How To Stop Letting People Trigger YOU

[@AnevayDione]

Heavy on misery loves company!! Great topic!! Very much needed to hear 🙌🏾💕

[@Yvelynn]

@@AnevayDione I’m glad to hear you enjoyed the video ❤️❤️

[@chitambo5133]

Thank you so much for this video! This is something I realised in the past 2 years that I struggle with since moving to a new church and getting into a new relationship. I have a question though, once you figure out your triggers, in my case my tirggers are my boyfriend's acquaintances at this new church, what do you do?. They don't like me because I'm with him, but I cannot necessarily just avoid them because our lives are basically intertwined. The clique (which includes my boyfriend's sister and her best friend, we're in the same line of work, we're all part of a singing group) will quite literally do what it takes to antagonise me, make me look bad, and I think it's fun for them. Very unpredictable people, nice to me one time, the next just pure mean girl mentality. I don't know what to do with them.

[@Yvelynn]

@@chitambo5133 I’m glad you enjoyed the video! In my opinion, if they are triggering you…..you need to set boundaries with them or just cut them off. You cannot allow them to treat you this way because they are acquaintances with your boyfriend. Speak up about how you feel and let them you won’t tolerate it. Make your boundaries very clear and direct. God tells us to be careful with the company we keep, Proverbs 13:20 ❤️

[@chitambo5133]

@Yvelynn thanks! You're right. Ultimately, it's what I need to accept and move forward with in an intentional way 🙏🏾