How To Survive A Job You Hate | Clever Girl Finance

[@TheEmmanuelle18]

Some employers are so toxic that even if you try to quit on good terms, they sabotage you when your new employer call them as a reference. They treated you so bad but dare you to quit so when you do, they become more toxic! Sorry for my english, i'm french by language. Thanks for your advice and i love your channel so much.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

You are right - but never let a toxic employer prevent you from being your best self! Sometimes it's just best to move on! Thanks for being here!

[@elizabethrose5007]

This is just my opinion but when a job begin to make you physically and mentally ill it is time to leave. Some employers feel they own you instead of you working for them. They constantly piling on more work and will not raise your salary.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

This is very true. We hope those experiencing this would find this helpful in dealing with such situations.

[@imperialchalice]

This is my experience. That structure needs to change. Sometimes even the money isn’t worth it…they need to change the way the whole business operates.

[@outandabout4812]

True but do you take a lower paying new job? I have.

[@AyTee77]

I am in this situation right now. I get sick every 2 months like clock work. I’m a salaried employee that works over 50+ hours a week and do not get pad overtime because my manager said as a salaried employee I do not get overtime. It’s killing my soul. I work with untrustworthy and lazy people, and the person I’m suppose to count on as my right hand demands extra money every time I try to delegate work to him. So I am ready to quit. I’m moving to a cheaper accommodation, and will soon be able to save a little to quit for a month or 2.

[@dyllangames3592]

Some people can't afford to just leave.

[@adstix]

Sometimes, jumping from one job to another can be like jumping from a frying pan right into a flaming 🔥 The new job may even turn out to be much worse than the previous one! Ultimately, the ideal goal is to be self-employed and financially independent! And there are many pathways to that lofty goal! Each person needs to find their own unique journey toward that independence!

[@ES-rh4yt]

So true

[@JordanMBS222]

Yesssss this !!!!

[@patriciakasenge9927]

Thank you for this, most of us really needed to hear this. The difficult part is that for my Job in Health , you can't even take breaks nor decorate your Environment, you literally overwhelmed the entire time.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Health care can be very stressful. We hope you have something in place to take care of yourself outside of work and can also ask for support at work to help reduce workload and overwhelm.

[@deerhaven3350]

Legally, any job must allow for breaks. Where I was only designated breaks were allowed. They tracked you if you left your desk at any other time because we were a call center. They'd report everyone's breaks to the entire department with hard-copies at meetings. A co-worker friend of mine used to call them the "potty reports". It was so humiliating and degrading, and this was at a very large, well-know, world-wide corporation.

[@KimJilene]

I watched this video TWICE. I need all the advice I can get to survive a job that just drains me. The job is not so much toxic, but it is just not a good fit for my personality and my best way of working. I will be practicing mindfulness before and after work and updating my resume and LinkedIn this weekend. Thank you for a great video!

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks so much for tuning in! It should like it's time for a change - so yes! Update your resume and put yourself out there. Here's to bigger and better opportunities for you. And in the meantime, keep doing you best at your current job. You've got this!

[@deerhaven3350]

At one point in my life I was stuck in a toxic job for five years. It wasn't my manager who was toxic, it was the entire dynamic forced upon staff by upper management. I'd cry every day on my drive home from work, but the pay was so good I hung in there until I had something else lined up and had also paid off my car. To give you an idea of how bad the environment was: At one point 1/3 of my department was out on stress leave. Truth. I actually received a phone call one day from the head of HR for the entire corporation who was located in another state. She wanted to know how I was managing when so many could not. I told her I was considerably older than my colleagues with a long work history and attributed it to that. My last day on the job there was one of the happiest days of my entire life.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks for sharing this. Sometimes leaving is the best option!

[@taurahelms3068]

I want to quit and write my fiction full-time. I am sticking with it until I have a few books published successfully.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Starting working on your plan! Thanks for tuning in!

[@JenniferRedmond-wy8qq]

What books have you written? I would love to read and support!

[@Akarsh-]

I wish you all the best. I hope you will successfully publish your books & make a good career from it.

[@msfeefee9980]

Hello! I’m so glad I saw this. I’m so depressed and so disliking my job. I pray and manifest a job I love and can be happy at.

