HOW TO STOP SPIRALING (TIPS AND TRICKS)

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Ro Ramdin

Ro Ramdin

2 жыл бұрын

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@roramdin
@roramdin 2 жыл бұрын
1) i'm totally fine don't worry 2) subscribe or youtube will put me in an abandoned ski resort with jack nicholson and "shining" me 3) go donate to ziora, links at the top of the description. forgot to do the outro but as always take care of yourself and others be kind to yourself and others and remember that you are loved, as always it has been a pleasure
@EZOnTheEyes
@EZOnTheEyes 2 жыл бұрын
" _Come play with us Ro_ "
@acleverpassword2076
@acleverpassword2076 2 жыл бұрын
You didn't say "let's crack straight into it", "Woow that was craaazy...", "stay tuned for ..." and there was little to no royalty free EDM/zoom ins with bass. All and all 0.6/10000 you're funny af no cap
@DE-GEN-ART
@DE-GEN-ART 2 жыл бұрын
In an alternative reality; Keemstar reports philip defranko was removed from his underground bunker of douchey garden ridge furniture for operating the biggest crack cocaine manufacturing opp since the cia in the 1980s. His new moniker, "lets just crack into it"
@lia.lia.lia.
@lia.lia.lia. 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all your amazing work, Rose.🌹
@MikkiPike
@MikkiPike 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for everything 💖
@DE-GEN-ART
@DE-GEN-ART 2 жыл бұрын
Ro, as a severely, demented person with a luandry list of diagnosis, i respect how you can be so light hearted about being crazy, without the mockery that usually offends so many when the moment arises
@DE-GEN-ART
@DE-GEN-ART 2 жыл бұрын
I see this comment gaining some traction, yall guys big fans of mental health? Anybody want to chime in about being gangstalked by the workers at the electrical company?
@cadesmandela1935
@cadesmandela1935 2 жыл бұрын
@@DE-GEN-ART what
@HollieAndApollo
@HollieAndApollo 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I second that! Lol
@thatyoutubechannel9953
@thatyoutubechannel9953 2 жыл бұрын
@@DE-GEN-ART My gangstalkers (when delusional) are all FBI, CIA, NSA, those types. Sometimes it's just a generalized 'the feds'
@blackmoveimgaywidow2484
@blackmoveimgaywidow2484 2 жыл бұрын
Relatable af
@Joel-Haver
@Joel-Haver 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for calling Ro! Sorry my computer was bugging out at the end, I know how it sounded but I promise I wasn't trying to block you. In all seriousness, what you're doing with the commentary format is very thoughtful and you always get some lovely shots to boot. Keep up the great work!
@roramdin
@roramdin 2 жыл бұрын
thank you sweet dear bud and apple of my eye, i feel as though the emerald that is our friendship is being buffered as we speak
@goldensloth7
@goldensloth7 2 жыл бұрын
@@roramdin i cherish you both from afar
@goldensloth7
@goldensloth7 2 жыл бұрын
or what you express on youtube as you
@ozmarichardson6524
@ozmarichardson6524 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like there's an idiom from a culture in another dimension. this whole situation can be celebrated by this phrase used in times like this. Here it goes: "Groograh" :)
@thewetlaundrythatsstilliny5031
@thewetlaundrythatsstilliny5031 2 жыл бұрын
JOEL IS IN THIS VIDEO?????????????????????????
@rachelsmith3592
@rachelsmith3592 2 жыл бұрын
“Not all of your thoughts are worth thinking about” is genuinely great advice.
@kenzieelle
@kenzieelle 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving us entirely confused Nick, this was the greatest gift
@kenzieelle
@kenzieelle 2 жыл бұрын
This truly is so good ohmygod Nick has no clue what’s going on
@AdequateEmily
@AdequateEmily 2 жыл бұрын
Rose thank you for this. I now have beaten depression instantly, and will now walk into my therapist’s office and personally piss all on his walls to prove that I’m now doing better. My life has been immeasurably changed and I will never feel sad again, I am Tom Cruise in that gay little Oprah interview. Live long and prosper.
