How To Tell If a Woman Is Into You

www.katespring.com -- How To Tell If a Woman Is Into You
Hey guys! Have you ever wondered if a girl likes you?
Do you feel like guessing a woman’s feelings is like trying to learn morse code?
Well, there’s a number of signs to look for that will tell you if she’s interested or not. And that’s what I will share with you in this video.
My name is Kate Spring, I’m a relationship and dating coach from Victoria, BC, and I want to show you how to tell if the girl you like also likes you.
First of all, it is important to understand that men and women communicate in somewhat different ways and for different reasons. Men typically communicate to achieve an end goal, for example, making a plan to hangout; in contrast, women communicate to maintain relationships. So for men to understand some of the signs to indicate whether a girl likes you or not, we have to be open to different ideas.
In this video I will share 8 signs that a girl is into you.

[@benbencedemeyibrakalm6491]

It's soooo great to know women from women.TOND OF THANKS KATIE SPRING !!!!

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome Marcus!

[@omaawala80]

Your sense of humour is actually too good!!!!

[@simondeltree]

All the advice given can also be used in marriage. What you do to get your woman is what you have to do to keep them. Keep the conversation going and keep the interests flowing. Great advice given.

[@KateSpring]

I agree Tony! And when you take care of your wife, your wife takes care of you :) Thank you for the feedback!

[@acharich]

💯💯💯

[@vincentlin321]

Thank you Kate for your prompt response. Also noticeable were that they both enjoyed talking to each other, the lady expresses keen interest in the man's recent projects(although she's actually not keen at all on any of them). When sitting together with others, the man would choose to sit beside her(not across from her on the table) and they would be physically close, like touching shoulder to shoulder. Your thoughts.

[@KateSpring]

No problem! Hmmm... I think they're both into each other :-)

[@babyblue8214]

I'm working with this girl.. it all began with her smiling at me when helping her out. it escalated to "hey how r u" and "when do u work next" and "aww, I won't see u for a few days".. guys at work say "I think she likes you" then 1 day we had break together and it's really rare that we do (we keep our selves professional and quite at work), she then starting asking personal questions like "how old are u (she told me hers without me even asking), where do u live and what are your hobbies?" she's is showing a lot of interest towards me interest. she's is really friendly to everyone and shy. I asked if she text at all (so we can continue talking) and she smiled and put her head down and said "when I have time" then it was time to go home. won't see her for 5 days now (I did that purposely so she can think about it)..i know we are afraid to ask eachother if we are in a relationship. what do u think?

[@KateSpring]

Hey Tom, based one what you wrote, there's definitely some good signs she's giving out, so why not give it a shot? ;)

[@oneadvocate9517]

Thank you, I will keep this in mind

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome Richard!

[@tonythomas1751]

I didn't know most of this. Thanks

[@natkingcurrie2766]

You're spot on,Kate!....I've been involved with many ladies over my lifetime.... AND, EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS A HOME RUN!...I've subbed, will download your book too!God bless,Continued success,Nat King Currie

[@KateSpring]

Nat King Currie, thank you so much for your wonderful feedback! I really appreciate it!

[@jmar8160]

Nice video Kate, this was well thought out and very insightful! I was wondering if these tips align with girls in high school, because I'm a Jr. and so is the girl I like. She seams to always start conversations with me, taps me on the shoulder and says "hey" enthusiastically, and always has a big smile. I've heard she's friendly to everyone though, and an angel in general. The problem I'm having is she's usually accompanied by her best friend, and when she is alone, I have a hard time trying to tell her how I feel because we're both in a rush to our classes. I have one class with her though, (her best friend sits with her) and It's probably a bad time to tell her because it's a foods class and we need to focus on cooking (although we were recently put in separate groups she comes over, taps me on the shoulder, and says hey). I've known her best friend for years though and have her number, and I'm starting to think I should just tell her though text because it's just too difficult to find a time to tell my crush. Anyways, any advice would be helpful, and I'd like to point out that you are very pretty.

[@KateSpring]

Thank you J Mar! Yes, this applies to younger girls as well. Based on what you said... I think she may also like you. It's one thing to be nice, and it's another thing to go out of her way just to come over and say hello. Speaking of which, why don't you use this time to talk to her more. It doesn't have to be a long conversation, but it's a start. For example, if you notice she has a new shirt on, tell her she looks good in it and give her a warm smile. It doesn't have to be about her shirt, pick anything to make small talk with and compliment her. Then you can build up from there.

[@osvaldo3030ful]

Like the girl I'm talking to right now claims to say that she's always busy and all but we have a steady conversation through text and she really takes her time to reply back and I dont know what to think anymore about the situation

[@KateSpring]

Hmmm... how about you stop texting her for a few days Osvaldo? Then after a few days try to pick it up again. If you give her enough space, maybe she'll reach out to you on her own and be more receptive :-)

[@osvaldo3030ful]

Kate Spring sounds great thank you kate

[@rubenanaya406]

Your awesome.... Thanks for sharing your experience with us. You are a godsend!

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome Ruben! I'm glad I was able to help you :-)

[@MOMO__904]

Omg I love your background!!! These are definitely true indicators. Guys or girls, she knows what she's talking about! I also love your dark hair❤❤❤

[@KateSpring]

Why, thank you Mary! 😊

[@MOMO__904]

@@KateSpring you're welcome! ❤

[@vincentlin321]

Thanks for your comments Kate. I pray that you have good speed and be a blessing to many.

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome! I appreciate all your comments and feedback ;)

[@billybryon23]

I prefer emphatic forms of communication because I always miss so much of this subtext and nuance. That's because I'm usually 40% dialled into the conversation, and 60% off thinking about what Neptune is made of, regardless of whom I'm talking to. A girl could walk up to me and go "I need a date for this Saturday. Do you know anyone that's free?" "Not really. Wish I could help see you later. Okay we got ammonia, and methane..." There's probably a lot of phone numbers out there I could've gotten but didn't.