[@MsTYouTube]

Thank you for this! I am in this situation right now I am trying my best to find a new job opportunity that is a better fit for me. My health has been affected so much where I am currently working.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Sorry to hear this. We hope you can find a new job opportunity soon and please take care of your health.

[@danielvargas7286]

I just entered to a new job 2 months ago, and I hate it, however I know that is the best I can get at this time, and I will need to be there working for about 3 to 5 years, so thanks for the advices, tomorrow I will bring my little plant to my desk, I will be there for a long time, but I'm grateful with the life for giving me a job with a relatively good pay, that will give me the opportunity to study ❤.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Love that you are leading with gratitude! Stay focused on your goals!

[@limeflavoredbleach5570]

How is it going ?

[@nazziwavanessa606]

Im in this very situation i needed to hear this. Infact im tired of being employed im opting for self-employment. Im still at this job i now so hate, and i need provision to start my own business or atleast get a better paying job with minimal work load.

[@JestersDeadUK]

Great video, thanks so much, DESPISE my current role, losing weight, lack of sleep, messing with my head and knots in stomach every night and morning so this really helped!!!

[@IvanaGirl]

We can’t even take a 4 minute break so that stepping away it’s IMPOSSIBLE!!! I already quit I couldn’t handle it

[@emilyboyer9211]

Proud of you ❤

[@IvanaGirl]

@@emilyboyer9211 thank you! I found 3 other job offers so no regrets!

[@jaderoselee8554]

what kind of job

[@IvanaGirl]

@@jaderoselee8554 Dental 🦷

[@melaniecastillo9786]

Our HR listened to our associate survey and moved our team manager. Life is better. I still hate dealing with self entitled people

[@no1gifted]

Just literally went through this. If you have a toxic boss who may sabotage your new job offer reference covertly ie great on written reference, but verbally leaves an unfavourable tone with the new employer, network with their boss / senior colleagues to give you a recommendation. Unfortunately I've had the pleasure of working with vindictive individuals

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Sorry to hear this. Hope you were able to come out stronger on the other side.

[@folkloreswift1549]

Watching this and crying over my job

[@Truthseekerandteller]

What of people that don't have a choice due to the economy

[@Clevergirlfinance]

The tips in the video still apply. Thanks for tuning in.

[@matekonhyirahkwarteng1667]

Patiently waiting...

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@leonaisaac1368]

Love this video❤ I have literally done all of these suggestions. My favorite part is making my space comfortable. Setting boundaries is very very important to me as well and has helped with my mental wellbeing. Thanks for a great video❤❤❤

[@Clevergirlfinance]

YAY! Well done for implementing the suggestions. Thanks for watching.

[@RainyDayBX]

I disassociate from my toxic employer as much as possible. That means limit my interactions to only necessary ones and switch to remote or hybrid schedules. Sadly this can only get you so far as your employer will make stupid decisions that negatively impact you without learning from it --they'll repeat the same thing so best to get out asap.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks so much for sharing this!

[@KimJilene]

This is a good tip and I will try to implement this. I am highly sensitive and an empath so it is hard for me not to absorb the chaos and negativity at my job. Learning to disassociate would probably be beneficial for me.

[@tricksgrl2]

I hate where I worked. I’m completely turned off. Every shift there is some bullshit. Never smooth… no matter what is done to prevent it.

[@marthadaka9214]

Thank you so much Bola. I heededto hear this. Thankfully, I had started implementing some of the tips. I look forward to landing my new job soonest, I have been applying.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

You got this! Keep it up!

[@jasmine.neicole1266]

Thank you this was helpful

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad it helped

[@JordanMBS222]

This video is wonderful ! Your advice is helpful , from personal experience and reading the comments , it’s starting to look like the best option for a lot of people would be self-employment. ❤ To anyone embarking on that journey , I wish you the best of luck. ❤ You can most definitely do it .

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad you found it useful!

[@thiabrabson2533]

I definitely save most of my money & I keep my Mindfulness focus on being a great worker😅

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Love that!

[@karud0640]

Thank you for this topic...very helpful coping tips.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad it was helpful!

