Husband Paying for Chores!

[@chocolatecuban]

I don’t care about the money. I don’t want a lazy nasty man. If I wanted to follow someone and clean up I would have a child. Be an adult.

[@gaila.9852]

Exactly!!! I'm disappointed with most of their responses.

[@emmm507]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@tta1390]

Words of wisdom. If only you were there to say it 😂

[@mohamedaminehadji6415]

Well, some of us (not men, but people in general) can't stand chores and are ready to pay (whoever) to have it done. I'm with Adrienne on one thing though, if I didn't want to do my chores and be ready to pay for it, I would pay a third party, not my SO

[@chocolatecuban]

@@mohamedaminehadji6415 Understandable, but like you said pay a third party.

[@erionford3862]

Lonnie is a character. Gotta love her personality!

[@patienenduva9938]

I knoe ryt I just love her

[@lonelystarr444]

fr shes funny asf

[@underthemoonandoverthesky]

Tamera and Adrienne both look SENSATIONAL! They are serving up glam and looking like entire meals!😍😍

[@JR_Cargile]

Tam's little "mmmHM!" Was so cute and sassy I love her so much 😂😂

[@Daisymayspeaks]

Any man that can’t cook or clean or take care of himself without me there isn’t worth my time or effort

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Lily parmida Parmida same with any woman that claims she shouldn’t have to have a job because she wants to be a “stay at home mom” def not worth a man wasting his time on son bum woman 😂

[@imaversil6276]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 😂 ur salty this women was talking about basic essentials, and your comparing that to having a job. Man or woman whether you have a job or not, you should know basic essentials of cooking or cleaning. So whether the dad stays home or mom stays home doesn’t matter both parents should be able to do the basics of knowing how to cook and clean.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@imaversil6276 and I also feel like both ADULTS should have a job but I noticed a lot women women don’t like that 🤔😂

[@imaversil6276]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 “but I noticed a lot of women don’t like that” 😂 many conservative religious men openly say women should stay home. it’s so clear that you have something against women cuz you feeling like “both adults should have a job” has nothing to do with this person saying she doesn’t want to be with a person that can’t do the basic essentials. conservative people which includes both men and women who strive for traditional gender roles prefer women to stay home, and even some women who live more traditional have said they wouldn’t be with a man that couldn’t do the basics of simply knowing how to cook and clean. All you’ve done is whataboutism

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@imaversil6276 oh no I had a feeling you were one of those lol lemme guess after you graduated school you ended up being one of those women who did nothing with there lives so you turned into one of those bitter women that try to apply bs feminist logic to justify not getting a job like an adult and choose to avoid the fact that most men are actually attracted to ADULT women who actually did something with there lives and ....have a damn job like an adult?? 😂😂 whatever makes you feel better about choosing to be a bum and using feminist logic to justify being middle aged and unemployed 😬😂😂

[@mimia.4810]

"I work and I still clean" And that is why I don't believe in the whole "50/50 relationship" hype. The only thing that is 50/50 are the bills, besides that the woman always ends up having to do most of if not ALL of the housework and childcare. Its never fair. This ain't the first time tamera has spoke about her husband barely helping around the house, or her having to watch the kids and him only "helping" as if they aren't his kids as well. I'm pretty sure Tamera is the breadwinner or at least puts up for half the bills. So why is she also responsible for cleaning and kids? Why ain't that 50/50 in that department ? Ha. So my solution for this is ... while I do think it's strange and a little unromantic having to be paid like worker by your lover. I think the man should handle most of, if not all of the bills and finances. If he wants a traditional woman he needs to be a traditional man. OR if you claim you want 50/50 then that means you truly have to play fair and do your fair share around the house. (Which doesn't happen often let's be honest)

[@omphilemoerane2569]

So many stories Tam has told about that Adam that make me think she was really desperate to be married to him. I remember season 1 she said she paid for most of their wedding. When she realised how bad it sounded she changed her answer and said her whole family chipped in😂😂

[@jolaikavolcy5272]

she said she didn't mind ''she let her man lead'' remember

[@ayandathemba1704]

Tamera doesn't have to "watch her kids" if she's home with her kids, the n she's home with her kids, stop being pathetic, who watches the kids when Tamera is away filming the show. You guys wish Tamera lived some miserable life. Tamera's husband is rich plus educated not some bum that Tamera has to support. Tamera can quit this show tomorrow if she wanted to because they have a family business. Some of you bring your poverty mentality acting like there was something wrong with Tamera paying for her own wedding when she wanted to coz most of yall even ask your husband to buy your wedding dresses coz you are broke, Tamera is rich so if she wanted to pay for her things instead of her parents paying for them there's nothing wrong with that.

