How to stop shopping addiction, emotional spending forever: the psychology of a shopping disorder

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@americohagim1131
@americohagim1131 3 жыл бұрын
Shopping is more of a mental dopamine need like whenever I buy something the next day I head back on Amazon and buy something else and this cycle continues
@laraparks7018
@laraparks7018 2 жыл бұрын
Same here , it's unreal..
@inhanhnguyen8373
@inhanhnguyen8373 2 жыл бұрын
We all know why we are here and listening. I hope everyone will find a way after this and become happier from the inside. Thanks for the video
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
I want to wash away my painful identity I had with my ex after a traumatic relationship. Just spent my rent money on a new wardrobe. I’m going to change and learn to do better. I over spend, over eat and over exercise when grieving during a breakup- it’s awful and part of the reason I hang on to relationships longer than I should, because this is unbearable. Thank you to all those who make these video me for people like me who are struggling.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
@@alive-academy thank you, I appreciate it and am considering :)
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best ! @@SS-in1ts
@Yukai-ep2dv
@Yukai-ep2dv 6 ай бұрын
So this is just a very long advertisement?
@johnwilliamscoffin
@johnwilliamscoffin 4 жыл бұрын
I have this addiction and it sucks. Thank you for the information, you nailed it
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@johnwilliamscoffin
@johnwilliamscoffin Жыл бұрын
@@alive-academy ❤️
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
🙏 @@johnwilliamscoffin
@periwink7e
@periwink7e Жыл бұрын
I always place orders at 2am and the next day when I wake up I feel so guilty about it. When the package arrives I feel no more excited 😭
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@periwink7e
@periwink7e Жыл бұрын
@@alive-academy Omg thank you so much for replying! 🥹🤍
@alaldrik641
@alaldrik641 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been diagnosed with body dysmorphia disorder with extreme diet/exercise and body focused repetitive behavior. I just realized I also suffer from compulsive shopping disorder and they are interconnected. Through treatment I understand this stems from childhood trauma however I do not see how to heal from this early pain to make change in these persistent disorders. It’s interesting how early trauma can manifest into these neurotic tendencies in more than one way.
@20LookInside12
@20LookInside12 Жыл бұрын
C-PTSD - yes, it's brutal living with it. I have these issues as well. Must always be super fit, hyper vigilant about body weight/muscle mass... and I am totally addicted to finding high-end thrift store scores. The only time I'm ever really free from this is when much bigger events take over, like moving, or travelling... Being in Nature helps to "ground' me into a beautiful reality most times. Crazy how I actually seem to 'resist' the healing of nature... instead of going outside for a walk or swim, I end up driving to a thrift store. We DO have the choice though. Let's try to make the right ones. Be kind to yourself. You are Good Enough, just how you are.
@thehopefulbudgeter
@thehopefulbudgeter 2 жыл бұрын
I seriously need to stop, I realize it’s affecting my marriage now, so I’ve deleted all apps that influence me. Let’s see if i can change. 😟
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Michelle, when you flush out the root of your urge to shop, it will become easy. I suggest you to watch the 4 liberating videos @ www.alive-academy.com 🙏🏻💎🍀👍❤️
@asailorsvoyage
@asailorsvoyage Жыл бұрын
Same here 😢
@estephaniey123
@estephaniey123 9 ай бұрын
Same here 😢😔
@exoticfoxholebrianna
@exoticfoxholebrianna 4 жыл бұрын
I've watched this video every day and I can't thank you enough for it. The way you explain the system of addiction and internal pain is very helpful. Thank you again for posting!
@pianoarmond
@pianoarmond 3 жыл бұрын
Damn. I didn't know this was talking about me. I sometimes experience these things. I'm glad I heard this.
@cassandraknight8804
@cassandraknight8804 3 жыл бұрын
I have experienced extreme O C D, that completely took me over, coupled with complex post traumatic stress disorder, it nearly killed me..... this is a good, helpful true video..... SEE YOURSELF and FIND YOURSELF ( you centre). We are spirits having human experiences and your truth matters. Thank you for your video... the validation is beautiful
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome Cassandra. Thanks for sharing your appreciation!
@sunset33533
@sunset33533 4 жыл бұрын
The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels is helpful.
@KimFsharpHarp
@KimFsharpHarp 10 ай бұрын
Another book to buy. 😢
@lindaaaaaa6465
@lindaaaaaa6465 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, your video made me force myself to face my emotions just now 😢🙏 I appreciate it! 😊
@positiveandhealthy2728
@positiveandhealthy2728 4 жыл бұрын
Inner Peace=Happiness 🙌
@emreguney1644
@emreguney1644 4 жыл бұрын
thanks man, I'm thinking about this everyday
@Maddoxxx
@Maddoxxx 2 жыл бұрын
You just cant control the urge to buying, eventhou you know youre broke and relying onto credit. I was there during online gambling addiction. I got lucky i can bypassed it.. But then i dont realized this shopping hobby is an addiction.
@ruby-qv5bd
@ruby-qv5bd 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! Yes, yes, yes. Awakening to all the madness.
@VforVanity10
@VforVanity10 2 жыл бұрын
Incredible explanation, this video is an eye opener for me! Thank you.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Tmoises58
@Tmoises58 3 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense to me. Thank you!
