Stop Obsessing Over One Woman

[@o751106]

This hurts when you really like the woman, but this talk is true.

[@markbrookes6915]

Yep going through that @ the moment Had alot of girlfriends but this certain Brazilian girl was so hot dated for 10 months

[@jbizzle1485]

It’s hurts even more when you are the one who screwed up the relationship. There are times I still have fleeting feelings and regret for my college sweetheart. It been over 15 years since we split.

[@divine_presence]

Yup, it is THEIR loss, NOT ours because we do NOT need them.

[@funkygrassreviewsstuff3378]

"If you dated women, you know the fuckery is coming" 🤣🤣 Wise words from a bro!!

[@ShaunZachary]

💯💯

[@Keith-if6zv]

Best takeaway from this… if she wanted to be with she would. She will not tell the truth anyway so no point in asking or texting. Let her go, it’s really your only option.

[@ntsikelelonkambule2299]

"Who cares what the information is, who cares what their reasons are, the only thing that matters is that she says she doesn't want to date you",you hit the bullseye 👏👏

[@setentaytres5303]

Man idk if my phone reads my mind, but this is exactly what I needed to hear. I have other options, but I don’t like em.😂 I don’t care why it hit today, but thank you.

[@jbthajugganaut2003]

A woman flaking and discarding you should be a telltale sign she does not like you. Just cut your losses and focus on you.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

TRUE WORDS SPOKEN RIGHT HERE .

[@monkymind4316]

might also be a sign of extreme insecurity on her part. in any case stay away.

[@M3ow_pawzz]

She is never yours. It's only your turn

[@WOODY-REBEL]

Never allow a woman to be the source of your happiness. Shaun is BANG ON! PRIORITIES GENTLEMEN.

[@shubhkatheria]

YOU GAINED A SUBSCRIBER BRO, TOP QUALITY CONTENT..

[@GeoffGroves]

!!!! "The Fuckery is Coming" !!! Love this guy

[@MRindependentTHINK]

Become and develop Dark Triad traits

[@alecb1178]

After my last relationship I realized that I didn’t love myself. I believe the reason that men do stuff like this is because we don’t value ourselves. I’m on the path to self love as a men it’s going to be a long journey but men it’s the answer to dealing with woman on a low vibration.

[@Ndondiafrika254]

True, self love is not really emphasized enough for men

[@AndI0td763]

Good call. Break ups are gonna hurt, but it’s how you handle the situation. Handle it like a man and move on. The women didn’t value us cause we didn’t value ourselves first and foremost. If she decides to leave that’s on her. Even if we made mistakes we gotta take it as a lesson and better ourselves for the next one that comes along.

[@valueink]

Is she's already seeing someone and went on a date with you, that's a red flag for me. I'd ditch that in a heartbeat. If she did that to someone else, she'll do the same to you when "better" opportunity comes up.

[@leeortiz2687]

There’s a saying in my culture: ‘the way you get her, is the way you lose her.’

[@cdub1991]

This shit just happened to me. Had a solid first date with a lady, and we were planning a second date when she said she had to be honest that she was talking to someone. Thank you, next.

[@michaelpacheco6077]

I died laughing when you said about the potato salad. Nobody ever did that lol

[@ShaunZachary]

😂😂

[@doraldobuchanan4041]

These women are so cunning and they know how to play games by pretending they are all into you. I was caught up in this same situation, but I didn't go that far. Because my intelligence and my observation showed me every red flags. I've gained more intelligence after I started watching all these videos compared to Shaun Z. Now these same women are doing everything they can to get my attention. It's funny how they feel so curious of our absence and silence. Especially when we as men moved on and started living happily with another woman.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@cloudattack3279]

Never let go of your sword, or your shield. Keep a firm grip on both. The moment you drop them, they start to rust and lose their sharpness. 👍🇦🇺

[@benchyboy9668]

That's why I don't use social media, All my conversations are IRL unless their my homies

[@deanobambino9463]

Dont chase an ex that don't want to be chased rise up upgrade and better yourself let her see you doing good hit her were it hurts post the things were You are doing better

[@leprikonobecny6233]

So true lol, i just got ghosted by a girl I've been meeting for 2 months, really felt the connection there and thought things are gonna work out between us, she said how she is into me, she was being curious, we talked about future, interests and all that talk but in the end she ignored my last message like i was nothing and happily goes on living her life, i guess i over committed and liked her too much, she just wanted me for fun while i hoped for something more.