[@halizaab9813]

Ayanda Themba tell them girl!!!!!!!

[@gaila.9852]

Did you even listen to what Tamera said? They addressed the cleaning issue.

[@TheMarlonChannel]

"I work too and I clean" lol that's right Tam

[@user-pd1ug2ju7p]

it's such a shame that being a woman determines that you inherently do the chores at home. I am going 50/50, because that is what is fair!

[@roxanneduponte2120]

Facts. My husband gon do his share of cleaning, and I’ll do mine. I’m not sitting in the damn house cleaning all fucking day.

[@hanifakalyegira2875]

PERIOD!

[@knightsplay3929]

My dad constantly has me and my mom do the chores while he and my older brother do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING around the house. And in my dads words "Because it's the womans job." We are all cuban and people know how some cultures do still have those traditions where women do this and men do that but I'm so done with this BS. If I ever have a husband and he tries this I'm kicking him out. I'm here to have a healthy relationship not be your hired help. Clean up after yourself and we work together to do the chores. I'm not staying with someone who doesn't do the bare minimum.

[@shamimkagere]

Adrienne looks so good with an up do!!!

[@crystalzag7143]

In my culture, the woman does all the housework and the man pays for everything in the house including giving her money for the house and money to spend on herself. If she works,her money is for her alone,but her husband's money is for both of them. So I'll gladly do house chores

[@thaladiescorner9989]

For curiosity, what is your culture??!

[@anaskchichou1324]

ThaLadies Corner I think she’s Muslim I’m saying that because I am Muslim myself and a lot of my family members believe in that. I don’t

[@afrotina2780]

@@anaskchichou1324 i thought the same thing it sounds like a muslim household, but the man helps out around the house too cleaning & such he's not just a "source of money"

[@shakiraarif6285]

You are a muslim right? I am a muslim and that's how it is for us.

[@crystalzag7143]

I'm a Ghanaian 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

[@enjinks]

At first I was disagreeing with Adrienne, but whe nshe said pay someone else to do it... That's even better!

[@gaila.9852]

I'd rather we save money and both clean as we should.

[@with_Thandii]

@@gaila.9852 I agree but I feel like if you can afford to pay somebody else and it isn't straining you financially you're creating a job for somebody else as well as keeping your house clean so two birds one stone

[@gaila.9852]

@@with_Thandii I get what you're saying, but I'm still for everyone having the responsibility of cleaning up after themselves.

[@with_Thandii]

@@gaila.9852 having a helper doesn't necessarily mean that you are not responsible to clean up after yourself. We had a helper grown up and we always cleaned our rooms and keep the house tidy she was just there to help out with the small things when my parents and we as the siblings were too busy with things like school work and work. It doesn't mean that I'm completely dependent on them it just means that they are there to give a helping hand every now and then and you also creating a job for somebody so yeah

[@gaila.9852]

@@with_Thandii Gotcha! I just don't think anyone should ever reach the point where they no longer clean and completely depend on someone else. If you can afford to hire someone and still maintain a balance for yourself, go for it.

[@hermelatsegaye7611]

tamara's dress looks like a pillow with belt around it

[@claraocabrera]

Quarantine chic lol

[@destineeallen88]

T U 😭😂

[@roxanneduponte2120]

Bruh😂😂😂😂😂. You got no chill😂😂

[@shaniahennings8976]

I can’t unsee it now 😂

[@faizasaeed1000]

There is something called pillow dress google it

[@Anom_amps]

I love that they all differ from each-other in a civil manner with valid perspectives. 🙌

[@Maryaw.345]

Jeanies hair looks so good here

[@seeyouagain911]

I was thinking the same. She looks glamorous.

[@bdoti1822]

I am 100% with Tamera on this one. I am not paying you to do what you should be doing anyway. If we both live in the house then we both do the work.

[@gaila.9852]

Your second sentence in backwards. She's saying that you shouldn't be paying her to do what she would be doing either way and that they should both be cleaning.

[@tizianace9438]

I just Love these 4 girls !! 5 hosts is too much

[@JaneLamb]

Tam's dress is bomb!

[@bookbag6432]

If we’re married then his money is my money anyway so I don’t see the purpose of him paying me. I’d rather he just paid an extra bill or something.

