How to totally and mentally DETACH from people

[@eyes1168]

I needed this right now. I usually "don't care what people think" but this one guy triggered my people pleasing, the idea of him not loving me made me so sad and there I knew I had some goddamn healing to do. Thank you. This really helped but I know I must further help myself.

[@oxaleonora]

And I will do my best to my best to help you further in the journey! Thank you for watching and supporting!

[@angelmay9]

The key is Love and most importantly Self Love ❤ So to out there and do stumbling nice for yourself you don’t need a man or wait on him to buy you a bracelet necklace gift go out there and get yourself a bracelet little gifts 🎁 peace and love 💕

[@sarah.j.777]

It's true. I've been through 3.5 decades of giving others my time, care, support, generosity. and I can tell you, people are shallow takers. put your energy into yourSELF ladies.

[@oxaleonora]

yesss🤍

[@Wavecattt]

Just moved on from a relationship where I put more effort than he did, its tough to let him go, but as you said I got to love myself more, thanks your vid came at the right time Xxx

[@inneralignmenteducation]

She values her self-respect over her emotions. 💥

[@cocochanes]

Because she loves herself more she will always have strength to leave"💯

[@belinayaksu1889]

When you talked abt how god protects you and there is a bigger source than our own control it just helped me a lot thank uuu

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you! I'm glad it helped you!

[@Anonymous-pk8bk]

Don’t listen to talk it’s cheap! Observe, sit back and test people’s character. How do they treat others!? How do they behave when they don’t get their way!? Guard your ❤

[@AzizasPeaceGaming]

Beautiful comment it speaks truth, Keep it up ❤️❤️

[@samantarizzi248]

So true! Talk is cheap, actions speak louder than any words!

[@sweethartia]

Thank you

[@ceciliagramellini7864]

I stand so firm in the “joy is my biggest weapon” point. A joyful person has a different light that effortlessly attracts other good people to them! ✨thank you for your work Eleonora,you help and empower a lot of girls with your videos💘

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!!!

[@nataliek396]

Posted just when I needed this. Thank you.🎉

[@rabiyasayyed9938]

How could it be possible?? Happened exactly same with me 😂❤

[@Jerechatyala-uz9to]

This is very important for a lot people. We always want to love other more than ourselves and get hurt in the process.

[@rahmasamir909]

If theire actions doesnt fit theire words run away ❤

[@atuljanbandhu1910]

One thing I have always seen in life is that people try to make meaning but make yourself in such a way that people remember you but you have told me very little, in reality you are very mature, I have always watched your videos❤

[@ndiabelka2315]

thank you for this message I really needed this !!

[@octoberflower-o4n]

elle,u literally dont know how much you mean to me, how much your videos have helped me. You are literally a goddess!❤ There is a request please do not delete your videos, they are so empowering and i have no words to define how perfect they are and much you've improved my life.

[@saveyrishi]

Whenever you speak it truly moves me. So much wisdom to learn from you. So grateful for your videos 💛

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Savey! ♥️

[@thasasn5476]

i truly admire how grateful you are for being a woman and how you interconnect everything with god

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!!

[@medinamee]

You truly are a gift for other women.Thank you ❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much♥️

[@mementomori5374]

The individual can never love another individual unconditionally it just tries to fulfill itself through another Very needy

[@rahmasamir909]

Exactly its impossible

[@wangcheng3940]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@paulinebricks3441]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@wangcheng3940]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@paulinebricks3441]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@wangcheng3940]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@rahmasamir909]

You dont love her you are just attached to her wake UP ❤

[@gurleensroya8345]

The queen posted ❤

[@Fruzsi888]

You and this chanel is a gift and it's not a concidence that showed up on my fyp Thank you Eléonora!❤

[@the.flora.experience]

Yesterday I thought to myself, i miss her videos wish another one would come out, and then I open my KZbin and there you are 💛 what a queen 👑thank you so much for being yourself! I would love to know more about rebuilding yourself from nothing, like you did, maybe you could do a video about that 🙏🏼

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Flora!! Thank you for the suggestion to, I take notes for the next episodes♥️

[@nikolosvahoang9603]

