How to Stop Second Guessing Yourself

Have you ever found yourself second guessing yourself? Well, you are not alone my friend. We all have moments like this, and some of us more than others. Regardless of where you fall on the spectrum of doubt, I have something to tell you…
It is impossible to live your life well if you are constantly asking yourself “what if “. In this episode I give the 4 steps to getting out of this harmful cycle. These simple steps will give you the key to overcoming self doubt and opening the door to true freedom.
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[@racheledmonson572]

WOW!! I listen to Stop Guessing Yourself podcast this morning at 6:30am and I put it into practice at work today. I am in training for a position I asked for, I told my manager I wanted to do something different or sit alongside someone and learn a new skill. Well he found me something else to do that I am training and yes I have been second guessing myself. I was saying to jye😮Why did I do this? I was in a comfortable place and plus I was working from as well we a extra day off during the week along with the weekend. I have been self sabotaging myself, afraid to ask questions but today I was put to a test. I was ask to do something that I have never done before and by myself. So I went into the restroom got in front of the mirror and I said Stop it don’t say that, commit to what you ask for, ask questions if you get wrong ask questions again and keep asking if you make a mistake, take the responsibility and ask again keep going. I had the best day at work today..I ask so many questions but I had to keep telling myself stop it shut up!! WHeW!! God is Good! Thank you Chrystal for your podcast!!

[@likitarucker6589]

Thank you, Crystal. I'm struggling with starting my T-shirt Busines/Ministry. Please pray with me. Thank you for your encouragement.

[@praisechinonye1320]

U get to no u

[@MoniqueDarden]

I JUST posted mine!! Today!!! Come on, girl!!! We need you!

[@WhosoeverGirl]

Likita … I’m in the same boat with you!!! This week let’s just put out one shirt

[@jessicaredding5144]

Hi Likita! I'm too am trying to start my T-shirt business as well. We have our purpose in life, and I know through God, we've can do this! I am praying for you, sis, in Christ!

[@restoredtohiswill7180]

Do it ladies!!! I love to write and stepped out on faith and starting writing Christian romance novellas and actually got paid for one of them. It wasn’t a lot! but it gave me the confidence to keep writing.

[@brittnaybrown259]

Came across this podcast and this blessed my life! I’ve been struggling for years with indecisiveness but I know that stems from childhood and never seeing or feeling secure, I’m working on healing that part of me but this was so good! A must rewatch! Love this

[@nikeisharey]

Brittany Brown thank you for sharing!!! Today I sat and started reflecting on my life and how indecisive and often times negative and always feeling like I have to give to get and as you said a lack of security....which all started from childhood..

[@miyoniab]

I was going back and forth about taking a job because I was nervous about starting over. But I know God will give me the confidence I need to succeed. Thank you for this video. It was right on time 🙌🙌❤️

[@thea7418]

Thank you God. Thank you Chrystal. Thank you me for tuning in today.

[@deborahjohnson238]

Thank you for this word it’s something I’ve struggled With please pray for me that I can stop second guessing myself 🙏🏻

[@wandanash]

This was a confirmation to me and a faith/confidence builder in The Lord and myself! ❤

[@ChrystalHurst]

So glad to hear that!

[@kelligirl2482]

Thank you thank you!! It seems most of my life I have had doubted myself and I’ve paid the price because of it. I have to change my thinking about myself thank you Crystal.

[@cherylkenyon2408]

Omigosh. Ill have to listen to this a thousand times over!! I've been overthing a business decision for months now , literally crying because I can't decide if it's what I should do. And I'm praying daily on it . Thank you for the great advice!!!

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad you are here Cheryl. Praying that God makes your next steps clear.

[@ajuaburrs]

Thankyou Crystal for the very practical advice . Hearing that decision making does not need to be separate from trusting God is much needed. Thankyou.

[@totalbodybeauty4832]

The way I kept looking back at my phone because you read my whole life today!!! My biggest fear is, I don't want to make a decision outside of God's will, but even down to little things where I can make a choice, I get stuck! Ugh lol Thank you!!!!

[@mayam7334]

I started this last night and finished it this morning. Thank you Thank you Thank you! I just realized I've been praying to God for better discernment and He has been equipping me with/upgrading my tools to be able to do just that. Part of that is Trusting myself and this message is helping better understand my second guessing so I can MAKE A DECISION and pick a sidewalk. I am grateful to God for you making this video and sharing this wisdom!

[@Joi004]

"Doubt is rooted in low self-esteem." That's keeping it so real. Thank you. 🟡

[@Webbgurl2000]

Which is often rooted in adverse childhood experiences which cause trauma.

[@adriaowens396]

I had to rewind this part over and over. I realize partly where it comes from and I see how I deflect and self-sabotage. Great message!

[@tarneshakegler5834]

Wow. I just realized that I have lived most of my life like this. NO MORE!!!! Thank You.

