How To Walk In Public With Rajiv Surendra (City Streets)

[@Hoopla29856]

Rajiv literally out here teaching us how to be functioning people and the world honestly needs it❤😅

[@jasminebambury5841]

I was going to say thisbshouldnt be needed but certainly is. And Raj is always charming

[@harashe1000]

We need one on how to use a cart in a grocery store! My second minor city pet peeve after people milling around confused on the sidewalk lol

[@Jebusjoose]

I think the world is fine. America is fucked.

[@susanblackley7065]

Exactly. In the states, this is where we are now, sadly.

[@xenophilie]

Gosh, I kind of assumed he’d acknowledge that ‘NYers complaining about people not knowing how to walk in NY’ is maybe second only to ‘NYers love talking about NY’ as the most common NYC trope.

[@brendamiska7528]

You are like a modern day Mr. Rogers for adults.❤️

[@aniawood]

OMG that is just so perfectly true! 😍

[@Kato414]

Wow 100% yes lol I love this guy

[@4ray]

You may be into something. We are constantly bombarded and need someone to calm us.

[@JuNaRod]

He totally is❤ I love watching his videos😊

[@suzanalbright8670]

Hey! 😂 I already told him that. ❤

[@cyndifalk]

Even Rajiv's rants are gracious 🙂

[@Lin-Lin2559]

Came on here to say something like that but couldn't think of a way to do so. Your comment is right on😂. I feel like he's telling some people off in a kind, gentle, tongue-in-cheek gracious kind of way.

[@cyndifalk]

@@Lin-Lin2559 Bless their hearts!

[@apushkal]

New category: genteel rant

[@judybridges8796]

Gracious, perfect adjective for him.❤

[@areat4821]

Now do “how to sit next to someone on an airplane; on the subway; or just in public”. Or “how to look someone in the eye when you greet them”, “Or how to talk to strangers”, 😊 you are a joy.

[@Skinniest_Kween]

I’m an alien who just moved to earth, this is just the thing that I needed. Thank you! ❤️

[@marcop.525]

Don't shame yourself. Probably you're light years ahead earthlings who just refuse to deviate from others in sidewalks.

[@chrissy817]

Who wants to see Rajiv do a travel series exploring different cities? Me!! 🥰

[@againstthegraingolf301]

🙋🏾‍♀️ I’m here for that!

[@nwoweikupamer]

Me too ! I was going to suggest it ! I’m sure he knows some fabulous places in NYC !

[@jessicalynnstrom]

Yes that would be amazing!!!!

[@Ardna53]

Me!❤

[@lindaerman3436]

Rajiv in Paris!

[@Cooqquu]

As a millennial, I just watched this with undivided attention just as I did watching seasame street at age 5. And I mean that in the most POSITIVE way possible. 80% of adults could benefit from this little vlog.

[@Avalonanon]

rise above your label of millennial its a made up word and you're part of everything like the rest of this and isn't it just so damn easy to criticize 4/5ths of the population clean your shit up first coocoo

[@lisalundstrom1591]

I love this video. It seems counterintuitive to need a video like this, but we as humans seem to have lost the basics. Common courtesy. Appreciation for your surroundings. Self-confidence without arrogance. These are all forms of kindness. I wasn’t sure what to expect in this video, but I am always pleasantly surprised by what I can learn or maybe I’m reminded of. I truly wish that everyone would have this type of respect for one another. This world would be a much different place.

[@karenreiter533]

Oh, so well said. Common courtesy is so very important and walking cofindently is essential to a life well lived. 💕💕

[@robinartemis8695]

So simple and so necessary. I am a wheelchair user and scan the sidewalk often. I look around me too. Thank you ☺️

[@nwoweikupamer]

Yes !

[@peaceshepherding529]

Agree, Lisa. We have to model ethics but it seems we also need to speak of them, plainly, without anger (the vast majority of the time) but with respect for decency & with hope (+ sprinkles of good humor don’t hurt) as Rajiv has. I continually rely on The Golden Rule as THE common solution that will (or can) bring about what we’d feel as heaven on earth. How we treat other animals, plants & the ecosphere is included ~ ALL other lives, and virtually everyone from toddlers up can understand it innately. To me, it’s the reliable way out of the messes humans create. I’d like to have a National or World “Golden Rule Day” - similar to the national “Smoke Out Day” to help smokers feel supported & united in having a new life without smoking cigarettes/cigars, etc. Community building, all

[@jrpacer6355]

Well said

[@marilynphan277]

I'm going to share this video with my son who is a young adult with autism. I want him to understand how to politely walk in the street and around people. A lot of times people with autism don't fully understand how to socially walk properly around others without being rude. So I appreciate you doing this video to teach people how to do it correctly and respectfully.

[@rosettagrey2851]

This is so sweet, I hope he finds it helpful x

[@yvettemadelaine]

I had an ex boyfriend who would refuse to deviate from his path when walking, to the point of eyeballing and knocking shoulders with oncoming strangers who didn’t move around him. What a red flag that was.

[@eeeeesha]

Yikes! Glad you aren't with him now

[@dranandame]

😂

[@joycehancock3944]

Just rude he was.

[@estherchandy6292]

I think I know why he's your ex boyfriend

[@oldnewbieraver]

Lol what an ego..he must have had some serious insecurities

[@graciemoore8041]

Rajiv, you have the ability to make the commonplace interesting to this 78 year old. Thank you for teaching us with your videos.

[@vickyrodas8961]

As Helena Bonham Carter once said "everything in life is art" Rajiv perfectly embodies that in everything he does. Thank you, Rajiv for sharing your wisdom w/us.

