How to Survive Grad School and a Full Time Job

[@g9511508]

1. Make friends with similar goals 2. Organise your assignments 3. Get a routine and follow it 4. Organise all your materials - for CV 5. Be realistic - how much time to spend on one assignment 6. Keep your end goal in mind recap at 8:30 Thanks for all the tips!!! Love you!!!

[@misssssprincesssss]

This video is so important. I can't believe it was an "almost wasn't" video. Just started my masters at 37 while working full time. I am now in my groove and feeling positive. This vid made me realise that I am not crazy when I start to feel stressed. Thank you Xica :)

[@XicaHenley]

I’m glad you enjoyed it!

[@anamarie97]

So excited for you!! Are you nervous? I know the workload in graduate school can be intimidating depending on your major. I personally had 20+ paged syllabi lol but I managed to project plan everything in a way that gave me peace of mind :)

[@wyomingbullfighter]

Thank you so much for this video. I started graduate school yesterday at Georgetown and I am already so overwhelmed. I needed something positive to watch.

[@XicaHenley]

I'm glad you liked it! Good luck with your program!

[@StarsStars714]

I'm only working on my associates at this point, but thanks so much for this video. I can definitely incorporate these tips!

[@XicaHenley]

You're welcome! I'm glad you found my video helpful!

[@Kinjo7]

I'm about to study post grad psychology while working full time in another medical field, with two kids under 3! Thank you for the motivation 🙏

[@teachersharon4634]

Awesome😄. I wish you the best in all you are doing😄.

[@Stargemini11]

Thank you! I start my grad program for public health next month and have to stay working full time. Thankfully my boss is able to move me to a shorter shift and start earlier in the day on the days I have class. Thanks for the tips!!!

[@XicaHenley]

I'm glad you liked them, thanks so much for watching!

[@shyerahikari8300]

This helped me a lot. I was taking early morning high school classes while working and going to hair school, you saved me.

[@shannafranklin8891]

Thanks so much!! I’m getting ready to start and online grad program. I needed this tips

[@XicaHenley]

You’re welcome! Good luck on your new journey.

[@jowelkhankhan7246]

Shanna Franklin ok...n...bolo...k....MX.. 60...

[@jahnesehawkins6577]

I’m currently going to get my MSW in the Fall and working as a kindergarten teacher 😭 I just don’t know how I’ll be able to do this

[@anamarie97]

Project planning is key! It's what helped me graduate with honors twice (2020 and 2021). It honestly made my Master's a breeze! :)

[@lesharedemps3559]

Thank you sooo much! I’ve been out of school for over 5 years now and I will be starting a graduate program this Fall. I’m excited, yet nervous. This was great information. I’m sure I’ll be watching this video a few more times.

[@anamarie97]

Wow congratulations!! What's your major? Also I would recommend organizing your syllabi in a way that allows you to project plan your assignments! This will save you time AND help you maintain your desired GPA! :) that's what worked for me. I was able to get my Masters in 1 year.

[@shariharris9674]

This video was very inspirational because I do want to get my MA in Counseling I want to go to graduate school. Thank you so much for the upload of this video. I'm going to name a few steps that I like from the video.1 Organization 2 Cohort buddy 3. Time Management Skills 4. Realistic 5 End Goal. I think that I can implement those goals in plan of study for my graduate school.

[@katiepop3442]

Much Appreciated Advice... I am experiencing everything you said. I did start my graduate program in September but I had to take a break because I got so overwhelmed. I will be starting back at the end of January with a more realistic approach.

[@melissasantana1013]

Thank you for this! Starting the spring semester next week, and the idea of knowing how busy it will be is already stirring up some anxiety for me 😅 You're video was very helpful though 🌻

[@anamarie97]

Congratulations!! That's an amazing milestone, so happy for you :) grad school is challenging but it's so worth it. The most important thing is time management, organization, and planning. I've learned so much while I was getting my Master's! Let me know if you want any tips!

