How To Let Go of Her | 3 Stages To Letting Her Go!

[@scotttracy9333]

Looking back at my exes and where/how they are now I'm glad it finished. Message to people going thru this...in time you will be glad it finished. Have faith

[@iloveukhan5577]

Im also feeling now..

[@jonesfredrick94]

@David Anatola wonderful response and how do you shake that?

[@orgami100]

@@jonesfredrick94 Replacement. ..

[@fadykhalil4046]

What did you do to move on from someone you loved?

[@kennethmajoro2808]

I really hope so

[@The1987Dan]

Its difficult and painful, I know because I am experiencing it now, restless nights. But you have to fight it, even though she seems perfect, keep on your journey because if you don't you will resent it in the future because if you base your life on someone else eventually you get dissatisfied and unhappy because it won't be your happiness. Remember keep on your journey the right companion will be there. There is no such thing as a perfect partner only a person who is willing to share the struggle with you. Find that person not the one who is running away from your struggles.

[@cota6170]

Thank you for saying this , I am going through this right now .

[@patchybaby7]

Appreciate it this!

[@maliteacher]

the pain is real.

[@charlesaugust9219]

Couldn't agree more.

[@israelcarrazana2264]

If they r not willing to share the struggle it is a CLEAR SIGN.

[@tuanf01]

Being in a toxic relationship is so emotional exhausting. Been single for about a year now, I've never been more energetic and happier in my life.

[@DARKMADNESS666]

1 year isn't the rest of your life. What I'm saying is then be ready for being single the rest of your life because that's what's going to happen

[@isaacsmith3529]

Strange how you go from being hurt and doubting yourself, to being thankful for the break up and loving yourself as a man. Women have many insecurities, which they tend to damage other people’s confidence, not all but most do this.. You can & will get better. It’s a lesson, not a mistake. Trust in time, use it to heal and start fresh! it’s a blessing to have another day, and no bitch should occupy your time, a real women is different to a girl. you’ll see that one day.

[@KEICRUMBIE]

I'm done dating. It's just too much work and worrisome. It's stressful. I just don't have the energy anymore.

[@hashansampath4066]

bruh don't take women seriously

[@youngsuit]

If there is a time to take a break from it and work on yourself, now is a good time

[@sartajaziz5930]

I feel you man... I'm done as well. I just want to find a nice humble girl an get married. The dating game is way too stressful for me.

[@natemartin4218]

Don’t completely isolate yourself from the world of dating, its important to keep yourself in the flow of information that comes from it. Its only stressful because you’re more than likely investing too much of your energy into it, that energy needs to be concentrated on to yourself, with that concentration you project power and confidence, which in return attracts women effortlessly. Its very important to stay on your purpose and if you don’t know what that purpose is then start there.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

Amen. Very wise and healthy.

[@chefjacktheprofessionaldri6284]

She was a major narcissist. I gave her my all and she gave me crumbs on a Sunday for my efforts

[@lazerjetuganda2074]

Remembering her worst character has helped me a lot to cope with the break up

[@myopinion9550]

She was my wife and the mother of my kids. I love her unconditionally. 13 years. Now she loves another.

[@christiansnaturestudio6599]

If I was you I would punish her and never forgive what she has done because if I get a divorce the future I would end my own life

[@JakeLogan21]

My wife of 16 years left me on tuesday. We have 2 kids. I love her more than anything. Your comment is 13 weeks old. Does it get better?

[@dennisrod5808]

Jake Logan it does get better. I went through the same 4 years ago. Got over the mother of my child. Took me two years for the obvious reasons. Having to keep dealing with her bc of our child did not help. But once you accept what you must, it all starts to get better and one can actually see things for how they are or were and moving on from that point on is easier. Be positive, strong and dedicate your time to your children. Best of luck.

[@Robert-gw4st]

Jake mine left me in the same home and bed..on 27 years two kids..grow a set..she is gone mine still shares my bed..can you imagine..

[@Sookmaplums]

My wife for 10 years left me for someone at her work, it’s so painful and thought I wouldn’t manage, lost 13 kgs body fat hit the gym and used time as my allied, now couldn’t give 2 fucks about her!😁

[@redsbrown2000]

We as men just don't want her to be sleeping with someone else, once we kick that mental image, then we are good.😂😂

[@_M_D_M_]

Wrong

[@bangclips4018]

Not really they could just be kissing but it what it is, the most vital advise she gave is TOO WAKE UP she's gone look out the window More pussy If not Go to the mall or clubs Pussy everywhere fam

[@sagewaifu3272]

Exactly. Thought I got over her then she starts flirting with one of my classmates in front of me in college just to make me jealous. And it worked. It's not the fear of not having her is the fear of her going down on someone else pretty much.