Thank you Queen Eléonora and shout out to all my beautiful Queens out there✨💗💗💗 We are Stars omg💗💗

[@tawana_cruise]

More people need to hear this type of content. And everything you've said in this video is the woman I am working on each day to become. The prove that you got of that dark spot shows that anyone can make it if they give themselves the chance to do so‼️

[@oxaleonora]

thank you!! ♥️

[@Tatiana-oz2fn]

Geez this video made me cry but it’s exactly what I needed. I have been so uncomfortable just being with myself and now I can see the work I need to do. Everytime a relationship has red flags I hold onto it even tighter out of fear of being alone, and for some reason the last few weeks I’m learning I need to go inward when this happens. I need to go into myself and my relationship with god because I’m so tired of putting my happiness and self worth in the hands of others. No one is going to control that for me anymore. Thank you.

[@denisejazzchild5225]

Wow, this video was so touching and so amazing. You have really a special gift of encouraging people and to speak about God. It was something I really needed to hear right now. Thank you so much for this inspiring video!!!♥

[@hmmemz1654]

This came at the right time. Thank you queen and God bless you! You’re doing the lords work with these videos honestly. Happy Monday everyone ❤❤❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!♥️

[@Syed7731-hg6ft]

listening to u is so interesting i have been following many of the pointers and found many pointers to be implemented in me and i am in the process to learn being worthy of myself and the reason is my innerchild she desreves all the good things she deserve best life \ she deserves to be the happiest one my aim is to be happy dear oxa sis ,, tysm kindly donot delete ur videos .. its so good and informative . we all to listen u bye take care

[@athinahaadji]

Eleonora, you are so empowering and your words go a long way. I found the strength within to start my own yt channel and I am already feeling like a different person. Sending you love and light

[@oxaleonora]

This is very kind, thank you Athina! Sending you even more love and light♥️

[@Priya_1407]

You changed my life girl I love you ♥️

[@godstallchild7964]

This came at the most perfect time. I recently blocked a guy I really liked after he stood me up because he didn’t have it in him to leave his house to see me - right after apologising to me. It was hard but knowing but what I deserve is more important than seeing him

[@oxaleonora]

you do! 🤍

[@fattimalaway]

She is so good but she is somehow so underrated!!

[@Ngeejay]

I love this video so so much. I have been in the most horrible state for as long as I remember. I have away wanted people’s approvals and validation but lately I have realised how it is all so damaging to me. I need to love myself before I demand or expect anyone else to love me. I need to give that safe space to myself before asking it from others. Thankyou Eleanora for this video. Everything you have said resonated with me on a deeper level. Sending a lot of love and best wishes your way.

[@Alxxxavc]

Thank you I love empowering woman like you. You are so wise !!!

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!

[@TurtleDy-e4x]

soooo confident , so fresh , so smart ! I love your tips!

[@BellaJ83]

This i can agree with because even non commited guys wants always to be in relationship with me even marry me instantly.. Because my core beliefs are that men always commit to me that they instantly see me as wife materiale.. But my aura is very magnetic both women n men lean towards me even animals n children feel safe around me.. I am intuitiv energy reader.. I also feel peoples energy easily.. When i walk in the room all attention is on me and i dont mean that i dress provocative no i dress classy.. But i catch attention everywhere because of my aura.. I healed my traumas i changed i learned a lessons my life changed..many people would say ego self centered etc but i am just obssesed with my life passion elevating myself and growing in stead of people.. I dont chase because i know whatever its i desire its mine so i am relaxed.. I dont even chase dreams i live them.. I dont think im better than others i am just different in some way and better than i used to be. . Everyone can make this decision and become the best version of themselves at any time and become magnetic as well..

[@midubie]

Its praiseworthy that how positive you are as a woman. Your way of thinking motivates me a lot❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much🤍

[@musfira63]

I love you sooo much Elenora like you helped me so much whenever people around make me believe that I should fit and low my standard whatever and I have to married and all the stuff like that that I don't want and somehow I feel convinced, you are the one who makes me believe that this is not true and I have the choice to turn my life. I will study hard and want to do something so I don't have to be surround this toxic family and people thank you soo and wish me luck;).

