How to start a conversation: 5 things to say after "hello"

[@engvidJames]

What's next? Watch my new lesson on 5 questions to get the conversation going! These questions lead to deeper conversations and help you get to know people better. kzbin.info/www/bejne/a3-tZIafbNVmpNE

[@tirofijo11]

I believe that having good intentions or having love in your mind and heart these start up lines for conversation are great , but this talent come naturally to those that are positive and confident. Great Content love it. I use this with out even realizing it. Complimenting people, asking how and where the are in route too. There's many more we can list but being sincere , nice , actually listening to others, naturally positive energy and vibration can create a wonderful time together.

[@llamasugar5478]

In the example conversation, “where” shouldn’t have an “a” in it. All the same, I am a new subscriber and very much enjoy your teaching!

[@wouldanyoneelselikedtobehe676]

Is that a worm or what? Please tell me more

[@hollowtip4068]

I need a lesson on using would have or would had...lol

[@bonginkosimadi7899]

James I really appreciate your lessons, more especially on how to read effectively. I would deeply appreciate if you can teach us a lesson on how to summarise effectively as well.

[@FluffyBunny9002]

I complimented someone's jacket and then followed up with saying I need to get my nephew a gift, and that person told me they also watched this KZbin video.

[@volpage77]

😂😂😂

[@mecoder9910]

Lol

[@leo7335]

Hahahahahahaha

[@mcveigthojeda9296]

Lmao 😂

[@Khushi-xq7uc]

busted

[@SuperBodet]

"if you don't do it to your mother or your sister, don't do it to another woman" THE BEST!

[@Nature_Music_Positive]

Gold words!!!

[@SuperBodet]

I'm doing nofap

[@dominicgarcia8107]

I read this the same time he said that I was freaked out😂

[@longingheart77]

Nicky Larson hahah

[@Hdo30H]

feminism intensifies..

[@francissu9325]

Sir, you’re no just teaching English, more importantly, you’re sharing your cheerful mindset in an excellent way. Thanks!

[@lucasdelaporterie4802]

You don t teach english , you teach Life man! Lucas 🇫🇷

[@necromonta]

but in english :)

[@chirurgiacosmetica]

Greatest comment ever

[@Sarentoliezyl]

It is! I idolized him now

[@razza1580]

Goat comment

[@mtb_kev]

@@chirurgiacosmetica mmmmm....... sure....

[@8000watts]

Even those who’ve grown up with English as their first language, should watch this. This is great stuff, man!

[@bulobakika7418]

Hello

[@mauriceware2323]

@@bulobakika7418 pppp ppl that can p

[@mr.bhewjew3212]

That’s exactly what I am doing

[@niquiidlewood9326]

Lol, me! 🙋🏿‍♀️

[@lavieestbelle6068]

Totally agree, he is an excellent teacher.

[@mohdhairi7454]

When his channel have millions subs, he just go straight to the point, no gimmick, no flashy intro . Jusy pure content . Bravo 👏

[@MeneTekelUpharsin]

True. Straight to the point is rare these days

[@preciousdouglas6656]

Hello

[@jimboulaya]

4.4 Million and counting, he is surely on top of his game.

[@olgaartamonova3039]

it's not just English lessons. it's a big piece of psychology. And I loved it! Thanks!

[@emanuelsebastao9059]

kkkkkkkkkkk

[@davedon260]

Olga Artamonova will you marry me?

[@GODSPEEDseven]

James, this isn't just useful for someone learning English, but for someone like me, who is shy and gets nervous when approaching someone. This video is extremely helpful! Thank you.

[@Sphinx_00]

11:09 This one is actually really good. I'm on my high school minding my own business then my classmate sit right next to me then say "Hello, do you think medusa has pubic hair?" and was like "yeah maybe, why u ask?" and he was like "Do you think it's also a snake?" then I got curious why did he think it that far. We had like a 2 hours conversation then we became friends lol. I'll never forget it.

