How To Stay Married: Steve Snaps Back!

Steve welcomed marriage expert James Sexton to tackle one of the most difficult relationship problems yet. But Steve couldn’t stay silent!
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[@furahinibahati8347]

She’s turning 50😳she’s look like 30 🤗

[@MsJP]

Furahini Bahati 38 for sure

[@patana256]

She looks hella fine for her age. I've seen people young that look twice their age.

[@EAO-ql8hk]

Right? I was like, "Steve, when are you going to mention it?"

[@NorryaParsa]

When they say "Black don't crack!" that's what they mean! The more melanin in the skin the less you age....IJS

[@JuanitaMichelle]

Furahini Bahati exactly. That was shocking for me.

[@valerieeey]

Steve's facial expressions says it ALL

[@NBaBall3r26]

yea he dont like video games

[@djjackson3601]

Agreed

[@mzstacystacks3168]

Blahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂like come on man you’re a grown ass man playing kid games

[@mugishabellabnitha]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Absent-being_]

LMFAO HE DONT PLAY

[@lifeisgood8905]

A man that puts gaming above his wife is going to wake up one day alone and wonder why his wife left him.

[@brittanyadamson4271]

Life Is Good and probably won’t care

[@MrUfojunkiedavid]

Life Is Good ....and then he'll be happy and can play without being nagged

[@summerbreeze3358]

@@MrUfojunkiedavid Yeah probably play his heartbreak away till death. Sad

[@reduneyconceicao3420]

No it is his hobbies.

[@EDBailley]

David I hope your not married smh I would feel bad for her having a husband who cares more about a game than he does his wife smh

[@sexyladyakb]

He looks emotionally checked out lol

[@feza8]

I thought at was her son 😂 ma bad

[@tawanacalamari5712]

Nah I thought the same

[@copegog80]

Same lol

[@brittanyadamson4271]

Chiiile 😂

[@leonoratesoro2586]

Same here.lol

[@angeldanielle92]

ClauZ maaan

[@clivemuhorondegwa1945]

Mans out here in the fortnite streets at 50+ 😂😂💀

[@luvmifro1003lovesfamily]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ Not the fortnite streets! #dead

[@DJtheDistraction]

He plays sports games. He said he haves a season.

[@pedroflores8049]

@@DJtheDistraction yeah season 6 bro LMAO

[@kaniness]

@@pedroflores8049 hashanah season 8 out tomorrow. These streets are tough bruh..

[@vocalcoachktsings]

You said that!

[@wendyabraham525]

Her husband has a permanent stupid look on his face 🤦‍♀️

[@AnovaLisaDragonfly]

Yes, and it's at least partly because of all the video games. His brain is fried.

[@Everyoneisanartist776]

I don’t think that’s a look,😏🤢😷💩

[@remb9614]

He permanently stupid, and she married him

[@lilfolkes]

😭😭😭😭😭😭💀

[@Girlygirlsread]

Wendy Abraham And it’s not her fault he doesn’t feel powerful and “victorious.” He needs to figure that out in therapy. He’s a grown man he needs to exercise self control. The issue is he’s addicted to the game and can’t pull away.

[@vanessamodeste3584]

that guy doesn't seem to care one bit...... Oh boy would you look at Steve's face😠.......hahahahahahahahaha

[@tiberiusedwards3968]

Glendy medina at all he said he may have a game on her bday lordt couldnt be my husband

[@stevenbrowne4066]

I wish I could see the unedited version. I know Steve said a whole lot more...

[@rocklanddivorce]

I can confirm that Steven. He had a LOT to say to this guy. He didn't hold back!

[@bsp5689]

Steve’s got a lot balls to give somebody advice on how to stay married 😒

[@raelynrobbie7039]

@@bsp5689 lol

[@bsp5689]

Peace&Tranquility why would I be envious of a hypocritical former womanizer...

[@autumnequinox7777]

@@bsp5689 It's called learning and doing better 😊

[@karengutloff2004]

Steve's expressions are cracking me up. That divorce lawyer missed the mark. But husband wasn't buying Steve's advice.