[@chronicrc6246]

As men were not so hurt by the emotional seperation. Hell there's times I wish girlfriends would tell someone else her problems. But when you start thinking of another man inside what you thought was "your" pussy. It can create an obsession. Women I think are vice versa, they're more hurt when we fall in love with someone else.

[@shav12]

I lived with my ex for over 2 years. Within a day of moving out there was another guy over her place. It hit me like a fucking brick, but at least I experienced it in the beginning instead of later on where it might pull me down again.

[@nicholasmonchak947]

Delete all of your social media for awhile... change your numbers, emails, everything... this will help you forget quicker.... and remember, DONT GIVE INTO ANYONE OVER ANY ISSUES!!!!!!!

[@snowzydondigit9738]

Hi nicolas send me your email address so we could chat

[@MoBettaBoats]

Try breaking yourself after a breakup. What I mean is people are resilient. Whatever it is you do, push 200% harder. Run further, longer and add sand, more plates to the weight, wake up earlier, go a couple mph faster into work. Pin the throttle and surf a storm. Break some rules and push your limits cause if no one else is going to be in your life to encourage you, see how far you can go yourself. Just see if you have a breaking point! If life has a breaking meter, can it be guaged? Cause you will learn if you can't break yourself than no one else can either. Your mind and thoughts will follow your trust in yourself, and your prayers will be as loud as thunderstorms. You will find new stronger friendships, and you will be a stronger friend to future relationships. Seriously works everytime.

[@mrambassador114]

Thank you.

[@zgamez6697]

Fantastic comment!

[@jasonivea2610]

This is what I felt I should do as well! I just thought that maybe it would seem self destructive to ones close to me, almost too much for some people to see the positive within it. Thank You for this push, really though. Going through a really really new kind of heart break and it's a lot heavier than any of my past endings.

[@maybugz]

Hitting the gym is almost a gaurenteed mood improver for me. Even if it's only for that hour in the gym and for abit after, at least for that portion of the day I feel great.

[@kylel7158]

Badass comment

[@chuckdumas1023]

I was in a 17 yr realationship with a alcholic lady its been 9 months and i still think of her all the time and miss her! But what do i miss? Thats what you have to ask yourself ! Ive blocked all social media , phone text everything its hard but soon i know she wont enter my mind and i will be free! To anyone just going thru this now have faith you will get thru it you will be ok 👌

[@kylerspencer1709]

I also was in a relationship with a alcoholic. It's hard because I do miss her but I couldn't keep living in a one side relationship I had to do what was best for me.

[@streetglidesteve7315]

I too was in a LTR with a woman who drank wine after work almost every day and smoked We’re both 55 years old She had nothing but guy friends I suspected she was promiscuous and she was hot & cold toward me It was very frustrating for me since I was kinda clean cut guy Eventually I got confirmation of my suspicions about her Of course she blamed me for it and played the victim role Social media and dating apps ruined relationships for us good men You can’t trust these ho’s

[@badraabdulahi2964]

@@streetglidesteve7315 😂😂😂😂

[@qualitylandscapeandhauling7942]

Thank you for making this video. I just caught my gf of 12 years.....kissing her co worker. She didnt know what to say . I tried letting her go weeks before this because I had a feeling something was going on. But she kept denying it. She kept begging me to not break up with her. Now that I caught her cheating....it brings closure to me. I let her go . She did text me 1 hour later saying she was sorry and didn't know why she did it. It doesnt matter now. I'm moving on. It does hurt alot, but time heals everything.

[@richardmoreno4887]

I had the same thing happen except it was 15 years together. I caught her having an affair with her boss which was an attorney. What she doesn't know is a phone tapped the house phone lines and when you picked up any phone and the house it would start recording automatically. So after she come home from work one afternoon I started asking her just a few general questions you know how was work you have a good lunch just the regular kind of talk and she told me what she wanted me to believe. After she dug a hole and her story by herself I said I have something very interesting to tell you. I clicked on the recorder or she and her boss were talkin and she said I love you he said I love you too and that's all I had to have I put that off and she started crying. She was a beautiful young lady and sweet as could be but evidently she had that mystery creep on her that she didn't expect. It took me a couple of years to start dating and I ended up connecting with a beautiful young lady which was the vice president of one of the banks as she is incredible and it's now been almost thirty years that we've been together. Something that I were Express and tell you don't ever give up on love. Because even through the pain that it caused. I would not change it for anything. Because if it didn't hurt when you broke up it probably wasn't love.

