James Sexton - Author and Divorce Lawyer : Interview and Q&A with Steve Harvey (Full Segments)

James J. Sexton, Esq. - Relationship Expert, Author and Divorce Lawyer Interview & Audience Q&A with Steve Harvey - 01/22/18
James J. Sexton, Esq. - New York City Divorce Lawyer and Author of "If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late : A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together" sits down with Steve Harvey to discuss love, marriage and common relationship issues.

[@babysab8013]

Damn. This guy has better advice then all relationship coaches and therapist put together 🤣 Thanks man

[@mmsutantowrites]

Mr. Sexton offers such pragmatic and simple advice without overwhelming people. He should offer his services as premarital adviser for people who are thinking of getting married. And Steve is brilliant too :)

[@jariusaliffwan8001]

James Sexton needs to have his own show!

[@rocklanddivorce]

Stay tuned!

[@jariusaliffwan8001]

@@rocklanddivorce I will! I bought your book, and I really enjoyed it.

[@realtalkwithphil]

@@rocklanddivorce 🤣👍🏾 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@kashbut]

It's been around 5 years that I'm sober from facebook..... no instagram, tik tok, etc....

[@Hetal28]

I love the fact the James is always rooting for love, togetherness and believing in goodness and possibility in relationships. You are a rare lawyer who actually promotes love ❤❤❤ Thank you Deep gratitude I did win the Marriage lottery 🤞

[@maylynbayani]

My husband and I always talk about the sex, what we enjoyed or what we want to try. Sex in marriage is not just enjoyable, it's secured. How will it get better if there's no pointers and no practice?

[@annrrf1464]

James Sexton is the real deal

[@el-sig2249]

For the nanny just get an older woman who's done raising her own kids, and needs the activity rather than the money. Marriage is like the lottery?! 🙄 No it's not an all-or-nothing!

[@perisndirangu1018]

I love these guy he has sound advice ... invite him at least once a week

[@hillingtonndlovu2415]

Well put James - thanks!

[@rustyrose1959]

If only my chances of winning the lottery was 50/50!!

[@renatabundz4807]

Dear Mr. Sexton, I love milion away from you. I admire your insight, charisma, Intelligence. Plus your look.

[@Nippy748]

Lol !!he is kina easy on the eyes 😆

[@rocklanddivorce]

@@Nippy748 - Thanks! You made my day with that comment! I can assure you, however, it's just the good lighting on the Steve Harvey Show.

[@Nippy748]

@@rocklanddivorce ,😄😄😄...sometimes we forget that the people in question actually read our silly comments ! Hope you're having a wonderful Christmas season 🌲

[@maylynbayani]

Im never hiring a young nanny. Id get one who is older, like my mother's age. That is not being insecure, it's being practical. There are nannies sho actually prey on financially stable husbands.

[@Zlnfgz]

Hope it works out for you.. considering that many men nowadays have a thing for the 'milf'... 😜😆

[@RoamingDoctors]

U r smart 😂

[@Nippy748]

Most of them ..and All over the world !

[@ahanachauhan1210]

Smart 🤣🤣🤣

[@headmondronary2127]

That didn't stop Arnold Schwarzenegger

[@stayuniqueafrica]

Wow thank you guys

[@sherrywilliams3691]

Wooow thanks James

[@Stillprecious06]

How do you not more subscribers?? You're so insightful! Edit: Who disliked this??

[@marjoriepouchie1756]

Love it. And so trye

[@munizanasir]

very good advices...

[@rocklanddivorce]

Thanks for watching Muniza!

[@AdamantMindset]

man all these people with trust issues, getting married.

[@gbierung]

I love James. very intelligent

[@rocklanddivorce]

Thanks Nicolas! Much appreciated!

[@medgolly7342]

If you want kids stay at home with the kids till least they start school is a fare compromise I believe otherwise have kids if you don’t have the time to raise until they start school !

[@architecture.w]

Yes, stay home with your children. Don't let your kids get raised by a communist pothead phone zombie at daycare.

[@realtalkwithphil]

A so called “Ugly Nanny” doesn’t stop a cheating man who wants to cheat. Dick don’t discriminate. Just keep temptations far away as possible from your marriage.

[@wyntamaxwell2766]

The guy is very intelligent. Is breathtaking watching him

[@mariajutah9059]

Cheating is decision! It's nothing more or less

[@nothumanff5900]

Husband and wife should give the phone password to the partner

[@realkg8573]

James Sexton is cute the nanny advice is incredible

[@rocklanddivorce]

Thanks! But I assure you, he's not that cute in person. The Steve show just has really good lighting/hair/makeup people.

[@silvershadow7655]

If he's sleeping with his secretary, problems in the marriage aren't the reason why - he is doing it because he is choosing his urges/wants over more noble/mature options such as communicating and working on the relationship...or ending the marriage. A relationship will always have ups and downs - cheating is not the appropriate response.

[@carloscantgame]

Cheating is a byproduct, an outcome, a result, a consequence. The "problems in the marriage" can simply have been that the person who cheated always showed red flags such as lack of interest, no motivation, no effort etc yet the partner chose to ignore and put up with that.

