How To Stop The Blame Game In A Relationship

[@WJAlexander-o6t]

My sister blames others for everything that goes wrong in her life, whether its decades ago or just now. Everything, big or small, has to be micro-analyzed to discover who was at fault, and its never her.

[@slowturtle3]

This video really goes deep to explain the root of blame. I learned so much! Thank you!

[@alinecardoso9668]

I was raised by my parents .blaming each other every single day, arguing in front of us, sometimes I couldn't sleep well because they were in a fight for hours. Nowadays my father does the blame game also with me, on the other day he told me that I can't handle with my work, so when I said that he said that he said nothing and I'm too nervous.

[@rhondabaroli2683]

Those emotions can make you sick

[@DavidWilson-ng1lv]

Fantastic video, lot's of nuggets. Thanks so much. 🔥

[@o0MELLY0o]

Love your video. Just shared it with my boyfriend. 😍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@warmupbanham9870]

This is the best podcast I ever heard, it is so Assertive and made me understand my own experience in my relationship. Thank you so much for it!

[@chetnachandwani4570]

Thanks this was super helpful. Provided so much clarity to some issues in life

[@silvirichardson]

Thanks for your video!

[@blondspike74]

Gold! Thank you; this will help my marriage so much. My husband sent me this as to why he blames…such a valuable conversation starter!

[@moand7862]

Thank you! Easy to understand and easy to apply. When I get into heightened anxiety, my go to is blaming my sweet husband. I am so ready to change.

[@Bonnie-in2xt]

This is just what I was looking for on my healing journey thanks so much . I got so worn down with the finger pointing between us part of the healing is also acknowledging the part I also played ... hurt people hurt people ... doing the work so I don’t find myself going through this again !!!

[@95turbogirl1980]

This is me and my girlfriend equally and it sucks. I wish she was in a place that she was ready to work on herself. I know she loves me as I love her but the hurt and emotional and mental trauma she has I didn't cause and I can only work on myself and unfortunately that's not going to be the key to the magic wand to fix our unresolved conflict

[@madforsweet]

You explain so logically It makes sense and Now I understand why I blame others all the time

[@perryh.5306]

Why do you?

[@markrogers3171]

Wow this video is by far the best video I have seen yet! My brain likes to thoroughly analyze problems with a strong need to find a solution and getting down to the root of the problem helps bring me understanding so that I am able to adjust my actions , attitude s, and behaviors and in return apply them to the situation in the most effective and affective ways for the most positive outcome . Most brain fulfilling information ever and I love the way it explains how to help a marriage rather than just throw it away. Thank you!!!! ❤️❤️❤️😀😀😀😀🙏🙏🙏

[@SheilaTrueLove]

You are a very WISE man. Thank you.

[@meditationhealingmusic7753]

Watch it at 1.25x speed, you can thank me later ;)

[@penelopelambson9128]

Very good video and applicable to most people. However.... There are people who adamantly refuse to acknowledge feelings they consider “weakness”. They hide behind masks of being “ right” and in control. If they are unmasked (imperfection revealed) by someone, they are vicious and vindictive. They are not open to introspection or change. So what course of action do you suggest when , after 30-40 years of dealing with a person who refuses accountability, continues to blame AND shame, and refuses any introspection or counseling? Does that person’s “ hurt” trump the hurt they cause others? How does one unravel this gnarled web? Thank you for your great videos. If I still lived in Utah I would defiantly attend one of your conferences.

[@sunnyctv7526]

This is exactly what I was looking for .help

[@stevewise1656]

Yep

[@cherylmoss3632]

What if the one person is to blame. Drunkenness. Abuse. Overspending.

[@julianamendez7311]

I just liked and subscribed. I really enjoyed this video. Great advice. Thank you!

[@rhondabaroli2683]

They use blame to stay away from the hurt .in my letter I did bring thst up

[@georgiawolf1986]

Wish I could have seen this years ago.

[@rinanorden4878]

Thank you for this video. It make soo much sense AND it is very practical. Just loving every video clip I watch🙌🏼

[@Samatakhare]

Very nice video u explain it very nicely

[@laswanlewwis]

I don't like blame games it really hurts my feelings.

[@sohinimondal1555]

Thank you so much🤍

[@carlottajasmin359]

Thank you for this explanation! Very helpfull.

