How To STOP CARING What People Think Of You & BUILD MASSIVE CONFIDENCE | Rob Lowe & Jay Shetty

Four decades in film, television and theater, two New York Times bestsellers, multiple Emmy, Golden Globe, and Screen Actors Guild Award nominations, and a touring show - no one could accuse Rob Lowe of taking it easy. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty sits down with the iconic actor to talk about his life and new podcast.
Listen in to learn more about Rob Lowe’s journey from stardom to rock bottom and back again.
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[@tryingthings9036]

These words "never compare your inside to some else's outside".

[@jonnycpardoe]

Love that one too. The outside doesn't always reflect the inside.

[@dailyaffirmations9496]

To anybody who’s reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life.

[@javeriyafathima6247]

That's so sweet of you. Wish you loads of happiness too

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[@drewsson]

To whoever is reading this, know that you will be OKAY. Good things are going to happen moving forward. 👏✨

[@MindNow]

Yes brother! Exactly!

[@kochaliaarina6927]

Wish you the same

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Same to ypu!

[@cplrobben4456]

💯

[@ritunaik666]

U too dear one❤❤

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

"Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value." --Albert Einstein

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💯❤️

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[@jonnycpardoe]

Oh love this quote! Thank you.

[@ashokjadhav2164]

One of the greatest mental freedoms is really not caring what people think about U!

[@cplrobben4456]

💯❤️

[@lanag9318]

I agree with you completely on all of this . Thank you for beautiful truth being spoken. God bless you brother. 🌹💖💖🎉

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@tonygee6418]

Rob Lowe is actually a guy I really look up to. He's so positive and he exudes a lot of inner and outer strength, besides looking so youthful

[@valerielove9837]

Well said

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@YourUnlockedPotential]

When I started my channel about self improvement two months ago, I found myself more motivated and inspired to do what I love. Thank you for encouragement, Jay! 🙂🙂

[@rosannastremlau5036]

Rob Lowe is amazing. His depth, journey, humility, humor, and his answer to Q4 ... what a wonderful interview. Thank you, Rob and Jay!

[@MindNow]

*By knowing that there actually is no self. It takes work to get to there and I’m on my journey to that. However, another way to think of how to overcome fear of judgement is “you only live once”* 🙏

[@cplrobben4456]

❤️

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@ReganHillyerCoach]

Stop comparing yourself to anyone. You are YOU

[@cplrobben4456]

Jay shetty is the myan!! A true inspiration, if you guys want a little more Motivation! I would appreciate the love and support

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

He really is!

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Jaxx - Inspire Grow Create 💯✊

[@auralunaa]

You're the man 😉

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@alrightsky]

I love how humble he got after he explained the vision he'd had. If I was doubting him, that would definitely have made me listen more if I wasn't already glued to this video. I'm not religious myself, but I believe he experienced that to 200% and it sounds amazing. This was an amazing interview, one of my favorites in a while, I can't wait to see Jay on his podcast!

[@javeriyafathima6247]

Jay Shetty ❤️❤️, Thank you for not letting us feel low anytime and helping to be courageous, for inspiring a huge community.

[@donnameals6921]

Wow, fan of Rob Lowe since the 80’s.... so glad to hear about his avatar experience.... just arriving at that same realization to ... do the support of knowing ‘ I’m not crazy ‘. Is FAB! Cheers Jay and Rob!

[@LulaS]

Amazing, as always! What a coincidence! My latest video was exactly about this same theme: overcoming the desire to please other people!

[@garimarao7229]

I was just cutting pictures that I doodled and finished cutting 10 sheets listening to this,first time I have finished Jay's Podcast in a go! Really an amazing one

[@christierocheleau6959]

This is one of my favorite interviews of urs! Ur just so good at it! And Rob Lowe! What a genuinely great guy! 👍❤

[@kewalpatil]

I don’t mean to trivialise the episode after rob lowe talks about his heart and life, but he looks so good for his age!!! Skin is flawless, he is so handsome!!

[@valerielove9837]

I noticed that too.i think because he has a loving wife. Family and prays extra he is balanced in life.j.m.o.