[@TheArcher143]

lol

[@bensonplayzyt]

Lmaooo

[@isxlatediced9640]

That’s a looooong talk

[@gdc6153]

Yes you two are made for each other🥴

[@kayveeproductions2957]

Let him hit?

[@sbm.4]

And here we are preparing for human interaction after being quarantined for so long

[@Blurpoopee]

🎯

[@sbuckle1171]

Exactly. Like learning to walk again after having a cast on your foot for a very long time.

[@allpraisewebb1142]

Lol

[@meow-ee5gl]

Your pfp explains it

[@milotic2173]

True wade, true

[@ilikeplant6011]

me: wow, how do you get your hair so shiny? person: I'm bald me: yeah!

[@briefingsdn8101]

hahahaha

[@Vertutame]

​@@briefingsdn8101 I cut it everyday

[@dhoragunanmuthalali3885]

😄

[@tiffanylee2011]

hahaha

[@mintheinoo4651]

I polish my head

[@jdrice5134]

One of the most genuine I’ve found is simply asking “how was your day?” Stating your name then asking that is one of the most honest conversation starters

[@evangeline4966]

Some don't want to give too much details to people they don't know and just say "good". This only works if you're trying to make a conversation, not withstanding the response or the other person is quite extroverted.

[@jdrice5134]

@@evangeline4966 very true didn’t think about that. I just thought it was genuine

[@preciousdouglas6656]

Hello sir

[@RndmMcRndmnss]

​@@evangeline4966 Nice way to say that's a BORING QUESTION. I totally agree. It's so boring!!! 😉🤣

[@PlanetC64]

"Listening more than you speak is a skill" YUUUUUUP!

[@sobervision1049]

@Icewulf if you never listen people won't feel like talking to you. That may sound like peace but it hurts you more than you probably think

[@jeremiahfyan]

Working at retail gave me this ultimate ability lmao

[@gdc6153]

Try telling that to my Son🙄

[@aladeochuko5596]

I was commenting on when I come across you and all what you just said in your comments is great and amazing, I will like us to been a friend's, is that's okay with you..??

[@saulgster]

I'm a man and I love that he took the time to speak to us directly. Respect and kindness towards women as well as anybody else is most important.

[@Remoteflpr]

I loved the explanation of starting a conversation. The funny thing for me is, I hate being the first one to introduce myself. I’d rather they be the first one to ask. So I just don’t hand it out until then; because I’m shy..😆

[@_conquered]

Same

[@firewave9]

Same here

[@Julianghhji]

Same

[@perf3ctdrum]

Daaamn same here lmao

[@cloroxbleach6402]

If you don’t mind me asking are you male or female?

[@evanhoffman3574]

If only all teachers taught like him, great content

[@gdc6153]

Right😂😂

[@eureka2122]

Ikr

[@mello.1483]

@Dracco Princes sometimes teachers are boring, confusing or sometimes mean. It’s not always the student.

[@Rich-in-Sodium]

Introverts: *takes notes but might not even use it at all*

[@Vizzu]

Introverts: how to start hello

[@frasernorth6568]

I'm English, but I'm still here because I'm catastrophically bad at conversations

[@李Annie-v8d]

I know all the theories, i just never like anything on anyone (including myself), and i hate sharing my own feeling. Conversation dies in all languages.

[@dingdong1519]

hello

[@Acemancello]

Write that down, write that down! *Puts notes in filing cabinet never to be seen again*

[@barbarosseferde]

James you are not only a great English teacher but a wise brother for me at the same time who is telling special hints about the life. I watch you to relax and have a rest when I got home... Please don't stop making these videos... Many thanks...

[@SaraMohamed-wt4bf]

For a person who was and still quarantining...you didn't teach me conversation openers, you actually taught me how to survive when it comes to me going out and need to talk with a human being. You're very loved Mr. Too much respect ❤️

[@luke7842]

I don't know why I just watched this whole video as English is my first language... You're a very compelling teacher

[@flvffcinna]

Hello sir, this just popped up in my recommendation. I do not regret clicking on the video. The way you speak is very captivating. I always don’t know what to say after “Hello”, thanks for helping. Have a nice day sir

[@Bulllllllllllllgod]

I am from Canada and English is the only language I speak. Some of James’ videos I’ve been watching lately are useful even for me! You can learn a lot from James.