[@MamaShera1]

Everything appears to be a struggle! There’s just a lot going on at the same time and I have no physical help to get it done. I just feel stuck, but I appreciate this word and I’m going to do my best to apply it to my life, thank you so much! ❤

[@sherinascott5967]

Needed this word..I love how God is using you in this season to impact my life.

[@Dobbie890]

You are a late birdie huh Chrissy! The Lord is with you Daughter of The Most High God! Please continue to let God use you in whatever capacity He can! ...you looking more and more like Sis Lois!

[@outofthepits]

This made so much sense, and i needed the slap on the wrist. Very timely message. I have been struggling making decisions regarding my home these days and where to reside. There are many other things, but that is the biggest decision I am struggling with. I haven't qualified for loans and my house is getting worse structural damage due to the lack of foundation and the sinking that has taken place, but to sell and move - the Lord would have to open up several doors and opportunities with house and apartment rents...amongst some other curve balls. Please keep me in prayer for this.....i don't usually put my business out there like that, but it's a decision i have struggled with for years, and it's hitting a peak and I really don't know what to do. I am a single Mom with limited support system.

[@glendabenson6764]

I’m currently struggling with learning who I am as a woman, mother of 2 adult women and grandmother to a teenage girl. This was my first time listening to one of your talks in full, and I was truly encouraged, energized, and my faith thermometer is raising. Continued blessings to you Kingdom Women, stirring the kingdom for God’s glory. Thank you.

[@jessicaredding5144]

Hey Glenda! This is my first time coming across this video, too. I will pray that you will allow God to teach and show how to be a blessed mother and grandmother to them all, with confidence 🙏

[@glendabenson6764]

@@jessicaredding5144 Thank you!! Blessings!

[@monicasoyombo3360]

Sis, you are always on time. I'm starting to be extremely sensitive to Gods voice these days...certain words set off an alarms in my spirit, and I know it's a signal to pay attention. My ugandan mom used to always say a phrase that I've never heard ANY other person say.... "when you know in your Noah" ( with the accent) 😜 ....I felt this shift coming and I just needed a little nudge to pull back off of ALL the things I thought I should be doing, in order to start what God has asked me to do. This is it. Wow, look how faithful God is to direct when we ask with an obedient heart. Thanks to you for all you do. Praying for you, your book and the process. 🙏🏿

[@nicolereese3374]

Thank you for this encouraging message ❤! I struggle with second-guessing myself because it may not happen quickly enough for me, or I see it happening for everyone else other than me.

[@thanksgivers416]

🙌🏾 Such a timely word for me...Thank you!

[@CleaningTravelComedyLife]

Thank you! Perfect timing, I needed to hear these words!!❤

[@barbarawalker7501]

Such a rich message! Thanks Chrystal!!!

[@rubyl.thomas]

Thank you for this confirmation!

[@LoveDeeWilliams]

I needed this❤️

[@mrschisholm726]

Thank you Chrystal 🥰

[@lionloxs]

Happy I came across your videos. This right here spoke to me. Thank you sis. ❤

[@ashleighsefaidiga9209]

That is me exactly and i have learned recently that it's because im afraid of making mistakes and i want to get things right the first time around and have a perfect life with no mistakes. But what that has done to me is i have found myself shrinking myself, holding myself back all the time and being afraid of stepping out and just taking a chance so ultimately just watch my life go by.

[@rhondatownes2013]

I Absolutely Needed To Hear This ! Thank you ❤

[@koraspeaks1078]

U inspire me & I needed to hear this thank you ❤

[@madeleinejeremy434]

Thank you loved this!! 🌟❤️

[@anamunguiacoach7676]

Thanks for putting words into my second guessing! 😊

[@odilekayijuka5783]

I love you Chrystal, this was soooo goood!!. 👌🏾

[@ChosenByHisGrace]

I really needed this today!!

[@Jewelc1116]

This was a blessing❤❤

[@MeetTheBratchers]

I loved this!! I will keep on practicing and praying

[@allisoncomrie1330]

I needed this 😢 thank you

[@kamaries6606]

Thank you so much Crystal!! I’m so glad my mind thought to listen to this today. Your words helped me today.

[@jalyncooper3907]

Thank you so much for this!

[@sparkleboea]

Loved your opening to this video! Thank you for that. ❤

[@adtsmj]

Love this ! This is me everyday/week!!!

[@sphumelelemkhize8404]

A word in season. Thank you Ma'am.

[@wandabooker1394]

I absolutely love your authenticity! Wisdom with laughter!

[@sonyguest8495]

Crystal, Thank you for the confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kd8983]

Thank you Chrystal❤

[@reginaojiw1653]

Thank you for this

[@annetteratliffclark]

So good! Thank you!

[@jasminebailey6810]

Thank you Crystal! This was super timely ❤❤ Looking forward to hearing your next book has been written 🎉🎉

[@joyene9755]

Thank you for this video

[@StephaniePlainPotter]

Blessings! Thank you so much!

