Well...that was a whole something! 🤣 I can laugh about it now but I was really scared when I saw blood. So unexpected! Did you know any of this was a possibility?
@venusm61 Жыл бұрын
Yes. With an abdominal hysterectomy some light bleeding and discharge is common for up to six weeks. It was light enough, a panty liner was enough. It lasted approximately that amount of time. No bleeding since. If I had any than it would be unusual and a medical issue that would need to be addressed. I did not know that would happen with your surgery and take that long to see bleeding. That would have scared me too.
@BottlegardenUK Жыл бұрын
Hi, I had a subtotal laparoscopic hysterectomy a few years ago (still have ovaries and cervix as I was too young to remove it all apparently). My surgeon told me they had found endometriosis on my cervix. Although he had lasers it, there was a chance I could still bleed monthly until menopause. I do, although not monthly. I think I have endo in other places in my abdomen too, if I have ‘a period’ I get a lot of discomfort, but less than before. So yes, it’s possible to still bleed if you have a hysterectomy, not just from wounds. Should stop when I finally go through menopause.
@anglewand Жыл бұрын
Had no idea this was possible, tyvm for psa!
@joanncoopertroupe3506 Жыл бұрын
I had a Hysterectomy years ago..Much Love Renee. I am age 64 till April 6,2023., i have had so many Surgeries..God Bless you my Sweet Friend..Hugs prayers DEAR GIRL FRIEND..😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
@normag016 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like the dr needs to give patients better post-surgery info. Sorry you had to go through that scare.
@KS-op5hb9 ай бұрын
In case anyone is watching this and wanting more input. So , just got back from my 3 week check-up post surgery. All went well during surgery (had everything removed) and I am healing on-time. One note, in my case they decided to do a pelvic exam this time (I thought they'd wait until week 6-8 for a pelvic) and they ended up using a bit of silver nitrate to seal one small area near the cuff. I am sharing so you can be prepared! It was painful. So, if. you THINK you will need an internal exam and any amt of silver nitrate I highly suggest taking tylenol/advil or even like 1/2 a pain med to get you through it. It wasn't horrible but it also wasnt' FUN. If you have a lower pain tolerance I suggest this even more...JUST one experience...that I haven't seen discussed too much on YT..
@hibaby51086 ай бұрын
Thank you. I appreciate the heads up. I am on my second week post surgery (total removal as well). I wish you complete healing 🙏
@ayeshazeya31145 ай бұрын
@@KS-op5hb HI,I am having spotting after my hysterectomy. My 6th week has started.Is it normal? Did you face any problem like this?
@KS-op5hb5 ай бұрын
@@ayeshazeya3114 I stopped spotting once they applied the silver nitrate. I. had been spotting since the surgery to that point. I would talk to. your doc just in case a part of your cuff(assuming you had your cervix removed hasn't fully healed). I have seen videos of women saying around weeks 608 out of the blue they had spotting and was told it was because they may have over exerted themselves. Talk to your doc just in csae!
@shirlburris-fg8eq Жыл бұрын
I had clear cell endometrial cancer. Cancer free after surgery. Stage 2. Got it in time
@anglophils6458 ай бұрын
Make sure that you do your chemo. Clear cell a is very aggressive form of endometrial cancer. You may need radiation as well. Make sure that you do all treatments recommended by your doctors. "Got it all" is good, but your cancer has a tendency to recur. You can beat it, but only if you do your follow-up treatments.
@helenwiegand61837 ай бұрын
I had seros epithelial ovarian adenocarcinoma stage 3. Didn’t do chemo. Still cancer free 14 months after surgery. Had other treatments instead. I’m young (40) so maybe that helped. Had been begging for a hysterectomy for years due to endometriosis. It took cancer for me to be allowed to have one.
@Silvie_youtube Жыл бұрын
I think that your videos about all you experienced during and after the surgery are going to help so many people, Renee! It's important to know what one can expect, even if what you experience won't happen to everyone. So thanks for being so open, I'm sure it will make a difference to many people considering having histerectomy!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words 😊
@Silvie_youtube Жыл бұрын
@@WelcomeToMyCurls Also... Can I say you are so courageous! I would have had a panic attack... As for hormone replacement,well,you are in menopause and your symptoms were quite severe. Yes, it would have been ideal not to need hormones, but nobody should go through severe menopause if they can help it and if their doctor gives them the all clear for hormone replacement.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
@@Silvie_youtube It would absolutely be ideal to not need hormones....but there is certainly no reason to live in misery.