[@K10jak]

I feel more lost now. We are not able to decorate our desks, or relocate our sitting position, I work with multiple toxic people (awful), there is NO work to do, HR have been unsupportive in the past (I've lots of evidence of employment law being broken, ready to sue when I leave). Mindfulness is my biggest friend. I put a single thought in my mind at the start of the day, I leave myself visual cues in my diary. I'm working on my next study exam to help my CV, and I've been applying for new jobs. Sadly a 3month notice for me. Thanks for your video as it has pointed out a couple of things, and has shown me I'm on the right track.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Please do not be discouraged. If mindfulness is working for you, then just stay focused on that. Start looking for something else. Hopefully you can exit the toxic situation soon.

[@K10jak]

@@Clevergirlfinance thank you so much for your reply, it is so needed right now. I’ve applied for an amazing job today and feel better, but the Monday morning blues are starting today Sunday. I’ll use the thoughts of this application to get me through tomorrow. Thank you. X

[@NilimaBegum-yr8bg]

Thank you for this power full tips.

[@johnpierce2095]

If the pay is bad, having a work friend wont change that. And where i work corporate wont listen to anyone but themselves. IM at the bottom of the ladder there, and i dont wanna move my way ujp, its like going to prison camp at that place. all they care about is the customer and not the the employee

[@Clevergirlfinance]

It's definitely time to look for a new job!

[@johnpierce2095]

@@Clevergirlfinance been looking but im 50, so where i live is food places and stuff, ones like Heb gorcery store and costco ones that pay really good their never hiring, no one ever leaves there., and i signed a new lease on my apartment so im stuck here,

[@CindyBrewer-g5e]

Thank you for the tips. I've hit burnout in my current clerical healthcare job and am looking elsewhere :)

[@anitrayoung8106]

Great suggestions! I utilize the approach of setting smaller goals each day!

[@Clevergirlfinance]

That's a great idea!

[@jennifergonzalez3895]

This video is awesome just what I needed so helpful

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad it helped!

[@acfollowjcor318]

I like the idea of changing where one sits, it seems to be a good idea but I mentioned to my boss that I would love to change desk like 3 times but she could not care less and just ignored.

[@clivesianyaka]

Thanks for sharing this vital information ❤❤❤❤

[@msfeefee9980]

This is just a job I was blessed with after I was laid off.

[@donnagallaher3989]

Thank you for this information!

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for being here.

[@da6356]

This was brilliant!! Listening from the UK

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@uchennaorinya5701]

Thank you for these powerful tips. I'm very pleased with the idea of decorating my workspace and practicing gratitude.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

You are so welcome! We hope your new set up will make showing up to work much easier.

[@a.rsaiduzzamanshipon8801]

Thanks for sharing this awesome motivational video😮

[@megwriter3power-gg6ml]

I’m writing novels and investing to get out of my job.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

With a clear plan and patience you should be able to get into something you love and pays the bills.

[@opticalraven1935]

Thanks. I work on my own but I can do some of these.

[@תמירפרוידנט]

Very nice and profession video. Thank you

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@lidam]

I don’t like my job. It is so toxic now that I can’t tell you my stress less and anxiety is now at its peak. I don’t think of anything else besides: I am at the point where I just don’t like to see any ping from any co worker or manager. I need this because the pay and my other financial responsibilities. I am screwed

[@christineMaccallum-uo3qx]

Hallelujah hallelujah is the highest I praise 3 I

[@esthermutua1287]

Thanks alpt for this informative message 🙏

[@Beepositive84]

Watching this video on the clock 😂

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Hang in there!!!

[@ninijellybeanie6853]

Finally …some advice that is actually practical!

[@ivycooper7224]

I am about to leave this job by next year and have my exit plan because my job sucks with the bad ass energy which is toxic!!