[@Earthy-Artist]

First learned of Helena Bonham Carter when I saw her in the Mel Gibson movie 'Hamlet', she played the role of 'Ophelia' . She is talented and unique.

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

@@Earthy-ArtistPerfectly cast as Ophelia!

[@Earthy-Artist]

@@cynthiacrumlish4683 That scene in Hamlet when they are watching the play, looking into Ophelia's eyes I can absolutely see her heart and mind break as if someone had flipped off a switch, and then the light went out. Pure talent.

[@الحمدلله101]

Taking a dump too is an art

[@fanusbogey]

@@الحمدلله101 somebody said art is made for yourself and craft/commerce is made for other people. I feel most dumps are art, but the most interesting ones are simply craft/commerce

[@KuroHebi]

I genuinely learned a few tidbits from this video. This man is singlehandedly contributing to the functioning of society.

[@ollie14may]

Somebody broadcast this on mainstream TV because everyone needs to watch this

[@Gigi-wb8pe]

Public Service Announcement!

[@MelissaAnthony-to7gd]

Yes, agree!! His channel is too good and interesting to just exist here on social media.

[@JuNaRod]

Can we all agree that Rajiv is today's Mr. Rogers for today's adults? ❤ His videos are so comforting.. he is able to genuinely breakdown the simple things in life and share these practices in such an elegant and beautiful way.

[@renee560]

How can you NOT click on this video? The title alone. 😂 He knows how to make anything interesting.

[@HowToMakeDinner]

I clicked so fast!

[@megsie1424]

I don't watch all of his videos. But I clicked this one only due to the title and with a big smile on my face 😀

[@anushkayadav2185]

😂😂

[@n3rdboink]

i've been so stressed out lately as a college student majoring in art education, realizing how individualistic America is becoming. you were able to make an entertaining video about the simplest thing yet connected it to such an important message- thinking about everyone around you. and just taking in the details of everyday life! this was a breath of fresh air in the midst of every other video on my recommended that was battling for my attention in some unholy gruesome capitalistic way.

[@carlosparra8976]

you condemn capitalism and extreme indivisualism and yet feed it with your undivided attention to unholy and gruseome capitalistic practices

[@n3rdboink]

@@carlosparra8976 oh my god what 😭

[@KJones-qs7ju]

Toughen up Art Education Major, for your own sake. Life outside of college and earning a living is a “real knife fight” lol. You can handle it though

[@LiaRoseFreeland]

Please ignore the cynics. Coming from a much older person, it's good to notice what is vying for your attention. Being aware of the problems in our society isn't going to make you unemployable and it's not overly sensitive to live with realism and awareness ❤

[@Michael-hs5ih]

One of the lessons that my father taught me when I was very young, which I consciously recall the most, is to walk like I owned the place. Purposefully stepping in what direction I was headed and with a look of confidence on my face. Chin up and shoulders back. When turning corners, lead with the foot of that direction. Say excuse me when passing someone, and apologise kindly if you bump them. Along with much of the other advice given in this video. My favourite thing to do now when I am stressed or sad is catch a train into the beautiful city I live near and flâneur around. And I always think of my father’s words. The fun part is that people have commented on it! That I look approachable, confident, and like im off to accomplish a great purpose. A trick I learnt now in my 20s is to always wear a nice fragrance too.

[@AndrewSherwin]

When I was really young, my mom told me once to stop walking around like I owned the place. I had no idea what she was talking about. I like your comment, I just wanted to say that I guess lol

[@janepassant1186]

Love this and a smile or hello when passing is always appreciated. My kids asked why I always greet everyone on my walks. I might be the only person to talk to them today!

[@mybestideas1]

I absolutelly detest those people who walk like 'they own the place', as much as those toe walkers. Maybe you didn't mean to create a picture of someone with a harsh expression on their face swinging their meaty arms, but this is what I assume by that description.

[@SemekiIzuio]

​@2024NewYearNewMe yes and for me I dislike really strong fragrance that stick to the furniture or items that person has been on or holding. You just cant get rid of the smell even after they are gone, not talking about a person unique smell on clothing and stuff but like the perfume lingering longer than it needs to

[@Ruby-kr6fh]

For those commenting who disagree with walking like you own the place, I think the idea walking like you belong there could be a less domineering alternative

[@mamalovesthebeach437]

I’m a S.F. Native. My dad taught me to “walk with purpose”. It’s actually hard on your knees to come down on your heels… try to use the mid foot to heel…it takes practice. Thank you for your beautiful reminders in how to be more present.❤

[@JediElana]

Only Rajiv can turn something like walking down the street into an art form!! Thank you for bringing Awareness to the beauty in something most people find mundane.

[@MiaTheodoratus]

People visiting NYC are the worst…the NYTimes New Yorker have had articles in it complaining about tourists walking. Maybe this instruction video will help!

[@symptomoftheuniverse4149]

That is his talent, because it is not just walking down the street. He is sharing his philosophy on a basic human experience and how to make it more then.

[@symptomoftheuniverse4149]

@@MiaTheodoratusWhy must there be a negative?

[@MiaTheodoratus]

⁠​⁠@@symptomoftheuniverse4149I deliver instruments through out nyc. I am extremely positive. False positive about the joy of moving a full 6ft concert grand harp through 42 street or Carnegie crowds is a bit ridiculous. Specially when I know people who have been smack run into by walkers not looking. Bam-9,000 of repairs :( I actually don’t take work on 42st area.

