I Tricked My Wife into thinking I was Cheating… Here’s Why

✌ PART 2 - • My Wife Cheated on me ...
0:00 I Tricked My Wife into thinking I was Cheating… Here’s Why (u/Kermit_Defrogg)
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[@That_Random_British_Dude]

I've never understood cheaters. When they cheat, it's fine, it's like a little adventure, but when their partner potentially cheats, it's a betrayal, worse thing ever as if they hadn't been cheating in the first place. Stuff like this makes me question if people have any self awareness to begin with

[@Archiver_Studio]

It's usually a method of doing something It's kinda like a high for those kinds of people They only get angry when they are betrayed cuz they believe they don't deserve it even though they are literal asshats So yeah it's basically just lack of self awareness.

[@gabrielsanandres537]

It's called... A double standard

[@mysticflow467]

they want their cake and to eat it to. she maybe just wanted action while he couldn't perform, it wasn't a long term cheat plan ig

[@narsilthefreak6171]

Part of cheating involves either deliberately ignoring the fact that what you're doing is wrong or just being apathetic to how vile your actions are. With the former, the cheater projects their repressed feelings of guilt and remorse on their partner for even suspecting they're cheating, since that's what they feel towards themselves. For the latter, an apathetic cheater feels offended that someone might actually treat them the way they treat others because "they're the ones in control/the ones who dictate what goes on" or simply are hypocritical enough that they don't see how two-faced they are in having the nerve to be mad at getting cheated on.

[@obsideonyx7604]

Narcissists tend to lack self awareness of negative qualities like hypocrisy.

[@Magical_Trash]

I love when a well laid plan comes together. I’m rooting for him 😆😆 I absolutely HATE cheaters. What horrible thing to discover someone you’ve dedicated so much of ur life to, just threw it all in the garbage 😢

[@Mobchib]

17:30 this is not ai voice. this is a human. props to the work

[@beamngdrifting9994]

Is there a part two, or is this story already on the channel?

[@MrMusicboy91]

If this truly happened “LEGEND” comes to mind!

[@harrypotter1973]

💀💀💀

[@johnnymcneal5914]

No I don't think he's the jerk per say all he was doing was giving a taste of your own medicine and I'm pretty sure it was pretty bitter indeed

[@XashA12Musk]

bro can have movie based of off his life

[@danielmar4532]

Netflix needs to pick this up lol

[@gregoriojrgragas8889]

The pitch is a whole

[@TheCooperOfCreation]

What does POS mean?

[@Dan-ASICPlug]

These videos are great. Been really disappointed with all the shorts videos. They aren’t even worth watching to get immersed in the story and since shorts started coming out, there have been fewer full length episodes.

[@lunaxnova2920]

@am I the jerk? is there a way to play the playlist backwards, I keep getting part 2s before part one

[@mr-tj6pf]

Can you make the subtitles smaller

[@xXRedNinjaXx]

If you ever have a moment where your blocked by a person you never met before and they’re friends with your partner and raised a red flag, just make another account to check on who they are and see if there were any other pictures of them together acting too friendly

[@ferd1775]

Private profiles..

[@lordsathariel4384]

@@ferd1775 depends on the app private profiles aren't as private as people think which i know a couple of people who learned this the hard way

[@wholelottalight]

@@ferd1775 Or just make a profile pretending to be some hot whatever they are into and there is a decent chance they might accept your request.

[@ferd1775]

@Helius Infinitus that's a solid idea haha

[@MrLockeSocke]

or just look at their account from a friends account

[@Demise09732]

From loving husband to cold-hearted detective. This guy must have been really determined to ruin her after what she did to him. Props to him.

[@theshanamaster]

this is what you're supposed to do to women after shit like this, there entire being is based around where they grew up and the connections they have, ruining this whole facade is the best way since she can't leverage anything against you, rather coming out and confronting her, which is what i did and she's living a lie still lmao, yea i took a loss but learn from this guy, not me.