[@butlerka2606]

Great video! Starting my master’s in social work soon and I need all the tips I can get because I am already feeling so overwhelmed getting my bachelors right now with a family and working full-time 😭

[@amadoshie]

Thank you very much. The video makes me more motivated and inspired. I'm currently enrolled as an mba grad school student.

[@XicaHenley]

I'm glad you enjoyed it! Hang in there, you'll be glad you did in the end!

[@LuLuzjourney]

bochog003 me too I start today and I am freaking out lol I'm so scared but I take one class every 6 weeks hopefully it won't be to bad

[@XicaHenley]

Taking one class at a time is much easier because there is less to juggle.

[@yb8524]

My buddy is an upperclassmen, we do not have the same work ethic, she struggles with severe depression, but I also have a different ability and I love her just having someone who you can talk to who is not a fremeny, and is supportive and happy for me and gives me suggestions and resources to succeed and is always willing to listen about my life makes all the difference even if we have different work ethics

[@shortycherubim8007]

I'm so happy I listened to this video...I'd start keeping my eyes on the prize...💫✨

[@TheDnlnext]

Good tips! I’m thinking about applying for grad school, family life, and work full-time (which includes some travel). Thanks!

[@sophiaforte8898]

I watched 3 videos before this one and let me tell you, yours is the best. This was incredibly helpful. Especially the first tip about the friend. That is so wise. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

[@LaShonSmith-d2g]

Just found this midway into my 1st year of grad school as a single mom with a full time job and two side jobs.

[@XicaHenley]

I hope this helps--it can feel tough when you're in the thick of things!

[@TheJustinGreen]

This video is 7 years old but DO I CARE?! Lmao NO! I just got accepted into Grad School and I am nervous do you hear me?! But, you’ve helped ease my mind by saying “it’s doable” - I do have support at home. Undergrad I had to get up 5am and get all my work done and occasionally after work - my job is a 12-8:30 situation which is good and bad. But that routine saved my LIFE - didn’t mean I didn’t feel crazy but I felt amazing having projects submitted earlier. These are solid steps. THANK YOU for this encouragement.

[@XicaHenley]

Congratulations on grad school! I'm so glad your found this video helpful!

[@annamontana8054]

Thanks for the advice. I just started a new graduate program last week. I am excited but I do feel overwhelmed when I look at the syllabi. I have been researching ways to read efficiently since it is impossible to read every single word and page. I also work full-time job as well and I am trying to find that balance with being enrolled in my program part time. I am going to be using my schools academic support center to help me develop some study strategies and to help me improve my writing.

[@XicaHenley]

I'm glad that you enjoyed the video! I find that if I really dissect my assignments beforehand, it gives me a better idea of how to attack the reading. In addition, you'll find that the text styles vary. Some readings are just dense and you have to read through them EXTREMELY CLOSELY, while some you can focus on headings or chapter summaries. If you haven't, set up a schedule for yourself. Find sacred times to read. The thing that helps me the most, purposeful highlighting. I write notes like "quote this" or "like in my school" next to certain highlights so that I'm not blindly searching through texts for important information. Don't be surprised if this becomes a new blog/video! Good luck!

[@bettersounds1926]

What grad school do you go to

[@DoubleEdgeSword1908]

This doctoral/ full time work life is no joke!

[@XicaHenley]

Completely, it can definitely be a struggle. It's all about taking those moments to reset so that you can keep moving forward!

[@JT-tx2ns]

Hope everything is ok

[@everettalexander4153]

Thank you so much. I am starting my program next month and I feel more ready thanks to you.

[@chelseapalmer7037]

This is the fifth video I've checked out this week for grad school advice, as I head back in for a new semester. It's also the only one that gave concrete, useful advice! Thanks so much, I'll be checking out your other content.

[@WABBNMedia]

I just subscribed , thanks for this video.

[@WABBNMedia]

I’m doing my Master ‘s degree now online. I’m in my first semester of year 1.

[@lisamae6035]

Thank you. Your video is encouraging.

[@XicaHenley]

I know it gets rough, but we always have to push through and keep that end goal in mind!