[@LavaStar39]

Thank you for reminding us that sharing is caring! A “pet” peeve on busy streets are distracted dog owners using retractable leashes, and blocking the entire sidewalk with the thin leash. It can be dangerous to others and also dangerous to your pooch.

[@LavaStar39]

any time @elmilagroworkshops

[@lauradamico6503]

SO American and so true! I never see this outside of the U.S.!

[@barbarazimmermann1314]

Rajiv, bringing us back to ourselves. What sensibilities !

[@LavenderandLinen]

“How to walk in public”. Even a topic like this was so pleasant to watch. And there are so many out there who need this instruction. I love how kindly this topic was approached. ❤

[@bubasinter6729]

I live in Europe, don't understand the title? You should learn how to walk in public 2024 ? ? ? No, something going wrong, very sad story 😢

[@icu3869]

People have told me many times that others are just as important as me, that I should be “considerate “. This video really made that seem true! And looking up? Great tip!👍

[@LavenderandLinen]

@@bubasinter6729 So true! It is such a sad statement that so many need this instruction! But they really do!!

[@janet1816]

I grew up in Boston and always knew to walk with confidence. As a woman this gives the world one of strength. Even now at 72 I am secure when walking in a busy city. Thank you for this wonderful advice.

[@edl6398]

I understand! I was born and raised in downtown Chicago. Same thing as you. My mother taught me how to walk in the city and also how to “dart and dodge” to get to where you are going. Cities are a bit like jungles and you have to be very aware of where you are going and how vulnerable you appear.

[@martifinan998]

Hi Rajiv! -I love how you said this positively rather than scoldingly, "be aware that many other people have somewhere to go and some of them are in big rush, and it's very considerate to be conscious of that." Great reminder for teaching children in an encouraging rather than shaming way. -Also, you're choice of NYC for your home is pretty great. I love a city or town that hangs onto it's older buildings and features rather than razing them. I love your ledge. -Thank you for these great reminders of how healing, rejuvenating, and inspiring walks can be. -Your coveralls (and the soles of your shoes, and the light in your hair) match the verdigris of the lamppost! -Can you tell us about the music you used? It reminds me of a combination of 1950s educational films and Disney movies when the featured animals are getting into lighthearted scrapes after escaping a bear or rattlesnake.

[@carmaela2689]

True. I missed my dad taking his last breath because people wouldn't just move over. You never know WHY someone is in a hurry.

[@sallieschuetz1796]

OMG! It has been one of my pet peeves about walking in public how people are so inconsiderate about sharing the sidewalk…… THANK YOU for making this video…… I thought I was the only one that felt this way.

[@stephf4175]

Yes, agreed! For me, this also includes when someone drifts aimlessly while looking at a cellphone in the main sidewalk "throughway," and others of us who are fully attentive have to keep guessing how to navigate around him or her. And to take that one step further, this also spills over into pedestrian/driver etiquette when in crosswalks, still looking at a cellphone and potentially holding up traffic. Let's all revisit courtesy in various aspects of our lives.

[@lu_re7198]

What about people who walk on the left side of the sidewalk directly into oncoming pedestrians. 🤣

[@carissafisher7514]

You make me nervous about existence.

[@noralockspeed]

Dearest Rajiv, I just visited Japan last November and being from Mexico City, I’m no stranger to big cities and walking around with a purpose, I was immediately in love with the way people in Japan are so incredibly considerate of others and can’t stress this behavior enough, we, as a society have somehow lost the ability to respect and do unto others as we would like done unto us. Thank you for the beautiful reminder of the importance of common courtesy towards total strangers. After all, we truly reflect our character in our everyday actions. I wish we were taught from early childhood to care and respect others regardless of their age, race, gender or social status, as well as respect everything around us. In Japan even people experiencing homelessness are very concerned about their effect in those around them, and maintain their belongings neat, stacked and out of the way of those walking around during the day. At night, they lay out their space for the night and early in the morning they pick it up and neatly fold and stack it. It’s nothing less than remarkable, if you lose your place in society temporarily, never lose your good manners and humanity, thank you for this beautiful reminder of paying attention to the little things. All the best to you! 💕

[@donnachevalier7460]

Ah, consideration for others.. the lost art of humanity. ❤❤

[@janiekrig5232]

'I am not the only person living in this city..' Gracious words, thank you Rajiv!

[@LMuraka]

Hi Rajiv! I lived in Tokyo for 7 years and really miss all the urban walking! Japanese people are excellent at sidewalk etiquette. I’ve been so delighted to find your videos and truly enjoy them. In fact, I homeschool 3 children and sometimes show them your videos as a kind of “inspirational home economics and life skills” tangent. 😊. Keep up the good work! Some people have mentioned that topics like this video seem “obvious” but sadly, things like this really do need to be taught nowadays. In fact, I was thinking that a wonderful idea for a future video or series would be “relational etiquette in the smartphone age”. Things like walking without looking at your phone, putting your phone away during a meal with someone, actually REMOVING your phone from your hand (not just looking up from the screen for a moment) when someone addresses you in order to actually look at them and give them your attention. In many supermarkets and other stores, I often see employees with earbuds in, which makes them feel unapproachable. My husband is Japanese and finds it baffling that it is acceptable for people in the USA to wear ear buds on the job, but I’ve told him-people need to be explicitly taught what it means to be polite and “present” in their jobs and in their personal lives because smartphones have changed the very basics of society. We need new teaching about how to remain human in the smartphone age.

[@ir289]

Sometimes people wear headphones at work because it helps them focus on work.

