How Twin Flames Heal

[@Flufero23]

I think I am healing. I don't feel angry anymore about the issues that used to trigger me. (I must say that some things still don't make sense.Lol). I know I'm healing because I am no longer angry about his dumping me for another woman. Nor am I jealous of her. It is what it is. He has to go where his path takes him. I am focusing on my spiritual journey and my life.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

That's great. No one likes a breakup but I hope it made you a better and stronger person. I'm sure you'll find someone special who appreciates you.

[@Flufero23]

Thhanks. Yes. After hours of inner work each day for a year, I have healed. I am focusing on my spiritual journey and have reached my inner union. I am peaceful and calm. Life is good now that I understand this journey is Divinely ordained. Peace and love.💕🙏

[@cheltonnunesjunior]

8 seconds in and I am already mind blown. That first sentence resonated with every single cell in my body.

[@emilymartin6273]

I had a catalyst twin that caused me to learn about TF and then met my true twin 6 months later. How I know that I’m healing is that he told me exactly the lessons I’d be learning and integrating during separation. Then when I integrated those lessons, he came back and started chasing me. This happened twice and so now, I finally see the pattern and can stop it. I think when the ego hears separation, it’s like oh this will be months and that’s not the case if you actually learn the lessons and continuing growing.

[@ta-ya-music]

Catalyst twin and true twin? Twin flames are one and only for each other right? Im confused

[@cheltonnunesjunior]

This video will have me take a long walk. Your articulation of this topic is surreal. We Are The Same indeed. Bravo. ❤

[@lizaluz4096]

That broccoli metaphor 😂

[@wearethesamenergy]

It was the best one I could come up with! 😂

[@lizaluz4096]

@@wearethesamenergy it's simply perfect, in so many ways😆

[@giancarlodulanto2668]

You completely are helping people get into union if it is a true twin. But you are 100 right in the sense that essentially the suffering is coming from the ego/drama.

[@monacaltabiano936]

Yay, it appears I'm healing. Must be all of that broccoli I've eaten which I actually love. Thank you, Alex for all of your wisdom! 🙏🪶🕊️

[@kikikauffmann]

Omg you just started and within 10 seconds you stated exactly what I learnt during my ayahuwaska experience

[@twinflamerehab]

Fear of intimacy usually starts to heal with a good therapist/coach, not with the person who triggers the wounds. I tell my clients to keep checking in with their twin to see if they are doing actual healing work. People will happily tell you when they have started their therapy/sobriety journey. Otherwise we heal by leaving the dynamic and finding healthy love elsewhere. Painful but possible and necessary!

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm all for therapy; I've been in it most of my life and study it extensively. I also talk about getting therapy in my videos because I don't want people to rely solely on esoteric concepts to heal trauma, and I definitely don't want people to be re-traumatized by Soul Family relationships. With that being said, there are people who can heal without the use of therapy and with spirituality, so we can't just lump everyone together and call it a day. 🙏🙏

[@LoveAndLight2040]

This approach will never work with twins. Soul mates yes but not twins. Bc it’s all energy and it cannot be comprehended with the mind. Checking in with the other is push energy and will repel. It’s not work to be done in normal therapy sessions

[@Flufero23]

This is so true. I mostly healed myself of emotional problems with spirituality: meditation, affirmations, prayer, etc. I know this because I worked in the mental health field as a social worker/therapist.Of course it depends on the individual and the situation.

[@noahalexander26]

​@@Flufero23same

[@Creatrix11]

This was absolutely brilliant and the broccoli metaphor Genius thank you so much 🙏 I'm so grateful I found your channel.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Thank you for watching!

[@juliajanina9424]

and the comparison with broccoli is so good!