@roramdin
@roramdin 2 жыл бұрын
of course i like to think that i gave people a mental illness cheat code here
@olivia_vermast
@olivia_vermast 2 жыл бұрын
TW for self harm and stuff: So I’m in hairdresserschool (cosmetology school? Idk how to say it in English lol) but anyways, my school gave me this case with all the supplies, scissors and combs etc But there were also a bunch of spare razor blades for my razors. I’m usually very afraid of my own thoughts, if that makes sense; I was afraid I would sneak them home and try to hurt myself, in either a temporary or permanent way. So after being conflicted about if I should tell the teacher that I was uncomfortable or not, I decided to do it. I didn’t even have to explain it, she immediately understood me, which was nice, and told me her daughter went through that as well but is okay now. She keeps the spare blades in her office, and whenever I need a new one, she helps me put it in the razor. So yeah moral of the story I guess is, sometimes people are nice and understanding, so don’t be afraid to reach out if you need help:) Sorry for the long-ass text lol
@annastarr2043
@annastarr2043 Жыл бұрын
Weak sniveling ensues
@zappa-happy
@zappa-happy Жыл бұрын
That was Both a Beautiful & Helpful story to tell! Thank U So much! Sending lots Love & Support from the UK!💖💖🌸🌸
@user-sn4ug9wb3v
@user-sn4ug9wb3v 2 жыл бұрын
ro, as someone who also attended a grief retreat at age nine to help me cope with the loss of my father i would LOVE to hear more about the crafts they made you make. my personal favorite was a prayer candle wrapped in neon orange paper and blue polka dotted ribbons (my proudest creation to date)
@gulliver517
@gulliver517 2 жыл бұрын
LOL when i tell people about the strange crafts we made in therapy for my dead dad people are like what the fuck i still have the piece of concrete with rocks on it and a prayer candle
@ManCarryingThing
@ManCarryingThing 2 жыл бұрын
"moving to england for free therapy" and "get more sunlight" are my favorites
@mygills3050
@mygills3050 3 ай бұрын
unfortunately these 2 are mutually exclusive
@Connie.T.
@Connie.T. 2 жыл бұрын
Another option for stopping spirals is organizing. After I graduated HS, I spent a year vegetating because every option I had available for my future was unsavory. At the same time, I was consumed by fear and anger about the world. I got so angry that I found other people who were angry in the same way, and we fought against the injustices that made us want to give up before. Rallies, teach-ins, flyers, meetings. We made a little version of the world we want to live in and still work to expand it. And suddenly, we can envision a world without capitalism and exploitation and bigotry and war, and things start looking up. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@SilvrRazorFeather
@SilvrRazorFeather 2 жыл бұрын
I thought you meant organizing like getting a personal planner at first lmao. I feel like this is an excuse, bit it's so hard to find anyone with a similar worldview in my area, let alone to take action with. I'm greatly lacking in social skills and human interaction has always been an anxiety trigger. That being said, I like the sound of this little world you're building, and would love to be a part of it somehow.
@ThylineTheGay
@ThylineTheGay 2 жыл бұрын
relatable
@ThrowbackMakeupVideos
@ThrowbackMakeupVideos Жыл бұрын
That is so cool!!!!!! Rn I’m personally in that place of anger and discouragement about the world. I want to take your advice. Thank you for sharing
@randy6041
@randy6041 2 жыл бұрын
i was in the midst of an ed, anxiety, and depression spiral when i realized that you posted again and decided to watch. thank you so much for making me laugh, smile, and feel not so crazy and alone:)) you’re amazing and i love your content
@gleseamv
@gleseamv 2 жыл бұрын
i was going through this exact same combination of things, im so grateful to her too!! and i hope that you can come out of that spiral, i know how insanely hard and debilitating it all is. it fucking sucks. i don't know if its like this for u (and idk which ed u have) but for me my ed is the strongest when other things get bad, so please remember that we have to eat because we have to live, especially because ro said so and she's kind of the boss around here i think
@randy6041
@randy6041 2 жыл бұрын
@@gleseamv aw thank you!!! i hope you can stay out of the spiral and stay happy and healthy as well!! my ed usually gets worse when everything else is bad too, it’s rlly comforting to hear that someone has the same experiences as me:)) ro is the boss and if she says to eat then we shall eat and love our bodies😌😌 ps. im always rooting for you and your happiness💛
@gleseamv
@gleseamv 2 жыл бұрын
@@randy6041 thank you so much!! you are very Kind and you deserve happiness forever
@ThighHighSenpai
@ThighHighSenpai 2 жыл бұрын
i HATE being overly dramatic in youtube comments, but there was something about how u approached this that made it so simultaneously easy but raw to meet u in a onesided conversation. ive been in the worst depression of my life for about a yr, and ive never had anyone talk to me about being suicidal and seeking therapy the way u did! thank u ro, glad ur well.
@aphroditestan
@aphroditestan 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss I rarely comment, mostly a silent viewer but I literally made a tweet bc Ro's content has been such a joy to watch/listen to, I genuinely had to share. I understand the deep depression, especially rn. I truly hope u r doing ok, and that things get so much better for u❤
@OtterMunchy
@OtterMunchy 2 жыл бұрын
Are you doing ok? It’s been a couple months since the comment…I hope things are better. ❤️sending love from a stranger’s heart.
@ThighHighSenpai
@ThighHighSenpai 2 жыл бұрын
@@OtterMunchy not to be dramatic but im actually in tears, thank u for ur kind heart. im doing better and better every day. thank u ❤️🥹
@hayleyb467
@hayleyb467 2 жыл бұрын
@@ThighHighSenpai sending love vibes your way from texas 💌💕
@OtterMunchy
@OtterMunchy 2 жыл бұрын
@@hayleyb467 very sweet, Hayley from Texas! Welcome to the “Stranger Love Club” ...that sound a lil sus...maybe we should vote on a name..
