How To SURVIVE INFANT LOSS || Love Multiplies

[@shelleymccain7662]

God is pushing me to share a fb live....today on the death of our foster baby , today she passed 9 years ago , she was 8 months old . I just keep praying . Hide me behind the cross lord and let someone else have hope today after loss . So thank you!!!

[@sergiogonzalez736]

I'm here to mourn with all the other dads watching this video as we sit in the delivery room waiting to hold our baby that has passed. I'm sitting here broken, confused asking why, feeling robbed. My only daughter that I have can't come home with us. 😢

[@amim5144]

I am a loss mom. My son would have been 4 this October. As his birthday approaches, it is always more difficult for me. I totally agree about the push forward mentality. I always think that my son is watching me from heaven and I want him to be proud of how his mom perservered, that's what gets me through everyday. not to mention, I was blessed with my rainbow, who makes me feel like I have a part of him always with me as well. Thank you for sharing your story, it definitely helped since it can feel so lonely at times.

[@victoriastewart7887]

I just had a miscarriage three weeks ago... this movie helped me so much... knowing that I'm not insane and a crazy person.... I don't feel anything I'm numb.... thank you

[@tateylove]

Victoria Stewart I am so so sorry to hear that. I’m glad you found some comfort in our story..you are not alone 💜

[@tmaug1974]

Prayers being said for you!

[@Bolderjm13]

Your strength is amazing. As a fellow loss momma, my heart goes out to you. Thank you so much for sharing your journey!

[@tateylove]

Thank you so much!!!! My heart goes out to you as well.

[@tateylove]

My friends. You are loving and valiant, compassionate and bold, and it's amazing to watch you guys as you bring so much light to this world. Thank you for loving us so well!

[@elvaaude]

Our first born son passed away at 29 weeks... it was by far the hardest thing we have ever been thru

[@Deborah_kyomakyoma]

I just lost my 2 months baby 2weeks ago. Am devastated I feel like am losing my mind seeing babies with there mommies breaks my heart.

[@mayaholmesjohnson8074]

We dealt with loss our son was stillborn Apr 22nd 2016 @ 35 weeks. We had our rainbow baby girl 3/29/2018. I started a support ministry S.A.I.L survival after infant loss @ my church Blueridge United Methodist Church in Houston, TX. It was refreshing to I wasn't alone. I also saw a therapist who had miscarriage so she knew loss too. You are anazing for sharing your story

[@puglover7985]

My beloved sister should have turned 18 years old the 29th of December. She lived for 30 hours. I was 6 ( almost 7) when it happened and i remember it as if it was yesterday. Miss her a lot.

[@CraftyKatShopUS]

Alex - thank you for addressing this topic. I lost my son 9 years ago at 4 mos old due to premature birth and I wish I had found resources like this at that time. I am just finally seeking professional help to come to terms with our loss. Knowing others are out there that can help to heal is comforting. Thanks for all you and your husband are doing through your non profit!

[@deirdrebannon382]

So heartbreaking 💔 Jordan, I'm so sorry for your losses! Alex you and Philip are truly a blessing coming forward so openly and Sharing your journey of infertility and losses. You both have opened an avenue for others to talk, share, cry and grieve. When I lost my 3rd baby in 1991and my 4th baby in 1993 (I had 2 children already) it wasn't discussed. I remember feeling so lost in my own grief and very lonely. You don't know how many times I was told you have two children 5 months and 18 months already, just move on. I remember crying to my mom saying we just wanted to have 1 more she wrapped her arms around me and told me you need to have faith and if it's gods plan you will have another baby. But in the mean time she pointed to Nicole and Brian and told me have fun and enjoy what's in front of me and relax and pray make god and my family my center everyday . Thankfully I did go on to have my rainbow 🌈 baby girl 2.5 years later it was a pregnancy I cherished, every symptom I had the good, the bad and sometimes the ugly even the early bed rest because my HCG levels were very slow rising and I was told the baby may not make it. So I did everything I could and prayed dear god I will take what ever you bless me with , please let this baby live. She was born at 39 weeks and completely healthy at the time. At 6.5 years old we found out she was hearing impaired due to a constant infection I carried while she was in utero and antibiotics I had through the whole pregnancy. But she was my beautiful Olivia Brooke!She is now 23, wears hearing aids and a nurse. I wish their was someone like Alex and Philip to laugh, cry and talk to when I was in my mid 20's. My husband was understanding but he grieved differently then I did. I'm now 53 and a stay at home Nana to my 3 oldest daughters 3 children a mom is what I always wanted to be and now I get to be a nana to a 8 and 6 year old girls and their little brother now 2.5.

