Husband Hunters (The Other Woman)

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[@destinyuplift]

God will not send you another woman husband!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

DestinyB that’s what ppl don’t realize they think they got it good breaking up homes . But my GOD won’t let you forget what you’ve done FACTS

[@Jesusreignslovesandlives4eva]

@DestinyB. You better say So! Totally agree... ❤️✌🏾

[@cheekscheeks5840]

FACTS !!!! When I found out about my ex I ran and never looked back. But before then I spoke with one of the home wreckers she said he told her we were roommates lol. I then said come get him he’s yours facts

[@msbaker8027]

@@cheekscheeks5840 Nah...aint nobody broke up that home but that person (man or woman) that's inside of the home that broke it

[@msbaker8027]

@@cheekscheeks5840 You gotta hold him/her responsible for breaking up their own home.

[@MissShauntae]

A man will not put you in a position to be the other woman if he truly wants to be with you. The woman he loves does not play role play she gets a title.... his wife! Be Blessed.

[@makebacunningham6795]

1sherita5 you better say that!! Periodt

[@nikkyshamz2696]

A mouthful!!!

[@missqueen5878]

Preache !!!!

[@ladyt_speaks_truths3923]

Amen!

[@kimberleysmith4175]

True

[@laurawilde2828]

My husband went to be with his side piece. We were together 21 years. I filed the divorce papers. 4 months later he wanted to come back home. Doesnt work like that. Ive been single 9 years. It was hard at first, but I'm good now. :)

[@beedabee1221]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 how did you heal and how long did it take? My ex did the same thing but we were married for 4 years and he moved out, found out he had a side piece and I filed for divorce. He wasn’t apologetic until after I caught him and filed. It’s been official since January and I want to be over it neooowww!!

[@Proverbs-vw2sc]

@@beedabee1221 Hi, I went through this as well. My problem is, I let bitterness set in. I've been divorce almost 9yrs. I've wasted so much time that I can not get back. My advice is "Seek Ye First the Kingdom of God"! Once I began doing that the healing started. Pray always and put your trust in The Almighty, and he will heal you! Be Blessed!!😊

[@bhilaire1bj]

Amen sis!!!

[@martymartinez50]

You are living your best life now

[@DiamondRoyalMinistries]

Stay single ladies. These men are not worth the headache 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@luckyone2311]

Best comment on here.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Not all men hun.

[@DiamondRoyalMinistries]

@@nikkyshamz2696 well I wouldn't know that yet because I haven't got it yet!

[@morharmar]

I disagree with this comment. My counter is... Know Your Worth ladies and you won't get caught up in no messy dramatic situation.

[@morharmar]

@@DiamondRoyalMinistries please don't speak on something you don't know. Not wise.

[@dnewt3551]

Be blessed I put my ex husband out when I found out he was cheating on me. He married the other woman, and told our son that God told him to marry her. I told our son, God is not the author of confusion. There is no way God told that to your dad.

[@9188jenni]

Wow he blamed it on God

[@Bgrace15]

@@9188jenni they're getting so brave these days

[@Shamarie0328]

DNewt I really like how you conveyed that message to your child. That was seriously wise. Good for you! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@justliss1827]

You told your son right.

[@liss319]

Chile!!!!! I’m dead! 🤯 No he didn’t 😟

[@sweetcase9630]

🗣YOUR NAME IS NOT ON THE DEED YOUR NAME IS NOT ON THE INSURANCE YOUR NAME IS NOT ON THE OTHER ASSETS. HES USING YOU. LADIES KNOW YOUR WORTH. NO MAN IS LEAVING HIS WIFE, UNITL HE WANTS TO LEAVE.

[@rrb2895]

O gosh. Lol. Regardless of the materialistic things. Birth women are getting treated like trash.

[@amariseshalina776]

Exactly, name on nothing.

[@missj5564]

Even if he leaves the wife, it will not be for the other woman.

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Preach....

[@cheekscheeks5840]

SweetCase 1988 let me tell u these desperate women don’t care . When I found out about my ex husband I ran facts

[@ashleygoodrich3294]

Be Blessed PSA He doesn’t Love his Wife Nor The Other Women🤷🏽‍♀️

[@rrb2895]

True. He keeps saying the other woman is the dump. But truth told. both women are being treated like dunmps. Women have been taught to think that a "title" will cover up that fact. And men could give a flip about a "title". Wife or not, if he wants to treat you like a dump, he will. For some reason this message made me sick. Guess because I've been on both sides of the fence. I'd rather be the woman not married to the player. If my feelings have to get hurt and I leave, Id rather leave without the financial heartache and drama of a divorce.

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

Facts!

[@tiagriffin2196]

Right. He doesn't love himself

[@missioncalming7172]

Be blessed and Amen. He dont evenove himself with all that juggling.