[@toddklempan105]

Similar story. 12 years together, 2 young boys. Left for a co-worker. Been 4 years now and wish I didn’t need to stay connected for the boys. Getting better, but it’s still hard every day. Learning to let go. Wishing to get to the point of not caring.

[@jtarcos4193]

Fu%$ that bit%$! That's what these chicks do! People almost always end up hooking up at work. It's all the time they spend together. Women have a term for a a guy they are seeing at work...."work husband".

[@sethheron-vanta1383]

You got the right attitude!!!

[@rgangan84]

It doesn't worth staying in relationship which drown emotionally, toxic, unacceptable and abusive.

[@oaklandsoldier5920]

I think its way easier for a woman to move on from a relationship than it is a man.

[@sundayaito4366]

canet fish , aww....

[@UrNemesis_]

Facts

[@ericgonzalez5421]

It is a woman is capable of getting herself into situations where they can get the attention they want or need.

[@Mssmounia]

@ so true I couldn't agree more with when they are young they have no regards just wanna party and sleep around by the time they hit their 30 no one wants them, talking from personal experience

[@ceerider103]

Your are right because men are in perpetual relationships females are in me relationships. It's all about them advanceing themselves and when they have used you to your max they move to the next step up.

[@sundayaito4366]

This video brings tears to my eyes....that was me several months ago struggling to let go of the love of my life...glad to say I managed it and didn't quite know how...

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi Sunday, I'm glad that you were able to manage a difficult situation! Continue with your self development and remember to do something fun for you. Best, Apollonia

[@sundayaito4366]

Apollonia Ponti, thank you so much, Apollonia. Your video is a new found refuge and sources of strength for me. Thanks again.

[@danielsantana540]

I vs stayed single since age 20 now I'm 32. And I have accomplished many dreams goals since early childhood because I've stayed single and did not have to worry so much about a relationship

[@c.9850]

Good. I am 67 and still single and love it.

[@dennisbland9565]

The percs of being ugly

[@Mace2213]

you should have a woman by your side where you dont have to worry about that (yes it is hard to find one like that)

[@meynardolicia4513]

That's sad

[@xantonify]

@@meynardolicia4513 If it hurts and is an actual need = sad. If a person is totally fine and living the best life = Great!

[@keithstewart2842]

people need joy in their relationship. Being happy is temporary, but joy last.

[@kwelic3524]

Sometimes it’s something about a person we can’t shake. Sad but true....

[@user-sm9ue6tc2i]

I Agree!!!!! Its not simple to get over someone you love so deeply. It hurts! Sooo bad!

[@albertbaza2767]

I just got out of a toxic relationship with someone who exhibited BPD tendencies. I was looking for advice on how to get over the trauma bonding, and this is it. Simple yet effective. Speeded my recovery by leaps and bounds!! Thanks

[@aoao4812]

It gives me hopes and comfort from seeing lots of men here being so faithful, caring and not afraid to show their loves to their women, love or ex.

[@oldmaninthehousedetroit1963]

That's it right there My old lady thinks im a punk ass bitc. Because im loving and sweet to her. You know I can't even treat dude's like shi. When they deserve it How am I supposed to treat a woman im in love with in such a way? Im finding out in my 60 years Most women have brain damage

[@javontim.mordican3288]

I swear this channel reads my mind. Everything that I'm dealing with/ thinking heavily about the video posts the next day LITERALLY 😂 Thank you Appollonia

[@lennylenn4009]

Same here!!! 😂😂😂.. it's almost like she is directly talking to me.

[@frankaustell2581]

Yep this is me.....she can read minds.

[@godfather4377]

I've done these all, but for some reason I still can't. I've even convinced myself I don't even love her anymore. I think the familiarity is the hardest part to get over. Where you wake up, and remember, 'yeah, she won't be involved in my day today' like she used to be.

[@chrisparis6286]

The woman that has brought me to this video does make me feel loved and brings me up and feeds me things that make me feel better and helps me better myself. She has been hurt from her younger years growing up by her father and her previous marriage and relationships. Now I'm to good to hear and now she has used another method to leave me cause I was nothing but good to hear and treated her like a human and equal to me....I love her still. She knows I would do anything for her.

[@Dataisthetruth]

I gave and gave and when I was drained gave some more and when I was exhausted I gave the very last of me. I’m empty now.........and she’s still gone. It forced me to look at the relationship. I started to see her for who she really was. She didn’t love me. She didn’t care about me or support me in any way. She never said I’m sorry, not ONCE!!! I deserve better than that. I started to ask what is it about me that made me give to a woman and still accept that type of treatment? I definitely need some time to myself.

