's all about them.

[@professionalrealtor4957]

@@insaneartistizmywuname THIS

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

Chile not YT recommending me the psychotical channel yesterday. 👀 I felt a disturbance & blocked that it so fast.

[@Cdxx.333]

Wait what is her channel name ?

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

I’ve never had to bully a biracial, because my parents didn’t play that. I do remember being bullied by Latina, biracials and lighter skinned girls in the bathrooms. Yet I’ve never stepped off of my thrown, because I knew they were jealous of my confidence. They got their karma later on in life. That’s why it’s important to leave people alone, if they aren’t bothering you.

[@kevinlee8477]

Never step off or get thrown off your throne.

[@sayecarrie]

I believe you. That happened to me as well in middle school and parts of high school.

[@Bri-rw7ik]

And notice how we do not need to bash them as a collective in order to talk about the experiences that bw, I’ve had bad experiences with lw but I’m not gonna go around bashing them or generalizing every lw I meet

[@_gonna_renew_my_sinew]

Babe you gotta know that it's spelled "throne" if you're gonna say you're on it 😳🥴

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

@@_gonna_renew_my_sinew Okay thanks 😁

[@sweetpeaj1952]

What I notice they're doing is not acknowledging that colrsm' exists. They just want to beef with dsbw and say we're jealous. It's like how wp will say bp are playing the rce crd so they can avoid acknowledging actual rcsm bp experience, I notice the same with these specific mxd women. They say we're playing vctm yet are very aware that clrsm is a real thing that many dsbw experience.

[@sunnyV1010]

They act like WT people because they share the same blood. Blood never lies ! In Europe, other places and Africa it's very clear, a blck person is someone who have 2 blck parents otherwise, it's called "métisse" so we can know that the person is mixed rcd. And the "métis/métisse" are very proud of this identity.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

@sunnyV1010 you not lying.

[@ladysunshine9029]

They love playing the victim when they don't get the attention they believe they deserve. I came across one of their channels last week where they completely spun the narrative and made themselves the victim. All the things that darker skin or racially unambiguous black people deal with they pretended it was them. However, when they're receiving praises and accolades even if they're not deserving, you won't hear a peep out of them. Especially, when it comes to injustices being committed against darker skin people.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

@@ladysunshine9029 exactly

[@TalesForTheCulture]

Oh someone actually tried to use a celebrity bleaching as an "example" to say that we "like colorism" when the roles are reversed. Like, what?? Delulu is definitely the solulu over there🥴😂

[@sydlaw2941]

Every time I hear the "they cut my hair and cut my face" stories I be wanting to call a town meeting to see who these dark skin women were. In high school the only time I seen a light skin girl "get her face cut" was when she (most times ghetto) are with another girl (both light skins and dark and also ghetto) been beefing. Most times over a ninja. All these "random attacks" are strange.

[@T.H-v4h]

I don’t get it because in my school all the light skin girls were “pretty” and popular. The dark skin girls got made fun of relentlessly. And my bully was a fat light skin girl.

[@sydlaw2941]

@user-do1qf8rm7b That's what I'm saying. Luckily we didn't have much bullying going on at my school because people would be whooping 🍑. All these stories of light skin women getting chased home by dsbw sounds like some ghetto/hood 💩. I am the only dark skin person in my immediate family. I'm talking mom, grandma, both my sisters, cousins, and aunts (my dad is Jamaican) and I haven't heard no stories like that. Not saying it don't happen BFFR.

[@tiredoftheworld4834]

Yes! Usually over a blk boy!

[@Aniexo_]

Yess!

[@myturn2runit]

@@hmm-zoololI noticed this too. I had a lot of non black friends growing up so I didn’t rlly notice this, but looking back I do remember the LS women being very popular in school with DS women. I didn’t see any hair or face cutting but oh well

[@traumaqueeen]

This is super triggering for me because I made the mistake of thinking I could be friends with some of these mixed girls. I grew up in Africa, most of my friends were black girls, I never interacted much with mixed girls until I moved to Europe. I have had 3 bad/colorist experiences with these mixed girls. Once I went for a ladies brunch with 5 other white girls and a mixed girl (American), I was the only black girl - my mixed "friend" decides the brunch is a good time to discuss my relaxed hair and shame me for relaxing it in front of everyone, telling me that she has natural hair and she loves her natural hair - "why can't I love my natural hair" Another mixed "friend" who was actually from my country (African mom, European dad), was shocked that a dark skin woman from Africa was in Europe living a good life. She was confused as to how I was married to this great guy and in shock that I had a black card when I paid for sushi. We had dinner once and when I told her I was from Johannesburg, she immediately asked if I grew up in a hood over there. She literally said, oh you're from the hood. No babe, I grew up in a beautiful suburb!!! Another crazy experience was when I went out with a mixed race girl and her Mexican friend and both mocked me for being married to a white man. They laughed straight in my face after saying "she likes white men". These people are crazy! I never bothered any one of them, in fact I made an effort to match with them on bumble BFF. I am done with them!

[@Chamsiee]

I'm sorry for what you experienced. Wish you healing ❤️

[@bibaolaitan5189]

Sorry to hear that, you are so beautiful.

[@vicforia350]

I’m very sorry for what you have experienced and I wish you match with me on Bumble BFF 😂😭. We have to do better, if we have kids with our partners. I don’t want my mixed kids to be bullies but allies !!!!!!