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

Tia Griffin or is only a "lover of himself."

[@stephaniemarie9850]

To reap what you sew doesn't mean you'll get the same back. You will get more than what you sewed back. Be careful. You don't want your kids to reap the fruits of your sins. Great vid.

[@johannasoriano6738]

A woman should not be with any man that has another woman regardless if he is married or not

[@karinasimon9589]

All men have other women. C'mon

[@johannasoriano6738]

Kari coocoo yes we know they do, Its up to you if you want to be the second option

[@Blsd1]

Kari coocoo not all men, get Tony’s example. He has only his wife and there more other men who has integrity. There’s nothing like all men are the same. Some are washed completely by the blood of Jesus from womanizing.

[@Favored262]

True

[@jackiemcbride833]

I will never come second to nobody except Jesus.

[@lorettawilson9160]

Hello

[@anointedstilettos]

This right here 🙌🏽💯

[@darlenebush9134]

AMEN

[@fucksociety8337]

And in JESUS eyes , youll NEVER come second to him. He died for you. Now what man can compete with that? NONE! Love it. 😍😍

[@Blsd1]

3 kinds of men I don’t wanna see get even close to me. 1. Married men 2. Men in relationships 3. Men that don’t belong in my life. I only want what God has proved.

[@yolamayo2689]

Ladies .... we are no exception to the rule ..... I have been on the other side... he was separated and married me ..... we have two kids together.... been married 10 yrs separated for 2 and he’s playing the next victim.... but at that time in my mind “being separated “ meant not together so I thought it was ok. You live and learn.... even though we legally still have papers on each other ... it was the worst decision I ever made to marry him... you will reap what you sow I surely did .... great video!

[@shawandabeasley142]

I can relate, he was separated from his wife, and they divorced 1 year later, we got married and he did me worse than he did his 1st wife, he cheated on me and left me for his married co worker, I ended up divorcing him, because I'm not dealing with a lying and cheating man, u will reap what you sow in this life, I was wrong for dealing with him when he was still married to his 1st wife, but God will not be mocked, I pray for him and her, for their soul and salvation.

[@tonshmar]

Wow, are your honestly is greatly appreciated. So often you hear the other woman make excuses as to why. Not often have I actually read where they’ve (OW) accepted the fact that you if you go down that road you WILL reap what you sow. That should be liberating for you to an extent. I hope you’re free now.

[@Jade-yu8mh]

I’m so glad you have taken accountability sending love 💗

[@mjennifer142]

My husband left me for another woman while I was pregnant we haven’t divorced yet and he said he didn’t want a divorce just needed some space but yet he is STILL with her after a year and I believe they are living together idk what is going on I only ever been with him my whole life first kiss and everything was with him. :’( God knows more what’s best for me thank Him she entered in and took him away n opened my eyes. Can’t wait for them to pay but even with that it will never be enough for me. Maybe hell would be enough I mean to rest me inside would be for them to burn in hell and then I’d be a lot better…left with sadness for them idk but God know it all anyways. He knows the truth truth.

[@KerrysKitchen1999]

@@mjennifer142 in the same boat except am not pregnant

[@lindajones684]

Most times The “Other Woman” has been nothing but the “Other Woman” in every relationship she probably ever had!!!

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

yes, don't settle 4 being the other woman....run

[@intentionalgreatness]

Retrain your mind ladies. Men do not think like us.

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

intentionalgreatness if they're dogs, they are dogs. They know what they are doing, because if he wasn't he wouldn't be sneaking, he thinks. God is about to take al dogs down...make or female.

[@serwaaaskew108]

Ladies no matter what if he leaves her for you TAG you're it. The next in line to be cheated on. The main reason why ladies you can't find a faithful man. They know most of the ladies are weak. STOP IT!

[@jordanjoshua0709]

A few years ago, I reconnected with an old flame. I knew he was married but he told me he was no longer living in the home and was in the process of a divorce. She tried to tell me via Facebook but I believed him. I later caught him at there home. I confronted him in front of her. The truth all came out. They did separate, but then they got back together and didn’t bother to tell me. After that day, he was dead to me. I realized I was the one in the wrong 100%. She tried to tell me but I didn’t listen. I was told “she’s just mad that I’m with you and she has someone too” I never thought that I’d be in that predicament. Filled with shame and guilt. I sincerely apologized to her in her face that day. I also told her that she deserved a man that would never hurt her the way he did. I wished her the best and after that day, I never ever looked back. Idk exactly what happened but looking back now, I shouldn’t have ever let an old flame burn me twice. Lesson learned for sure.

[@mareelovely]

I absolutely love it when you say that you are 100% faithful to your wife. It removes all ambiguity and disavows hairsplitting. Cheating spouses love to say, 'It was just talking,' or 'We didn't actually have sex,' or 'It was nothing.' It's all mindgames. No matter how far or not far it goes, it's still bad, and it's still a betrayal because you turned away from your spouse and turned to someone else.

