HOW WE SURVIVED OUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP || TOLULOPE AND GBEMIGA ADEJUMO

Hey Team Solutions,
We are currently in Kenya and decided to make this video that has been requested for so long.
Asante.
Music: RetroVison - Cake [NCS Release]
“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the LORD shall be praised”
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Location: Nairobi, Kenya

[@mercyogunnusi5480]

Gbemiga and Temitope. God bless you both for the vlogs. I am a married woman with three children by the grace of God. My husband proposed to me some few days before his official trip (18 Months) outside the country and I had to call on Holy spirit to give me guidance on the response to give to him. He(Holyspirit) did help me and the response was positive. My husband did not return back until two weeks before our wedding (one year apart).My family introduction as he instructed was done in his absence. In a nutshell, I am a product of long distance relationship. We marked our 14th years anniversary in June 2018. Its Baba God noni.... Gbemiga was right saying "What help trust is trust", because there were some distractions which I purposely ignored. For instance, someone said, how can a man who graduated from one of the best universities in Nigeria with an opportunity to travel officially come back for HND holder. But I had to put my trust in God who saw me through. Communication helped then, unfortunately, no video opportunity but my church with the help of our pastor enabled me to wait after services to receive calls from him. It was seriously challenging because I would have to arrive home late in the night due of 6 to 7 hours time difference. At a point, his best friend became uncomfortable with the situation and bought me a desk top MULTILINK phone so as to always receive calls at home. We eventually got married and its been awesome. With my husband support and scholarship., I proceeded for my Msc. about 4years ago in UK while my husband and the children were in Nigeria. Like you too, I was a triangular student o (school, home and church). To the glory of God, I graduated with distinction and an award.Why my epistle above? The summary is "What help trust is trust" (Courtesy Gbemiga Adejumo, 2018) Don't go near distance relationship if there is TRUST issue.Thumbs up! for you and your husband. Keep up the good work. Develop thick skin and don't respond to people with negative comments. No distraction! Yes you may be exposing your private lives, but trust me, It might be the ministry that God has placed in your hands. From peoples comment, they are getting blessed and some are receiving healings. If only you can see it that way, the sky is not the limit for you. Shallom. Mercy Ogunnusi.

[@FavourChiebuka]

Oluyomi Ogunnusi Wow.... beautiful. was blessed by this. thank you so much MA for sharing. YOU ARE BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@mercyogunnusi5480]

Amen!. Thank you so much my sister. May God alone be praised.

[@AdaEjem]

This is a beautiful comment!

[@SoraAdams]

I'm glad I read this and this gives me hope. My pillows are currently soaked, God!!! Long distance hurts so bad.

[@theadunbarin]

Thank you so much for this response. God bless you bigggggggggg 🙏

[@colombedadjo529]

Two years in a long distance relationship and two years in long distance marriage in May because of me. I am pursuing PhD. Thank God it’s coming to an end. Thank God for this man in my life.

[@Adannlecha]

I just watched this video and I cried so many times because it's almost like I'm the one being spoken to. I'm at a point in my relationship that's so off balance. It's a local long distance relationship with lots of ups and downs, trust issues here and there, arguments, slight communication hitches, etc. Thank you so much for that piece of prayer. Thanks. God bless your marriage.

[@sayoadeleke6299]

Gbemiga's sense of humor is top notch👏. I always enjoy watching you guys...

[@womanofsparkle1077]

Awesome!!! My husband and I did it for five years and now we have been married for 3 months :) The Lord bless you. love you Tolu from Zambia

[@smilemore1257]

Mwiinde Moono awww congrats

[@oluikuomola3228]

This just add more to my knowledge....... my time difference with my partner is 6hours sometimes 7hours..... but wen am free he is sleeping and wen am sleeping he is on his way to work..... so it is so hard for me I just pray it works out.......... looking up to you guys (my best couples) ❤️❤️ #teamsolution

[@EbunoluwaTheCommentator]

Oluwaseun ikuomola I feel you sis, it has to be sacrifice on both ends, It's hard but it can work let's keep holding on to God to see us through.