@heyitslilah447
@heyitslilah447 2 жыл бұрын
This video brought me back to my late teens and early 20s when I suffered from GAD, Depression, and SAD too. I had periods of feverish energy and talking to others like this to have them confused and finally understand how it felt in my brain. I got a therapist .. It was ok. I studied most of the solution/outcome based tasks in College and would trick myself into thinking I knew best and this “mind game” to confidence and happiness wouldn’t help me. But you will make it, it gets better. Oh and my Dad died when I was 7 too. We should be friends lol
@roramdin
@roramdin 2 жыл бұрын
woahhhh twinsies
@beanstalks8
@beanstalks8 2 жыл бұрын
distracting myself is what's gotten me through many many nights that may have led to full blown anxiety breakdowns over death etc... i always feel bad for needing my phone with me all the time but if i don't have it i'm constantly worried i'll start spiralling and won't have anything to help me stop :C anyway great video as always thank u for sharing your thoughts and ideas, it's always incredible to listen to someone else experiencing similar issues and their stance and methods for dealing with it :3
@chiripaxa
@chiripaxa 2 жыл бұрын
Just be careful. I used my phone and KZbin as an escape outlet and it gets addicting really quick. Which leads to feeling even worse when you're not on it. But I still use it whenever I feel the spiral come, just try to limit myself.
@ultimatequeenofdeath666
@ultimatequeenofdeath666 2 жыл бұрын
i do the same thing
@beanstalks8
@beanstalks8 2 жыл бұрын
@@chiripaxa it's alright, i know my limits and i've been coping like this for years unfortunately ghdfjkshg
@kristinepinlac2796
@kristinepinlac2796 2 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo I do the same thing. I'll usually take anything even mildly entertaining just to distract myself bc honestly that's the only thing keeping me going lol
@-xirx-
@-xirx- 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, I do the same, i have found it depressingly easy to get addicted to though. But if the battery dies, mindfulness meditation is another epic tool/idea/game I came across that helps distract me from whatever sht is going on inside me or outside me. Peace ✌
@aiyannaboykins7888
@aiyannaboykins7888 2 жыл бұрын
Online school is so draining. Zoom made me feel like I was talking to a screen for two years. On top of my obnoxious family, I've been stuck in my bed room reading power points and taking a million quizzes per class. I've been going on walks for 30 minutes a day, reading books, and trying to make more art. This might sound dramatic, but these were the main things keeping me sane.
@lotus727
@lotus727 2 жыл бұрын
as someone with ocd, hearing what you said about not engaging with all thoughts really hit home. also great video as usual! i love how you mix humor with genuine good commentary and advice.
@crackersmackerx6909
@crackersmackerx6909 2 жыл бұрын
i have ocd too and recently had a very horrible episode of intrusive thoughts. peace and love to you and also to ms. rose
@leonpierce2347
@leonpierce2347 2 жыл бұрын
I deal with OCD and a therapist described it one time to me as; picture you are in a room with an ugly ass piece of furniture. you hate the furniture, its not what you would have picked out, it takes up too much space, and its heavy as hell. so you proceed to push and push and push all your strength up against this piece of furniture...you spend all day, all of your energy focused on pushing this piece of furniture out, and in reality its not budging, you are just so much more aware of how much you hate it. I hope this made sense because it did at the time when I heard it. There are going to be intrusive thoughts we have that make us very uncomfortable and upset, but trying to shove them out all day just makes us think about them more. a tip that I've learned is when I have an intrusive thought (often mine will be violent) as soon as it happens I try to imagine the exact opposite of the situation (non violent, such as giving myself or another person a hug), rather than obsessing over the fact that I had the thought in the first place (trying to shove out that heavy piece of furniture). this tip does take practice. I hope this was some comfort, I wish you all luck in navigating the beast that is OCD. just remember, you are NOT your thoughts💞
@hayleyb467
@hayleyb467 2 жыл бұрын
@@leonpierce2347 thanks for sharing, leon. makes a lot of sense ♡
@queenofdaydreams3825
@queenofdaydreams3825 2 жыл бұрын
💙💙💙
@theorionnebula9746
@theorionnebula9746 2 жыл бұрын
I tried to end my own life a couple days ago. Thank you Rose and fellow viewers for telling me on stream that you're glad I didn't die. Honestly, so am I. I don't want to die. I just want to feel better. I am trying to get better and I got referred to DBT by my therapist. I feel really seen by this video and that stream was such a fun vibe, everyone was super positive even if the air fryer talk was kind of annoying after a while. Love your content Rose and I wish the best for you, myself, and everyone watching this video. Life is hard and wouldn't always be worth it if not for the fact that you just can't predict what will happen in the future. You can feel better even if everything is stacked against you and you deserve to because you have value no matter who you are. If you think you have no value, the reason you feel that way is because you're in pain, not because you really have no value. Thanks again Rose!
