How to Talk to ANYONE and Get What You Want: Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson

How to Talk to Anyone and Get What You Want: Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson

[@8MinutesExplainer]

Pay attention to what the other person is saying, and show genuine interest in their perspective. By understanding their needs and concerns, you can tailor your communication to better align with their interests, increasing the likelihood of getting what you want.

[@zsoltmadacs5567]

It’s called Active listening . There’s a book called “ Listening the forgotten skill - second edition by Madelyn Burley-Allen” . It points out quickly what kind of listener u are and help you get better at listening and also become a better and more successful person

[@alexmarvel4682]

You really blowing my mind with how accurate this actually is I feel like I look at the world in a much different way now

[@simplereally.]

My wife and I have such a wonderful marriage. I always know what she is thinking, because she always tell me. She always knows what I'm thinking, because she tells me that too. Communication is great

[@TK.000]

😂

[@minterproperties7146]

Sou ds about right

[@susanadelgado1023]

😂😂😂👍

[@ish1231997]

I was part of a management course this year where we were categorised into our colours! This video has condensed it all into 20 minutes 👌 sending it to my boss

[@noorgonzalez1076]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂

[@haleemabdurahman5151]

Part 4, blue and yellow is gold 👌

[@user-do3gg6zb9g]

Thank you for coming back Elvin, Life and Work was kind of not effective without you Around.

[@perfectplays6849]

Can you please make an video[ specifically on small talk.] "How to build small talk mind map? Don't worry about what to say and build the ability to ask questions without feeling what to ask." After taking a lot of courses I came to realize that problem is specifically small talk. A general mind map of small talk great communicators follow. Will be very greatful.

[@BlessedOne686]

Excellent Summary🔥🔥

[@marycjey4141]

This is a perfect video to master the skill of interaction.

[@kingdidi0037]

Best lesson ever ❤

[@scottunique]

Fabulous Video!! Your work is always so thorough and clear. I'm reading more quality books because of your excellent choices!!

[@FrostyFlipz]

I'm literally all of these, every last one!

[@infoworldnow-ig6lo]

Please turn this into a series

[@Getbetter2023]

I like your content👍 Nice attention to details

[@Neezy9]

Great work! Very helpful content.Helps me be less blue lol

[@MoonLint]

Amazing video.

[@akitadakid6326]

yeah your right i do feel empowered cuz apparently im the avatar. i change through out the day and with different task. This just helped me uderstand why sometimes im on top of things and later i can feel like i never stood a chance.

[@ProdProddy]

Everyone can be all of them under the right circumstances

[@NewDay12114]

I love your videos ❤❤

[@KaysProduct]

It was one of your best video of all time. I found myself clearly described in what you were saying. I just hoped you would tell us where you locate yourself. You made it so great. It filled me with ideas of what to do and what to be. Thanks

[@nsepeter]

Nice graphic backing ✅

[@IsaacMusama-ry5tq]

can you continue putting that background tune(sound) that I hear in your older videos please 🙏🏼

[@kartikgrover2545]

I am all four colours. Might be schizophrenia

[@bentonrp]

I always considered you more of a mauve.

[@kartikgrover2545]

@@bentonrp nvm I am n word colour

[@Lunar123424]

Green blue 💚🪀💙🍏🥒🦋💙💚🩵🩵 🌱

[@sammou8011]

which kind of program do u use to make this video? i want to use it for school. thank you✌

[@SailorGreenTea]

Interesting

[@travelingtheusa277]

Hello, can you do a summary of CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS?

[@codylazenby5282]

Would be a good video if there wasn’t an ad every 2.5 minutes

[@XindyNnn]

I think I’m a green person. And my close friend is a red person . No wonder I feel stressed when I’m with her

[@GOEDGEDAAN]

i love this channel so much change the title because you spelled it wrong ANYONE you wrote ayone

[@charmievisperas]

I have this book…

[@fwdsmatter1117]

For sureeeeee i'm all except yellow lol

[@sahebmark]

❤❤

[@Isushmasagar]

Strangely.. I am a combo of all four.. Depending on the task..

[@tome3454]

I'm definitely a red, blue, and yellow combo.

[@bumpintheG]

🏆🏆🏆

[@onlyme2450]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

[@JonnyRay82]

Why do I feel like I'm an equal part of all colors??

[@Chuck-Norris1]

I'm a perfect combination of green and blue

[@albertjohnbasson]

Bit of a spelling mistake in the title there

[@sherrellejohnson3451]

Unfortunately with titles KZbin doesn’t give you enough space for a complete title. So you have to be creative with your spelling.

[@albertjohnbasson]

OK I get that but by dropping the "N" in the word you created a complete new meaning. Why didnt you just drop the space after the Colon: ​@@sherrellejohnson3451

[@angelinebarreno9460]

*SC

[@angelinebarreno9460]

Could of used NEone

[@bentonrp]

I think she fixed it. But anyway, chaps, ...what do you think this chick looks like? Think she's a fox? I think I've always liked her naive, little voice, is why...