[@jenndavis9808]

Im such an emotional mess right now . I can’t get over this separation this time and it’s causing me so much heartbreak. Definitely need guidance here

[@wearethesamenergy]

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[@ZenGal]

Hi Alexx, Was wondering when you stopped chasing during separation did it initially feel strange? I can hardly believe but after 2 years of separation and being unable to detach and stop (energetically) chasing/tuning to him - no matter how hard I tried - I’ve all of a sudden seemed to naturally detach from him physically and it feels weird, but also right. I really want to keep going and surrender into this new state/phase, because it feels obviously healthy for me. But just wanted to check if the feelings I’m having are quite common - like I still love him deeply and he’s the only one in my heart, yet I’m completely detached to what he’s doing in the 3D and because of that there’s this newfound sense of distance (at least in the 3D) Is the experience of the chaser ceasing chasing like letting a bird truly fly out of your hand and letting that distance exist, and trusting if their yours they will come back? Do I truly “let him go”?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Are you detached or non-attached? There is a big difference, and I would suggest watching my series "Non-Attachment and Union" on my website, because it's completely about this 🙏

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I haven't seen her in 6 months. I've been praying she heals of her pain and sadness and any past trauma. I saw her yesterday and she seemed a little different. More confident and talking to others and smiling more. Maybe I'm imagining it who knows. Maybe she found another guy and is happy. I didn't get a chance to say hi so I don't know if she's truly changed. I loved her spiritually and still do but I can live without her although I'll never quite get why it didn't work out for us.

[@ilikeacoustic28]

Thank you for making a video on this! I believe I was one of the ones that requested a deep dive into this! What you said about the chaser's healing resonates 100% with my experience. If I understood correctly what you said about the runner's trajectory, it's as if the healing "seeds" are planted and watered during union with the chaser but these seeds can only germinate when the runner takes the space away from the relationship to mature and change their perspective? So in a sense both twins heal on their own while in separation, correct?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes and no. Yes to the seeds being planted during reunion. However, the Runner doesn't actually heal in separation until the Chaser stops chasing (Non-attachment). The Runner only really heals during reunion prior to that 💜🙏

[@Близнецовыепламена.ПутьДуши]

Hello, would it be possible to create a video for topic what exactly TF heals. What i mean.. on many web sites and video are generally says about ego death, traumas etc, but it would be nics to understand with examples, how ego interferes in tf process, what chaser thinks during separation, what tools are used for healing, what type of trauma there, how it effects separation. And also about trust in jouney! Also how to trust connection because ego always doubt. Thx you so much❤🎉

[@wearethesamenergy]

On my website I have a video series specifically for the Chaser that covers all of these. But to answer the first question, what is being healed are symptom Karmic lessons and the Core Karmic Lesson. 🙏

[@erinyoung7258]

Super helpful! Thank you. Sidebar: where do you shop for clothes, Alexx? Terrific construction and styling.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Haha, thank you! This shirt is from Free People, actually! Just a plain linen shirt by them. All of my other collared shirts are by Reformation. They have the best button-ups 💜

[@erinyoung7258]

Well, some wear button-downs and some wear button-ups. Thank you for being the latter. 🤣@@wearethesamenergy

[@wearethesamenergy]

😉

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Agreed she's always nicely dressed. And her makeup always looks great.

[@sisixox]

love you so much ur vids are changing my life

[@wearethesamenergy]

Love that! Thanks for watching!

[@oceanofgreen]

Could you make a video of astrology and TF ? What can our birthcharts tell us when trying to figure out if we are in fact on a twin flame journey, if there are aspects in the charts that could point to a twin flame relationship? And how the chart could give information on how to navigate the journey ?

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would love to, but I'm not an astrologer by trade and don't feel comfortable relaying all of this information without giving it the proper importance that it deserves 🙏

[@oceanofgreen]

@@wearethesamenergy ah, I'm sure you would make a wonderful video on this too. But I get it appreciate you knowing your limitations! Is there any content you could recommend on this topic ? Other videos or an astrologer to work with or to follow ?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Do you have both of your birth charts? My suggestion would be to look at what your nodes are between the two of you; any major planetary transits happening when you met and where those happened in your charts; when separations were and what transits were happening then (and where they are in your charts), just to start. I unfortunately don't know if any astrologers who do TF chart readings, but I'm sure you can find some if you do some digging! 💜

[@Shae315]

@@oceanofgreenK Moon here on KZbin does readings for twin flames. She does not confirm/deny whether you are twins or not, but she can see which lessons you're both working through at any given time or throughout your life.

