How to Stop Second Guessing Yourself

[@racheledmonson572]

WOW!! I listen to Stop Guessing Yourself podcast this morning at 6:30am and I put it into practice at work today. I am in training for a position I asked for, I told my manager I wanted to do something different or sit alongside someone and learn a new skill. Well he found me something else to do that I am training and yes I have been second guessing myself. I was saying to jye😮Why did I do this? I was in a comfortable place and plus I was working from as well we a extra day off during the week along with the weekend. I have been self sabotaging myself, afraid to ask questions but today I was put to a test. I was ask to do something that I have never done before and by myself. So I went into the restroom got in front of the mirror and I said Stop it don’t say that, commit to what you ask for, ask questions if you get wrong ask questions again and keep asking if you make a mistake, take the responsibility and ask again keep going. I had the best day at work today..I ask so many questions but I had to keep telling myself stop it shut up!! WHeW!! God is Good! Thank you Chrystal for your podcast!!

[@thea7418]

Thank you God. Thank you Chrystal. Thank you me for tuning in today.

[@likitarucker6589]

Thank you, Crystal. I'm struggling with starting my T-shirt Busines/Ministry. Please pray with me. Thank you for your encouragement.

[@praisechinonye1320]

U get to no u

[@MoniqueDarden]

I JUST posted mine!! Today!!! Come on, girl!!! We need you!

[@WhosoeverGirl]

Likita … I’m in the same boat with you!!! This week let’s just put out one shirt

[@jessicaredding5144]

Hi Likita! I'm too am trying to start my T-shirt business as well. We have our purpose in life, and I know through God, we've can do this! I am praying for you, sis, in Christ!

[@restoredtohiswill7180]

Do it ladies!!! I love to write and stepped out on faith and starting writing Christian romance novellas and actually got paid for one of them. It wasn’t a lot! but it gave me the confidence to keep writing.

[@totalbodybeauty4832]

The way I kept looking back at my phone because you read my whole life today!!! My biggest fear is, I don't want to make a decision outside of God's will, but even down to little things where I can make a choice, I get stuck! Ugh lol Thank you!!!!

[@Li-Anderson]

Wait, did you, boldly say, "sometimes I don't like the gift", BUT, I have to share it, because it is my assignment!🫢😂❤️ Yes, indeed,sis, that part! Thank you, for simply being you!🥰

[@spirchro36]

Hey, love your channel and my struggle was leaving and joining a church. I believe if I am a Daughter of God and proclaiming Jesus I need a Pastor!!, I was riding around with a letter to previous Pastor, waiting to join new church. Then one day I mailed it…Now to join new church. Then, I just did it and stop allowing my mind to be filled with “what ifs!!. Now on to the next thing, selling or donating a car😂😂🙃🌹. Thank you

[@ashleyquinones3758]

Great podcast. Loved the squirrel example.

[@miyoniab]

I was going back and forth about taking a job because I was nervous about starting over. But I know God will give me the confidence I need to succeed. Thank you for this video. It was right on time 🙌🙌❤️

[@brittnaybrown259]

Came across this podcast and this blessed my life! I’ve been struggling for years with indecisiveness but I know that stems from childhood and never seeing or feeling secure, I’m working on healing that part of me but this was so good! A must rewatch! Love this

[@nikeisharey]

Brittany Brown thank you for sharing!!! Today I sat and started reflecting on my life and how indecisive and often times negative and always feeling like I have to give to get and as you said a lack of security....which all started from childhood..

[@deborahjohnson238]

Thank you for this word it’s something I’ve struggled With please pray for me that I can stop second guessing myself 🙏🏻

[@wandanash]

This was a confirmation to me and a faith/confidence builder in The Lord and myself! ❤

[@ChrystalHurst]

So glad to hear that!

[@glendabenson6764]

I’m currently struggling with learning who I am as a woman, mother of 2 adult women and grandmother to a teenage girl. This was my first time listening to one of your talks in full, and I was truly encouraged, energized, and my faith thermometer is raising. Continued blessings to you Kingdom Women, stirring the kingdom for God’s glory. Thank you.

[@jessicaredding5144]

Hey Glenda! This is my first time coming across this video, too. I will pray that you will allow God to teach and show how to be a blessed mother and grandmother to them all, with confidence 🙏

[@glendabenson6764]

@@jessicaredding5144 Thank you!! Blessings!