[@jane1044]

Amen

[@LMuraka]

@@ir289 I was referring more so to people who might be expected to perform customer service while at their job. I’m sure there are certain circumstances where headphones or earbuds could be acceptable.

[@okaminess]

@@ir289earbuds probably due to inconsiderate people talking and laughing in an open plan office.

[@critterscute3642]

Thank you, Rajiv. So important for city dwellers especially. Realize there’s a fast lane and a slow lane, even on a sidewalk. Wide escalators too. Scoot over so someone in a hurry can get by. Thanks for being you, Rajiv ❤

[@ElysianLys]

Just in case anyone was curious, toe walking (using only the balls of one's feet) is often present in folks with cerebral palsy as well as, somewhat surprisingly, autism! I've got both, so while I can do the heel-first stride if pressed, it can be difficult or even painful to maintain over long stretches. I understand wanting to promote confidence, but do consider that for some it's just a matter of ability, comfort, or simple preference!

[@bonniekane8547]

Yes, that jumped out at me too. Sometimes I need to remind my son to pick up his feet when he walks, and not to shuffle. But I have talked to many seniors about this and they agree that not picking up your feet can also cause you to be more susceptible to tripping and falling.

[@sheilag5414]

Yes, just to raise awareness also in the case of plantar fasciitis you ARE afraid of putting pressure on your heels because it’s very painful.😩 ouchie! ♥️ ♥️

[@irishphilly]

Similar in different Neurological: Brain injury/stroke, etc. In PT, to relearn balance & walking includes gait: Heel Down first IS a Big Deal, IF possible, BUT IS most complex/advanced. Ditto retraining brain focus, direction, split attention, etc. One detail? Direction w purpose helps mobility. Surprised how much core strength, moving weight on feet/hips: & 'swinging' arms is to balance(!!) Daily practice, even chair stretching, helps. SAME 'rules' in clinic hallways as NY streets. Being mindful is caring to share, direction, notice others, enjoy vignettes, be curious, & be safe. Cell phones are devil's workshop, EXCEPT love now gesturing & talking out loud is OK & not a psychiatric stigma & arrest. Love the video. Being above the sod is a gift.

[@vjsimpson5237]

I wasn't sure about this one but...Interesting video! If I've been walking around the city for a long time, I end up walking on the balls of my feet because my heels are in so much pain from my plantar fascitis. It doesn't feel good to walk like that but necessary until I can rest them!

[@fbxn]

As an autistic who views part of the so called characteristics of autism as (neuro)diversity and our being legit as we are, and part of them as trauma that asks for healing, I am totally working (qgong and tai chi) on putting my heels to the ground. That s deep healing for everyone that has the physical ability to try it.

[@melissa31793]

I freakin love you. I am just so incredibly grateful that you're sharing your thoughts on KZbin. You are such a breath of fresh air and, in my opinion, much needed in this age of mindless consumerism, busyness, and disconnection. You have become such a role model for me 😊❤

[@Keeliecdw]

I agree! He is wonderful!

[@CAM-fq8lv]

My husband walked on his toes. He was autistic and had dyspraxia. He also had trouble with non-verbal learning. Brillant in the mind but a terrible problem with "things". You are blessed to have the wonderful abilities that you possess Rajiv. As a NT I'm going to try to follow this great advice - because I can.

[@GetOfflineGetGood]

I walk on my toes and I had never heard the word "dyspraxia" before. Thanks for that! I feel like I learned something about myself.

[@loulo6430]

Thank you for your gracious response to this video. Society may benefit from following Rajiv's example, but only if done so with an awareness of --and compassion for--others who, like your husband, would be unable to. An infinite number of potential reasons--both visible and invisible--can explain why a person meanders down a sidewalk, never looks up, or walks on his toes, and none of those reasons are a "reflection" of that person's character. However, posting a You Tube video conveying that belief might be.

[@Skadivore]

@@loulo6430what an empathetic view on people. Refreshing and inspiring!

[@LadyShanghai-wj1kh]

@@GetOfflineGetGood Indeed, my son has it & I’ve had no help from doctors/hospitals, etc…im going to look into this, thank you

[@qmanh72]

I use to walk on my toes for a few months during college. I'm short and thought it would add inches to my height, until my friend asked why I walked the way I do. Realized I wasn't fooling anyone.

[@tomault3063]

It's not just what you do, it's how you do it. This video is an excellent example. Thanks, Rajiv.

[@daniesza]

The world is crumbling and our nation is all a lie, but here in Rajiv’s world life is coherent and safe. And beautiful

[@Earthy-Artist]

'Mr. Surendra's Neighborhood' 🙂.

[@ColetteNicoll]

Your nation is the reason why it seems the World is crumbling. If you came to Sydney, Melbourne, Christchurch, Suva, Noumea - you'd immediately see how kind & beautiful the outside world is - by comparison. We may be much "Younger" & perceived as smaller, but we're bathed in Beauty - rich and rare. I consider myself a City girl...& as a mature woman - I can stay out as long as I like - on our balmy Weekend nights. We complain about the 'nanny state' , but incivility is addressed. Mass Shooting ? Gun control. Public unruliness? Increaseed Alco-pop taxes. One Punch violence? Reduced alcohol licensing & venue lock outs/early closing times....

[@NomehoMasya]

Rajiv has to be one of the most amazing humans in the world ! Just love everything he teaches Us !❤ already one of my favorite videos this year .