[@thaladiescorner9989]

*Oh I Love you 4 together 😍 different opinions, not scared to share and still respectful👏🏼*

[@destineeallen88]

Different strokes for different folks... but yeah I’m with A like pay someone else to do and let’s both take a break 😭😭😂

[@isa12rae]

So she's her boyfriend's domestic worker

[@mssr131]

Most girlfriends and wifes are around 80% actually already are unpaid domestic workers for their husbands and boyfriends might as well get paid for it

[@ivorenesmith9003]

Sounds like she's the child getting allowance for the chores she's doing.. weird.

[@jolaikavolcy5272]

@@ivorenesmith9003 and when woman do all the work around the house while man lazy around they sound like your mother

[@gaila.9852]

@@mssr131 80%? Stop making up statistics.

[@yup4264]

@@mssr131 I agree if you re doing the work anyways might as well be a paid maid rather than a slave

[@corozo22]

Come on! Adrienne is always in a fairytale! That arrangement is soooo real life and would make happy so many women who have to do it all+ work+ kids+ no time for themselves

[@TaylourwtheHalo]

Tamera and Adrienne look BOMB 😍😍😍

[@MARIARODRIGUEZ-xb5cb]

I LOVE LONIES FUNNINESS, JOKES AND HAPPINESS THAT EXUDES FROM HER(: SHES AMAZING☺️☺️☺️ LOVE U LONIE!!! AND ALL MY REAL GIRLS😍😍😍😍

[@Bri-le1fs]

I keep thinking Tam is wearing a pillow with a belt lol but she looks amazing either way

[@sammathis9788]

Am I the only one who thinks tameras dress looks like she tied a pillow to her body?

[@Parisbella219]

I tried the not cleaning “trick” for a month, my boyfriend didn’t notice/care 🤷‍♀️

[@Joce-bl7qi]

wow

[@Mel__21]

Thank you. I thought I was the only one dealing with this BS. Now I can show my mom that this simply doesn't work lol.

[@2436golden]

That's because he knows you will eventually do it anyway, and number 2. He knows it is benefitting him because he is getting "wifely" duties at girlfriend prices. If you marry him you have already set the stage for the rest of your life.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

It’s the same way how women try there hardest with the not getting a job thing and avoid bills , mortgages, real adult responsibilities but yet want another adult to be so grateful that you did chores 🙄😂

[@LiahB]

Lonnie why you got that man doing that 😂😂 Btw y’all all look greatt A is SLAYING

[@kimberly_lali2]

Helll Nah!! Not me, want to be in a relationship, then be responsible! lol

[@octavia8942]

Whew, Adrienne is testing my sexuality in this clip 😂😍

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

....um I think you should just come out 😂😂

[@MinnieMoo48]

It's not about the money, it's about the respect.

[@NA-sv6so]

*2:56* I related to that ' *mmmhm* ' so much !!! 🤣🤣❤

[@jemimajanvier4706]

I literally already do this for my brother. I offered him a clean room and clean bathroom combo every other week for 20 dollars 😂

[@bees0la276]

Jemima Janvier 👏👏👏👏

[@MelodySweetNote]

Sammmmeee😂

[@gaila.9852]

You should stop. You're setting him up for a future where he won't be able to take care of himself.

[@liyahcromartie5497]

Gail A. You sound dumb

[@kiaraw647]

Tam is so me. 😂

[@brookzandra6269]

But my husband's money and my money is both OUR money. I wouldn't be making anything if he paid me

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Anne Day I mean if she has a job to then yes damn well he should be paying her but if he works all day to make sure you have a roof over your head while you stay at home all day and.........”take care of the house” ...then how dare you ask him to pay you?? 😂😂😂

[@madonasaad8888]

Yes! Acts of service is my love language too. Words are cheap. Actions are not :)

[@kokostenza4732]

"boring" Said Loni 😂 She's fucking right. Her answer Was boring 😂

[@RittanyBae]

I'm not a slob but my man handles the majority of the chores. He has 7 siblings and they grew up very structured. It's engrained in him to make sure everything is in order. He also works full time.

[@stanbalo]

You are blessed girl!

[@MandyMatakalatse]

It makes me feel good knowing Loni has a good man😍

[@bosslady5927]

Well, my boyfriend pays someone to clean and I don’t do anything..... and that is so unusual in Africa

[@jskowalthie6866]

Not in Africa...in the particular country in Africa you live in!

[@blondiex31]

OMG I'm in LOVE with Adrienne's dress!!! So so classy and nice. Does anybody know where it's from?

[@naabg.2422]

I thought Tamera was doing the Quarantine pillow challenge😭💀

[@alannashea6344]

I see nothing wrong with this! I do the same thing! I live with my boyfriend and I have kids so if he wants me to clean up around the house I tell him to give me some money. I do enough and if he wants me to do extra work and clean up after him then I better be getting paid!

