How To Stop Obsessing Over A Girl!

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Apollonia Ponti

Apollonia Ponti

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@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
I know I can't reply to everyone's comments. But I love seeing the community of support you men have for each other on my channel. This brings me so much joy! xoxo Sending you so much positive energy!
@jacary
@jacary 5 жыл бұрын
😍😘
@danhuskey2496
@danhuskey2496 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all you do.
@brianbarit3091
@brianbarit3091 5 жыл бұрын
Thank You for your wise advice, Apollonia!!! I will do my best to apply and learn what you have taught us men to follow and look out for when engaging in healthy & loving relationships. God bless you and your work! Sincerely, Brian
@crackedno_mercy2181
@crackedno_mercy2181 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing us your knowledge
@Justin-baxe
@Justin-baxe 5 жыл бұрын
Loving yourself is so underrated in modern dating
@truestrapper4874
@truestrapper4874 5 жыл бұрын
We as men's get caught up in beauty that we overlook her personality cuss of beauty we gotta get over beauty
@technologu
@technologu 5 жыл бұрын
we are programmed to chase beauty. that's how babies are made. not my fault I get aroused simply by my coworkers bare ankles and it gets mental effort to get over it. now if you're young and you date a woman it could get even harder.
@xonlytyrek3601
@xonlytyrek3601 5 жыл бұрын
This is facts
@phantomfox2.o142
@phantomfox2.o142 4 ай бұрын
The thing is she's so beautiful and she has great personality, she's so nice but I know I'm not worthy of her
@michaelclark4043
@michaelclark4043 2 жыл бұрын
There are no in betweens a woman can either make a guy feel like he's a free spirit or she can make him hate life.
@andrewmanden266
@andrewmanden266 3 жыл бұрын
I can't stop thinking about her before I sleep and when I get up
@geneticfreak84
@geneticfreak84 3 жыл бұрын
Same brother. It repeats itself every day.
@rickbailey189
@rickbailey189 3 жыл бұрын
You're in love with her but the question is also is she in love with you also?
@rahulsinghmahar9480
@rahulsinghmahar9480 2 жыл бұрын
same bro everydayyyy
@RobertSmith-kj6eb
@RobertSmith-kj6eb 2 жыл бұрын
I wasted 15 years of my life ‘waiting’ for a girl. She stayed a friend and always seemed to send mixed signals. I passed on so many other girls… Get help now or you’ll find yourself alone in your late 30s.
@Avi-vl7px
@Avi-vl7px 2 жыл бұрын
@@RobertSmith-kj6eb how is life going right now?
@positive_vibes_2427
@positive_vibes_2427 5 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, It gets difficult when we have noone to show us how important we are. This feeling usually entices men towards settling/forcing relationships.
@freddylimpster7137
@freddylimpster7137 5 жыл бұрын
Why do you need somebody to actually show you how important and awesome you are?
@alpacawithouthat987
@alpacawithouthat987 2 жыл бұрын
@@freddylimpster7137 Because relationships are shoved into our faces on the daily and people end up thinking that there is something wrong with them if they do not have a partner
@weldingengineer4715
@weldingengineer4715 Жыл бұрын
​@@freddylimpster7137 everyone likes to be told how much they are loved or appreciated from time to time. Unfortunately, "I Appreciate You And All That You Do For Me" Are Words Rarely Heard By Men By The Woman They Provide And Protect... Has nothing to do with insecurity, needing validation, or anything else for that matter. Just a simple "I Appreciate You" Will And Can A Very Long Way For A Woman When She Speaks These Words. Sadly, We Have Too Many Women Who Were Raised With An "Entitled Mentality". Women today, act as if Men "Owe" them something just because they have a pretty face and a Beaver between their legs...
@yugidragon1
@yugidragon1 4 жыл бұрын
This video talked to me a lot. Right now there's this girl I like, but something happened and now we keep ignoring and avoiding each other, which is something that is killing me inside. I really hope I'll get over it eventually. But who knows how long it will take. Thanks for the video.
