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Breeny Lee

Breeny Lee

4 жыл бұрын

HOW TO: STOP COMPARING YOURSELF
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@milaniinalim3357
@milaniinalim3357 4 жыл бұрын
‘Comparison is an act of violence against the self’
@tidimalomogami319
@tidimalomogami319 4 жыл бұрын
I hate that you apologized for gaining weight I mean who cares you still shine sis, but as you said if you don't like it change it. I'm also on my journey for getting rid of extra fat, so whoever who's also in this journey too comment so we can group and encourage each other and give tips. I love you too Breeny and all you friends 🥰🥰💃
@manijaan5276
@manijaan5276 4 жыл бұрын
Very true
@TheErikapal20
@TheErikapal20 Жыл бұрын
I love this
@FlexNFly
@FlexNFly 4 жыл бұрын
Comparison is such a sneaky little thief it has never served our fullest self. In a way, we dishonor God by comparing ourselves to others. I truly believe that when God created each of us, took his time and when he finished, he was sure of himself about us. So when we look at others and compare our beauty, our life, our talent, anything... In many ways we are saying to him, you didn't do a good enough job with me. And that is a damn lie. that's why comparison is the thief of joy and gratitude.
@je39981
@je39981 4 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@idocovers847
@idocovers847 4 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what it is. We definitely need to stop it. The devil is a liar
@leonaandreea6458
@leonaandreea6458 4 жыл бұрын
I think a part of it is because we think that our partners for example are comparing us to others and when we think so, we imagine what they might think. I might be wrong, but usually it's because we fear that we're inadequate and therefore others will leave us for others who they see as being better. But I actually really enjoyed what you wrote there it's beautiful ❤️
@leoleolady9680
@leoleolady9680 4 жыл бұрын
That’s deep. 🙏🏽❤️💯
@leoleolady9680
@leoleolady9680 4 жыл бұрын
Yikes! I had to read this again. My God!🙏🏽💪🏾
@sumayyahadam7975
@sumayyahadam7975 4 жыл бұрын
“when you compare what you have, what you have becomes less”
@Sculsiveesi
@Sculsiveesi 4 жыл бұрын
I loved this omg that hit me different
@thegabbcorner
@thegabbcorner 4 жыл бұрын
Who else missed Breeny?? 😩❤️
@EWA765
@EWA765 4 жыл бұрын
Me 🙋🏾‍♀️
@wendytugahirwa5838
@wendytugahirwa5838 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@chidimmambbahoffor
@chidimmambbahoffor 4 жыл бұрын
I did
@chidimmambbahoffor
@chidimmambbahoffor 4 жыл бұрын
I did
@jenniferdonath7804
@jenniferdonath7804 4 жыл бұрын
Here ☀️👑
@michilafox2106
@michilafox2106 4 жыл бұрын
Self-care will help you focus on yourself instead of everyone else.
@elhadjdiallo633
@elhadjdiallo633 4 жыл бұрын
Well spoken !!!! Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe!!!!
@crysss22
@crysss22 4 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@Shesokholdd
@Shesokholdd 4 жыл бұрын
Right
@JudionSmith
@JudionSmith 4 жыл бұрын
Comparison is self-sabotage. When you compare yourself to others, you only produce what it takes to match up with the next person. As a result, you suppress the parts of you that doesn't match up. In truth, you cannot become the best version of someone else. Who you are is enough. All you need is expansion and growth in your authentic self. The world needs the authentic you. It doesnt need a repeat of someone else. Your greatest fulfilment is allowing yourself to freely become your amazing self and let others do the same. Never compare yourself. You are unique. Stand in your authentic lane and shine.🤗
@khadijaaljaber2631
@khadijaaljaber2631 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said❤
@JudionSmith
@JudionSmith 2 жыл бұрын
@@khadijaaljaber2631 Thank you. x
@user-cv2vo5wn9m
@user-cv2vo5wn9m 2 жыл бұрын
u’re super sweet ilysm
@RBmonae
@RBmonae 4 жыл бұрын
I literally just started crying. My depression has increased due to me being so hard on myself and constantly comparing. I literally lost myself. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💕🥰
@ladylorp5436
@ladylorp5436 4 жыл бұрын
I pray u push thru, depression is bad n I don’t wish that on anyone 🙏🏾, find something that makes it worth it n that u enjoy n dive into it n stick to it, that would help u pull thru 🙏🏾
@TheErikapal20
@TheErikapal20 Жыл бұрын
It’s hard out here. 🩷
@lovingme6896
@lovingme6896 4 жыл бұрын
I’m crying. I needed this. I lost 100 pounds and thought that would “fix me”. I’m even more insecure and have been comparing myself to others every day. It sucks and it is a cycle. I feel like crap man this sucks.