[@mphomothae6258]

Exactly what happened to me, 4 months ago...she's been trying to throw me a bone and I never fell for her stupid tricks...I'm completely over her...

[@cloudattack3279]

Watch out she may orbit back in to your square dude. Put her in her place quick smart. She isnt genuine, she missed out 👍

[@electric7508]

You shouldn't be obsessing over women period.

[@JolPil]

Never getting the One Woman you obsess about, is a sign you Never Achieved Greatness within yourself. Not because you do not have other options. I had HUNDREDS of options, but they never made me feel as this 1 chick. What woke me up was the fact that My Greatness was still unleashed. Oneitis, is a substitute for unachieved inner greatness. It is not always because of no options. There are players who have thousands of options, yet still only want 1 woman.

[@zyciebezlimitow]

So true only thing is when you was rejected as a kid that make a lot harder to over come the situation..

[@Charleswhite2]

I’m just at the point now where idec bout none of that anymore. 3 years traded for someone else at an instant. It only 3 things on my mind now. Money Status Success I can do and live alone. Making progress and improvements so I will never go back in that place mentally ever again. That was the worse.

[@metalmouth0413]

That's why it's called dating. Dating is more economical than a crappy marriage or a crappy relationship. I'd rather spend money on dinner and get blown out of the water afterwards than have nuclear fall-out spiritually, mentally, emotionally and financially from a potential unhealthy situation. If I get rejected these days, I just see it that I avoided potential Cherenobal Nuclear Fall-out Incident.

[@ignaciocarda6004]

"Nuclear fallout spiritually, emotionally and financially". LMAO ! That's actually a very cool way to see it! Chernobyl grade of bullshit

[@CoachKen10]

"Prepare for the fuckery!" That's absolute gold.

[@radiodude4282]

That's awesome

[@TYE2020]

get to know yourself better before you find someone to date don’t be needy over one girl you like u need to focus on yourself and do things u like to do she will reach out to u

[@ctgeorgia]

I agree with what Shaun says, but take it in context... Fellas...this makes perfect sense when you're in the EARLY stage of dating. You do want to keep options! Howeva.... If you find that one woman that's a diamond in the rough and you fall in love... Let me know how that works out for ya trying to keep a harem of "options" around! She's going to drop you like your 6th grade Algebra.

[@paladin6593]

Another masterpiece Shaun! It’s crazy how I will stomp any man who disrespects me, yet I would simp when it came to women or put them first. NO MORE!! Your videos and some red pills are working! Applying all of it is easier said than done, however, my new mind set is starting to form as time goes by. I will be patient, persistent, and consistent. Peace my friend 👊🏻

[@ShaunZachary]

Good work bro- Stay up ⬆

[@naturalbornkiller361]

Good girls are the girls that have not been caught yet. This is the reason why we should never get romantically attached to anyone. Be like James Bond: dress well, be skilled, be stoic, always go after your mission and let women chase you.

[@jeffbardroff5873]

This gentleman Sean has a lot of intake on relationships what are you saying is the truth that's stupid texting its you Ramble On and On I know what it means cuz I've done it should be that morning at a date I think he's pretty right on the spot I like your stuff Sean keep bringing it on it's very interesting God bless

[@TimothyGPTSanders]

I really appreciate your videos my brother, wish I would've came to your channel sooner. I've noticed a pattern when i texted a woman, and then they get disinterested, now i see why. Too much focus on a woman can really damage you

[@ShaunZachary]

Thank you for watching bro

[@tonybryant8091]

Fellas. We do not need any one woman. Move on, Next. Simple as that. They need to chase You!