[@ParisHughes]

He gonna take her to red lobster and pop in madden as soon as he gets home. 😂

[@MsLaRue]

For real 😂😂😂

[@ocubex]

Wow, she looks 30-35, 40 tops. Ok so I game as well, but I have put a time limit which my loving wife allows, 2 hrs every Tuesdays and Thursdays evenings, sometimes longer if I am alone at home. But, if something comes up (birthday, annivarsary) or just that family needs me for something... EA Sports and FIFA 18 will have to be on their own. I asked her to marry me, she could have said no, I have to honour that yes with respect and the most important way to show that honour is how I spend (invest) my time.

[@autobotdiva9268]

if you wanna stay married better play FIFA on stormy days, christmas and thanksgiving and once or twice a week. you wont be married long

[@prncessbaby16]

Ocubex, can u tell my husband this? Omg

[@autobotdiva9268]

Cheyenne Michelle-Rena Sweetie thus shouldnt be a topic in a MARRIAGE. Even he sounds silly. Every time he playing FIFA ask for his crrdit card because you have a habit as well. Watch how THAT becomes an argument

[@prncessbaby16]

@@autobotdiva9268 I hate shopping, but yea I understand what you mean

[@ocubex]

Autobot Diva - that's what I said Tuesday & Thursday (twice a week).

[@elvinafernandes]

The husband looks like he escaped from the mad house. that is not a grown man, sad for this poor woman.

[@funmiade575]

Lol.

[@nazaninb8383]

Lmao it's so true

[@Everyoneisanartist776]

Don’t. She knew what she picked up.

[@Girlygirlsread]

And he’s been checked out of that marriage. The video game is escapism. He probably can’t afford a divorce and feels stuck. The look on his face when asked about her possible infidelity speaks volumes. He wishes she would cheat and leave him alone to his game. Poor woman. She’s beautiful and sexy. She could do so much better but here she is.

[@brendafontem3324]

Hahahsjaha dt was too raw

[@23imansaray]

I've seen stories of women divorcing their men because of their addiction to the game Fortnite. Some of these men need to grow up.

[@Pinky_Piie]

Isatu Mansaray it goes both ways men breakup with women for the same reason like having an addiction to something which causes problems

[@bustmancotcg618]

They don’t need to give up the game they just need to put their priorities straight first then the video games can come after.

[@StrongnBeautiful]

*Some*?? 😳

[@Pinky_Piie]

StrongnBeautiful yes not all men are addicted to video games 😋

[@AngusStewart01]

Scared Pikatchu face :

[@mistyb1u]

Therapist was looking real salty when Steve response was better then his... seems like he had to think up something to go a little harder.

[@fayepatrice1672]

He had a good point at the end though. He should have added that if he keeps ignoring her, that is exactly what will happen....

[@rocklanddivorce]

Steve tells it like it is. And I agree, his response was better than mine. I was trying to be nice. Steve gives it to him straight and didn't hold back. Thanks for watching!

[@mistyb1u]

@@rocklanddivorce so cool that you responded to lil ol me! You definitely brought it second go round and I'm sure this guy took that message to heart and is putting forth more effort to keep his wife happy!😊

[@rocklanddivorce]

Thanks for watching Mis Randi! Be sure to tune in October 9th for my next segment. We recorded it last week and it was the best one yet. Steve was on FIRE.

[@micdonmusic]

James J Sexton I thought playing the game together was a great idea.

[@1234pixy1]

That husband is slow... Something is wrong lol

[@atrailofsparkles]

I thought he was high... And i ain't talking weed

[@windycitiz9615]

😂

[@pattytoons]

To much videogames

[@joelhanan5956]

@@pattytoons thats not how that works.

[@siricybs767]

Seriously he does, no lolling

[@michaelpaniagua2836]

Steve is trying to create a divide and james is talking about a bridge. Huge difference

[@fitzyglamyt]

I feel like this man woke up and was married and doesn’t know how it happened

[@osirusj275]

This comment on fire... Lol

[@alena1vlog474]

Omg Hilarious and right on point comment 😂😂😂

[@ardadavidian6521]

😂👌🏻💯

[@user-sr1sg4ql9f]

On point. And his still very much asleep!!

[@sabrinasawh5155]

Did anyone see when Steve roll his eyes😂🤣😅😄

[@shaynaloveswiss1]

It's her birthday, nothing more important than celebrating life before you lose it!