[@oceanofgreen]

Thank you !@@Shae315

[@San-69]

Thanks 🙂 O.. and a hug

[@sannathure]

Is it possible that you can store your twins childoodtrauma in your own body? I had some issues in my body since I dont know for how long.. and now when it startes to move I get words and feelings that seems connected to his childhood. It feels like Im in his body as a kid! Would be very interesting, and helpful, if you would like to talk more on this topic! Thank you for very informative and helpful videos 😊

[@wearethesamenergy]

Have you watched my video "Twin Flame Connection Signs (during separation)?" Also, my book talks about why this is happening on a scientific level

[@sannathure]

⁠​⁠@@wearethesamenergyyes I did! Very helpfu! Though I experience some of the experiences are easier to ’clean off’ and others seems to be deeper intertwined in my own body. Just trying to figure out how much takeing part of his healing is inevitable and how much I can ’rinse off’..not to get too loaded myself. If you have more information in your book about this Ill check it out! Thanks 😊

[@fifiabdullah8276]

My twin and I seperate every time when I reach a point I feel I am giving more than I receive.. And when I ask him to be in his masculine energy in implicit way.. He withdraw from the relationship.. I know in my heart my lesson is to respect my worth and not give in without receiving.. I was strong enough to let him go and knew he is not ready for me yet.

[@wearethesamenergy]

When you reach a point where you're giving more than you receive, you are no longer growing and expanding, so it makes sense that you're separating at that point. But you may want to watch my video "Letting Go of Expectations"

[@Secret_Sun33]

Am i a broccoli? Existential crisis begins😢😂

[@wearethesamenergy]

😂😂

[@wearethesamenergy]

Rose, broccoli, potato, tomato, human, animal, earth, planets...all the same thing 🙂

[@AdreyM978]

As a runner this is on point 😪 I like broccoli now 😂

[@talmoryanoy]

I feel that on the serface I am the chaser, but in the depths I am the runner. I just left my twin, because i am overwhelmed because of the pain of being around him and experiance connection. Can you make a video about these two topics?

[@ibehchukwuemeka1417]

This video is the beet ever 😅I’m in reunion with my masculine 😂he told me how he loves me deeply but he still need my true love 💕 for him❤

[@kyratanner516]

What is the point of multiple separations and are there always multiple separations in twin flame relationships?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes there are always separations. I would suggest you watch some videos on my Twin Flame playlist to answer the first question 🙏

[@zealiabella8553]

Hi Alex, thank you for another informative video. I would like to know if a twin can leach on your energies? I have two spots on my body that hurts whenever thoughts of this person (who I don’t know 100% is my twin or not) comes up. Any clarification would help. Thank you. All the best to you 💜✨🙏

[@wearethesamenergy]

My suggestion would be to do a full body scan and imagine pushing all of that energy down and out through the soles if your feet. Then inhale bright white light up into the body. Are the painful areas located near the chakra points?

[@zealiabella8553]

Thank you so much for your response. Yes, they are in my sacral, solar, heart and throat. It creates a lovesick feeling.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Also make sure you're taking care of yourself. Solar plexus is personal power, throat is speaking your truth. Maybe do some affirmations about strength 🙏

[@zealiabella8553]

@@wearethesamenergythank you so much for your advice. This journey is all about our self care isn’t it? When our cups are full, we can help others. All the best and highest vibrations to you 💜✨🙏

[@M.M.49]

Oh I have a similar question: I have had a problem with my ancle prior to experiencing ego degeneration symptoms and a period of illness (with pain without cause etc) and I remember even the moment when I slipped and what I thought about back then. I went to TCM and the point is again connected to my kidney meridian. It repulses and reappears frequently also when I separated from my soulmate relationship. Now the person who I suspect to be my Twin started to have a problem with the right foot. My interpretation is that this is connected to self-worth and femininity/masculinity issues, narcissistic or self absorbed tendencies in both of us and the urge to live a life with a bigger purpose or positiv impact for the world. Would it make sense to understand the places in my ankle (and his foot) as points of old karmic baggage we have to solve and as connection points at the same time?

