How To Stop Being A Passive Parent

[@aprilthernandez]

This was the 6th video in a row that I binge watched yesterday before I went to the website and completed the 12 step module... Now I'm reading your book on Kindle, Popular parenting methods and next with be House Limited, I think, or something similar to that. But I prayed for this help and now I thank God for your ministry. You have no idea how desperate I was but joy and calm are with me this morning 🙏

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

Look at you go! I love it! Keep it up!

[@smile4iluvya]

Thank you, Nocholeen, for knowledge, wisdom, and skills you pass along. They've realy blessed my family!

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

You are so welcome!

[@infinitefaith697]

I am grateful i found your channel, thank you so much Nicholeen you are a great help to us. Our son is 12 years now. I hope that it is not too late for us.

[@starbug345]

It’s never too late.

[@christineb2640]

Awesome ❤interview very helpful

[@YoutubePoliceUnit]

Thank you for this video; it is very informative and spot on!

[@lynetteevans5751]

Way to go! Thanks for sharing!

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

My pleasure!

[@brittanywintch2906]

I love these videos! I would love to do this program. I wish that they were explained a little more. It's a lot of info, I'm not sure I understand how to incorporate it. What do the one on one meetings look like? Do you mention behavior issues? Ask them about their life? Anything you want to ask them?

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

Great questions, Brittany! The one-on-one meetings are called Mentor Meetings. This is where you talk about certain topics that you revisit each time and set goals and create short-term visions with your children. These are some of my favorite meetings. This is where we talk about school, social life, religious goals/aspirations, family relationships, new milestones, etc. Sometimes this goes into behavior issues and setting goals to overcome negative behaviors or develop and refine positive behaviors. If I wanted to address a specific behavior in detail, I would have what is called a Parent Counseling Session. This is where I pull my child aside and we talk about that one specific behavior, what is happening and what needs to change. Here are a couple links to some articles on my website that could help you understand a bit more about Mentor Meetings: teachingselfgovernment.com/parenting-blog/the-artificial-extension-of-childhood/ teachingselfgovernment.com/parenting-blog/mentor-sessions-change-the-tide/ As far as learning more about our programs, here's a link that will take you to all of them so you can explore each one. teachingselfgovernment.com/store-category/courses-coaching/

[@ThaliaEatsDonuts]

I’m confused I told an ADA therapist for the family I work for that I really like their parenting style because it’s more closer to gentle parenting, the Ada therapist said it was “passive parenting” so being curious I looked it up but your videos make it sound negative