[@briandavis3147]

That ding is genius. You DO know what your doing girl. Haha

[@KateSpring]

Kate Spring, Attraction Coach, Genius. I like the sound of that ;)

[@DebasishOfficial]

Hey,one of girls in my class has been staring at me for last 3weeks.but when I look at you she turn her eyes. she doesn't give smile when I saw her looking at me nor play with her hair. What to do in my part now? I hope you'll response to this.Thank you.

[@sweetczz]

Meet up with her after class and start talking to her about the assignment or whatever. It's a "shy" game women play. They are into you, but oops, I just got caught staring, look away!

[@jeffthewhiff]

Hi, Kate! I really enjoyed watching this video and you always have great advice and I like that you are straightforward in your approach to dating, relationships, etc. It is also cool that you offer your online e-book for free because there are some relationship and dating experts on KZbin who charge quite a bit for their knowledge. Keep up the good work, Kate!

[@KateSpring]

Thank you! ❤

[@jeffthewhiff]

Yes, you are welcome, Kate!

[@JuanHernandez-pf6yg]

Very useful, thank you!

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome Juan! :-)

[@cameronsmith2398]

Thanks Kate. I scored four out of 5 here :) She hasn't ventured into the touching part........yet. But I believe it will come. I actually "hinted" over the phone today, That I have strong feelings for her. She gave me the idea that she already knew that, prior to my "having to spit it out". She seemed more then comfortable with my "confession". Infact, started talking more about me being involved in her future. Am I wrong for wanting to spend as much time with her as possible? Can I spend "too much" time with her? Am I wrong for wanting to spend "alone" time with her? Thanks so much for your advice, its REALLY appreciated. Speak to you again soon

[@KateSpring]

Heeey! Glad to hear all that Cameron! Now it's really important to get ahold of yourself because wanting to spend too much time alone with her would make you look like a little too needy. Yes, she'll find it sweet to know that you'd like to be with her as much as possible but most men would fall into the trap of asking, wanting, and even _demanding_ to be together all the time and that's just a major turn-off. Just play it cool and don't rush things. You're already on a good track so just keep doing what you do. Good luck!

[@abubanana4976]

There is this beautiful girl at my office who always dresses beautifully. Always smells good. Also noticed how she most of the time mimics my manners, how I say or deliver things, and so on. There was a time she always passed by at my desk. Though I never gave a hint that I noticed those things but I know those are clear indication of her interest in me. One day all of those things just stopped and boom that was the time I realized I do really liked here. Does this mean that I had blown out my chances forever? I mean does that mean the she had lost her interest in me forever?

[@KateSpring]

Only one way to find out. Go ask her out and do your best to reignite that attraction! Good luck!

[@vincentlin321]

Hi Kate, thank you for this insightful video, certainly helps a lot. You'd mentioned about the girl touching the man as one of the signs; what if she offers to shake the man's hand twice i.e. just before end of a formal dinner and just before everyone split? Is this a strong indication she's wishes to have more physical intimate contacts with him?

[@KateSpring]

Hi there! Shaking hands wouldn't be a clear indicator of attraction since in a formal setting, it is the proper way of appreciating another person's presence. Were there any other signs? Like more eye contact than necessary?

[@lsudon]

Kate. Your advice worked she texted me back the next day. How do you transition from texting to telephone conversations?

[@KateSpring]

Hey Donald! That's great news! But your concern now should be meeting her in person instead. Phone conversations are great but they don't carry the same sizzle as meeting in person. If there's something she's particularly good at that you're not, ask her for "help" over coffee. The idea is to give her an excuse to meet with you so she doesn't find the invitation threatening :-)

[@GRAEMELEE-ko9ik]

Hi Kate. I have just started your course 'Obsession Method' 💓 I was in a cafe queue and this girl came and stood really close to me and blushed, and crossed her feet but when tried to make eye contact with her she wouldn't turn her body and look at me but kept facing the counter. I am shy in starting conversations , should I have tried to engage in talking to her? Why is she sending mixed signals?

[@KateSpring]

Thanks for signing up! Yes, you should have. There are many possible reasons why she's sending mixed signals, _(i.e. she's shy herself and etc.)_ but it's rather pointless to try and figure it out because it's pretty irrelevant. You saw a positive sign but failed to take the opportunity, and now you're asking yourself if you missed out. Learn to take your chance the next time you see it! Good luck!

[@kevingaraway9450]

Yes Kate spring. I have asked her out. On several occasions. But she had other plans at the time. And sometimes she won't talk for days. Do you think that she might be shy or just not interested.

[@KateSpring]

I think you should be open to the possibility that she's not interested Kevin. She'd think you're a little too pushy if you keep at it so it's best to lie low for now. Go out. Have fun with friends. Try and go out with other girls. If she's playing hard to get, maybe the sight of you going out with another make her realize she's not the only option around 😉 Good luck!

[@nagarajan8246]

SUPER VIDEO.

[@georgeugrinic7208]

I really enjoy all your video's. 👍

[@KateSpring]

Thank you George!

[@momomelikeymelikeylikey9576]

Hey Kate, looks like you have really tranceded to a higher plane of reality do you live in the cosmos or are just beeming your aura? Seriously I have question I hope you could answer for me. (If girl sits or stands next to you and keeps fliping her hair around you and is super hyper and fidgety and looks at you a lot but doesn't talk or when she does is super aloof or very unfriendly does she like you?

[@KateSpring]

I think she's just waiting for you to take the initiative :-)

[@samdollar9835]

I love your videos a lot. May God be with you.

[@KateSpring]

I'm happy to hear that Sam! Thanks :-)

[@stevebaker4170]

One question, I am 62 and a single man. Do the same things apply to older men as you advise for younger? Thank you and I will keep watching.