[@Starrfyre]

Laughing at a black woman for being married to a white man when you have a whole white parent has got to be one of the most unhinged things I've heard of. These people are cr*zy out here. KZbin is censoring my comment for some reason. I wonder why 🤔

[@godivainc4593]

Yea they’re whole self esteem was built an upon thinking they were better.

[@kygirl091]

I honestly am so happy I have no clue what channels are being referred too. Chrissie has enabled me to do the self work and I’m forever grateful. Commenting to stay on the algorithm. Much love to my fellow DSBW.

[@thefeminineeye]

"Decentering men" but wanting to hold on to LS privilege is crazy work. Babe, that's the epitome of centering BM

[@zippy3253]

Right? I never understood why a channel that discusses decentering men would constantly bring up light skin and mixed “privileges”.

[@yasmindamascenoful]

1:08:06 they do care about black women who dates out. I am mixed and brazilian i don't stand out here in brazil because most people are mixed . If the population of mixed people grows in the usa. They will not be exotic anymore...nor have any of this priveleges ...

[@ThePinkSwanCulture]

They actually aren't exotic at all in my state, California. Being mixed with black is normal. Non-black and Black mixtures are the most common out here.

[@livelovely4681]

Totally. They're "exoticism" only exists because they've been aligning themeves with black people for decades.

[@dk4636]

I'm mixed with a black mom and I have noticed it's often the yte mom mixies who take part in these types of shenanigans... I think a lot of them suffer from insecurities and existencial crisis due to not being being up in the culture... Can't relate

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Those are just cry racials.

[@T.H-v4h]

Most of them really have no connection with the black community and don’t mind putting us against each other. I like light skin girls I’m brown skin. But that’s just hate

[@oliviath.4736]

you are suffering from insecurities thats why you're trying to bring division betwenn mixedraced biracial people and pander to black women. I bet your mother manipulated you in that way of thinking😂

[@Aniexo_]

Im seeing these videos im really happy you’re not backing down. Still being voice for black women ❤

[@nuhbudi]

it's so interesting hearing mixed/light skin women say that this channel made them insecure bc i am a mixed/ls woman and this channel helped my confidence so much. i've been listening to you since i was 17, and if it was not for this channel i wouldn't have made it to college, yes TO college and even through, it (class of '23 babybeee), worn & grown my type 4 hair out, and been as knowledgable about misogynoir & colorism. i'm 25 now & listening to you was like being put on game by a big sister i never got to have. i know you won't, but don't listen to these ls women who r trying to gaslight u. ur still soooo very needed, and you've done such good work both online and irl.

[@nicole.s2652]

I have never bullied a light skinned woman or biracial woman in my life. But they was bullies though now i’m not saying they was never bullied but what i saw in school they was the bullies they luv running with the same old narrative and if they got into a fight it was because they was picking fights and those girls wasn’t going for the bs.

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

Me neither. Actually it was the opposite. These light skinned girls would bully me in middle school. I always went to my parents & had a principal meeting with the girl's parents. She was suspended for a week. She never bothered me after that.

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

Yup. They peaked in high school. Now they’re bitter washed up adults. 😕

[@godsheals90]

Same here, it was them and dsb men the most.

[@arawakalina971]

When I was in high school a biracial girl said that I'm ugly. Another light skin girl said I'm the ugliest she saw. These girls think they was better than us because of their skin color.

[@insaneartistizmywuname]

​@@godsheals90Yup they were my main bullies

[@TheDaughtersOfSerenity]

I am a dark, brown skinned, racially unambiguous mono-racial American black woman who has removed myself from the American black community and culture & is focusing on my imagery, representation, and growth. I love your community, and I encourage you to keep up the good work.

[@leonfrancis3418]

The sad thing is that this nothing more than a personal declaration. It doesn't really mean anything. They'll still come to your house and treat you like Sŏnya Măssey, even if you have this printed on your front door. Attempting to claim that you are separate comes with no discernable upside from the majority population.

[@TheWomanInHealing]

@@TheDaughtersOfSerenity Me too. I love your small community and culture. Separation is the true solution.

[@LisaSimpsonsHomeGirl]

I remember when I was injured at my former job, I had a biracial male manager that said, “well, you claim that a black man hit you with his tug. You know you will be the reason another black man doesn’t have a job. Black men already have it hard enough so don’t put the blame on him.” I was too shocked when he said that and he always sided with black men as a biracial; very black male identified.

[@nazia9656]

It's so hilarious because now after the beef with Chrissie, she's changed up the tactic and is making content 'uplifting darkskin black women' as if that's actually what she stands for 😂 trying to gain more black women on her side

[@beautifullykayla]

Black men don’t even respect lightskin and biracial men so how ironic for him to even be defending them😭

[@joyandbeauty2024]

@@nazia9656 really I haven’t seen any recent content of hers uplifting bw

[@insaneartistizmywuname]

Let me guess he was a biracial male with a black dad.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

All of my light skinned bullies got their karma later on life. God allowed me to see it, because he seen the way they treated me 😊

[@Tam...]

So true!! We do look better with short hair💁🏾‍♀️ hands down....

[@kjm485]

I unfollowed a dsbw because she was praising a psychotical under her community tab. I commented to let her know that the exotical's yt channel is not for you and she is not your friend and she ignored, so I unfollowed her.

[@marriqx]

Who was it ?

[@Onyx_rose28]

Chrissie's clapbacks are spoken so eloquently.