[@Uhhhih]

​@@theshanamaster that whole facade part is definitely the best strat he went with she had no leverage to begin with

[@alliebonetti5416]

@@theshanamaster I'm sorry you were hurt and betrayed. Not all women are as you described, but there are always a few bad apples - men and women. I grew up in a large family - LOADS of infidelity, again men and women. Contrary to your claim, I have been with my husband for 27 years, and I can honestly declare that neither of us have ever cheated. I wish you well for the future and I hope you find that true and pure relationship that is filled with love, laughter and longevity.

[@shellshockedbros4458]

Some of yall need better hobbies.

[@Monotone_Fallen]

@@shellshockedbros4458 how about keeping stuff like that to yourself

[@zacenal2872]

i would have said to the wife after she asked him if he was cheating "babe, why would i cheat on you? I love you so much, and we loved and knew each other for over 23 years, i know neither of us would cheat, am i right?" it would be so funny, to guilt trip and take revenge on her like that! She would feel guilty, break up with p.o.s and i would break up with her, she would stay alone forever, with a mental breakdown

[@schizoidmeme5470]

You don't understand cheaters. They literally will make ANY EXCUSE THEY CAN to justify their actions in their own head. With such bullshit as, "I thought he was too good for me so i cheated."

[@dolfinyeti561]

Women don’t feel guilt when they cheat until they’re caught. This would either go over her head or if she’s smart make her suspicious that you know.

[@gyggg1084]

@@dolfinyeti561 men cheat a lot more than woman but ofc u r a man

[@gyggg1084]

@@dolfinyeti561 LMAO u r def talking with "evidence" not ur personal agenda .it's really easy search cheating rate women vs men but ofc all the data there are wrong and made up since they don't support what u r saying.

[@WERTYUIO821]

@@schizoidmeme5470 I remember a few years ago when it was all over in the news that a woman's legit reason for cheating during divorce was "He never argued with me. He was too loving and always doing what I asked him to." I don't remember who it was but I think it was someone famous.

[@kat8753]

The cheating wife messaging her affair partner whining that she thinks her husband is cheating. Serious disconnect there, if I was OP I wouldn't feel bad about the spy app at all. He gets to see her getting a taste of her own medicine and yet she still doesn't have the insight to break things off with that simp.

[@TheDarkLink7]

The spy app isn't going to far. Dude basically went dollar store Batman to get the info he needs/needed to get.

[@chronobretz9511]

No different from checking her phone like most people and private investigators are expensive

[@Wendy_O._Koopa]

Girl had an army marching with red flags, you'd have to be a Grade-A Moron to not install that app.

[@Error22111]

I dunno if I necessarily agree, but I adore the phrase “dollar store Batman”

[@ambition4837]

catman

[@timon6759]

@@ambition4837 datman

[@_GamerG]

This woman be like: "i think my husband is cheating on me, i need consolation from my boyfriend"

[@NagoBust]

FuAnEY

[@Aureviorfrankyboy]

We love logic🥰

[@evavocative6975]

We need to hear part 2 IMMEDIATELY! If your partner is cheating and you're using it to collect evidence, honestly I think a spy app is justified. OP already knew wife was cheating at that point, just wants enough proof for court. I don't blame him.

[@jemeson5332]

Would that really stand up in court though? Seems illegal to do that since as far as I know, the laws are that at least one party involved in the conversation has to know their conversations are being recorded by a third party. Though I could be wrong.

[@greengiants556]

@@jemeson5332 depends on the place your in, even changed from state to state.

[@ashwinbalu]

Agreed

[@FrozenWillow1980]

I feel the same way. Poor guy. Glad he found out early on though and not 15 years later like my friend. She was numb for weeks after she found out what hubby was doing behind her back.

[@YourResidentQueer]

@@AmItheJerk bet 🙂

[@MoronicPlague]

pov : your hiped out about part 2 and realize this was posted 3 minuts ago 😦

[@Strawberry69here]

Oh my God same

[@mistake5568]

47m ago

[@Nv2olk]

@@mistake5568 59 mins ago

[@linusborgert1673]

same omg. just searched for it

[@horrorgirl688]

I know..where's 2??!!!! Aahhhhh!!!!!

[@bendytheinkdemon3949]

i love these long revenge stories. there master pieces.