[@coallettuce]

I told a guy friend I had that I'll be taking a break from the video games we play together and focus on my studies. Simply put, he did not respect that. Blocked.

[@Casslaydra]

You didn’t have to block him totally. lol if you have that attitude in life, you’re gonna be super lonely

[@دانيااا]

@@Casslaydra it better being alone than being w bad ppl

[@دانيااا]

Idk why i felt you are into subs and i was right

[@coallettuce]

@@Casslaydra I'm happy to be alone tbh. Your feedback is well received, thanks. I was feeling incredibly drained in his presence too so, I don't see this as a loss.

[@coallettuce]

@@دانيااا 😏

[@GoBelindaGo]

Ma’am you shut it down with this message!!! New Sub! ✅

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Belinda!!!

[@Borboleta1212]

This has clarified something for me ! A good reminder to prioritise my emotional wellbeing. Thanks Eléonora, I have just subbed ! ❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much🤍

[@ceesday]

Love your videos! I have outgrown friends and families bc I chose to do the inner work, break the cycle and delay gratification to become my best self. I started being serious and intentional with my life choices and it has filter out the things that does not align or help me reach my end goals!

[@oxaleonora]

yesss🤍

[@donnarakitzis2719]

Powerful. I needed this!

[@Lily-ci9we]

I really needed this, I feel worthless just because my ex disrespected me and he still begs me to sleep with him

[@BoudjelidaSerine]

thank u so much this was all what I needed to hear, and don't tell ppl everything to want to be just keep it between u and god and u will see that it works well when it s private.

[@dirtyshirleyheart]

Thank you! You’re so beautiful and amazing for sharing this. It will help a lot of people who struggle ❤

[@oxaleonora]

thank you!!

[@PaulaGonzalez-hy9sr]

There’s a special drive you have when you speak that really helped me grasp and fully understand everything you said. With a conclusion I’ve detached already. Thank you so much!

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much Paula! 🤍

[@AjwaB23]

I love how you speak about God. Yes 🙌🏾

[@marwahalharbi187]

She is ME 💅 Thank you for the amazing video Eléonora ,words to live by !

[@oxaleonora]

yess!! thank you!!

[@juniorrscott]

Wow, this video has many worth knowledge about Queens, I never knew that before about them, thanks oxa, I love you and keep going 😍🤗🤗🤗

[@n.1.o.8]

I love the message as much as I love color pink on you. Thank you for those videos. I am deeply grateful for your words. You are my role model and inspiration. God bless you ❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much!!

[@krystanicoleeee6022]

This is exactly how I am! I love it thanks for this video

[@rachelrosendo]

Yesss I come agreement with everything you said! Love you Eleonora! ❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Elena!!

[@Love1sLove]

I really, really needed this. Especially the last part.

[@oxaleonora]

I'm so happy to read this!!

[@saidaadam1654]

You are a blessing to us❤ I learn and resonate a lot with your videos. Thank you.

[@kailyd.3619]

Thank you for everything. i’m trying to be like you. I can’t express my gratitude enough.

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!

[@peacefulsounds9832]

You literally made me cry thank you for this I really needed to here it may God continue to speak through you 💜

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much!🤍

[@swatiparchha7759]

I was so down I was looking at something like this 😢 thank you❤

[@Lissitchka]

Perfect on time 💗

[@dancingbird1330]

This channel and this video is underrated

[@senjatarot]

completely unrelated to the topic but giiiiiiirl!!! this colour on youuu 😍😍💕💕💕

[@oxaleonora]

thank you🤍

[@AzizasPeaceGaming]

I love this video, now a days it seems like external environment has taken control over some women and control their mindsets. I love the depth you put in this video ❤️❤️

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you so much!🤍

[@nickybundalo]

This was exactly what i needed to hear this morning! Your wisdom is a blessing ❤ thank you

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Nicky!🤍

[@danimount]

You’re incredible, thank you.

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!

[@dollypillay6986]

Wow very motivational God bless u my dear❤

[@maryquinn6661]

Thank you! I needed to hear this…perfect timing!

[@ananichi]

Dang!!!! That was powerful and true and needed😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you Ana!!