@Kagomai15
@Kagomai15 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ I'm so glad you lived, too!
@shes_lucy
@shes_lucy 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for this. i’ve had a hard time recently because i feel guilty for distracting myself. i feel like by trying to escape my thoughts in the moment, i’m being a coward running from my problems. i guess some running is okay sometimes…
@timk6181
@timk6181 2 жыл бұрын
Distraction can be healthy - I know from experience that those thoughts are usually distorted bullshit anyway, so distract yourself from the spiral until your brain chemistry allows you to look at them a bit clearer. The guilt you are feeling is just you catastrophising.
@waitwaitwaitno3182
@waitwaitwaitno3182 2 жыл бұрын
YOOOOO literally not even five minutes ago i was thinking “i hope we get a ro ramdin video soon!” the gods have chosen me as their favorite.
@atlasintokyo1752
@atlasintokyo1752 2 жыл бұрын
me asking right before i got this notification “universe make me strong enough to feel good” shows me this
@MyselftheElf
@MyselftheElf 2 жыл бұрын
fun story from an Auntie that's currently lying in bed, drinking Arbor Mist thru a bendy straw... in the 90s, Marlboro came up with an incentive to get higher sales, Marlboro bucks. Thanks to my Dad 2-4 pack a day habit, we got- a blow up bed 2 sets each of campfire mugs, tin cups, ceramic bowls 2 sleeping bags, insulated numerous ash trays, of course camp radio, swiss army knives, binoculars, toaster We were saving for a pool table when the gov figured the whole thing was a bad idea. Don't knock it until you can use your addiction to purchase camping gear. Ah, the 90s.
@roj6895
@roj6895 2 жыл бұрын
sorry u never got the pool table
@MyselftheElf
@MyselftheElf 2 жыл бұрын
@@roj6895 hahaa me too
@reiy8401
@reiy8401 2 жыл бұрын
I truly feel like I've discovered your content at the perfect time in my life and I could not be more grateful. genuinely glad to know that you're doing well. also tip 10 got me sobbing like a baby but hey, for the first time in a while i wasn't crying bc i was overthinking or feeling crappy or some other negative reason lol
@plegmatics
@plegmatics 2 жыл бұрын
honestly this video came to me at the perfect time. i also dropped out of college during the pandemic and moved like 1000 miles away from my family and its so weird and stressful dealing with the ramifications of that. theres like a weird hopelessness that i have with everything in life like im already so old and ive got nothing figured out at all which is so dumb to think because im barely 21. hearing that someone else made that decision just reassures me that maybe everything is going to be ok
@daltonmeyer3976
@daltonmeyer3976 2 жыл бұрын
Ro ur the only creator I can genuinely watch without having to put the video on 1.75 speed, and I just wanted to say, thank u for that.
@judahmoar2533
@judahmoar2533 2 жыл бұрын
Ro fires off sarcastic quips at 1.75 speed by default haha
@hotlittlecouch
@hotlittlecouch 2 жыл бұрын
Ro. This is inexplicably good timing. For hours I've been having the most horrible existential panic attack over starting a new career and feeling horrible guilt over participating in capitalism and starting to spiral like crazy after making months of major progress. I finally calmed myself down enough to think a little tiny bit and distract myself out of it, so I opened up youtube and THIS?? was the first thing in my recommended?? I heard "become your best self so that you can return to generating profit for somebody else" and tears just flung right out. Fucking wild, but seriously, thank you. especially for 25:53.💜
@hotlittlecouch
@hotlittlecouch 2 жыл бұрын
also one of the tips being "distract yourself" felt like a nice gentle pat on the back. I did a nice little job distracting myself opening up youtube and this video is what that got me ☺
@terrih7165
@terrih7165 2 жыл бұрын
I'm doodling my DND oc, drinking tea and ignoring my cramps... Perfect set up to watch another art piece Ro yeeeee
@thomasjr4202
@thomasjr4202 2 жыл бұрын
Ayeee DND. That's one of the ways I've been getting through isolation.
@Skyehoppers
@Skyehoppers 2 жыл бұрын
Genuinely thankful for this. Thank you for managing to be funny and lighthearted without downplaying just how shit life can be these days. It's hard to do that and I needed to hear it.
@isa0ber
@isa0ber 2 жыл бұрын
ro you're so fucking funny thank you for making me laugh and not gaslighting me into thinking i should be happy. means a lot
@ForeignManinaForeignLand
@ForeignManinaForeignLand 2 жыл бұрын
Rose, you're incredible
@CreeperNinjaProductions
@CreeperNinjaProductions 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for talking about depression the way it is, I have a lot of trouble with that and most the people in my life have a history of not taking it seriously. Ive given friends my knives without telling em why before just like u suggested lmao. Your videos are the highlights of my day, and ur musics incredible.