[@connorb9097]

They’re *

[@rita8274]

I couldn't even IMAGINE doing what this "wife" did to her husband. My husband is employed but has no hours because his company is having issues (startup in health industry). It has never occurred to me to hold anything over his head, think less of him or look for someone else. We will get through this together. Marriage means supporting each other through everything or at the least, leaving if you can no longer be trusted to stay honest and faithful to the boundaries of your relationship.

[@XaXa17x]

I wish there were more of you

[@shellshockedbros4458]

@XaXa There are plenty. Stop hanging around garbage and you'll notice that the world smells a whole lot better.

[@Sam-U-S-i4z]

Man if my wife would even say "I'm here for you" I would fall in love all over again

[@rita8274]

@@Sam-U-S-i4z T_T Maybe it's time for therapy if attempted communication is going nowhere. My husband and I communicate very well, and we both have sat the other down to say we felt neglected at one point. We worked to do better together. It happens to every couple!

[@Sam-U-S-i4z]

@@rita8274 Hey, I appreciate you're reply. I have no one to talk to and a simple youtube reply from a comment from months ago with your words are of much meaning to me. Thank you 😊

[@wcemichael]

I wish I could get this kind of revenge on my ex. She's even brainwashed our daughter not to care about me

[@justincase1535]

have you talked to your daughter and how old is she?

[@dreddit]

It's ok man if you can find dirt you can have revenge like this

[@me-fd9zc]

i am so sorry for you that you cant be with your own daughter i wish there was anything i can do for you but there isnt

[@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773]

your daughter would never get married to a good man i am sorry for that

[@Ando1428]

Heart goes out to you brother

[@Warriormon87]

Spy app justified. Husband and Wife shouldn't have any secrets from. Each other except for surprises like presents for each other. He is not the jerk. Throughout all of this he never cheated.

[@Utg_gamer_henry]

I love how he just started laughing in the middle of explaining

[@annoyingteen6586]

Proves that he isnt an ai🎉

[@seratoninny]

because the nerve of sue is ridiculously hilarious 🤣

[@Juju_3ditsss]

How did I actually read this at that part 💀

[@HOVREDDY]

This literally happened to me. I was with a girl whom I truly cared about for 6 years. We were college sweethearts. She went out one night with Co-Workers after months of being distant. and I noticed her talking to me about this dude at work. She then didn't talk to me for three days. I broke it off with her without asking questions. I already knew. Years later after the breakup and being single all that time, she told me she did cheat on me with her co worker. Turns out, the guy gave her a permanent STD, even I was her first and made it clear that I wanted to settle down. Karma is a bitch. Since then, she is still in the same small town, single, her father loves me, and all the meanwhile. I did a 180 degree turn, lost 50 lbs, became very successful, and never will look back.

[@A.Peacock]

Damn. A way to destroy someone is to make them think you love them then ghost them. Do that over and over and ruin them mentally.

[@junglejim1538]

When married, there cannot be any assumption of "privacy". You two are now 'one' and you owe each other full transparency. There is no justification for hiding things from your partner. Your partner deserves to know, in so many ways. If you do hide things from your partner, it will eventually come to light, trust will be gone (you will reap what you sow) and your relationship will be over. Period. Trust is the one absolutely essential ingredient to a happy, successful relationship. If you can't live with this concept, then don't get into a committed relationship such as marriage. It will not go well if you hide things from your partner.

[@bluetikc1]

If his wife wasn’t pleased with helping her injured man that should’ve been the marriage right there, she was never the one.

[@suzy.8863]

Yes people like her don't deserve forgiveness 👏 I love a revenge story 😩

[@micah7817]

Come on now @AmITheJerk ! Here you go with the cliffhangers again lol I know what you're doing and it's working🤣 Where's part 2?! 🥰

[@um536vids2]

This guy is a jerk, it isn’t a surprise that he married a jerk. What makes him a jerk is sleeping with her again right before divorcing her. “I figured might as well” don’t you think she said the same thing about her affair? She is a bigger jerk and first mover but they are both cut from the same cloth.

[@DinkeshShah]

More of these long revenge videos please. They are gems.

