How To Think Like A Life Coach - Hasan Kubba

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Hasan Kubba is my business coach and the author of the business book of the year 2021 ‘The Unfair Advantage: How You Already Have What It Takes To Succeed’. In the conversation we talk about some of the concepts in his book as well as having a mini coaching session so you can apply coaching frameworks to your own life without needing to hire a coach yourself. We talk about realising your limiting beliefs, productivity, confidence and finish by chatting through some of my current predicaments about writing my book. Enjoy!
00:00 Intro
01:01 Understanding Coaching & Limiting Beliefs
16:00 How To Find Your Identity And Unfair Advantage
24:50 How Creators Can Become Coaches
26:27 How To Build Social Confidence
36:10 How To Deal With Hate
43:31 The Process of Co-Writing A Book
45:47 Mini Coaching Session
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[@HasanKubba]

Thanks for having me on Ali. Was great to just chat and share insights 🔥

[@imanibillahismail8526]

You really are so eloquent and yea I loved your book 👍 Thank you

[@hakankaya]

👍🌻

[@attiaahmed3032]

Hello Hasan this was a great and insightful interview. Hasan do you provide one on one caoching? I'd so,how does one get in touch with you ? Thank you

[@HasanKubba]

@@attiaahmed3032 dm me

[@annam9480]

“If you’re going to try to please everyone you’re going to be so bland and blah no one’s going to be into what you’re doing” 👏🏽😄 well said

[@DigitalSachinShow]

4 Ways To Think Like a Coach · 1. Surrender control 2. Guide without steering 3. Promote self-awareness and responsibility 4. Don't try to be the expert

[@halimabibi3886]

"You don't know what you think until you hear yourself say it."

[@razabadass]

Thank you Hasan, Ali, Angus, Elizabeth and other guys not shown on camera, Raza :)

[@mcmaschio]

This podcast is starting to become my favourite podcast of all time … hopefully one day soon i will start a podcast as well .. one of my goals 💯❤️ thanks Ali 🔥

[@DigitalSachinShow]

Life coaches need to be approachable, personable, friendly and helpful. They should be enthusiastic, empathic and have a sense of humour and patience. Possessing these qualities are important in helping coaches to gain new customers, but also new business contacts.

[@alexisallinone]

What is the podcast called?

[@ThisFamilyThing]

You guys are so in rapport with eachother. Mirroring each others body language especially with the leg bouncing. 🤣 On another note, great video. My husband is an amazing coach for men so I found this super interesting. 👍

[@HasanKubba]

True 😅

[@simonkine]

This is the best life changing video have seen on KZbin since this month began, thanks a lot Coach Ali and Hassan for elucidating more on matters pertaining life in depths

[@gb-me4ie]

We literally just watched Ali in therapy😻 Nice one, Coach! My huge takeaway: Develop your own glossary!

[@HasanKubba]

😍

[@faizansheikh6010]

Thanks for mentioning the writing masterclass. It reignited my interests in masterclass(es) and I'm definitely going to checkout the one you quoted from!

[@alyonabrivkina4086]

Love love love 2 takeaways: Make it fun and make in easy! Thank you a lot!

[@yusungchoi3099]

32:00 Thank you for the conversation. I can’t wait to get the book.

[@camiladonatti4928]

Those conversations have been so enlightening for me. Thank you so much for sharing them with us!

[@HasanKubba]

☺️

[@BigAkwes]

Very insightful

[@ShaunHolden]

A great book, a great author and certainly a great mentor/coach to be working with Ali. It really is amazing working with a coach as sometimes they allow us to see the things that we struggle to see for ourselves or offer us insights that we are unable to see for ourselves because of our belief systems. What he talks about around the 25 minute mark is exactly how I started coaching I have a small audience and solved a problem, I was then able to leave my full time job with less than 2000 subscribers on KZbin. Really enjoyed this one! Thank you Ali!

[@DigitalSachinShow]

Life coaches need to be approachable, personable, friendly, and helpful. They should be enthusiastic, empathic, and have a sense of humor and patience. Possessing these qualities is important in helping coaches to gain new customers, but also new business contacts.

[@antoniaosborne4972]

I really appreciate Hassan sharing about the anxiety and social situations. That along with imposter syndrome still cripple me despite awareness!

[@HasanKubba]

Thanks Antonia 😅

[@antoniaosborne4972]

@@HasanKubba thank you - this is great 👍🏼 loved your book and just applied to your course! Definitely keen to experience more of your expertise and energy ✨✨✨ fingers crossed 🤞

[@vikramrajput8489]

Rather than saying How to Set goals, I would Say How I Set my Goals this point on Podcast Ali Said was a Great Insight For Me

[@INDAHASMIGIANTI]

Keep doing the good work ali ✨

[@DigitalSachinShow]

A life coach is a type of wellness professional who helps people make progress in their lives in order to attain greater fulfillment. ... Life coaches can help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and then come up with strategies for overcoming each obstacle.

[@sarwatbhatti358]

Really enjoyed this podcast and highly rate this book

[@HasanKubba]

Thank you!

[@sulaimankareem9035]

legendary!

[@DrBrianKeating]

Great video and guest ! Just Missing end card

[@SylviaSoh]

I am reading this book. Fantastic!

[@HasanKubba]

🔥

[@JousefM]

Really good podcast - cheers guys! :)

[@HasanKubba]

Thanks Jousef!