[@KateSpring]

Yes. My advice works for men of all ages Steve!

[@timhorton2486]

Hey, Kate. I have a girl in my life right now who I really like, and she does all of the things you mentioned in the video, except one: she is absolutely awful at replying to texts. Her replies are usually decent in length and we both use emojis when talking to each other, but the response time is fairly long typically. She has mentioned it during one of our "dates" before that she has always been really awful with texting, but I have a hard time being convinced of it. What do you think? Is this typical "I don't care about his time" kind of stuff? Or should I trust her? Thanks for any advice!

[@KateSpring]

I say take her word for it Tim. That's way better than someone who wouldn't even have bothered explaining to you why it takes them too long to send a reply. If she gave you the reason why, then that's surely a good sign. Is she only like this to you? Or do you notice her doing it to her other friends as well?

[@timhorton2486]

Kate Spring I’ve met a few of her friends once, but I never really heard anything relating to her texting...which is probably normal haha. She did say her sister confronted her one day about it and had to have an “intervention” for her. Of course, it was kind of a joke, but I did get the idea that she knew it was a problem. However, if she recognized it as a problem I find it hard to believe she still does it nonchalantly. That’s the only confusion I guess.

[@treyart1]

I never had a relationship. Since I was 15 years old I been working and since 18 I been going to college. Concentrating on my education and working to support my education, has left me somewhat stiff. Out of all that effort, nothing good came out of it. I don't have much left to offer a woman. So right now I'm making a few changes in my life. I already been smoke free for a month now. The next step is to loose weight and eat healthy. If that change of life style don't help. I guess I just keep trying.

[@KateSpring]

Hi there! I'm sorry to hear about it. I think changing your lifestyle is a great way of improving yourself and will even help you gain more confidence. To us women, confidence is really sexy, so that will go a long way!

[@jlewsd]

Why is it the guys job to ask her out, "keep the spark alive", and pay for dates? Men are expected to do every damn thing these days. Women just float around from guy to guy dressed up all pretty and expect to get asked out and pampered.

[@jasonrichardson6076]

JL life isn't all about you.

[@bighands69]

That is the tradition which has been turned on its head. These men calling for men's rights are just doing the bidding of the left by destroying traditional relationships. That is why people are so unhappy today.

[@KateSpring]

Hi JL! Thank you for your opinion. But men are supposed to take the lead in a relationship. It wouldn't be very manly to expect women to do the heavy-lifting. When a man takes the lead, the woman is able to assume a more feminine role and that's really sexy ;)

[@bighands69]

+Best name ever That is what modern liberals want. They want to destroy tradition. Men should open doors and should pay for dates. Men should expect to take the lead. If you are trying to offer anything else you are going down a dangerous path.

[@motogp2375]

JL - this is why i take my time and dont jump into any relationship. Patience is key.

[@tylerrezaiy3193]

There is a lady who I work with and she is 10+ years older than me and I always notice that she stares at me a lot when I’m not looking in her direction and whenever I look back she looks down very quickly. Whenever there’s a joke at work that everyone laughs at she always stares into my eyes almost and laughs with me, whenever there is a chance to do something work-related with just the two of us she always seems very very eager to go ahead with it. I notice she tends to stand very close to me too and can sometimes touch me both purposely and innocently. I have also noticed that she got a little bit defensive and questioned me in a friendly way when another girl was bought up in a conversation I had with other colleagues. Do any of these points mean she is interested or likes me in that way or will the age gap have a factor in this?

[@KateSpring]

Knowing if she has any issues with the age gap doesn't work like magic Tyler. You'll never know unless you give it a go so why don't you take a crack at it and see what happens? It sure looks like you've got enough positive signs so it's definitely looking good for you. Good luck!

[@michaelanzardo2649]

Ok so check it, there’s this girl in my school and she’s seeing someone but she always waved at me when she sees me. And when we are on my bus she blows me kisses and calls me babe, baby, or bae on some random moments. She also laughs at my jokes, what should I do and should I ask her out even if she is dating?

[@KateSpring]

I can say she's definitely flirting with you Mikey. But since you said she's with someone, then eeeeeng "FRIENDZONE!" Watch this video to escape it! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKbSZq2th8pmo80

[@guhapranavpalanisamy1006]

Whole video you kept smiling. Keep it up....

[@KateSpring]

I most definitely will 😉

[@madanpm4333]

I needed your help 😊😘

[@KateSpring]

I'm glad I could help Madan :-)

[@rocknrolla4378]

You look like a dream Kate. One that I don't wanna wake up from.

[@troyehnisz812]

I have a question. I have really spent a lot of time with this girl. We go out one on one all the time she shows all the signs in your video, i have met her parents. I have even told her I like her.it seems where on dates but when I ask she says where hanging out. She hugs me at the end of hanging out but won't hold hands or have any other physical contact. I'm i friend zoned or is she waiting for me to make the move and try and kiss her how long does it take for a girl to tell you they like you

[@KateSpring]

Hi Troy! You know what... she's probably just waiting for you to make a move. I have something that would help you figure out where to start. Here you go! www.katespring.com/free

[@barrancogeorge9565]

Kate you are always in my mind.......is that a clear sing that I am in love with you!!??

[@KateSpring]

😍

[@jerrymorganjr]

When your already close friends and want to be closer, you risk making your friendship awkward or even losing her as a friend. That's worse than a fear of rejection.

[@KateSpring]

That's true, but it's either take the chance or play it safe and stay in the friend zone. Man up and go for it so you won't have any regrets missing your chance!

[@jerrymorganjr]

@@KateSpring Thank you for taking the time to reply. I guess I've been waiting for the right time and the time is now.

[@markjohnson7004]

other people on KZbin are charging money for their stuff but youre not,you're pretty cool,pretty and cool

[@KateSpring]

Thanks Mark! I appreciate it :-) You guys make it all worth it.