[@andreadawkins3622]

soooo helpful

[@livinlifewithneyah6250]

I love this thank you so much!!! Please continue to share your knowledge

[@ashfils2103]

Awesome video. Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@michellebirchett5903]

Wonderful video. Just what I needed.

[@jbgreene-richardson1254]

This has been great! Praying about a new business! Thank you!

[@lasondrasmith6907]

Thank you Mrs. Chrystal!!🥹♥️

[@javondamoore9930]

Thank you! I appreciate this word.

[@tay8146]

LOVE THIS!!!! 😊🌟💛⭐️🌻✍🏽

[@deeloper-hetlage598]

Excellent!

[@creativelyanalytic]

First time watching, and I so appreciate this authentic delivery and practical advice that can be applied to every day life!

[@wendyjali1170]

So enlightening💡🙏🏽

[@marciacarson163]

Great encouragement….thank you

[@tanaye8394]

Amen! Just what I needed. At a crossroad and needing to make a decision. Ill make one now, leading it with prayer. Thank you

[@valerieakon7313]

On time with this nugget

[@chennettbrown38]

Thank you Crystal! This was an on time word for me. I am one of those people who sometimes run around in the road trying to decide what side of the street to go on. This has helped me learn how to make decisions and how to stick with them. God bless you!

[@JadaJackson-yl6gy]

This was beautiful

[@francescajones6093]

This has BLESSED MY SOUL🙌 and brought so much clarity and determination to KEEP GOING!! Thank you so much for sharing.

[@tashat3326]

Congratulations!!!!💛Good for you, happy for you

[@tldean5940]

This was excellent, wise counsel! THANK YOU!!

[@yvonnemfuller]

Good word Crystal

[@moniquesimmons6738]

Good for you on pulling back! So proud of you! 😊 Wish you the best on finishing your new book.

[@NissaSelfLoveCoach]

This was good. I am 25 years old and I have had that issue all of my life and I am making the steps to overcome the overthinking and the doubt of my life

[@xclusivedzn]

First, thank you for this message of encouragement. I have been beating myself up so much about any and everything. After listening to this message, I realize my biggest struggle is me - trusting me. Thank you!

[@giulianasani8448]

Struggling to make a decision to start to go to the gym in a constant way!thanks for encouraging!

[@makingmovesvips]

Good for you. Congratulations!!

[@jujucamelia3236]

Whew 😮‍💨 this was soooooo good and in alignment with what I’ve been dealing with 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

[@yolandahutchings6165]

I’m late late listening to this Thank you SO much

[@gwendolynseay6956]

This was very informative.

[@violetturner3544]

AMEN THANK YOU

[@GrowthnGod]

Thank you Minister a Crystal! Your transparency is refreshing

[@bludaisy1921]

Thank You

[@RaSpiritual999]

I just came across your channel. Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this.

[@kenneidrabrownbender1935]

thank you Mrs. Chrystal! I am definitely an overthinker and have had low self esteem since i was a child. I needed this to assist me in becoming confident in who i am in Christ !

[@faithwalk.]

On time message

[@jessicaredding5144]

Greetings! This is my first time coming across video today! This has truly blessed me! You have given us the encouragement to just move forward and to stop second-guessing ourselves. Blessings to all

[@marieholman7230]

I really enjoyed this video because I find myself in this position a lot. Thx u ❤ for this. Will be re-watching the videos and looking for more to come and watching the ones you have already done.

[@bharris-ly1wk]

Hi Chrystal, thank you so-oh much for this video. this is so what I needed to hear and helped me make up my mind... I'm praying from this moment, no more second guessing..Blessings over you, your family and your life..love from Fairburn. GA.

[@donnathompson7433]

Thank you so much you are always on time and to the point continue to stay and blessed I am more grounded in the word ❤️ and can tell others about his goodness to me and my family ave a great day 💕💕

[@taneragreen2782]

I need this message.

[@kathrynrojas-osborne5458]

Thank you ! Lord knows I needed this edifying moment

[@monie522]

Good for you pulling back to do what you need to do.

[@antionettelawrence191]

Thank you for sharing. I know what is like to second guess myself. I am grateful to God that I have made progress. God is faithful 🙏❤️

[@penelopetasher7344]

Sound advice. God bless

[@brandy6283]

Oh my goodness, Chystal! You are a Godsend. Such a timely message. Thank YOU!

[@cemathis985]

This is my first time watching! I live in Mansfield, TX. I thoroughly ENJOYED hearing this!!!

[@stephaniedavis8888]

Love that I get notified of your episodes! Sundays get busy sometimes. 😊❤️

[@ChrystalHurst]

Glad you were able to join!

[@andicksoful]

Love the look sister!❤

[@chocol8cugr]

This is my first time listening to this podcast and Lord knows I needed this. Thanks Chrystal

[@Samirasvictoriousgoods]

Much needed advice In this season, conformation I’m on the right track