[@raheelbelal5848]

Women wont say sorry...for them to say sorry means admitting a mistake. Before ending a relationship they will try to play victim and you hear the dumbest excuses.

[@ArthurDhillon]

Raheel Belal Agreed....100000%

[@teresitapaparelli8786]

the worst people in your life teach the most important lessons.

[@yzwoody]

Lu Bu Went through the same thing. She kept coming back only to treat me the same way and I let it happen. We all deserve better. And they will never be that person.

[@stevenmarkoll552]

@Lu Bu - hey man, its been 4 months since you posted this comment, just checking in with you to see if you ever gotten over it by now, or if you're still dealing with some shit.

[@bp7630]

Her best qualities are... nice body, tall, great cook, bubbly personality!... her worst qualities...always on her phone, too many Male friends, natural flirty, has been around with too many guys... yeah it's time for her to go!

[@Thefishingcaddy]

B p girls with a lot of guy friends are promiscuous and your never going to satisfy her because these guys will be rooting against you. Don’t fall for women that have this quality.

[@avivkochavi180]

Monkey branchin too

[@jtarcos4193]

@@Thefishingcaddy soooo true. They have many options. They dont need you. Untill they get old ;) haha

[@dennyhutsell4975]

Boom, there it is!!! 1. Always on phone. 2. Too many male friends. 3. Flirty. Good bye ✌🏻

[@nelsonnolasco9390]

No more texting or calling when she ignores me. It really hurts but i'm moving on. She does not deserve me! Jesus will help me heal🙏

[@Floridamexi]

Bro im on that same thing , I went against my gut and texted her and bam her New guy sarcastically texts me back... I blocked her right then and there and blocked her on fb deleted her from my phone

[@SamGatiNHO]

Dat PuertoRican I got dumped two months ago and I’m still feeling the same pain bro could you pls help me bro the technique you used to let it go ?

[@yassin5402]

@@SamGatiNHO coach warren - ...Grown man business and stack 44

[@AbhishekPandey-jk4qp]

@@SamGatiNHO i can help you If you contact

[@ahmog]

Thank you, this is really helpful to get over "just friends" rejection.

[@monkeytrollhunter]

This is by far one of the best videos I've ever seen. "Think of her worst quality, not the best quality because I deserve better" Thank you so much!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Wow, thank you!

[@justinbrockwell8396]

This one is golden. Great advice. Guys just have faith in the process, if it doesn't work out, if she cheats, lies, whatever... just smile and walk on. It's tough, but she wasn't for you.

[@Arcange93iam]

Guys. Its a Freaking BREAK Up Not A BREAK DOWN.. I Know Its Tough But What Makes You Bitter Makes You Better💯✊🏿 I'm going through the same but I know I will be alright. Take care kings👑🙏🏾✊🏿💯

[@hellswindstaff91]

this channel is a God send. Videos have been helping me cope and learn about myself. Blessings to you

[@dougiemui4519]

Love yourself first and foremost... loving someone is actually sharing yourself with them.. and if you don't love yourself you will always need someone to fill the void and emptiness. There's only one you in the entire eternity so go find yourself. Self love is the sure way to overcome the feeling of inadequacy.. Just my thought.

[@bigtimedrum]

One of the best ways of letting go, is to DELETE her number !....this way she not on your phone to call and its the quickest way to move on and make room for a better woman who deserves your attention to stay in touch with....Also start talking to other women , cuz this gives you a reason to see that there's plenty of fish in the sea and you will find a woman whom wants to work it out and be the better woman.

[@thanigaivelraja5369]

Yeah, best tip to move on is find another fish😂

[@kkwaku1039]

What if her number is in your mind like so easy popping up? Not easy deleting isn't gonna stop unless you don't know the number in mind

[@jeffdavenport3422]

This does not work if she is the mother of your child...

[@joshpage3911]

Thank you

[@michaeljackson7361]

Yes. Delete all communication

[@go-goakins1489]

I like going back to your past videos cuz I keep getting new insights from them. Letting go is always a challenge but time heals all wounds 🤙

[@go-goakins1489]

Plus rewatching your videos is instrumental i👈😎

[@enfynet]

For the first time in 20 years I’m stuck on someone who doesn’t feel the same way. It’s been so long since I’ve been in this position that I really don’t remember what I did before.