[@AmericanDreamer]

yesss!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

These other women think they got it going on sleeping with married men . Just wait til y’all get married n see how the tables turn . Oh but how y’all forget when you had someone husband knowing they were married.

[@Dtella55]

The men are deceptive..con artist and pathological liars and tell you its a family friend..etc.

[@sandraestrich7074]

I agree with you totally

[@francesgoben5826]

Facts ladies just walk away

[@lilsamantha1]

I dont feel like im it at all. Ive been the good woman and the other woman. I dont believe anything he says to me. We r just friends.

[@go_off_Sis]

“you just the splash of cranberry in his Sprite “ 😂

[@leataylor9277]

😆

[@stephaniesimmons3818]

That was my favorite line 😂😂😂😂

[@cherh]

Like the song goes, "It's cheaper to keep her" any man that is married & has kids with his wife will never leave his wife. My coworker was with a married man for 3 years and he was telling her the exact same things TG just mentioned. Crazy! When she finally left him he went back to his wife. Leave these toxic married men alone. Child support will get half his check so you will probably be helping him pay. If he's disrespectful to his wife what makes you think he would treat you like a Queen? Wake up and stop being gullible for dxck. Blessings 💫

[@cherh]

@@bamarealist 😂 can't play with grown people. Gotta get straight to the facts! #NoSugarcoating

[@tiffanybrisco5919]

You better say that!!!

[@cherh]

@Uplayin You 😂🌼❤

[@cherh]

@@tiffanybrisco5919 gotta let'em know sis😊🌼

[@iambee0612]

A guy, a co-worker, and I got into a relationship. He said that he had been single for five years, had a daughter with ex, but no ties. I did research, found out he was indeed single. A month later, another woman pops up! Guess what, he had left his pregnant wife five years ago for this other woman and now he wanted to leave her for me!!!? And guess what, she was pregnant at that time. Long story short, I left him immediately. I'm no playground for grown boy. So it's damn true ladies: how you get him is how you'll lose him.

[@yvonnemonde4268]

My husband left me for"the other woman"it was painful because it happened on the 23 of December 2015 ; that was wrong timing and it broke me to pieces but now I'm healing , videos like these helps me. I really wish them the best .He left me with two beautiful girls who are now 13 and 11 years old. It's not easy though but I'm grateful.

[@Ngoziscreativity]

You are stronger than you think.Cling to our dear Lord Jesus.

[@fucksociety8337]

Narcissistic man. That move was calculated.

[@darnellcole6402]

Wow of 18 years of marriage my husband just left me to be with a married woman that still lives with her husband......I cried everyday for weeks and weeks and now I am getting stronger and God is already bringing me to my next level in Him and I am a Reverend and he is a non believer so he has no accountability or remorse.

[@Favored262]

Rejection is your protection God see what's down the road

[@jroyal2229]

I’ve been through that & I’ve divorced my ex-husband. But, to the other woman I told her “ what makes you think what he’s done to me, he’s not gonna do to you & I’m his wife.” Till this day “after he had a baby with her while he was still married to me, their relationship didn’t last. As far as me, I’m good & at peace now. I blocked his number from my phone & moved on in my life.

[@mareshahanneosborn2353]

If a man is married he should never cheat on his wife

[@TheTarynJ]

My ex husband left me for the other woman when I was pregnant with our daughter. She was to happy to be with him. She thought she caught the prize! WELP they married less than a year after I divorced him. They 3 kids in and home girl is miserable. He’s always in the club and cheating on her. Well boo , that’s what you wanted 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Shamarie0328]

MyLife As Taryn I’ve been there too! My ex-husband did the same thing to me and it did not turn out well for him. As my aunt used to say, ‘You can’t ride out into the sunset trying to create happiness off of somebody else’s misery’.

[@Jordanie245]

It was a blessing is disguise, stay strong ❤️😉🎉

[@Bgrace15]

Be blessed sis!

[@jasminep.43]

Wow,that's crazy.I have friend whose husband has been living with the other woman for a year and they're doing trips and attending parties and posting pictures on Facebook like they're a married couple and they see nothing wrong with what they're doing and it's very hard for my friend. Where is this karma at??

[@beedabee1221]

Jasmine Pettibone it takes time. Sometimes, it destroys their family lineage. Then on top of that, the glow up for your friend will be their demise💕

[@amaj_lex]

The person who disliked this video is the other woman. Ima pray for you sis🙏

[@Bgrace15]

Lol I'll join you in that prayer

[@ruthy8050]

Massagebyamaja LLC lol 😂

[@Shamarie0328]

Massagebyamaja LLC Amen 🙏🏾

[@couponmommilife]

😂

[@priscillaoduro4865]

Hahahahaha 😂😂

[@CoachLove]

I have a family member that did exactly this move. Went after a man, got him, he left his wife, got fired from his career because they don't tolerate adultery, they got married, now after a few years she doesn't want him and wants a divorce. On the flip, I've been thr other woman before. He had a separate apartment living single. I almost committed suicide when I found out because I felt so used, abused, and I believed God was going to make me suffer the same when/if I got married. Took me several years before I even considered another relationship. (Separated is still married too.)