[@ccalexander1924]

I work in healthcare. There isn’t any time to take a 5 min breather to enjoy that sip of water or coffee. We aren’t allowed to decorate our work space ( against company policy ) , do t really trust most healthcare workers , we don’t always get that 30 min lunch either. We can’t talk to HR bc they do only work with the supervisor. Trust me. In healthcare the last place you go is HR bc you will only be seen as the trouble maker . Supervisors in healthcare do not care either. They are only there for the budget. They are not there for any other reason but budget and keeping you in line taking care of more patients then you should bc they need to meet the budget ! I hate my career. How I am getting through this I think I figure out what my change will be is I’m a travel tech. I take 13 week contracts so if the place is awful I leave and take the next awful 13 week contract but atleast I know there is an end to it. I am only doing my job for the paycheck. That’s it. Because I have to

[@jenniferjones4113]

Awesome tips...TFS!!

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Thanks for watching!

[@RoxyVanessa]

When you said “SHOW YOUR BOSS” I felt that 😂😂😂

[@ironblazephoenix6214]

I feel like this is only helpful for office workers and should've been in the title of the video, this does not help me it has nothing in common with my work environment

[@moonbear5061]

My job is very physically demanding. I turn 55 in February. Do not know how much longer I can do it.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Can you start exploring other less physically demanding jobs now?

[@Meknificent22]

Work is not that bad i am a list checker and when my list is interrupted by extra outside work. Thats when the hate starts to come. Customers can see me literally having my desk covered. Sit down and talk about nothing they need but personal things. Then before you know it the day is gone.

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad you are enjoying where you are. We hope you have some things in place to help you stay motivated on those down days.

[@Meknificent22]

@@Clevergirlfinance yea thank for this channel it has been inspiring

[@journeywithrosie]

Great tips!

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Glad it was helpful!

[@shafiyah1299]

I have a team that puts pressure on every normal topic for no reason instead of talking about it It just ruins your day😢

[@AE-cz9nh]

I went to college and my license expired. Never renewed it for personal reasons I have to work at a fast-food place because my car broke down and it's the only Job I have a way to until I can get a car and renew my license. hope I can leave in three more weeks.

[@JestersDeadUK]

Great video!!!

[@kevin2400]

I work at a grocery store..... the people aren't bad I'm dealing with a toxic worker... he doesnt help me clean the store .. he does his personal shopping..... its getting to the point that i don't wanna be there anymore.... i can't sleep at night.. stressed... I'm tired of doing everything by myself... i like working by myself but not doing everything.... its getting old ...

[@theloniouscovers5426]

Communicate this to him

[@msfeefee9980]

We don’t do break but will be having 2 15 breaks . I Have prayers and motivation abs that doesn’t work. Sorry none of this is good for me. Lol

[@dyllangames3592]

I just hate not knowing what I'm doing especially where I'm at now. I'm at Lowes and I feel like they expect me to already know what I'm doing and I don't. I hate when everyone is going on breaks and I'm just looking around not knowing what to do and everyone expects me to just know what needs done when I just started last week.

[@EDDY002412]

Lowes warehouse or store? Either way, I work at an RDC and I'm miserable. The micro managing, constant wear, and tear and short breaks and long days.

[@dyllangames3592]

@@EDDY002412 I work at a store. Outdoor lawn and garden department.

[@Dee-zy2xv]

I would look into another field of work or career...study on something that could ensue a career change. Alot of study programs available nowadays.. especially in technical world. Trade school, CDL, EMT, personal trainer, online , security, or any way you can Upskill n do while at your current job😊

[@dyllangames3592]

@Dee-zy2xv yeah they let me go. They said they needed me when they were in their peak summer days but as soon as it was over they cut me down to 3.5 hours per week and when I told them I couldn't afford bills while doing that they just let me go

[@Dee-zy2xv]

Yea they know damn well noone can live on 3 hours a week of work..then the audacity to " let ya go" as if it's an inconvenience to them... ignorant clowns​@@dyllangames3592

[@ericgilhart5951]

I loved my old job but I guess that wasn't meant to last for me

[@Clevergirlfinance]

On to bigger and better!

[@whiteangleofdeathX]

As a cashier I’m crying there’s no help 😭

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Can you explore new job options?

[@kensiedareus3271]

WOW thanks Blessings 🙏

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Amen!

[@naveenBoxer2562]

I am just working here for 1 year work Ex. I wil quit after that.

[@Margaret-i4i]

I'm working as a nanny together with other 2 ladies . Our boss loves them so much to a point of my workmates can talk to me anyhow and I complained once but she didn't listen to me. How should I deal with search a situation?