[@jamesrgriffinjr8282]

I think its easier for women to let go of us more then it is for men...Definitely NEED THIS THANK you💯

[@sheks89]

I just got through this post. And m bound to think this happens with everyone once a while. Here am I currently being ghosted and deserted by her. We had been together for 01 long years. Now when She is independent and an established medic, she tell me one fine day that I might not understand her and she can't see our future together. It was literally a shock. I was rooting for this woman for more than a decade just to hear this. This made me heartbroken. I tried meeting with her once, but she didn't even gave me a chance to meet for at least a closure. I kept thinking of the why and how but, now I hear that she is moving on with a medic. I understand that a person from a similar profession may be your go to partner, but I wasn't a medic and she knew it the day we came into this relationship. I am still looking forward to meet her once for the closure.

[@jasonpena7845]

I’m going through this right now! It’s so hard! 😞 o and may I say your so Beautiful! Thanks again for advice.

[@ronrecon117]

Finally got rid of all of her photos on my phone. Didn’t expect 2020 to hit me as hard. This video really helped me

[@surymukherjee105]

Death of love is painful but first step is to give it a good burial so that there is no resurrection.AP you are great.

[@samcotten2416]

I’ve had to let every girl go I’ve ever fallen for. Looking forward to the day when I’ll find someone who I don’t need to let go.

[@Allen-yr8zh]

God willing you will Sam

[@richardanderson8135]

I’m 59 she’s 32. Now I work out 6 days a week and have a very athletic body and look somewhat younger than 59 but I’m way too old for her. the sex is awesome and we love being with each other. I walked right into this one and should have used better judgment. I’m mourning my younger years instead of embracing my golden years. I’m like an athlete that begins to look foolish staying in the game instead of retiring. Now I’m emotionally attached and feeling a bit jealous when she talks about other men. I haven’t had these feelings in quite sometime but nothing for nothing I have to end this because she needs to date men closer to her age I just can’t seem to let her go I was so hoping I would never, ever have to go through this bullshit again , it’s so consuming Yea, I gotta get out of this before it gets to the point when she does wake up and realize I’m too old. She is very beautiful too so that makes it so hard I’m sitting here laughing at myself saying “ you stupid jerk, you knew this would happen!” Maybe I wanted it to who knows.. please wish me luck and I’m open for any advice

[@barneyrubble8839]

No fool like an old fool, age gap relationships never work, despite want some bullshit relationship coaches might tell you

[@ryanvtec3885]

'I'm going to use her and the feeling i had for her to strengthen who i am so when the next one comes along i don't screw it up. Turn the heartache and pain in to something positive.

[@stephenherrington3549]

Start reading 3% man by Corey wayne

[@tradedeals7158]

Yup

[@Clubz7]

This video i really needed.... I feel in love with her due to her fantasy side and we think in tune together. She was the perfect girl i thought, even with her bf. Your right, I do deserve better but it take time to heal. Lastly, i hated her negative side and she confused me a lot. I will still be friends with her but will back away and destroy her safety net. I need to heal and move on and become a better person. Thanks for the video!!

[@harrywilliams1363]

Apollonia Ponti is really knowledgeable and wise and an excellent dating couch. She’s a hero for all men fortunate enough to come upon her in all our struggles with relationships. Thank you Apollonia Ponti, you are loved!

[@DRTY3RD]

I want to add a fourth tip to Apollonia's EXCELLENT advice and pointers here: Point 4: TAKE UP A NEW HOBBY. This is something I'm finding that is helping me deal with the pain (& that's an understatement) of separating from the mother of my son (I won't use the legal term that follows divorce because I no longer claim her, thus I dont verbalize ownership--another thing I've learned). Something I've always wanted to do is learn how to play a musical instrument. I find that the time and energy I put into learning that is helping me to move on.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for the additional point!

[@DRTY3RD]

@@ApolloniaPonti you're welcome!

[@davidstevens4439]

She made me feel so good about myself--no one ever made me feel so strong and alive. But she is an alcoholic smoker who ignored me and called ex-boyfriends whenever we had even the slightest disagreement. All in all, I'm glad to be done with her. But it doesn't make it any easier during the lonely times.

[@dennyhutsell4975]

Wow, David. I’m sorry to hear this:( Very manipulative and cruel woman. People like her cause hurt because they are damaged. Smoking and drinking are huge red flags 🚩 I hope you move on and find a healthier person. In the meantime, work on your health 💪🏻

[@michaelscarborough7011]

10 years in a relationship and I've gone back 3 times.. I know it isn't working but she can't let go of me and I'm struggling to let go of her. I needed this SOOOOO bad. Thank you!!

[@209chevymon]

dude im in the exact same situation

[@jimsmith3971]

Dear Apollonia. With the energy and effort that you put into giving us Men your precious wisdom, You definitely have a place up in heaven waiting for you. Peace n luv from the UK.

