Husband DEMANDS Paternity test for OUR NEW BABY, claiming its NOT HIS because I "CHEATED"

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0:00 Husband demands a paternity test, claiming that his new daughter doesn’t look like him, while heavily implying that I must have cheated. (u/ThrowRa_thw)
5:27 An Entitled Karen tries to force me to babysit her child for nearly 3 hours, even though I have never met her or her child before, in my life. (u/SnarkySheep)
8:06 My boyfriend seemingly doesn’t want anyone to know that I am his girlfriend inn public, and this is honestly really starting to bother me. (u/ThrowRA_lm)
10:35 My mother in laws boyfriend treats me like garage at Thanksgiving, and I am so glad that she eventually dumped that dirtbag. (u/NagiNaoe101)
13:24 Am I the Jerk for locking up my house before I left for the night, and as a result, locking my room mate out who forgot her key? (u/gobskin)
16:35 My husband is going to a comedy show without me, and has opted to go with a friend of his that I have never met before. And now I am so deeply hurt, and I am not sure what to do. (u/ThrowRA2023231)
19:00 Am I the Jerk for keeping the engagement ring I was given by my now dead fiancé? (u/369deteted879)
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[@sheenahutchison1190]

Divorce no paternity test .

[@animeman8203]

Here's the thing though, the husband is right to be suspicious because he didn't do that until after the kid was born and he didn't see any of his features in the kid. Women cheating on their husbands and boyfriends is at an all-time high thanks to Efinism and the M2 movement. Paternity tests should be immediate.

[@gabrielbayas1533]

😊

[@princessmarlena1359]

Last story: OP, keep the ring. And get some new friends. Consider a court order against your late fiancé’s family if they don’t back off.

[@Alpha-omega-beginning-and-end]

Was the original ring the family heirloom maybe? If not then yes they are all assholes

[@TheBinny]

Story 1: Honestly, if your kid didnt look like you and didnt really look like your wife, you cant say it wouldnt cross your mind, but neglecting the new born that much is a bit much, i understand hes foing through it aswell as his world is essentially crashing down on him, but not doing anything for the kid and letting your family treat the kid like that is insane

[@sheenahutchison1190]

My neighbour white but looks Italian has boy ginger hair white girl blonde white last girl black curly hair looks half cast then I saw her very dark father eldest daughters child darkest of all, white women can have black children and black can have white .

[@TheBinny]

@@sheenahutchison1190 Sure? I didn't say they couldn't, what are you even saying rn?

[@thomasbarca9297]

@@sheenahutchison1190Italians are white why do you assume they are not white

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@sheenahutchison1190 or you adopt kids as your own.

[@Killerking0310]

@@thomasbarca9297there can be black/tan Italian people. Just like there are white/black/tan people in other races.

[@v.crowley]

Story 1: Paternity tests should be mandatory.. to stop this bs.. . If you have nothing to hide.. then it shouldnt be an issue

[@ojamaftk9585]

Also the "if you have nothing to hide, then it shouldn't be an issue" argument is so dumb. People like to have some privacy and people trusting them in their life.

[@kano8]

​@@ojamaftk9585Trust can only go do far, and if you have a child that looks nothing like either parent with a rare genetic (green eyes) then there should be a test done and not just relie on trust. The "if you have nothing to hide it shouldn't be an issue" isn't dumb. If you're married, and trust your parents, then you have NOTHING to hide. That should be common sense in a relationship. The wife is always going to know if she cheated or not, and she has no need of proof the child is her. The husband on the other hand never knows for certain any of these facts. As partners, you should want to erase any doubt one another has.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

​@@ojamaftk9585"Trust but verify." The headache that the op in the first story went through would have been dealt with a hell of a lot sooner and wouldn't have gone through if she just gave the damn test.

[@ElleD308]

​@@AnimeGamer501stI actually have a way to force the paternity test without the mom being all "You don't believe me... Sob, sob". Ask a female family member you trust to arrive at the hospital when the baby is born and tell you both that she saw a documentary about how 28k babies are switched at birth and that to give them peace she personally bought a maternity/paternity test so they can be at peace knowing they have their kid with them. Not a single innocent woman would say no to knowing 100% their baby is safe with them. Any woman who fights against that or refuses in any way, honey, that baby ain't yours. And that's how you get a paternity test without annoying women crying at how you're a monster who didn't trust them, and they're even left thankful for the kind gesture of your family taking care of their kid. 😏😉

[@imnotbroken118]

Every time I wonder if I'm missing out being single, I listen to this channel's relationship horror stories and sleep much better.

[@Inkytoon677]

Lol, me too! But it is a shame that relationships end up badly (not all, of course)

[@annemariebell6970]

People ask me, "Can I get to know you better?" I tell them, "READ MY BIO." I have in my bio "Not looking to be in a relationship with ANYONE EXCEPT JESUS CHRIST.