[@dancingcloud8557]

I have been so obsessed with how to get them back, that i didnt wonder the why. Does that mean that i am the runner?

[@great9122]

Hi Alex, Does healing guarantee union? If we would like to be with our twin flame in this lifetime is it a possibility if we heal?

[@wearethesamenergy]

There is no "guarantee" to anything if you're dealing with the Ego, but there is at least a choice of 3D union if you come into union with the self 🙏🙏

[@lancelottyrell6793]

I like that your vibrational offerings come with simplicity without being simplistic....I am a male DF , who is married to my twin for 15 years and when she separated 2 1/2 years now and as u know it was something else. I have a question, even though I have grown leaps and bounds, I get triggered thinking about her being with someone else, I was her first and the girls are feeling the pains of the separation, now 😊 more than I do.....am I in fear based energy???

[@manjarigopal8024]

Iam from India. Theres not many guides here and iam left out in dark with many doubts. Your videos are a shining light for me. But i have some doubts which i want to clarify because my DM is 70 and iam 40. I really wish him a smooth TF journey considering his age and limited time which is unknown for us as of now. We are currently in separation and he might be going through this ego degradation and other awakening stuffs right now. Is there a way where i can get in touch with you because i really wish him not much suffering in this though i know its divinely guided. Iam not looking for any quick fixes though. Pls assist me... With hopes and gratitude... From India ❤

[@wearethesamenergy]

Take a look at my website and the consultation packages. For some reason, it doesn't allow purchases from India, but if you'd like to book a consult with me, use the contact form and we can book it through PayPal.

[@stzrodzsenquiz]

I healed but met a soulmate, my TF was already in a third party relationship during separation and my soulmate came in during this separation. Where does that leave me?

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame." You also might want to read my book

[@LizzyBobbySofie]

It is possible that after two years of intens ( intens is an understatement 🤣)feeling it stops? I still think of him during the day,everyday, but I don’t care anymore what the outcome is and I wonder if I am still in love..it doesn’t feel the same anymore…

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes! 💜🙏 Are you sure you're not in union with yourself?

[@LizzyBobbySofie]

@@wearethesamenergy If you could only see my face right now… good question.. 😇… eh I guess I am..still seeing everything as separate.😜… After many psychedelic trips still doesn’t ( really) get the message 😵‍💫thank you for your answer♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@wearethesamenergy]

Ah, I see. Okay, well then maybe you've just found beautiful non-attachment from the 3D physical Twin

[@LizzyBobbySofie]

@@wearethesamenergy I hope I did…🙂💗💗

[@GodKnowsWhoAmI]

​@@wearethesamenergycould u pls elaborate a bit more on this point.

[@abilisimo7453]

We had a reunion with my dm, he opened his heart after so many years he said I’m the one that he wants to marry. But after a while, I couldn’t feel his energy Anymore. I dreamed about him having a girlfriend behind my back which was true unfortunately.. he lied to me for almost 2 years. He keeps saying „don’t give up on us“ „she shows me love but I still feel empty“ „don’t break my heart“ „I need you“ etc. I really don’t know what to do anymore. He’s living with her .. I feel like a side piece.

[@wearethesamenergy]

You may want to watch my videos "Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation," and "Twin Flame versus Karmic." 🙏

[@FreeDom-fv8wy]

I'm curious how many others you know about that healed in reunion (vs on their own). Do you encounter many twin flames in your soul family work? I was thinking you may want to do an example of what your work looks like.

[@wearethesamenergy]

I will talk about this in my video about where I get my information from, which will be out in November.

[@FreeDom-fv8wy]

@wearethesamenergy I have gotten soo much from your channel, especially when you were with your twin and he shared his side. I looked on your site, and although I'm positive everything you offer is a huge contribution, an example will help. I understand the reasons you didn't want us to focus on our twin. For me tho it helped to surrender even more and fully trust the process.

