I Tricked My Wife into thinking I was Cheating… Here’s Why

[@That_Random_British_Dude]

I've never understood cheaters. When they cheat, it's fine, it's like a little adventure, but when their partner potentially cheats, it's a betrayal, worse thing ever as if they hadn't been cheating in the first place. Stuff like this makes me question if people have any self awareness to begin with

[@Archiver_Studio]

It's usually a method of doing something It's kinda like a high for those kinds of people They only get angry when they are betrayed cuz they believe they don't deserve it even though they are literal asshats So yeah it's basically just lack of self awareness.

[@gabrielsanandres537]

It's called... A double standard

[@mysticflow467]

they want their cake and to eat it to. she maybe just wanted action while he couldn't perform, it wasn't a long term cheat plan ig

[@narsilthefreak6171]

Part of cheating involves either deliberately ignoring the fact that what you're doing is wrong or just being apathetic to how vile your actions are. With the former, the cheater projects their repressed feelings of guilt and remorse on their partner for even suspecting they're cheating, since that's what they feel towards themselves. For the latter, an apathetic cheater feels offended that someone might actually treat them the way they treat others because "they're the ones in control/the ones who dictate what goes on" or simply are hypocritical enough that they don't see how two-faced they are in having the nerve to be mad at getting cheated on.

[@obsideonyx7604]

Narcissists tend to lack self awareness of negative qualities like hypocrisy.

[@Demise09732]

From loving husband to cold-hearted detective. This guy must have been really determined to ruin her after what she did to him. Props to him.

[@theshanamaster]

this is what you're supposed to do to women after shit like this, there entire being is based around where they grew up and the connections they have, ruining this whole facade is the best way since she can't leverage anything against you, rather coming out and confronting her, which is what i did and she's living a lie still lmao, yea i took a loss but learn from this guy, not me.

[@Uhhhih]

​@@theshanamaster that whole facade part is definitely the best strat he went with she had no leverage to begin with

[@alliebonetti5416]

@@theshanamaster I'm sorry you were hurt and betrayed. Not all women are as you described, but there are always a few bad apples - men and women. I grew up in a large family - LOADS of infidelity, again men and women. Contrary to your claim, I have been with my husband for 27 years, and I can honestly declare that neither of us have ever cheated. I wish you well for the future and I hope you find that true and pure relationship that is filled with love, laughter and longevity.

[@Botaccount31]

Some of yall need better hobbies.

[@Monotone_Fallen]

@@Botaccount31 how about keeping stuff like that to yourself

[@xXRedNinjaXx]

If you ever have a moment where your blocked by a person you never met before and they’re friends with your partner and raised a red flag, just make another account to check on who they are and see if there were any other pictures of them together acting too friendly

[@ferd1775]

Private profiles..

[@lordsathariel4384]

@@ferd1775 depends on the app private profiles aren't as private as people think which i know a couple of people who learned this the hard way

[@wholelottalight]

@@ferd1775 Or just make a profile pretending to be some hot whatever they are into and there is a decent chance they might accept your request.

[@ferd1775]

@Helius Infinitus that's a solid idea haha

[@MrLockeSocke]

or just look at their account from a friends account

[@zacenal2872]

i would have said to the wife after she asked him if he was cheating "babe, why would i cheat on you? I love you so much, and we loved and knew each other for over 23 years, i know neither of us would cheat, am i right?" it would be so funny, to guilt trip and take revenge on her like that! She would feel guilty, break up with p.o.s and i would break up with her, she would stay alone forever, with a mental breakdown

[@schizoidmeme5470]

You don't understand cheaters. They literally will make ANY EXCUSE THEY CAN to justify their actions in their own head. With such bullshit as, "I thought he was too good for me so i cheated."

[@dolfinyeti561]

Women don’t feel guilt when they cheat until they’re caught. This would either go over her head or if she’s smart make her suspicious that you know.

[@gyggg1084]

@@dolfinyeti561 men cheat a lot more than woman but ofc u r a man

[@gyggg1084]

@@dolfinyeti561 LMAO u r def talking with "evidence" not ur personal agenda .it's really easy search cheating rate women vs men but ofc all the data there are wrong and made up since they don't support what u r saying.