[@mishikijayanna3184]

Its interesting how the exotical channels claim DSBW bully them and then in the same breath clown the DSBW who support them. They clown DSBW for supporting mixed women like Rihanna. They claim that we are self hating, we live vicariously through them and we want them to be our representation. This left me wondering, are we supposed to hate Rihanna? Are we supposed to hate Beyonce? They clowned us for being happy when that billionaire allegedly praised black women because his wife is light skinned. Were we supposed to cry in the corner when we found out she was light skinned?

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

No we shouldn’t hate them. But we shouldn’t put them on a pedestal.

[@ev6564]

The billionaire's wife is not even that light. I'm a similar color as her and I consider our shade to be a light medium brown. And only really in the sunlight. I wish the antiblack biracials would stop claiming everyone in their war to hate on DSBW. It's so annoying. They don't even like black women. Light brown or light medium brown black women are still black women. Why can't they only use other light skinned half black women? I hate these channels so much. The misogynoir is exhausting. Besides, George Lucas, the creator of Star Wars, is married to a darker brown black woman. Most billionaires that are with black women are with black women with a darker complexion that are not half black. Black men gave them the pedestal they are on.

[@Bri-rw7ik]

But simultaneously you don’t give them a compliment, “you’re jealous” of them give me a break😂😂😂

[@ledam2654]

​@@Bri-rw7ikBecause their problem with you is the Blackness in the female form, not what you say or don't say, not what you do or don't do. It is misogynoir. THAT is their core problem.

[@CalebTheOwlBoy]

​@@ledam2654 never thought of it that way. Thanks for putting that into words

[@greenpeppersandpea]

I saw the innuendo tactic on a video she did about the Juliet actress. She basically was saying more bw should support her because most of us look like her in our natural state and that we hate ourselves and that’s why we’re “uncomfortable” and not celebrating her loudly. They see the nasty comments on that girl’s appearance and that’s why they’re saying most of us look like her. Plenty of Black actresses have been cast in roles and not mocked in that way, but they only attach our image to a celeb UABW when the public perception is that she’s ugly.

[@joyandbeauty2024]

Yep that’s exactly what they do in every video. They only use examples of “ugly” or less attractive uadsbw or ones who’s careers aren’t thriving, their entire MO is to insult us it’s so pathetic bcus we never did that to them in our spaces which shows that clearly they’re intimidated by us

[@KNt820]

I don’t think most of us look like her at all. She has a very strong chin and that’s unusual.

[@nicky9891]

I just looked up her pics. She's not ugly did I miss something

[@khaleesiy.7886]

Y’all Chrissie did this please get her likes up.

[@WaterFastingGal]

I'm throwing out all my straight hair wigs today

[@SunseedStarchild]

Proud of you sis!! 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

[@GG-xx9bp]

Throw out the 3b/3c ones too!

[@ngoanewondo1419]

Meehh. They are not born with straight hair. I am still going to straighten my hair. Never saw the hype with curly hair though. I either wear my hair natural or straight. No in between

[@SomcognitoOLD]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@WaterFastingGal]

@@ngoanewondo1419 I love coils, it represents the kudalini energy and the spiral energy of the universe. Spirals are found all throughout nature and is very feminine. You can see spitals in tornadoes, are blood flows in figure 8sand our hair is an antenna so the more coiled it is the more concentrated the antenna is. Its a blessing to have

[@Onyx_rose28]

Such a strange channel! They even tried to claim Kenya Moore as an exotical. The obsession with dark skin women is sickening.

[@joyandbeauty2024]

Yea it’s because of Kenya’s features and hair texture

[@LovingWarmth]

And now Anok yai and Tika Sumpter 😅. Like never in the history of neverdom have those women ever been considered as anything other than a udsbw

[@joyandbeauty2024]

@@LovingWarmth I think anok somewhat benefits from featurism with her eyes and she’s African so she doesn’t completely represent the typical AA dsbw. Those psychotical channels are stupid so I’m not agreeing with them but I think that it’s problematic that the famous dsbw that are seen and promoted as beautiful tend to benefit from featurism or texturism or be African or built like a super model & different from what the typical AA dsbw looks like and I’m not against the promotion we do get I still love the dsbw that are promoted but as an unambiguous AA dsbw I still notice these things. Ww & mixed women get a lot more variety of representation (especially ww) and will actually have some women promoted that facially looks like what the average one of them looks like, meanwhile dsbw often have promotion of dsbw who are mixed or benefit from featurism/texturism and/or are super models. We definitely need much more variety with beautiful dsbw that have features, hair texture, and bodies that actually look like what the majority of American dsbw have.

[@LovingWarmth]

@@joyandbeauty2024 I honestly think the whole featurism argument is shaky at best. Small features don't equal less black. There are too many monoracial bw with small features to imply otherwise. Just like a hump on the nose for ww will never be a beauty standard for wp despite it being a feature that is frequent in their racial group. I do agree that we need more variety, but we'll get there, it takes time. The variety of representation just started for other groups, and they've had frequent representation for decades. The thing is that every groups beauty standard for a long time has never been the everyday girl, Angelina Jolie and victoria secret models are not your everday WW, Those K-pop Idols are not your everyday asian person. They don't look like the majority of the people in their group but they're still the beauty standard.