[@KasaJiso]

*Precious valuables*

[@bsouthmama3010]

Yesss 💯

[@KasaJiso]

@@AmItheJerk great I came within the first hour of part 1 and was wondering where part 2 was.

[@LiveforHM]

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. The story of man falls ill or gets injured and the wife starts cheating is unfortunately way too common. Two very important things to remember for guys in relationships and guys in marriages: 1. She's not yours, it's just your turn. 2. All women are like that.

[@Just_a_Goth]

Yes, because women are one colossus made of all women.

[@_sky_blue_]

Men not?

[@bazhumke4040]

this ain't it buddy

[@peytonibarra8992]

These are amazing wake up calls for me. Dating and marriage seems to go to shit more times than not. Glad I am single.

[@funkocafe8958]

I had a 7 years relation with my ex, she decided to do the deed as you say with my best friend some time around year 3 and decided to continue, I was out of the loop until the end of the relationship when Google Maps history showed her on a Motel for a few hours every other day when she was "with her sister" or "having to stay at work"... so this kind of apps are saviours to me... they will let you know if something is wrong and will let you proof what the other is doing beyond a "He said, She said" scenario

[@M_ht.]

I don't know why but I feel this guy is a really genius story maker and teller.

[@KyleD718]

Wasted half year of your life just for her to ruin it. That's messed up

[@simpletitleholder]

This entire saga was amazing I’ll be surprised if anyone hasn’t heard about this story

[@urm0m69]

Brooooo this is beyond nuclear revenge. This already feels like mf galaxy revenge.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

"I fall on the floor laughing" - stop the cap, you're not some cold hearted, unfazed cool guy. And your the "simp" not the new guy lol. Red Flag if a guy says someone is a simp.

[@lmtrainshorses4650]

Jerk: Doesn't understand why pos would want a "45 yo mother of two" Not a jerk: Doesn't understand why pos would want a woman who cheats _There's a difference there_

[@randomaccount-dq1jq]

Once you cheat on a partner short of physical abuse everything else is fair game for the other person to make sure they come out with as little reputation damage as possible since so many cheaters lie and flip who messed around/ fully change how they cheated one time being taken advantage off when drunk etc rather than a months long thing. When your married to that person then they even more have every right to do anything (again short of physical violence) to make sure they can leave the marriage with as much as possible, people commit suicide from that sh*t.

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

At first I thought he had no good reason to make his wife believe he was cheating but now I see he was playing the long game on a cheating wife

[@spamaccount6542]

Honestly, at first i thought this was gonna be a toxic story and in a way, it is, but the toxicity wasn't created because of op, it was created because of his selfish wife

[@Kestrill]

everyone discussing the spy app but i'm way more concerned with him sexually exploiting his wife, by clearly having very rough dubious consensual sex with her, while she was under the pretense he wasn't angry like it's not full on r*** but it's still highkey uncomfortable. especially the 'might as well get something out of it' like oof. Cheating is terrible and she deserves the rest of the nuclear revenge but that part made me sympathise less with OP

[@LinuxJedi]

*lucifer watched this and took notes* " oh good idea " !! 😂

[@monroerobbins7551]

Damn, OP went into this with full on INTENT. I don’t wanna say I respect it, but damn, he went in full throttle. Plus technically, he didn’t do anything wrong.

[@michaelfreedman1006]

My (now) ex-wife had an affair. I really hurt at the time. I had done nothing wrong. In the divorce she accused me of having an affair.

[@soullessginger9912]

That was to take the blame and ridicule away from herself and point it at you. Cause after that who's gonna wanna be with that cheating bitch?

[@Exsecrabilis]

-11/19/2022 @ 1306- -So far not a jerk. As to the app. Is there such an app? This story sounds like some PI (private investigation) novel, lol.

[@C_Edd1]

my bro BREATHED HARD at one sentence

[@warpedpresent5947]

i think the spy app is justified, he already had enough personal evidence anyway, thats just to be 100% sure and for court

[@newpgaston6891]

Assuming that story is even true: Never in a million years would I sleep with her one last time... At this point I'd be worried about her throwing in accusations and the like, after the reveal.