@geraldine1744
@geraldine1744 2 жыл бұрын
Depression is serious and not your fault. You haven't fail in any way, you're not less worthy of anything and you don't have to look on the bright side. It's courageous of you to mention your struggles with self-harm and even more so to ask your friends for help.
@anatidaephobia8223
@anatidaephobia8223 2 жыл бұрын
did not expect to need to hear tip 10 as much as I did when I sat down with a poorly made white russian after another long, hard day's work of ignoring the people who care about me but I here I am, just a few minutes post-cry (of the defeated, silent variety, as opposed to sobbing loudly, because I don't have the luxury of sound-proof walls and my mom is sleeping), slightly drunk and probably incoherent, but I just felt like I had to thank you for making such a beautiful video. I don't often leave youtube comments, perhaps because I like to think of myself as some sort of recluse or sheltered genius, above such asinine things, when really I'm a socially anxious teenager with a high milligram SSRI prescription that isn't helping and very few avenues through which I engage in meaningful conversation. but reaching out is so much more beneficial than not, even if it's only on the internet. maybe shouting into the void like this isn't productive and I should be doing something else with my time, but the sun's already long gone, and productivity in this capitalist hellhole is overrated anyways, and i don't know what the fuck i'm talking about anymore, but you speak to my soul, and I genuinely thank you for this video. I think I really needed it.
@roramdin
@roramdin 2 жыл бұрын
@ange1attack
@ange1attack 2 жыл бұрын
i'm laughing SO hard through the tears 💜 i have to thank you immensely for making this video! you gave a very realistic perspective of the many hardships that come with mental illness and the pressure of our society while radiating so much positivity and hope. it's so inspiring to see you juggle important topics and well written jokes with such a natural talent and excelling yourself with every new video (not to pressure you, though!). you always hit the nail! i don't want to make a long rant about my personal life, so i'll be blunt. after finishing high school i've spent these last 3 years indoors doing virtually nothing, being forced into the closet and being consumed by depression. it's something incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, even if it shouldn't be... this is the first time i mention it to someone. you made it a bit easier for me to be face to face with my situation and i'm sure others will relate. so again, thank you! also, i'm very happy to hear you're doing good!!! i wish you lots of love, take care of yourself!
@notabear287
@notabear287 2 жыл бұрын
you have such a way with atmosphere that makes your words and message very poignant and it feels like catharsis for me sometimes. there really is an element of art and thought put in your videos 🥺 thank you for sharing what you have
@burgermind802
@burgermind802 2 жыл бұрын
I'll be rewatching this for sure, that was a lot of tips to take on, and I thought I was an old hand at this. Thanks for keeping me it light and conversational without holding back. I know that is not an easy tone to strike, but you did it very well!
@songbirdlyricz
@songbirdlyricz 2 жыл бұрын
Wiping away the sarcasm, all of these tips are actually super helpful lol. I struggled with tip 10 exactly one week ago, but I’m so thankful I survived through that day and beyond it. What lifted the most weight off of me was sitting down all the people important to me one at a time and telling them precisely what happened. I realized that there is absolutely no way for anyone to figure out how bad it is in your head unless you tell them directly. That day was really scary, and the aftershocks have also been scary, but I am stopping and resting and getting help. To anyone else out there struggling with tip 10: there are ALWAYS other options. And when shit gets bad just surviving each day is the ultimate success. so good job :>
@polly-fe3pq
@polly-fe3pq 2 жыл бұрын
im proud of u lj!
@Kazooples
@Kazooples 2 жыл бұрын
I have a scheduled event tonight! Seeing a doctor because my bp is so high I think I had a heart attack :) thanks for the tips Ro!
@franny6221
@franny6221 2 жыл бұрын
good luck! :)
@itsjustkennyg
@itsjustkennyg 2 жыл бұрын
thank you thank you thank you. it feels good to just hear someone else describe these feelings. thank you for your vulnerability so i can feel better about mine.
@leahdodge1405
@leahdodge1405 2 жыл бұрын
I love seeing a video of someone not playing into what the algorithm may love but making something that's right for them
@steviebea
@steviebea 2 жыл бұрын
i can never hope to be this clever or say this many good words in a row. i don’t even know what this video was about, ro just sounds so goddamn cool saying words
@naomimarch9272
@naomimarch9272 2 жыл бұрын
the conversation between you and nick was genuinely one of the funniest things i've seen in a while.. just kept scrolling back to rewatch
@rino2451
@rino2451 2 жыл бұрын
as someone who's been severely depressed and wrestles (bare minimum) monthly with suicidal ideations/thoughts/urges, something abt the way you approached it did hit harder. it was more effective than the guilting that most people do. thank you
@martamagolon
@martamagolon 2 жыл бұрын
You make me laugh so hard that my body tries to strangle itself as it doesn’t recognize the foreign invader of joy
@sierrarobinson4447
@sierrarobinson4447 2 жыл бұрын
I have to distract myself so much right now, I can't even usually just watch a KZbin video on my phone without also doing something else on my phone but I actually watched this whole video without engaging in another app. Your videos are really captivating clearly!