[@dammee]

Feeling sad and neglected in your marriage is a dealbreaker.

[@MsLaRue]

That man wasn't trying to hear nothing Steve or the other guy had to say. It was all over his face 🙄 lol

[@Seasstryu1251]

50?! She looks in her thirties! And bro, do HER hobbies TOO.

[@candlecane]

Steve's expressions have me DYING! lmao!!

[@lexie02jones25]

The divorce lawyer is speaking from books knowledge and Steve is speaking from experience. And experience is wisdom.

[@aqsahi4514]

nope steve dnt know a damn about what a gamer feels when he was all day with his wife and she seems busy but as soon as he starts playing and in an online match she comes annd ask to spend time.....u have 2 choices leave the game and ruin it for ur friends or get blame for putting game before ur wife.....i am married and an online gamer.....i am speaking from experience...steve dnt have the experience to be a gamer and in a marriage...if its some offline game i would not take a minute to leave but online gaming is different

[@francissikazwe3237]

Exactly

[@GnarMarv2]

uhm.. he was married and has heard/learned more stories from divorced and successful couples about what makes and break marriages than anyone in this comment section.

[@Zinnie988]

The divorce lawyers is speaking from experience from actual clients who have come to him for divorce and his own experience. Between him and Steve, all bases are covered. Steve Harvey is the life observation wisdom, James Sexton is an attorney with a professional practice (not books).

[@AccordingtoWarren]

The lawyer actually has been through divorce as well.

[@ringfinger9919]

"He sits up 6 hours playing the game" Those are rookie hours.

[@bgntjohnson]

She seems like such a sweet person and she deserves so much better.

[@masterb2663]

ofcourse you will say that

[@yogamuslimah]

He looks like he's gonna cry when Steve said she needs a play day, a day when you play her husband 🤣

[@dcoleman4444]

She has to figure out how to make HIM feel like he feels when playing the video game? WTF? How about HIM making more of an effort? How about HIM growing the hell up?

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Exact!!! Wtf??!! And how old is this mofo? Looking like a fried sack of potatoes! Completely unintelligible and pathetic!! Man she should divorce his ar$e YESTERDAY!! I hope that 3 years on, his ar$e is on the curb! Let him feel him being left alone on the streets! He doesn't deserve her!!

[@brooklynforever1990]

He's a damn fool putting gaming over his wife. Keep it up buddy, you won't make it up to her 51th birthday 💅

[@naturesmusic1171]

Did you hear they been together 14yrs?

[@abbadumaine]

Wow, it's hard to hear where this fella is coming from. Bless his heart. The truth of the matter is really quite apparent.....it's a hard truth...she is a complete and healthy woman....he on the other hand. .....well, it's obvious..but the hope is that he can awaken to how lovely and ❤ loving she is....just look at the expressions on his face...bless his heart...

[@NBaBall3r26]

lmaoo "I got a game that day". U can always re-schedule, but not ur wife's birthday. I play games too but u can always change the schedule in your league.

[@martinmayes7487]

He look dead on the inside lol. He don't love her no mo. It's just cheaper to stay.

[@AngusStewart01]

Her husband is a mood 😂

[@leeleethev]

He looks like he lacks some intelligence in this marriage

[@iam3035]

Exactly, I don't understand what she sw in him to even marry this

[@realtalkwithphil]

Clearly not mentally mature

[@Who-mn4or]

Yeah he’s got some sorta problem

[@lametriusbutler9314]

Serious problem

[@morgandawn6413]

He looked pissed the whole time.

[@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju]

@@morgandawn6413 right? 😕😕😕

[@toih4027]

Yes, a Very very serious problem. A lot of women go on strike and he has a woman who actually wants him. That's crazy

[@soul2soul4]

Yeh, she's the problem....

[@tawanacalamari5712]

The husband looks about 22

[@unknowing203]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mzpurpl3princess]

He acts 22 too

[@ccdale5942]

Bc he plays all those video games he’s stuck in high school. How old is he ???!!!!!

[@neneyounge]

Nah, his face, especially eyes looks washed out and tired. He's slim with a hairline and that's why to some people he looks young

[@Probity100]

Tawana Calamari and a 14 year old mindset. What a waste of marriage 🥴

[@SET-sb7rm]

boy he ain't normal at all

[@DJtheDistraction]

salar tohidi because he’s doing something he enjoys?