[@db757lbh1]

And I’ve heard in some states intimate relations after discovering infidelity can be seen as forgiving the infidelity.

[@MrSmith-vw6cl]

NOTHING STOPS THE PLAN!!! Dudes, literally a terminator that came from the future to destroy her!! Hahaha

[@URRS_in_da_snow]

Canadians here that are seeing this video comment here :)

[@palmyrene]

im not a canadian but hello

[@gio.2381]

Sorry

[@Strawberry69here]

I'm canadian

[@VanceAsagi]

"For better or for worse unless an unfortunate injury happens"

[@LinuxJedi]

damn this was so sad what a heartbreaking story i can’t imagine the grief and pain of this man after 23 years of marriage after he gave her everything she could ever possibly want and it wasn’t enough then she had the audacity to say that she can’t imagine her life without him knowing that she never should’ve cheated in the first place

[@jennifersmykala1108]

I was also played out by someone like that and I've been seriously ill since then, but well, finally I have proof that these symptoms, which I've had from people like you k Then I can send it to my doctor right away

[@dalebailey754]

I realize this is just a story, but my marriage ended because of a cheating spouse. I, too, wanted to gather proof. I never got it, and my ex- spouse eventually left me and married the guy who I was cheated on with. I chose to remain single. My divorce was final in December 2019.

[@ace_of_cakes]

Idk this is just too cold for me. I'm less bothered by the spy app (although I do think it's not ok) than I am his determination to emotionally wreck her. What she did was horrible, and he has every right to be angry as hell and to divorce her. But what kind of example does purposefully and meticulously hurting her set for his sons? That it's ok to be a horrible person if the other person has wronged you? Not to mention that he does have kids with this woman, he will not be able to completely avoid her forever, he's going to need to figure out how to be civil with her. What happens if his kids get married? Is OP going to start a massive fight with her at the wedding? And the part about his last time sleeping with her is honestly chilling. Would she have consented if she knew how violent he was going to be? Idk, I understand the desire for revenge but I don't think that two wrongs make a right and I think OP definitely crossed a line or two. Just my opinion though, I'm sure other people would disagree. Edit: watched the update and double down on this 100% - this man is cold and his actions went too far. And anyone who quotes The Joker seriously needs help. For the record 1. I don't think her suicide attempt was about him, and as someone who came close to attempting myself, I hate people who call it "selfish". The level of pain you have to be in to get to that point isn't something anyone deserves, no matter what they've done. 2. I doubt she would have gotten to that point if he had just divorced her when he found out rather than trying to wreck her emotionally. He succeeded! I wonder if he's proud. I genuinely hope he seeks counseling for himself because what he did is not a healthy way to deal with feelings of anger and betrayal. 3. I do think it was wrong for anyone to ask him to visit her. It would have been a nice thing to do, but he owes her nothing and nobody should be pressuring him to let her back into his life in any capacity.

[@wendi2607]

Ah... Classic, never blame 'she' and all full long rant paragraphs for 'he' Edit: oh you did write something of her, in one short word that is 'horrible'. Wonderful.

[@kendallpeebles7481]

The definition of, "Don't hate the player, hate the game."

[@vastoking3419]

Maybe I shouldnt get married, betrayal is scary

[@callumbreton8930]

Man really turned from Batman to Edmond Dantés

[@kawh8719]

lol, "dude went full novella" i know exactly what that means hahah

[@KirbysPVS]

I don't like the fact this spy app exists because of the ways one could use it, but the fact it was used to only confirm what he already knew is in a Grey zone for me.

[@KirbysPVS]

@LlEUCU. BEAU× exactly! There's a lot of bad things cellphones allow but at the same time there's a lot of ways one can use it correctly hence why it's a Grey area for me

[@nugget6635]

Well... One of the bad things... Is when parents spy on their sons. This happened to a friend of mine. However in this case I would argue it was put to good use.

[@nitinsaxena4906]

This was a brilliant plan executed masterfully. And I am really sorry for the OP,

[@dianekay8771]

Wtf I need the rest of the story

[@ChiTownTx]

Never get married. The true advice that damn near every father has past down to their sons for generations. Sadly, few listen to this advice. Remember, in the end the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

[@SC-RGX7]

Cheaters are the kind of people that hate to be cheated on. Always use that weapon to destroy them.