[@jag-e9584]

Kate Spring Hi Kate Spring, i want a suggestion that i have gf, she loves me, but i want her to be crazy for me, i mean which ensure me more security from her side.. I want to know what to do that she misses me and need me more, for daily to always!

[@andreasgrunebaum4375]

Jag-E, Stop beeing so possessively you jerk. Do you seriously have a hero-complex or something? Disgusting...

[@kevingaraway9450]

Thanks Kate

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome Kevin! :-)

[@mcnarko121]

Wow Kate's eyes are so beautiful

[@KateSpring]

Thanks Mcnarko Narks! ;)

[@ryogaz22]

I just happened to discover this video. I once met woman and we started to chat. After finding out a few details about me, she already tells me she likes me after 15 min already. How can I tell she is genuinely into me and not just playing with me? Nice vid anyway.

[@KateSpring]

Hi there Joeline! Thanks! What she said is pretty broad so it would be best for you to spend more time with her and find out if she really "likes" you, because it could also mean she "likes" you, but just as a friend only. (Yikes!)

[@elideli7654]

Love your Videos Kate have learned alot from you. And you are really cute by the way ;)

[@KateSpring]

Thanks! 😊

[@alrestauro]

Very informative and insightful!

[@KateSpring]

Thank you! Don't forget to hit that subscribe button!

[@jamsoup47]

but girls alway act nervous around me, like they’re afraid to talk to me and when I talk to them they’re super friendly, but I can’t tell if they like me or not.

[@georgemathew2257]

I have to ask you something in regards to this video and about women in general. If you would please, can you let me know a way that I can do this in a not-so public setting? Thank you.

[@KateSpring]

Hey George! Send me a message through Katespring.com ;)

[@eugenekoshanof7328]

Thank you for making an effort to help guys approach their true love. Can I ask you a question... Can you please tell me how you are into this? I mean how you got into this "helping the guys" thing? I am just curious. ...

[@KateSpring]

Hey Eugene, thanks for the feedback and I like your question. I got into this because I felt like there was something missing in my life and that was how I was communicating with people and especially the opposite sex. I made it my personal mission to understand how men and women communicate, for what reasons. I then thought that it would benefit men greatly from having a female perspective on what women really want and how to give women what they want, but also how to get what they (men) want. That is how I came about doing this. I want to clear up any miscommunication errors between men and women and help them find lasting partners, but most importantly, I want to help men find the confidence to just be themselves. Hope that answers your question!

[@eugenekoshanof7328]

Thank you for the answer. You are the first youtuber I met who actually honored his promise to answer the comments. Very nice :). To be honest, I have great difficulty imagining a girl like you having problems in communication. It is interesting that you said it because my view on that if people are meant to be together, they will be together, because I believe in true love, life-time marriage and so on. So when I meet the right person, I just instantly feel at home with her. So I actually think that if something is missing there, it is for a good reason, and that God is keeping me from that person In due time, it all comes together and there are just no boundaries. What do you think?

[@issacharbryant2249]

WHAT IF SHE IS SHY ?

[@KateSpring]

Hey Issachar! Even if she is shy, it doesn't mean she doesn't want to be approached. However, it would help if you approach her in a setting with fewer people around. That will help her feel more comfortable.

[@amazingfantasy6315]

Matt Clark no because there’s less pressure and chances are she’ll be more comfortable without all her friends or other people watching

[@sweetczz]

You have to take your time. Start out as a friend. Be nice to her and make her feel comfortable. When she gets used to you then you can start out with saying, "Do you want to hang out and . . . (watch the game or whatever). Start small and move up, "Would you like to go to dinner with me, my treat of course" etc.

[@ber1146]

just find another girl. dont mess your head

[@eyeonsilver8623]

Hi Kate, I have a question about something that I've been going through lately. There's this girl I met at work. We get along really well, we have good conversations. So I recently decided asked her out. She said yes. So we're meeting this Friday. I also gave her my number and I got hers just in case if something happens. I've only texted her twice just to keep her interested. She's only responded once. I feel she might be into me, but I'm not quite sure because she hasn't been not quick with responding to my text messages. It's been almost two days since I've heard from her. Could I have your thoughts on this? Thanks Sincerely Glenn.

[@KateSpring]

Hi Glenn! If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't agree to go out with you in the first place. Remind her on the day, but don't text her any sooner than that. Give her some space for now ;)

[@AndresRodriguez-kn6ow]

Hey Kate! I met this girl and when I stared talking to her she seemed really interested in me because she would ask questions like, Where do live and If I like certain things. A lot of my friends say that she likes me but I don't believe it becouse she could have just been wanting to have a conversation, but I don't know. What do think? Also I've gotten friendly with now so we are cool.

[@KateSpring]

Hey Andres! The fact that she asks a lot of questions means she's interested in you! ;)

[@thecowboy9698]

What if you're in a friends-with-benefits arrangement with a woman, how do you know if she likes you more than just as a friend, or as an FWB? Or is starting to like you as more than an friend or FWB?

[@sweetczz]

Unless you want her for more than FWB why are you asking? Just ask her if she would like to be in a relationship exclusively with you as her boyfriend? Tell her that you are in love with her (I presume this would be the reason why) and tell her you'd like to date her whatever it is the point you are trying to get to (marriage, moving in whatever).

[@alexjaramillo5394]

What should I do in this situation some of these signs are true like wearing lipstick and perfume or playing with her hair... should I make a move

[@KateSpring]

Why not? Sounds like everything's looking good for you so go for it Alex! Good luck! 😊

[@alexjaramillo5394]

@@KateSpring thanks for your response I appreciate it

[@alexjaramillo5394]

@@KateSpring I thought she was asking me out with all these signs being exactly the same as the video or a coincidence? I asked her she said she wasn't but she gave me her phone number?