[@broshefofficial]

Love this😍😍

[@broshefofficial]

Alis' plants are growing in numbers tooo!

[@krishcshah]

Loved the book! 🔥

[@HasanKubba]

🥰

[@samheedy]

I recommended Hassans book in my agency with my students!! It’s so well worth the read it’s changed my life and a lot of my student’s life. Even posted it on youtube today 😂 lovee it!

[@HasanKubba]

Amazing thanks Sam!

[@HasanKubba]

Link me to the KZbin video when you post it!

[@samheedy]

@@HasanKubba there ya go Hasan! kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4ilnIKJhMuVorM

[@phatphongnilobol5401]

Fantastic idea.

[@DigitalSachinShow]

Being an effective and successful leader means coaching your employees. Provide frequent feedback. Communicate and actively listen to build trust and empower your staff. Encourage innovation and experimentation to grow employee talents beyond comfort zones.

[@razabadass]

There seems to be no end panel/linkable video link at the end where the fingers got pointed towards in the top right corner in case that helps, Raza :)

[@underquartz9481]

Nice Ali!

[@asterakh8217]

Great

[@anxen]

Squirmy Goals = sick book title

[@HasanKubba]

Don’t get it

[@drmediatrition4571]

u r best Ali Love business podcasts it feels so perspective rich after listening Can u please tell me how can I grow as I am not getting views on my channel ! Please

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

Achieve, Avoid, Act 🚀

[@DigitalSachinShow]

A life coach is a type of wellness professional who helps people make progress in their lives in order to attain greater fulfillment. ... Life coaches can help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and then come up with strategies for overcoming each obstacle.

[@Samantha-qf5ee]

Hello, this is an interesting perspective of life coaching. I don't really think highly of this field, especially in the women's sphere of girl bosses. It seems like a bunch of crazy people who are desperately trying to find order in their lives and have a business of their own, and then they go hunting for vulnerable women to sweep up in their circus of life coaching. As for this more tame looking version of life coaching - I still don't think I really like it? The goal looks like it's to change behaviour by guiding the client. How does this differ to the work of a trained psychologist or counsellor? I would be worried that life coaches base their work on random life experiences instead of being grounded in evidence based practice. On the other hand, I imagine there are a lot less driven psychologists that don't really throw themselves into the goal. Are life coaches actually just business analysts of the brain/self? And psychologists just focus on psychopathologies of the brain? Thanks for the food for thought.

[@caleloberg8788]

Psychologist and counsellors offer advice as knowledge experts. Coaches ask questions and help the coachee focus on things they are saying and to observe observations they are already making. If the coach messes up and starts giving life advice from their experience, they have stepped outside the framework of coaching and are no better than a good friend. Coaching is just focusing on what the person is talking about, content and their emotion, writing notes about what they say and their body language and then debriefing the coachee of those observations so they can produce results for themselves.

[@Samantha-qf5ee]

Interesting... So a coach is kind of like a journal that has a brain and asks questions whenever you enter data that needs teasing out but also doesn't give any answers or judgement?

[@turntablesrockmyworld9315]

This is exactly what most "life coaching" is like. Most are Instagram type people who don't have much life experience that need to make money. The market is definitely geared towards marketing to women. It's also funny how these people are like twenty something or thirty something. Trying living 50 years first. This is different than people with specialised knowledge like a lawyer, etc. Notice that most of popular "girl bosses" become life coaches and then make their $$ selling "certifications" to others. The whole industry is mostly a scam. Many of the clients can't afford the training themselves. Really, all this information on goals, etc. can be read in books. It's nice to have someone to bounce ideas off of, but c'mon life coaching is pretentious nonsense. Business coaching is slightly different if you have specialised knowledge.

[@turntablesrockmyworld9315]

Yes, this is somewhat true but most of the industry is filled with people who want to be therapists but don't want to put years of work into training. But generally nothing he is saying is revolutionary. Many non-profits have used similar stuff for clients for decades, using questioning and creating accountability. Sure, there are personalities that can assist and motivate but most it is pretentious nonsense aimed at people that no real problems in life beyond their privileged existence. Notice that none of these people target the almost 800 million people living in dire poverty. Pretentious nonsense.

[@geraldine6379]

The economic hardship, recession, unemployment and the loss of job caused by govt and covid pandemic is enough to push people into financial ventures. I'm taking a trip into investing because I lost so much during this pandemic. Multi creation of wealth is the best strategy to ensure financial sustainability.. .

[@dashdigital1865]

I learned more from than this, than a 20k College Degree

[@lyzzts]

Is it just me or is the constant leg shaking so distracting? 😂

[@DeepDivewithAliAbdaal]

Haha

[@Zetsuke4]

Did he just say economics is mental masturbation?

[@HasanKubba]

Yep

[@emmamackt]

they both have really wriggly legs

[@HasanKubba]

I know! 😅

[@jmelapette6194]

crop the frame when both of you are in the field, as you guys are shaking your feet full time and it s anoying

[@HasanKubba]

I know 🤣. I noticed it too

[@mmachamp1p4p]

Why do you speak so fast?Sometimes i can not understand you

[@sarahk.6115]

Everyone has different preferences. I like him talking fast. I recommend you could use KZbin settings and decrease speed of video to 0.75 🙂

[@nasreenvassel9605]

Ali please slow down when you talk please. To be honest it becomes tiresome after a while

[@AmsterdamEats]

i dunno - just a whole lot of talking without saying anything significant. Had to turn it off after 30 mins