[@jmaxisfye]

they are really pretty. wow.

[@HannaMariaNybacka]

Tamara lowkey doing the pillowchallenge 🤩👌🏻

[@gaila.9852]

Wow, I only agree with Tamera.

[@PHE-nomenon]

This sends such a terrible message. This is not realistic or a long lasting solution. Both adults should do their part in the household. Men like that are childish. The women who accept them should not get paid for dealing with an irresponsible man and enabling this behavior. And also I have a strong feeling these same women will later on turn around and call their men lazy.

[@gaila.9852]

Exactly!!! I did not like this video.

[@marleneafl6]

A stay at home mom can't be compared to a therapist... There's a lot of years of studying to be able to have the knowlage to be a therapist, let's not degrade that profession by saying that anyone that has a child and stays home is one.

[@rushjl92]

oh nah James 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@hannahyisrael4444]

Yes men and women let's start paying women to do the housework yes ! It goes unnoticed.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Hannah Mckellar well men to its called there daughters and chores...now you got sad pathetic older women wanted to be treated like spoiled children now 😂😂 pathetic

[@hannahyisrael4444]

James yes let's get it.

[@jadarogers4892]

i do enjoy having the full clip

[@hannahyisrael4444]

When you are a stay at home mom and you clean and clean and clean and are so worn out. We need help ! We need money we need time !

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Hannah Mckellar now try getting a real 9-5 and see how “worn out” you get lol what a sad bum mentality you have 😂😂😂

[@mrsbere4959]

THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG WAY TO THIS TOPIC. Everybody is different, you just have to find something that is fair for BOTH.

[@XO-uu8kc]

That’s great if that couple is in the position to do so.

[@Bzekeila_Moraless]

Adrian loving your look here. 💜

[@jasi7313]

Loni looks pretty in pink.

[@littlebean2494]

I agree with Tamera

[@hristina9190]

Sooo happy its 4 of them again!!! ❤️🤩

[@ineedya123]

Tamera lets not act like you don't have a housekeeper/cleaning service boo.

[@sara215]

I just refuse to do it. lol my boyfriend does most of the work. I’m in med school though haha so I think he’s a bit more understanding

[@a.sydney5036]

I just saw a TR video from 2013. Adrienne looked so different. She’s definitely had a whole lot of work done

[@8luvbug]

The lip fillers are very obvious and unflattering

[@hannahyisrael4444]

I love this I love it. Pay us !

[@hannahyisrael4444]

Pay us I'll spring up like a spring bunny ! Gem Ma mop and broom

[@BKeny007]

But Jeannie isnt wrong though if he wants her to do all of his chores he gotta show some appreciation consistently instead of taking it for granted ! Then i would think its fair and if your love language is gifts and his is acts of service, i think that it would actually be great !!

[@astrid4life1]

I would “abosolutely” 🤣 do chores for money awdjyt.

[@HarleyQuinn-ne3ew]

My husband rarely does housework. I stay at home with our baby, but I used to do a lot more and run around trying to make everything look perfect. I don't anymore. If he don't care, I won't either. I spend my time enjoying my daughter. I do dishes, laundry, and cook, but I only clean when I have to. If I go back to work, I'll def put my foot down, though. I'll cook, if you do the dishes. I'll wash the clothes if you fold them. You don't do dishes, I won't cook for you. You don't fold the clothes, I'll only wash mine and the baby's.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Autumn Stowe then y’all should switch and you get a full time job and have him stay home and take care of the kid 😊😊 I truly believe a lot of these unemployed women that bitch so much would def have a different attitude if the roles were reversed lol

[@HarleyQuinn-ne3ew]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 Excuse you? I have no issue doing the housework while he works, but I damn sure wouldn't be doing the housework alone if we both worked. I've also worked a very physically exhausting job while raising kids, so I have NO issue going back to work. My hubby convinced me to stay home with our daughter, so don't get it twisted. Being a stay at home parent is ROUGH. There are NO breaks, and my job is 24/7.

[@-.Germanicus.-]

It depends.... If I didnt work and I lived with my working man, I'm gonna do my part and clean the house. But if we are separate, he better pay me. Working together, we both have to do our part. No one should be owkring overtime at home, cleaning by themselves.

[@louiethemouseful]

Tamara looks stunning in white

[@Namiswwwan]

That only works if it's your bf and not your husband. If it's your husband that's also your money, you just his maid.