[@Joi004]

"Doubt is rooted in low self-esteem." That's keeping it so real. Thank you. 🟡

[@Webbgurl2000]

Which is often rooted in adverse childhood experiences which cause trauma.

[@adriaowens396]

I had to rewind this part over and over. I realize partly where it comes from and I see how I deflect and self-sabotage. Great message!

[@ajuaburrs]

Thankyou Crystal for the very practical advice . Hearing that decision making does not need to be separate from trusting God is much needed. Thankyou.

[@tarneshakegler5834]

Wow. I just realized that I have lived most of my life like this. NO MORE!!!! Thank You.

[@cherylkenyon2408]

Omigosh. Ill have to listen to this a thousand times over!! I've been overthing a business decision for months now , literally crying because I can't decide if it's what I should do. And I'm praying daily on it . Thank you for the great advice!!!

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad you are here Cheryl. Praying that God makes your next steps clear.

[@Dobbie890]

You are a late birdie huh Chrissy! The Lord is with you Daughter of The Most High God! Please continue to let God use you in whatever capacity He can! ...you looking more and more like Sis Lois!

[@monicasoyombo3360]

Sis, you are always on time. I'm starting to be extremely sensitive to Gods voice these days...certain words set off an alarms in my spirit, and I know it's a signal to pay attention. My ugandan mom used to always say a phrase that I've never heard ANY other person say.... "when you know in your Noah" ( with the accent) 😜 ....I felt this shift coming and I just needed a little nudge to pull back off of ALL the things I thought I should be doing, in order to start what God has asked me to do. This is it. Wow, look how faithful God is to direct when we ask with an obedient heart. Thanks to you for all you do. Praying for you, your book and the process. 🙏🏿

[@outofthepits]

This made so much sense, and i needed the slap on the wrist. Very timely message. I have been struggling making decisions regarding my home these days and where to reside. There are many other things, but that is the biggest decision I am struggling with. I haven't qualified for loans and my house is getting worse structural damage due to the lack of foundation and the sinking that has taken place, but to sell and move - the Lord would have to open up several doors and opportunities with house and apartment rents...amongst some other curve balls. Please keep me in prayer for this.....i don't usually put my business out there like that, but it's a decision i have struggled with for years, and it's hitting a peak and I really don't know what to do. I am a single Mom with limited support system.

[@RaSpiritual999]

I just came across your channel. Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this.

[@jujucamelia3236]

Whew 😮‍💨 this was soooooo good and in alignment with what I’ve been dealing with 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

[@kelligirl2482]

Thank you thank you!! It seems most of my life I have had doubted myself and I’ve paid the price because of it. I have to change my thinking about myself thank you Crystal.

[@nicolereese3374]

Thank you for this encouraging message ❤! I struggle with second-guessing myself because it may not happen quickly enough for me, or I see it happening for everyone else other than me.

[@justaskcan]

This is so rich I’m going to have to circle back a number of times. God bless you, Chrystal!

[@sherinascott5967]

Needed this word..I love how God is using you in this season to impact my life.

[@kenneidrabrownbender1935]

thank you Mrs. Chrystal! I am definitely an overthinker and have had low self esteem since i was a child. I needed this to assist me in becoming confident in who i am in Christ !

[@Seasoncromwell]

Way to put it out there for the book and goal setting. I will specifically pray for this to come to fruition.

[@NissaSelfLoveCoach]

This was good. I am 25 years old and I have had that issue all of my life and I am making the steps to overcome the overthinking and the doubt of my life

[@WordItGirl]

It just felt right to click this video as I stared at the 20 or so paint chips spread out before me. I kept looking over at you & finally asked, “Are we still talking about paint?” 😂 God used your words as the lens cleaner I needed for areas I didn’t even know I needed to see…AND, for ‘cupola yellow.’ 😂 Seriously though, thanks for all you do! 💕

[@antionettelawrence191]

Thank you for sharing. I know what is like to second guess myself. I am grateful to God that I have made progress. God is faithful 🙏❤️

[@xclusivedzn]

First, thank you for this message of encouragement. I have been beating myself up so much about any and everything. After listening to this message, I realize my biggest struggle is me - trusting me. Thank you!

[@loygreen]

So I woke up this morning and did something different and did not know what I was doing until I listened to your words, here. I was practicing after having learned in the past year to : INTERRUPT, ACCEPT AND, REDIRECT. This morning I implemented PRACTICE. GOD BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU FOR MAKING IT CLEAR TO ME!