[@Bgrace15]

You are forgiven and blessed sis❤️🤗

[@Dtella55]

Exactly...💯💯✔

[@andreahoward2683]

God forgave you but Unfortunately, you will still have to reap this. I know first hand.

[@adrianamedel7951]

This happened to me. I was the main woman (mother of his child). We were together a total of 16 years (unmarried). For the last two years of our toxic relationship he met another woman and kept her a secret (obviously the side woman knew about me). I didn't find out about her until I had already decided to walk away and apparently she had been the side chick for 2 years. Here we are 6 months later I'm watching Tony's videos daily, seeking God daily and healing and he's up and down with his side chick (I always say I'm the ex everyone would want because I don't want him and won't be causing any drama...she can have him...she actually did me a favor). Of course he is now trying to come back in and I have strict boundaries now and have NOT once allowed for him to come back in for even a second. Ladies reading this...understand that you need to know your worth. Love yourself first! Tony you are spot on with all your videos!!! I am just so grateful for you!

[@Blsd1]

16 years unmarried? That shocked 😳 me. Get your peace and healing dear.

[@christinewarren8134]

Hey lady. I am proud of you for kicking him to the curb. Its not easy but it is exactly what needs to be done. I hope and pray all is well in your healing journey.

[@dalcox3250]

Don't ever invest in a man longer than 2 years!! And no man owes you any loyalty unless you are his wife. Baby mommas, live in girlfriends, or fiances of 5+ years dont count

[@patnabuu6072]

That was very helpful

[@9188jenni]

Ooo speak it Tony. There's some women out here so desperate willing to cross every line and betray everybody including themselves.

[@Bgrace15]

A word 🔥

[@amieesmusic7716]

My ex while I was dating him ended up cheating, leaving me, then getting married a year later after our 3 year relationship. Now after 9 years here he comes, saying he’s still in love with me and wants a life with me and how he’s unhappy with his wife and kids . Yea no thank you, he can stay over there.

[@genevasanders1883]

BE BLESSED. You can't get played when you don't allow it. A married man don't love his wife if he did it surely wouldn't be another woman. Plain and simple. Been there done that. That's why I'm divorce, I caught my ex. And showed him the door. Cheating is a choice not a mistake.

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“If you know he has another woman, you are a willing victim.” TG

[@user-ne7iz7jt2k]

I really hope the other woman sees this video

[@justliss1827]

Be blessed! You are right. God will never send a woman someone else's husband. People will reap what they sow.

[@Exhibit_Obedience]

Tony! I gotta say, once again this is right on time. I'm on the dating scene at the moment and this guy that I met at one of the local stores JUST told me what you're making a point about. He told me everything you stated. "They finna get a divorce", "they got 2 kids", "they own a business", "he telling me that he about to leave her and he wanna take me out, this, that and the third, but it's kinda complicated" Smh... And I'm standing there looking at him like, "REALLY DUDE"!!!🤔🧐😑🤨 Where do these type of men come from? 😷😴🥱 It is disgusting! Smh... Thank you for making this a crystal clear clarification! I ❤️ It! Be Blessed Tony! ✝️ Keep the sound advice on rotation. 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽

[@Exhibit_Obedience]

It's really a pathetic situation when a man-child wanna bring you into a sloppy situation and get you caught up and entangled in the MESS he got going on. I wish that they would take that time they out shucking and ducking and spend it out on getting they stuff right at home. It's a tragedy!

[@nicholehamilton5844]

Yes, this just happened to me about two weeks ago. I gave him my number, which I shouldn't have. I haven't been approached in 3 years, but still no excuse. He said he'd call, but I thought he'd call after his divorce was final. It was no big deal to me. I didn't have any peace about it. Some acquaintances were like yeah, see where it goes. He called me Black Friday in the afternoon. I decided to call him back and tell him to talk to me after his divorce. I didn't want to ghost him. I called him in the morning and he acted like I was someone else, but he knew who I was. I went ghost immediately. I realize I keep making the same mistakes regarding men because of my loneliness. Thanks Tony for making videos like these so I can learn more about these games.

[@Exhibit_Obedience]

@@EvahA7 Yes Indeed Sis! I'm not entertaining that mess. He got the wrong one. I shall thirst no more!