@tgswartlane6317
@tgswartlane6317 5 жыл бұрын
Damn Apollonia, you absolutely the best, believe me. I have this one lady that i can't forget in my life, i even have her pictures on my darkbox(secret app) on my phone and i keep checking her pics, i sometimes send her messages, she reciprocate, but i can tell that they no longer into me, although she does the same sometimes to send me me her pics where we were together, damn and she would say"good memories. Such messages hold me back, i feel like i will never find someone like her, i don't know why. Anyway thank you for your brilliant analysis. Remember, you're always loved.😂🤣
@jusbrygaming
@jusbrygaming Жыл бұрын
everything in this video explains perfectly in my scenario, connected with a girl who I thought was over out of my league in attraction and as time went on we had 2 dates then after tht I got flaked on the nxt 3, everything during the first month felt so good then as time went on she slowly stopped messaging me, now im not even getting a txt back but I keep obsessing over her and it genuinely hurts. really nice to hear advice like this and tht others people are goin through the same scenarios cause i've attached myself so deep tht it feels like everyday sucks without her
@Dalitszz
@Dalitszz 5 жыл бұрын
Remember, she’s never yours it’s just your turn.
@jamiegreyy
@jamiegreyy 4 жыл бұрын
Lool, that's so pessimistic.
@sajpar9765
@sajpar9765 4 жыл бұрын
Fuck that's is just so hard to accept for me. Ughhh it fucking sucks
@adityabillore2672
@adityabillore2672 4 жыл бұрын
Broo. That hits hard
@RobertoBazzan
@RobertoBazzan 3 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself
@xnortheast1106
@xnortheast1106 3 жыл бұрын
@@RobertoBazzan Nah, he speaking for you too.
@victorvaldez760
@victorvaldez760 3 жыл бұрын
Great info…. I am going through this now, can’t get her outta my head she’s literally living in my head
@tinytim2263
@tinytim2263 2 жыл бұрын
Your advice took the words right out my mouth. I do sometimes obsess over girls that I used to like such as dating them, marrying them and starting a family. This however is a huge problem because it is only a phase I was going through, in other words I would daydream all the time. Its time to focus on the real deal rather than live on fantasy island. Thank you for the advice on this.
@jacary
@jacary 5 жыл бұрын
I've been single 6 years now and this video will help me to take this step when I do decide to date thank you beautiful Angel again😘🌹
@devontarkington2084
@devontarkington2084 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Apollonia for this video again this was a wake up call for me
@lnko7498
@lnko7498 6 ай бұрын
You helped me a lot with this video it was so hard to get over her till I noticed the bad things
@jimsmith3971
@jimsmith3971 4 жыл бұрын
I wish my Father had the capacity to watch Apollonia's videos. His attitude towards Women has had much influence over me and has filtered into my subconscious. I've never seen him kiss a Woman, or hold a Woman's hand, ever! Not even my Mother, who divorced him when I was twelve years old. I'm 36 and not even had a years worth of relationship experience. Thankfully, I've been consuming Apollonia's videos for many months and am confident that I can be my own positive role model. Peace n luv.
@elstonhortman689
@elstonhortman689 Жыл бұрын
Excellent, practical video. Makes perfect sense to me. "Don't take it TOO personal" is what I am taking away from it. Thank You and keep up the good work.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for your comment!
@issavybe8799
@issavybe8799 5 жыл бұрын
God bless you. This is me right now. I need help!
@doctorj7112
@doctorj7112 5 жыл бұрын
NEVER take off the condom; when that happens you are DOOMED
@ryan_fsk
@ryan_fsk 2 жыл бұрын
Fell in love with girl and she so pretty, met her in 2017 and my brain still goes crazy when i hear love songs on spotify but i didnt get her for awkward reasons but i still think of her and love felt good
@Australia-ky7kx
@Australia-ky7kx 4 жыл бұрын
This is a brilliant video for me. Everytime I feeling I'm back sliding I play it. It brings me back to the truth the obsessing is a waste of my time and the reality the relationship will never work. Thankyou Apollonia.
@moicus29
@moicus29 Жыл бұрын
Trust me, knowing the reason(s)/competitors, doesn't make it ANY better.
@danhuskey2496
@danhuskey2496 5 жыл бұрын
Well said.Thanks for emphasizing building confidence,having self-love.Thanks again.
@sundayaito4366
@sundayaito4366 5 жыл бұрын
Well articulated ms ponti. I guess it all comes down to will power to not obsess over a woman in some cases. These days my philosophy is to say to myself 'it was never meant to be'. It's tough though.