[@Johnywang1]

omg. i used to game kinda excessively but i realized i had to cut back to focus on everything else i wanted to do in my life (familly, career, money, being in shape etc) . this is a good dose of reality for me. shii

[@garygrant6987]

Better advice. Man to man... “Grow up, man. You married her. Be a man.”

[@abygibson9978]

Steve faces is priceless lol !!!

[@Julie86Mac]

are

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Is he on the spectrum? Damn...no emotional intelligence.

[@peridozq9390]

Sadly there are a lot more men like that, once they put a ring on it they truly believe their work is done.

[@sammybee1929]

Thank you Steve!! Your facial expression represented my thoughts AND my own facial expressions 😒

[@TheChefval1]

True Steve. Tell it Steve.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

The couple was so lucky that the two great minds join together that were able to come up with a solution that will save their marriage.

[@balajic1495]

Steve is probably the most dumbest guy you can get any sort of marriage advice from. He has had two failed marriages. And the only reason he is with his 3rd wife now is because he is too old for the game. He knows that if he leaves Marjorie he can only get a gold digger as a partner.

[@WomanOfElegance]

Would love to meet James Sexton one day. Bought the book How to Stay in Love- Excited to read. He is a brilliant attorney although I pray I never end up in his office.

[@nola3963]

His name is Moral and the expert's last name is Sexton lmao

[@Take_Me_Back_To_The_1980s]

Every man deserves alone time, it's when we're alone that we work out solutions to problems and unwind, but 6 hours every day is over the top

[@tutia3260]

he should know how Lucky he is to have a gorgeous wife like that!

[@bismahahmed9389]

She 50?! Damn she looking amazing!! Xxx

[@grapejuice2819]

1:53 the Steve face!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omg!!!

[@kingastrzelec1356]

Wait she’s turning 50? Wow! Meanwhile he looks 18 and sounds like he’s 60 lol

[@sammybee1929]

What the heck! How're you going sit there and tell that woman to compete with a damn video game for her husband's attention?! She needs to let her absence be felt... that's what she should do...see if he can get some love from the game 😒😑

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Exactly!!! She should quietly LEAVE Make herself a feast of a meal!! Leave all the dishes in the sink! Leave all the dirty laundry on the floor! Leave all the crap around, and pack up her suitcase and leave quietly!! Not a word! Let him deal with all the fked up mess in finding she's gone!! He ain't even worth it!! Hope she divorces his ass!!

[@sammybee1929]

@@bluebellcrushedvelvet Prebloomingcisely!!!

[@christicrenshaw2772]

When he said what if you had a wife that didn't care when you come to bed but you have a wife that does want to spend time with you. That is what I dealt with for 20 years. Don't anymore. Got rid of him. Should of years before I did

[@Hon3yFactory]

Those two are a good duo.😊

[@valenciamber23]

She still has SO much life in her !!! She needs to leave and find someone who will appreciate her God bless her soul 🙏 ❤

[@rivensleyanelas4890]

KZbin recommendations is very funny today 👀

[@Cybraxas]

Would love to see the unedited version of this.

[@SwishMajor]

I love how they didn't ask him or demand that he quits doing what he loves and brings him peace and instead asked him to find a balance where his wife is happy and he can continue killing zombies on call of duty.

[@nawezajossardprosper8785]

this segment looked like a family meeting with james as dad and harvey as mom and me sitting while i have nothing to say just listening

[@asisiphoclay1568]

Steve's facial expression😂😂😂

[@seeyeah5172]

Damn Steve... tell him!

[@kellymary2444]

Anyone else think the title for his book would make you not want to choose him for help lol "if you're in my office, it's already too late" doesn't sound like a very hope filled message lol

[@mae1062]

He looks like he wanted to be at home playing games right now😂...smh

[@hairfanatic87]

He said victorious 😂

[@Gonzalez_Hope]

I’m in the same type of marriage and it sucks. Always going to bed alone.

[@Fang-Montessori]

Me too .... how is your marriage now?

[@Gonzalez_Hope]

@@Fang-Montessori Same 😞

[@sphephelombhamaly173]

these two make one hell of a team

[@PGcrazy6]

good valuable info on this video.