@nazalia8452
@nazalia8452 4 жыл бұрын
You got this! Keep going and never give up and I promise the result will be worth it!!
@annamayyy9771
@annamayyy9771 4 жыл бұрын
It's a journey hun. You will get there ❤️ but I'm proud of the improvements you've made so far!!!
@linareese7841
@linareese7841 3 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing girl u r jot alone but u r beautiful as so am I. So they is shitty but u r beautiful in ur own way
@zoethefrenchgirl2996
@zoethefrenchgirl2996 3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful and valuable no matter what you look like💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞 do what you love girl
@user-pj2xb5gw9h
@user-pj2xb5gw9h 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so so insecure like incredibly insecure people say that I’m pretty but it’s like their talking to a wall I don’t believe anyone
@princessoma4152
@princessoma4152 4 жыл бұрын
Welp Me too😑
@MIA-gz9hc
@MIA-gz9hc 4 жыл бұрын
Who else is gassed she’s posted 😆😆😆😆
@tyna4054
@tyna4054 4 жыл бұрын
Hyped!
@blank1505
@blank1505 4 жыл бұрын
Miss. Breeny... forget that weight disclaimer, this goes without saying but let me make it clear... you are beyond beautiful and that beauty needs no announcing. Not only outside but THEM INSIDES are... other worldly. ✨ ✨ ✨ Okay... now I can proceed to listening to your wisdom.
@kaoshi_kutie
@kaoshi_kutie 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽
@saiwilliams9467
@saiwilliams9467 4 жыл бұрын
exactly how I felt, well said.
@blank1505
@blank1505 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, ladies! 🤗 simply stating the truth ✨
@bunnyandfawn
@bunnyandfawn 4 жыл бұрын
YESSSS. She is BEAUTIFUL inside and outside no matter what!!!!!
@blank1505
@blank1505 4 жыл бұрын
bunnyandfawn yes girl! send away the haters 🥊
@macarinamaco6285
@macarinamaco6285 4 жыл бұрын
“When u compare what u have, what u have becomes less.” ❤️💎
@ayeshias4561
@ayeshias4561 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all! For anyone that needs validation... her tips work. I compared myself to so many ppl and always wanting more years ago. I finally shut off social media, deleted everything and took time to learn to appreciate ME! Almost all of these tips, I did years ago and still continue to do so. Love your own life. Not someone else’s.
@sasha-kim5071
@sasha-kim5071 4 жыл бұрын
Are we just gonna ignore that ring on Breeny's finger?...Congratsssss
@FeChi
@FeChi 4 жыл бұрын
I compared myself to you so many times. Faking confidence on the outside is easy; I’m learning how to feel it within.
@londiie4459
@londiie4459 4 жыл бұрын
The Famous Fe Chi you are beautiful darling, Godbless ❤️
@FeChi
@FeChi 3 жыл бұрын
@@londiie4459 thank you lovely ☺️
@TheAlkebulanTrust
@TheAlkebulanTrust 4 жыл бұрын
"The only person you should compare yourself to is yourself so you can continue to challenge yourself to continue to grow in excellence." - #RaphaelOnochie...true or correct?
@catlady3024
@catlady3024 4 жыл бұрын
Boffum
@Shesokholdd
@Shesokholdd 4 жыл бұрын
Both
@sineshabalala6249
@sineshabalala6249 4 жыл бұрын
Look at God! I was crying myself to sleep because of feelings if inadequacy, and then you post this video. Right on time Breeny!!