[@oluikuomola3228]

Thanks

[@lyndiessignature1199]

it will workout by his grace, stay positive no matter what becaue trust me, people will tell you different things like hmmm do you know what he is doing over there bla bla bla, but don't give room to critics. You are in these because it's been ordained and you will scale through and win. my sister was in a long distance relationship, trust me it wasn't easy but she held on to God and he indeed proved himself and covered really good and they are happily married now. finally, surround yourself with people who have Godly vibes these will help too, and you are the best advicer to yourself. all will end in praise, pray, trust and believe

[@oyintosolaoluwafunke3105]

This channel is blessing my boyfriend is an army, communication is a big problem but he trust me and so do I.

[@patriciaadekoya9512]

i Don't know why i just came across your channel but I've been so blessed in the few hours I've spent going through this channel. i think this channel is about to be my best KZbin channel. God bless you!

[@brendapenalopeakinyi3845]

Plz do they are my best

[@correttanama2783]

Tolu darling, you are blessed. Much love from Cameroon

[@ayovaughandoyin6037]

Am actually in a 4 years relationship which will be 5 in few days and i have been in New York for a year and six months which makes me relate well to all you guys said. Thank you for sharing cos knowledge has no limit but am literally doing all you guys shared. We'll be getting married next year by God's grace. love u guys! Shalom

[@folushoadeniyi]

Ayovaughan doyin .WAO God is your strength Sis.I no fit wait.ehn 5 years😁😀😂 no go area.

[@exelanozie3882]

Wowoo for it to be four into five yes wow you two have really tried upon all the challenges I am sure there was . you guys are still together to marry next year. Wow I am sure Patience has been the key virtue but any way congrats in advance.

[@ayovaughandoyin6037]

Exel Anozie yes patience and prayers has been the key. Not a easy journey but I bless God. Thanks alot

[@ayovaughandoyin6037]

Folusho Adeniyi I feel you but with God on our side it feels like we started dating last year🤣

[@smilemore1257]

Ayovaughan doyin congrats! Have a splendid married life. God bless you and your soon to be husband.

[@dianadickson5683]

You guys have really inspired me. It's really expensive ooo. I tell u. Thanks for the advice. May God bless your union.

[@bukkyolukoya8626]

Video calls helped you to carry each other along in your day. Solution your husband is very intelligent. At first I thought this video was going to be boring but No! All his advice are very sound. And I'm still searching for one of his musical album me and my husband played it in our car till it's scratched. 😊

[@EbunoluwaTheCommentator]

I can so relate! Time difference does not allow us to have a common time, it's either I'm sacrificing or he's sacrificing for us to have quality time with each other. Thanks for your points, very valid!!

[@anestinamercy5761]

I watched the Kenya conference online and your hubby ministration was really anointed. I so much admire the sense of humour you guys have. More Grace!

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Amen. Thank you

[@tosin4128]

Loved this video. Love videos with you and your husband in it. He has so much wisdom and you complement each other well in how you speak too

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Aw thank you

[@sonjahomer5381]

Timely video in the midst of a rough patch of a long distance relationships. Thanks for the positive affirmations on keeping things on track understanding that there's a resolution in the clearing. The prayer was much needed and timely as well. Thank you both for being an energized bacon of hope for our future.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Pleasure. Thank you .

[@tinajeffery9490]

You can say that again patience is the keyoooo hmmm i base in Spain and my man in UK it isn't easy but with God all things possible. Kudos guys this gives me more strength

[@angelfavour1615]

He made a way, when our back were against the walls....! great job guys, God bless you dears

[@omoladeadebowale433]

Thank you so much for being an example worth emulating.I love you guys 😍

[@joylynn6135]

We really had a great time having you all in Kenya. Karibuni tena

[@coolgamer2950]

Tolu congts....i am looking forward to his or her arrival.. lovely couples

[@bnelsonosas]

cool gamer my sister me sef I see am ooo

[@coolgamer2950]

BRENDA N. Sharp lady

[@cygwanfogbe246]

I also noticed so much.