@Australia-ky7kx
@Australia-ky7kx 4 жыл бұрын
As always such good advice. Of course much harder to put into practice. I keep falling back into the obsession. She responds nicely when I contact her for chat yet never likes my FB posts and never initiates contact. I just need to get strong and not obsess at the indifference but its so difficult.
@elstonhortman689
@elstonhortman689 Жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing. Hard letting go. Being with her was like a drug.
@thehonestjourney-s2w
@thehonestjourney-s2w 5 жыл бұрын
You, Far From Average, and Alpha Male Strategies are my go to dating channels!
@mustaphadoaa1024
@mustaphadoaa1024 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Apollonia. You have to be the prize and no one is better than you. By the way, I'm so impressed by you Apollonia. You are really eye catching especially in your videos in Paris. Allah bless you Apollonia.
@faekz
@faekz 5 жыл бұрын
Mustapha Doaa lol
@Julio-cq1jt
@Julio-cq1jt 5 жыл бұрын
Really needed to hear this everything you said is on point
@JackedBlack88
@JackedBlack88 5 жыл бұрын
Reframing the situation takes the heavy emotion our of the reaction! Another one from Applonia 👌
@c.1211
@c.1211 5 жыл бұрын
Perfect, this is what I needed to hear. I going to man up, today!
@kalpeshpuri7888
@kalpeshpuri7888 4 жыл бұрын
So basically the point is that we dont have to create our own imagjnary stories😊💯
@mikesenesie8430
@mikesenesie8430 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Apollonia, I have been in such situation before, after I broke up with my ex I just can't stop thinking of her every now and then.....which really affected me.
@aboubakarkaba9436
@aboubakarkaba9436 4 жыл бұрын
Hey....yea you....bro your amazing don’t let her affect u there are many more girls u got this 😌
@ollyredding6933
@ollyredding6933 Жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this ! Going through the same thing ! Thankyou
@Eden_M
@Eden_M 5 жыл бұрын
Guys need to be raised better, ideally by a positive and masculine father figure and a caring mother. I don't care how co-dependent I might sound but it wasn't my case.
@m3ndoza118
@m3ndoza118 5 жыл бұрын
and that's mainly the problem, ALOT of single mothers these days. most if them very young, that don't even have the maturity to raise children.
@cheekyboy5000
@cheekyboy5000 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks I needed this reality check. I can hear you biting your tongue, and I appreciate that you're going out of your way not to be mean or hurtful about it.
@realwayne86
@realwayne86 5 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon coach Apollonia! I hope you don't get upset about a few disagreements which i experienced. 1.) As an adult, we know what we want to do before we do it. Some people are obsessed behind the other not because of who they are or what they will become, it because of what they have at this present moment. Some women and men are only after the benefits in their relationship and that's where the fake love comes to play. 2.) Obsession doesn't means that we have to go months without talking to him/her because that will give him/her an opportunity to go out and date others and they will use it as an excuse because you didn't contact them. Some women can't handle the truth because they are used to dating guys who sell them dreams and giving them false compliments. I don't seek after benefits and looks itself because those things fade away. Loyalty, motivation, respect, honesty, and happiness what makes them attractive. Great video though coach 👍!
@michaelclark4043
@michaelclark4043 2 жыл бұрын
Forbidden fruit is ALWAYS THE SWEETEST.
@lokinsea
@lokinsea 5 жыл бұрын
Wow nailed it on all levels exactly what I needed to hear I’m starting to move the on and see other people with a higher interest level a stay away from “just the one mentality” which can cloud your thought life , and yes Love and Respect yourself.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, love and respect yourself first!
@Ray-tf6yp
@Ray-tf6yp 4 жыл бұрын
Its always good to talk to other people, this is awesome thank you, you just got another subscriber.
@jacobyrassilon
@jacobyrassilon 5 жыл бұрын
I so wished that I had this channel growing up (actually I grew up in the times of 3 networks, no internet or personal computing, or cell phones, so I wished I had A LOT of things growing up)...it would have saved me a ton of heartbreak.
@pierretoussaint9798
@pierretoussaint9798 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that vid Mrs. Apollonia, right on time as always. Break it down, wake up and realize. Know your worth, very well said.
@samcotten2416
@samcotten2416 5 жыл бұрын
Very good advice, but it makes me feel kind of embarrassed and ashamed of the person I was in college and grad school.