[@lisathornton3766]

I am so pleasantly outdone! Thank you Chrystal! I am struggling with my job situation because I don’t have a degree. I am 58 with 3 grown children and I work as a food service worker at a elementary school. It is not paying what I need. Learning not to second guess myself is what I needed. Thank you Lord for this opportunity to hear good sound advice. God bless you Sis❤ #interviewtime

[@anitascott6680]

lisathornton3766 I turned 60 in January and received my BBA! You GOT this Lisa!!!! Go for it!!! That was one of my second guesses!- the other came when my husband accepted his calling in ministry as Pastor. Although,we have worked in ministry as a team for the last 12 years this new chapter has me nervous. He has asked me to speak on several occassions and I always feel like I'm not qualified.

[@MamaShera1]

Everything appears to be a struggle! There’s just a lot going on at the same time and I have no physical help to get it done. I just feel stuck, but I appreciate this word and I’m going to do my best to apply it to my life, thank you so much! ❤

[@ashleighsefaidiga9209]

That is me exactly and i have learned recently that it's because im afraid of making mistakes and i want to get things right the first time around and have a perfect life with no mistakes. But what that has done to me is i have found myself shrinking myself, holding myself back all the time and being afraid of stepping out and just taking a chance so ultimately just watch my life go by.

[@mayam7334]

I started this last night and finished it this morning. Thank you Thank you Thank you! I just realized I've been praying to God for better discernment and He has been equipping me with/upgrading my tools to be able to do just that. Part of that is Trusting myself and this message is helping better understand my second guessing so I can MAKE A DECISION and pick a sidewalk. I am grateful to God for you making this video and sharing this wisdom!

[@imluk145]

Omgoodness!!! Jesus knows I needed this topic-there’s no second guessing that!!!!!! Thank you!!

[@Samirasvictoriousgoods]

Much needed advice In this season, conformation I’m on the right track

[@mariacormier7555]

Crystal, I so needed to hear this. I have been second guessing on getting me a lil companion. For some reason I started Second, guessing myself on whether or not, I could take care of a dog, not a big dog, a little dog someone will be a little companion for me. I started letting the wood is crowd out my excitement of having a little buddy in the house. After listening to you, I will be getting me a little buddy.

[@ChosenByHisGrace]

I really needed this today!!

[@charnettesmith800]

O'MYYYYY goodness this is sooooooooo GOOD. You JUST CAME DOWN AND UP MY STREET. I NEEDED this LORD HAVE MERCY!!! So grateful to GOD for always supplying OUR NEEDS in one way or the other. I CANNOT BELIEVE HOW YOU ARE SPEAKING DIRECTLY TO ME!!! I'VE ALWAYS SECOND GUESSED MYSELF.. THIS IS A DELIVERANCE MESSAGE FOR ME, can't speak for anyone else!!! Thank you thank you and thank you!!! Please stay on this TOPIC AND YES WRITE YOUR BOOK...I know it will be a BEST SELLER...GLORY BE TO GOD!!! THANK YOU JESUS FOR THISSSSS!!!

[@cemathis985]

This is my first time watching! I live in Mansfield, TX. I thoroughly ENJOYED hearing this!!!

[@doloresanderson2476]

Thank you for the encouraging words. You said some things that I will definitely keep close. May God continue to bless you and this ministry.

[@lisabartley6944]

Praise God and Get It Chrystal 🙌🎊🎉❤️!!!

[@aecmediallc1068]

Just the boost I needed! So glad you addressed the second guessing syndrome. Awesome advice and guidelines! Good Luck with your book! I know it'll be GREAT!

[@violetturner3544]

AMEN THANK YOU

[@lizf3949]

Thank you for sharing this message with us, that the Lord placed upon your heart to share. I have been an indecisive person most of my life. I tend to make decisions based on my heart (character and emotions), flesh (my needs), and mostly for others needs more so than my own. There needs tend to outweigh mine because that's what I grew up believing that a Christian should put the needs of others first. It created happiness and freedom for them but anger, frustration, resentment and pain for me. I'm seeking God for guidance in a situation right now. He has been speaking to me for many years about and I'm still second guessing what I should do. This message came in such a timely manner. I will continue to watch and absorb your words as I make choices in other areas in my life. Please pray for God to continue His guidance in my life and for me to open my ears and clear my vision to receive it. In Jesus Name! 🙏🏾❤️

[@vedawattieram15]

I have been dealing with a number of issues as well, especially over the last few months. Tonight, I spoke to a counselor. I am working on a plan of action as well as writing a list of YES and NO items that will help me to focus on my priority for this year. Lord, I pray for Liz. Grant her wisdom to help her stop the second guessing and focus on what you are speaking to her about. Lord, you know what she needs to help her move forward. Grant her the help, Father.