@loislanesalters8574 Жыл бұрын
@@WelcomeToMyCurls thank you so much! 100 accurate except my pain hasn't changed
@nadzyb9204 ай бұрын
I wished I had all this information before my hysterectomy. No one, shared their experiences like you do even my nursing friends.
@Edangel14-421 Жыл бұрын
Thank God you posted this. I'm 16 days post op and I'm bleeding just like this. My left side has been hurting. Went to the restroom and bright red blood. Not a lot as a period but spotting for sure. Now I'm just achy. I'm lying down now and just going to watch it, I appreciate you following up past yours so I don't freak out as bad lol.😂
@suefitzpatrick6803 Жыл бұрын
You made the right decision for you. I’m 70 and did not use estrogen due to the warnings and fears of my time. I still have night sweats and my bone density has been negatively affected. You are smart to get some relief in a thoughtful and appropriate way.❤
@73burntly11 ай бұрын
They didn't know crap they just are learning stuff now England's come so much further
@724kdr9 ай бұрын
Can’t you start estrogen at anytime?
@christinamaynard875011 ай бұрын
I had same like yours in August of 2023. I had a Hysterectomy kept my ovaries. But my Dr did what you had done the robotic also but he cut my bladder while he was doing it. I was supposed to went home the same day but I had complications after. I got up out of the hospital bed I was gushing blood not stopping. It finally stoped or so. But I had to wear a Catheter because where he cut my bladder while he was in there after I went home for 7 days. Anyway after got home I started bleeding not stopping at all keep dripping out had to go to ER one of my stitches came out he had to fix it. Then I had to go again the next day cause I was bleeding again. He fixed me again. It was crazy and hard to go through. But now I'm finally better but it was so hard to go through. Glad you are doing okay with yours.
@janhankins911 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this information--and for letting us see (not just hear) how you're doing. Not everyone would be so willing to share the information and then actually show us their belly and where they have their patch. This is really a public service for women! I'm glad everything is okay and I hope the suture stops giving you so much pain.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Hi Jan! Thanks for the support! I do think it's important to "show" and not just "tell". The suture area is getting better but I can still feel it....but it's not giving me sharp pains anymore. I guess the stitch is dissolving and not poking me as bad. Yay!
@cassandramayo8577 Жыл бұрын
I’m due a hysterectomy in 9 days and I’ve watched many of your videos on your experience. It’s prepared me mentally and psychologically! Thank you for the videos!!! ❤️
@traceytatara3086 Жыл бұрын
This is only one of the reasons why I like your channel so much. You share your experiences with us and I think it's very important that we women share our experiences with each other and not be afraid or embarrassed to do so! Thank you so much Renee 😊❤
@TerraOgle9 күн бұрын
I'm having a hysterectomy tomorrow at 7am and all of your videos are helping me so much! Thank you!!
@janettebolin2991 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you can take HRT and it’s working for you! Be thankful. ❤ I’m a breast cancer survivor and am not a candidate. Chemotherapy through me into menopause at age 46. I then had a complete laparoscopic hysterectomy as you did. Menopause symptoms are awful! It’s been 15 years and il cancer free but still experience insomnia and hot flashes. 😢Thank you for sharing your experience!
@katherinecoffman5285 Жыл бұрын
So glad you are doing well and cancer free! 🎉 💪
@victoriaboster1177 Жыл бұрын
Hi. So glad for you that you are currently doing well. You might consider consulting with a practitioner who specializes in hrt after menopause and post cancer. There are not many but the research in this area is not what you just described. Good luck to you.
@johnhardwick9911 Жыл бұрын
As a male, I don't know much about your procedure, but I'm sorry you had so much pain. Time heals all wounds and I hope you will start to heal and feel better soon.
@michellebilodeau3882 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you have great medical professionals that have your back. That's wonderful Renee.