@jonathanhickman7244
@jonathanhickman7244 4 жыл бұрын
I've been in love with my sons mother for 20 years. I'll get over her and she'll come back around and it'll start all over again.
@ricksp99
@ricksp99 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you...It is important to be conscious of what is really going on...To know if she is also interested she will show up somehow... To accept she could loose attraction...and to love ourselves. Thank you Apollonia. You are always loved.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support, it's so appreciated.
@Agnet_Faze
@Agnet_Faze 3 жыл бұрын
Look at her personality not her physical beauty! You deserve a respectful woman who knows how to give you the time of the day and who also knows how to value you.... If a woman cannot do those for you, then walk away from them...Don't even try to get them to like you because it's not worth your energy and time tbh.... Be with someone who loves you for who you are, not someone who YOU love and value...and love yourself first because if you don't love yourself then how would anyone else gonna love you? And stop creating fantasy images in your mind that "this woman is so hot", "we would have been good together", "I cannot get enough of her" blah blah blah...You cannot force someone to like you...If they don't like you, they just don't...Move on and find someone who is worth your time and effort.... Those fantasies are the exact reasons as to why you aren't able to move on and therefore you become obsessed with this one and only woman...You need to break those fantasies and start living in reality...Stop living in movies! I also want Megan Fox to be my gf but it cannot happen because it's reality...You have to face it and break this fantasy about what you think of that woman...It's not worth it and you will end up getting hurt... If someone or something is not meant to be yours, they never will be yours...Move on and forget it! Heal yourself and make yourself a better person...Yes it's hard but not impossible... The hardest thing is when you like this woman and this woman doesn't wanna have anything to do with you and then she chooses someone else over you...That makes you feel like you ain't good enough but trust me...It's not worth it! Learn to start giving no damn about people...The only way you gonna know your value is when you stop caring...You will start telling yourself "This woman is so nasty to even go for someone else without even giving me a chance....Her loss!"... You also have to understand that there is a law in this world...If someone hurts your feelings so bad, this will come back at them too...So just be patient! Focus on healing yourself....Karma is sharpening her nails and taking her drink while staring at that person who has hurt your feelings....
@ChristosAndreou01
@ChristosAndreou01 Жыл бұрын
I got so much value from this video..
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@matthewvang71
@matthewvang71 5 жыл бұрын
Like always awsome video Apollonia. Needed this wake up call, this girl only wants to talk on the phone with me, we've been going at it for 3 weeks. Haven't hung out once, I tried and tried but she flakes and doesn't initiate. Gotta love myself and know what I want. Thank you Apollonia!
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm so glad this video was your wake up call. I have included a blog I wrote on loving yourself for your review: www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to-love-yourself-again/ Best, Apollonia
@michaelpeople7283
@michaelpeople7283 2 жыл бұрын
Now THAT is what I needed to hear!!!!
@adambond589
@adambond589 5 жыл бұрын
I've been there...sometimes I'm still there ....thank you for the video, great advice 😊
@pokemondraws9058
@pokemondraws9058 5 жыл бұрын
That's so helpful and great video Apollonia! Thank you very much and I make another sketch of u as a gift of student for teacher haha!! :)💜
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
hahaaha I love your sketches :)
@pokemondraws9058
@pokemondraws9058 5 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti Thanks! and i love u r videos haha! :) Keep it up! One day u reach millions of subs! We always support you! Never give up teacher!
@scorpiolopez1417
@scorpiolopez1417 5 жыл бұрын
Love is one Romances Everywhere Relationships comes and Go Either way
@paulmartins6573
@paulmartins6573 5 жыл бұрын
Nice video. So true. You are one of the best. Polishing my ideas always .
@princeopoku8820
@princeopoku8820 5 жыл бұрын
Good day Apollonia I’m glad to be first here. My thumb 👍🏼is already up🌹
@sundayaito4366
@sundayaito4366 5 жыл бұрын
Prince opoku, lol...you couldn't have been the first here....that's a title you are trying to take away from me. I was the first to view video and hit that like button..lol, lol...
@michaelc1858
@michaelc1858 5 жыл бұрын
Damn Apollonia, you are so on point with this stuff! This video totally gave me a different perspective.. made a lot of sense, thank you!