[@freewheelpua]

Yes, Brad's email list sent me here too. Great advice and look forward to more videos.

[@KateSpring]

Thank you for the feedback, Free wheel! There definitely will be more videos to come!

[@brandonknable7890]

Free Wheel same and glad it did

[@irvingrivera620]

But what if she is shy? She copies me from time to time (mirroring), we don't talk to each other, she is always with her squad too, I catch her staring/looking at me for a few seconds and then looks away, and she gives a some of the signs too.

[@KateSpring]

Then you should definitely approach her directly one of these days :-)

[@88Brilliant88]

I absolutely love this video. Determining if my neighbor (lives upstairs) is interested in me... We've been sending messages on Snapchat for months but a week ago she stopped opening my messages.. I check out her Snapchat last night and she's kind of making out with one of her friends and she has a lil smirk on her face. Even though we send messages on SC we haven't really hung out except when she was working .. She's a dj and a dancer so I've visited her a few times. its been a while since we've hung out. When she comes back to town she doesn't open my messages.but usually does when out of town. I'm under the impression she wants me to come knock on her door as opposed to sending her messages when she is in town but I don't want to rub her the wrong way since she hasn't invited me.. Am I moving too slow not taking a hint or she isn't interested.. Most of our conversations are one sided me telling her how I'm into her she never expressed how she feels thou but she saves the SC messages she likes that I send to her.. Does she just like the attention instead?

[@KateSpring]

Why don't you try to hang out with her. When she's away and reading your messages, why don't you try to make a plan with her. Find a fun activity to do. You said she's a dancer and dj, what else does she like to do? You could find cheap tickets to a show somewhere and invite her to go with you. Snapchat is not a great way to maintain communication. Do you have her phone number?

[@88Brilliant88]

+Kate Spring Thanks Kate For responding.. I've asked her twice if she wanted to go to lunch when she was in town but she she didn't open the message until 3 days later... The only things I noticed she likes to do is go to the strip clubs and hang out at hookah bars 😩. i was hoping that if we went to lunch (picnic) I could follow up with taking her to the gun range or rock climbing but I can't even get a response about lunch.. No I don't have her number.. never felt I needed it since I could reach her on SC...

[@KateSpring]

Maybe try meeting her in one of those places where she feels comfortable.

[@malikazam5235]

very interesting & informative video interesting.

[@KateSpring]

Thank you, Malik!

[@fadista7063]

you do a much better job then the men doing these types of "helpful" videos. I am a girl into girls...but you have the best take on women in general.

[@KateSpring]

Thanks Cat! I appreciate your feedback :-)

[@aaronwarne8870]

Love all your videos......you knowing all these body language tips means it must be very hard to get a date with you as you would know what us men are up to

[@KateSpring]

It may look like it, but I'm just another woman who also feels what regular women feel. 😉

[@aaronwarne8870]

@@KateSpring well I would be amazing to try my body language on you but I suppose I'll see where my messages get me 🤪🙃

[@MyDoffen]

Hi Kate! I am starting to like a girl, but i`m not sure she likes me. I do talk to here when I`m going home from the university, but thats it. I`ve also noticed that she turns around, to avoid eyecontact, when im passing her in the hallway. Sometimes tho, she smiles and says hello to me when passing. I do dress to impress and try to be as relax I can be. Does she like me or not?!

[@KateSpring]

Hi Chris! Since there's not much interaction going on, that's not really much to go on. You should try asking her out ;)

[@MyDoffen]

Kate Spring I will after a while ask her out. But is there a sign she likes me if she turns away when I pass her, like she is embarrassed or something? 😊 thanks for answering!

[@CraigCatapano]

Great video, please use this background again!

[@KateSpring]

Hey Craig! Thanks for the feedback! :-)

[@matteofazio7845]

A.K.A. 8 signs i will never see in my life!

[@KateSpring]

Maybe you will eventually :-)

[@ajizasif9055]

i really like this video you are doing good job darling

[@KateSpring]

Thank you! :-)

[@realmaninca]

Hey Kate, this video is very helpful. I've submitted a question via email. Thanks

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome. I'll try to get back to you with your email as soon as I'm able 🙂

[@realmaninca]

@@KateSpring Duly noted. Thank you

[@victorchimex81]

Is it right to make first approach amidst her friends?

[@KateSpring]

There's absolutely no problem with that Victor. In fact, I already made a video about it. Watch it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYbcgqFvhZhreqs

[@ebonyrevelation5110]

Hi Kate, there is this new girl that works in a restaurant that I frequent and when I first saw her she did the following: She looked me up and down (i'm tall btw), was seemingly pretty nice to me, and also said that I had a cool shirt. Fast-forward a week and as I was walking I passed this same girl and once again I saw her look me up and down out of the corner of my eye and proceeded to continue her walk to the restaurant. So anyway, I want to know if you think that she likes me because I am picking up more from her than most girls. What do you think?

[@KateSpring]

Definitely a good sign. Why don't you try and give it a go? Certainly wouldn't cost you anything and if everything goes well, you might get a date and take it from there! ;) Tips on how to approach a women? I got you covered 😉 Watch this! kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4HKmoyOgbuHgac

[@ebonyrevelation5110]

Thanks!

[@gsentinel4821]

Hi Ms. Spring, your videos are wonderful and extremely helpful👍 Question; there is a young lady who is a colleague of mine (we work together) who shares a mutual attraction with me and has made it clear that she would like to see me. I asked her and she confirmed that she does not have a boyfriend. She did state that there are some issues she's had and her love life has been rough. My question is I've given her my phone# and she hasn't given me hers as of yet. What could be the reason for that in your opinion?