[@wearethesamenergy]

What do you want examples of?

[@FreeDom-fv8wy]

@wearethesamenergy As far as your work goes, it would be neat to hear about the kind of things one might learn so we can see how it helps us on our journey. I can't discern if or how often you work with twin flames and get input from them? That type of info is very valuable for us still in separation (even though I'm ok with it). So samples of the way your sessions have helped other twins and insights from the other twin is helpful in surrendering. (If you ever want to chat we could, I know writing isn't always clear).

[@wearethesamenergy]

I work with clients every single day from all over the world, and I would never share their personal experiences with the public. If you would like to have a consultation with me, you can book one on my website 🙏

[@AishaSoni-pu9lm]

Hey alexx i have been binge watching your videos in hopes of finding answers and while they are amazing i am a little confused…i wanted to ask something regarding my situation as i couldn’t contact you directly umm so this guy who i think of as my apparent tf and i have never been in a relationship and the end 4 months of last year we were seeing eachother and i wanted something serious and he didn’t and we didn’t talk for another 5 months and i was in pain for all those months and he just came back a few days ago and asked about my whereabouts and stuff and i got hope and started to hold onto it and soon realised i still want a relationship and he doesn’t and i am scared to lose him again and go through the pain and what i have heard you say is you cant heal in union and he still doesn’t want to give commitment so either we go into another separation or i hope that we can maybe work this out somehow by talking and me hoping someday down the line this becomes an actual thing i mean we are not friends but he isnt ready to commit and wasnt as well before this and still i think i want the same thing but also want to not lose him and give it a try but then again i am scared to repeat what happened last time… can you pls tell me what i could do in a situation like this.. i mean i am scared and i wish he wouldnt have texted all together… can i hope to heal while hoping to have something with him in the future or cut it off again cause i have seen how it was earlier and very much seems like could happen again and that maybe a relationship is never going to be possible…he seems he is looking out for himself and doesn’t care about me while i am suffering and in pain and want this as well so idk what i should do.. pls give some advice.. would be grateful

[@wearethesamenergy]

Worrying about what the future brings is the Ego attempting to take control of the situation because it's been hurt and is now trying to protect itself. Am I correct in saying that you have abandonment issues? Can you work on healing that, and you won't be as scared for what the future brings? Remember that you are everything and can never truly be abandoned.

[@AishaSoni-pu9lm]

@@wearethesamenergy thankyou for this but i don’t understand if keeping this or him in my life rn is the best idea or if i can heal with him being here cause what happened last time can happen again and i mean there is No guarantee it wont happen and this time will be different so ig that’s making me scared..if its the same old same old situation and nothing changes then idk if keeping this while hoping it turns out better with absolutely no guarantee would serve me well..

[@LightersWorld]

Sometimes m do feeling did I did wrong not doing what they asked me to do as at that time i thought he would don't take any wrong action bcoz he loves me but the ego just got more impt than love and things happen..later he did apologies i to asked it's time come out but might the Karmic part was much strong so the lessons was meant to be learned.. sometimes when we know all the back story its quite hard to deal bcoz even though knowing most things we are just helpess in act..but yes at back universe works.. trust faith is all can have

[@deborahlara]

Thank you. ❤

[@jeffreypowell5353]

Maybe preemptive, as I paused the video to make this comment, but If the runner heals in reunion only then how does he even get to the point of returning? That seems contradictory. Even in your own Q&A Runner video with your Twin he says he had to "acknowledge and accept" that this was a Twin Flame journey before he ever was ready to return. Without healing, how does one acknowledge and accept something that they were previously refuting?

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would suggest either reading my book or joining our Patreon channel where my Twin and I put out videos/podcasts every week

[@Sonia-um2bm]

Hi 👋 I heard that the healings that we do can benefit our twin, is this right?

[@wearethesamenergy]

In the 5D, yes

[@rohanpalav9322]

🔴🔴Does Twin flames has to be lovers or they would fall in love in future??🔴🔴

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Twin Flame Stages" video

[@ambergray4892]

Does the runner/chaser dynamic change and reverse roles? He initially chased me but I ran (i suppose) and we were in separation for 7yrs. Then we started hanging out again and I became the chaser (went through the whole DNOS phase) while he is currently running.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes, they are different at the beginning and at union.