@carlosagiljr1467
@carlosagiljr1467 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for reminding me of this... my struggle with my ex girlfriend...she's a narcissist!
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you found it helpful.
@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228
@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228 5 жыл бұрын
Great presentation. Great strategies very well articulated. Thanks again
@JuliaFlynnWerre410
@JuliaFlynnWerre410 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Apollonia, love your information. I stopped by after watching Sunny Lenarduzzi several times and wanted to see your style. You're kick-@$$ and I love it!!!
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@shubham5860
@shubham5860 5 жыл бұрын
Apollonia you look very smart and confident. Just love your videos. :)
@philiphennings5167
@philiphennings5167 5 жыл бұрын
Sucha great video! I'll say this. I had a girl in my life where we had great chemistry and I would say we truly loved each other. We unfortunately didn't get together because our lives were going in seperate paths. at first I was okay with that but deep down I found that I actually wasn't. And apparently like you said I just was looking for some sort of closure as to why it didn't work out. apparently I just deluded myself into thinking that we could try something later or not even that but just it would work out. I found that there were times where when I was trying to actually move on which I should have done I wasn't it was still thinking about her even when I was dating and sometimes even hooking up with some other women. it dawned on me after watching this that it's not always just about obsessing over a girl but really what it is you truly want and realizing that you're not getting it.thank you very much for this video and helping me get a lot more clarity into what I am thinking. I truly appreciate it!
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment! I'm so happy that my videos are helping you.
@philiphennings5167
@philiphennings5167 5 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti I appreciate your work :)
@realfantasy3218
@realfantasy3218 5 жыл бұрын
Damn your so right, only problem i work with this person see them everyday laughing and carying on i tried talking to her but she says there's nothing to talk about so i left it at that. Seeing her everyday is the worse😢
@pyke154
@pyke154 2 жыл бұрын
Right focus on the reality...
@davidev1395
@davidev1395 5 жыл бұрын
Your outfit is very beautiful Apollonia Ponti.
@johngonzalez4298
@johngonzalez4298 5 жыл бұрын
Great information Apollonia. Happy Wednesday 🌹
@truestrapper4874
@truestrapper4874 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video Apollonia alots of guys need this one
@asdax8311
@asdax8311 5 жыл бұрын
I remembered befriending a girl in college 10 years ago. She was attractive physically, but more so, she showered me with attention I never received from a girl. Ever. I wanted to make a move on her, but thanks to shitty dating advice, I didn't & thought playing hard to get was what was drawing her to me. We are no longer on speaking terms, but throughout those years, I regretted treating her that way. It only took until last week for me to cope with it. While it's still difficult for me to forget her entirely, I promised myself that if I ever found myself a girl who was as attractive & gave me the time of the day as the college girl. I will never let her go.
@Diddyshaow
@Diddyshaow 5 жыл бұрын
This is quality advice.
@jjarnold220
@jjarnold220 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely need some answers. In a committed relationship and now all of a sudden it’s like pulling teeth to even get to talk to her.
@thrilla72
@thrilla72 5 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, it's either her head has been turned by another guy or she is losing attraction. The solution to both is the same. Give her the same level of energy that she gives you and make your lige better in all over aspects.
@Iishmong2
@Iishmong2 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome video once again! Lots of good info to take in. thank you!
@kctehkc2475
@kctehkc2475 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You knocked some senses into me.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
:)
@Rachel-Sweetness
@Rachel-Sweetness 3 жыл бұрын
I found out that I like my bestfriend and even though she rejected me I still can't get over her and kinda making her uncomfortable. Thanks for your advice
@phylliseldridge953
@phylliseldridge953 5 жыл бұрын
Man to man...i been there...women don't like being like too much..💯
@heiltecn9ne
@heiltecn9ne 3 жыл бұрын
This is such great insight.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, so glad you are here.
@smokegrindingwigwom3988
@smokegrindingwigwom3988 5 жыл бұрын
I have a girlfriend from Brazil. Best thing Ive done. Not date an American woman. Too much work.
@ravenone6255
@ravenone6255 5 жыл бұрын
smokegrinding wigwom hook me with one ok man😁
@jacobeesingk3545
@jacobeesingk3545 5 жыл бұрын
Darn so true! Theyre only good for hookups!
