How To Stop Being A Fixer 🛠

[@workoutteach8049]

Wow, this was as if you were talking directly to me. Thank you for sharing this!

[@TheGrowthMarriage]

So glad it was helpful!

[@greys7734]

this was exactly what I needed to hear. I came to KZbin looking for advice as my partner is a fixer. after watching your video fully, I realised that a lot of people in my life are or were fixers, including me. thank you for your wisdom, I hope to share this with my partner too.

[@rubenb9432]

Thanks for the “word vomit” analogy. Very useful and actionable.

[@TheGrowthMarriage]

It's one of my favorites. Glad it was helpful.

[@Sja-juanaHall-jn1mn]

You are all in my business and that’s a good thing!

[@Alchemuma]

OMFG I pushed my relationship too hard and I died because of this. Jesus Christ. I’m so glad you’re here to show me how damaging I’ve been…

[@kathyashcraft2774]

Great Advice!

[@user-me8th3zv1m]

Great advice! Exactly what I needed to hear.

[@janetblickle7924]

Thank you your video is so helpful.

[@Xxaion]

Right but the first thing that comes to my mind is "isn't always being there with your metaphorical trash can just another way of being a fixer?" It's like I just heard a "better way" or "more effective way" of fixing other people's problems. What really fucks me up is finding a proper line between setting boundaries and being there for those that I love. More often than not, I'm fuckin spoonless, man (spoons = mental/emotional energy). How do I give enough to feel like I'm being a good partner/friend/etc. but also set enough boundaries to keep my sanity?

[@sugerfreecandy4874]

It’s agonizing to listen to them …!! And if they could fix they own problems we wouldn’t have to listen to them.

[@Angee82111]

So ultimately you found a way to fix it lol