[@CoachKen10]

F+ck those text messages. She needs to hear your voice AND see your face when you speak.

[@zyciebezlimitow]

10 k subscribers well done 👏👏

[@ShaunZachary]

Thanks homie! 🙏🏻

[@jbthajugganaut2003]

The first 35 seconds of the vid tho. 🤣🤣🤣

[@WOODY-REBEL]

Always I mean ALWAYS...FOCUS ON YOUR PURPOSE..YOUR GRIND!!! NOTHING makes a girl's attraction go through the roof like a man on his PURPOSE. SHES NOT THE PRIZE!!! YOU ARE!

[@waifuislaifu8791]

based. Ive been through it. move on

[@DFearsNothing]

been dealing this this for a while. good stuff man thank you

[@Tom-cp6yj]

I was in a very "confusing" situation with a co worker years ago.. we had this draw to one another but we were both already in another relationship and all we could really do is just text.. it became an obsession on my end because I was obsessed with the idea of a new beginning which I believed we both needed and it didn't end well of course..

[@oliveronyango2075]

Zach you're my dude. Oh boy, you've changed my attitude towards a woman who's been running me around! I'm getting over it, bro. Thanks so much.

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@nickpapamallis8369]

You're a legend

[@ShaunZachary]

🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@thevision7947]

Damn my guy Strikes again

[@jameslanz2117]

“Like human fucking beings”. Dude. Nailed it.

[@kula3975]

When u said u r trying to fill that void with a woman.losing battle it is.Really hit me..really did !!!!!!!!!

[@MrPdoyle007]

That simp voice (and we’ve all been there, unfortunately) is absolute gold 😅

[@bey3142]

i needed to hear this thanks man, you got 1 more subscriber

[@godsonrobinson9843]

Ay man I just wanna let you know you are highly appreciated you truly taught me so much

[@ShaunZachary]

🙏🏻 🙏🏻

[@robertgregory415]

So much wisdom in his words.

[@joelhernandez41]

This man dropping hard facts. Love your msg

[@BEASTMODEDYNASTY]

She lost her damn mind 😂

[@JamesJones-yw6to]

😂💯

[@Chopperdog]

My woman looks like a instagram model but she has only ever had one phone call from me and it was only to return her missed call i only return her messages to she never complains.

[@alexdk9955]

Thank you for reminding us to focus on our purpose first of all, Shaun! ...oh yeah and that about the void... yeah men ...that's more than the truth!

[@the.orlandogonzalez]

There's this girl I liked back in middle school, I really liked her later on in my senior year I found out she liked me but she has a boyfriend, only reason why I'm obsessed is that she's the only one who liked me, she's actually obsessed with me as I do she found out the store I worked in and she comes around sometimes and she smiled at me when she gotta glance the 2nd time she came in here

[@thefrenchmaninmyhead3297]

My partner just left me today and took our 4 year old son and my life with her. All over a silly disagreement. But I have said before I don't agree with it and still does it in front of me. But I'm gonna take your advice shaun from a different video. And give her radio silence. I feel if we got back together, the same thing would keep happening and not get resolved ever. I'm so grateful I found you here in KZbin. You've made tonight more bearable for me. Thank you so much, from a man in need in the UK 👍

[@olumideborofficemusic]

Be strong my brother.

[@WOODY-REBEL]

Prayers are with you brother. Stay strong for your child. Stand tall and act with integrity. You're the MAN and keep showing her that. Respect

[@rogerlong6717]

Good luck bro.

[@briangilbert137]

Shawn says it like it is! This is sound advice. This is the attitude to have with women. Just like he said work on it and apply it.