[@theender664]

@@Inkytoon677 very few end up bad man

[@theender664]

@@annemariebell6970 that's sad as hell ;-;

[@yungmazi4461]

Genetics are a very weird thing. I think the DNA test should've been handled sooner before months of neglect and all the harsh treatment happened imo, but I do understand how that can be embarrassing and hurtful to think your spouse wouldn't trust you

[@GiordanDiodato]

yeah

[@Nyghtking]

I once hear a story where a white couple had a black baby, because they had black relatives in her family and sometimes that happens, they took a test and everything and the baby was both their's. Also heard about a black couple that had a white baby, it turned out the reason was Albinism runs in the family and the baby was albino. Also hear a story where a black couple had a white baby because, like the white couple, they had white relatives in the family line. Genetics is weird like that.

[@annemariebell6970]

#5 That roommate can get lost! The roommate should have remembered her key rather than make it the op's responsibility to unlock the door.

[@aintnotroublebigenough]

How did the OP even forgive her husband in the first place? If it were me, my husband would have been served with the paternity test results AND divorce papers.

[@vigneshnath8693]

Ever thought of it from a man's perspective? He has no way of knowing if she cheated and also had 2 reasons to believe so. 1) child didn't look like him 2) she denied the test. The second one is all the nails in the coffin

[@magic8ball1982]

The first story reminds me of mt stepfather's mother, she absolutely refused to believe that his younger son was actually his and went to her grave believing his ex-wife had an affair despite the fact that my stepbrother and stepfather look almost identical.

[@azizcalva-navarro6170]

7th story, sounds like John's family are very cheap and see the unclaimed ring as a money saving venture.

[@alpha-sama]

Story 1: The husband was absolutely being a jerk here, but I feel like OP made the situation more difficult than it had to be. If she had nothing to hide, a paternity test wouldn't have to be a problem, right? I feel like her stance added to the husband's insecurities. As a man, you can't be careful enough nowadays with cheating women resulting in you having to pay for someone else's child. Story 5: This actually amazed me. How could the roommate be so stupid that she not only left without her keys but also expected OP to leave their party just to let her in and even claimed OP was responsible for this? Girl, just make sure you always bring your phone, wallet and keys when going out, it's that simple. Also, I feel like this house is a dangerous environment if the roommates never lock the door, not even in the middle of the night, so basically anyone can just waltz in. For their own safety, OP should find a new place imo.

[@sicilianprincess-tm5nz]

Story 7, the ring was bought for the op and paid for the funeral. She won the case they should just leave her that's the only thing she has left of him.

[@mel_key]

Ah this story (first story) again…I said it before, everyone is the a-hole. Genetic is weird thing and it took a huge jump so I don’t blame the husband for not believe it, but he should be there. As for the wife, I understand her feelings but she should’ve took the test regardless bc if she reallt love her husband, his reassurance is top priority. The in laws should be thrown in the trash. I remember the story said the mil and sil was physical aggressive to her while holding the baby. So yeah, glad that they are going to therapy and they were getting better

[@A.S.R]

Story 1: they should just make paternity test mandatory .

[@Jpr0ductionz]

That first husband was a clown in his circus of an extended family.

[@randomcommenter5372]

I hate how people always jump straight to conclusions

[@jaysnappsmediallc6680]

All births should have paternity test

[@RedrumZombies]

Paternity test should be mandatory.

[@RedrumZombies]

Also the KZbinr is a mega simp and clown again.

[@michelle_m4446]

#1, you will never be happy with this man. He thought you cheated amd he treated an innocent child like crap.time to leave

[@sheenahutchison1190]

Cos he’s been one cheating . Check up on him.

[@CajunReaper95]

@@sheenahutchison1190yeah ok, just because he accused her doesn’t mean he’s cheating if a child my wife birthed didn’t have my facial features or resemble me in any way I’d have the same reaction.

[@GiordanDiodato]

@@CajunReaper95 it's called projection, honey

[@themagicconch.804]

I hope op leaves him that’s so hurtful, disrespectful and disgusting she deserves better.

[@Dr_Damon_1111]

which one?

[@manishtyagi1728]

Right like he treated her like hell. And then when he is proven wrong about the unfaithfulness... he acts like a perfect husband and father. Goes to show how two faced people can be

[@manishtyagi1728]

​@@Dr_Damon_1111the first story

[@dylanclay2741]

​@@manishtyagi1728oh please. While you're right in this particular scenario thats not the norm . And the narrator would have a 180 take if the roles were reversed

[@manishtyagi1728]

@@dylanclay2741 good point

[@newt1701]

The father of a child has a right to ask for a paternity test, especially if he thinks that the child may not be his. I can't remember the stats, but I think there is a good proportion of men out there unknowingly raising children that aren't their own. That said, he could have probably left his family out of it and gone about it in a different way. At the same time, it shouldn't have taken months for him to get the paternity test. Both sides are at fault, the husband more so for being hands-off with the child in the beginning and allowing his family to pressure the OP. And the OP is at fault for digging her heels in and refusing a harmless paternity test. Especially since she apparently knew she had nothing to worry about or hide.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

I mean can you blame him he didn't even know if the kid was his like I too wouldn't be taken care of a kid if I thought it wasn't mine. Why should I put my energy in a kid that I don't even know is mine.