[@monie522]

Good for you pulling back to do what you need to do.

[@bharris-ly1wk]

Hi Chrystal, thank you so-oh much for this video. this is so what I needed to hear and helped me make up my mind... I'm praying from this moment, no more second guessing..Blessings over you, your family and your life..love from Fairburn. GA.

[@sherylgregg3586]

You have a natural beauty with your makeover. You glow! I look forward to your new season. It will inspire me to participate.

[@julliacook9001]

This connected so many dots for me, thank you! I love how you repeat your points over and over again using different verbiage. Great way to reach a broader audience. I read you load and clear, lady. Have a blessed season. ❤

[@GrowthnGod]

Thank you Minister a Crystal! Your transparency is refreshing

[@sharron8766]

Thank you Crystal🤗 This was so encouraging and practical. I have been strugg-ga-ling with analysis paralysis 🥴 but this is exactly what I needed to hear. Just do it, and if/when we miss it or mess up, it's not the end of the world. Get back up and go again. Love you sister💕💕💕

[@lourenciaaugustinho7644]

Thank you, Chrystal just the right strategy to counter second guessing and being practical about making decisions.

[@angelawright1905]

Thank you Chrystal Evans Hurst for this message I needed this message because I do second guess myself .Currently looking for a new job going to school and debating if should get a certification to promote myself in my career. Pray for me please!

[@brandy6283]

Oh my goodness, Chystal! You are a Godsend. Such a timely message. Thank YOU!

[@lasondrasmith6907]

Thank you Mrs. Chrystal!!🥹♥️

[@miriamparrilla1355]

Hi Crystal.im praying about relocating to Florida. Please keep me in prayer now or later 😊

[@miriamparrilla1355]

Later

[@chocol8cugr]

This is my first time listening to this podcast and Lord knows I needed this. Thanks Chrystal

[@lanitalewis3607]

this video was very helpful to me. I second guess my self a lot and don't trust myself. I struggle with my self esteem and have for most of my life (really almost as far as I can remember). I struggle with indecision and it causes me to lose time. Thanks for your guidance in this video.

[@puritymuriuki6743]

This is great. I've been second guessing myself, not confident in my decisions and yes I doubted if I'm capable of making the right decision but the worst was, I never extended grace to myself. I've learnt a lot. ❤

[@stephaniedavis8888]

Love that I get notified of your episodes! Sundays get busy sometimes. 😊❤️

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad you were able to join!

[@sonyguest8495]

Crystal, Thank you for the confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@lateishaclement]

This is so helpful. I've been second guessing whether to invest in a coach while I have limited funds. *In reading this back, I know to wait until I'm in a better position to do so. Further, I'm trying to be such a good steward that I've been squirreling around with every minor (and needed purchase). So, I am pacing myself with the everyday expenses and am doing my best to do what I can and trust God with what I can't do on my own. I guess what's left now is radical acceptance of what I can do with a clear conscience and moving forward with peace of mind.

[@lonnettaneal3752]

LOVE THIS IM SUCH AN OVER THINKER AND IM GOING TO LISTEN TO IT AGAIN. THANK YOU!!!❤

[@ConversationswCourtney]

Thank you! Great topic. I am learning to trust my decision making, life’s process, have more positive self talk, and giving myself grace. Keep moving forward!❤

[@takeshiabowens7435]

Wow sooooo needed. I feel like you were speaking directly to me

[@karenwhite1111]

I’m so glad I watched this replay! I’m second guess every decision I make. There are times in which I don’t act upon things that I think I’d like to do but am afraid it won’t work out. An example of my second guessing is whether to start my handmade greeting card business. I spend so much time overthinking and second guessing and it’s exhausting. Part of it comes from not feeling confident that I could actually have a successful business and the other part is simply not knowing where or how to get started. I will be rewatching this one for sure!

[@ChrystalHurst]

Thanks for watching Karen!