[@nicholehamilton5844]

@ Lilie T Thanks for your kind words. Being my age, I haven't dated much and am naive about certain things, the "game" out here. Thanks to Tony, Pastor RC Blake's, Joshua Eze, and Redefined TV, I am learning a lot. I realize I'm still hurt from a relationship 3 years ago. I realized it was emotional abuse and the words still sting. I need to heal and then see where I am afterwards. I feel so low oftentimes. Asking God to help me with my self worth and self esteem. And I realize I'm afraid of men after 1 person and that wasn't even a relationship. I've done so many dumb things and can't afford to make more dumb decisions. Will definitely pray and fast!

[@pjSoCal23]

Don’t fall for his ploy ... he’s lying. Be strong and run

[@Chinadoll698]

Tony Gaskins, I like the way you said that when you met your wife that the woman that you was currently seeing that you broke up with her out of respect for your wife when you had met her. I tell Mr. Gaskins, they need more men like you in this world that are grown men not grown boys. You are full of a lot of good and sound advice and please continue to keep making these much need videos that a lot of women need to see and Your wife is very blessed woman to have a Godly man like you.

[@melissaberry8810]

Right Tony! I was strong enough to leave the wrong marriage and it wasn’t easy. I’ve done the work so I know it’s worth waiting for my true husband, the man God has for me.

[@shawnalee8004]

Be blessed. This is so spot on Tony. I left my husband of 13-years in September after I followed him to “the other woman’s” house and found him in bed with her. This was his second affair that I knew about. Since ending our relationship I have discovered multiple woman over the course of our marriage. It was devastating. Everything that you said in this video is 100% true. I enjoy your videos so very much. It has been very helpful in my healing to learn a mans perspective and help me connect the dots on situations that I have dealt with.

[@mskesha4735]

Anyone, both men and women, leaving a divorce needs to HEAL before they decide to embark on another relationship. Unless you have truly SAT DOWN with yourself and evaluated both the good and bad and how you can take those failures and grow from them, you’re not ready!!!

[@joycenash8271]

You are right. If not, you are taking all that sewage into another relationship, thinking that person can heal you.

[@lauralee9482]

There are many reasons why the relationship with the other woman may not last. If somebody wants to leave a marriage they will. Many people start again. But when a man has been forced out of the marrige by his infidelity and is now with a woman he likes and does not love it will most definitely breed resentment. Resentment is what will end your relationship because he did not see you as a life partner to begin with, otherwise he would not put you in that situation. That is the main reason why i would not enter into someone else's marriage. The relationship highly likely to fail.

[@Machenziethemodel]

10 years single and I’m ok with it because I would hurt someone in these streets now 😆

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

Hopefulbond however long we are single, we "must heal from every hurt by mother, father, siblings, co workers...teachers"...and then we can see straight, spiritually to see as God says, if it is in His plans for each of us to be single or married.

[@Girlintheewild]

And folks could lose their life over messing with someone else’s man or woman. It’s just best to leave folks alone & let God speak to you

[@malindawilliams5605]

Amen

[@nikkinanette8807]

Betty Broderick is a good example. Can you blame her smh even-though murder is wrong.

[@fucksociety8337]

Yes. And folks can lose their life when a delusional side piece feels played or broken. The couple can lose their life. I HATE how it is so one sided as if side pieces aint out here doing the killing 🙄🙄🙄

[@halim1582]

He said if you're the other woman...you finna get played...lmao

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

Halimah M both of them are, well all three are...God sees.

[@TwilaB0721]

I want to be the only one!! I'm not good at sharing!! Thanks for the message!! Be Blessed!!

[@ashleywilliams8612]

Be blessed! I like how even when he talks about situations. He lets you know what a man would do verse a grown boy! He mentioned how he was dating another woman before he met his wife. When he met his wife he said he TALKED to the other woman and ended things for his wife! He didn’t ghost her, he told her and closed that chapter.

[@mslady312]

That's what real men do.

[@kanika9995]

Yes Emotional affairs count.The gate way to a physical affair.

[@shaneekaraybe4919]

We women need to change our mindsets , put high value on ourselves and never settle for less. We need to take a stand its how we value ourselves that causes men to treat us a certain. As we get older we should have a clear picture of what we want and what we will accept in our significant others. We are QUEENS 👑 hence we deserve to be treated that we.

[@nicholebrinson1134]

My husband juggled me and his other woman for almost 3 years. I found out and kicked him out just shy of our 14th anniversary. He had a 4 month old daughter with her and I was 5 1/2 months pregnant. We already had 2 other kids at that. She talked trash and bragged about her taking him. Baaaaby you can have him cause you are the 3rd one

[@hmblf687]

Be blessed. Say this a little louder for the people in back!!! This is something I've never understood why women would do this to other women and their families. Especially in our community..when our families are already dealing with so much.