[@WERTYUIO821]

@@schizoidmeme5470 I remember a few years ago when it was all over in the news that a woman's legit reason for cheating during divorce was "He never argued with me. He was too loving and always doing what I asked him to." I don't remember who it was but I think it was someone famous.

[@kat8753]

The cheating wife messaging her affair partner whining that she thinks her husband is cheating. Serious disconnect there, if I was OP I wouldn't feel bad about the spy app at all. He gets to see her getting a taste of her own medicine and yet she still doesn't have the insight to break things off with that simp.

[@rita8274]

I couldn't even IMAGINE doing what this "wife" did to her husband. My husband is employed but has no hours because his company is having issues (startup in health industry). It has never occurred to me to hold anything over his head, think less of him or look for someone else. We will get through this together. Marriage means supporting each other through everything or at the least, leaving if you can no longer be trusted to stay honest and faithful to the boundaries of your relationship.

[@XaXa17x]

I wish there were more of you

[@Botaccount31]

@XaXa There are plenty. Stop hanging around garbage and you'll notice that the world smells a whole lot better.

[@Sam-U-S-i4z]

Man if my wife would even say "I'm here for you" I would fall in love all over again

[@rita8274]

@@Sam-U-S-i4z T_T Maybe it's time for therapy if attempted communication is going nowhere. My husband and I communicate very well, and we both have sat the other down to say we felt neglected at one point. We worked to do better together. It happens to every couple!

[@Sam-U-S-i4z]

@@rita8274 Hey, I appreciate you're reply. I have no one to talk to and a simple youtube reply from a comment from months ago with your words are of much meaning to me. Thank you 😊

[@TheDarkLink7]

The spy app isn't going to far. Dude basically went dollar store Batman to get the info he needs/needed to get.

[@chronobretz9511]

No different from checking her phone like most people and private investigators are expensive

[@Wendy_O._Koopa]

Girl had an army marching with red flags, you'd have to be a Grade-A Moron to not install that app.

[@Error22111]

I dunno if I necessarily agree, but I adore the phrase “dollar store Batman”

[@ambition4837]

catman

[@timon6759]

@@ambition4837 datman

[@Utg_gamer_henry]

I love how he just started laughing in the middle of explaining

[@annoyingteen6586]

Proves that he isnt an ai🎉

[@seratoninny]

because the nerve of sue is ridiculously hilarious 🤣

[@Jawsss_3ditsss]

How did I actually read this at that part 💀

[@evavocative6975]

We need to hear part 2 IMMEDIATELY! If your partner is cheating and you're using it to collect evidence, honestly I think a spy app is justified. OP already knew wife was cheating at that point, just wants enough proof for court. I don't blame him.

[@jemeson5332]

Would that really stand up in court though? Seems illegal to do that since as far as I know, the laws are that at least one party involved in the conversation has to know their conversations are being recorded by a third party. Though I could be wrong.

[@greengiants556]

@@jemeson5332 depends on the place your in, even changed from state to state.

[@ashwinbalu]

Agreed

[@FrozenWillow1980]

I feel the same way. Poor guy. Glad he found out early on though and not 15 years later like my friend. She was numb for weeks after she found out what hubby was doing behind her back.

[@YourResidentQueer]

@@AmItheJerk bet 🙂

[@LixoBostaGaymes]

This woman be like: "i think my husband is cheating on me, i need consolation from my boyfriend"

[@NagoBust]

FuAnEY

[@eearlgreyy]

We love logic🥰

[@junglejim1538]

When married, there cannot be any assumption of "privacy". You two are now 'one' and you owe each other full transparency. There is no justification for hiding things from your partner. Your partner deserves to know, in so many ways. If you do hide things from your partner, it will eventually come to light, trust will be gone (you will reap what you sow) and your relationship will be over. Period. Trust is the one absolutely essential ingredient to a happy, successful relationship. If you can't live with this concept, then don't get into a committed relationship such as marriage. It will not go well if you hide things from your partner.

[@M_ht.]