[@siddiqui_hira]

Every word makes sense to me❤

[@cupcinka]

Thank you Eleonora. You are the proof that God is my power and no one can take that away, even if it seems so weird to most people around who I can’t align with anymore, who thought that by hurting me will be able to manipulate me or see my smile fade away … There is no power stronger than the power God is putting in me 🕊️

[@oxaleonora]

Yesss! 🤍

[@esperanzauriarte8867]

OOOOOF GOD JOY ALL OF THIS SO JUICY THANK YOU

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!

[@Unthinkablegamingfan333]

Thank you ❤ I love your videos you are so smart ❤

[@serenityslife4910]

Yes, girl… Preach!

[@oxaleonora]

🤍

[@Veradoo001]

Thanks for this information❤

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you for watching!!

[@amberocc907]

I’m on a twinflame journey and I’ve been put on this path by source, I used to share my story publicly, but I am realizing that was the wrong choice and it was an internal battle almost everyday trying to “fight “ with my intuition vs all the judgment and people calling me “crazy”. I am no longer tolerating it. I know what path I am walking. And I’m walking it all the way home.

[@musfira63]

What is twin flame journey. I think it's a scam because someone told me I'm too with a guy (I couldn't get rid the thoughys of him) she was like I should make efforts whatever and I ended up so badly like I never do it again.

[@mahilopi]

How did you know I needed to hear these

[@Cathinefox]

you’re knowledge is so powerful. you mind is beautiful and so is your soul. thank you for teaching me this wisdom as a woman in this life. I feel nothing but appreciation, admiration & grace for you. 888🪽

[@sunitarajput6770]

Tysm for this video💗it was wonderful!

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!🤍

[@HealedbyGod18]

Amen 🙏 thank you for this message. I definitely needed it.

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you for watching! 🤍

[@elenaxy9753]

THAT is it! Thank you so much for this video! You are wonderful and beautiful❤

[@kumababybear]

Hi Eleonora! Just wanted to say you inspire me and help change my mindset everyday. It gives me so much confidence when I listen to you. Thank you for being on this platform ❤

[@lovecate8229]

You are a good speaker. I love your thoughts. Thank you!

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you🤍

[@theeladyj]

Yup , needed this back to my selfish ways

[@nikkiangelique6427]

when I heard “God” I immediately subscribed! thank you so much and God bless you💐

[@1ROCKY89]

Gr8 chat applies to men and women ✌️ God is good

[@RubyWahid]

Thank you for this❤ very much needed

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you for watching and supporting!♥️

[@Madigold123]

Girl you are on point ❤ love it 🎉to all the queens keep going Thanks for sharing!

[@clarissasnyderr]

Loved this! Thank you so much 🤍

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you for watching and supporting🤍

[@Brax-fu1ow]

Thank you ♥️

[@BlenBrhaneGebre]

You reach at the right time ❤❤❤

[@Ellasays.08]

Exactly what I needed to hear

[@m-ob9tm]

Really odd but our life sounds similar, same around two years ago had the same experience as yourself and now have the exactly same mindset and I don’t hear many speak about this in such a way. God has his people ✨

[@oxaleonora]

🤍Thank you

[@xoxoNicholeLove]

This felt very channeled 💖

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!!🤍

[@frieduska]

Queen has spoken

[@ItsNatalieMedina]

So happy to see another of your videos!!! Yaayyyy ❤

[@laniaya4]

This was so needs for me right now starting completely over

[@oxaleonora]

yessss🤍

[@tasveerejamal4080]

yay queen posted!👑🥳🤍

[@harshitapal5179]

Thank you so much Queen it was very helpful 🧡

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!! ♥️

[@milicalavrnja5860]

Love this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@oxaleonora]

Thank you!🤍

[@sharonqui]

Thank you ❤!!

[@oxaleonora]

thank you for supporting Sharon🤍

[@Rasberry-ni6hu]

Thank you for this amazing video , I really needed to hear this ❤ Right now I feel a little bit lost in life , but I know I'll get through this, I just need time ❤❤

[@oxaleonora]

You will🤍thank you for watching!