[@gypsyspirit8472]

Heather Flowers 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@thejohnsonfamily9930]

I wish I could send this to “the other woman”. Maybe she’ll see this.

[@lindageiling5922]

The other woman did not care he was still married. We did divorce n he married her. She had money. He left me n was set up already. I threw him out n he moved right in with her. She actually said she did nothing wrong. 24 yrs gone. Im single 10yrs n hes been married to her 10 yrs. My ex n her bullied me thru my divorce. Made problems with me n my children. So. They do leave n go with the whore they cheated with. My ex has cancer now. People get what they deserve.

[@schoolshow94]

Linda Geiling yes when my husband cheated on me he had a multitude of problems.

[@beemonique8466]

Wow!!! My ex cheated too, ended up with Cancer and now he's super bitter towards me! Ha!!! I never cheated and I'm not bitter, although he did me wrong! Smh

[@MissShauntae]

If you the other woman you finna get played!

[@salsaqueen4911]

These side chick's don't care about no one.

[@tyana5836]

I have so much respect for Tony, always gives us the real tea a lot of men want to hide. God bless him, his wife & family 🙏🏾

[@schoolshow94]

Tyana I enjoy him to I always listen to him!

[@darnellcole6402]

Mr. Tony please keep putting these truffling women on blast. I found out my husband has been messing with a married woman for months and when I found out they really started hanging out more not caring that he lives with me his wife and she still with her husband. My husband has filed for divorce to be with her and her husband has filed for divorce but she still in the house with him seeing my husband until their divorce is finalized. I struggled with it at first but God is soooo good and I'm getting stronger and stronger every day. Thank for you truth in these situations 🙏

[@MichelleNagir]

OMG, I’m so sorry for you pain. Nothing good is going to come out of this mess. I hope your pain eases in time.

[@darnellcole6402]

@@MichelleNagir thank you love... a support system is so important when people are going through.

[@tarshagreene4661]

Thank you for this video. I was in a emotional affair with a ex class mate who is divorced then separated from his new wife. He said that both wife’s cheated on him. He told me he was separated from his current wife. He lives in Ca and his new wife who he claims he is separated from lives in Orlando with his three kids. He did go back to Orlando to see his kids I asked if we was going to see each other. He texted me and told me he was so busy with the kids and was going to fly me out to Ca. I then suggested that he meet me in Daytona Beach which is 1 hour a way. I told him I felt that he is on separate from distance but only flys home during the holidays. He text me and told me I he can’t give me the time I deserve and he is busy with his job and kids. This is a lesson learned that God bless no mess and will never send me someone else’s man.

[@iyaKiitan]

This might have just saved my life

[@iyaKiitan]

gorgeous nene thank you love

[@iyaKiitan]

@Justin Pullin ...

[@Glamrocs]

The other woman be asking relationship questions Tony 😎 The answer will never fit their situationship . #divorceandhealed#keephim#godhasbetter

[@monifasantana]

My husband left me and my kids. I was so mad and angry when I saw. I almost got a case. Thank you this video

[@talicialee]

I'm glad I've had enough examples before me to know if you mess with anybody marriage nothing good will come to you IN THAT RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT PERSON. FACTS!

[@nakooshaalbert8884]

Thank you Tony. Many women need to hear this and apply it

[@AmericanDreamer]

amen !!! and- if only we women had something like a sister code, a sense of honor and solidarity, no one would be entertaining and giggling with another woman''s man

[@macavelli8905]

The energy reap what you sow is a transformational energy, and no one escapes that vibration. Abuse comes in many forms even financial . One!

[@wendywilliams9189]

“He wants variety “, That’s absolute! Women always think “BUT MY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT, HES SO HONEST WITH IT”. He’s not being honest, that’s TRANSPARENCY, that’s not the same as honesty. There is a difference between fog and cancerous smoke!

[@Glamrocs]

Wendy Williams Amen

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

In the words of Wendy Williams “How you doiiiinnnnng” 😝🙏🏾

[@pjSoCal23]

Wendy Williams good analogy

[@anointedstilettos]

They will be the one's in your Q&A talking about, "I'm pregnant and he won't be there for me, wtd?" Love yourselves ladies, and get new knowledge. It's a life changer. Be blessed.

[@9188jenni]

Lol what to do

[@Glamrocs]

😩 yes they ask the most relationship question

[@anointedstilettos]

@@Glamrocs You better tell the truth! They do lol.

[@Thematureexoticallady]

😂😂😂 oh and believe me, many actually believe they are the real main woman and he’s only using the one he actually lives with. They take pride in being with a man who tells them he’s only using the woman he live with. It’s inredible 🤓

[@Bgrace15]

Lmaooooooo 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 yes yes and yes!!!

[@keishamwms]

The other woman thinks she getting a Gift! Not. Thanks for the message.