[@WJessiM]

James I think you’re a beautiful human being. You teach me the English language beautifully. Every video is an enjoyable watching experience. Thank you!

[@BigS4mu_]

I would like this man to teach my kids how to talk and get in to good conversations with people.

[@dropoff2986]

Why don’t you just learn for yourself? This way you can teach your own kids..

[@trueblueryu5713]

If your kids have or will have reliable access to KZbin in some capacity, make sure these are some of the videos you show them first.

[@winterwarden]

this video so mediocre like damn just let them go out and talk to people. kids are natural learners dont put a lid on it

[@Kenif_18]

Dude, your kids are an extension of you. They copy what they see. Think about that, everything they learn starts from you! So, you learn this first and show them by putting it into practice for them to see. That's all, man. Stay safe out there!

[@natalyoswin5753]

you are the best teacher i've ever seen) thank you so much )

[@jacob014]

Oguzhan Gezer i tought i was only the one from turkey who watch this channel 😀😀

[@kerimbeyfini1551]

me either

[@jacob014]

Ulaş Albatu to be honest i already know English and it is enough for me but the I am just watching this channel just because if I learn something new

[@jacob014]

Ulaş Albatu türkiyeden bu kanalì takip edenler bir birimizden haberdar olalım mesela Ben truzimciyim ve bu yûzden ingilizceyle ilgileniyorum ya sizler?

[@kerimbeyfini1551]

ben bir öğrenci olarak, İngilizce'mi geliştirmek adına bu kanalı takip ediyorum. bence çok profesyonel bir hoca.

[@ivy_savage69]

4 million subs hasn't changed his methods, nothing can stop this absolute Chad

[@smokeynagatastillthegoat9622]

Been practicing my socializing lately with complete strangers. Anxiety is still there but I have indeed gotten better with words

[@a1productionsva]

Be proud of yourself for putting in the effort. Most people still in stage 1............... like me! 🤦🏾‍♂️💀

[@juicyfruitjay]

@@a1productionsva ugh same. So true kudos ^^^

[@merlinseryim2159]

@@a1productionsva same here i even have trouble keeping conv with strangers.;(

[@Oj_thetrainer]

How do you start off usually ? Lol

[@luckylee5026]

Me too😖

[@dorothywelsh100]

James, the more I listen, the more I learn. I am working on reading 15 minutes a day. Thank you!

[@kleina126]

If you read this James, i want to say thanks for your videos. You have absolute skill, the right bit of humor and a good respectively view on communication.

[@foggiboi6969]

I grew up American knowing englishs but always had a hard time starting or continuing conversations thanks James!

[@AsaanHai]

Excellent, Brother.....

[@frits8986]

This is your excellent brother?

[@AsaanHai]

@@frits8986 Do you have any problem???

[@donjrduckify]

@@frits8986 The word "BROTHER" is used mostly by Black men or Black women to other Black Man in recognition that we may have different families, and I don't know you and you don't know me, but wecame from the same place therefore, we are family. Or it can be used in any race to show a feeling of love and respect for the other man such as a friend." My Brother" is more than blood relative, it is love!

[@SAINTxSZN]

@@donjrduckify A lot of southern white men say brother

[@kenpachi950]

@@SAINTxSZN southern men use brother a lot no matter color lol

[@hayatullahtayeeq5086]

friendly teacher, i love your accent, and actions during teaching.

[@sharonmohalland4244]

Love your style of teaching James.

[@gdc6153]

Homie is dope af

[@yayyyzzz]

This is fantastic. I am a native English speaker but my parents aren’t so even though I know English, I always feel pretty lost and inept with certain social situations and expectations and cues and carrying conversation. James you are an incredible teacher!!