[@coolgamer2950]

Cynthia Acha cool

[@tolulopesandra7613]

I'm keeping a long distance relationship but I pray it works out

[@ibukunoluwafakunle1783]

I can't believe since I came across your channel I've just be sitting down with it all day watching. But this particular one, I needed it. Thanks for this video. I agree with everything. God bless you both. Still hoping to see you someday 😃

[@TheNollyReviewHub]

That prayer was for me 👌🏾👌🏾😊😊. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@loladebby9285]

I was once in long distance relationship since 2015 to 2019,even immediately after my wedding my husband traveled back but today we are together .though is not that easy

[@checlara635]

Tolu when you were in a long distance relationship where there days or times which you cried because you miss him ....

[@Abbasbaby-girl]

God bless you both. My husband and I are apart for two and half years now. It's so hard but this encourages me. Yes Gbemiga, it's expensive ooo. Love u both

[@TolulopeSolutions]

constance Ekwoge The Lord is your strength

[@maryfavor7878]

Love seeing you guys together..thx for sharing these tips my dear..but to be honest it expensive, it only takes the Grace of God with d effort of both in the relationship..thx guys!!

[@noahomoniyi5027]

Bless God that you have the money. Sometimes love is ugly when there is no way edge over money. Nice videos though. Really love this topic

[@joyfulcook]

Your videos are my new obsession😘😘. Love it here😘😘😘

[@augustannadi4754]

Thank you my favourite couple, long distance relationship is really expensive. You inspire me a lot, Love you both #TeamSolutionz

[@edithnyando5921]

Am so excited about you two. Pastor Emmanuel, you ministered well in RCCG Kenya, Tolu, i love you and i love your mother in law. God bless you and your ministry

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Amen. Thank you

[@boluwatifeigbasan231]

Long distance relationship is tough, lots of misunderstanding over the phone but like you said delayed gratification and having God as the foundation is just everything.

[@Tolu_onagbeso]

Thank you for your advice. It is still very timely even after one year of posting. God bless you.

[@christinajohnson9399]

Gbemiga you are more of mummy in way that you show love to your your wife Tolulope , I pray God will help you to appreciate this grace of God on yourlife

[@judithomobude2216]

God bless u guys for this video....by the grace of God..ours are going on well....Thank God for everything

[@opey1447]

I love you guys!!! I can relate to every point you made. I am in the UK currently and my partner is in Nigeria.😍 😍 Thanks so much for the video.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

The Lord is your strength

[@opey1447]

Tolulope Solutions Amen!!

[@mercyjoda6161]

Our time difference is 6hours but I do know when is free to call him ...thank God for technology, face time

[@preciousqueenanangel]

Am so blessed and I have to send it to my guy, guess what he said... I love the guy he's been real( distance relationship is expensive ) and I was like Tolu is real too, she talks out of lady's feeling. ... Funny enough, he said am considering Tolu because we are name -sake. lol. Am so glad for this video cos I got some tips that can help. ..Thx a lot.

[@FavourChiebuka]

T O P TRUE

[@detola7870]

Well done guys! Really good tips! Our dating / courtship period was one year together in Nigeria, 2 years apart with hubby in the UK. At that time, 29 years ago....our only communication tools were letters and phone calls. The next time we saw each other, we were getting married. What kept us? God's grace, Trust definitely, very regular love letters which has been fun to re-read many years afterwards. Long distance relationship is not easy but by God's grace, it was like we were not separated at all. 💕 your Vlogs, always. Stay REAL!!!

[@opemipoo]

I’ve been on this channel for 2days now😫❤️

[@Sheba_316]

Thank you for that seasonal prayer. The Holy Spirit is amazing..