[@suzettefennell3876]

I never imagined that I would watch a how to walk video but here I am 😅. I'll watch whatever Rajiv puts out. Also, walking and being fully aware (eyes and ears open) is a safety measure as well. Another great video, thank you Rajiv 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@emmamushroom257]

I watch these videos with my wonderful & intelligent autistic son. I really value simple elegance, beautiful manners, consideration for others & an appreciation of small things, & want to pass those values on to my children. Rajiv's sweet & thoughtful insights are so valuable to both of us in different ways. I'd love to see a video of how to make small talk with strangers, or the art of occasional public speaking!

[@oaklandcookie]

Love the video. Just a note- I'm a special education teacher and people who walk on their toes may have sensory issues. It doesn't affect people around them and isn't necessarily a sign that the person lacks confidence or purpose in their walk. Thanks for being open to learning about neurodiversity. :)

[@loriwong6173]

I read recently that it might be a sign of autism. Also, in some cultures, it is very common to shuffle, dragging their feet!

[@sarahmcdermott6889]

I have panic disorder and if I'm overstimulated, nervous, scared or just excited I walk like that. It seems to help me breathe and focus on the physical instead of the mental crap.

[@courtney9212]

Thank you for advocating for the neurodiverse in such a kind and gracious way.

[@Dinadino994]

Didn’t know this .. my adult daughter has always walked on her toes first since childhood . She was diagnosed on the spectrum. 👍

[@justcommenting4981]

​@@sarahmcdermott6889 so the assessment of you being scared was correct.

[@jadejohns3107]

Love this. Every country, major city no matter the culture needs a vlog like this.

[@VelcorHF]

As a guy who worked in New York City for 10 years, thank you for making this video. I hope everybody watches it, and I think it should be mandatory viewing before allowing tourists into the city.

[@tda1044]

Really!? Before allowing tourists into NY? How unwelcoming! Rajiv is a Torontonian 🇨🇦 teaching Americans how to walk in NY. Get that?

[@TheKylaShow]

I agree. My family went to nyc as a roadtrip but my mom would stop in the middle of the road to check directions and it bothered ne so much since nyc tends to be busy

[@TheKylaShow]

But not even because its a busy city. There was 7 of us and then it becomes a traffic jam and uts so rude

[@mister_manager]

@@tda1044 It's not unwelcoming, just common sense! The first time you're blocked by a tourist who stops at the bottom of a packed escalator, you're polite. The twentieth time, you're exasperated, and this is how New Yorkers get the reputation of being rude-with the scale of visitors who don't know these rules, this happens all the time. I say this as a New Yorker who loves to travel and tries (not always successfully) to be as polite as possible when I'm a tourist as well. All tourists should learn these rules!

[@dainasworldnumbers88]

Yes

[@ermeeleer]

The title sounds like self-parody but that's why I love it... It's something so fundamental that goes by everyday underappreciated, and where even basic decency and etiquette is often overlooked. Looking forward to more deportment videos! And I love how every video is about being purposeful and meaningful, it can be applied to choosing a fork or just walking outside ❤

[@terifahs9400]

My father also taught me that gentlemen always walk on the street side to protect those he's walking with. Common courtesy and NOT demeaning to the women in his like - a privilege to know he cared! Wow, do I miss him. Lovely, thoughtful piece.

[@AB.926]

I wish more men were like this. Some of them are so entitled specially when they pretend like women don’t exist.

[@kelliheiney]

My father did that same thing. He was such a wonderful, thoughtful man. What a gift we were given to be able to experience such precious people.

[@Gigi-wb8pe]

My husband does this. It's very thoughtful.

[@lizzies9307]

I’m absolutely a strong woman but I think EVERY woman appreciates when a man is looking out for her safety and comfort. It doesn’t mean a man doesn’t think we are capable of handling ourselves, it means we are valued and they are communicating that to us through their actions. You father was a class act ❤

[@Ri57490]

In reality, men are not that polite. E.g. usually when a man walks past a woman, the woman is the one who moves out the way for him. There have been experiments done where women purposefully did not move out the way for a man, and they ended up bumping into each other.

[@kaylachurch3510]

I love how simple, beautiful, and peaceful your videos are.

[@klmjtr]

Rajiv I think you are a little bit like a modern day Mr. Rodger’s! Who knew we needed this video? Thank you! 🙏🏼

[@nostraa6125]

I thought exactly the same thing! I was going to post it, but then I thought people would misunderstand and attack me! (People can be mean on social media, even this channel. One guy innocently said, "Rajiv I'd love you to decorate my apartment," and a reader totally misunderstood and was very mean to the person making the comment. Anyway, yes, Rajiv is like Mr. Rogers for adults, who never were taught civility. (We learned about "citizenship" in elementary school, but they don't teach it anymore.)

[@cherylbarrel9966]

What a great observation! 😄

[@nwoweikupamer]

Agree ,, and a Martha’ Stewart as well ,, love Rajiv s style -

[@angeldarling3]

Just needs puppets

[@vjhreeves]

​@@nwoweikupameryes! When I watched his video on making a shipping box I thought how Martha Stewart he is!

[@kingdingaling9756]

The walking video no one knew was coming but was needed. Thanks Rajiv!

[@sakinastraveldiary4562]

Only Rajiv can come up with such really simple topics and speak meaningfully on it ❤ Nowadays whenever i see anything beautiful i tell my husband Rajiv would have loved this 😂

[@SusannahPerri]

OMG, yes to everything you said! Regarding “seeing vignettes“ of your surroundings, that’s exactly how I have described it. And the architecture is historic art all around us. Thank you Rajiv!! 😊❤

[@Liz-og9gc]

I am so happy you created this video! Teach, my friend, teach! Mutual respect for our brothers and sisters! A true lesson that has been lost.