[@ambergray4892]

So if he was the chaser at the beginning, would that mean that he became aware of the connection between us during the first separation? I know why I became the chaser and lessons I needed to learn and heal from, but since we are the same, wouldn't he know as well because we both had the same core-karmic lesson to learn?

[@wearethesamenergy]

He'll know the connection is there, he just won't call it a TF

[@M.M.49]

I was wondering about this too: we often come to some kind of meta perspective when we talk suddenly saying things like we both seem to run from each other. But recently the annoyance about each others egos (with a whole lot of projection also) has increased, resulting in sharper shifts in running/chasing. Given that we know each other since we are young would that mean we are on a good way to understand what we both need to resolve not to annoy each other with all the ego stuff?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You may want to watch my video "Soul Family Frequency (Exhaustion)" It's an old video but it talks about this exactly.

[@Allofitnthensum]

How do you know if you’re a runner or chaser?

[@wearethesamenergy]

If you're asking, you're not on a TF journey :)

[@camadhembree6301]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️

[@xtrmdvndiva]

My second separation ended on Sept. 5th when my twin reached out after about 14 months. We still haven't seen each other in person yet, only conversed through text. His energy towards me is very passionate and lustful. I can sense he wants to move fast like we did the last time, and even though that time between us before was beautiful and vulnerable, it triggered us both, him especially. He became overwhelmed by love and ran. I don't want to make the same mistake and I've explained that much to him - that I want us to take things slow this time - but more times than not, his energy towards me remains lustful. Do you have any tips to help guide things in a more favorable direction? Is this a common occurrence between twin flames during reunion?

[@wearethesamenergy]

This is a great topic and I'll make a video on it

[@xtrmdvndiva]

@@wearethesamenergy Thank you for replying! I would greatly appreciate that, and look forward to that video in the future! 🙏🏻

[@Misticaquantica]

I think I’m healing, I’m starting loving brócolis 🥦 😂

[@rayofsunshine1698]

What if im no longer mad but i feel like i should be mad? Is that just ego?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Why do you want to be mad?

[@rayofsunshine1698]

@@wearethesamenergy I feel like if I don't hold onto the anger others will see it as permission to treat me any kind of way.

[@wearethesamenergy]

That's very interesting! So you're holding poison in your body (because anger is slow-acting poison) in order to show others that they can't poison you? 💜

[@rayofsunshine1698]

@@wearethesamenergy it's more of the feeling of not being able to hold anger in general. Since my awakening I'm in peace 95% of the time and I don't want to seem like a pushover. I be so at peace I don't realize until later that someone tried to get over on me.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Oh, I totally get this feeling! Just make sure you're not avoiding the feeling of anger because it triggers something deeper that you don't want to deal with.

[@sisiphian]

is it impossible for the runner to heal on their own?

[@wearethesamenergy]

If you've been together for periods of time, when they are alone is when everything gets ingrained that they learned by being with you

[@sisiphian]

@@wearethesamenergy then, as the runner, am I doomed to keep going back before healing is complete? is it impossible for me to come to understand and come back cleanly, permanently? or, more so, just hard?

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@sisiphian No, that's what choice is for.

[@caitstanley6392]

I didn’t quite get how runner heals in union??

[@wearethesamenergy]

They are being triggered by the Twin and hit on their Ego enough for it to begin breaking down

[@caitstanley6392]

@@wearethesamenergy ahhhh okay okay!

[@wearethesamenergy]

@laurapavone3513 hahaha

[@juliajanina9424]

love lala land :)

[@trishstewart121]

❤❤❤

[@liebe_.]

After i turned down a man who wanted me (not my twin), he said, well when i was a kid i didn't like asparagus, but i grew to like it. Insinuating i would grow to like him. GROSS. 🤢🤮😂😂😂😂😂

[@wearethesamenergy]

Hahaha

[@fleurmassey]

🤍