@MBrainspaz
@MBrainspaz 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so right I do 100% need my friends to threaten to shoot me to make me work on art. On a genuine note I’ve found in the past few years after I moved away from all my friends that going to work at a barn several days a week really helps pull me out of depression. But I like talking to horses.
@jellyzed
@jellyzed 2 жыл бұрын
Your skits and jokes are always so well thought and interesting, they never fail to entertain me and make me laugh genuinely. Thank you for making videos in spite of everything, they are wonderful :)
@aviioc_6449
@aviioc_6449 2 жыл бұрын
all comfy and ready with snacks for another Ro vid, lets go
@jacolynparker
@jacolynparker 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This video was not what i expected, it was so much more. It was exactly what I needed and more so wanted to hear - the jokes, the serious advice, the sincerity, the reality of emotion… i am in a bad place. A very bad place. But i am right there at the end of the tunnel and I know that there is sonething on the other side for me, thank you for being one of the many pieces of reality in my life that built together to shine light down that tunnel. You’re right… permanent solution, temporary problem. I don’t know why hearing you say it so plainly just broke me but in the exact perfect way, in the precise way I needed to be broken. I didn’t realize I had been taking it seriously, it’s always been a passing thought- but hearing you say “dont end your life, just dont” was the silly little simple sentence I so desperately needed to be told. I dont know you. I just subscribed yesterday after watching this. I watched it again with my partner whose just lost his mother and grandmother and is also struggling greatly. We cried together at the end. You are an amazing artist, you are hilarious, you are so smart and well spoken and I am blessed to have randomly come across your video. I won’t say anything that puts too much weight on that last part, but know that with this video you have made a very big difference in my little life. Life is beautiful, you somehow reminded me… again, thank you.
@tesselate8nowait262
@tesselate8nowait262 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s hear it for pandemic PTSD yaaaayyyy. Srsly I needed this. I’m a nurse on break from another 12 hour shift. I have limited time for adequate sleep and meals, but I always have time for a new Ro video.
@pomeloiki
@pomeloiki 2 жыл бұрын
I was going to leave a long comment about how this video moved me etc etc but in the end it doesn't matter, this video has everything great job and with every video you always manage to go beyond my expectations. I liked how the third part was expressed in a song because these tend to have a kind of vurnerability to it but this video has all of it sprinkled while watching. I also really liked that part about connecting with people and how hard it is and even tho to the audience it may seem like "oh they appear in video's together so they are friends" it's really not like that, and I like how you remind people that this is all fake even if it has some reality to it. Most important tho thank you for not joking abt tip 10 I really appreciate it. And thank you for mentioning that the next video will be sponsored I think it's an underrated part and I know you can do whatever you want but thanks for giving a heads up it's really nice of you I think.
@Leftistattheparty
@Leftistattheparty 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I've just been bingeing your content. Just discovered you today and I am so happy to see your videos.
@50DollarWig
@50DollarWig 2 жыл бұрын
I remember that feeling when I discovered their content, it was like I struck gold. It's magical, enjoy!
@loudquitting
@loudquitting 2 жыл бұрын
Your writing and delivery are super good. I've been finding a few "pre-fame" channels with top tier content lately. I wish you a quick growth to 1 mil subs! It feels like you're made for this type of entertainment.
@suhxn
@suhxn 2 жыл бұрын
thank you Ro this actually helped me way more than the generic advice does
@eringaffney9656
@eringaffney9656 Жыл бұрын
god im sobbing rewatching this video. this is art . i cant believe you made this. the song towards the end. the point-blank plea for the viewers to not kill themselves. i will never forget this.
@gargles5270
@gargles5270 2 жыл бұрын
i have the same exact worry about my therapist “judging me”, and i feel you on the constant intrusive thoughts :( i appreciate your words, i feel very understood. sending love and care
@peepo2560
@peepo2560 2 жыл бұрын
This video coming out when I'm having a bit of a spiral... Bless you Ro
@lilyelverum3141
@lilyelverum3141 2 жыл бұрын
banger video and so kind for including the ending sending donations elsewhere❤️glad you are doing well, this video was perfectly timed for me and i appreciate your art!
@CanYouSayBreezie
@CanYouSayBreezie 2 жыл бұрын
The move to England part would have been a great place to rep nord vpn and go on about changing ur ip location to England then get free therapy online. I don't think k it would work but it sounds good.
@OtterMunchy
@OtterMunchy Жыл бұрын
The song at the end is amazing! “You reach out, I’ll reach back…it’s simple economics.” Is unbearably beautiful. Simple and profound. Ro, the way you use words is a marvel.