[@kamervibes2375]

Yaayyyy finally...been waiting since 4pm. #notificationgang #teamsolutions.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Awww bless your heart

[@mkd1024]

awesome advice ...lovely couple. how can i get Pastor Emmanuel adejumo music , he blessed us a lot in London mothers summit. love you guys. God bless you

[@stellaawat4677]

Welcome to Kenya am your Kenyan fan here

[@tolulopeolayiwola6334]

wow, you guys are indeed a blessing. That short prayer you guys did mean a lot. God bless you so much. Always your fan, you guys rock

[@FavourChiebuka]

LOVE THE SINCERITY AND IS REALLY APPRECIATED

[@viimiss6338]

hmmmm .... not easy bt wit God we still in it! 😚

[@MsFavour]

You are coming to Tz oooh 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@gloriasawyerr2853]

Gbemiga and Tolu, you were made for each other. You both make marriage look so simple, fun and playful. That’s the way it is supposed to be. You may be assured, Plano, Texas loves you a lot. I hear people discussing you both; all good of course! I watch you all the time on the train going to work and on weekends. May the good Lord cloth you both and your baby in his garment of joy, always. Take care!

[@christinajohnson9399]

Gbemiga I read some others comments and indeed you are blessed young man of God. May His grace keeps you in the journey

[@kennahkesh6196]

Welcome to Kenya..I was at queen Esther's generation on Saturday. I love your ministry and channel..( this is sound advise

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Thank you. Please come say hello next time.

[@kennahkesh6196]

I will do that. Be blessed

[@olusayofolowosele6265]

Nice one guys. I was also in a distance relationship for 10years. UK and Nigeria, wasn't easy at all but thank God for grace. Married now for 5 years.

[@lydia6954]

Olusayo Folowosele wow😳how did u do that ,am in one now..united state and Nigeria not easy😒

[@toluwalasheabu9633]

Your husband is very funny he said Australia and China. It is a great video😍😍😍

[@abigailduncan3757]

sis Tolulope , thank you very much for the video, you a such an inspiration. I'm watching you for the first time but i love you already especially for the boldness to stay away and develop your education, its an encouragement , love you.

[@africnviolet]

your union inspires me !

[@tolulopesandra7613]

Honestly could you Bliv that I have to watch their engagement video over and over again I just love their union

[@tochukwu2698]

Thank You for this video! It's absolutely inspiring!

[@twinkledimpleaolatoyinkans5277]

Long distance relationship is expensive 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, I just love you both

[@sidiangel805]

Very important . God bless you for sharing . I'm 6hours ahead of my B.f. I agree with you ...communication is the key to distance relationships .

[@hildatansi3959]

Thank you. My partner and i have 8hrs time difference.

[@Fountaintv92]

Great job from young people I love it coz its not like an advice from the old but a real story from the young. In the time of trouble this work if urs will help u

[@ruthlee6617]

Such a lovely couple!!!!!

[@okokonscholastica8871]

Pastor Gbemiga is so funy...Your family is blessed... I stumbled on your channel yesterday and I have almost watch all Ur videos so inspiring and educaticeb

[@extypresh5856]

This is so great and interesting, but please wat are things prospective couples should be discussing or talk about... I love this family, more blessings.

[@akinjidesogunle6928]

Continue what you are doing. U are really making impact. Watching this video only it shows life is in different stages and whatever happens depends on what you come with him. Sincerely I will love to meet you and your husband one day. It must happen. Having your husband and you as a friend is indeed going to be a blessing. Just be prayerful the Lord will direct your path and give you more ideas and wisdom. Pastor gbemiga you are one in a million. We must do something great together and shake this world for christ. I love you both Dearly. Please can I have your numbers. God bless.

[@epeynoela3244]

Thanks Tolu u inspire me a lot with your videos. I am in a long distance relationship too but we put in our best to communicate more. Thanks so much love u both and I tap the grace to have a happy home like yours

[@flavourgirlimonah7374]

I always enjoyed listening to ur videos and is helping me in my relationship too tanks to dis wonderful couples 👏❤

[@FavourChiebuka]

STAYING POSITIVE AGAINST ALL ODDS PRAYERFULLY REALLY HELPS

[@lizzymoses7782]

The last prayer is for me, God I pray you give me more strength to carry this relationship am into Amen🙏

[@mercyjoda6161]

Am in it, though is tough along the way but glory be to God am getting married soon.