[@ambramarrs7325]

Story #3- The ring belongs to the OP - PERIOD- No question- No debate-

[@Cyber_element_lz]

18:12 no the husband ain't a jerk he just wants to go out with friends I doesn't have to be with the wife all the time plus this might be a friend he barely sees so not the jerk

[@themysteriousoa4466]

To the OP in the first story: It appears that you have experienced what I call a: “Jumper”. A “Jumper” is a dingleberry who Jumps to conclusions, without reason, instead of trying to figure out why they would jump to conclusions.

[@CajunReaper95]

And you are what I call a moron, if a child doesn’t have some of your features that’s a cause to be suspicious about your parter especially if all your other kids resemble you to an extant.

[@Cowgirl4God]

@CajunReaper95, so based on your posts, it’s safe to say that you’re a geneticist?

[@AnimeGamer501st]

​@@Cowgirl4Godlol yeah he got a masters lol

[@vigneshnath8693]

1) he had 2 reasons to believe that the child wasn't his. 2) he was trying to figure things out but the Op didn't let him

[@jamiexavier1546]

Maurey: You are! The father

[@annemariebell6970]

I'd tell them ALL to pound sand.

[@smithsmith1956]

Paternity tests should be done before the hospital so much as lets yhe man even lay eyes on yhe birth certificate much less sign it. Paternity fraud is high.

[@TheBinny]

Fr

[@patronus5855]

In this day and age I feel like a paternity test should be mandatory.

[@aaronammann4236]

To OP in the first story you can be surprised how well Therapy can do after that experience. But do Couples therapy after discussing divorce, my opinion on that, but again it is up to you for that.

[@tylerscott7567]

I wouldnt have neglected the new born but i definitely would've required a paternity test. Im sorry but trust only goes so far. I think she definitely played the wrong cards dealing with this situation. She couldn't empathize with him and just assumed he's nuts. I'm amazed she didnt go with it at first because that would've been definitive proof you're right.

[@GiordanDiodato]

never marry

[@kano8]

​@GiordanDiodato how about you grow up.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

​@@kano8i mean they have a point. Marriage is a contract and the contract is shizzy for men.

[@god_extentionofsource]

In the first story, I think it’s weird you forgave your husband for not believe the baby was his but you won’t forgive his family… that was your HUSBAND. If anyone owed you the loyalty and respect of believing and trusting you didn’t cheat on him it would be your HUSBAND. How can you hold his family to a higher standard?? That’s so backwards to me… if you forgive him, forgive the family… or leave. But it’s not fair to forgive him and not them. HE made the commitment to you… the commentator for this channel usually has awful advice so I wouldn’t listen to him… he just has good stories sometimes… I ALWAYS skip his opinion in between stories…

[@animeman8203]

Here's the thing though, women cheating on their husbands and boyfriends is at an all-time high. If the child didn't have any of his features, that raises red flags immediately.

[@god_extentionofsource]

@@animeman8203 He should know who he married. If you ever had suspicions of whether your wife/husband has stepped out on you then that means the relationship isn’t secure. That’s a turn off. As a woman I wouldn’t even want to be married to this man after all of that. I don’t care what infidelities other people experience. If you married ME then you should trust and believe I am faithful to you. If you don’t believe in me, then you can take your insecurities and hit the road… Ijs.

[@smithsmith1956]

​@@god_extentionofsourceTypical female response. SIGN language Shame Insults Guily Need to be right If you love your husband you'd do the paternity test without a second thought and understand why he'd want it. Current studies show that the infidelity rate of married women is now higher than men. Its only practical to get dna test. Especially woth the paternity fraud going on. 40% of fathers are raising kids they didn't know wasn't theirs. And thats from the data analysis of the ones suspicious enough to get the tests. I wager that number is at least 50%. It isn't about trust or love, its about protecting yourself.

[@smithsmith1956]

​@@animeman8203I doubt we'll get through to this woman. But i want to see the absurd mental gymnastics she does. Im not surprised ahe blamed the man. "He should know who he married" my a$$. Yet, if a woman married a man thinking he was nice but turned out to ne an abuser, you can net your left nut she wouldn't dare say "you should know who you married" to the woman in that scenario. It's always the mans fault qoth these modern women. And they'll make excuses for women about anything. If it turned out not to be his kid, she'd STILL come up with some BS.