[@KateSpring]

Hmmm. Maybe she wants to initiate when she feels she's ready. But that doesn't mean you can't keep building attraction. So keep at it. You'll get her number soon enough, and maybe more ;)

[@gsentinel4821]

Kate Spring Thank you Ms. Spring, I will definitely keep you posted👍

[@gsentinel4821]

Kate Spring Hi Ms. Spring, always a pleasure👍 just an update - still doing what I'm doing so I figured this would be a great opportunity to ask her out this past Friday ( after work .) She told me that "something came up" and she would not be able to go out with me after work.(this would be the 2nd time I've asked her out and she declined) My question is that as I mentioned previously she stated that she does not have a boyfriend and is apparently not seeing anyone . However why do I keep getting a vibe that she is? Mostly because she seems really "chummy" with another guy in my dept. She comes to his desk frequently and I've observed them taking breaks together recently. Here's another thing - the guy is MARRIED and has a daughter and definitely fancies himself as a "ladies man." Should I be concerned or am I just overassuming? Thank you.

[@gsentinel4821]

Kate Spring Kate Spring Hi Ms. Spring, always a pleasure👍 just an update - still doing what I'm doing so I figured this would be a great opportunity to ask her out this past Friday ( after work .) She told me that "something came up" and she would not be able to go out with me after work.(this would be the 2nd time I've asked her out and she declined) My question is that as I mentioned previously she stated that she does not have a boyfriend and is apparently not seeing anyone . However why do I keep getting a vibe that she is? Mostly because she seems really "chummy" with another guy in my dept. She comes to his desk frequently and I've observed them taking breaks together recently. Here's another thing - the guy is MARRIED and has a daughter and definitely fancies himself as a "ladies man." Should I be concerned or am I just overassuming? Thank you.

[@andrejt9606]

Hey Kate! A very cool and hot girl started texting me about 2 weeks ago, its going really well and we text every day, we have a lot in common and all that but! She answers like 3-4 times a day but she sends about 10 huge messages so I don't know if she likes me or not. Oh and also she has a boyfriend but they got some problems. What do you think? Is she in to me or no? Her messages say yes but her message timing says no...

[@KateSpring]

It doesn't really matter Andrej. You're nothing more than just friends as long as she's still in a relationship, regardless of whether they're having problems or not. Unless she tells you she's single, you're better off not wasting your time.

[@georgeeo19]

how do i know if a woman (co-worker) is into me if i only see her during my work breaks? so i only see her in passing but we have made eye contact several times. How should i approach her?

[@KateSpring]

Got this video that pretty much answers your question. Good luck George! kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4HKmoyOgbuHgac

[@micheleellis8666]

Very good video and nice advice for men for a change. She is not a feminist who bashes men.

[@rubenanaya406]

Hey thanks for the video. I am so confused with the signals I am getting from a girl that I know that my head is spinning. I am trying to be as professional as i can because I am the one that is getting flustered internally. It is not her fault but my own. I am just trying to deal with the mix signals myself and sort them out without without making her feel awkward. She is such a great person but do not want to be the one that runs her experience at work.

[@KateSpring]

Hey Ruben! When you say mixed signals, what do you mean specifically? Have you already tried approaching her directly?

[@rubenanaya406]

Hi Kate, we are co-workers. In a group setting she seems to be very comfortable talking to me and we may make a lot of eye contact but when we are talking one to one when there is no one around then she seems to be shy and does not make as much eye contact with me. I am finding that I am starting to make less eye contact in all situations with her. I am trying to not presume that there is a connection which would cause me to say something dumb and she may not reciprocate the same feelings. So, I am having a terrible time reading her body language.

[@KateSpring]

Hmm. Are all your interactions in the office? Maybe it makes her conscious that you're approaching her in the workplace. I think you should schedule a "meeting" with her outside the office where you ask for her help for a "project". You know... something that would require a more feminine touch ;)

[@OleBrumHonning]

l A girl i know work at the same place as me. But not in the same part of the building, so when we both are at the job on the same time. She allways visit me and talk to me. Is that good?

[@sweetczz]

Of course! I wouldn't waste my time approaching a man I had no interest in!

[@tonyb1940]

Hi Kate, I was looking for help I was dating a woman for just over a month everything was so great she was making more plans to meet up more even although we both agreed to take it slow, I started to fall for her and maybe complained her a bit to much about how beautiful she was and stuff but we always had fun when we where with each other, no silences, and she ended it just after valentines after I sent flowers and stuff and she ended it by text said she wont change her mind, and I haven't heard since, so I'm following the no contact for a month rule, do I have a chance of getting her back or am I wasting My time?

[@tonyb1940]

Complimented her a bit much that was meant to say in the comment above

[@KateSpring]

No contact is effective if you've built fond memories together. It won't have that much impact since you're still in the dating phase. Regardless, keeping your distance is the right move. The last thing you want is to appear needy and desperate, so good job! You can try reaching out after a month or two. Absolutely nothing too serious or emotional! Just keep it casual, positive, and light. Ask her out again once you have enough momentum and take it from there. This will take time of course so if you're not the waiting type, then you'd best consider moving on at this point.

[@minsookim13]

Is it true that girls do not always respond to Snapchat and which way is better text messaging or Snapchat

[@duewhit310]

This girl is a genuine sweetheart. I'm gonna keep watching your videos.

[@KateSpring]

Awww thanks! I appreciate the support :-)

[@mikeg6975]

awesome...

[@KateSpring]

Thank you!

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're going to make so many guys REALLY GOOD WITH GIRLS it's ridiculous. Like holy smokes. LADIES WATCH OUT!

[@KateSpring]

Thanks Amy! That means a lot coming from such a rock star like yourself! :)

[@DontFuckWitDreDay]

Omg u might be right Amy.