[@comejourneywithme7076]

I so so needed this video! Very helpful! I started a Graduate Program on Monday. Thank you:)

[@jacquie9833]

Thank you for your inspiration!

[@XicaHenley]

You're welcome! Thanks for watching!

[@yoganimuzikloverwill749]

This was very helpful! Thank you.

[@flagshipbuilds]

Xica, thank you for this episode! I resonated a lot with this video.

[@brandonpresley3875]

Thanks so much for this!!

[@maritzamullervy316]

Great video! Thank you for the advice!

[@kddd58]

Thank you so much! This was very helpful

[@XicaHenley]

kddd58 You’re welcome, thanks for watching!

[@jowelkhankhan7246]

kddd58 ok..kimona...dod..MX...60...pin

[@missy5585]

Good Tips. Thank You.

[@stephsteph1993]

Very encouraging and helpful! I’m in the early stages of researching doctoral programs and have been worried about balancing working full time and going to school part time. Thank you for your insight and positivity!

[@XicaHenley]

You're welcome! Good luck with your research!

[@jowelkhankhan7246]

Stephanie Tilley ...ok...

[@JESB605]

Thank you for this !!! Great advice

[@XicaHenley]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it!

[@mialewis3549]

Thank you so much!

[@jowelkhankhan7246]

Mia Lewis ok...leoimona...I...peal

[@KateLove21]

Thank you so much ! May I ask? How many courses did you take/hours did you work a week? I'm a FT teacher, working 35 hours a week in school ... sometimes extra things come up of course and I have to prep outside of school-hours (I looked up your BLOG and realized you are an educator also!) I am starting FT GRAD courses this fall as well. 3 classes. The degree is in the same subject I currently teach. I am 29, married but no kids yet, I am NOT much of a socializer at all outside of work and my husband is a Pre-Dental student so is studying all day himself. I feel now is the time I need to do this before those things change. My husband and I could end up anywhere in 2 years (any Dental school my husband is admitted into we will go to, be that 50 or 1,000+ miles away) and I want a child soon too. I took 8 classes my last semester of my undergrad degree and was on the Dean's list. I've been looking up videos because when I tell my co-workers my plan they all give me this face and say "Are you sure? That's a lot" Your video has given me a lot of encouragement. Thank you !

[@XicaHenley]

Each semester I take two 8-week courses that run one at a time, so at any given time, I am only taking one course. The program is accelerated though, so there are no summers off or spring breaks. My work schedule is fairly similar to yours. The key to success is really managing your time. Once you create a schedule and stick to it, you'll find yourself in a routine and things will smooth out. There will be challenging moments, but you'll get through! Good luck!

[@lenguajesdeprogramacionson5050]

Thanks, It helps me

[@danceballetacro]

thanks for making this. starting grad school in january for social work and also work full time

[@XicaHenley]

Congratulations on your new journey! Just remember to implement steps and tips early and often. Good luck!

[@Godsgraceish]

Hi I’m in grad school for social work as well part-time and working full-time. Congratulations!!!

[@butterflyfree-vp7ps]

What to do if I work full time over night, internship during the day and classes during the evening. My Master's degree is one year, what to do?

[@jowelkhankhan7246]

butterfly free2020 ok..

[@joeheller7581]

pray to the gods of time management

[@latinmaleaz]

i just got admitted to grad school for Education....excited n nervous...i am....amen...any advice__ guys!! THX

[@XicaHenley]

Congratulations and good luck!

[@BooksandBooze]

Very helpful

[@teachersharon4634]

Awesome😄. Thanks for your advice while you are still doing your PhD😄.

[@Ivanachuljakcribb]

Do you think full time mom full time work and grad school is doable ? im seriously thinking about it ...

[@XicaHenley]

I know people who finished Ph.ds as single moms-if you really want to go back to school-do it!