[@Jermbot15]

That seemed weird to me too, then I remembered she has no friends. Social anxiety is my best guess. She was able to put in the work to forgive her husband, she has nothing left to forgive her extended family with.

[@GiordanDiodato]

story 6: Looks like that husband will ask for an art room.

[@avihockney2741]

Story 1 kinda same on what happened to my sister, she was being accused she cheated because my nephew looks like me when I was a kid, guess what when the paternity test came back it was his 😂, maybe his genetics weren't that strong

[@CajunReaper95]

That’s literally not the same though your related to your nephews thus it would make some sense for them to look like you when you were younger.

[@juanhaines7295]

Story 1 this is why mandatory paternity should be legal. So that situations like this can be immediately resolved.

[@manishtyagi1728]

You have a point. But honestly if the husband doesn't trust his wife enough to belive that she did not cheat...then they should not even be married

[@Gems-of-Hope-Rocks]

I don't understand why the husband didn't just do it anyways. There are at-home tests that he could've used.

[@animeman8203]

@@manishtyagi1728 Here's the thing though, women cheating on their husbands or boyfriends is at an all-time high and you can't be empowered if you aren't the town bicycle according to Efinism and the M2 movement. IF this daughter truly didn't look a thing like him, he had good reason to believe that she wasn't his.

[@manishtyagi1728]

@@animeman8203 well that is a good point

[@TheBinny]

​@manishtyagi1728 She looked absolutely nothing like him, if you aren't the slightest bit suspicious you have too much trust

[@brandonnewby178]

17:46: that's the guy he talks to about you

[@meganstroud6150]

Story one. Is it possible that maybe it wasn't so much that she didn't look like him, or is it that he didn't want a daughter. Just an idea. It's a situation I dealt with myself. It started with we don't make girls.

[@johnnymcneal5914]

If I were in his place I wouldn't care whether it was my child or not he or she would be treated just like family

[@user-secretive]

In this situation you should break up with him!😠

[@channingdavis5541]

Story 1: Every man has a right to a dna test. I don’t wanna hear any of that shit saying other wise. The behavior towards his wife ain’t called for. But if a woman has nothing to hide then just do the test 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Exactly. Personally if I was the woman I'd be hurt but I would also understand that paternity fraud is it all time high. Frankly women cheat more and it's just easier for them to cheat. Not saying all women do, just saying there's a reason why having an affair with the milkman and the mailman is a joke.

[@lolarichter9415]

Only if it comes with divorce papers. You can't accuse someone if cheating and still expect to stay together.

[@channingdavis5541]

@@lolarichter9415 divorcing over that is gonna make you look dumb in court 🤷🏽‍♂️ you’re gonna look dumb in front of the judge. By your logic, everyone who ever ask for dna test needs a divorce or break up. You’re childish

[@ElleD308]

​@@lolarichter9415switch situations, men can know 100% who's the mom but women can't. Things are so bad with men having kids with other women that aren't their wives but making them believe it's theirs and see their raise their affair baby, to the point where there are new LAWS about maternity fraud and to make maternity tests mandatory. Would you be ok never asking a maternity test never knowing that baby that looks nothing like you was or not yours? Or would you ask for one just to your own peace?

[@channingdavis5541]

@@ElleD308 clearly she doesn’t get the stuff men have to go through.

[@suekearton6691]

That can happened depends on which side of the family they get their genes from

[@ovni2295]

First story - The husband and the family are so, so far in the wrong that this is divorce territory. But also, OP should have gotten the paternity test *the very first time it came up*. That's the kind of nonsense you HAVE to shut down immediately, or it festers into mistrust and relationship-destroying chaos, regardless of who is right. Like... Yes. It hurts to be accused of cheating, especially when you're innocent. But you have to remember your in-laws have been gripped by instincts which are older than human civilization. They want to protect their family. If you don't answer the accusation immediately and definitively, they're going to sit with that hard-wired anxiety until it becomes the only thing they know about you. Always get the paternity test immediately. Prove that you are willing to fight for the relationship and settle their fears. Doesn't matter if you're the mother or the father, if your in-laws have this suspicion, you need to put it to bed right away if you want to have a relationship with that family.

[@dracko158]

I read online that 10% of the world's population has green eyes. So, OP'S daughter has a very rare genetic that caused her to have green eyes. Since your daughter looks nothing like OP or the husband, cheating is usually the assumption here. But instead of dealing with it maturely, He intentionally not help OP and he and his entire family ostracize OP based on their stupid assumption. I'm glad to hear OP'S husband felt guilty for doing this, but what he and his extended family have done is completely unacceptable.