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@snowlystyles4398]

Thanks a lot Sir!!! Love all your video. They are really amazing. Really Inspiring.... 💕💕💕❤️

[@theralphies777]

Sending so much 💜 from Canada 🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@shikastormcrow6224]

Love what Rob said about time not being linear, and us already being there with our loved ones. You're not crazy Rob!!! x'D

[@monicalawler8590]

Love your work Jay. You ask such great questions.

[@LizzyLoo-ng7ui]

This was great - enjoyed it very much. Thanks!!

[@patchouleigh_]

Thank you, Jay, for providing positive , uplifting & extremely eye-opening content. Sometimes a person just has to have down-time online, so it's nice to know there is this type of content that promotes wellbeing, rather than draw away from it. Now to watch the video.....it's going to be good, IT'S JAY !!!☀️

[@samatarmohamed1777]

if we want to move on fast lets find a friend but if we want to move on truly lets find ourselves

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[@surbhichaudhary7978]

Lots of love from india 💥♥️

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❤️

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[@sherinadaryanani4392]

Loved this!

[@eddier.6749]

Great fun and interesting interview. Thank you.

[@MuhammadMI]

Nice content mate stay blessed!

[@ViewTifuLKat777]

The end is what got me..cuz I totally believe in what Rob is feeling..not the exact simlimilarity but I get that spiritual feeling. I appreciate an actor to be real and come out about this stuff cuz like he said, you will look crazy but not all minds will understand this at the time but this is amazing content 😊

[@dir_esf.]

Thank u Jay

[@Fabianelaube]

I loooved this interview, especially the "Avatar" part :-)

[@happyhobo2217]

Great content for 5 minutes then abrupt interjection of advertisement for 10 minutes. Any way they could all go to the beginning or end???

[@DannyLTerry]

LOVED THIS!!!

[@sonakshikaushik3048]

Great great and highly informative 👏👏

[@UtkarshBegiens]

It is well deserved No.- 1 health podcast in the world 🙌🙌

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[@menuchacolish]

excited to see this

[@Loving_her_is_a_losing_game]

Thanks you for using simple English rather than bulky words during conversation it was easily understandable....✌️

[@shikastormcrow6224]

Sooo very true about just letting our body do what it needs to do and that we feel it most when we finally stop running around ragged to simply sit with ourselves. Thank you Rob and Jay ^_^

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Love u jay Shetty ❤️❤️

[@drumsnbass]

Be true to yourself first and foremost. Be your own best friend. If others don’t accept you, move on. There are billions of pp in the world and some of them will accept you for who you are.

[@naghmehnekouei4310]

I enjoyed this podcast episode aloooot

[@shannon150]

I love this!!!

[@vaibhavborde1689]

Really good. 👍

[@malibulemonade5385]

Way too many commercials. Non-stop. Jay is this your On Purpose?? $$$$$

[@manchukondanandini9234]

Fan of Jay Shetty Motivator of you 😍💓💓

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Jayyyyy😍😍

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Yes!!!

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Very nicw!

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Love it

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Perfect....

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Hi ! Lowe is still young looks good

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Hi! Long time no see

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Hello from Malaysia 🤗

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Topic is something and don’t know if they talk about the topic more than ad minutes

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Great video 👌😂😂

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

When you let go of what others think and focus on creating a positive opinion of yourself, happiness will come much more frequently in your life.

[@MindNow]

You said it ma man!

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[@WilliamJonesChess]

37:10 Curly from 3 stooges, Clint Eastwood and Ghandi. The 3 archetypes you can be.

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*MIND-BLOWING

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Hello from New Zealand 🌈

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I have some brothers up there in 🇳🇿 , love the place

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Hi brother I'm from tamilnadu state in India I like life changing book reading's so what are all the book changeed u r life? If u have any u r favorite u r life changing book recommended me 🙏🙏🙏

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Lots of love from West Bengal. 😍🥰

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Sending that love back to you!

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@@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 It's my Pleasure Yrr. 😍🥰😍🥰. Thanks❤❤❤❤. By the way, Where are you from????