[@susanparker9916]

These are great tips. I teach students with autism. Many of them are highly verbal but lacking in social skills. Directly teaching these kind of tactics helps them a lot.

[@teresacoombs1917]

That's wonderful, God bless you.

[@gdc6153]

Keep Up The Good Work

[@aladeochuko5596]

Hey Susan.. How are you feeling today I hope your day is as bright as your pretty smile today.

[@agbaclinching1242]

Hello

[@MRphipps54]

I’m a native English speaker but James has great videos for everyone.

[@Robbie23456]

This video, along with a number of your others, has been extremely helpful in overcoming my social anxiety. Thanks for the knowledge!

[@mrfunk9758]

This guy is like the Bob Ross of English 😂

[@jezdelion7729]

Looooool!

[@mrobitwice77]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Smokeynagata69]

This was actually a very cool comment

[@rickydellaway543]

Nice👍🏼

[@dreammeer2068]

Would like but unliked to leave at 420

[@altheafoster632]

James got knowledge and wisdom and understanding never get tired of listening to him

[@bitofwizdomb7266]

I don’t have problems starting conversations . Always curious about others but I’m aware enough not to be intrusive , aggressive, or out of place . I know my boundaries. I’m genuine and kind :) Just interested and curious about people

[@inkcross879]

As a tall person, being complimented about being tall isnt exactly an effective conversation starter. Its not something we worked towards or had a choice in the matter, i feel people liked to be recognised for their efforts (height isnt one of them). Also, most of us probably got that alot growing up, so it becomes a boring topic even if you are genuinely sincere about it.

[@jeanzinc739]

Quite relatable your comment is.

[@_Just_Another_Guy]

If you're in Asia, it is seen as one of the preferred traits lol. They like tall people there cause 99% of the population are under 5'8".

[@onetallgirl1369]

I was thinking the same thing! I'm also tall and I actually hate when people come up to me and say " your so tall!" I know this I have lived with myself for the last 31 years! lol!

[@movements5139]

@@onetallgirl1369 how tall are you ?

[@onetallgirl1369]

@@movements5139 5'11

[@ducanhduong6526]

hello. love your money. where did you get them?

[@fupingzhao6072]

haha

[@whatamio-o9112]

lol

[@Flyerstone]

Nice hint right there, lol...

[@cescmunoz4689]

it* (it's uncountable)

[@amandac0ded]

lmao

[@zion6898]

this man been on my recommended for a good minute guess i’ll give him a sub

[@Alwaysbepositive-7]

This video not only helps us with starting conversation in English, but also with one in our mother tongue. Especially when i got to have a blind-date with someone ... this would not be the way you intended James i guess.. But this would also mean that your video always helps in many other ways not only with English. So THANK YOU SO MUCH for all your wonderful videos and i will catch up with every single video you published real soon!

[@jadenlee2616]

James, you are the best English teacher that I've never seen before! All your lectures are extremely helpful for me! Keep updating us and thanks for your efforts!

[@dottimuchow2944]

Years ago I took Dale Carnegie course on "How to Win Friends and Influence People" which taught how to have conversations. Great course material.

[@leekeelidq1531]

You are a great teacher! If you come to China, lots of English training companies will employ you and Chinese English studying students will like your teaching style and your helpful teaching method. You know in China, millions of people chase to learn and improve English for there are thousands of foreign company doing business in china. Welcome you to China and to Shanghai!

[@itseddyeddie8931]

Li Leekee I'm in China shanghai😉

[@awakefortwoweeks4770]

youtube is banned in china. You may say fuck the government for that reason.If they refuse, try to go f... y.s...

[@jeremiahfyan]

Better to not sell out to a nation that is human trafficking to get spouses for their population as well as genociding an ethnic group and organ harvesting...

[@sega64official]

If I was an English teacher, I'd rather chew broken glass for fun than move to China.

[@azinafifi5421]

Your teaching is wonderful and what you teach is useful for me in learning English. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@MissPigments]

James, you have such a soothing voice and it makes me want to watch all your videos.