[@joyandbeauty2024]

@@LovingWarmth featurism is indeed a real thing just like colorism is. Yea there are bw with what’s considered small aka more white looking features but they’re not the majority. Most AA bw don’t have straight noses or thin lips, we have noses with wider bridges and fuller lips, and tend to have rounded eyes so that’s what I mean by featurism that a often times if a dsbw benefits from featurism she has one or more features that are different looking than the typical AA or west African phenotype. U said a hump on the nose for ww will never be the beauty standard for wp deslite it being a feature frequent in their racial group… I don’t recall seeing many ww with a hump on their nose so idk wym by that. & what exactly were u trying to say that even though wider noses are typical for bw it’ll never be the beauty standard… are u saying that typical blk features are unattractive? As for variety of representation when it comes to ww they absolutely have a lot more variety than others races especially more than bw. There’s so many basic/average and even below average looking ww that have been promoted as beautiful. Emilia Clarke, Anna Kendrick, Kristen Stewart, Dakota Johnson, Ellen Page (before they transitioned), Rachel Brosnahan, Sarah Jessica Parker, Jenifer Aniston, Kirsten Dunst, Emily Blunt, Annie Walker, Famke Janssen, Phoebe Dynevor, Florence Pugh, Natalie Portman, Alicia Silverstone, Billie Eilish, etc. these are all basic looking ww, they’re pretty but still basic nonetheless & some of them are less than average. Yea there’s ww like Angie Jolie & Scar Jo & Margo Robbie who are more attractive than the average ww but the majority of their representation is filled with ww who don’t look much different than the average ww. Ww don’t have to look like a super model to be seen as beautiful they could look like Kirsten Stewart and be seen as beautiful lol they get to be so basic looking even below average and still be seen as pretty meanwhile dsbw have such a scarcity of representation that those we do get as promotion are often so well above average that it somewhat reinforces the notion that we have to look extremely gorgeous just to be considered beautiful.

[@AlexxxCrossss]

One of her videos came across my timeline (I didn’t know she a colorist or that she had issue with Chrissie prior to this) and it was actually a good video so I watched. After watching that one video, I ended up watch two videos; The last video talked what an exotical is and when she said that they are light skinned, mixed or a black woman with “soft features” I clicked out. Content like that is the reason why there’s so much division in the community.

[@realistxoxo]

She is jealous of your channel, confidence, and influence.

[@Timetrae]

FACTS 💯💯💯

[@PinkRedBrisk]

I have nothing to add to the conversation. I've been a follower for about 5 or 6 years now and the Chrissie lessons have always stucked since the first video. Just commenting for the algorithm ✨️

[@ohheyasiabasia6601]

THIS!!!!! I am an MLS women that subbed to her content for beauty, fitness, fem and decentering men content. I was in her discord space posting about fitness and fem content then I saw in the discord where they were always being super messy and catty about "comment foolery exposed" etc. and I'm just like why are grown women so deep into this messy content?? I thought this was a safe space for positivity and fem content for MLS women. Like i'm not here to bash or engage in catty content. Long story short. I defended Chrissie in her discord the day Chrissie went live. Mind you, no one else supported me. She got mad and banned me. I have the screenshots! Literally all I said was Chrissie didn't deserve h@te speech from that guy and that overall Chrissie doesn't seem like a negative person and that I will continue to support both platforms then she banned me. She said "he said something controversial and I laughed, so what". -Nah babe. He's engaging in H@TE speech and I don't see sht funny and I'm not agreeing with your ass just cause we're both light skin smh. Even though Chrissie's space isn't specifically for women w/my specific phenotype, I've always appreciated her intelligence, classiness and level up content!! I hope Chrissie pins my comment so I can send her the screenshots(if she wants).

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

Man… I literally said nobody spoke out against the 2 shorts and you are proving me wrong❤❤. Thank you for that. I also would have listened to both but she lost me when she was supporting people who speak disrespectfully/ and sometimes hate speech to people who look like me. Since I left I see she still encourages it when people say they want to start a channel doing just that. I commend you. We’re not against light skinned or mixed people.( at least I’m not). We’re against people who want to disrespect us. If more people were like you I think both sides could coexist and support each other tbh

[@Stephanie.101]

Same girl

[@ohheyasiabasia6601]

@@jasminscarbrough2596 Her space is confusing because it's like she posts a lot of positive content but then turns around and posts a ton of negative content. So it's like you're in a state of cognitive dissonance. It's like am I in a positive space or am I in a negative space?? Like babe, if your platform is for MLS women, why are you grasping for straws in random comment sections looking for negativity? Why are you following Chrissie just to be mad at her for minding her business?? And I understand that it can happen on both sides but it's like who has time to keep up with that? I honestly thought I could filter out/ignore all of the negative content from her space and focus on the good but the negativity from her space was TOO loud. She couldn't take that I defended Chrissie so I got banned. I don't care at all. I'm not a follower. I stand on my square.

[@mishikijayanna3184]

"he said something controversial and I laughed, so what" According to her, Colourism and degredation of black women is ok as long as it happens to someone who is not directly related to her. But if we call this out, we are victims.

[@ChrissiesWay]

Wow, smh. You can send the screenshots to [e-mail].