@leslieh3785 Жыл бұрын
I’m so jealous! I had the patch for six months and then out of no where I developed a bloody crusty rash. Now I’m on gel. The patch was such a more even dosing. Estrogen is SO good for us!!! Brain, bones, heart! Just be wise. Young women who still have high estrogen and progesterone are the healthiest of all!!!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Oh wow....that's strange. I have a friend who uses a cream and rubs it on her wrist at night. Have you tried that?
@leslieh3785 Жыл бұрын
@@WelcomeToMyCurls yes, I use gel rubbed between wrist and thighs. I split my dose, using once in the morning and once before bed. Renee, bio identical progesterone pills or cream will have you sleeping like a baby. I am a crazy sensitive person and I can only take a low dose of the progesterone cream, but trust me, you will probably love it and find that it is that missing link.
@loricircuit6903 Жыл бұрын
These hysterectomy updates have been so helpful, the information is very needed. Thankyou. Some doctors are strangely stingy about the whole process and seem to withhold the facts about the procedure and the results. They hand out the information piecemeal only if you press them about it.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
You are so very welcome! Glad I could be helpful to you 💗
@cindybailey2011 Жыл бұрын
So glad you are okay, Renee! You’ve done a great job taking care of yourself and having Randy to lean on is awesome. Happy to hear that the HRT is working well for you. Thanks for sharing and your honesty. You are such a helpful lady! Take care!❤❤❤
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@lynfl9814 Жыл бұрын
That was a scary experience; so, wonderful that your doctor and his/her staff are so responsive, kind and considerate. You are blessed to have such a doctor. Healthcare has gone done hill in the past several years. Doctors and patients are unhappy with our healthcare system; in fact, many doctors are quitting. It makes it even more difficult to find compassionate and caring doctors. You found a good one. I have been on an Estradiol patch for 20+ years. I tried to drop down to the 0.0375 mg patch; but, I experienced severe hot flashes; I went back to the 0.05 mg patch. There are doctors that specialize in women's HRT treatments; and, two that I follow say that the optimum dose is 0.05 mg. It keeps us overall healthier and keeps our bones stronger. A side effect of menopause, either natural or forced (hysterectomy) can weaken our bones. You should ask your doctor when should you get bone density done (DEXA scan). Women who go into menopause are at a higher risk for bone density issues; even some women on HRT. I had my first DEXA scan at 65; and, it showed I had the bones of an 80 year old. With my doctors help; I went on a natural regime to treat bone density issues. I have improved my bone density with this treatment for the past two scans. I have another coming up and I hope it improved again. You are helping so many women with your videos, Renee.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Hi! I got my first DEXA scan last year when I turned 50...and I do take calcium supplements daily at the recommendation of my doctor. I do have a wonderful doctor...and I'm excited to see him soon for my 6-week checkup!!
@user-ew7jv2sz9w11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! I had a hysterectomy 12 days ago and woke up with blood today. Yes, panicked! Still panicking a bit but going to relax and pray and hope this is okay. Your videos have helped so much! ❤
@elsabueno56139 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I am currently 4 weeks in recovery from a hysterectomy and I too am experiencing the red blood when I wipe. I feel a little better hearing this is normal. I’ve also read up on this from my post surgery care that this can happen for several weeks and as the sutures dissolve. Happy healing!
@WelcomeToMyCurls9 ай бұрын
So happy my video helped you! Best wishes!
@florencakalemi7272 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I am on Day 3 after hysterectomy and your video helped me a lot
@johnhardwick9911 Жыл бұрын
As a male, I don't know much about your procedure, but I am sorry for the pain you are going through. Time heals all wounds and I hope that you keep getting healthier and recover soon.