[@YanasJourney]

A few months ago I caught my man cheating with his business associate. We were having issues and he naively opened up to her to get advice from a woman’s perspective. Long story short, he cheated with her. When I found out I came to her as a woman and she still tried to pursue him knowing that I knew what had happened. She was hoping I would leave him because she felt like “God sent him to her”. She reaped what she sowed. About a week later he gave up his business to cut ties with her and I can say he truly regrets ever associating with her. Now he’s doing everything he can to earn my trust back and do right by me. I am still going through the healing process now and we are going to see what happens.

[@LAGASGAL]

Yeah something in this story sounds fishy! What makes you think he won’t do it again and actually leave you this time?

[@niomilove2017]

He can’t be trusted!!!

[@GoodGrief101]

You are like his trash can. Wow!!!!That’s very true. Thank you for the content and be blessed!

[@dianelogan8822]

I have been married 27 years and everything you said is 💯 true.

[@shirleyen7223]

Here is the math, I think he said it in one of his videos, the wife/gf is 80% of what he needs and the side chick is 20% of what he needs( hence why he won't leave) reasonably he would never leave the wife/gf for the side chick as she has 20% of what he needs and if he ever leaves likely he will not be with the sidechick.. he will look for the 100% woman, either way he is unsatisfied with the both of em, because he is not happy with himself. Ladies if you are the sidechick.... RUN the other way. Not worth it.

[@nitoshiamitchell9352]

Be blessed. His juggling lasted over 3 to 4 years after 22 year marriage and he chose her, the sucker. But I know he made a mistake. I'm trying to forgive them and everyone involved. However I'm moving forward with God. Pray for a woman and women like me

[@CaribbeanVibes254]

Now this was food for the soul. Words of Wisdom

[@promisingrose8730]

Be Blessed! Hello Tony. One of the reasons I follow you is because you are faithful to your wife. That give me hope that there are good men out there. As far as(The Other Woman) I would not even talk to a man if he is talking to many women at the same time. Let alone in a relationship or married. Thank you for this video.

[@TonyGaskins]

Thank you for your support! #BlessedFam

[@ChinadollcocoCaramel]

You are his splash of cranberry in his SPRITE... LOL 🤣

[@christinebryant2310]

Right on, right on Tony G! You're all the way on point wit this video, everything you said was True, Bravo,Bravo!

[@Godislove818]

This is so true , if he went to the other woman then what can i do but to let him go.. so many times we,re not aware that you,re the other woman because they lie..

[@quitia785]

These midday videos have become my daily lunch. Tony speaks nothing but the 💯% truth and These ladies better learn to listen... Be blessed!

[@Glamrocs]

Shaquitia J Me too 😆 in my car listening

[@Godislove818]

so true Shaquitia this is too real.. i,m definitely listening

[@X.O.143]

How can I become part of the crew?

[@Godislove818]

@@X.O.143 links in the description to join...

[@X.O.143]

C Thomas thanks 🤗

[@lindsayalexandria1575]

Ok Now Tony! This type of content is it! The real deal. Straight with no chaser!

[@BabyFacesSC]

This helps me to feel more confident in my decision to leave him alone...did not find out he was married until after the fact.😞

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Yessss Thank you for the best video ever!!! I left him because he never stopped cheating on me. I am free from DRAMA.

[@Dtella55]

Narcissists are serial cheaters...

[@TuBella14]

Be Blessed.!!!! A LOT OF WOMEN NEED TO HEAR THIS. Go get y’all friends, share this video.!! I don’t understand why people come on here to combat what he’s saying. If you don’t like his message, don’t watch his videos ‼️ KZbin made it very easy by creating a “do not see this again” option... y’all make me sick, just negative.!!

[@TonyGaskins]

Amen! Thank you for the support! #BlessedFam

[@vblacksugar7249]

Tu Bella They do not want to hear this because this message is stirring up something inside of them. The power of GOD will prevail, no matter what. Be safe, Be Bless.

[@fucksociety8337]

Because COMMENTS are NOT for LOVE only. Ppl watch videos FIRST to see if they agree. Not blindly just agree because of the name and face. The content CREATORS know this is the risk they take when they post. Smh. Why be mad at ppl that have their OWN mind. They dont HAVE to agree with EVERY video. A lot of you have issues that TONY GASKINS cant fix. 💯💯💯

[@TuBella14]

@@fucksociety8337 Obviously my comment is for those who repeatedly disagree. If you are having to constantly disagree with someone, why continue to watch their content...? In hopes that maybe one day you will agree...? Makes no sense. You are over simplifying something that doesn’t need to be.

[@victoriagrow647]

The other woman is never in power 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@lltalton1]

God will never send a man from another woman’s bed.....

[@teresafreemanparker6967]

Real talk! Thank you so much for this video! So happy my ex-husband is out of my life for good! He wanted to have his cake, pie and ice cream all at the same time. I Thank God! Be Blessed!