[@kano8]

I mean, the husband DID try to handle it maturally by getting a test done. It was the wife who refused to be mature about it and do a simple test to remove all doubts from his mind. What he did was disgusting, but honestly, if it wasn't his child, would you have blamed him? The wife knows without a doubt she never cheated and the daughter is his, but the husband doesn't know unless they get tested. ESPECIALLY when the child looks nothing like either parent and has a rare genetic neither seem to show.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

​@@kano8I was going to make that point but you made it for me so

[@tigernotwoods914]

In all honesty, a paternity test should be standard procedure upon every single birth and just be another test like all the other tests they run and it shouldn’t be something you have to request it should be automatic. The reason so the truth is out there right off the bat and avoid situations like this, and avoids, putting people in an awkward position to ask for one.

[@emmanuel-lc2jy]

Iwonder if ive drunk milk from the same cow twice

[@victordickinson276]

Omg same

[@manishtyagi1728]

How does that relate to this story. Genuinely asking

[@rapidmontheawesome6343]

The paternity test should’ve been done sooner imo and after all of that happened I think it’s just a case of forgive and forget (including the husband’s family) if they want to be a happy family together

[@michellecoleman5577]

first story: I suppose OP is a better person than me, but I don't think I could ever forgive what the husband did. Not only would it completely break my faith in the relationship, which if OP truly wants to fix, therapy is the way. But I don't think I could get passed the way he treated my child. No matter what you think the mother did, you comfort that baby when it cries.

[@minx-]

Story 1: get over it, kid was a throwback, joke about having an affair w a royal, say thank god she doesn’t have Hapsburg jaw then get a paternity test. You have so much social currency w your in laws now, enjoy it!

[@mikesanchez6065]

Story 1 is very interesting

[@ApolloDragon]

Honestly, I would have divorced the husband if I were the OP in the first story. He and the family mistreated her for no reason and refused to believe her till after the test. He only apologized after it was confirmed that the child was his. I wouldn't want anything to do with someone who mistreated and didn't trust me like that, especially when I am faithful and yet still get accused. Yet husband don't deserve her and should get lost.

[@tylerscott7567]

You're failing to see his side of things. Here's a kid that looks nothing like you, unless she told him or he remembered what her grandparents looked like. He, of course, is defaulting to adultery. The fact that she didn't realize how hurt he was in that moment and agree to a test says more about how she sees him than anything else.

[@ApolloDragon]

@tylerscott7567 that still no excuse for how he treated his wife and falsely accused her. He showed he didn't truly love or trust his wife. Just because the daughter didn't look like him news flash, not every child is gonna have traits of a parent. They treat her and her daughter like crap and leave her out of things. All cause they choose to have their heads up their asses. They pressure her into getting a test when she said countless time she had been faithful and the child is his. It was only when they found out she was right. They regretted their actions. So yeah, I am not going to see the side of a man who mistreated his wife and daughter all because he believed she cheated. If he truly believed that he should have filed for divorce. He knew the daughter was his the whole time just refused to see it cause it "didn't look like him" poor excuse for someone who most likely the one cheating.

[@ApolloDragon]

@theguardian5432 agreed with that. Through I noticed that even when women are faithful and never leave the house. They are still accused of cheating and getting asked for a DNA test if the child don't have any trait of their dad. Maybe Dads should get better knowledge of DNA and genetic instead of showing their insecurities and projecting their guilt.

[@WhtCrstlJudgmntDrgn]

Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth.

[@ApolloDragon]

@WhtCrstlJudgmntDrgn personally, I don't get that statement. Why can't the tests only be used when you are concerned with cheating. Just don't think using up time, money, and resources just to play guess who the daddy will solve anything.

[@RedrumZombies]

Story 4: All 3 are dumb. For OP, because she wants to be friends with a hunt like that.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

i thought it was story 3

[@michaelkaha5414]

For the first story I agree with the husband on being suspicious if the child looks nothing like either of the parents, but that's because we live in an evil world, i didn't agree with not taking care of his daughter even if it wasn't his child, but the paternity test would have solved everything right out the gate, for some reason its unfathomable foe women to not understand the mans perspective, if you refuse the test it makes you look guilty, the fact he didn't threaten divorce or test says alot.

[@briansmith2113]

the husband is a complete dick but there's no mature reason to deny a paternity test to clear any doubts especially when you already know for a fact that you're in the right. it's just prideful and leaving more room for you to be questioned. which at the end of the day only causes you more stress and fighting. which at that point is only hurting the child. just prove your point then act accordingly on what you'd want to do next with the relationship. because their behavior only showed their true colors.

[@padzman91]

Know how to solve this early? MANDATORY paternity tests at birth😅

[@brianarnold8666]

13:55 "i had a party for my fraternity that i 'needed' to attend lmao sure buddy. But nta, your roommates carelessness isn't your emergency

[@go.a.t]

For story 2 I changed it to Eminem song “F the baby F you to you think I give a damn about a baby kids can’t even stomach me let alone stand me”

[@shaunalennon3144]

My mother got a judgmental look from a woman at church when I was a baby cause I had a darker complexion than my older brother and sister.