@carolinagirl171 Жыл бұрын
Hi Renee, Thank you so so much for your videos!!! I just met with an oncologist and am in the process of making decisions. I really do not want a hysterectomy, but my gynecologist and oncologist both are recommending one. I have tried to ask friends & family if they have had one....but I’m amazed how women are either not comfortable sharing the information or they had the older abdominal surgery. My oncologist does the updated robotic/ laparoscopic procedure. I was concerned about bathroom constipation/incontinance issues going forward, not just after surgery but for the rest of my life. My concern about bone loss, urgent need to pee etc...My oncologist has recommended the total hysterectomy. I’m just scared of the unknown! You are a God send! I’m so grateful you decided to share your experience! Once again I am so grateful to you!! I’ve subscribed and responded! I look forward to what information you can share and help those of us make informed decisions. I’m age 66, so I’m 16 years your senior. I know that my experience will be different from yours just because of the age difference. I don’t expect I will take hormones, because I’m post -menapausel. I just want to know I will be okay after the surgery and hopefully no chance of getting cancer in the endometrium or uterus since my situation is hyperplasia in a mass in the endometrium that is benign but the hyperplasia is his concern as well as the thickness of my uterus. I appreciate you!!! God Bless♥️🙏🙋🏼♀️
@debwlv Жыл бұрын
I think all the information you are sharing is such a valuable service to women going thru this--- I am so grateful for all the information and tips. There are not enough women our age sharing their stories and you are doing an amazing thing by being so open, honest, thorough and detailed…thank you!❤
@Acapulc941 Жыл бұрын
Renee, in all of your videos you act like the best, most generous, helpful girlfriend. Thank yiu so much. Leigh
@GiGi-fd6om10 ай бұрын
Renee is correct about her research on HRT. The big study from 2002 that put the fear of breast cancer in everyone from HRT, was flawed in so many ways. Researchers and menopause docs for many years now, have debunked the findings and new research shows that for any woman who can be on HRT, which is most, should be. And you can be on it for all long as you want.
@loriwagner2766 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your honesty in this video Renee. So helpful!!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome Lori 💕
@FeliciaBrownHudson Жыл бұрын
This bleeding incident happened to me today at 2 weeks post op...why I'm watching your video. I called my doctor and they said to put a pad on and if it soaks thru in an hour then come. Thanks for sharing.
@megk.4599 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Renee…you’ve done a real service for so many 🙏! You’re absolutely correct…no one size fits all in this case as everyone’s story is different & we must respect each other’s choices 🤗. Several weeks following my surgery I remember standing in the sunshine & thinking “ 🎼 🎵I feel good…Like I knew I would 🎶!” James Brown style ☺️! Blessings to you 🥰 🙏 !
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I'm singing that today!!!! I'm a day short of 5 weeks since the surgery and I'm feeling good!!
@jennah1248 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all of these videos-6 days post-hysterectomy and all of your pre- and post-hysterectomy videos have been so helpful! 💕
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! Sending well wishes your way ❤️
@mariadesantis51938 Жыл бұрын
Seeing blood is always so scary! So glad your all good! I so wish I could take HRT especially hearing how it helps you. My mom had breast cancer so they won’t let me. I’m about 2 years into menopause since my last period and I’m still getting hot flashes. Night sweats occasionally but not like it was. I’m glad your able to do the patch it sounds like it’s wonderful. I will live vicariously through you lol. 🥰
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I think your body will adjust slowly on it's own. Since I had surgical menopause, my body went crazy with no hormones. The patch is working and I'm feeling much better!
@avamori3543 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Renee. You are wonderful to share your experience with us. You deliver the scary moments so calmly! All of this is so informative. You look fabulous. I can't imagine how you must have felt with the huge fibroid. You must feel so much healthier and lighter! Take care. I continue to hold you in prayer.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I do feel much better with the fibroid gone. No more weight in my abdomen. No more peeing all the time. And no more periods! Woo Hoo!!
@karenshepherd2557 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your open, honest, detailed explanations. Oct 4 is my lap hysterectomy; possible convert to open. The best learning experiences come from patients who have gone through the process themselves; this is the information that pre op patients NEED. 🌻
@Doririchard773 ай бұрын
I had my total hysterectomy on the 9th and my recovery is going great. I had no bleeding but I have major pain in my right side. I have 4 incisions on my belly. I have been watching ur videos everyday. Thank you
@drjamiesummers2 ай бұрын
I have a hysterectomy scheduled in 30 days. Your videos have really helped me so much!! Thank you!