[@walenalivingprayingdancing4215]

Smh.....🤔🤔🤔🤔I tried to get her to play with me!🤣😅😅😂😂

[@Neri4x4]

.... Hmmm... Buying roses. 10 points. Buying a box of chocolates 20 points. Making her smile. 30 points. Her Meeting you was the best day of her life and you making her remember why she fell in love with you is a lifetime of points. Best husband trophy unlocked.

[@kaisaan5]

This lawyer is so CUTE😍😍😍😍

[@TheDominic1011]

But how old is he though?

[@Probity100]

Fourteen tops

[@The1baddman]

Probably early to mid 50s

[@Lena2light]

Steve, I pressed the subscribe button for darn’s sake!!!

[@lildel7698]

The marriage expert had really good advice

[@gravitatewithlove8386]

Steve I love your advice

[@kenojaye]

Lmfaooo something is wrong with this man

[@roseashley4363]

AWESOME!!!!

[@joelenecolon315]

Thank you steve! Tell em...

[@tracyaohikeni-prakash1564]

Good one 👏🏼👏🏼

[@stephme2686]

He looks like he doesn’t care to me 😂

[@squeet6831]

This man's facial expression has me weak.

[@RBLong0928]

Wow! He's all about himself.

[@inthemagicxxx2242]

Steve giving couple therapy a run for it’s money

[@anamariamartines5129]

I love Mr. Harvey 😍😍😍😍😍

[@fredyclifferd7448]

The dude was just like are we done ? Can I go play now .

[@saartiaipinge7347]

50 years girl??????? Waaaau you look amazingly younger 👌👌👌👏👏👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@JSmedic1]

This is a grown ass man. He needs to grow up to match his physical stature.

[@fable3625]

My husband is into Jujitsu and is in training. He invites me to his classes, and I go and watch. I let him show me things he is learning at home and i get involved. I would of never thought to do any of that before. But i found out i actually like it. She should try playing with him. Guys love to share the things they love with their woman.

[@2centsfreelancer]

Damn 50? l give her 40

[@patrynaswritings7617]

Good stuff

[@Harley24986]

I just play with my husband. There has to be a balance. Don't give up your games, but don't neglect your spouse either.

[@priyankachowdary3395]

See how easy it's to understand Steve's advice.

[@a.j.alriyadh2699]

That guy is on drugs. He dont give damn about they said..

[@mardyjoseph8203]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dgray9020]

You have proof he's on drugs

[@belinhandreelourenco]

I just love Steve. That therapist is a little bit fool. Don’t you think? Steve gave better advice. I just love uncle Steve

[@bradebronson8835]

He's a gaming addict. You can tell. I used to play crazy hours. He doesn't even wanna be there. He's for sure thinking of playing games at that very moment. No motivation to change. He needs something else to happen to him or for him to want to do something else. If they go on a vacation, 1 or 2 weeks. That gets him off the console for a bit. That would be the best time to cut down games.

[@perisndirangu1018]

The thing with married people ... they complain..about the same things .... even before they were married ...I bet the guy .... was playing video games even when they were both dating .. and that time the lady thought it was sexy and am sure they play video games together when they were dating .,.....these is a..” man child “ .. he dies not want to face life challenges that came with marriage ....man get it together

[@everydaylifewithtamantha2341]

My husband plays videos games and I have no problem with it. Like you said he was playing them when we were dating so since we married in not trying to change him. I play to, not as much as I use to, but I play. The only difference is my husband takes time to go to the movies when I want to. When I want date night I get it.

[@TheHappyPotatoe]

@@everydaylifewithtamantha2341 your husband's a gamer this dudes an addict I was on his side untill he said "but I could have a game that day" man it's your women's 50 birthday that only happens once in someone's life that game will always be there to play on the day after or when she has fallen asleep

[@peacheskong2245]

Yea...nope. He sounds like an addict and he looks like her son? Is he even 100%?

[@vsmith113]

They look good. Wow!

[@yrnnajib]

Y is he acting like me lmao I’m 15😹😹 Imagine doing that when ur married at around 50💀

[@husnakh5136]

That woman is surely a good wife! She tried hard !!!!!!

[@shanichadderton8267]

Grown men playing video games is like that is ludicrous to me.