[@jennyvian-coe7671]

So encouraging. My husband and I just suffered our second 2nd trimester loss in 6 months. The loss of our son Samuel and daughter Harriet is just so difficult but you are absolutely right...push forward. God bless xx

[@cuteangel257]

I am going through the same thing. I lost my first son at 12 weeks and the second at 28 weeks. Did you guys try again? I am too broken right now.. I just want a baby!

[@marissagutierrez4573]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your losses. I also experienced 2 infant losses recently. We got pregnant with twins through IVF. At 21 weeks we lost our first daughter due to pProm-she was stillborn. Almost 3 weeks later at 23+5, I delivered our second daughter and she lived 98 days in the NICU. She overcame all obstacles she faced linked to her prematurity. She was doing so well and we were going to bring her home soonish. Until one day she got very sick. She had a volvulus and had emergency surgery. It went well, so they thought, until her heart rate wasn’t beating fast enough during recovery. She became acidotic and bled out. I held her in my arms as she passed away. Our hearts were shattered into a million pieces all over again. The pain is unexplainable. We miss our girls everyday.

[@mightylittlegiants4077]

Thank you so much for sharing! So many of the mom's in our Mighty Little Angel Program need to hear this

[@ktrsmom]

Great interview! Jordon, I’m so sorry for your devastating loss. My advice for all of us who have been through loss of any kind is to ALLOW ourselves to grieve. ❤️

[@tateylove]

ktrsmom I absolutely agree! It’s so important to make room for it

[@amybostic1439]

Jordan was so kind to share her experiences. Thank you

[@emiliana1767]

I just went through an early miscarriage last month and this video helped me to further deepen my gratitude for the healthy daughter we already have, for the blessing of an early miscarriage, for the fact it only happened once so far, for the baby never having had a heartbeat, for the community that exists through social media, for the therapy i am already receiving and for all the other blessings i am lucky enough to experience. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring mothers and fathers how to move on with unimaginable pain. You are an incredible person, all the love 🙏❤️

[@prolifemama]

"I don't want infant loss to define me" I suffered a miscarriage last summer and it broke me. I kept thinking, "this shouldn't have happened! I don't want to be another statistic!" Much love to you both.

[@tabperry905]

Thank you for sharing this! My heart goes out to you both and anyone who has experienced infant loss. I wish my mom had these resources and stories when she lost my brother and sister over 35 years ago.

[@amandanicole7955]

My son died in my stomach in March and I had to give birth and I held him and my daughter held him. It was the worst thing I have experienced but we did get answers and that gave me an odd sense of peace (of course it took me until recently to find that peace). Now I have had 5 miscarriages with two in the later terms. I was able to get pregnant when I was 18 and although not planned she has been my heart and soul and held my hand through each miscarriage. My husband went back to work Monday even though we lost our son on Friday. I felt so alone and I still do some. We are trying again and it is bittersweet. We think we have solved all the health problems but it is still so very scary.

[@stacichandler9084]

Your stronger than you realize. I've had 3 miscarriages and currently pregnant with baby #4 and she's not expected to live once born. It's so hard but it's gonna be worth it. I have even more people I want to meet and see when we go to our final home. #you got this!

[@MissAyela]

Amanda, my heart goes out to you, I cannot imagine what you have gone through. I hope you are able to get your much longed for baby and happily every after.

[@dika3459]

My wife and I just lost our beautiful daughter. We are trying to navigate through this. We went from having a seemingly healthy baby for 24 hours to her experiencing unknown seizures. We found out she was born with NAGS, a type Urea Cycle Disorder that affects ammonia in the body. After 14 days of fighting for her life, she passed away in our arms.

[@Amy_1292]

Thank you for sharing your story Jordan, it was brave and strong and inspirational. Your message about positively choosing not to let grief consume you is a powerful one and a good reminder 💖

[@tateylove]

Amy wow, thank you so much!

[@daphneburatti2678]

This video helps a lot with dealing with grief and loss.

[@jillianhensley2237]

Ugh I am such a baby. I just clicked on the video & am already crying. Almost a year ago, I lost my baby, and this time of year has been so hard for me. Harder than I expected. Thank you guys for creating this channel. I’m so proud of you guys.

[@amandanicole7955]

Jillian Flannery I lost my son in March it’s devastating

[@jillianhensley2237]

Amanda Nicole I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child is a pain like no other 😞💙

[@sarahmarieivfmommy8581]

Bless your heart. It’s so so very hard. We’ve had loads that just happened and then my farthest one was 21 weeks but we knew she was really sick and incompatible with life. Hers was easier to process because I understood why I couldn’t keep her. Pushing on after was definitely hard but I wanted a baby so bad that I couldn’t stay stuck in my grief.