[@billywells3320]

My man teaching English and manners. I like it!

[@ryanwakefield617]

Even as an English speaker this is nice advice. I know it may seem weird or odd. But I have an issue with knowing what to say and believe it’s a social anxiety I have where I just don’t say anything. So these really are great tips to get the ball rolling and have a connection made without being about main topic.

[@rdd4563]

We're in the same boat, man. I'm looking for beginners guides to conversations cuz I suck socially, I actually thought up something like a theory for this stuff, I was raised by my mother but she just gave me a phone and let me raise myself. I think a key factor to people growing up is their upbringing, as a kid, were you chronically online?

[@simplelifeq]

I'm 32 years old and this lesson is the best i ever had. i'm recommending it to all my friends. Thank you sir

[@Telexx4]

I'm learning English and I'm surprised because I'm able to understand you perfectly!!!! Could you tell me where is your accent from, and why I can understand you even when you're talking fast? I love your lessons!!

[@francotheafrican7550]

Telexx4 his accent is Canadian. Where are you originally from?

[@yunishella2206]

Thank you James.Your videos are great.This is my second video I am watching but I subscribed yesterday that's immediately after I watched your video for the first time.I love English and I look forward to the day I will be able to speak with eloquency and style.😀 Thank you.

[@Swahili14]

@@francotheafrican7550 TANZANIA 🇹🇿❤️

[@Flyerstone]

I really like your videos, I don't find them boring.

[@Boomin4u]

“I’m not a player I just crush a lot” -This guy

[@nofriends3904]

rj

[@xpertkidd1150]

Big Pun lol

[@jeffalbillar7625]

I just listened to that song yesterday.

[@derekking9084]

My motto lol

[@joshhayes4323]

Balllla shot cawwwwlaaaaa 20 inch blades on the impaaawwwlaaa

[@igorjevtic206]

This is so much more than conversation openers! Thanks for this great video!

[@creepyclosetfromthecrypt]

He’s teaching a lesson. I’m like, “damn look at that worm illustration on on the left!” Lmao 😂

[@rozziec.3197]

Me too. What’s up with the worm

[@gdc6153]

Yall probably failed English😂

[@DevSA874]

😂😂

[@basilmuyawala]

I just love how he teaches and I’ve been binging his videos.

[@spanglishasmr4328]

This is so easy and clever to implement, that im genuinely shock on how effective it can be on a conversation

[@1stgenwealthy]

His voice is so soothing 🥺

[@calhoundukes8398]

Hey Big Head

[@icanseeyourfuture8674]

@@calhoundukes8398 heyyy SIMP 😊😊

[@calhoundukes8398]

@@icanseeyourfuture8674 your moms

[@benjaminngopwaamos6878]

This is great not just for people learning English for the first time, but also for people who have trouble kickstarting conversations.

[@engvidJames]

Watch the sequel to this lesson: when to END a conversation! Learn 4 signs someone wants to stop talking, and expressions you can use to end a conversation politely. kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmenZX-Xjc-Gis0

[@guiegberto9296]

im impressed, he's an amazing teacher! looks like if i was in a real class! Congratsss!!!!

[@Naomi04021]

As an introvert, I found this very helpful! Thanks!

[@juanleandro4234]

I like your lessons because you give to us the chance to improve our english and you give great advices to our life. I used to be very shy, but when I began to study english and have more conversations with others it improved a lot, and this lesson helped me how to meet more people and make more friends!! Thank you!!

[@martinhernandez2065]

"I want to be the very best" First thing that came to my head "Like no one ever was"

[@jhanelledionne]

To catch them is my real test

[@EpisodicEagle]

To train them is my cause

[@godsparcethelord5604]

I will travel across the land

[@prav2568]

Searching far and wide

[@TheGaara802]

Each pokemon to understand

[@CiaofCleburne]

That whole “I like what you’re wearing thing” really works. I said hello to someone and they said hello! I love your boots, where’d you get them? (They were just red rain boots) and I answered and the conversation took off from there.