[@nickmamojele5748]

Trying to let go and after a few days I would relapse, 11 years together. Trying and will make it

[@peter737]

How hard it is guys don't look back be strong and make things happen in life, not easy I know after all you are the price and you will find happiness with a real good woman believe it .

[@stevenmarkle8051]

I really miss her. I miss feeling special, I took things for granted, I don't blame her for how I feel now. I blame myself I promised so much to her, my alcoholism progressed, I failed to truly take notice of her concerns, boundaries, I became abusive mostly verbal but sometimes it got physical. I took away what she mostly needed her feeling of safety, stability and respect. All things I promised. I understand and admit my wrongs sadly it's to late. If you truly love someone you will do anything to make them happy. Unfortunately I let my addiction take away my beautiful, and I watched her go, now I cry for forgiveness and live with the regret of my actions and want so badly to say I'm sorry I love you.

[@mikescharff4248]

I did the exact same thing chin up!!!

[@gj.27_cm30]

that going on with me now😞

[@kepco.kennethehi-peterscon8244]

This is the best read here and carriesso much remorse and positive energy. Bless you bro

[@wesley6442]

you have no idea how your words at 9:00 made me feel, I felt a hopefulness and a great big smile come to my face... "happy" I miss being happy, I want that back. I want to be happy again, and confident again and working towards my future. I let her go for good this time, I wish her the best but it wasn't good for either of us.. all my love to anyone going through this, it's not easy.. please reach out and don't be afraid to work through the emotions

[@ClashIchigoat]

Never lose a person which makes efforts to hold u

[@shonhowlett3809]

hello there, just another one dude of many. Thank you for this video, i truly mean that. I have been going through a tough breakup involving allot of thoughts after the fact. This video was a divine blessed video to come across in my week of darkness. I am seeing the light that has lit a fire in me to have faith agian, thank you for real.

[@MarianMuruzabal]

Think of her worse qualities: i) She came with an endless trail of train whrecks including serial cheating and pathological lying with an ex bf with a restraining order, ii) Her vibe was off later to find out she was texting and going out behing my back, iii) She was a pathological liar and lacked any empathy, iv) Unable to GIVE, it was always about her seeking external validation and attention, v) She was constantly playing head games, gaslighting me, stonewalling me and giving me the silent treatment, and vi) although I helped her with everything in her life she never showed any remorse and never said "I´m sorry" for all the lies and the deceiving...in a nutshell I´m glad I was able to walk away from that narcissist piece of shit that keeps riding the cock carrousel. Me fellow men, if she is > 30 and still single chances are she is DAMAGED GOODS. I realize most women out there are definitely not worth your time and effort (and this applies also to most men).

[@AliNowak]

I agree, don’t hold emotions in. It just bothers u later which is not good. Emotions need to be expressed. Wow ur so close to 54k subscribers.

[@Buzzizoven]

Literally as i type this, I am on the brink of letting go of a woman who doesn’t love me as much as i love her, and no matter how distant i try to be to make her miss me and come around, it is not working. I feel like she has been playing me since we started dating. Also, she refers to me as her “Boy Toy” instead of her boyfriend.

[@rickyward6675]

Y'know what I learned? They wouldn't waste their time. Would you?

[@d0cn0tes]

Excellent video. One caveat ... the man should be alone because if she sees him with a rebound woman, he will never be able to get rid of his ex. If the ex sees him alone, she will get the impression that he’s desperate. But as you stated it is the time of rebuilding for the man and when he becomes whole again, he will choose the another woman

[@troyharper6967]

I love this video out of all your videos because it explains everything about what's best for a person & what's to come many blessings to you & your family ms. Apollonia 🌹

[@rmjmoviereviews6876]

I needed this video! I just got ghosted by a woman I fell for. It sucks, but I don't deny the feelings or hate her. I just know she's not right for me, and I will find a woman who appreciates me.

[@kumbia3004]

❤️ just wanna say that this one & the power of walking away were like for me real talk, you sure know what you are talking about and it has helped me in a lot of ways coming from a toxic relationship, I still love her but it's just been different. and I look at things and changed my mentality ever since I started watching your videos . can't wait to meet you when you come to the bay area.

[@johnmano1439]

I love the soothing way you talk... Like a true woman. Thank you.

[@LMcCOY0601]

We (men) equate breaking up with someone as a failure ... And it's not

[@14kurtismiller]

Good advise, don't spend time with people who are going to increase your bad habits. I tell people this all of the time, you are cool says I.