@OptiRaz
@OptiRaz Жыл бұрын
Omg I really needed to hear this
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@frankaustell2581
@frankaustell2581 5 жыл бұрын
Wow this is me.....wake up and smell the coffee. Hard super tough but thank you.
@Rudywhooo
@Rudywhooo 5 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on how to heal from the disrespect the person u once cared for had the nerve to look down on you like u were not even human
@studentsguildx
@studentsguildx 5 жыл бұрын
Go and f*ck other girls. Then u wont care about her anymore
@EricJA921
@EricJA921 5 жыл бұрын
House of Destan Ahaha true
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
@@studentsguildx be ashamed of your derogatory comment🚫
@greatgyatso5429
@greatgyatso5429 3 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind that you are ALWAYS two people And everyone is ALWAYS free to leave. If she doesn’t give you the time of day, then feel sorry for her, because she missed the chance to be very happy with you.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Gyatso, Thank you for sharing your opinion with this amazing community.
@bryanmccallum4614
@bryanmccallum4614 5 жыл бұрын
You are right in this video but it's not as easy as you think. I grew up with good manners and to respect others. I have obsessed over to girls in my life the first one I was going to ask her to marry me. It all ended with a phone call that my father had committed suicide earlier that day, I traveled 3500 miles across the country to support my mother after that. He died April 28 1994. That was the last day of my happiness and the worst day of my life. I came very close to dieing twice in the last year in August last I got stung 47 times by bees! The second time was trying to loose weight and eat some salads to get healthy, there was beet-green's in the salad I have an allergic to beets. So I have nothing to loose now. I take care of my mother who just turned 92 years young last week. Everybody tells me that I am a son for doing what I do. I am only human!
@TheKonga88
@TheKonga88 2 жыл бұрын
You will change into a ventriloquist dummy soon 🥳🚀🤡😲
@rickbailey189
@rickbailey189 3 жыл бұрын
Apollonia. I've heard and listened to your videos. Very informative advice for men. You're a very lovely lady who is easy to listen to. I guess my problem is this: I just do NOT trust women. It's their "mind and their capriciousness" I cannot stand. Why should I invest my time, my emotions, my money and most importantly my heart to a woman if in the end the investment MAY be gone with the wind? It's not like spending money on something you purchase. You bought it. It's yours to do with as you wish. Relationships are an investment which one "hopes" will flourish over time. I'm NOT an "alpha male". Never was and never will be. Don't care to be. Do I like women. Yes. I'm very highly attracted to their beauty...and have been since I was about 3. I have plenty of love to give to just one very good woman, however, she would have to earn it. I do NOT want to chase the mouse any more. I'm tired. I'm single and have been for far too many years now. I have chased love in women but I do NOT believe many women are worthy of my love I'm willing to give them. I now believe at this stage of my life, that women only want a relationship for financial gain or a prestigious male, primarily and family second. Fidelity and commitment is also fading very quickly in America.
@joelchalla9603
@joelchalla9603 2 жыл бұрын
What if your in a relationship but still obessed and think of her through out the day when u know she doesn’t think of you as much as you do .
@Muhammad.Ali.Barkallah
@Muhammad.Ali.Barkallah Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@halfb8bel
@halfb8bel 4 жыл бұрын
I recently love this conversation I had with this girl I've seen before a few times in my friend group (that broke up). I always thought she was cute but never talked to her at all. Now I'm on Facebook looking at pictures of her. I can make myself stop but there's something about dark skin that does something to me 😍😍.
@giri.
@giri. 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing suggestion.
@theprodigy1508
@theprodigy1508 5 жыл бұрын
Would you ever make a video on submissive men and dominant women? Probably a very tough video to make but they do exist!
@LittleWolf20
@LittleWolf20 Жыл бұрын
Im watching this video cause im getting obsessed with every woman i saw😢. Probably result of extreme singleness . No woman in my life not a single female friend 🥺 its really hard for me . I just need a female friend in my life . I don't want to be a man anymore .Please God make me a woman in my next life ❤️ atleast i will be getting attention .