@RockNess15
@RockNess15 3 жыл бұрын
Same here tonight ❤️
@chichionuah
@chichionuah 4 жыл бұрын
“it is what it is” - new favourite meme 💛
@DC-fw7ie
@DC-fw7ie 4 жыл бұрын
“Comparison is the thief of joy”
@assertivechisom
@assertivechisom 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing just when I was looking through pictures, and comparing myself.
@kathylyndsey316
@kathylyndsey316 4 жыл бұрын
Thought I was the only one.
@sinenhlanhla9339
@sinenhlanhla9339 4 жыл бұрын
"The grass is greener where you water it."- Anonymous. Thank you for this awesome video ❤️. Subbed when you said "when you compare what you have, what you have becomes less". I deleted social media because my peers' lives always seemed better. It has given me more time to to work on myself and focus on my goals without noise.
@crysss22
@crysss22 4 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up! Keep going!!
@sinenhlanhla9339
@sinenhlanhla9339 4 жыл бұрын
@@crysss22 Thank you :)!
@gracem.6106
@gracem.6106 4 жыл бұрын
Social media is fake life. The real you is inside YOU.
@princesslinoyolo3193
@princesslinoyolo3193 4 жыл бұрын
Your statement is sooo true!❤️💯
@loveandlingerie617
@loveandlingerie617 4 жыл бұрын
Was just having this conversation w/ my friend! Social media can be so vain and sometimes I would find myself comparing myself to people. I have stepped away from fb, snap, Instagram for over a year now and my confidence and focus has been extremely better. I have “ set my own standard”. Focus with myself, my family, my personal goals and dreams. I have been truly elevating! So thankful!
@EV32178
@EV32178 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this. I always comparing myself to others girls. I missed you & you look beautiful!!! Love from Paris 🗼💗
@FlexNFly
@FlexNFly 4 жыл бұрын
Babe you are so phenomenal just the way you are. Don't do that to yourself.
@breebost3525
@breebost3525 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@ShiaGirl18
@ShiaGirl18 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE Pinterest as well! I always get most of my quotes from there.
@lilatigre2466
@lilatigre2466 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Starting comparing myself once I seen my ex having naked pictures of his "ex" in his phone. We were together 5 years. Why am I gonna feel bad about myself over a man who barely shower? shit he should be feeling bad but clearly not he was feeling himself too much
@molovely2775
@molovely2775 4 жыл бұрын
"When you compare what you have, what you have becomes less" 🗣📢🔊 Thank you
@happyle9119
@happyle9119 4 жыл бұрын
This is perfect timing because I just started my first day of medical school, and all my classmates seems so wonderful and smart. I wonder a lot about whether or not I can keep up. So thank you.
@youssraabdeljalil3186
@youssraabdeljalil3186 4 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful ! I am also a medical student and i felt the same way the first day , but with time i managed to cope up with them just perfectly , dont worry and trust urself 💜
@ShakaylaDamila
@ShakaylaDamila 4 жыл бұрын
“Because YOU are the STANDARD of BEAUTY.” Yess queen. I co-sign! ✨ I make KZbin videos 🙏🏾❗️
@simisolarenergy
@simisolarenergy 4 жыл бұрын
"Degrading what she has and lifting up what she doesn't have". Damn that hit me!🥴
@dominiquea5562
@dominiquea5562 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing for this video...I'm currently reading the "subtle art of not giving a F*k" . I'm Working on my vaules and standards that I hold myself to. Great book I highly recommend
@nompilomathuthu277
@nompilomathuthu277 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful read
@kathylyndsey316
@kathylyndsey316 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this. The perfect facade of social media can be really detrimental to your confidence and well being.