[@hanzsolindo7446]

200 bucks and I'll tell what app did he used.

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

The infidelity is less significant than the spy app? Some people have weird priorities.

[@larrymbouche]

Not the Jerk. In marriage there should be no presumption of secrecy. No, that violates the sanctuary of marriage in which there shouldn't be secrets. The secrets violate the sacredness of marriage. The SECRETS ARE A VIOLATION. NTAH

[@nileshdesilva]

What's that game?

[@marxel4444]

Dude on d-day +5 : *distances himself from wife Wife: I fear all I have done is to awaken a sleeping giant and fill him with a terrible resolve

[@teddysaliwa5770]

Man understood the assignment and he was committed

[@MoronicPlague]

PART TWOOOO PLS

[@Ella2988]

an event or sequence of events of a specified kind or that has previously been referred to. "the board admitted responsibility for the affair" a sexual relationship between two people, one or both of whom are married to or in a long-term relationship with someone else. "his wife is having an affair"

[@Mineral2290]

“I don’t wanna just divorce her, i wanna DEStroy her” Me: Bro… chill?

[@chewface]

I was with you until 19:58. You shouldn't have done the deed.

[@klaesjensen5930]

Sorry, but cheaters don't get to keep their right to privacy. If they can't adhere to the most basic romantic relationship rules, then the gloves come off, and the only one to blame is the cheater.

[@SoldierSpiderx]

the fact she start guard her phone and even tell OP she had to work extra hours late and everytime they had sex, her mind it somewhere else and when OP start look at her social media, she literally take every picture with the guy to close to her and in payback, OP did what she was doing to him but he did it worst and she got mad think OP was cheating and I died laugh when OP call the side dude a high quality simp

[@gotenblack2542]

lol ya like she was being distant to him but when he does it to her she has a problem with it like lady you messed up

[@supremess644]

Woman like a man with options. They want to know that you have other girls in line and that you could leave anytime, that's why you gotta go from Beta to Alfa

[@Pastelfrog3569]

Wth oct 20 is my birthday😂 damn

[@TheCooperOfCreation]

I need a part two

[@ravenvalentine4919]

whatever app he used i just need the dam thing i am on the edge already looking up such things because i am worried my fiance is doing the same thing this guy's wife did , similar story its soo dam close to home

[@RSDGAMESmuzzy]

He's not the piece of shit. She is the piece of shit. It's not his responsibility for your wife to be able to hold her commitment.

[@donni6406]

Bro I would say your not a jerk because at first u wanted to see if she was cheating and then u found out she was and no spy app wasn't to far

[@thevalarauka101]

Worf wasn't the first one in Star Trek who said that, I think Khan or someone did in the original films

[@linusborgert1673]

This is the best video yet on this channel

[@uzoojiyi2560]

For the first story Hats to you man she deserves so much worse but you did what was right and deserve no regrets

[@ztutt19]

Top 5 story from this channel 🔥

[@LaPetra7429]

I'm loving the quotes on this guy: cheshire cat, Joker and lieutenant

[@mugthemagpie3001]

Pure curiosity: was it in the USA? I don't think that would work in any EU country since installing any sort of message tracking app is quite illegal and would put you into trouble for doing so, making it even harder to lose the case even with rock hard evidence, as that might be countered by the other side of the case as "serious privacy breach". Someone enlighten me if I am wrong because this also may differ from country to country.

[@christianmingle3394]

It says New York around 13:30-13:50

[@soothingsword7660]

He laughed lol holy crap did not expect that. 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@mariahernandezdiaz243]

It's funny they were married 23 years and its 23 minutes long

[@Rooks994]

The OP is Kermit d frog That’s his Reddit name by the way?

[@snowywolf1797]

NOT A JERK and the spy app was needed in no way is that going too far

[@LegacyTV901]

This happened b4 but I accidentally watched part 2 first not realizing it was the second part of a story 😐😑

[@MoronicPlague]

top 3 video of the chanel