[@gaila.9852]

I would never agree to such an arrangement. I will not be enforcing gender roles in my household.

[@fifimpia7372]

Normally, men already give their wives money and women already clean up after them so if money was added to the equation it would make no difference, take the money and run with it lol. 😜

[@BATOOLESK]

i agree with loni , adrienne sounds judgmental as hell lool

[@leelar.3010]

I would not accept this and here is why. That man is only paying you to do his chores so that you have no excuse to COMPLAIN about his lazy or messy ass because guess what? You getting paid to deal with it!

[@aishasangle7401]

If I wanted to get paid to clean I'd just become a maid

[@kojo354]

Never discount the currency of favors.

[@idaliihernandesss924]

Mexican man are different. My bf expects me to clean and cook and wash his clothes. Even though we both bring money to the house. I get tired , I don't know what to say to him 😫

[@janejustin1788]

Just talk to him about it, if you contribute financially and do all the house chores by yourself, it means you are doing the lion's share and with time you'll start resenting him. And it's so unfair to you

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

....so you complain in the KZbin comment section about it??? I see why he don’t take you serious 😂😂

[@idaliihernandesss924]

Grant Franchey yess i am. That has nothing to do why he doesn’t take me seriously.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Idaly Aleman well I’m just sayin if you still with him and you just complainin on KZbin bout him then I guess thats on you girl and should consider stop complaining.....in random online comment sections 😂

[@idaliihernandesss924]

Grant Franchey okayyyy

[@hannahyisrael4444]

Yes Adrienne yes.

[@hannahyisrael4444]

Show me you love me and help me with the chores yes !

[@Jmelbu]

I’ll take the money lol his moneys my money anyway 😜

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Melisa Reyes says every bum little girl 😂😂

[@thefountain6634]

If both husband wife have a job then it only makes since for both to split chores *but then again not all but most men tend to have more difficult jobs whether physical or mental*

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Soooooo.....if she’s a “stay at home wife” and doesn’t wanna work...and he goes to work all day to pay the bills and provide for the family....now he has to pay you aswell for ...staying at home while he goes to work all day?!?! Ladies of the roles were reversed would it be ok?!?! Nopes

[@effiewanjiku3375]

Am Kenyan.my man pays a woman to wash his clothes .. I only wash dishes n sometimes cook.. Its a shared responsibility

[@janejustin1788]

wow, uko na bahati, your man is progressive

[@kingcalv10]

Women just consuming this poison, how can u applaud such. smh

[@helin4397]

What do you mean?

[@marangelytorres4073]

Wait a minute. If he's your husband his money is your money anyway. 🤔

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Not to real men 😂😂

[@kimberlyjade4094]

Tamera is so beautiful 4:54

[@JungleYT]

Sooo, what's the deal-leo? *They back in the studio?* Can any of the Bots answer that question?

[@JungleYT]

@Anne Day Just thought I'd ask...

[@GS__]

Are these current clips post-Amanda?

[@yenitaylor683]

Adrienne is the most flashy and materialistic person on that table and yet she acts like she’s all sentimental...no hate I love her but...

[@MariahTheKing]

that girl is not materialistic lmao go watch her channel.

[@faizasaeed1000]

Being materialist doesn’t mean you are cheap your husband paying u coz u cleaned and accepting it will allow him to disrespect you

[@sonyvalencia]

You could be both.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

If she also has a full time job like him as well then yea he better pay her ass but.... if she ain’t working and she just stays at home all day claiming she’s a stay at home mom then why the he’ll would he pay you?? What else do you have to worry about??

[@ThaliaEatsDonuts]

This is best case senario

[@MicahElohim]

If you don't like seeing my untidiness, clean it up. I'll appreciate you.

[@nafisahafeez5866]

Not everybody can afford housekeeping

[@artmariemakes]

Lol girl get your coin

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Marie yessss a job ...girl either shut the hell up or get a real 9-5 lol

[@poeticjustice8420]

Men who dont cook or clean seriously puzzle me, like wth

[@jayshawn92]

But there certain thing yal won’t even do like the lawn or change ur own tire either guys can pay u do it or get a maid

[@jaimesissel7973]

My boyfriend is lazy in the doing chores department lol 😂

[@Jrjuness]

I hateeeee this purple and blue Friyay set. It looks like a baby shower in the project basements

[@faizasaeed1000]

They should tell us the age of the people grown ups will not act this way areal man will give you the money in an indirect way

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Rubi Love and a real women wouldn’t bitch so much or get a real job and not be a bum..uhh smh

[@BluntSpeaker]

4:50 Cause he is grandpa