[@hanfakaga1]

Thank you for sharing your story Jordan, the world is better off because of people like you and Phil and Alex 💜

[@sarahmorley1031]

Jordan your story is so heart breaking. You are such an inspiration to me and so many others. If you are able to get through what you've been through then I can make it too. Thank you for sharing. And Alex thank you! ❤️

[@heavenbabylifeafterinfantl8494]

Thanks for sharing your stories. Yes we are not alone. I just started sharing our story as well . Sharing has been so healing

[@tmaug1974]

Such a heartbreaking story, but thank you so much for sharing! God bless you!

[@LindsaySatmary]

Oh wow, Jordan, my heart goes out to you and your husband. I am so sorry for your incredible loss. You have such amazing strength. I don't even know how I would get through that. I wanted to comment here in to let you know about another amazing mama named Lindsey Dennis. They lost their two beautiful daughters like you but due to another condition. Like you, she is incredibly strong. She has a blog called Vapor and Mist and I feel like if you aren't familiar with her story, you both should connect.

[@solveig1822]

This channel is soooo important. And I am so impressed! It so important! To give words to find a way to help people. This story helped me. It will help many others. So nice done, tecnically; light, backgrlund, sound. Your interwiew voice, tone, questions - perfect. It shows that you both are full of knowledge. The two inn front og the camera. And him behind camera. Very nice, profetionally (maybe spelled wrong...) work! And the most important: you are all able to give advice connected from your hearts. Keep up the good work! From a viewer from northern parts of Norway.

[@alexmoore2615]

I lost my daughter on October 2 2019 she lived for just under a day I never got to hold her ,kiss her or watch her grow up I miss her every single day

[@briannecrabtree5805]

She’s an amazing person and so strong!

[@tateylove]

Brianne Crabtree love you girl!

[@mikaylafrank6694]

My heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that you will have more kids sometime soon. God gave you a great/ sad story. I love that you are so open about it. You have inspired me. You will see your kids again someday in heaven. I'm praying for you and your family. God has a plan for the rest of our lives and yours as well. Thanks for sharing with us.

[@OldNewMama]

I had two stillborn sons. Compound that with infertility and it’s just devastating.

[@hangingwithazalea9899]

I just lost my baby at 19 weeks n 5 days old.this was my second ivf transfer.the first one didn't work and this one ended in a stillborn.For anyone out there that's doing ivf with icsi and gentetic testing on your embryos let me tell you things can still happen. I went to 14 weeks with all perfects tests and scans.the baby was healthy n measuring perfectly. after my last 14 weeks scan all was good with baby and my next scan and visit was for my 20 week scan.at 19 weeks n 5 days I had a midwife apt and acouple days before that I started spotting so I called my midwife n she said its fine and if bleeding gets heavy go to the ER but I'll see you in acouple days.so at my 19week 5 day visit with her there was no heartbeat so went straight to the hospital to find out the baby died and was measuring at 15 weeks.they induced labour and I gave birth to him.the doctors cheaked him over and said his skull looked not developed and he had a bulge in the back of the neck.this is probably why he died,I didn't want to get an otopsy because I didn't want his body to get intact.I just dont get how this could of happened to him when I got all that checked out and all was good!? I'm devastated that I carried him for 5 weeks him being dead and I had no idea! no symptoms at all! just started spotting acouple days before my 20 week scan.My mom said I guess God wanted me to spend a longer time with him.You are so strong,thank you for sharing your story with us.

[@lolalayne6844]

Powerful!! Thank you for sharing.

[@tateylove]

Thanks so much. I was honored to share our story.

[@angelicadelgado851]

Thank you for sharing your story. Right now I feel like I am drowning in grief. My son would have turned 4 months yesterday. He passed away at 3 weeks due to late onset gbs. He was perfectly healthy. Everything happened so fast and my life has been changed forever 💔💔😥

[@littleapostleamy4150]

You so brave sharing your story. 💟💕

[@gloryemanuel6317]

I lost my son last week. He was full term but got complications during birth. It was my first pregnancy experience and it's killing me. It's a very hard experience of my life. Sometimes am okay sometimes am not.

[@tashasmith9426]

I'm struggling with it right now. I'm currently seeking professional help. Its the worst pain.

[@nancyoyula]

We lost our baby a few days ago and i really don't know what to do

[@ItsMia1]

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[@iamsoaringeagle]

Is embryo adoption an option for Jordan? Although she didn't say, I'm guessing that there is some genetic condition that caused two losses that could possibly be avoided by using adopted embryos. This is so heartbreaking. No one should have to experience that kind of loss even once ..... twice is unthinkable.