[@juliemarkham4332]

Green was right on. I'm a turtle. 🐢

[@user-eg1sk6bx2r]

Some people work very hard to make things complex especially women 😅😅😅

[@RishiRajxtrim]

🙂👍😌🙏

[@akolangito4209]

Whats the best thing to do while me as blue and my wife is yellow😅

[@daniellagunes5930]

Red is a menace

[@user-fk8gm9zz2p]

I like this channel it's favorite one, I hope to see more videos

[@Aerixes.]

i'm red and blue combined. i find being yellow a bit naive tbh, the way i understood yellow's personality is "if we're all relaxed then it will all work out" but someone's gotta do the dirty work, same way that everyone works so the country keeps going

[@bentonrp]

No; You're Puce.

[@Bruce4lmighty]

We are all a combination of all 4 colours, some stronger than others. Perfection would be when all 4 colours are represented equally. I did a course 11 years ago along with colleagues at the company I worked at and we all found it incredibly beneficial 👍🏻

[@justicechannelforthepeople1730]

I’m definitely red

[@kazuya99ace]

As a blue primary-red secondary, I feel like it's easy to hate absolutely everyone around me except for other blue-reds. Anybody else in the comments feel this?

[@palakondahemanth7464]

wow im clearly yellow but i kind of feel like im a combination of all colors .but still yellows dominant😜.

[@1999Jerod]

I wonder if we can change 🤔

[@brak1381]

We can be more aware of each other and ourselves.

[@dudalojogrme]

Good question, but it's a marathon not a sprint!

[@akolangito4209]

Blue😅

[@queenyassgoddessgifts9418]

I'm actually a yellow type of person mixed with blue, but I am introvert and I don't like surrounded by peoples, I get my energy from animals and natures.. I don't like working with groups of peoples, it drained me..

[@Bruce4lmighty]

Strong yellow represents an extrovert. I think from your comment you are strong blue & green, weak red & yellow. I did the course 11 years ago 👍🏻

[@listennow5496]

Dear diary, Today I found out that I am a rainbow.

[@brak1381]

😅

[@hrg_tv]

*anyone

[@sylviazepeda6259]

Anyone? You have a typo in the tittle of your video

[@ryanmoraleta6592]

You got “tittle” on yours

[@nelju0621]

Hello, Blue

[@lesleyjohnson8488]

Yes, these were the colours many years ago when they designated people according to the Four Humours in medieval science and medicine. I remember it as Red - choleric, Yellow - sanguine, Blue - melancholy, and Green - phlegmatic. Doesn’t really help as much as the Enneagram, though. Not enough nuance. Plus it is based in a very flawed vision of medicine and psychology. Recycled ideas from 40 years ago, which was recycled from the time of Galen.

[@Bruce4lmighty]

Totally agree. I did this then the Enneagram at a retreat over a decade ago. Works well in combination however, if I could only choose one it would be the Enneagram every time 👍🏻

[@mrunalpatel5458]

I am green

[@_themasteroflife_]

Yellow is narcis

[@socksrocksdocks]

i guess im a little of every color then

[@T-o-o-t-h-l-e-s-s]

Definitely a green guy

[@Aerixes.]

i find green a bit closed minded.. in my eyes red and blue are the ideal and what everyone should be aiming for.

[@rodgerpiercearchitect]

…I’m thinking that this video would be really funny at 2X speed

[@chebautista169]

I am yellow-green. My boyfriend is red-yellow

[@bentonrp]

No, you're turquoise.

[@miguellibert4645]

There is another page called so much better thay is copying your content

[@Venom-nk8nd]

🇵🇬🇵🇬,,,

[@Vexwisval28]

This sounds like hogwarts houses

[@zap7140]

【Free Advice】I think in your videos, the way you speak is too quick and make me stressful with lots of important information in short period of time. I think you might work on it.

[@dudalojogrme]

But I think everyone of us can cut her a lot of slack, it's not easier to cover a whole book in 20mins! I suggest anyone who is finding it difficult to catch up to listen twice or thrice and also to pause and listen and ultimately get the book she's promoting. Then we will see what a great work she's Doing.

[@BradyVaughn]

You can actually slow down the playback speed thus slowing her speech. Neat!

[@casmartin1314]

This is bullshit. I'm a different color depending of the crowd, mainly the 1st three

[@bentonrp]

Of course it's bullshit. Don't you know that this book is just a conspiratorial ploy to make you think of, and buy more Skittles?... 🔴🟠🟢🟣🔵🟡 🟠🟢🔵🟡🔴🟣

[@HeavenlyLights]

I’m a RED surrounded by NO REDS. yuck. Except I DON’T do temper. I STAY AWAY from the time wasters.

[@brians1902]

This has been debunked. Oversimplified that it is pseudo science.

[@mahboubnik2376]

Hahaha, you are basically trying to sell your services by presentation visual means.

[@508outdoorcooking]

I love how I have you in my featured channels because I always need you, you are some of the best advice I have ever gotten the books you read in the way you deliver it are so helpful to me I know I don’t comment all the time, but I really am a life fan of your channel and all your hard work. I know I said it before but thank you.🫶💕👌😎