[@brutustantheiii8477]

NOT Necessarily, if she is refusing to meet his needs and holding him hostage. Because men get screwed in divorce, he may be there out of self preservation or the love of his children.

[@silvershadow7655]

@@brutustantheiii8477 He can be there out of self-preservation and love of his children without cheating / having an affair.

[@Cynthia-ti4tb]

@@brutustantheiii8477 all I’m reading is a bunch of excuses

[@TheSophisticatedSavage]

Did she see Schwarzenegger nanny......

[@kubraebrahim2473]

No young nanny.

[@BernardoTrindadeAbreuTA]

Hello!

[@perisndirangu1018]

Steve he meant .. the Clint was into feet meaning he has foot “feedish “..

[@rangashalom6165]

" Fetish " foot fetish

[@Angell_Lee]

What's wrong with being into feet lmao, as if they are blind to the different turn on people have.

[@brutustantheiii8477]

IKR. Dan savage himself said that to give up the foot person who would manifest their likes as a foot massage, is insane when there are actually disgusting things out there

[@BoltGamer-sy4iy]

Nanny thing: Why would you be worried about your husband if you are satisfying your husbands every need. There's two side to stepping out: Opportunity (hiring a hot nanny) and REASON (he's not content with the quantity and/or quality of the sex he is already getting). If you hire an "ugly" nanny, you haven't solved the REASON, only the OPPORTUNITY.

[@littleripper312]

Don't hire a young nanny... Get a 45+ year old. They're likely to be better anyways.

[@AndreaB_SlaveofAllah]

My God too late for me to know

[@chaellExE]

@@AndreaB_SlaveofAllah sorry for your loss

[@shodapad07]

No single rain drop is responsible for the flood.

[@mizzstar21]

Marriage like a lottery? No I don’t agree with that one. It’s not up to chance it’s up to choices.

[@marcuslouison3998]

True ... That was a HORRIBLE analogy.

[@corneliaeleanore3215]

That's what you think at first. It depends on how many years you spent together before... sometimes you only discover the real person once you marry :(

[@alandj7]

That's not what he was saying! He was talking about the odds of success not human effort. He was strictly speaking about numbers.

[@ReasonAboveEverything]

It's more like Texas hold'em.

[@ganjagangja]

You cannot have control over what your partner does or how they may change. While it is in our power to vet a person as well as possible , it's not our choice If they disrespect us or the relationship.

[@ambruskocsis6559]

Is James Sexton married?

[@Nippy748]

🤣🤣you asking for a friend ?

[@Nippy748]

Asking for a friend and her cousin 😃

[@flaviam4111]

Is that long tie a signal to some demographics ? It put me off right away.

[@me23435]

Goodness he's justifying men cheating 😩😩😩😩

[@joelvedamony]

How so?

[@xsuzannex]

🙄 you clearly haven't listened to anything

[@ROWNECK911]

#footfetish

[@arc8696]

4:20 thanks for mentioning that. Fetish people are still shamed for their desire, while everyone thinks being gay or lesbian is ok . It's crazy..

[@elizabethle3460]

Being gay is okay

[@chengsgroup2518]

too much work...

[@tawanacalamari5712]

Sir James..........the suit doesn't fit you, great suit but it should fit you, its too big =)

[@rocklanddivorce]

I lost a bunch of weight (40 pounds) and needed to buy some new suits (the old ones were too big). I've since got some new ones that fit much better. Thanks for watching Tawana and for taking the time to comment!

[@georginahatch3244]

Get a 65 granny

[@Upliftment4u]

It’s not too late for God.

[@SummerHFranklin]

I'm from Bangladesh my need a girlfriends

[@Ellamojoko]

You don't know who invented water ? haven't you heard of Jesus?

[@rocklanddivorce]

I knew he walked on it...

[@ks-vd2gm]

@@rocklanddivorce 😂

[@Allahis1andonly199]

Jesus is just a prophet that prays to God. God is one as it stated in Bible itself

[@Teeconsultingg]

James J Sexton 🤣

[@kushaq1173]

Ella Mojoko 😂😂🙏🐃

[@healingypsy]

He's pretty hot that Sexton, apart from those tattoos

[@rocklanddivorce]

It’s all filters and camera angles. In real life he’s nothing much to look at. And I hear the tattoos are the press-on temporary kind. He puts them on every morning. 🤣

[@healingypsy]

@@rocklanddivorce Oops, I wasn't expecting that. I'm sorry ☺. Stick on tattoos or not, I think he looks rather nice

[@annrrf1464]

Hire a lesbian nanny?

[@rocklanddivorce]

You might have finally "solved" this problem with that suggestion! Well done! (Unless the wife runs off with the nanny - which, in my book, I discuss a case where precisely that happened!)

[@annrrf1464]

@@rocklanddivorce I am buying your book as I type.

[@oxcafeoxbabe]

​@@rocklanddivorcelol checkmate

[@simmonetaylor5896]

Marriage is like the lottery? That is one of the most uneducated comments I've heard in regards to marriage.

[@gabriellawarning913]

I have actually heard many older people say this. Of course he doesn't mean this in the exact way since you can literally influence the odds of 'winning' but on some level marriage is still a game of chance.