@insomniacbabe712
@insomniacbabe712 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing Breeny... I was just having a little mental breakdown thinking about how my female friends get so much more attention than me, so many guys hitting on them everyday and felt so lonely, and then I remembered that I still had your video to watch! Thank you so much. Love and blessings from Italy, you are gorgeous. Anna
@solly23k
@solly23k 4 жыл бұрын
Remember, just because someone is attractive and gets attention from others, doesn't mean they care about the person personally. She/He may be a nice person who wants to be with someone who wont use them, which is a slow journey for EVERYONE. In the end, most want someone who cares for who they are on the inside. Attraction matters in a relationship but loses its importance long term.
@officialbismah
@officialbismah 4 жыл бұрын
You know what,Stay silent and then show people your result,Dress pretty,make money,educate yourself because these little boys thag are hitting up your friends will go away.You be that girl Who A guy is too afraid too talk to,Like a walking diamond.Be confident and stand out,help people,When respect is put on your name then attention will come flooding to you.Make your parents proud and if they arent the very supportive type then find yourself that trust worthy friend who gives you peace,If not that then walk alone take fresh air and live life,Love yourself before any man,any friend,anyone else can ❤️
@avill012
@avill012 4 жыл бұрын
The title alone.....man God is speaking through you sooo timely!
@m.ily.n
@m.ily.n 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve literally watched every video of yours. I just love the energy you carry ✨
@FlexNFly
@FlexNFly 4 жыл бұрын
Same beauty!
@esmeraldababess
@esmeraldababess 4 жыл бұрын
🥰
@bella-rb6xn
@bella-rb6xn Жыл бұрын
i went in tears when you said "count your blessings, name them one by one" - i haven't been giving myself enough credit for all that i've donr because i'm so fixated on what i want to have (which is another person's achievements now)
@spam1071
@spam1071 3 жыл бұрын
“When you compare what you have, what you have becomes less” oh god that just hit me so hard wow
@bethellllllllllll
@bethellllllllllll 4 жыл бұрын
Girl! Don’t even stress. We understand you’re a human just like us and we all need to fill our cup to pour into others. I just spoke about this in my self-help book video & seeing this video is clearly a sign!💕
@zeezandile2988
@zeezandile2988 4 жыл бұрын
The Sis is back😍 Count your blessings, name them one by one.. I FELT THAT❤
@thatvegassmile
@thatvegassmile Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I have been in a comparison trap for months. I am single and a close friend is getting married in February 2023. She posts multiple times a week on Instagram about her fiance, how amazingly happy she is to be engaged, etc. And if I am being honest, it has triggered me in ways I couldn't imagine. I was comparing myself to her even though I wouldn't want her partner for anything. This video gave me the perspective that just because I am single now doesn't mean I always will be. And not to compare me to others while on MY journey.
@salmastyles2569
@salmastyles2569 4 жыл бұрын
WEVE MISSED U QUEEN THANKS FOR THIS🥺
@toodopeforrehab
@toodopeforrehab 4 жыл бұрын
I love that in the beginning she doesn’t apologize for where she is. She owns what she’s working on and I love that. Thank you ❤️
@aminam1711
@aminam1711 4 жыл бұрын
Big??? U look healthy and gorgeous xx
@Valley__
@Valley__ 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@aminam1711
@aminam1711 4 жыл бұрын
I lost so much weight after having my son I’m trying to put the weight back on I love healthy weight it’s so feminine! Take care xx
@thecrownprince6870
@thecrownprince6870 4 жыл бұрын
Not healthy, but fat.. Careful not to gain too much all of you.. Looks to be getting out of hand B..
@Valley__
@Valley__ 4 жыл бұрын
The Crown Prince Yea she got big. I was like this the girl that was giving out advice on how to get wealthy men.
@thecrownprince6870
@thecrownprince6870 4 жыл бұрын
Valley She finally got a man and got way too comfortable.. This causes issues in the relationship..