I don't know why but I feel this guy is a really genius story maker and teller.

[@bendytheinkdemon3949]

i love these long revenge stories. there master pieces.

[@connorb9097]

They’re *

[@bluetikc1]

If his wife wasn’t pleased with helping her injured man that should’ve been the marriage right there, she was never the one.

[@Warriormon87]

Spy app justified. Husband and Wife shouldn't have any secrets from. Each other except for surprises like presents for each other. He is not the jerk. Throughout all of this he never cheated.

[@wcemichael]

I wish I could get this kind of revenge on my ex. She's even brainwashed our daughter not to care about me

[@justincase1535]

have you talked to your daughter and how old is she?

[@dreddit]

It's ok man if you can find dirt you can have revenge like this

[@me-fd9zc]

i am so sorry for you that you cant be with your own daughter i wish there was anything i can do for you but there isnt

[@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773]

your daughter would never get married to a good man i am sorry for that

[@Ando1428]

Heart goes out to you brother

[@A.Peacock]

Damn. A way to destroy someone is to make them think you love them then ghost them. Do that over and over and ruin them mentally.

[@HOVREDDY]

This literally happened to me. I was with a girl whom I truly cared about for 6 years. We were college sweethearts. She went out one night with Co-Workers after months of being distant. and I noticed her talking to me about this dude at work. She then didn't talk to me for three days. I broke it off with her without asking questions. I already knew. Years later after the breakup and being single all that time, she told me she did cheat on me with her co worker. Turns out, the guy gave her a permanent STD, even I was her first and made it clear that I wanted to settle down. Karma is a bitch. Since then, she is still in the same small town, single, her father loves me, and all the meanwhile. I did a 180 degree turn, lost 50 lbs, became very successful, and never will look back.

[@VanceAsagi]

"For better or for worse unless an unfortunate injury happens"

[@MoronicPlague]

pov : your hiped out about part 2 and realize this was posted 3 minuts ago 😦

[@Strawberry69here]

Oh my God same

[@mistake5568]

47m ago

[@Nv2olk]

@@mistake5568 59 mins ago

[@linusborgert1673]

same omg. just searched for it

[@horrorgirl688]

I know..where's 2??!!!! Aahhhhh!!!!!

[@simpletitleholder]

This entire saga was amazing I’ll be surprised if anyone hasn’t heard about this story

[@suzy.8863]

Yes people like her don't deserve forgiveness 👏 I love a revenge story 😩

[@C_Edd1]

my bro BREATHED HARD at one sentence

[@funkocafe8958]

I had a 7 years relation with my ex, she decided to do the deed as you say with my best friend some time around year 3 and decided to continue, I was out of the loop until the end of the relationship when Google Maps history showed her on a Motel for a few hours every other day when she was "with her sister" or "having to stay at work"... so this kind of apps are saviours to me... they will let you know if something is wrong and will let you proof what the other is doing beyond a "He said, She said" scenario

[@DinkeshShah]

More of these long revenge videos please. They are gems.

[@KasaJiso]

*Precious valuables*

[@bsouthmama3010]

Yesss 💯

[@KasaJiso]

@@AmItheJerk great I came within the first hour of part 1 and was wondering where part 2 was.

[@urm0m69]

Brooooo this is beyond nuclear revenge. This already feels like mf galaxy revenge.

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

At first I thought he had no good reason to make his wife believe he was cheating but now I see he was playing the long game on a cheating wife

[@LinuxJedi]

damn this was so sad what a heartbreaking story i can’t imagine the grief and pain of this man after 23 years of marriage after he gave her everything she could ever possibly want and it wasn’t enough then she had the audacity to say that she can’t imagine her life without him knowing that she never should’ve cheated in the first place

[@kendallpeebles7481]

The definition of, "Don't hate the player, hate the game."

[@LiveforHM]

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. The story of man falls ill or gets injured and the wife starts cheating is unfortunately way too common. Two very important things to remember for guys in relationships and guys in marriages: 1. She's not yours, it's just your turn. 2. All women are like that.

[@Just_a_Goth]

Yes, because women are one colossus made of all women.