[@karenwhite1111]

@@ChrystalHurst I absolutely love the inner circle and receiving your wonderful nuggets of wisdom! Thank YOU for your transparency, honesty and willingness to share.

[@queenjesse1000]

@Karen White that’s a wonderful idea that I have had as well and wanted to tell you to start with Canva. It’s a great design tool that you can design your cards on to see what they look like and you can download and save your finished work. Try it out and see how it works for you. Blessings to you! ❤

[@karenwhite1111]

@@queenjesse1000 thank you so much for your encouragement and advice! Blessings to you sis!!

[@kathrynrojas-osborne5458]

Thank you ! Lord knows I needed this edifying moment

[@kieshalawrence6920]

I'm so glad I'm not by myself I don't throw anything away and then I become overwhelmed I thank God for every help that comes my way cause I know I need it 💯 God bless you so much 🙏 and I am a subscriber now your teaching remarkable it's what woman has to learn on this journey of pressing to the mark of answering the calling of the most high ♥️ 🎉

[@jessicaredding5144]

Greetings! This is my first time coming across video today! This has truly blessed me! You have given us the encouragement to just move forward and to stop second-guessing ourselves. Blessings to all

[@littledarlasadventure6895]

Thank you this helped me to stop second guessing that I know what I have learned and just because I couldn’t answer a question and later answering it doesn’t mean I don’t know what I know I was just caught off guard…Thsts where the second guessing myself has come in so this has helped me to be better prepared for questions that could come from presenting information to others…

[@shirleybrewer4210]

Thanks my love,I will give myself grace.i will rise above the situation thats trying to stop second guessing my self.

[@melissamwiti9553]

Wow Chrystal, I loved this! All the 4 ways (very easy and practical to remember) spoke loudly and clearly about what I need to do... thank you so much!

[@moniquesimmons6738]

Good for you on pulling back! So proud of you! 😊 Wish you the best on finishing your new book.

[@sherryrivera3070]

Wow, you hit it on the button I have been struggling for years to write a book 📙. I have gotten confirmation from people who didn't know I was supposed to write a book. They told me people need to hear my story it would help alot of people. However, every time I go to write I stop and think about how this will affect others but when they are the ones that hurt me. Any way big booster from you. I just have to do it.

[@taneragreen2782]

I need this message.

[@artheliamitchell437]

Thank you so much. On time word. I needed this today. May God continue to bless you for being such a blessing. 💖

[@michellebirchett5903]

Wonderful video. Just what I needed.

[@tashat3326]

Congratulations!!!!💛Good for you, happy for you

[@ashfils2103]

Awesome video. Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@50fine]

I can't say how much this resonates with me. I really can't. But, just know, this is a good word.

[@faithwalk.]

On time message

[@javondamoore9930]

Thank you! I appreciate this word.

[@StephaniePlainPotter]

Blessings! Thank you so much!

[@Binaishere]

I’m so late responding to this video, but still hoping that you will see this message. I’m also struggling with starting a business as a personal stylist. It’s my dream to style women who are in transition. I’m tired of standing in my way and doubting myself. Thanks for providing this episode. I hope it will encourage me.

[@ChrystalHurst]

So glad you watched. Glad it was helpful!

[@penelopetasher7344]

Sound advice. God bless

[@tldean5940]

This was excellent, wise counsel! THANK YOU!!

[@patiencemunhenzva7254]

Watching from Zimbabwe....thank you Crystal

[@sphumelelemkhize8404]

A word in season. Thank you Ma'am.

[@rhondatownes2013]

I Absolutely Needed To Hear This ! Thank you ❤

[@kimberlywebb3730]

This was very encouraging. I struggle with procrastination to make a decision. I've fallen into the trap of complacency. I will transform and renew my mind. With God ALL things are possible. God bless you and your family. 🙏

[@marvaodle278]

Very inspirational words of wisdom

[@sparkleboea]

Loved your opening to this video! Thank you for that. ❤

[@anamunguiacoach7676]

Thanks for putting words into my second guessing! 😊

[@marciacarson163]

Great encouragement….thank you

[@makingmovesvips]

Good for you. Congratulations!!

[@vhin1673]

Just turned into this and topic caught my interest right away! I appreciate the directions....to trust my Knower -Holy Spirit! Thank you so much for being real about this and stopping the vicious cycle of anxiety....Thank you

[@deeloper-hetlage598]

Excellent!

[@valerieakon7313]

On time with this nugget