View your rivals as sparring partners that help you become better instead of viewing them as your enemy's.
@varunv25844 жыл бұрын
View your sparring partners as your opponents so you will take it more seriously and it feels more real rather than some silly tango dance.
@MakeDemocracyMagnificientAgain2 жыл бұрын
View your rivals as for what they appear to be moment by moment and don't get lost in mental mindf*ck!
@joeford51815 жыл бұрын
I feel alive. Thanks.
@aint.sarcastic Жыл бұрын
This is all I needed to ignite the fire in me. I want to be competitive in a healthy way and it fuels the drive in me.. thanks alot ❤❤❤
@kavitaiyer99712 жыл бұрын
Brett's Ted talks are some of few good ones, that actually gives you some actionable content.
@ethangilbert7305 Жыл бұрын
If you strive to get better than you can help others strive to get better. When others become better than you, then all it means is that you have more to learn and that’s exciting
@andrewjoyce7374 Жыл бұрын
7:15 A season of Life by Joe Ehrmann illustrates Compete With not Against!
@marlonbravo94665 жыл бұрын
Great video! This video deserves more views.
@MrKevin11447 жыл бұрын
Comparing is competing
@christinalim23206 жыл бұрын
Kevin Settle Well comparing is more telling someone that they are worst/better than you while competing is more actually trying to be soo much better than someone
@PersianLeonidus5 жыл бұрын
Competing is active. Comparing is passive.
@SeenaTabatabai4 жыл бұрын
So when your feeling lazy use others got it, come on now you guys know the rule there are no rules you absolutely dont need anyone as motivation, there is probably a universal law that benefits the other person over you if you use them as motivation, you know what...it is called the law of compensation.
@TheBasedAustralian427 ай бұрын
There is absolutely no way that Abby chick is the best soccer player in the world! Are you serious?
@christopheraguirre61723 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this, thanks😔
@franzhaas55972 жыл бұрын
Finally a TED Talk that actually had meat in it and not somebody trying to sell themselves. I actually learned something from this thank you
@yallitsfay5 жыл бұрын
We watch this at the beginning of the soccer season and when Abby said “the reality is” all the returners started laughing because our coaches say it all the time and we were all like “it’s spreading”
@user-kh5un1jj5s4 жыл бұрын
100%
@shakiagriffith28983 жыл бұрын
Great message! I need to hear this message.😍
@andrewjoyce7374 Жыл бұрын
3:00 "Don't pray that God will use you. Pray that God will make you usable" -Andrew Wommack
@GaryDuell Жыл бұрын
Competition in sports is fine because it's almost entirely in public view. But the less public our behaviors are the more likely we are to compromise on what's ethical and legal, especially in capitalism. Those are key words, "healthy" and "rivalry". Collaboration works best for large, broad and long term problem-solving.
@REEMA7215 жыл бұрын
My coworker is my partner and I really love this idea, because I want her to succeed but but I want to be more successful. Thank you for this.
@japonesa51863 жыл бұрын
Good Monday chat.... let’s do this!
@kamerondonaldson5976 Жыл бұрын
except the only thing standing in between me and claiming success is other people's interference. not to say help is categorically unwanted, just that most people do not intend to help but actively try to hinder, or if they do try to help they are so incompetent at it that they make matters worse. i've been on both sides of that experience too, i myself have hindered and incompetently helped others.
@-khelfallah50324 жыл бұрын
what do you guys think?
@aleenasaha9863 жыл бұрын
Tres fooli napsty
@el-chapo80942 жыл бұрын
That's what's that🥰
@hetedeleambacht66083 жыл бұрын
can we translate that to relations between countries worldwide?? Piece on earth is not impossible if you think of it this way
@fulophuller13903 жыл бұрын
"In competition we go head to head, trying to get the best out of each other, that's the point of competition" - Dan Bailey
@isynciswim73825 жыл бұрын
This guy is a genius!!
@pintooo13593 жыл бұрын
This is great. Thank you!
@el-chapo80942 жыл бұрын
Sam doesn't do that☺️💗🦸
@edalogo76052 жыл бұрын
This is mind blowing mindset for me
@3lo0osal793 жыл бұрын
زين بس لا
@el-chapo80942 жыл бұрын
Moving
@elidel32994 жыл бұрын
Eneriged my mind
@shankerbhatt3073 жыл бұрын
This is a very well presented talk. I recently did on competition in education. I am not a pro-competition guy but you have some very good points. There is much to discuss on this. Being competitive to me is not something that can be accepted simply. It’s like the side effects of antibiotics. People may keep taking it even under a doctor’s prescription but would not accept that there is a limit to it. And, when that limit does arrive - it arrives when even big guns end up at the other spectrum of age and capacity - how that serves them without having gone through the training into self knowledge. Bruce Li is a great example and he did it well as a competing as well as self seeking legend. There is much to learn and exceptions won’t suffice the discussion. Self seeking is what would help actual competing (I would rather use, playing) without comparison. Thank you.
@anybodynoname87676 жыл бұрын
His talk isn't so clear, so what does he now want?
@fazilates8085 жыл бұрын
instead of going against and being hateful about what someone has achieved. respect him and his work and try to be better than him and thankful that there is someone who pushes you to the limit.
@rocketman_752 жыл бұрын
How about saying thinking, ...Joe's your competition, "Hey Joe, give me your best shot, give me something to shoot for". Is the a healthy thought? You're wanting Joe to do his best and you are saying it will that his best effort to outperform you. Are you not giving your competitor positive encouragement?
@rationalistfaith4 жыл бұрын
Good talk but "Abby Wambach" is best soccer player of all time?! How can you say that when high school boys are destroying women's pro soccer team? Again, good talk, but try to stay objective rather than pick samples that pander to PC culture. Else your talk will become stale as quickly as political trends come and go.