[@Ali-py2ck]

Chrissie I just watched a police body cam video where an exotical tried to get out of being arrested by saying she's not the average black girl her father is Italian and Lebanese. These women are brazen with their bigotry...🤦🏾‍♀️

[@joyandbeauty2024]

Lmbo wow really ? That sounds unbelievable I can’t believe one of them actually said that as if that was going to make the police let her go. What many of them are exposing is what Chrissie has been saying for years which is that they don’t actually see themselves as BW especially UADSBW, these psychoticals see themselves as something different that will be treated better in society. And many of them are delusional and listening to EU they’ll just be lead off a cliff thinking that whatever ambiguity they have is going to get them farther than it will. You’d have to actually be white passing to maybe get out of a police altercation anything else isn’t going to get u much privilege but many of them are so used to being pedestalized in the black community that I guess that they don’t kno that. I think they also see how other races will at times treat them better than fully black ppl and think that’s going to be the case all the time

[@Ricoque-u2m]

She was being a ‘lie racial’ on camera. It figures.

[@Tessy29k]

Ahahahaha🤣🤣🤣

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

Listen… I don’t see them in the comments of their community or her clap back denouncing the the hateful comments in either short that you showed… proof that they not for us. If it was somebody talking about mixed women like that many of us would have been trying to put on a cape for them. We truly are too nice sometimes. Give people the same energy they give you.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

Agree.

[@SunseedStarchild]

This - DSBW are usually the kindest people in my life.

[@islandgirl8067]

💯💯💯💯

[@insaneartistizmywuname]

👏🏿👏🏿

[@Chamsiee]

Thanks for making this video. I was obliviously naive to even watch their videos. There is still something I need to work on because when I think about it there are channels that talk about pretty privileges without putting down dark skin women.

[@lovenosa1105]

I unsubscribed from that exotical weirdness. Stalking is where I draw the line!! I noticed the obsession with Chrissie in many of their videos but I started to suspect something was off when I watched the same live as them but their takes were uncharitable and twisted what I heard from the live. That’s when I knew something was off. And this isn’t just one channel, it’s many of them. They are OBSESSED with you. I think you proved your case, everyone shows themselves at the end. The comments she made under that crazy guys video says it all. She is WEIRD as hell, just imagine knowing her in real life. I think she has been jealous of you for a while and her mentally obsessive nature cannot let it go. Anyways thanks for doing the live streams, you’ve showed many of us the light.

[@bayindo.pronoms]

The thing is they give access to white supremacists to hate all kind of Zendaya looking human kinds.

[@Bri-rw7ik]

@@GoldenPisces903 I feel like most to mixed ppl don’t really resonate with the negativity on those type of channels, I tried to see the opinions of other mixed people outside of the KZbin space I went to Reddit most of them had abt the same respond like “yeah she has some points, but she has weird undertones” , because end of the day mixed with black anti-blackness will not benefit you in the long run.

[@Genorgin]

If you are a UABW you shouldn't be following them to begin with

[@FloridaBoiiJay]

Yeah it’s mostly the mixed folks with ⚫️ dads that get on here talking bad about bw. I’m glad that some people notice that too instead of lumping all of us with them. Us with ⚫️ moms don’t agree with their videos bashing bw.

[@saffyreid8790]

Just about to say this yes.

[@Blaquebarbgamer]

This needs to be studied more, because I’ve noticed this too.

[@Stephanie.101]

Wow, really 🤔

[@themadman6667]

not only is there zero proof of this but this is also just supremacist rhetoric. yall think just like klansmen. find a way to divide then dominate. there is no difference and its weird behavior.

[@jenniferterry4665]

@@Stephanie.101This is definitely a thing.

[@princessdyn]

I was so confused when I saw her listing Ciara as an exotical on her channel 🤔 So because Ciara is pretty, talented, fit, rich, feminine, a good mother, and married to a baller, she is no longer an unambiguous BW? Then I thought about it and realized how insidious that was. She did it so that Ciara, the OG example of leveling up (since she wrote the song), would be associated with their exotical image, enhancing THEM instead of US unambiguous black women. So that we would have even fewer examples to identify with. The reach!

[@reesebloom8093]

Ciara is definitely an unambiguous Blk woman. I just saw someone in this comment section calling Rihanna mixed 😂 I feel like the world is literally going mad. The internet has confused a lot of people.

[@SunseedStarchild]

In their quest to pretend only mixed women are attractive they've forgotten what mixed is. Hilarious

[@CrockyDile15]

@@reesebloom8093 Rihanna's dad looks half whyt? In that case, Rihanna would be classified as 1/4 white/other, but her mother is full black which is why Rihanna has a bit more sense and level-headed, down to earth-ness.

[@reesebloom8093]

@@CrockyDile15 Rihanna's father is a light skin Black man. The way I've seen people pretending her father is a full whyt man is comical 😂 They will say Zendaya, Mariah, & Latto is Blk, but will swear Rihanna is mixed. I can't take the internet seriously.

[@demoisellejoli91]

Which is crazy because absolutely no one with eyes view Ciara as mixed or multi racial🙄 At this point I need them to identify who they think is a pretty unambiguous dark skin woman because it seems that to them unambiguous just means ugly.

[@5678efgh3]

And none of them ever shows their face... and yet keep yapping about how "pretty" they are...

[@ohplease6865]

I have a hard time believing that now

[@5678efgh3]

@@ohplease6865 I personally doubt that they are anything beyond average... but personally I don't care what they look like... it's just embarrassing for them to constantly want to portray themselves as prettier than other people when everyone else just minding their own business...

[@DarkWinter48]

A lot of them are old.