[@vigneshnath8693]

Story1: i actually think the Op is just as guilty as the husband. Demanding a paternity test is fine. But ignoring the needs of a toddler isnt. And the Op made things much harder than it should have been

[@brucehursman8874]

Get the test and then divorce his a$$.

[@anidiot1122]

Here is the thing newborn babies do not have a lot of melanin in their body so it will most likely not look like it's parents example eye colour and hair colour could be more... vibrant?( I have no idea what the word is) throughout the years

[@flatmarssociety3664]

Story 1: I know it’s a fear most men have to raise a child that isn’t theirs. But his actions shows that he didn’t trust OP to begin with. He and his family unnecessarily hostile, considering OP had just given birth and was raising an infant. When the only thing she did wrong was was give birth to a differently colored child. Like did the thought ever cross his mind that maybe he was wrong. Also I believe his assumption was built on faulty evidence. Girls tend to look more like their mothers while young and many features of their fathers(like noses) don’t show up until puberty. And green eyes are a recessive trait. I think he was being paranoid, and not trusting OP. The only thing I think she could have done differently was getting the test sooner.

[@forevertai7976]

I would have forgiven the family before the husband, because they only know what he told them. He's the one who should have had your back. He actually earned a divorce for that. If he couldn't trust op, how do you expect his family to?

[@vigneshnath8693]

She didn't even try to win his trust. You can't blame him. Trust and respect are earned not given

[@sapphicgeek24]

A man absolutely has the right to ask for a paternity test, and a woman has the right to respond how she will. It's inherently an accusation of infidelity and many women have issues letting that go.

[@tigernotwoods914]

That’s why a paternity test should be standard procedure. In the same way that upon a earth, they do all the routine tests for drugs, and a baby system or diseases, and everything else. It should just be another test that they run automatically upon every single birth. This is the truth out right away, and it prevents situations like this, and it prevents putting the guy in that position where he has to ask for it or where she needs to be asked for it, it should just be routine procedure

[@gamergardas43]

First story:bruh if kid isnt look like you would be suspicous to and he has every right to want a test.and if she doesnt have any secrets why would you make this a big deal

[@viviennemorgan7217]

so let me guess the husband wants to go to the comedy club with his friend, instead of his wife, wow what's his problem, next time he decides to go to a comedy club, op needs to ask him if she can be at the comedy club with him.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

but that's what i'll do if i was her.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

The first story is also an example as to why mandatory paternity test need to be a thing. It saves everybody a freaking headache and embarrassment.

[@RedditBro830]

1st story. I disagree with the narrator on this one. Yes it’s sucks that the husband and his family accused the wife of infidelity because the daughter looks nothing like the father, however you also go to see the husband’s point of view too. They’re are many fathers out there living their lives raising another man’s child and it turns out they’re not the father and what makes it worst is the mother knew that their husband was not the father and keep it from them. Just imagine being a young man and feel obligated to marry a woman because supposedly because you fathered a child with her, but only later to find out you wasted a good portion of your life and potential future to be with somebody else because of this situation. Also you’re denying the right of the child to know their actual biological father and for the actual biological father to know that they have a biological child. Paternity test needs to be mandatory in this day and age. I disagree how the husband family treated the wife and the child, but I believe that the wife should’ve agree to a paternity test in the beginning to alleviate everyone’s concern.

[@psrando]

3rd story: Why shouldn't her BF act single???? They are not married...so they are both single.

[@michaelinscore257]

She should have gotten it after 1 month

[@theundertalenerd6981]

Here’s my opinion on story 1: your husband was at first understanding in his actions. Hell I didn’t even know this was possible till this moment. But then he did some horrible things after. You have a right to care for that child and I’m assuming the only cheating evidence was that she looked like OP’s grandparents meaning how the hell would she have cheated? I’m shocked you even forgave the man.

[@theender664]

8:59 10 years is a bit much, but i think it's a ok people are in relations with way bigger gaps

[@tylercanales5794]

OK one story I want to comment on well actually I have two little notes for two different stories. The first story I want to make a note on is the one where the husband’s going to the comedian show. He’s going with a friend, so maybe something we don’t walk in or the narrator does it ever it feels like the narrator never puts into mind is may be different had an extra ticket. Maybe the friend had someone they were supposed to go with and they canceled. So maybe it was still a cost thing and he was getting a free ticket And the second story I want to make a comment on is the one with the key thing it’s like if you know your roommates, keep forgetting their keys. Why not just buy an extra key and hide it somewhere just in case that happens? Like me something I did I used to forget my keys everywhere and my dad got mad at me about it when he had to come home from work one time when I was in high school. And he brought up how I always forget my keys but never forget to grab my phone so now I just tried my keys to my phone.