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@Tara-cg2fi
@Tara-cg2fi 3 жыл бұрын
bro I just love clothes I feel like it can't possibly be this deep
@Hans6789-j9t
@Hans6789-j9t 3 жыл бұрын
So well done and I really trust this
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 11 ай бұрын
My daughter is a young mother with two little girls of her own. She has confessed to having a shopping addiction from which she will later experience, guilt and shame. She seems very materialistic, but I think she’s trying to fill a deeper void. Something from the soul and spirit realm.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 11 ай бұрын
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@AngelekaL
@AngelekaL Жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a great video and explanation of addiction as well ❤
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@AngelekaL
@AngelekaL Жыл бұрын
@@alive-academythanks so much! I will check this out ❤
@carolwillissimsak758
@carolwillissimsak758 8 ай бұрын
Shopping addiction is a hard one to deal with because it seems so innocuous, but advertising is so sophisticated now that shopping addiction is encouraged! Unfortunately so many people are suffering with this cycle, even when we have recognized that we have a problem. Amazon is designed to make it worse. Know that you are not alone, even though it can feel like it. Self deprecation after shopping only makes it worse! 😢
@TrianaBernal
@TrianaBernal 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for making this video, I really appreciate it.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
You are welcome and thank you for your kind words 🙏
@C4rl05XD
@C4rl05XD 2 жыл бұрын
i had a good 3 month shopping ban .. i messed up and keept shopping , now i urge to stop again ... i feel hopless and slave to stuff and i feel so stupid but its like i have only that think in my head im like i need it i need it i want it ... and i buy it , always this cycle any help?
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@TheCoolOwen
@TheCoolOwen 3 жыл бұрын
I am currently addicted to purchasing legos.
@jeanninelanzetta8945
@jeanninelanzetta8945 4 ай бұрын
First thing that went through my mind was forever no shopping forever
@jamessimmons3921
@jamessimmons3921 3 жыл бұрын
This helped me alot.
@unhs-mybroisdrk8thefortnit831
@unhs-mybroisdrk8thefortnit831 4 жыл бұрын
Ty so much i have a problem with spending this helped a lot
@bleakaf
@bleakaf 2 жыл бұрын
Some good points, but not all diseases are just symptoms of sadness/pain, and also medication can be incredibly helpful for people, giving them the breathing space to actually be able to confront their pain. Also you don't explain how people are supposed to 'liberate from the root of their pain'. There is no tangible answer here, no resolution. This feels like click bait, and that's a really unfair thing to do to people who are clearly struggling otherwise they wouldn't have clicked on this video.
@diawolo71
@diawolo71 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@WanitaLund
@WanitaLund 9 ай бұрын
How do i rebuild trust adter lying for 15 years and struggling to stop on my own? I ended up lying out of habit and fear that finally shattered the trust i had from my partner and now he refuses to try one more time. How do i stop, how do i let him go if he can't? Why am i qlways spendong money
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 9 ай бұрын
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@WanitaLund
@WanitaLund 9 ай бұрын
@@alive-academy thank you I Will
@jonglee3194
@jonglee3194 Жыл бұрын
thanks
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@majesticwonder
@majesticwonder 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome vid .☆
@xavierjurado4988
@xavierjurado4988 2 жыл бұрын
Even though I agree I still find myself victum of this addiction is such a bullet proof system to tap into one's insecurities to get you to buy into capitalism...
@dmoney14ful
@dmoney14ful Жыл бұрын
Shopping is like a drug it also kinda imitates the effects of drugs to
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@MalteaserMilly
@MalteaserMilly 2 жыл бұрын
what happens if you can't solve the pain. that it's not something you can solve, it's left there with no answer or ending?
@yesuanjagalacarsten5256
@yesuanjagalacarsten5256 2 жыл бұрын
There isn’t pain that can’t be solved, even the worst of all can be solved. Do not loose Hope yet, the understanding of Man simply will always deceive us that something won’t end or the pain might not end. But in God we find true satisfaction, true happiness and true Joy. For His ways are above all Human understanding. That’s why there will always be limits to what we can and can not do. But there will never be limits for Him. The sooner we believe this, and we trust more in Him. The better. All in all I pray that whoever is going through a tough situation, and they feel like it won’t end, whoever is having suicidal thoughts and whoever is confused. May the Lord Heal you and May He give you joy and peace. I am a living testimony. Please do not loose hope yet. LEAVE ALL THAT YOU CANT SOLVE IN THE ARMS OF THE LORD!!!
@Amazinggrace1984
@Amazinggrace1984 Жыл бұрын
@@yesuanjagalacarsten5256 Yes when the appliance breaks down (us) go back to the instruction book (God) Blessings
@KimFsharpHarp
@KimFsharpHarp 10 ай бұрын
We live in a culture of click bait enablers
@AndruWProWrestling
@AndruWProWrestling 2 жыл бұрын
Just like my mom. She's in tons of debt.
@laraspijker3820
@laraspijker3820 2 жыл бұрын
Where you from dude? Netherlands? 😂
@jankopransky2551
@jankopransky2551 2 жыл бұрын
Tl,dr: solve your inner problems and you're good, mate. Who'd guess so.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@Ddeath.Eaterr
@Ddeath.Eaterr 2 жыл бұрын
😵😵😵
@alive-academy
@alive-academy Жыл бұрын
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@FearGod333_
@FearGod333_ 3 жыл бұрын
This is another lie from the devil. The root of all of our problems is sin and only Jesus can set us free from sin. John 8:36. No KZbin video, no psychologist, no books, nothing ONLY JESUS.
@mrssmurf55
@mrssmurf55 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry you got that all wrong if you believe in God you must have heard the story of the drowning man God sends people to help us on earth our fellow man psychologists therapists he made us to spread love and heal each each other!
@HeyChyyynna
@HeyChyyynna 2 жыл бұрын
Then why are you here? Lol go pray.
@GloryToTheHighest
@GloryToTheHighest Жыл бұрын
@@HeyChyyynna we are here for the same reason as you lol
@GloryToTheHighest
@GloryToTheHighest Жыл бұрын
@@mrssmurf55 Jesus brakes bondage… If you want to get free of course.
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