[@lydiawilliams7964]

I have a question my mom is a grad student in a counseling program I have been worried about her what should I do I have also been crying at night alone by myself because I am worried about her

[@NamiBakhtiar]

i want to ask for an advice for my current situation im currently studying for Masters in Computer Science in a University at Malaysia. i was offered a position as a web programmer in a company 3 weeks after my enrollment currently,my situation has gotten worse. During my job,i cant focus on doing my work as a programmer at the company as assignment started to fill up my heads. And my assignment is really hard since they require a full completed program/software as an assignment. Im the kind of person who are able to do work/assignment properly when inspired and motivated.During my degree years,i was able to handle the assignment perfectly well with assignment send up early and the quality of work is quite good but now,im actually behind schedule of 2 programming assignment that are to be completed within 1 week and im actually starting to panicking in the workplace because i keep thinking how i can do this assignment in time. When i arrive home,i could do the assignment given but a very low quality work if it is rushed. i tried the whole Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday after work hours to completed it but still not yet finish i dont know Should i go and send un-quality work of mine to the Professors?or should i quit my job and focus on finishing my Masters?

[@jowelkhankhan7246]

Muhammad Bakhtiar Iman Awang ok...pin..I...k..l....

[@trytry9771]

Hi NAM1, when I read your comment, I felt like it’s my writing since my situation now is quite similar to yours. You wrote this comment 1 year ago, could you tell me how you deal with this, what you chose, work or study, how you managed time, the result? please. cause now I’m starting Graduate school with full time job in the day and I feel overwhelmed. I worry about study when I’m at work. I do work given by my manager when I’m in class. When I have time to do the work, it’s not always the case that I can come up with the ideas for the assignments to be wrote automatically. I need time for digest knowledge. I really want to listen to your experience.

[@TheGrayAreaa]

Married w kids pursuing a second bachelor's....my wife supports me and knows it'll be a grind I'm just wondering if my brain can operate efficiently lol

[@anamarie97]

😂 relatable! My assignments used to overwhelm me too! It took me awhile to figure it out honestly, but I'm so glad I never gave up. I realized that all I had to do was project plan, manage my time effectively, and organize my syllabi! It changed everything for me!

[@TheGrayAreaa]

@@anamarie97 deff more organized this time around ...in my 20s I cake walked thru college lol

[@anamarie97]

@@TheGrayAreaa Makes sense lol. I just graduated with my MSW and with honors! Something I thought I could never do. Now I've made it my mission to help undergraduate and graduate students achieve their desired GPA :) let me know if you need some help along the way!

[@anthonyklahre3793]

What if you already have a spouse and 2 children? Is it possible to still work full time to support family, focus on family, church and study in grad school??

[@afeishataylor9658]

This is my position also. My husband doesn't understand academia either. I really want to complete my Masters Degree in Sociology someday though.

[@Bozewani]

i am doing my masters in queens University belfast human rights law dream job is the international criminal court even dreamed of starting my own human rights NGo

[@Southpaw128]

this video was very helpful, thank you! I have a question that relates to my position right now. I graduated with my undergrad a couple months ago and have been working a part-time job and an internship. I want to get my masters as soon as possible but my loans from my undergrad studies are starting to kick in and although I want to find a full time job to pay off my loans and save some money I don't want the time I put into my career to be wasted if I choose to be a full-time student after a year or so. Are there ways of working and studying part-time and still getting your MBA in under 3 or so years or working part-time and being a full time student in a way that is cost-effective? It sucks that money plays such a large role in this equation and I don't want to feel overworked and have my studies, personal life, and work life compromised because of that. I'm also a competitive amateur boxer with a full time training regiment, I plan on working out everyday even if it means not going to the gym and doing it at home. Although this is an extremely stressful time for me my resiliency is being tested and I'll come out stronger and more prepared for life's challenges.

[@XicaHenley]

Whew! That’s a lot to consider! I would suggest finding a University that offers a more flexible program and places everyone in cohorts. Although I’ve constantly been enrolled school, we only take two courses per semester, and each course is 8-weeks. As a result, I’m only focusing on one class at a time, which allows me to focus on other things in my life and not become overwhelmed. I hope this helps, good luck!

[@lydiawilliams7964]

I need help

[@BallinNQnz]

Grad school and doctoral programs are part time.

[@raychatu]

You're very lovely