[@carlosparra8976]

I thought this was satire, then I became very sad to realize that people nowadays need a tutorial on how to walk in public

[@kisahaan]

What a singular talent you have of focusing on the present and making it significant. Any mundane activity can benefit from a thoughtful, slower approach, any passing task can blossom into something beautiful. I'm genuinely thankful for the reminder, Rajiv. Also, you clearly pour a lot of effort into filming and editing: the colours are lovely, the visuals are engaging and aesthetically pleasing. A precious gift, truly.

[@craigmerkey8518]

❤ So polite! I live him especially dressing like my 98 year old uncle!

[@PanosSG55]

This is something important that has lost its value over the time as people take "walking" just as granted as breathing or going to sleep. But it has its unwritten codex or etiquette, in that matter. Thank you Rajiv, it's the little things that make us human, considerate and also classy - in a non pretentious way.

[@dameanvil]

00:43 🚶 Be mindful of sharing space in a city, considering others' presence while walking. 01:13 👀 Stay attentive while walking, focus on looking forward, up, or at the sidewalk, being considerate of others' paths. 02:20 🚶‍♂ Walking on the side of sidewalks and being considerate of others' pace mimics a highway, helping everyone move smoothly. 03:11 🎧 Stay present while walking, avoiding earbuds to embrace city sounds and remain aware of surroundings. 04:28 👁 Look up to discover architectural details and hidden beauties on building rooftops. 06:17 🏛 Appreciate subtle architectural details like carved ledges, noticing craftsmanship and purpose. 07:05 🏙 Observe design transitions in architecture, noticing intricate details in building structures. 08:02 🚶‍♂ Walk with a sense of direction and purpose, reflecting confidence and impacting your life's direction. 09:13 🗺 Utilize clear sidewalk layouts in cities to walk purposefully and in a straight line. 10:01 🚶‍♂ Walk with confidence by planting your heels first, indicating security and confidence. 11:28 🌍 Impact society positively by walking consciously, considering others, and affecting change.

[@jori7398]

Rajiv this is an excellent PSA. I lived and walked in NYC for 22 years … pedestrian navigation is a life skill. To be graceful at this, it’s kind of like 1 part playing chess and 1 part sharing a stage with many clumsy ballerinas at any given time.

[@SmidBeach]

This needs to be shared with tourists in midtown Manhattan, because attempting to walk around there drives me up the freaking wall.

[@gracejones2831]

I live in Key West and most all the tourists just stop in the middle of the sidewalk to just chat or look at their phone. So many walk slowly while multitasking and cause everyone to have to walk off the curb and go around them , then back up on the sidewalk. Why the tourists do this, who knows

[@francobuhay9604]

As someone who also lives in the city I also adopted the practice of walking without earphones in the last year. The biggest change I’ve noticed is that in the absence of “theme music” the emotions and thoughts you have are your own and you are forced to react to the moment. Also wanted to mention that my fiancé and I passed you and a friend crossing Houston St last summer, but did not get the opportunity to say hello!

[@cinziaallocca974]

You are a gem, Rajiv!

[@solsticesummer982]

Always remember that living in society we live with persons who don’t have the ability to “be aware” of us, people who may walk on their toes or drag their feet because of a problem we might not know of. We can make our trek as elevated as we can, and add to that the elevation of being aware and respectful of our fellow travelers in life. Thank you Rajiv for your positive education! You improve us every episode and draw something into our consciousness we may have never considered. 💕

[@OphelieLechat]

This is so thoughtfully written. Reminding us to be generous and gracious, while acknowledging the desire to elevate each moment. ❤

[@MythicalPath]

This is why you are such a Special human being!

[@irishphilly]

Oh, Rajiv, you knew this wasn't really a vid about walking. Being mindful & walking meditation is a practice, being able to walk is a gift, & factors ranging from physical & neurodiversity, gender, security & street life, shoes, natty fashion, observation & art...it's never dull in Rajiv's corner. Some treat Woke as a cuss, others find Woke the amusing art of waking up. Some of the best lyrics, lines, sketches---originated in a chance moment. To love being on the planet---even in the insanity, being above the sod is where its at & Groovy.

[@shazzabelle123]

These tips have so many benefits! From improving posture, to boosting confidence, to situational awareness, to being considerate to making an experience for oneself whenever you walk around.

[@jamesallison4875]

I walked many miles in the city when I was about your age. It was one of my greatest pleasures. I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment of the situation. Trying my best to be considerate of others, I really soaked it all in. I also had many brief encounters with people as various as doormen to the inhabitants of the wonderful old apartment buildings. You evoked many beautiful memories. Thanks!

[@joan-lisa-smith]

Yes, me too. I spent decades doing the same in Toronto, from teen years, then with my kids as they grew up. Hiking all the various neighbourhood side streets, admiring the architecture and having brief but interesting exchanges with people. From new comers sharing how they came to move here, elderly sharing how their spouse of decades just passed and they are sitting on their fav bench they uses to sit on together, to mentally ill sharing their delusions. It was all fascinating as were the details of the old homes on oak lined streets or the lines of laundry hanging way up out windows in low income areas. I loved it and instilled that in my kids too. After 50 years I had a random chance to move to a small county place on a small acreage 5 years ago and took the plunge. Lots of nice things here and it's feels good to grow my own food etc but I (unlike other country folk) I still love big cities and sometimes miss the energy of it. Cool things like the fact that I could hang out a window and pass a cup of sugar to a neighbour in the next low rise reaching out of theirs, lol. I have to drive to a neighbour now. I used to be able to tell how cold it was by how the fumes out of cars, or smoke out of a chimney, hung in the air as it escaped. With no one in sight I have to have a gauge outside to read or check online. Lots of changes like that. Anyhoo, sorry for the rant but your comment sent me down memory lane. It's nice we have those memories.