[@rebelpoxy]

I have this female classmate in Japanese language class. I am Asian and she's Australian, and I haven't really been into any relationship for more than 10 years outside of my own background. But I felt unusually comfortable talking to her in and after class, which is weird since I am usually socially awkward. We have a lot of similar interests and convos just flow naturally. Was starting to think that she is interested in me, as I don't usually connect with GB other people age. Until one time, she asked me my number out of the blue; I was caught off guard, got confused and politely asked hers out of spontaneity. We started texting but she mentioned in one of our convos later in class that she has a partner. I subtlety try get more info about her relationship status but it seemed she doesn't want to talk about him for some reason. I guess my question is, does she seem to have a thing for me or is she just extremely friendly? I started liking her, but the only reason I am not asking her out is that she supposedly has a partner, and going after her while she's with someone is just a dick move. I don't think she is the kind of gal who would sleep around with guys as well....

[@KateSpring]

Sounds like borderline friend zone. Best you could do is be upfront with how you feel. Considering you don't wanna do the "dick move", then don't be afraid to clarify if she's *really* still dating another guy before it blows up to something else spelled trouble. Good luck! 😊

[@rebelpoxy]

Kate Spring Appreciate the honest reply

[@kraigdeming4721]

Hey Kate, so I've been on two dates with this woman, and she agreed to a third. She's wonderful company on the dates, but she never engages conversation with me in person or text. I'll text her and may not get a response for 24 hours. My main goal is for her to feel comfortable, even if that means I stop pursuing her. How do I know when she's not interested, and how can I make it known it's okay if she's not interested? Thanks for any advice!

[@KateSpring]

Hey Kraig! You can watch the video below and see if you can get a few signs to know if she's not into you. And there's no need for you to do anything to let her know that it's okay if she's not interested. Doing so will only make things awkward between the two of you and that's the last thing you'd want right? kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4K5hXWEp5qnj7s

[@sweetczz]

Wait, she's not engaging in conversation with you in PERSON yet alone texts? How is it that she's wonderful company? You need to flat out ask her the next time she responds 24 hours later, "Wow, you either got old lady genes taking so long to respond or is it because you have phone issues? I wanted to take you out last night" LOL.

[@jesutonijoseph6064]

What do u do after a girl gives a phone call for the first time just to check on you???

[@jefferywheeler7871]

I think my boss, director has some interest in me. She makes a point to always speak to me. Is that some kind of sign?

[@KateSpring]

It's a positive sign, yes but not a solid indication that she likes you. She's your boss after all. I suggest you watch this video and see if you can spot a few more signs: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oHywqXmGjLGseLM

[@chimakalu41]

Kate for the record you are absolutelty gorgeous and seemingly level headed.

[@KateSpring]

Thank you! 💖

[@osl77]

I want to clone Kate! So I don’t have to take her away from her Bf. She’s one of a kind.

[@LJThao]

Hi Kate, I've been seeing this girl for a month. We kiss but haven't really kiss (french kiss). I'll try to french kiss her but her mouth is usually close. She will just kiss me with a tap on the mouth. I ask her if I was her first kiss she laughed. I'm not sure if she's unexperience or not. What do you think I should do? I think she's into me because she said she like me and text me everyday.

[@KateSpring]

If she's not ready for more, don't push her Yeng. Just enjoy where you are now and have fun with each other :-)

[@LJThao]

Kate Spring Ok, thanks Kate!

[@IanManuelOfficial]

Kate do you give individual lessons?

[@KateSpring]

All my coaching slots are full right now, but yes, I do personal coaching :-)

[@leechandler9957]

I personally am too old for this to pertain to me, some women are more friendly than others so their eye contact may be more frequent. But you sound quite reasonable.

[@KateSpring]

Hey Lee. That's true, some women are more friendly than others. But generally, they give similar signs when they find you attractive.

[@Tombombski]

2:41- Me and you Kate? .. So what you're trying to say is I have a chance? hell ya!! :) lol Forgive my sarcasm, thanks for the good tips though! Cheers!

[@KateSpring]

You never know ;)

[@TheDerbycitymadman]

kate... with a certain lady that I'm into....is it ok to invite her to social gatherings at my place with other friends? we only just met in a business setting...I mentioned to her I have people over and would like to have her come out...I told her she could bring someone...her response was I would bring my brother if the time was right and it could work out...I read this as a clear intication she would like to come over...my question to you is should I be light hearted in my invite saying if the date and time work for you its no big deal other opertunities in the future...what are your thoughts....sorry ive been out of this game a long time,,,,

[@sweetczz]

You mean if the date and time DON'T work for you . . . - Sure, why not? And the fact that she says her BROTHER is an indication that she's doing it for her comfort, but also because she can get to know YOU and you will know she doesn't have a boyfriend. I doubt she will need to bring her brother to the next invite either if you are a true gentleman.

[@angelcarillo4304]

good video thanks

[@KateSpring]

Thank you, Angel! I always appreciate the feedback!

[@angelcarillo4304]

Your welcome beautiful

[@Panda-lq7xy]

Well i talked with her for first time and we laughed together and i knew from her friends that she talked about me, we text each other for short time but she was replying so fast, i told her once " what is you favorite chocolate ? is it bounty, M&M or what" and she said i really don't know" next day i bought all chocolates for her and i told her " you said you don't know which one you like that's why i got them all for you" she said omg and she laugh :D :D :D i was soooo happy until the day came and one of her friends came to me and said " if you talked with my friend again she will report you" i really don't know what happened she was interesting about my future plans and everything but know she talk to me like i stole something from her

[@sweetczz]

Sounds like the friends might be speaking what they think not her. So you need to ask HER why her friends would say that. Ask HER if she wants YOU to back off. Tell her you will be happy to comply if it's true, but you if she changes her mind she knows where to find you.

[@gnosticwarrior2075]

It's because you immediatly bought her a gift like a serf, google the word assertive. You have came off to her as a lapdog.