@rowley7016
@rowley7016 2 жыл бұрын
thank you, ro. the way you continue to handle such intense and heavy topics with care and nuance is beyond comforting. amidst all of the absolute dogshit life is throwing around rn, your words in tip 10 hit home. as someone who does live with nearly daily suicidal thoughts and ideation, receiving a reminder of how worth it life can be that doesn't sound contrived or over-used is so refreshing and welcomed. sendin so much love in this weird, difficult time
@wendal356
@wendal356 2 жыл бұрын
love you ro each video is a checkpoint within the dark depths of this timeline
@kendallwhitmore9174
@kendallwhitmore9174 2 жыл бұрын
Once again, the most beautiful video. You just keep getting better and better. Thank you Ro
@emilyh1879
@emilyh1879 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I look forward to each of your videos and this was something I really needed to hear. ❤️
@blorbo8381
@blorbo8381 2 жыл бұрын
it hasn't been very good for me mentally recently, thank you for making me smile with this video. I wish I could talk to people, but whenever I feel bad, it seems to me like all the people around me are so much better than me and I am worthless, so I just don't communicate with anyone I know closely in real life, but I talked to some random person online about silly stuff like films/shows and it felt really nice indeed. Also creating stuff does help! I expressed all my sadness with writing a couple of sad fanfictions, although they weren't about my issues in particular, and it felt cathartic, also they got some likes and nice comments, so that boosted my mood too. You gave good tips and I loved how you managed to balance funny and serious stuff, this video is amazing ❤️
@2panda90
@2panda90 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always so good. Your humor is the only thing that makes me genuinely laugh instead of exhaling out of my nose kinda hard. Thank you so much for making me giggle, even on the hard hitting topics. We love u so much to
@str4wberri
@str4wberri 2 жыл бұрын
please, this was so incredibly funny and helpful. i'm so glad i watched this. thank you ro.
@timidDot
@timidDot 2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this, this means a lot right now. your content brings me joy in such a dark time in my life, thank you :-)
@ademers03
@ademers03 2 жыл бұрын
What sparks joy in my life : seeing people happy after going through a fucking hard time. It proves that things do get better and it's encouraging.
@awkwardhumann5440
@awkwardhumann5440 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video. i cannot wait for your album! i teared up listening to the song at the end of the video. your music has motivated to keep making music of my own :) hope you've had a good day.
@aiai_uiui
@aiai_uiui 2 жыл бұрын
This has become my favourite video of yours. The way you manage to joke about such heavy stuff with so much class really shows the care that went into this. I really love this sort of stuff that makes me laugh so much but also think about my own mental health and mental problems at the exact same time.
@lemi2240
@lemi2240 2 жыл бұрын
my new favorite!! these tips will be put to use and the style you deliver them in is more effective for me then any other way I've been told. appreciate your content, i hope Ziora gets all the funds they need thank you for using your platform like this!
@elisabettehinze4262
@elisabettehinze4262 2 жыл бұрын
Ro, thank you for this vid! I've been excited for it all day :)
@snailgovernment
@snailgovernment 2 жыл бұрын
ro this was such a good video and as someone constantly in hand to hand combat with my own brain this truly genuinely helped!!! u approach things in such a thoughtful but fun way i hope u know ur making really great stuff and im so glad ur doing good right now, take care of yourself bud
@jcolterogden
@jcolterogden 2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, just wanted to say I love your videos, came across you sorta randomly a few months ago through the algorithm (I’m old - idk 30). I’ve been considering therapy for a long time. Fairly functional “adult” that has had that “I can deal with it” mentality, and this really actively got me seeking out a therapist. You do great work and the variety of topics is so impressive. Congrats on the sponsor, and thank you for making what you’ve made.
@saltydinonuggies1841
@saltydinonuggies1841 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you’re okay. I’m sure a lot of people relate to a lot of this. Myself included. Your videos are wonderful.
@reesehowell562
@reesehowell562 2 жыл бұрын
I love your work, Ro! The content you make has just been feeding my soul fr fr idk how else to describe it. Your blend of tones with humor and poignant takes is top tier. And your music slaps 🔥
@sheeremthefirst
@sheeremthefirst 2 жыл бұрын
You're brilliant Ro! I love your work. Thanks for being here for everyone in this way (: Additionally - I especially appreciate tip #8. That is something that I've just very recently finally started to realize, which is that not every thought needs to be developed and "complete." This was important for me to hear, thank you again
@lid2966
@lid2966 2 жыл бұрын
This video means the world to me. And could not have come at a better time. Thanks ro
@foxgloved8922
@foxgloved8922 2 жыл бұрын
Got an ad for a mental health webinar in the middle of this and bc I wasn’t looking at the screen it didn’t even occur to me that it wasn’t a part of the video
@aguyuno
@aguyuno 2 жыл бұрын
Ro your vids get better with every single one, I swear. Great work as always.