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Have you had a conversation with your workmates? If your workmates are speaking to you rudely or inappropriately and your boss isn’t doing anything about it, start keeping a record of what’s going on. You should also try talking to your workmates directly because sometimes people don’t realize the impact of their behavior. If that doesn’t help, bring it up with your boss again, show her your notes and explain how it’s impacting your work. Please take care of yourself and try to manage stress. If things don’t get better, perhaps consider whether this job is still the right fit for you.

[@sanjanaunni8205]

What if you dont have any work friends cause your literally not allowed to talk to them else your disturbing them during work

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Can you tune into music/focus music, podcasts or audiobooks while you work?

[@EllaKim-b4j]

Im 17 years old and under my condition to pass is i Need too Work 3 dass a week 11 Hours Shifts it is very Hard for me and the work invitement is very Toxic and everyone is very Hard on me there r 16 More Weeks and i can quit im happy that in Not Alone ( i also Fell Into small Depression Bcs of work Which leadet to me Skiping Alot and my Boss Hate me ) im only 17 and i really cnt take it anymore .

[@storyteller367]

What a interesting video.

[@mahonghao9971]

Why have to survive something I hate

[@lidam]

Who really needs recommendation letter? HR just check if person work there or not. Our employment is at will. Means you can leave or they let you go any time. Reference should not be a concern when employment at will.

[@BrittanyProctor-j4p]

lol our company does not have an HR

[@Clevergirlfinance]

oh wow - you might need to speak to leadership directly and/or craft your exit plan too!

[@WalkTalkVent]

Clever Girl I would like to make a reaction video to this video. Would you be okay with it?

[@mrman5824]

I needed this. I am a paraprofessional working with a bitchy teacher who micromanages EVERY THING and treats me like a maid. I'm currently in school to get a master so I can get OUT. I kida hate my life a lot right now but I am keep pushing. I just have to force myself to keep in mind that I'm stating for student loan forgiveness and a full ride masters scholarship…but it's so damn hard working there 😢

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Stay focused on moving away from this toxic environment. Is it possible to find something prior to completing your masters? It's worth exploring!

[@mitali006]

I am in a similar position now. It's horrible, my coworkers are very toxic and rude. I just need to stick it out for another year or so but I don't know if it'll get better after that. I hope you are doing better now.

[@msfeefee9980]

I work do oral surgeons and they don’t care and they run their own business. So it is what it is.

[@spirituallyconscious7774]

I don’t have a desk I drive buses

[@GrowwithRizz1111]

😢😢 I just quit

[@RR_DM]

Me gusta pienso esta es un commercía de mi amigos, por ejemplo mi amigos se investan en un systema de comida, Little Ceasars

[@RR_DM]

I like to think I'm working for my friends, for example my friends invested in a Little Ceaser's eatery

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Love this!

[@TR-vh1fi]

Avoid HR period

[@jle4433]

Today I got up at 9 am. Then I went for a walk, it's a nice summer day, why not? Now I'm fixing lunch. Then I might take a nap. It's Monday. I'm NOT playing nice with people and bottling up my frustration. I say whatever I want to whoever. Yep, I'm retired! And the best part is you're not :)

[@56348u]

It's the hairstyle for me 😢.

[@shrikantbhosale2167]

Give directions

[@nigelbenn4642]

Work friend? Yeah right! A break every hour? Individual personalised environment? Move locations? Talk to HR? Princess Obvious has obviously never worked in the real world before!

[@Clevergirlfinance]

Actually I have, and I have over a decade of experience working in corporate America in all kinds of situations including patronizing, aggressive, racist and hostile environments. If I've learned anything it's to protect my peace first and foremost while i explore my options. Thanks for stopping by.

[@nigelbenn4642]

@@Clevergirlfinance Well Princess, society will most certainly protect your peace over a blokes. That's for sure. Until that changes which it won't you'll be fine and dandy under the laws of women and children first....................then dogs and pets, .....then friends .................. expensive equipment....................then money ................. then clothes..................... and finally men.

[@christopherrosado6053]

It's 6 hrs or 7 hrs, of the day, but, It's not your day Impermanence, things. change