[@_sky_blue_]

Men not?

[@bazhumke4040]

this ain't it buddy

[@SC-RGX7]

Cheaters are the kind of people that hate to be cheated on. Always use that weapon to destroy them.

[@justa_normalperson9412]

BRO THIS GIVES ME CHILLS THIS IS AWSOME BRO

[@linusborgert1673]

This is the best video yet on this channel

[@Letgo13inG]

“Oh, well if it isn’t the consequences of my actions!”😂

[@TheCooperOfCreation]

I need a part two

[@monroerobbins7551]

Damn, OP went into this with full on INTENT. I don’t wanna say I respect it, but damn, he went in full throttle. Plus technically, he didn’t do anything wrong.

[@uzoojiyi2560]

For the first story Hats to you man she deserves so much worse but you did what was right and deserve no regrets

[@teddysaliwa5770]

Man understood the assignment and he was committed

[@kawh8719]

lol, "dude went full novella" i know exactly what that means hahah

[@LaPetra7429]

I'm loving the quotes on this guy: cheshire cat, Joker and lieutenant

[@yoseppich]

This is the best story in this channel so far

[@ztutt19]

Top 5 story from this channel 🔥

[@soothingsword7660]

He laughed lol holy crap did not expect that. 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@randomaccount-dq1jq]

Once you cheat on a partner short of physical abuse everything else is fair game for the other person to make sure they come out with as little reputation damage as possible since so many cheaters lie and flip who messed around/ fully change how they cheated one time being taken advantage off when drunk etc rather than a months long thing. When your married to that person then they even more have every right to do anything (again short of physical violence) to make sure they can leave the marriage with as much as possible, people commit suicide from that sh*t.

[@callumbreton8930]

Man really turned from Batman to Edmond Dantés

[@micah7817]

Come on now @AmITheJerk ! Here you go with the cliffhangers again lol I know what you're doing and it's working🤣 Where's part 2?! 🥰

[@Wraith0100]

Enjoyed the story with 1 big cup of tea ☕

[@IceDragon2337]

17:30 my guy was having the time of his life 🤣🤣

[@peytonibarra8992]

These are amazing wake up calls for me. Dating and marriage seems to go to shit more times than not. Glad I am single.

[@colour1246]

17:30 I’ve never seen the voice laugh before sue broke him too 😂

[@chewface]

I was with you until 19:58. You shouldn't have done the deed.

[@justcoal801]

20:06 that truck line made me wheeze dude

[@LinuxJedi]

*lucifer watched this and took notes* " oh good idea " !! 😂

[@MoronicPlague]

PART TWOOOO PLS

[@MrSmith-vw6cl]

NOTHING STOPS THE PLAN!!! Dudes, literally a terminator that came from the future to destroy her!! Hahaha

[@marxel4444]

Dude on d-day +5 : *distances himself from wife Wife: I fear all I have done is to awaken a sleeping giant and fill him with a terrible resolve

[@Mobchib]

17:30 this is not ai voice. this is a human. props to the work

[@qyclops]

The fact that the video is playing tom gold run, an kids game, makes this SOOO hilarious. good video anyway, dropping an like :D

[@NXDA11000]

Bro im so excited for the next video.

[@sal7149]

This is such an old story at this point and many have made a video on it, but I always end up listening to the whole thing.

[@beamngdrifting9994]

Is there a part two, or is this story already on the channel?

[@capacitor8399]

This isn't the way to go forward. You don't need revenge, you need a good lawyer.

[@michaelfreedman1006]

My (now) ex-wife had an affair. I really hurt at the time. I had done nothing wrong. In the divorce she accused me of having an affair.

[@thecrebain6760]

I am so invested I can't wait haha

[@Mineral2290]

“I don’t wanna just divorce her, i wanna DEStroy her” Me: Bro… chill?

[@Magical_Trash]

I love when a well laid plan comes together. I’m rooting for him 😆😆 I absolutely HATE cheaters. What horrible thing to discover someone you’ve dedicated so much of ur life to, just threw it all in the garbage 😢

[@kawaiilips4247]

THAT. WAS. SO. SATISFYING.