[@michaelfelix126]

Damn Shaun, You are the true G for sharing us this tips. God bless you Shaun.

[@ShaunZachary]

🙏🏻 🙏🏻

[@mike.pittsburgh3466]

A lot has changed in the last 20 years.

[@curtiscraft3297]

Salute and Respect Shaun! Thank You!

[@ShaunZachary]

🫡

[@just_arbu]

Thanks man, your word's are getting straight into heart....🍀

[@Ndondiafrika254]

true, actually 99% of time you created her 'perfect persona' in the mind. which is not real

[@trillmix0652]

Nothing but the truth brotha!

[@leeortiz2687]

Shaun is true playa. Listen to this man! If it wasn’t for him I would be fukd up

[@ShaunZachary]

Blessings to you bro 🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@leeortiz2687]

@@ShaunZachary you’re the man bro.

[@AhplaNam]

Shaun, I appreciate your bluntness and intelligence. You’re at the top my man but I can see you’ll go even higher.

[@patrickcomack5259]

Preach!!

[@dc9582]

Your videos are helping me to mantain a decent frame. Would like to see you talk about Stoic mentality

[@sgreeff6678]

Man idk. My twin brother dated this narcissistic miserable female for three months in high school in 11th grade. She dumped him because she fell inlove with someone else. He can't stop obsessing over her, it's been 3 years and he still wants to be with her. Man he went to therapy, loads and loads of people tried to talk to him. I ended up not speaking to him for 6-7 months last year, he didn't even try to talk to me. This female has severed our ties completely, we both resent each other and i honestly can't stand this. It breaks my heart man, i tried talking to him about this but he screams and gets angry at me. He said that i can't possibly understand what they had and how they understand each other. I tried playing this video as loud as i can across from him, and not even 3 minutes in, he gets up and starts walking out. Man i have tried everything i can. I'm just done. If he decides to kill himself in the end because of this girl, so be it. I honestly can't anymore man.

[@ShaunZachary]

You can’t red pill your homies, they will have to learn on their own (if ever)

[@jasondavis8952]

its hard to let go.

[@chevchelioz6663]

10k subssss for this Champion! Congratzzz!!🎉

[@ShaunZachary]

Thanks family! 🙏🏻

[@TheKrisu98]

Thanks bro, I needed that more than you think. We grind

[@FinalLifeForm]

Thank you Shaun.

[@dave-rupofficial4627]

Another bombastic video . Thank you Shaun

[@mike.pittsburgh3466]

Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t the entire idea of marriage that you are supposed to be focused only on one woman?

[@Raresstanciu1]

I digged to the point she literally told me she never was loyal and didn't know why I acted like we were in a relationship with when she said she didn't want that w me. she said she never loved or liked me I was just exciting (for abt 8months, 5months long distance at uni where a lot of the shit happened w me being weak). also I was good with girls before her but with her like the video says I dived straight in wanted to wife her etc when the signs were all there like her saying at the start she wants to be my fav hoe (not wifey) and she was also a massive party girl - still friends w exes used to shit test all the time saying how guys approach her. she didn't have respect for me and my views and said she never felt guilty leading me on. I got caught cheating on her and that's when I turned weak and begged and cried for her, and she recently revealed she used it as a good excuse to be a victim and that her throwing up was hungover she was acc laughing abt it on snaps after. that moment is when I got manipulated and got weak and since then it all went to shit, getting worse and worse. I HAVE BEEN WATCHING MULTIPLE CREATORS ABT TOPICS LIKE THIS TRUST ME THIS GUY VIDS ARE AMAZING AND THE TRUTH, NEVER GET TOO ATTACHED AND DO NOT IGNORE THE RED FLAGS AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WOULD KNOW IT IN YOUR HEART, DONT FADE THE TRUTH AND WHAT THIS MAN IS SAYING.and don't dig either cuz u will hurt urself more if she moved on to someone else and goes clubbing it doesn't matter if she says she hasn't been cheating, trust me she was

[@sanity1977]

This video is deep. Thank you 🙏

[@deetee8089]

Truth!