[@winnieodhiambo3511]

Beautiful couple.

[@janicerichards8959]

Very nice informative video, soo impressed with you both espically the way it was ended. Your husband praying such a blessing and a breath of fresh air.😍😍😍😍😍😍😍💪💪💪💪💪💪👏👏👏👏🖐🖐🖐🖐🖐✌✌✌✌❤❤❤❤

[@adegokeolubukola2795]

More wisdom to you both. The vedio is Seasoned with grace ..I can so relate with it. God bless you.

[@kimsmotivatebiblebased]

Waooo did u just say u where let in ur spirit to tell some one who is going through a bad time? God I thank u. U are talking to me I'm in a distance relationship and things are not that good for me right now. I say a big amen to that prayer

[@helenekquaynor]

You are a beautiful couple. God bless you

[@belemasworld1106]

I havn't been in this kind of relationship but I want to say Thank You for speaking so honestly......

[@Jojo111]

AWESOME 😎 VIDEO GUYS I REALLY ENJOY 😉 THIS VIDEO GOD BLESS YOU BOTH...

[@chisomanichebem5976]

Just found you and I am so loving you...

[@adedoyinolowookere9272]

You just got yourself a new subscriber, I enjoyed everybit of this video

[@temidirevlogs]

Hello! I am blessed by this. The prayer at the end of this video is for me, thank you so much.

[@thejesusgistgirl]

#teammsolutions... May God continually bless your home. I love you plennnnntyyyyy......

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Amen. Thank youuuu.

[@FavourChiebuka]

IFEOLUWA AKINBO IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@abiokpobatubo]

Amen. Thank you so much for this video. Me watching this video after months later and I felt like you two really spoke to Me. God bless you so much. I love you Tolulope and Gbemiga

[@suliyatsallau5976]

HEY MY GORGEOUS BOURNEMOUTH FAMILY....YOUR VIDEOS ARE EVERYTHING.....ITS ME AJOKE....

[@sherylgreen7324]

wow, I love this topic. long distance relationship hmmm..I love you guys. solid points.

[@princessakinogun]

This is soooo helpful so reaffirming for me... Thank you Tolu & Gbenga !!!

[@princesso7021]

I really enjoy this topic

[@obiagerinnannah]

stumbled on your channel some hours ago... enjoyed the video and can totally relate to all the tips you guys gave and coincidentally i apply to my relationship and it works for me but truly not easy. well done and really want to grow spiritually, so will be looking forward to more videos on faith... God bless your family and baby...

[@temitopeoginni6567]

Amen to the prayers. 😥😥

[@lisanyamayaro4725]

thank you so much guys for the help and prayer

[@crownvalue_222]

Aunty Tolu I really love your videos may God continue to bless your marriage and your carriers

[@toluwalaseodukale5773]

Your videos have blessed me so much. God bless you.

[@opemipoolufowobi8229]

You guys are wise! God bless you both.

[@egemonu-williamsemmanuella4093]

Wow I love this video. It's just the tonic I need at the moment.

[@olaidesogoye9585]

10k subscribers loading 💃💃💃

[@FavourChiebuka]

olaide sogoye yes o IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@twinkledimpleaolatoyinkans5277]

Yes ooo, Even short distance needs a really lot of patience

[@iamvalentine263]

Tnx for sharing and also the praying

[@sarahtaylor6149]

Love you guys💓

[@mrsolabisi4158]

You guys are so real and authentic!

[@ao.9443]

God bless your home

[@crownvalue_222]

Aunty Tolu I want to ask u a question how can someone that have married with two kids but now outside d county alone now, but she was not d only wife of her husband they were three and she use to be d third wife the problem now is that her husband did not give her attentions again and d lady was not in Nigeria with him, how can she survived and still maintain her marriage while still outside d country. Note she has two kids for her husband and both d kids and d husband were in Nigeria Am looking forward on advise for cases like this. Thank u so much ma