[@Tessy29k]

A lot of them are just weird bw who are lightskinned arguing about where they come from, how big their noses are and what hairtype they have. A large majority of them are NOT biracial. As someone who is having a biracial child many of these women do not understand what that actually means. They think having light skin makes them biracial😂

[@WhispersofEncouragement]

I subscribed to them as a mixed person thinking i was going to hear something wonderful, literally the first thing they brought up was you at least once every 15 minutes then start insulting DSBW looks, i commented and said my mom is a DSBW i got my beauty from her , they ignored my comment i unsubscribed sooo fast, then 20-30 exstalk whatever kept popping up, chrissie keep doing what you doing , you started the conversation of truth most ppl ignored 💯 now they copy and call you the problem 🙄

[@Aniexo_]

Why do I feel like I saw your comment there

[@ohplease6865]

I’m the same, only difference is I’m MGM and I never subscribed to her. There was something off about her and the way she talked so of course I hesitated to subscribe. My doubts became clear the moment I made my first comment criticizing her on how she said things about natural hair and she blocked me. They didn’t ignore your comment, she most likely blocked you (youtube doesn’t stop you from giving viewership even if you’re blocked which is dumb and deceiving). But it’s okay bc she has such a fragile and desperate ego; she showed her real colors and I have no regrets not subscribing to her

[@keeshab1173]

@WhispersofEncouragement I respect you for unsubscribing although you are mixed and seeing what she is about. I have watched a few of her videos and to me it seems like she us traumatised from an experience with a dark skin woman. It doesn't sound healthy, it seems toxic and In my mind I'm thinking 'Don't these women have ambiguous black mothers, aunties, sisters, grandmas and cousins?'. It also feels like she is taking ppl away from their blackness as if it's a bad thing and getting them to focus on even 10% of whatever other mix they have in their blood or whatever feature they have that is not associated with being Black.

[@bibaolaitan5189]

She made a video of Aoki lee Simons and her sister, and said black women says Aoki is unattractive because she has more black features. Like no, aoki is unattractive because of her long unusual face, THAT IS NOT A BLACK FEATURE .

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder…I think she’s cute

[@bibaolaitan5189]

​@@jasminscarbrough2596true.. I was just using their talking point to drive home my own point.

[@coloursof-autumn8650]

Aoki gets a lot of support from BW. Never heard any BW call her unattractive and I don’t think she’s unattractive at all.

[@sweetpeaj1952]

Nah deep down she think blk features are unattractive. She's projecting. After all she calls herself and supporters pretty. We know why.

[@Bri-rw7ik]

She’s pretty to me idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ but I get your point in saying that they’re trying to accuse everything that a black woman has an opinion on relating to the blackness rather than objectivity

[@she_be_ashley]

I’m biracial: my mother is black, father white. My mom put me on to Chrissie during the pandemic. While my mother (and most black ppl) can acknowledge beauty in other races, she’s always prioritized her own positive self image as a black woman. A message Chrissie and her channel constantly promote. In doing so, my mother didn’t teach me to share in her identity as a bw, hence garnering a certain level of respect towards bw and their spaces. The “exoticals” obsession with Chrissie and her channel make me think these women feel they haven’t reaped the full benefits, from the communitah, they think they should have gotten for simply being lightskinned.

[@joepatrick3092]

Lmao you still not black. Your father is white😂😂. How can his biracial son identify with a white man?🙄

[@ledam2654]

​@@joepatrick3092Is he identifying with all white men or the one that happens to be his father? Naturally, sons typically align with their fathers. Not a hard concept.

[@joepatrick3092]

@@ledam2654 By that logic he wouldn’t be able to experience white men privilege because he’s not. He wouldn’t be able to relate to his dad. You black females never talk about the damage of the white dad always with the “white mom” 😂. Our first “black president “ was a birth and raised by a white woman.

[@joepatrick3092]

@@ledam2654 Also 99.9% of the biracial men with black mom never date black women😂but you guys never talk about that tho

[@ledam2654]

@@joepatrick3092 What does this have to do at all with my initial comment? I said most men will naturally align with their fathers. You're talking about dating. Seems like a lot of you can't look past that.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

Chrissie you checked them phychoticals real good, and very elegantly.

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

Yasss💅

[@kenishiagreen]

Did she say psychoticals? 😩😂

[@ericamena333]

Yes maam! she said it with her chest and I'm here for it.🤣😂😆

[@islandgirl8067]

😂😂😂😂

[@Lulu060986]

I have never heard of these people and I am grateful but still here to support Chrissie❤️

[@LovingWarmth]

I didnt click on the videos cause im not trying to give these pages engagement. But I saw one titled "Black women NEED us to represent them" I was like 😮. Oh so you're all nuts...And them trying to claim Anok Yai as an exotical... I believe mixed women and ambiguous women need their own space. But now claiming unambiguous dsbw is like them trying to slither their way back to being the face of bw. Btw this is only towards ubw/mixed/lsbw who valued themselves on believing they're superior to ds/ubw. There are lots who are actual allies and dont need to feel superior.

[@godivainc4593]

So they know Ice Spice isn’t cute just light skin and overly sexualized? I would respect them more if they focused on the objectification of young light skin women (the threat being men) yet they focus on DSW because we’re literally not who they should focus on.