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@@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 Recently I visiting your channel. Woooow Bro - what a inspirational and motivational and philosophical channel. I'm just blown away while watching Your videos. Great work yrr. Thus keep it up. Lots of love from this Bengali Boy. Thanks from my profound core of my heart❤❤❤❤❤. this type of man like you to be needed in today's world.

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@@nirmalmandal4707 Thank you! I truly appreciate it! So glad it resonates with you

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@@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 Your most welcome. 😍🥰😍🥰👍👍🤝🤝🙏🙏👫💕💕💕💕💕.

[@andreannepelletier623]

Maybe you know.. about the afterlife. Maybe it's not only that time is not linear. Maybe it's also that we're BOTH here AND there? ❤️

[@queenb4890]

Clint Eastwood, Gandi and who is 3rd ?

[@MMijdus]

Why the marketing talk at the beginning?

[@YM-kk6jv]

It seems he’s been seeing dr Richard nygard

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😍😍😍 #optimistJaspreet

[@elizabethshort6347]

Jay I love you and your topics but all the commercials...your topics are much to important for all these disruptions. I understand why but did you forget your true value ?

[@cheryledwards4043]

I don't think you are crazy. I've had the same type of dreams and wish I could have them again.

[@shivanipawar2090]

I had breakup 6 days ago n I'm literally feeling bad he tried to judge me and didn't trust me 😫

[@cplrobben4456]

You deserve better, focus on yourself and just move on being the best person you can be!

[@shivanipawar2090]

@@cplrobben4456 thanks but it really hard for me .I will focus on myself.

[@patchouleigh_]

Aww, man, that sucks. Hang in there. Put love for yourself first until this makes any sense, and until it doesnt hurt so much.

[@weeble3140]

That one part bout humility...😢😭

[@MollyPetrone1]

I’m having a difficult time getting into the show now with the constant ad interruption... sorry jay bu it’s worse than cable. Love the show though

[@loveme77527]

ROB: CHECK OUT DR. STEVEN GREER'S NEW DOCUMENTARY CE-5! HIGHLY SUGGEST!💯

[@ellaandthecellar]

15 commercials 🙄 really?

[@SurvivorRevive]

Does he also talk about the damage inflicted on his victim in the 80's? So incredibly short-sighted of you to put a rapist on here, Jay. Would have been way more compelling to interview the 16 year old he raped and how it has impacted her life rather than his "rock bottom." Can't wait for the day when we stop coddling predators like this. Also, I simply cannot trust the content of someone who is promoting health and well-being while not giving two shits about the survivors who watch his content. I was on the fence with the celebrity content to begin with but this was the icing on the cake. Do better.

[@Cindyscrossstitch]

I couldn't even watch with all the commercials, rediculous.

[@jonnycpardoe]

Frustrating, I agree totally! I keep getting the same irrupting ones following me around.

[@prashantkaundal7677]

Reply the video, after dragging it to the end. All utube ads will be removed

[@lynsey-diane6643]

But, Jay......Why are almost ‘all’ the people you find ‘fascinating’ so-called ‘celebrities’. There are ordinary people living extraordinary lives all over the world - unsung heroes. How about interviewing genuinely interesting amazing people....

[@syedmajidahmed8292]

Binod

[@pranavbhiungade6754]

Hey Jay, I Just Wanted to Know Are u Indian?

[@s4n.lyyy111]

His name sounds like Indian, right? Jay shetty

[@pranavbhiungade6754]

@@s4n.lyyy111 Yes,A south Indian.. maybe

[@elizavagena3804]

How about we as society stop digging one another's grave for starters????

[@TenzDenz]

And not a single word of Money 😜

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[@TenzDenz]

I have said this before I will say it again. Please talk about dark side of human. Next time. Human life cannot be complete without that

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Plz adopt me plzzzzzzzz

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666 view

[@jitumanidas2655]

Sir(Jay Shetty) ,are u from India ???🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔....U seem to be like one... Seriously.. 🙄🙄🙄🙄