@NatalieNataliaBeaster
@NatalieNataliaBeaster 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video and all the others, they are very helpful. I'm so happy that I found your channel, lots of love xx
@atozbodyfitness6311
@atozbodyfitness6311 3 жыл бұрын
it's so important never to compare yourself to anyone else. you can use them idolize them in a way to help further push you to become better yourself but we are all individually different. you also never know what the person you are comparing yourself to is going through. They might seem like they have the life you want but in reality, they can be miserable or not as happy. Furthermore, you haven't experienced the life they currently live, you only see a photo or few second videos that are generally marketed that way to make it look great. But it could also be that maybe they are enjoying their life and they are happy. And if that's the case you still don't know if what they do for a living is for you and the amount of work they did to get to that point. Everyone always wants the bright light and stars but nobody wants to sacrifice their eyes to get there. You would be very surprised to know another person's situation is extremely different than how you play it out in your mind of how they are actually living. Just focus on yourself, find a passion or that gift that you enjoy, and when you do just keep working at it. if it makes you happy that's all that matters. Keep working at it over the years and eventually, you can cultivate it in all areas of your life such as health, money, relationships, and happiness will follow.
@FerventlyUnderstanding
@FerventlyUnderstanding 4 жыл бұрын
I love this saying "Comparison is the thief of joy." It's become my personal motto to look back on anytime I'm going down the rabbit hole of negativity & comparison. You're right on girl, comparison will only bring negativity. It'll wipe away any thankfulness and peace you had within yourself. I've never commented on your videos yet but, they have helped me to stay grounded and centered in so many situations, you're like my counselor or older sister. 😆 I'm loving this so much, thank you for the free videos!! Many blessings sister.❤
@watercoIour
@watercoIour 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of her best videos!! I will always remember this story about that girl who fell in love with her coworker even though she had a perfect relationship
@being_mech5615
@being_mech5615 4 жыл бұрын
Breeny, you were truly missed in your absence. Thank you for stopping by because I feel your content is always perfectly timed!!!! I am glad you are doing well and striving to better yourself in whichever way you see fit. ❤️
@nothembapatzlarawu5724
@nothembapatzlarawu5724 4 жыл бұрын
This is so inspirational Breeny is so motivational, a true role model. Listening to this made me feel.so different. Touched me on so many levels. Let's stop making ourselves unhappy due to comparison.
@sararh9665
@sararh9665 4 жыл бұрын
My heart skipped a beat when I saw the notification 😁❤️
@TyraP.
@TyraP. 4 жыл бұрын
Still beautiful, so happy that you’re back
@imjusthere4theteahahah822
@imjusthere4theteahahah822 3 жыл бұрын
i had a reading and realized that im comparing myself to ppl and that it stands in my way of getting to my success. I NEED THIS!!!
@user-lq2hz1qg3c
@user-lq2hz1qg3c 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, Breeny! I’ve missed you 😢 and this came right on time. Recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years 3 weeks ago, he cheated. Been struggling with comparing myself and doubting my self worth. But this definitely helped, I’m hanging in there. So thank you ❣️
@pathswithprecious644
@pathswithprecious644 4 жыл бұрын
She always has a way to get me on track. Love you sis
@oluchiosakwe
@oluchiosakwe 4 жыл бұрын
Yay she’s back. You look beautiful and more important are even more beautiful on the inside
@amarkeon9088
@amarkeon9088 4 жыл бұрын
Its crazy, I was ranting about this to myself in the mirror, and your vid popped up, you are so beautiful on the outside, but girl, in the inside your energy just be radiating and the facts are just on point
@brandonyafanaro9710
@brandonyafanaro9710 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up comparing myself to everyone in every way. What I have or don’t have, what I look like, etc. it’s lowered my self esteem so much. No more !
@Chaptersaudio
@Chaptersaudio 4 жыл бұрын
6:59 it is so sad that this lesson usually isn't cemented into our psyches until late in life. I can say 100% I never compare myself to others for this very reason Breeny. It is why I am so annoyed when women and men pick me apart instead of focusing on themselves. Also Breeny, when it comes to weight you are spot on! NO ONE should remain fat if (as Oprah says) "it is like mud in your wings". Being fat and having a beautiful face doesn't make you beautiful. It's about how you move, feel and glide through life. If you don't like your body, job, friends, home....change it. Never remain fat because others tell you they love your size. First and foremost be your own cheerleader and allow others opinions to not carry as much weight. I'm sharing this video with every woman I know. Bless you sis.💋
@daniella8725
@daniella8725 2 жыл бұрын
thank u breeny i’m in tears because im constantly comparing myself to other pretty girls more than counting my own blessings, i am so thankful for everything i have thank u for being a big sister i appreciate this video
@sailajaved
@sailajaved 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me get through an internal battle with myself... I have watched every single video of yours and I can say that if I had not came across your channel, I don’t think I’d be the woman I am right now.