[@azinaz1625]

If I made a KZbin video titled’ How to walk in public’ it would get one or two likes and even I’d think I was weird. I absolutely love that you cherish and respect every day things from whitening your laundry to cooking to art. We need lots more of this! People are looking for simplicity and the beauty in that ❤

[@ShaunMacWilliams]

Walk present, walk pleasent and with purpose. I love this!! A little reminder, from what seems like a bygone era.

[@maxon1672]

It’s amazing that this video even has to be made…. but thanks for making it. Also that jumpsuit is ferocious.

[@debcarroll8192]

I grew up in New Orleans, a very beautiful city which is unfortunately prone to crime, so my first thought was actually that you were going to talk about how to make sure you don't get pickpocketed or mugged while walking around! I love your thoughtfulness and consideration for others.

[@Yessica13]

Walking with confidence and awareness can decrease your chances of being mugged

[@debby42162]

You just seem like the nicest person. I enjoy listening to your calming voice and watching your videos. You leave me feeling so calm and relaxed. And you're not bad to look at either. 😊

[@ihatehandles111]

Yess!! I wish they taught this etiquette in school! I grew up in NYC and walking down the street can often be VERY frustrating because people are often so inconsiderate and unaware. Walk on the RIGHT side of the street if it's crowded, please! Keep your dogs VERY CLOSE to you! Do not let your dogs block me or touch me! If you're walking with a group of people, do NOT take up the entire width of the sidewalk! God I could yell about this for hours lol.

[@pman2916]

Rajiv, this video is much needed. There's always someone that suddenly stops in the middle of the footpath to answer their phone or to get something out of their bag. Like you, I always step to the side when I need to do anything because I don't like to inconvenience someone. It's amazing how many people are either unaware or don't care by their surroundings. Thank you for this video, I'm sure you have viewer's that needed to see this.

[@bonniekane8547]

Oh, Rajiv, I love you! You never fail to bring a smile to my face and my soul. Even the simplest things you make into an art. I like walking in NYC (or any other city) because there is so much architecture to look at. When I was young and my family would go to the city, my dad would hold my hand and make me walk so fast that I couldn’t look up. I had to just concentrate on the sidewalk and the people. It wasn’t fun and I didn’t feel like I saw anything. I like walking with my husband better because he will let me set the pace and look at things. I know that this doesn’t apply in NYC but in a Southern city, if you are walking and you pass someone, you are supposed to make eye contact, at a minimum, smile and nod, or preferably smile and say hello. Even if you don’t know the person. When I first moved down south, this amazed me. But I got used to it and it became a habit. All these years later, I still do it when I’m walking, just not in NYC or a European city.

[@zsuzsimeszaros2479]

Thank you for this. So many inconsiderate people on the sidewalks. Walking on the sidewalk is the same rule as driving. Walk on the right and be considerate of others. So many people walking on the wrong side, or walking four wide or walking while texting. Makes me crazy. Thank you for the reminder to the world that is it easy to be considerate. ❤

[@karalynne7616]

Yea, New Yorkers don't follow the passing on the right thing. Try it here and you will drive yourself nuts. We pass whichever way most makes sense for the situation;)

[@yvonnerolley9676]

Unless in southern hemisphere -it’s on the left side same as driving

[@earth2air2water]

This video needed to be made. Thank you. It absolutely blows my mind to see people and families block an entire sidewalk so that noone can pass them.

[@gwencrosswhite9329]

What a fabulous topic. Walking is a divine pleasure for me. It is a treasure hunt for my mind, body and soul. I feel as though I become one with the city and it is thrilling. I often am wearing a big smile because I am full of joy and it is infectious to those around me. They smile or nod in response. You are so right. The vignettes have lasted a lifetime for me. Just watching you walk makes me happy 😊

[@Ruby-kr6fh]

Yesterday someone said to me “thank you for your smile” I was wearing a mask but he could see it through my eyes

[@MossyMozart]

What a cleaver and useful topic! Another thing about showing confidence when walking in large cities is that you will not appear to be a vulnerable, lost target. One of the things I love the most about walking in New York City is hearing all the foreign language conversations of my fellow walkers. The diversity is so exciting!

[@utahdan231]

On my last staying in Upper West side I walked a lot and discovered awesome architecture. Beautiful city. Thank you. Keep walking.

[@ScottAtwood]

Your joy in the everyday is absolutely delightful!

[@maryb.222]

I loved this video. It reminded me of something I once heard a self defense teacher say about walking at night. He said research had shown that attackers are always aware of anyone appearing weak, unsure and lacking in confidence walking down a street. These are the people they zone in on and make their victims. It is very important to walk confidently and purposefully in public for lots of reasons! My husband’s pet peeve (we live in Munich) is when someone just stops in front of the escalator, and thus causes everyone else to stop behind them, in a place where it’s truly inconvenient. We spent 12 years living in London so we’re very aware of walking in big cities and adapting to crowds too. Thanks for this beautiful video Rajiv. I also appreciated the colourful leaves, the building facades, not to mention your gorgeous jumpsuit. You are dapper personified! Have a wonderful day ❤

[@lovelyday04]

I understand how you think...the gentle slopes on the marble wall. Yes, i'm always analyzing and observing how things are made, and why they are made that way. I love efficiency and beauty and purpose combined.