[@goldengirl1168]

This is eye opening.

[@Standownevil]

Then start ⭐️

[@myepicgarden1284]

It's not 5050 imagine someone getting mugged. It's not their fault they are getting mugged, it's the muggers fault. Sometimes it really is just one person to blame. Otherwise you end up blaming the victims

[@cre8tivexchange]

He’s talking about relationships bruh not a crime smh

[@pegagonza3784]

@@cre8tivexchange😅love your answer

[@MBienDarla25]

My husband is blaming me that's why he has mistress he said and he dumped me 7 years married 26 years together.

[@aussiekilo]

At what point do you let the person go? Thoughts: Staying in this type of relationship regardless of it being (family, spouse or friend)seems to no longer be supportive with their growth based on providing tools they chose to blatantly disregard. In fact, your own mental health feels like borderline abuse... thus, putting an end to it becomes the only option, right?

[@ricerice9437]

Great video 👌👌

[@rhondabaroli2683]

Rght on .I wish both of us could jus gave a conversation direct no media honesty and love and jus I want to tell you this and I would say ok I want to tell you this .thst real progress . Confess and own part .that's healing .not continued media passive aggressive communication

[@FriskyTendervittles]

What about a person who does accept responsibility and the person keeps blaming especially for past things that you already accepted responsibility for that they can’t let go

[@inner_phoneix_hub]

Do not say just sorry, if you keep repeating the things you say you are sorry, if you only say sorry but do not do the things to repair afterward, she will feel like hurt is still there unresolved. Do not give your partner so much pain she cannot forget.

[@ollywang99]

Smart !!!!

[@MBienDarla25]

I'm doing that one but my husband just blaming me and don't want to fix the problem because he is cheating me now

[@bt5087]

So what happens when the person does all these action steps, writing etc, to find the root of their hurt...but is still blaming the other person. " I'm like this because of you, you did this to me, you ruin my life, I can't do anything because of you, youre not tryimg, you dont love me"?

[@GG-so9bd]

🙏 thank you

[@inner_phoneix_hub]

What if your partner insults you, swears on you whenever he is angry, whenever you disagree or bring what hurts you, is this “us” against a problem, is it him and the problem he creates? Idk how to overcome this.

[@monicatiamo7182]

Hello I'm an Empath, was since I was a small child. Please help with my quesion. I want to know where my ability has come from? I'm a Christian, so I don't get it. I know what people are thinking. Area of places, I feel.ectect Where did this come from?????

[@stargonenova2864]

Search the scriptures for "discerning spirits" gift.

[@lenia-jeannemila8487]

Your Soul(also known as Higher Self).

[@jingleval8469]

ok

[@laurapotter6700]

Yes but, maybe they are that way from the get go, but when they connect with a partner that has a special needs son. What to do???

[@ericag72]

What if he says the the root of the problem is me? And only me? :(

[@33rdStreet]

He’s hurt

[@Artemis_simetrA]

Just console him okay and he'll change. My gf never does that. And its so painful. Thats why im here, to find another way to fix our relationship.

[@yvonneschwartz3929]

Yeah he is hurt but so is she! Why she has to take all the blame? And how can she change the situation so he either change his actions or the least recognize it is his fault!​@@33rdStreet

[@yvonneschwartz3929]

​@@Artemis_simetrAWould that really change his actions? Would he ever apologize for hurting her?

[@rachelg.2593]

Yes yes yes! Thank you!

[@rhondabaroli2683]

Bingo. He is rght on

[@rhondabaroli2683]

Dump it out to me like I did .I getting punished for trying to do the rght mature thing

[@rhondabaroli2683]

I can't scamble anymore . Friends if meant to be .meet in life .I never understood why she can write here but not in life

[@rhondabaroli2683]

I know I was mean too but there was a reason .honest people would tell entire truth in life

[@pegagonza3784]

Shame he is not going to type to find out why he feels like trash even though I show him love

[@rhondabaroli2683]

Get a pad paper. Why can't they write the feeling directly to me .. instead of making me forever be guy .now all the people I cared about too far being passive aggressive toward me ..not a place I choose to stay

[@rhondabaroli2683]

Very toxic

[@davidwolfert3586]

Tell that to the republicans

[@rhdtv2002]

You realize that the left is doing all the shunning..