[@obinnamorton773]

Yes I notice this. I saw Doja Cat patting her cooch and kind of imo being oversexualized at times, and was like, what? And the sexualization of mixed women who are supposed to be Black adjacent...like this actually bothers me because I see that they are playing into the stereotype of Black women (and I guess maybe mixed women too, given the history of their image in the US) to advance their careers while I'm like, um, I'm very awkward with my sexuality trying to figure it out even as older in the midst of this imagery, go away with this, not helpful

[@Bri-rw7ik]

I feel like Ice Spice is cute, but I do not like how some of them say that we “lead with our bodies” while they’re a lot more over sexualize light skin women in the media

[@Bri-rw7ik]

Btw ur so pretty 😍

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@Bri-rw7ikIce Spice is NOT even near cuteness.

[@T.H-v4h]

Their whole “community” is centered around hating dark skin girls lol. Other than that they have no community and want to replace dark skin girls as the real black girls. Where else will they fit in

[@KourtKhronicles]

Chrissie, I would invest in DDS if you ever start it back up. Let’s level up 1000%. This has motivated me to slay even harder. 💅🏾💕🥰

[@missmuyoyo]

Chrissie thanks for this video and all that you have done for black women to find value in themselves and not take crap from others. It’s clear that you are doing something important. DSBW need this platform more than ever. ❤❤ Keep up the great work!

[@ladysunshine9029]

OMG, you're preaching on here tonight! They can't stand the fact that darker skin women are becoming more confident. Stop freely giving out compliments because they expect it. When you don't they start phishing for it. When you stand confidently in your own energy without being mean spirited and don't fetishize them they respect you more.

[@purrfectnails2473]

I’m an unambiguous brown skin bw, and I noticed exoticals trying to pander to wmn like me. I have 4c hair and a wide nose. There is no way I could be mistaken for exotical. The algorithm is working for you, bc I’ve known about you for years, but I know your content is for dsbw, which I am not, BUT I do resonate with this content your creating as a unambiguous bw that the exoticals tried to pander to. I think the exoticals are resentful that dsbw are becoming the beauty standard for bw in the modeling industry. The days of bye racheal being the bw is coming to an end. They’re trying to take credit for the dsbw’s beauty. Lol they tried it.

[@livelovely4681]

Chrissie has a focus on dsbw, but I find her content to be for all black women.

[@ItsUppity]

I don't remember which exotical it was, but a few years ago she made a cool dozen videos about me back, to back, to back. For months. I thought that was cooky and unhinged so I decided to drop out of all conversations related to the sector.

[@rosieusa]

Even in School Daze, there was one dark-skinned woman among the Wannabes (Tyra Ferrell) because she had "good hair." Similarly, in Basketball Wives, Kristen and the bleaching Malaysia were included because of their 'good hair' and perceived attractiveness compared to OG. This pattern is nothing new. Dark-skinned women with pretty privilege, Eurocentric or Blasian features, and "good hair" are often allowed to associate with mixed and light-skinned women, but they are still seen as lackeys, flunkies, or underlings by these lighter-skinned, exoticals.

[@joyandbeauty2024]

This is so true and I just wanna say that unambiguous dark skinned black women with type 4 hair and west African features we most definitely have pretty privilege I think we need to stop saying we don’t have it just because we don’t benefit from an ism.

[@insaneartistizmywuname]

Colorist bm also give them a pass but don't place them above light,mixed and non-bw.

[@thewaylaofthekayla]

the are conditioned to be covert narcissists by society.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Oooh, that’s deep. And true.

[@thefeminineeye]

This!!!

[@bibaolaitan5189]

Watching this again, and just want to say you are so intelligent.

[@ChosenChild-j9i]

I think everyone is jealous of black women, especially darker toned ones. I’ve had non black men/women, biracial men/women and of course black men/women look at me crazy, especially when I hold my head up high or if I’m well dressed. There were a group of older black women and a black male looking at me funny and huffing/puffing when I walked into a building. I was like wow.

[@sabri1913]

Because you got something they WILL never have. I love it when people do that. Such a good feeling 😂

[@OliviaBaeBy]

You ever had them so mad they ready to that snoke lmao theyvhate to see it

[@Tessy29k]

They are

[@gmcmim1]

"Most of your channels do not look positive or care free. You care a lot. And everybody can see it." Those words hit. I just had to type that. Cause it is the truth.

[@PersephonesLibrary]

I’m sorry but I thought “ exoticals “ was for foreign women from Spanish or Asian countries, are light skinned black woman or even American bi racials now considering themselves exoticals?

[@percolettivercetti3910]

I did as well, but apparently you can be a mixed or light skinned american and now your exotic.

[@VeeSweetTea]

😂😂🎉why dont they promote hazel E 🤣🤣🤣 or tiny harris or natelie nun🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this live was crazy ...but the points were tooo valid❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.....

[@caid733]

Nathalie nunn 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Rain Pryor!!

[@sweetpeaj1952]

We know why

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@sweetpeaj1952 Baby mama to a dusty, tennis player. Naomi Osaka!!

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Naomi Osaka!!! Tennis player and baby mama. She went up against the gorgeous fully black Sloane. Chrissy did a video on this.

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

They’re literally playing in the DS psychoticals faces smh. Why can’t they see this?…😕

[@rosepetals6895]

Light skinned fully black woman here and i have always supported chrissie coz for me the plight of DSBW is my plight. Literally these mixed/ exotical are so entitled and i think they are a bit shaken that most BW are no longer falling for their antics

[@silviasweetie3341]

Why don’t they be original and create their own content…

[@bayindo.pronoms]

It's because they don't have any. If they'd talk about themselves nobody would listen. So that they have no other choice than to talk about other people. Nevertheless, I'm praying for them to be delivered by their ancestors demons. (Book of Enoch)

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

We are their content. The whole point is to down us to uplift themselves. It’s quite obvious. The majority of their videos are about us.