@Acidtesting123
@Acidtesting123 2 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel the other day and I'm pretty stoked on it. thanks for the videos, I think you're a delightful creator and I look forward to my next Ro sighting
@leonpierce2347
@leonpierce2347 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, Ro
@laurorrichie7788
@laurorrichie7788 2 жыл бұрын
This video has been super valuable to me in a way I’m not exactly sure how to express, but I’ve watched it about 4 times this week. Just, thanks for the content, Ro. 💗
@that.charliezard7219
@that.charliezard7219 2 жыл бұрын
thank you Ro. I needed this. I wish I could send this video to so many people who needed it. I wish I could share it with my brother and classmates who needed but didn't get to hear things like this, coming at mental health from a lighthearted but helpful angle. thank you for making content that helps instead of hurts. In today's vacuum chamber of internet garbage good videos like this deserve more appreciation. I think we all needed this.
@littlewillowlinda
@littlewillowlinda 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I've been having such a bad day today that i didn't get out of bed (it is night) and now im recovering by drinking water and i appreciate you bc it feels slightly better to know that other ppl i consider cool creative cats do the same sometimes. I beat myself up a LOT and it just doesn't help.
@fireaya
@fireaya 8 ай бұрын
brought a smile to my face thanks rose
@mtsilverpeak
@mtsilverpeak 2 жыл бұрын
Unironically thank you for this video from stranger to stranger it feels a little less lonely
@aceflowerheart
@aceflowerheart 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Ro!
@nicolelee3913
@nicolelee3913 2 жыл бұрын
i enjoy your content, thank u for the time & work put into these banger videos ✨
@babab9418
@babab9418 2 жыл бұрын
hello, i keep coming back to this video for the song near the end. somehow its one of those few things that help me unwind when i keep feelings bottled up for too long. thank u ro
@mayaccarr
@mayaccarr 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos always amaze me. You put so much work into these and it is so refreshing to watch. I wanna be you when I grow up (we are the same age but that’s beside the point).
@jeremygreen2883
@jeremygreen2883 2 жыл бұрын
Ro, this is another great video. Your comedy is always on point, your wit is razor sharp, and the cinematography is gorgeous and evokes a serious sense of loneliness! Thank you for creating such enjoyable and thought provoking content.
@aphroditestan
@aphroditestan 2 жыл бұрын
I just went to twitter to confess my undying love for your content. I seriously wanna thank u, your lighter videos have really brightened my days & made me laugh so much. I really mean it when I say u r "relatable " esp just the way u present ur thoughts & the dark humor, I'm just not quite as hilarious w the delivery lol. I really enjoy that u can talk about seemingly meaningless things, and also post seriously important stuff like this video- the *range* 🤩😎 anyway, hope u dont thinkim a weirdo I just genuinely felt like I needed to put some ppl on to ur channel. 🤗
@rosurama6268
@rosurama6268 2 жыл бұрын
My mental health has been in the trash today. Thank you for your content and your time, it really helps 💕
@Hollysun77
@Hollysun77 2 жыл бұрын
You are awesome made me laugh so hard my hernia might kill me now but worth it! You are a clever genius love your take on life.
@ParkerTockstein23
@ParkerTockstein23 2 жыл бұрын
Ro, genuinely thank you for what you do. You are the first youtuber to make me cry laugh and want to stay alive. tip 10 was seriously touching. Thank you
@weenerdog
@weenerdog 2 жыл бұрын
Ro you're truly an amazing person and I love and appreciate your content. It makes my day
@RailocSTC
@RailocSTC 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. After seeing some video creators I love very suddenly and publicly exit the space because of mental health issues, your frank and hilarious takes are a breath of fresh air and a catharsis that is sorely needed. I know you've said you're ok, but please... Be good to yourself and don't burn out.
@haleyh5839
@haleyh5839 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Ro. A lot of this hit home hard like im sure it did with many people. Going through so many different life things right now and the isolation is hitting the hardest. I wish there were more ways to connect when youve been in it for so long and I wish society had more opportunities available to find a sense of community. Making art has always helped and I think its genuinely a great tip for those that might be hesitant or havent gotten into something creative for a while. I dont interact much with any content i watch or really interact with anything/anyone online socially because of the isolation induced anxiety and i dont know what to say. Feeling this sense of safety and acceptance of just being a human doing and feeling human things gives me more courage to interact and reach out though. so thats cool lol. Maybe someone somewhere has more knowledge than me to be able to make an interactive community to make art together online and be human and connect to people. anyway this is me ending a -classic and way too personal comment on a video by a stranger amongst comments of other strangers and so on- thx byeee
@lemonlite_
@lemonlite_ 2 жыл бұрын
hell yeah a wonderful way to start a birthday :) love ya stuff ro, awesome as always
@judahmoar2533
@judahmoar2533 2 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday
@JeffreyMarshallMilne1
@JeffreyMarshallMilne1 2 жыл бұрын
there’s just no words for how impactful this video has been for me. I will definitely be coming back watching this again and again… and again. I’ve never so violently gone from laughing to crying to laughing lololol tysm ❤️❤️❤️
@alrighhhh
@alrighhhh 2 жыл бұрын
every aspect of this video was genius. immaculate work yet again
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