How to Stop Being DESPERATE when Looking to SETTLE DOWN! | How to be Classy when Single

[@elizabethpace1591]

In my younger years I had low self esteem which resulted in me tolerating poor treatment. Today I won’t condone any bad behaviour, manipulation etc. Thank you for sharing this, such an excellent video 🙂🎄

[@cordeliachinelo2604]

I absolutely agree with all you said. Unfortunately we're living in a world where decency, or values are no longer trending.

[@darrellhicks360]

Never “shack up.” It cheapens you.

[@3xyrz]

i hate how that’s the new norm

[@britneyt9253]

What does shack up mean

[@lvettesonai]

The moral, spiritual and feminine factor is key.✅💐 My boyfriend courted me ! All I had to do is show up and be myself. The self he fell for. We were married within 6 months of meeting and have been happily married for 22 years. ❤ Evenly yoked in all ways. #jwcouple

[@AnsiArazaharah]

If you don't mind share with me tips that has kept your marriage moving forward.And may God bless your marriage

[@mameafrane1725]

In my Ghanaian culture I was raised to believe men take care of women. In America you see women take care of responsibilities of men; especially educated women. I can never understand this. No matter how much you make, men has a nature an Ego that get bruised when women do this. Let the men lead.

[@britneyt9253]

Hi, just curious, I’m African but raised in the US. I just graduated college and work in tech so make pretty good money already. As im dating I feel like many of the guys don’t make as much. Do you think it’s risky to be with a guy like this even if values, and other things align? I don’t want to be the breadwinner because I want him to be the leader and to be the more masculine one. I also know down the line when kids and all that come in the picture, the woman being the bread winner ontop of everything will ultimately weigh her down and I don’t want this for myself. What should I do? I obvs dont want to just quit my job. Atleast not rn lol

[@missioncalming7172]

I LOVE this channel and this video. It is teaching me some overdue lessons of elegance.

[@raquelsantana.]

This is gold!!!

[@mammabear8rvincent541]

Appreciate all you have said🙏❤️

[@darrellhicks360]

I’ve been single since 1988. It’s peaceful.

[@mercygem2542]

Really?😂😂

[@vereniedavis9755]

I have been single since 1990 I am happy and absolutely will not settle. Being alone is better than being in a dysfunctional relationship.

[@mariaw.4780]

I believe it's time that more women as well as men took note of the importance of not living together before marriage. The reasons for premarital cohabitation have proven time and time and time again for decades now to be self-defeating. Since the 1970s, when cohabitation began to become less taboo, more popular, we've come to see the actual evidence of what actually happens. We need to learn from this. This is not to point fingers or even to be prudish: it's just sensible, honest evidence for a better life as far as relationships are concerned.

[@jennyunscripted86]

Vivian love you❤❤❤❤❤. Since I started following you, I've changed a lot for better. I needed this sooooooo much, thank you❤

[@rachelsweetsoul]

This episode contains so much wisdom for my fellow elegant women ✨💖

[@IMLovelydove23]

Thank you for sharing this information

[@ameryek.9607]

A proper girlfriend gift, in case you are wondering, is : books, a cap, a muffler or scarf, maybe sunglasses, a picnic basket lunch. That's it! Possibly concert tix if he's treated you enough. Don't do anything else, ladies!😮

[@ninawestlake14]

I only gift men cheap, but thoughtful gifts. Never live in with a man you're not married to. I know some women will say that it's good for getting to know him,but tbh that is a pile of bullocks,as you can get to know someone in a million other ways such as traveling with them or just simply by spending time otherwise and studying their mindsets etc. It doesn't take an entirity to know the important things about someone.

[@bibistella3436]

Thank you Vivian . Your videos are always worth my time.

[@darrellhicks360]

If he won’t propose on his own volition, move on.

[@marvelous2430]

Thank you for the wonderful video. You’ve lifted my spirit, we love you in Florida!!

[@oliviagilmore8125]

Great video! Thanks for sharing!

[@TalktoJanetAdedeji]

This is timely. Thank you. 🤗❤

[@lmusima3275]

Vivienne, I must say you look absolutely gorgeous ❤❤ great video. Glad you covered this issue

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much!

[@EMKA-oo8gh]

I agree with you

[@debbiedorsey2371]

Love this video! Thank you!

[@preciousglory6735]

Well done.❤ Beautiful you and hair

[@esthermutua1287]

Thanks alot for this greatful lesson point taken am single and am glad coming across this powerful tips

[@nkechiharriette8380]

Am satisfied 😌

[@NancyKargbo-h8j]

Thanks a billion ma❤

[@AlC-k2j]

This video is GOLD. Thank you so much. May I ask you please to provide the separate links for the outfits you are wearing? There are thousands to look through and I am wanting to seek out only the stunning outfits you have so kindly shared here. My grateful thanks from New Zealand

[@WomanOfElegance]

Thank you so much! Sure. I've added a separate link to each piece for you❤️

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

Well said. I agree with everything 💋

[@Angela-bv1py]

Has anyone seen the show “The Ultimatum” on Netflix. What are your thoughts?

[@estheropara6690]

Thank you

[@3xyrz]

lol you should see that subreddit called waiting to wed

[@ZakiaAshaba]

❤❤❤❤

[@janettemccuien4249]

It is not blessed by GOD Almighty for a woman or man to live together with out marriage.

[@nearthemeadow]

I agree with most of what you said but living with someone can make you see sides you'd never have imagined before. It can be a powerful wake up call that you two are not made to be together. Also, why would the lady be cleaning and cooking ? That is the case in some relationships but you're not his mother so he can cook and clean as well.

[@ameryek.9607]

💙 Thanks, Vivian. But so-called "woke culture" has nothing to do with this issue! (But I am so tired of hearing women being compared to cows,ok? Can't think of a better analogy?)

[@stephaniedegange2737]

please close the gap between your first and second button. thank you for your great advice..

[@darrellhicks360]

Men need women. Women don’t need men.

[@mameafrane1725]

We need each other.

[@EMKA-oo8gh]

I agree with you