[@ytwetethx]

I went to a bar Friday last week for karaoke. These 2 women signaled to me that they liked my singing. So, I talked with them for like a minute. Later on, my friend said "You should buy them both a drink." I thought about it and did that very thing. They were thankful, but, they didn't come over to me, like I had hoped. So, my friend said "Go talk to them." I eventyually did, and had a conversation with them for like 10 minutes. Eventually, I excused myself to go to the bathroom, and when I came back, they were gone. They ditched me. Needless to say, I was pretty confused. I'm wondering what I did wrong? Or, did I NOT do anything wrong at all? What do you think?

[@KateSpring]

Aww, tough luck there. It just probably wasn't your night. I mean, you can do everything right, but picking up women doesn't work like magic, so that kind of stuff still happens. What's important is that you keep at it and you don't let these things get you down when they happen because trust me, they can happen to anybody 😉

[@sweetczz]

Looks like you got taken advantage of for the drinks LOL

[@boi1996]

A good amount of girls touch me But I jusy treat them like friends.... But idk i dont wanna assume and i just stay quiet 😂

[@KateSpring]

Well, it sounds like you're the one putting them in the friendzone :-)

[@eddievasquez2883]

This woman at work always touches my arms,she puts her hand opened palm against my back, when we're standing side by side, she does this in front of other co-workers.You said she wants me to also touch her.Is this a good idea to do in front of these co-workers?Or wait to be alone?

[@talogala89]

In our higher class there is a girl I like her too much and one thing I know about him that he did look at every time when I passed by him I want to say him but when I passed by him I get nervous and its been only 1 and half month. can I get some suggestion???

[@KateSpring]

Hey Talo! If you're not confident enough to say hi yet, why not start with a smile? When you look at her and she looks back at you, give her a smile. If she smiles back, it would be much easier for you to feel comfortable approaching her eventually.

[@chrislyles3118]

ok on the part of her telling her friends about you... i understand that one but if it goes all the way to mom and dad and her family being told about me is a that a good thing? this is the thing i was curious on. kate spring that is my question to you... as it was not mentioned in the video

[@KateSpring]

Hi Chris! If she mentions you to her family, then that's definitely a good sign! It means she's seriously considering you :-)

[@chrislyles3118]

me and the girl (shes from ukraine) have had what seems to be a month of time apart for thinking space. i was given the terms of i will think about it. she knows i gave her the time of june or july to come to me, however the signs i am getting are bit confusing . there has been no known communication until i apparently seen a cloud smiling at me when i was outside and then something woke me up speaking my first name four times one night. i take it this was a young person like herself and had their accent. wouldnt let me go to sleep until i rolled over and said ok i get the message i want to sleep. now i am no expert on the love thing but i have other people in the family to tell me that this is a sign something is happening. oh yeah and one more thing she heavily hesitated to break off anything, in fact that way my signs acted i dont think there was any breakup cause i did cut off communications and gave her a full month of no communications for her to have her space. other than that any advice would be great.

[@KateSpring]

Well, I think it's good that you gave her a month's worth of space. Has she attempted to contact you at all since then?

[@MV1-OP81-Mclaren]

Hey Kate , me and this girl in my class have known each other for 3 years now , recently when I walk past her she would for no reason slowly stroke my arm , what does this mean?

[@KateSpring]

If she does that only to you, then she probably likes you :-)

[@MV1-OP81-Mclaren]

Kate Spring thanks

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome!

[@MV1-OP81-Mclaren]

Goldenrod Willy 👍

[@devinbird2571]

what if she likes you but is so Damn nervous that she gives all the "bad" signs? had this happen and turns out she actually loved me but was terrified of the whole Situation i guess

[@KateSpring]

Hey Devin! Hmmm... I think even if a woman (who likes you) is nervous, it's just impossible for her to give all "bad signs". Unless she's doing it deliberately for some reason... (which would be weird)

[@chrisjfox8715]

Follow your instincts and see what happens.

[@BeshoyV]

@@chrisjfox8715 could you explain more .

[@creasor2478]

What if I get half of these signs and half i don't, ie she responds but after a long time but we've kept eye contact for many seconds before just smiling at eachother and she always turns and looks into my eyes when she speaks to me?

[@KateSpring]

Hey there, in what context are you two around each other? Are you in school together or are you co-workers? Do you talk to each other one on one or is it always in a group setting?

[@creasor2478]

we are co-workers, generally in groups but i've been over to talk to her a few times one on one but we work on different floors so I'd generally see her once or twice a shift. I really like her and could tell from many signs that she liked me, but i made the mistake of asking her out once to get ice-cream and once to go the cinema with friends if she wanted within the first week/two weeks of knowing her, and obviously she said i don't really wanna go out and said that we barely know eachother, i can tell you the long version if you really want me to?

[@creasor2478]

I may have then asked why she didn't like me or want to go out with me, and she says it's me, not you, ive got my own problems atm, i got a tad confused if I'm honest

[@creasor2478]

Pretty sure i'm in the friend zone but it seemed like she liked me more than that, but i guess not

[@KateSpring]

Dating at work is tricky and some people are not for it. And sometimes that is just something that you cannot force. But try being her friend, but don't be too available to her. If you want her to like back, then you have to attract her. Here is an awesome article on how to get out of the friend zone: www.lovelearnings.com/dating/get-out-of-friend-zone

[@BradBrowning]

Could your advice be any more SCIENTIFICALLY SOUND? Incredible attraction advice. Cheers, Kate Spring!

[@KateSpring]

Thank you for all the awesome feedback, Brad!

[@jsaari8443]

I'm unsure, of whether this girl likes me.She laughs a lot at my bad jokes,but when I text the group chat that I am in she texts pretty often especially responding to me or other people In the chat although her texts trail off after one point or another.I am perplexed if she is into me.If you could, give me some advice KZbin that would be much appriciated.

[@KateSpring]

I think you should get a copy of my free eBook J Saari. It will help you figure out how to keep the conversation going and get her more interested in you. Here you go! Enjoy! www.katespring.com/free