[@philipebiloma2704]

Hello👋👋

[@orca68]

It was my mom’s in the 80s

[@alecberrg]

I was walking on the sidewalk once when someone stopped in traffic to ask me where i got my boots. I suspect she didn't really want to start a conversation though; i think she just really liked my boots 🤔😄

[@CiaofCleburne]

@@alecberrg You can tell the difference by the boots.

[@24kche]

Thought this was Ron Artest showing me how to get these breezys

[@cqptainbear]

Its the head shape that really does it

[@Boomin4u]

Catch me taking shit and this comment from the crowd :p

[@test-ky8tu]

Not metta world peace😂😭😭

[@antdeeziak2120]

Kinda looks like a mix of usher and Metta world peace lol

[@blackiechan18]

No cap

[@missv9101]

James: *makes video for non-native speakers* Me: *takes notes despite being fluent my whole life* 😂

[@toddworley2803]

I think you're great at what you do and very important in today's i phone society. God bless you James!

[@user-hx7mi7ml8u]

It’s not “negative” to be shorter, but some people in society make it so. I don’t like it when some people especially, point out that a man is “so short” and make fun of it. People can’t help their genetics, what’s wrong with being “short?” Really tall people probably don’t like hearing all the time, “You are so tall!” Some people think just because a person is naturally “thin” that they can point it out to them. “Hey, string bean.” But, they wouldn’t like it if some thin person said to them, “Hey, fatty.” People should be more sensitive on how they approach topics about people’s heights and weights.

[@lionobama1397]

being tall is being a "good" thing while its the opposite being short, everyones opinion find that tall people are better than short ones (not mine) so usually calling someone very short or very tall may vary their reply

[@ian1697]

are you wearing 3 shirts

[@최지영-v6q]

ian clark omg im laughing out loud

[@iiiverson]

hahahaha😂

[@yeariel7279]

LMAO

[@ariesariesfearless4810]

@@최지영-v6q hahhhha

[@saidkhrach6521]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lukemillar6461]

I’m in sales and I’ve been using your videos to help me keep clients engaged and it’s been helping a lot so thank you!

[@gloriaairlog5783]

NEVER say to me:“wow you’re so tall, do you play basketball?“ I haaaaate it so much

[@julioalarmo839]

I know i got you bro. But when someonde do that its because want to talk with you and they are interested on you. So take it as a positive sign.

[@user-xq2fz5tz9t]

What people said to me: "You're so tall, you must be so long down there" "As long as you're happy then that's good" "So long, my friend"

[@scullik9542]

@@user-xq2fz5tz9t Yeah but she’s a girl so that’s why she don’t when guys say that

[@tee-moneysalis9251]

Are you tall???

[@YaBoyfelipe]

Who tf hates ebing tall

[@RamyTheGreat]

"I love your lips Angelina" is now my ice breaker.

[@da-railsmith8828]

A lot of people on social media need to watch this!

[@borntwice4724]

This guy is good, I can only imagine him at a club.

[@Ninaninaa93]

Maybe more of a cafe thing than a club bcs music is often too loud to speak normally and you have to scream in other person's ear in order for them to hear them

[@gdc6153]

No shit. He probably going home with a brod every night😂

[@paulofrances2908]

Wing man

[@Breezisdead]

This guy's information is solid. But like another person said here above in the comments I don't these tactics are best using a club setting. Got loud music alcohol so many different other factors that don't lend to a real conversation

[@chuckg.7791]

I love your knowledge sir! I've been working on getting my verbiage back in tact. I definitely appreciate you for this.

[@Malandro218porvida]

As an introvert is interesting to see all the work that goes into having a conversation

[@billionairedreams1894]

Thank you~~ have been watching your channel for couple of weeks ago and it's really make sense and it really help me through

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[@6d6575]

As a relatively tall man, don't ever ask someone if they played sports.