[@Arcange93iam]

A Life That Falls Apart Often Falls In Place. Pain Is Beautiful❤️✨

[@afactivitypresentation2212]

You’re like a prophet or something.lol literally all the answers i needed for the past 3 days one of your vids popped up on my timeline that i needed to hear and u literally answered all the things i needed to hear sweetheart

[@stoniecad7805]

You and Coach Corey Wayne are like the Yin and Yang of my dating/life advice .

[@tripass144]

A collab maybe?

[@scottconnell4033]

These videos are helping me so much on making sense of my break up with my ex girlfriend and with how I’m feeling with emotions thank you Apollonian 🙂

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for watching Scott

[@williambradford7354]

@@ApolloniaPonti how do we book a personal session?

[@nomasticetv.5524]

Undergoing the same but keeping my mind focused and heart strong. Giving away the little gifts she had bought for me and burning the hard copy pictures we took together. Difficult for me as a man but I trust in God. For her it will definitely be easy to move on but I'm glad we are not together anymore. 26th Dec. 2019. #Happy new year guys!!✌💟

[@mistanl4424]

Dont mixup the person you put in your head who they was versus the ugly truth🌊🌊🌊🌊💙💙💙🌊🌊🌊🌊heal and be bless!

[@mig2cool982]

I’m a great guy, as she said even when she broke up with me. I did mess up by showing signs of starting to be controlling, she said that. Don’t know how accurate but I wasn’t that bad I didn’t care who she talked to and I let her hangout with her friends. I know for my next one I’ll be good.

[@DARKMADNESS666]

People really think that relationships are a fighting match rather than think of them as RELATIONSHIPS. Of course your gonna fail when ever single little thing that do is threatening or offensive or hurtful. Grow the heck up. LIVE a little with this person. Be happy. Be easy going. Be open. I know it's not just black and white. Be assertive. Be honest. Be real.

[@emmanuelade7386]

oh I made my final decision today, Apollonia because I'm tired of her. I'm free now

[@ms.camillewarrenempress31]

Congrats ...

[@williamcherubin2219]

U not free bro 😆

[@KingsDR]

Only if it were that easy☹

[@TiyeeglowTV]

good man

[@clashofqueen93]

What's going on now?

[@tracki4760]

I love this girl I work with. We went out for two years and are still in love. She decided (for her children) she needs to see if she still loves the father of her children. Now I’m just at work everyday, miserable, while her “coping mechanism” is to laugh and joke with everyone. No video can help Bc the love is still there and I see her and hear her every day.

[@rahmelpervez697]

Fellas, if you're not feeling her no more but she's still feeling you!! Don't ghost her. Just be friends til she sees and accept the fact that you don't want her anymore... Bow out gracefully!!!. Don't forget you did want her before, so respect the fact that she did gave you the chance... ✌️

[@brandonholiday31]

She was a beautiful woman She was gr8 company She was a great fun person to talk to She was my best friend She was my 1st serious relationship We were together for 2 years

[@Macdonald7777]

You are absolutely amazing. Thank you very much for the advice. We all deserve better.

[@Rolypolioli79]

Señorita Ponti. Thank you for the tips. Right now I'm going thru this phase. I'll be honest. She's an extreamly wonderful woman. But has major trust issues. To the point where I feel rejected on a constant basis. I'm so head over heals for her but I feel like I need to move on but it's so hard because we have a past from even 6th-8th grade and high school. Plus 20 something years later. It just hurts deeply. But tge bottom line is this video is spot on. Thank you!

[@bolyd.3856]

This is on point. I can say it's real life advice mostly the third advice. It really helps !

[@TheAnc3211]

Think of her worst quality, lol, love it because that's exactly what I do. Surprisingly that makes me feel better. Loved the video because it is much needed right now. Only a month into a breakup and I dislike that I think about her often. Thanks Apollonia!

[@jeffrailey]

Since I’m a boxer, I sincerely thank my LORD JESUS that I have a positive outlook to release my anger. Once again, thank you Apollonia. You are a tremendous blessing. May my Mighty Lord and Savior Jesus Christ ALWAYS bless you. 💖💖🙏🏾🙏🏾✝️✝️

[@antmbdl]

I wasn't even letting anyone go, but I've been there and the video is super helpful!

[@Australia-ky7kx]

Such good advice. It takes determination to change the mind set.

[@gaitachi3256]

She is the most beautiful person in my eyes, we have the same birthday, and she helped me believe in love after I've given up. There's no way I can forget her. Maybe she forgot me, but I believe that she loved me too for some time. I was the one who messed up because I moved away every time she touched me. I was not a crappy person, but I didn't knew what was going on. Now, I am full of regrets😣 for losing my friend. 😊I always thank God for permitting me be part of her life. 💙

[@sundayaito4366]

Gaitachi 32 , man, what a story you got there...