@Ph.40Lowks
@Ph.40Lowks 7 ай бұрын
I feel you, your not alone, I see my cousins, friends strangers with girlfriends and I’m like I want one. I feel like giving up too but naw bro let’s stay postitive, listen to songs you like watch movies you like
@andrespefia7379
@andrespefia7379 5 жыл бұрын
Ramadan Mubarak
@gorakhpatil2536
@gorakhpatil2536 5 жыл бұрын
Apolonia u r savior.... 👍
@muhammadjallow9671
@muhammadjallow9671 5 жыл бұрын
Always the best my sister
@danielsantana540
@danielsantana540 5 жыл бұрын
Great. Video keep up. The great work.may.heavens angels be with you
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support so greatly appreciated!
@danielsantana540
@danielsantana540 5 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti your welcome
@mauriciolancheros7474
@mauriciolancheros7474 5 жыл бұрын
I don't know, closure on my own is not that easy because you still have hope if she sometime text you, or she answer call or texts... I am planning on tell her I want to see her to test waters...
@blacktee31
@blacktee31 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly its fine whether u reply or not doesnt matter. I wouldnt say Im obsessing over her but maybe a little concerned that I will if this continues because of how much I already like her and the tendencies I had in the past. We've been talking a lot and she's been sending me the signals Im starting to recognize. Proximity, asking for my help often, strong eye contact, and seems to give me a little more each time. Now she's even sharing personal things about herself without me asking. Im a little confused though and maybe thinking about her a bit more than I should. I got her number and she gave it to me but also let me know she doesnt have service currently but decided to give it to me and have me call it so she can recognize it. From what Im undedstanding its not rejection but maybe she's not sure about me and possibly Im coming on too strong or maybe she genuinely wants to know me and it was just poor timing and poor circumstance...idk. But since then(Wednesday before Thanksgiving) I havent seen her because of our work schedule and kinda thinking about her more than usual because the thing with the number made me question the extent of her interest. Ive had one or two missteps with her and would like to take her out and get to know her but dont want to be overeager or put her on a pedestal either. My goal is to date and get to know her as well as go after what I want and not just wait around for her to decide things either but now Im super unsure what to do.
@missshannonsunshine
@missshannonsunshine 3 жыл бұрын
I’m obsessed with mine, but she reciprocates so idk what to do with this. I just hate the obsessive thoughts
@blakebunch4485
@blakebunch4485 3 жыл бұрын
I don't see the problem here...no put down but that's exactly what I want.
@marlondolloway2674
@marlondolloway2674 5 жыл бұрын
thanks for this one i love it
@AIStocksInsight
@AIStocksInsight 5 жыл бұрын
Well, this women I desire is completely heart broken from her last breakup. .she never initiate contact but always responds to my msg . . She knows I like her like crazy . .but she shows no interest. . I don't know how to deal with her
@matthewvang71
@matthewvang71 5 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat, one thing I keep telling myself is to love yourself 1st. Think about what you really want, and if the girl shows no interest or doesn't initiate anything move on and find someone who appreciates your time. Self worth brother!
@steelfox4437
@steelfox4437 5 жыл бұрын
I cant say im obsessed over that girl at school but i would really like to get to know her and get closer, i just dont know how so i play cool which is just an escape from the challenge and the reality of me not knowing what to do. Please help
@aymanalmasri130
@aymanalmasri130 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your great videos. Do you have any advice for a 50 year young attractive guy?
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad your finding my videos helpful! What type of advice is a 50 year old attractive man seeking??
@aymanalmasri130
@aymanalmasri130 5 жыл бұрын
I don't know what I'm doing wrong
@dustblack4051
@dustblack4051 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you app !!!💪😏
@larsseiffert7941
@larsseiffert7941 5 жыл бұрын
This really spoke to me! #thanx
@x13xmonkey
@x13xmonkey 5 жыл бұрын
ALL MEN OUT THERE! IT CAN HURT FOR SURE I FELT IT! THE BEST THING THAT I DO EVERY SINGLE TIME, WORK THE FUCK OUT AND GET IN SHAPE, AT THE SAME TIME GO OUT WITH A FRIEND WHO IS FEMALE TO WALK YOU THROUGH WHAt YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, SHE IS ALSO THERE FOR SUPPORT AND TO MAKE SURE YOU DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID :) ONE DAY AT A TIME! TRUST ME ON THIS PART! You will look back at what you thought you lost and will be glad that she is out of your life! I love women! But take care of you first! ❤️🇨🇦
@soulless_mayhem
@soulless_mayhem 2 жыл бұрын
☹ the world is broken 💔
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