[@mynamesjeffhardly]

I'm sure you get that all of the time lol just like short people get short jokes

[@jmm1817]

So did you?

[@alejandromayorga8614]

I am also tall, 2 me is a very boring reoetitive and boring question

[@MasterHoo36]

Honestly. I’m 6’5 and 😶 is my face when I hear that

[@rellbachanal2751]

Honestly....like I get they were complementing my height to a certain extent but it doesn't being up much of a conversation especially if you don't play basketball😂

[@stezzy4645]

i dropped out of school and it never really hooked onto me but this guy makes it more better for some reason please don’t call me stupid but i like this guy

[@lightsword1345]

Why did u tho it is gonna affect u in the long term

[@stezzy4645]

@@lightsword1345 school was really hard for me i had so many family problems with money i just couldn’t handle it anymore

[@lightsword1345]

@@stezzy4645 how old are u?

[@stezzy4645]

@@lightsword1345 19

[@danielmaylett1710]

"Hi! Do you consume enough calsium and vitamins?" Smooth

[@alt842]

Joe Rogan would approve

[@MeneTekelUpharsin]

@@alt842 Why?

[@mirza_saabb193]

@@MeneTekelUpharsin he's pretty big into natural supplements

[@mattj1556]

James from Japan: Why does he keep using me in his examples.

[@bruno6027]

James may, aka bim

[@olukenyosamuel3658]

😂😂

[@shikohliza]

Now that u caught him,let's see how the conversation will go down.

[@revivedsoul1099]

I speak fluent english, even tho live in Norway. This conversation starters are good, makes me think wow "why didnt i think of that". Easier when said by you, but actually intention and honesty matter as you said. Great vid

[@MedEasyAnas]

Hello James, you have a lovely skin, where did you get it? Edit: No racist intentions were behind this comment. Only a complement. Tone down your sensitivity guys 🙃

[@katarzynastrzeszewska3092]

😂😂😂

[@naseralhrbi1373]

Gadeed Mofeed حلوه 😂😂

[@bathyboutique1928]

lol

[@MedEasyAnas]

bathy boutique شكرًا عزيزي :)

[@maincharacter1405]

Gadeed Mofeed on a stroll around the sun 😊

[@francoisvanzyl5119]

I like this guy. I watched his "very"clip and the way he presents himself is awesome. Even tho i can speak english i still watch his clips. Its highly educational. Thanks buddy:-)

[@LegendaryLdawg]

This dude is a legend. Love his energy!

[@nathanbrannan5228]

Do you have a method for exitting a conversation smoothly, without it being awkward? I'm working on this problem. I just need the basics in order to pick this stuff up.

[@MrHuddo]

So is this someone you're romantically interested in or a platonic friend? Either way, brevity is always your friend when trying to pique interest in someone else. In layman's terms, a good but brief conversation would go something like... You: Hey, what'd you have for dinner? Other person: Haha, that's a strange question umm I had spaghetti, what about you? You: I know I just like food, umm I had blah blah. Other person: Omg I love that food blah blah blah At this point they'll be genuinely engaged with you, because EVERYBODY likes food. You might think it's weird but I use this exact dialogue all the time including on my current girlfriend (we've now been dating almost 4 years). The number one thing to remember is DO NOT LINGER. Make it seem like you have to be somewhere even if you don't, but whilst you're with the person, give them your undivided attention. Always leave on a good note, don't wait for it to get boring then leave...

[@nathanbrannan5228]

Dah Dah Short conversations like: Me: Hey what's up? Other Person: Nothing much. How about you? Me: It's going pretty good. I was wondering if you wanted to hang out on Friday? Other Person: Yeah sure, just let me know a time! Me: (I usually say something, but when someone pauses for a long time and doesn't walk away or back out of a conversation, it gets difficult to continue conversing for me)

[@TheToneBender]

Nathan Brannan Art of manliness has a video on it

[@nathanbrannan5228]

Ricky​ K, thanks!