[@gaitachi3256]

I haven't even told this to my best friend. It's a cool story, but I'm the one suffering. 😂

[@malikid1000]

I always end up being dumped because I become clingy with girls that I am not even attracted to. I need to listen to my intuition and just leave girls if I’m not feeling it.

[@OnFeature]

Anxious attachment sytle..

[@House6409]

This was a very helpful video. My gf came out as gay and moved out. It’s a new challenge to get over heartache and missing someone when you still have love for one another.

[@lolacookie453]

Chris House ooof that’s a rough one. So many bitter comments from so many angry men on here, and then I come across this. I hope you know that is one breakup (as gut wrenching) as it is, that you can not take personally. She didn’t reject you, she simply came to a realization of who she is while she was with you. I’m sorry bc I know nothing anyone says will take away the pain, heartbreak or memories. Please be kind to yourself and give yourself time to heal. You seem like a good guy and human being, you will attract a woman with the same caliber heart! All the best and stay safe!

[@leolyons9121]

My head is spinning. We were doing great together, ( even she says the same). Then one week after she told me she loves me, she broke up with me. (What the hell). She said i did nothing wrong but she needs to work ob herself.

[@kylefng]

She needed to work on her new relationship. My wife of 20 years did this. “Working on myself” was working things out with her boyfriend. When that didn’t work out she said she would be a good wife again. My decision was to stick or divorce her and pay 120K per year for 10 years. Now I’m broke. If a woman wants space give her the universe. If she needs time giver her the rest of her life. Under no circumstance get into a marriage

[@suj1140]

She told me the same thing. It’s a woman’s excuse to get out the relationship

[@Tyson.Top-T]

Same thing happened to me but it lasted 2 weeks after she said she loved me. Started saying she was still trying to figure out what she wants. such bullshit! they never know what they want and they change their mind like the weather. I didn’t entertain her bullshit for 1 more second and it was the best thing i’ve ever done. Move on.

[@georgebrandt8864]

NBC

[@WestCoastReg]

How exactly my situation went. Mind blowing.

[@svsagar4263]

Thanks.... This helps... I understood your message like this...... Instead of talking and scolding her for what she did and all other stuff.... Instead just control our emotions, be better and improve...... And understand things happen.... I hope I understood correct....

[@campingforayearrenoheart5908]

Best way to get over someone get on top of someone new ! Rebound time

[@MisterDawn-p1x]

ROFL good one. 😂😆

[@jhonsmith2150]

Haaaa yes this is a very good option ! 👍😁😉

[@theSaint-1964]

I think its " best way to get over someone, is to get under someone "

[@deancowhig3233]

You know it works every time

[@dancehallvibestv2847]

@@deancowhig3233 yeah my ex can't get over all now n she's with someone else

[@webeducation]

Wow, I always heard you put in 100%/100% . I was so wrong about that. Thank you for setting things straight.

[@danhuskey2496]

Thank you so much.Your insight and advice is so valuable.

[@armandog1913]

Thank you Apollonia I will play this video over and over because as of today she says to forget about her and it hurts.

[@drbreeden4093]

Letting go has become the easier part... any advice on where to find a person worth holding on to would be amazing!

[@mdogruc]

😂👍

[@whtchocolate7997]

You have to remember that when she's done she's done. There's nothing you can say. it's over. Is it worth stopping your life because of another sentient being. You lived this long before you met her. I was lucky af, my first love contacted me the day of my break up. But I know how you feel. I didn't know how I was going to go on without this woman even though most of it was my fault. It taught me how to not treat someone. You are human and humans are cursed with emotions

[@shadowplayz8182]

Thank you for the Good Advices. Happy Holidays.

[@gramcliches1980]

I feel you Apollonia. But 1 thing in particular I have to address: We men, we are not scornful creatures that carry hatred and bitterness in our hearts. So the "remember what she did wrong" advice. We'd rather not remind ourselves of the pain. Truth be told most of us loved our women so, it doesn't make a man feel great to put a woman down, even if she is 100% to blame.

[@Shawn6751]

Yeah, it's like putting Ole Yeller down.

[@paslotplayer]

When she says shes wanting another man to call her back but unknown guy wont. Red Flag to stop. I dont need a life coach for that.

[@josephamoren4688]

Im so thankful to you😊😊 I was really the one who made a mistakes, i love your videos by the way 😇 Greatly made me happy 😊