[@theender664]

21:14 you should find new friends

[@user-kq4jb4et2k]

I am sorry 😔😔😔

[@Regden1000]

The first story. The actions of what the husband and his family did just for assuming the OP cheated was very wrong but honestly the OP should not have been so stubborn and just do the paternity test immediately, it would have saved her a lot of headaches at the very least. The third story. I think the boyfriend is honestly bothered by the age gap, I think he doesn't show any displays of affection because people will gossip about him dating a younger woman whenever they are out and the same goes for showing it on social media, the guy is really self-conscious about his image.

[@CajunReaper95]

So if the child doesn’t resemble him at all he should suck it up no he’s allowed to point things out if it was a female who’s thinking their husband is cheating you and the uploader of this video would be doing a 180 backing her up with no proof.

[@sicilianprincess-tm5nz]

He sounds like a cheater. And wants to be single and flirt with other women

[@annalee3996]

First story!! WTF forgive the husband!?!?!? I don't feel sorry for you now

[@bum81]

First Story: Im against negligence of the baby. Rhe thing is that people dont realize is that in most of the States in America will have the husband pay child support for the child in a divorce even if it isnt his. So women are incentivized to cheat and get paid for it. The OP is not at fault, its terrible women who are ruining it for the good ones.

[@bum81]

Also the husband is the ahole. Back your wife until you are sure. Because his son's saw how he treated their sister. That will either make the siblings close or make them belittle her

[@clericofchaos1]

I can't really see the guy in the first story as a jerk. It's 2023, the majority of marriages now end in divorce, and cheating is incredibly common. So i'd be a little concerned too if my wife gave birth to a kid that looked nothing like either of us.

[@GiordanDiodato]

I hope you're never married.

[@miguelenriquezgarcia7789]

Yeah, genetics are weird, but i really think the DNA test should be a normal thing to do with babies and parents. And it should not be something to be ofended for.

[@cellectra3342]

First story is kind of annoying with the shit the guy have said because it sounded like the husband and the family have dealt with cheating in the past with other members of the family regardless if it was the certain members of the family who have done it themselves and projecting their insecurities onto the op or it have happened to the men within the family which is why they treated the op like that since it sounds like the child didn't looked like the parents. The reason i see it this way as it happened to me when i was born when my dad and his mother and family accused my mother of cheating since i turned out white with blonde hair and blue eyes, my dad is brown skin with curly black hair and dark brown eyes and my mum is white with wavy brown hair and light brown eyes the only reason it didnt get that bad as one of my great aunties who is one of my grandmother's oldet sisters which is the voice of the family defended me as i have traits that is common on their side of the family as they did immigrate from England to new Zealand before my grandmother was born. So even knowing it was shit for the husband and the family to do it we shouldn't treat them like shit as they did try to fix their mistakes after learning the truth

[@victordickinson276]

Who else loves listening to this drama because it's funny to see people get what they deserve (imagine I get a pinned comment) 👇

[@TheTiredAndSleepyOwl]

Meee

[@manishtyagi1728]

Meeeeeeeeeeeee

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: The OP's husband and his extended family are big jerks here but i love that they got all of this thrown big in their face once it was shown the daughter was his. If i were the OP, i would forgive and forget with the husband, but definitely not the family. It does sound like he is remorseful, but not the extended family. Screw them. Story 2: Not only would i say "Right To Refuse Service" but i wouldve threatend to call CPS on this stupid Karen. She literally just abandoned her kid to the OP.... didn't even ask or say anything, just dropped and left. Totally would've called CPS on this one. Story 3: This guy is definitely not to be trusted. There's a difference between not liking PDA or having people intrude on your personal life and trying to hide something. He's either trying to hide something or is embarassed by you. Story 4: If you knew that you weren't welcome there, figurately or literally, i wouldn't have gone there in the first place. The ex-bf was a complete jerk for literally no reason. Good thing the MIL eventually left this idiot. Definitely don't need somebody like that in your life or extended family. Story 5: Nope, OP is not the jerk in the least.... the roommate is. You ALWAYS lock up before you leave, doesnt matter where you go. There are way too many shady people out there nowadays. This is also why you always take your keys with you and have a hidden spare somewhere. If she doesn't want to be friends anymore, then good riddance. Story 6: I think the OP is over-reacting a little bit here. Almost sounds like the husband is having a guys night with his friend. He should include the wife/OP a bit more on things here, but he has every right to either go alone or with friends. Story 7: Not the jerk at all. It sounds like Jon's family is just trying to get the ring away from the OP and sell it. Good thing the OP was smart to get her own lawyer on this and kept all receipts, because without it, this could've gone the other way. As for the sister, i would tell her off and maybe get a restraining order, thats just nuts. Anyone who is against the OP here are major jerks here.

[@TheBinny]

I ain't reading allat

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@TheBinny i don't blame you

[@GiordanDiodato]

@@TheBinny lazy ass

[@GiordanDiodato]

story 6: Or husband wants to make an art room for his friend.