[@irisbailar3980]

If you and the other person seems to be done talking you can just say it was great talking with you, maybe we can have coffee and talk more later. Or you can just say you have somewhere to be and also say you enjoyed talking with them. You can start with it was great talking and finish with you have to head to wherever you need to go. Example, I enjoyed talking to you. Maybe we can meet again sometime, I have to go to work or class or home. Just be honest. Say what you would if he or she was a good friend.

[@kuzan421]

me: tries to avoid every conversation in life KZbin recommended: How to start a conversation

[@youdontcare1872]

lmao so true

[@morganstarchild5359]

Haha right!

[@tylergreene9316]

This should have more likes.

[@Draconior87]

hey James! Writing to you from Italy. I'm a psychologist and psychotherapist and i found this video interesting and useful for working with my Asperger young patients, you gave me useful cue. Thanks!

[@the36lessons11]

Always start a conversation first by asking the individual(s) (whether stranger or familiar to you) you are with to 'please take a seat', even if they don't need to or can. Works everytime and immediately reinforces your dominance of the situation or task at hand.

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

the sad thing is that im not even from a country that doesnt speak english..i just cant speak to people

[@Vinaykumar-bf8hj]

MissesKitty same with me

[@CupOvTee]

You can. Asocial people need to be immersed in hobby. You can't randomly pop up on someone and ask them where did they get clothing. You need to have a strong on-going hobby that made you and another asocial being close. After "Oh, hi, you're doing this hobby as well.", he or she might reply "Uhh, yeah, umm, I've been doing it for (almost) that many years.". Then you ask a question, he or she reply, and after third question if he or she stays to talk, you'll find a common topics, otherwise he or she will go running away in terror of communication. :D

[@arquielmencia4083]

My advice to improve this is heard a song that you like in English and get the lyrics and follow up and read the song and try to sing with artists, do this couple time daily and you will noticed when you try to talk to somebody is gonna be easier you word is gonna come out right away. Try to get a job in McDonnal or any fast foot merchandise

[@franciscorivas4036]

Maybe you are shy. Let's talk to me

[@amansur1]

You can use these tips with any language...

[@leratomzondi1157]

I love your accent, intonation and the way your voice connects with your viewers

[@victor_nunez_20]

Y can’t our teachers teach us this, this is my first time focusing to a teacher 😂😂and I learned something new and new skill😂😂🙄

[@bogroman13]

10:00 Tell me how would you finish this phrase: I want to be the very best... Like no one ever was! To catch them is my real test To train them is my cause!

[@W1SS4Mxx]

P O K É M O N !

[@SomethingSmellsMichy]

Gotta catch them all

[@amonnomaamon]

OH YESS AND IM CURRENTLY WATCHING THIS SERIES

[@greatwavefan397]

I'm so glad we had a Pokémon tape lying around the house so I could hear this heartfelt song. BTW, it had the episodes when Ash jumped over a bridge on his bike, Pikachu was saved from a waterfall, "The Pikachu Chant", and the trailer with the Pokémon on the bus.

[@williamperez8677]

This is great! Now if only people would actually care and want to continue a conversation with me instead of instantly closing themselves off because we dont share ONE thing in common.

[@MellowDarkflower]

Me, an introvert Me: Hello, how're you? Them: I'm fi- Me *ends conversation*

[@raphaelb5237]

Thats not an introvert thats just you being weird man

[@ReceivedYou]

For me it’s like this: Me: how are you doing? Them: good me: *spends an hour trying to think of topics to bring up*

[@slaughtershawt4354]

@@ReceivedYou m

[@MeneTekelUpharsin]

@@ReceivedYou While trying not to be too cheesy or too cynical

[@camelo1495]

My problem is after the initial questions I am genuinely bored of the interaction as it goes no further than my own interests. Breaking this ingrained habit of losing interest is not easy and it has continued to do harm to my interactions with people.

[@breechoi5489]

me too

[@kellycavalcante8526]

You're the best man teacher that I have seen. Actually, that I have watched teaching all of us. Thank you so much. :D Your lessons are awesome.