[@newpgaston6891]

Assuming that story is even true: Never in a million years would I sleep with her one last time... At this point I'd be worried about her throwing in accusations and the like, after the reveal.

[@db757lbh1]

And I’ve heard in some states intimate relations after discovering infidelity can be seen as forgiving the infidelity.

[@nitinsaxena4906]

This was a brilliant plan executed masterfully. And I am really sorry for the OP,

[@nedimharacic1809]

I have seen this story few months ago, I don't rember it the best but it was incredible.

[@KatGardner-cs2qg]

GREAT STORY :)

[@Josh-th7tm]

The universe doesn't like lies. The truth always comes out one way or another eventually.

[@Ella2988]

an event or sequence of events of a specified kind or that has previously been referred to. "the board admitted responsibility for the affair" a sexual relationship between two people, one or both of whom are married to or in a long-term relationship with someone else. "his wife is having an affair"

[@dalebailey754]

I realize this is just a story, but my marriage ended because of a cheating spouse. I, too, wanted to gather proof. I never got it, and my ex- spouse eventually left me and married the guy who I was cheated on with. I chose to remain single. My divorce was final in December 2019.

[@KyleD718]

Wasted half year of your life just for her to ruin it. That's messed up

[@chipamos]

I really like this narrator.

[@frostyalplayz]

Love the content homie keep it up

[@soothingsounds70]

The spy app is what saved this man from waiting anymore of his life with her

[@spamaccount6542]

Honestly, at first i thought this was gonna be a toxic story and in a way, it is, but the toxicity wasn't created because of op, it was created because of his selfish wife

[@lucifermorningstar2505]

Can’t wait for part 2

[@dimitriJr]

I think even if he didn't use the spy app he knew his relationship was in shambles.

[@rachelcarpenter350]

Daaammmmn love your story telling keep it up

[@um536vids2]

This guy is a jerk, it isn’t a surprise that he married a jerk. What makes him a jerk is sleeping with her again right before divorcing her. “I figured might as well” don’t you think she said the same thing about her affair? She is a bigger jerk and first mover but they are both cut from the same cloth.

[@freecountry3544]

I'm single at 47, have no kids. I don't know how people do this to their family. It's completely evil if you ask me.

[@justanotherracoon509]

yo bro i lowkey laughed at how devistating this guy is but damn hes good at revenge fr

[@Itsr0zaIina]

17:31 i like how this channel is ai free

[@2MC2L]

Dude is a legend.

[@RealestToru]

There was never a better representation of Chaotic-Good than this.

[@MrMusicboy91]

If this truly happened “LEGEND” comes to mind!

[@harrypotter1973]

💀💀💀

[@joelphillips6697]

Not a jerk. The endless problems that could be sorted out through conversation is endless. People avoid difficult situations because they are hard for them to deal with…. Not thinking about the other person who will also have to deal with them. Just be honest. Talk. Discuss things. If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to say it isn’t working. So much heartache could be avoided if people were just able to speak about how they feel and why.

[@veryveryverysadcat]

Can we just appreciate the fact that he is telling a divorce story and in the back ground a kid's game (Talking Tom series) is playing?

[@ferretman6790]

It said “New York” and you said “New York City” we can’t get a break. 😂

[@JOKER-wl5jx]

Can't wait for pt2

[@JOKER-wl5jx]

@@AmItheJerk thanks man love your content

[@Vegemite_Warrior]

Can't wait for the next video

[@chaos5563]

ayo this guy is THE MAN

[@hashoomtube8807]

the voice acting omg lmaooo, you should become a voice actor youde be really good

[@ievabudrikiene9468]

the one told us the story laughed in the middle of the video

[@D64nz]

classic example of why sometimes it's right to be a jerk. op is a massive jerk for all the right reasons and I'm here for it.

[@meaum]

Bro went through a canon event like crawal space😂😂😂

[@randomdoggo9489]

I love how unlike other people instead of just being straight up depressed that his wife was cheating, that to after 23 years of marriage with two kids, he instead won’t let her live in peace until she gets her karma.