[@SunseedStarchild]

Cause they aren't the blueprint, so just like their mamas, they have to copy everything they do off BW.

[@SunseedStarchild]

Cause they not the Blueprint, just copies 🤷🏾

[@thefeminineeye]

@@bayindo.pronoms not their ancestors demons

[@GreenUptowner]

All I have to say is "Blue Vein Society".

[@xbunnies769]

Can you make a video about weight loss and how to use it to level-up? Enjoyed the live ❤️

[@macherieamour0]

@graphicdesigner7650 try to do IF fasting if you can. i put on weight fast so this method helps control it. your body may need some time to adjust but it works fairly quickly

[@joyandbeauty2024]

@graphicdesigner7650 much love and light to u on your journey, you’re gonna overcome ur obstacles and have the weight loss u want, I hope u stay encouraged

[@T.H-v4h]

I don’t really pay them any attention. It’s like who wants to use black womens name now as a come up on KZbin. Get in line.

[@Kojic414]

I’m glad you exist.

[@Ariana-bz1zk]

Chrissie is a blessing to dark skinned women.

[@Mscocoapuffz]

I am commenting to boost Chrissie’s video in the algorithm. I hope this is the last video she makes for the exoticals because Chrissie’s femininity and strategy content is practical for any women not just BW. Ladies, life is hard, learn what privileges you have and maximize them for a better life❤

[@MyWorld-xw6ic]

I hate all these exotical channel’s videos coming up in my suggestions: DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS CHANNEL 🔄 why YT can’t tell the difference between we and them-algorithm get it together.

[@yx5991]

If you fell for their trap..,”. Well… Why were they setting up traps to begin with? What’s tea what’s beef hmmm?

[@MIKU10129]

Great video! Laced with facts & data per usual 👍 . So glad to have found your channel, Chrissie.

[@SunseedStarchild]

When you break it down like this I'm mad I ever believed them or gave them a chance to speak their peace. I feel like a whole dummy lol but hey now I know.

[@marlenahawkins7098]

Also I agree watch men that say little insults on features of black women and fair skin women don’t say anything.

[@Juju29360]

This was a great video. Save this video ladies & refer to it as much as possible. Chrissie has taught me so much over the years. But the number one thing that has stuck with me is putting my image FIRST (online AND in real life). And I’m so glad other dsbw are catching on. Thank you Chrissie. ❤️

[@livelovely4681]

People need to stop watching the videos. You've seen the comments these channels leave, so why do you need to see a video?

[@numba1divaxxxx]

Chrissie you are a solider, but you are not alone sis ❤

[@TalesForTheCulture]

They tried to use a celebrity bleaching as an "example" to say that we "like colorism" when the roles are reversed. Like, what?? Delulu is definitely the solulu over there🥴😂

[@traceylennon1204]

Gaslighting...like we're imagining things regarding the treatment of dark-skinned women!

[@fortheloveofthelord9637]

Chrissie can you please do a video about Fibroids? We have a very intellectual audience from all over the world and someone must know how to get rid of them without surgery. Please bring on a few ppl to talk about it.

[@Angie-mk1vf]

It’s them trying to monopolize the term “pretty girls” for me💀. Like you know what they are trying to say without them saying it.

[@SunseedStarchild]

Yup!

[@mishikijayanna3184]

Have you noticed how whenever someone disagrees with them they say "But the pretty girls have no problem with me saying such and such about such and such" They are trying to gaslight us into believing that we couldn't possibly have a logical reason for disagreeing with them. The only reason anyone would disagree with them is if they are 'ugly'

[@Angie-mk1vf]

@@mishikijayanna3184 exactly. its very coded language. something they learned from their non-black parents.

[@morbiddom9587]

Very sneaky behavior and using language as a weapon because if they are called out on it they can just deny it and blame it on the accuser's "low self esteem" and "inferiority complex" for thinking that

[@fatherbewithme]

I thought that was a subliminal dig at unambiguous DSBW in general glad to know I'm not the only one who peeped that

[@marlenahawkins7098]

I’m never heard people speaking out about issues growing up and your channel was so need. I was so honored as young woman that light skin men liked me but they just want to sleep with me and use . I’m practicing abstinence now and still learning and realizing I have never had dark skin men interested in me .

[@missmack2328]

You got sooo much game!!!

[@suzetteannan5657]

Who was it that put out a reverse track to Beyonce's 'Brown Skin Girl', 'Light Skin Girl'?

[@pariscarla822]

I’m so glad you decided to let them have it and expose the foolery! Thank you, Chrissie! 😊❤

[@moebrown3755]

Chrissie goated these mfs 👏🏾

[@KellySmith-lg4ej]

Lashid has made videos in support of u 😊😊😊

[@dashboard-11]

You should do a video dissecting the movie School Daze.

[@tamid2225]

YES 🙌🏾

[@obinnamorton773]

Not going to lie, kind of traumatized me at college orientation, first week in Cramton Auditorium. One scene I remember, good hair bad hair I think...in tandem with my insecurities I felt being darker skinned here...whew...

[@lizzielopdop]

👏a masterclass!