[@rainbowpegacornstudios]

Story 1: I swear, that imbecile lives up to a Ron White joke: You can't fix stupid. Personally, I'd end the relationship *IMMEDIATELY* , leave with the baby and cut all contact.

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Lmao not happening

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Man has parental rights

[@addictofanimation2923]

​@animegamer501stthelastyeet8 He only has parental rights if he fights for them. If he's so sure that the baby isn't his, he won't want parental rights. He'll want the baby legally removed from him as much as possible. While I can understand a man just wanting to be sure of paternity, you can't accuse your partner of cheating and think that's going to go over well. Both loyal and disloyal women hate being accused of cheating. Accusing either woman of it can end in a sh*t show unless she can push past the hurt of being accused of cheating. Just because she's faithful doesn't mean she'll be calm once she gets accused of cheating. It stings worse to a faithful woman than an unfaithful woman.

[@SeanWinters]

Listen bud, I know you're not a father yet, but if your woman against birth to a child that looks nothing like you, it is totally normal to ask for a paternity test. It is weird and demeaning that a woman would have refused to take test. What kind of a monster would just let the assumptions float in the air and then be upset at the consequences of her actions?

[@LunaP1]

Hold up! This goes both ways with mistrust. With the men "I don't trust that the baby is mine and you're using me to raise them", but women "I don't trust that you aren't cheating on me and trying to find a way out of the relationship".

[@vigneshnath8693]

​@@LunaP1okay and how is that relevant to the story?

[@dylanclay2741]

Story 1: while the husband overreacted as soon as i heard the title i knew the narrator would simp for the wife as he always does

[@sassysarah39]

As he has every right to do honestly, if that would’ve been me and that situation, I would’ve divorced him

[@animeman8203]

You expect your child to have some of your features and if he found none, that indicates she possibly cheated especially in this day and age.

[@llcoojoe20]

Narrator is a big simp and girl in the comment says he has the right to is hilarious 😂

[@averagemufcenjoyer2371]

Same he is a pseudo feminist.

[@vigneshnath8693]

Overreacted? Yes But he also had his reasons for suspicious

[@gamingwithjack6446]

10 min gang 👇

[@seanpelletier]

Yall who say you wouldnt turn away because someone cheated, are weak willed, idgaf, ive even made it clear with my girl of 5 years that i would drop her outta my life faster then a hot potato. I woudlve said, i believe you cheated and want a paternity test, they can literally take the blood right then and there so if you got nothing to hide, whats the problem? Shes lucky she was still even in the house, i literally wouldve taken my other kids and walked out with them, cause if your not willing to take a easy paternity test after i make a valid arguement on why i dont think its my child, im automatically gonna think your hiding something. JS To Stay With Someone You Think Cheats On you, Is To Accept That Your Not What They Need, But Shows Your More Scared of Being Alone then Being Abused. This is from the side of a guy whos already been through this, only diffrence was she FAILED the paternity test. Now im dating someone else.

[@evanthescienceguy9002]

In the first story, comparing the husband to a clown is insulting to clowns

[@vigneshnath8693]

You are lower than the husband

[@sebastianquinchia1840]

As a man, if it were me in story 1, I might have pushed for separation or just outright left by then

[@NightMare-wk5np]

i am the one how like first

[@IamJdTrent]

Have a cookie 🍪

[@manishtyagi1728]

Good for you

[@NightMare-wk5np]

@@manishtyagi1728 thank you brother :)

[@NightMare-wk5np]

@@IamJdTrent i will happly eat it

[@manishtyagi1728]

@@NightMare-wk5np you are welcome buddy

[@hwimystic7691]

Story 1: Wow, dump the husband. I’m sorry, but if he is being that petty and childish, dump him. I understand cheating sucks, but the child shouldn’t suffer. He refused to hold the child and did nothing when his family went after OP. When they apologize, I wouldn’t as forgiving, “So you treated me like garbage and accuse me of cheating, insulting and berating me. Now that I cave into your stupidity, you now feel guilty?“ OP’s husband and family are a collective of morons. I understand being concerned about cheating assumptions, but they have no right going out of their way to harass OP. Story 4: So we’re playing respect your elders? The boyfriend is not entitled to respect because they’re older. Just because they’re older, it doesn’t show their worth as a person. And from the interaction and how they were treated, the boyfriend deserves no respect. Story 7: The sister could get a ring similar. It isn’t a family heirloom. OP needs to tell these people to get bent and go find better friends. Yeah, stupid it’s over a ring, but the family went out of their way to lie about it and being entitled about it. This is disgusting and stupid. The family knows they’re full of bs.

[@channingdavis5541]

Story 1: Every man has a right to a dna test. I don’t wanna hear any of that shit saying other wise. The behavior towards his wife ain’t called for. But if a woman has nothing to hide then just do the test 🤷🏽‍♂️