@cora4860
@cora4860 4 жыл бұрын
the advice you give is so much better than what I got from my therapist for real
@thesocialintrovertchronicles
@thesocialintrovertchronicles 4 жыл бұрын
"When you compare what you have, what you have becomes less!" Breeny Lee✌🏻
@SincerelyNurulFajri
@SincerelyNurulFajri 4 жыл бұрын
As someone who is just starting out in life, I find these tips really hit me in the feels :")
@jayme4214
@jayme4214 4 жыл бұрын
you are SUCH an inspiration, the videos of yours that i have seen have so far all 100% lifted my spirits after watching it. 🤩🤩 this video definitely pertained to me because i would compare myself consistently through social media and even in person. ive taken a break from it going on two weeks now and i honestly have been feeling so much better. i definitely enjoy using it, but i wanna change how i use it when i decide to log back on. i tell myself: i didn’t cut everybody off, i cut myself off from everybody... and when it comes to social media, sometimes that’s one of the best decisions to make for yourself at least for a small period. a tip i try and do for myself when i start to feel envious of another woman’s outfit, or vacation, or hair or face, the feeling will creep up, and i think to scroll past it or ignore it, but when i do, i catch it and purposely comment something really sweet which in return i feel better. this isn’t for every person i’ve every commented on, but it’s just an example of reversing the negative with positive. when you’re jealous, it’s because you really love it. you like that persons house, or that car, or that girls beautiful hour glass figure. you like it and you want it but instead of appreciating the beauty or creativity in another person, you envy it because you want to have it and can’t. but you can. and yes it will look different for everyone, but that’s the beauty in it. difference. 🖤❣️ but anyway love you breenie thank you for your videos
@kara6320
@kara6320 3 жыл бұрын
The phrases that stuck out to and resonated with me: Perfect influencers "Sell a lifestyle that is unattainable even for the person that is selling it" "Every time you compare yourself you will always end up the loser"
@wendytugahirwa5838
@wendytugahirwa5838 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this i am usually doing this and it just makes me feel bad plus my friends are always going out and never inviting me so i always ask whats wrong with me? This was so amazing thanks❤❤
@blank1505
@blank1505 4 жыл бұрын
Wendy Tugahirwa nothing is wrong with you, sweetie. If they don’t invite you... they’re probably not your friends. Also, are you introverted?
@wendytugahirwa5838
@wendytugahirwa5838 4 жыл бұрын
@@blank1505 no im extrovert bt i guess i just have a different perspective thanks a lot though❤
@wendytugahirwa5838
@wendytugahirwa5838 4 жыл бұрын
@@GlitzKai thanks alot❤❤❤
@suziesmith8288
@suziesmith8288 4 жыл бұрын
@@blank1505 their probably not inviting her because they could be jealous or threatened by her. Introvert or extrovert it doesn't matter. I know plenty of introverts that are outgoing and also like their own company.
@annamayyy9771
@annamayyy9771 4 жыл бұрын
@@suziesmith8288 I agree with your comment. Introvert here.
@aikoyumiko7961
@aikoyumiko7961 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Breeny, you look absolutely amazing as always. I have been watching your videos for a while (four years to be exact) and I love all your content. However, I feel that the feeling of worthlessness is a lot more complex than comparing oneself. I believe a lot stems from childhood traumas that require professional intervention such as therapy. Granted comparing oneself can lead to unhappiness, but comparing oneself is only the tip of the iceberg. Comparing oneself is a symptom of bigger trauma and issues. In the same way, we shouldn’t compare ourselves with others, in the same way we shouldn’t judge others’ lives. You truly never know why people make the decisions they make. Perhaps the lady from the metaphorical story you mentioned didn’t have “a very good thing” and it took someone else to enter her life for her to realize that. Like the famous saying: “all the glitters is not gold.” Lots of love Breeny ❤️ Looking forward to your new videos!