[@urbinblytte429]

brilliant rajiv-- i walk and bike like a madman; every where. pet peeve--ear buds are a barrier to the walking/riding experience--i see folks walking a local path thru the woods--complexly missing the gifts of mother nature. its gonna snow tomorrow a.m.--cant wait to have a walk thru the woods with new snow, early early in the morning. mother nature is such an artist.

[@catherinepantsios7920]

YES, YES, YES! It did my heart good to watch this, Rajiv--the way you walk is actually the embodiment of my philosophy of life. It makes me feel much less of a weirdo to know that you, too, are out there on the sidewalk, stepping aside to check your map, appreciating subtle architectural details, respecting other people's space, digging the soundscape of the city. The only thing I would add, though I know this might not work in some neighborhoods of NYC, is that I try to smile and greet people that I pass. I've made a whole study of who is going to be receptive and who's too zoned out to realize that they're sharing the planet with other human beings. If I should pass you on the street, I'll definitely say ""Good Morning!".

[@juls182]

I like you. You're just like me.

[@erica8195]

This is such an interesting comment to me because it reminds me of this woman in our neighborhood who I’d sometimes encounter in the morning when walking our dog. It was like she was on a personal mission to make sure everyone heard her resounding “Good morning!”, but without regard to whether they were open to receive that message. There were several times I had my earbuds on listening to a soothing book or guided meditation on my early morning walks and wanted to be left alone, yet she would yell GOOD MORNING from across the road, despite my subtle indications of not wanting to interact with anyone. I was even on a phone call with my phone clearly up to my ear one time when she did this to me. Overall, it felt very invasive and irritating. You sound the exact opposite of her, actually studying people to see if they’d be receptive. Although I have to say, not everyone is too zoned out; some of us just do not feel like interacting all the time. 🙂

[@noseynurse4339]

Rajiv, Now you need to make one for grocery store shopping with a cart!! Stay in their lane while shopping and not in the center of the aisle.. 🙄😂😂 It's endless☺️

[@carlasamuels479]

Yes plz supermarket behavior makes me go super early or very late when hardly anybody in the store

[@__Henry__]

I like how sensible these views are that Rajiv shares.

[@KateEASN]

Thanks for showing the architectural details! Paying attention can be so beautiful.

[@DeloresLowndes]

It is amazing how many people need to be told the basics of simple consideration for others.

[@amysinger1]

a love letter to NYC, so beautiful

[@sentientbeans]

You sharing your love about the things we take for granted just brings a smile to my face. Thank you for helping remind us to be present, appreciate the things around us, and just enjoy life!

[@sagareeka4946]

Only you Rajiv could have thought of this topic for a video and must agree it's soooo gratifying. Meditation made walkable❤

[@gabrielascaife2029]

These basics should be taught at school , and there should be another video on how to sit , that also reflects what happens inside 😢 I loved this ! ❤

[@mansikkaviili256]

The advice we need but did not know we needed 😂

[@mishguna7]

💯

[@rest.in.pieces]

Walking in public makes me self conscious about things I didn’t know I was self conscious about 💀

[@tomjwoodify]

Thank you for teaching us how to be a human beings. Some people seem to forget and behave like space aliens, trolls, monsters, or mindless zombies.

[@TheUglyCook]

I didn’t realise that this is something one needs to muster until this video came out. Shaking my head, surprised and thankful. Ms. Two Left Feet here

[@rajivsurendra]

Thanks for watching!

[@brendamarrero1335]

I love you Rajiv!!! I'm a special needs teacher and your teaching is amazing!!!

[@aliciahambly6629]

Love the boiler suit ❤

[@lauradamico6503]

This man is so sweet and wholesome to make educational videos on basic skills in an encouraging, constructive manner. Also I can tell he is left handed, anyone else agree?

[@terriebirdcumminsjamison1368]

I just adore your videos. They calm my soul and help to keep track of the tiny blessings. My grandmother told me, you don’t have to look down if you look straight ahead. The path, even the ground, appears when you keep your eyes straight ahead. It’s this weird trick of perspective.Things are in the range of 8-10 feet ahead, so you need to remember before you get there! But it works! Watching this I realize we both walk quite a bit alike? I like that! And my whole family likes YOU!👍🏼♥️🙏🏼☀️🌎😎

[@nwdo6084]

So wonderful to be so thoughtful and considerate with how Rajiv walks down the sidewalk! The world would be a much better place if most people think this way!

[@secretehouse7163]

Rajiv your walking tour, is a feast for the eyes and soul...especially for those of us who haven't been able to travel to New York, or other landmark places. I'm disabled ,so walking for me is a mental and physical daily feat. So it means a great deal to me personally, to be able to " travel" in this way. Please if you can make it manifest, do some touring , and film it for the viewers of your channel❤

[@FairnessFobe]

I always walk like that. With purpose. Not aimlessly. Thanks Rajiv.

[@brittneyemerson2079]

This video opens up a conversation of observation and further education. How someone walks can say a lot about what is going on inside of them, this is especially true of toe walkers and those who drag their feet. Medical conditions can be the source of these forms of walking and should be looked at with greater consideration. It is not often a movement one chooses but actually ones they have tried very hard to adjust for not only their health but safety. Last time I was in NYC I made a conscious effort to look up to observe the architecture! Stunning!