[@DannyB-t6k]

Best drop yet!

[@ShaunZachary]

🫡 🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@JamesJones-yw6to]

Lmao I couldn’t help but smile when you said she’s dating multiple men while dating you.I’ve been four weeks removed from telling shorty I’ll never speak to her again.our silence as a males is power.she’s used to chasers and I just separated myself from the orbiters 💯 sure she’s with a lame rn but I’m the one she thinks about,the guy that was able and willing to punt her

[@OnyXApolloK]

same situation exactly down the road we'll be up they can kick rocks lmao

[@JamesJones-yw6to]

@@OnyXApolloK us winning in the end is already written.it get tough some days but we can’t afford to play bout our respect.💯

[@OnyXApolloK]

@@JamesJones-yw6tospot on well spoken

[@ShaunZachary]

@@JamesJones-yw6to 💯💯💯Facts

[@clintonsthilaire]

Another one !!!!

[@randomvideos3674]

i like when this dude talks about other guys like the poockies and the rays rays funny sh1t

[@luiseleon93]

I prematurely let go of my side chicks when I found her 😂 my biggest mistake , she didn’t want anything serious and I was anxious as hell because I was in scarcity

[@AYYYEEEEYOOO]

Bro my story is when I get a girl I like all of my insecurities and feeling not worthy comes out and I end up sabotaging the shit.. I get and can keep ALL THE CHICS I don’t care about 😂. Funny but so frustrating

[@chocolatehater9027]

This was really eye opening to listen to! Thanks Shaun !

[@RAJNOVA784]

It didn't do a justice where she was self centered and wanting to place interest in her and goes into toxic relationships.

[@rramosrup]

Thanks Shaun, excellent video!

[@i_observe9846]

They’ve used and discarded me

[@michaelhurst2911]

Great video he's 100,percent 👌 true 👍

[@ChukwuemekaOkite]

I love you shaun

[@Elver_galarga-x1p]

Thanks for the video bro 👏💯 you’re like an older brother to us younger guys 😌

[@ShaunZachary]

Just tryna pay it forward bro. Hope you do the same one day

[@libo6368]

Great video...nice and clear thinking

[@terencecassidy6477]

I think I needed to hear this

[@userwater777]

So on point here!

[@benchyboy9668]

Thanks for the advice Shaun

[@THEMANMINDSET1971]

lol good vid

[@ShaunZachary]

Appreciate you stopping through and checking out my video, Steve. You are one of the OG’s in the game. Much respect ✊🏼

[@davidmartin3889]

Wow , the truth hurts been there done that. Keep giving them the gospel.

[@RuuTrades]

😂😂😂😂Intro

[@proof5024]

Thank you Shaun

[@GreatGrandSoap]

Yeah but Shaun..you just don't understand.. that potato salad was so. Damn. Good.

[@ShaunZachary]

😂

[@nawinmutti4091]

Thanks

[@JSoulKeys]

Hey fam, thanks for this video. Shaun can you speak about dating women who were in previously domestic abusive marriages, and jumped straight to another man (jumped straight to me in my case from the abuser) and a year later her trauma bubbles to the surface and she decides to cut ties. In my case the year of being with her was perfection, (almost)until signs of her past unresolved trauma was surfacing until she exploded... and wanted space...

[@ShaunZachary]

I’ll jot that one down bro ✊🏼✊🏼

[@JSoulKeys]

@@ShaunZachary thanks fam

[@erict.9017]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I JUST WENT THROUGH!!!! and are continuing to just about ending now..... love bombing and then back and forth of idk if I want you or anything....I'm depressed and other excuses.....its a mind fuck

[@storiesrus.5114]

Sounds like my "wife" rn.

[@donovinmatthews1827]

Great video!