@alliesapp3590
@alliesapp3590 2 жыл бұрын
You don't understand how relevant this is to my life right now. I sooooooo appreciate this and wish you many, many years of prosperity, love and good health. "When you compare yourself to others, you start to feel less than and what you have is less". So true! God knew what he was doing when he created each of us and we are each uniquely beautiful.
@emersonandino8710
@emersonandino8710 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter if the person wants to compare their self to others then it’s going to happen. Because who you are is what you want .
@ChewonThat
@ChewonThat 4 жыл бұрын
This is so important to remember!!!👏True confidence only comes from within💖 Just posted a video about this on my channel too (where I shaved my head!)
@uwimanasimon987
@uwimanasimon987 4 жыл бұрын
My favorite KZbinr finally decided to post... So glad to see your gorgeous, radiant face.. 💞 I enjoyed this video so much.. Timely word! 🙌🏾 🔥
@AnnaKwonda
@AnnaKwonda 2 жыл бұрын
GIRL, I am so grateful for this video. I have watched so many videos on this topic, but yours really spoke with me because of how genuine, no bs, and wise you really do seem. I need to listen to this EVERY MORNING. Thank you!
@AWholeLottaLola
@AWholeLottaLola 3 жыл бұрын
_yeah, when I’m jealous of someone, I’m always nice to them. Never rude to them. It’s kind of immature to show your jealousy._
@JoNeLBUbbLEs
@JoNeLBUbbLEs 4 жыл бұрын
I do believe in healthy comparison which shows through inspiration and admiration of others to do better for yourself?
@moonie2770
@moonie2770 3 жыл бұрын
@Laura Melia Yes now a days everyone has this weird obsession over everything.
@liiilliees
@liiilliees 4 жыл бұрын
The Queen is back with a bang💪💪.. Girl you were missed 😍
@eyethumfazwe
@eyethumfazwe 4 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to watch and listen to this queen's God-given wisdom after what feels like forever
@sara0310_
@sara0310_ 3 жыл бұрын
“i make no apology for it… i needed a break” as you should ♥️
@user-rt6ii6sg4m
@user-rt6ii6sg4m 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this i needed it ALOT. i've been having a rough time during quarantine constantly comparing myself to others and i'm now ready to take a new step and count my blessings. ❤️
@DenTan30
@DenTan30 3 жыл бұрын
I always come here when i feel my insecurities coming back. Thank you, Breeny!
@yazzy8215
@yazzy8215 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this is one of the most realist conversations I have heard is a hot minute. I totally agree with you, we really need to stop compering ourselves and stop allowing people to compare us and believe in it. Thanks for the reminder sis xx
@wittiergirl7622
@wittiergirl7622 3 жыл бұрын
Complimenting the one ur comparing ur self with helps alot , jus try it
@inspiredbychrist1986
@inspiredbychrist1986 4 жыл бұрын
Girl me too i will say i got this coming for you and I literally take forever to get it done I NEED TO STOP DOING THAT CUZ I ALSTRESS MYSELF OUT
@gracielaglows
@gracielaglows 4 жыл бұрын
You’re so damn wise, and btw everyone’s got more weight on from being stagnant for so long!! Trying to be easy on myself too (: great vid sis
@kristelwalton3141
@kristelwalton3141 4 жыл бұрын
Another great video, and your beauty is how you care and carry yourself, not your size or shape.
@lillychau4703
@lillychau4703 4 жыл бұрын
This came at the perfect time for me, thank you so much for this. I'm going through a breakup where I was cheated on and I can't help but compare myself to this new person and feeling down about myself. You've inspired me, motivated and lifted my spirits to work on improving myself and knowing that I am enough.
@Chinese4
@Chinese4 4 жыл бұрын
I have never clicked so fast! This video is just god timing. Miss you!!