[@nitoshiamitchell9352]

Tony this happened to me. We were married 21.5 years+ .He left. He blamed me. He's with her. I'm tormented by her, him, and others. I'm doing my best to move forward and never make this mistake again. Pray for me.

[@chayil7489]

Nitoshia McDaniel I pray God gives you strength and healing Sis.

[@nikkinanette8807]

Don’t fret, revenge belongs to Yahuah!!! Thus says the Lord!!!

[@mariamayub212]

really good video and totally true! I have a male friend who got a divorce because he couldn't take the environment anymore and even with losing all that money and Sharon custody of a young child, he just up and did it. It can be done! So don't believe it when they say they can't!

[@vblacksugar7249]

THANK YOU Tony I have passed this to my sister (s). 🙏🏼

[@9188jenni]

If you hunt for or accept taken men(married or not. Same difference. A side chick is a sidechick) you are basically saying you do not trust that God has someone for you and only you, that you had to touch something that isn't yours.

[@tuneaparks9529]

It's so sad there are many women today that say they rather deal with a Married man. It shows no self worth or morals

[@southernbell642]

I don't like to share (side chick) its a no for me..I was the wife for 14 years...3 kids and he swore he didn't want her or anything with her...lol..he says it was a mistake...I couldn't forgive him...it changed the whole relationship and it changed my attraction to him... so I left and didn't look bck....lol... he is currently married to the side chick its been 6 yrs and still chasing me every chance he get...our kids are grown and I don't deal with married men....its funny to me...because she thought she did something ...and you are who he settled for because he couldn't have what he wanted...... I wouldn't have him if he was last man on the planet...lol....and Im single

[@shannenluevelle7331]

Cocoa Goddess bboc but how did he want you if he cheated on you with her?

[@southernbell642]

Shannen’s Shannen that wasn't my problem...it was his...lol

[@southernbell642]

Shannen’s Shannen the reason I said....he couldnt have what he wanted...because during the seperation and divorce process...he was begging and pleading about how he wanted to work things out between us....making it hard to coparent....popping up at my house...my job..even at church....some of my family member thought I was wrong spirituality... because I wasn't willing to work things out...once he cheated it changed everything for me...whether he wanted me or not didn't matter...lol...I didn't want him any more....is the only thing that mattered to me

[@shannenluevelle7331]

Cocoa Goddess bboc but why cheat if you’re (him) gonna beg to work it out 🤣? Did you ever find out why he cheated? But you’re free from him, that’s a blessing! & God has your back!

[@southernbell642]

Shannen’s Shannen even now and its been 6yrs since the divorce we do still coparent mostly with the 18 yr old...I had to tell him stop asking my daughter about my business... if Im dating somebody...he says...I still love you...let me talk to your mama....he trys to flirt and trys to take me out... complains about his relationship with her......its not my business and no thank you

[@thatwomannamedmel2992]

You are the big brother that a lot of women need.

[@jessicamartir56]

🙌Well said ! Be blessed, this was on point. Thanks tony

[@MsEvonU]

Amen! Thank you Tony! Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋

[@jenniferwooten4602]

Broooooo.... so refreshing to hear the truth whether we want to hear it or not

[@gino6658]

❤️❤️ *Tony BEYONCÉ these woman who are saying anything negative about you! Don’t even acknowledge them, you’re doing this for women like me who genuinely want to learn and truly listen to the things your saying, so no need to give those other women any energy, because you’re then sending your reciprocated energy back at them Towards the rest of the world with your videos* *Love your videos!! Thank you so much! Keep them coming!!*

[@Jordanie245]

🎉❤️👏same here.

[@MizzWiggy]

Be blessed Tony! This is the video I have been waiting on for months!

[@Erica-et4ye]

Be Blessed! Thank you SO much Tony for this video...extremely thought provoking!

[@michaelapink]

I LOVE this channel and the great perspective you give from a man's point of view. My channel is slightly different, in that I am a woman and see it from a different angle. Thanks for your insight! "God won't send you another woman's husband" and you're right!

[@cherhorowitz2632]

Wow. Glad I bumped into this video. This is basically the question I had asked the other day on your live. I would love to hear more about the topic, but this video got to the point. Thanks Tony.

[@iscelaarias3957]

You are 100 percent right and thank you for all advices you keep providing to us....

[@lwilliams1461]

You describe my cousin to a tea, I grew up with. Married and lived with his other women, he eventually divorced his wife but told other women he didn’t want to marry again. His wife died 2021. He’s been with other women for 3 decades. I told the other women the same thing you said how you get him is how you will lose him, when she complained about him. I asked her to describe 5 things you like about him, she couldn’t describe 1 things but said she just love him. He treats the woman he lives with horribly, I believe she is slow.