@melissajuarez5007
@melissajuarez5007 4 жыл бұрын
Could you maybe make a video on being too nice??? I always get told by everyone that I'm way too nice and it causes others to take advantage of me. Whenever I stand up for myself though, I feel as if I did something wrong 🤧 Please help!
@TNMNLA
@TNMNLA 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@kayladyson3254
@kayladyson3254 3 жыл бұрын
You are one of the wisest women I have ever listened too. Your beauty is so unique inside and out.
@WinyMary
@WinyMary 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful tips (i recommend watching the whole video) 1.Actively pursue your personal growth 2.Close your damn eyes (stay in your own lane/ get them from your mind/sight) 3.follow people that are on your journey (follow people who also starting a journey where you are -- follow 80% like you and 20% people who inspire you// you are in control of your social media don't let it compare you) 4. create a vision (create a vision of where you want to be in the future // create a mood board// create a pinterest ) 5. Count your blessings (You have to be grateful for what you have now// be grateful you have two hands/legs// you create the life you live)
@mandisazondo7103
@mandisazondo7103 4 жыл бұрын
Your social media break glow 😭
@blessedrunner3748
@blessedrunner3748 4 жыл бұрын
I have so missed your beautiful face! Is that a 💍 on your finger?
@tapiwa3351
@tapiwa3351 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who noticed
@adelarge
@adelarge 4 жыл бұрын
I was like 👀👀👀
@mikaylascampbell
@mikaylascampbell 4 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing!! How has no one else brought this up?! Yayyyyy Breeny! Congratulations ♥️
@faithbwibo4164
@faithbwibo4164 4 жыл бұрын
She said she'll let us know when it happens! 🤣
@augustamannah8370
@augustamannah8370 4 жыл бұрын
I see the 💍too😊
@mimitk6642
@mimitk6642 4 жыл бұрын
I've consumed a lot of content that's similar to yours .. but only yours stick with me, I tend to remember your explanation easily .. I've learned alot from you .. can't thank you enough
@samaralyousif9337
@samaralyousif9337 3 жыл бұрын
You know why this video ACTUALLY influenced my life? because I can see Breeny ACTUALLY walking the talk.
@rogene11100
@rogene11100 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm someone who's currently struggling with comparing myself with certain people. It's not as worse as before since I constantly look to learn and accept my insecurities. However, This one is my favorite. Thank you so much for this video, And I totally agree. I muted many people in my socials. I count my blessings. I know my strengths. I constantly work on myself to always learn and feel better. I should really stop making myself look less than others. Ugh it's annoying and depressing. however, ur video is pretty helpful and I thank you
@ipak002
@ipak002 4 жыл бұрын
Breeny, you inspire me. You don’t sugar coat you, you’re so real, you always look fabulous and I love that your sole purpose on your channel is to raise others up. I am blessed to have seen your channel.
@brittanyberry7915
@brittanyberry7915 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you posted. You look great and you have strengthened me through your videos. Has really taught me to leave what’s not healthy.
@lundilundi9798
@lundilundi9798 3 жыл бұрын
Yes definitely comparison automatically belittles yourself!
@diadem7703
@diadem7703 4 жыл бұрын
Wow literally me watching this video early in the morning was Devine timing! After waking up and writing in my journal about comparison then this was the first video I came to ✨ thank you for being such a support system for back women❣️
@ellona3645
@ellona3645 4 жыл бұрын
Deleted instagram/facebook. I feel so much better & more productive. The people I follow -> family, friends etc. are giving me anxiety with all these negative stuff that their sharing. It's a constant overload. Without it my life is so peaceful & I can concentrate on truly what matters the most for me.
@Les-recettes-de-meli
@Les-recettes-de-meli 4 жыл бұрын
I dont know if you ever realize how me you helped us! Sometimes you know all this things, you just need someone ti remind you and say them out loud! And for that THANK YOU with all my heart
@nazalia8452
@nazalia8452 4 жыл бұрын
I missed you Breeny❤️❤️! I am beyond grateful to have the experience of watching you! Honestly without watching your videos I probably would’ve been at the same stage my old self was at. Thanks you for all your wise words and knowledge you share🔥❤️!
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