@WhiteLily44 Жыл бұрын
This video saved my sanity. I twisted my body and started bleeding (4 weeks after surgery). I had to wait over 12 hours to speak to my surgeon. I only had this video. I'm all ok and have bed rest for 2 more weeks.
@PDd-ji3qh Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear your recovery is going well. Keeping your scars out of sunlight/tanning for 6mos to a year & they should disappear. I had an accident where a thick sharp broken piece of glass cut my leg deeply,stitches required. I was told I would have a 3 1/2” scar. I kept out of Sun for one year putting Aloe Vera from my plant & coconut oil for 1 year. It amazed my doctor that you can barely see a very thin faint scar, my leg looks great. By the way in Nigeria the Yoruba mountain ppl, yams are the staple diet of poor Yoruba women; they are being studied for their extremely high rate of fertility/birth of twins & triplets which is attributed to their daily yam/estrogen intake. Cheers to your good health & recovery ❣️
@makeapennycry Жыл бұрын
Thank you for documenting this. I’m exactly 4 weeks and I just experienced the bleeding. 😱
@milliejohnson-realtorandla147511 ай бұрын
I am 14 days post op- had wipe blood freaked. Cramping and worried I had done something wrong. Thank you
@oniesheckart-eads21083 ай бұрын
Very helpful. 52yo curly girl here scheduled for hysto in two weeks - I started the same HRT, slightly different dose with progesterone pill every night. I am keeping my ovaries for several reasons even though they were already peetering out on their own. Your advice to educate yourself and make the right decisions for yourself is wise! There are more options for dealing with the lady bits than I thought.
@missy67 Жыл бұрын
No wonder you panicked! Who would have thought 30 days after your surgery? What a blessing that Randy is such a supportive husband and is also going through this journey with you! Glad things are getting back to normal in your house - even though it's kind of a "new normal" with the patch! Thanks for sharing the info with us!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Randy has been so wonderful! He calls me several times a day when he's at work to ask how I'm feeling. Every evening he asks for a full report on my symptoms and we discuss what he sees in me. And we look at my belly....and it's exciting to see things looking better! I have 1.5 weeks left till my doctors appointment. Yay!
@jasmineadkins-wills2297 Жыл бұрын
Ty so much for sharing your story! I’m considering a hysterectomy this year. I’m terrified to do it, but feel it is what needs to happen.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I was terrified too. I tried every available option to resolve my issues and none of them worked. So I had the hysterectomy and so far I'm pleased with the results. Time will tell
@leslieh3785 Жыл бұрын
Get multiple opinions. Have your FSH checked-you might already be close to menopause. Keep your ovaries at all costs, unless of course there is cancer.
@ossier2796 Жыл бұрын
That’s your doctors job to listen to your concerns. You’re hearing nicely.
@oneoptimisticstar Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video I watched your previous video as well and it was very informative, I'm having my surgery on the 27th and even though I'm a little scared and nervous, I'm excited, I've been wanting to have a hysterectomy since I was in my 30's because I knew I wasn't having any more children and I had such bad cycles back then I was afraid for the future, fast forward 16 years later and I'm finally getting one, I mean it only took three fibroids later, 10 day cycles and becoming anemic for someone to actually listen, but I'm here now and I'm feeling more prepared and I hope I don't have any bleeding after but if I do, I know not to panic, because I'd probably panic. Thank you again for sharing your story
@SimonaDelean4 ай бұрын
Hi Renne, I'm 12 days post-op, and today I had a stabbing pain around my belly button while I was driving. When I got home, the pain was gone. Before my surgery, I used E patches due to being in perimenopause and experiencing lots of symptoms. When changing your patch, you first add the new patch and then immediately remove the old one. I learned from the menopause doctor and it's better to use baby oil to clean the old patch spot. Just a taught. Love your videos! Take care!
@suepalmer4726 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the information. I just had a hysterectomy two weeks ago. Asked my Doctor about HRT replacement and she said I was too old for it. I am 74 and they did a total hysterectomy taking the ovaries but I disagree and thank you for your video because I’m going to press on about getting hormone replacement.
@papaace4 Жыл бұрын
I am loving these videos on your hysterectomy journey. I am in the process of talking about getting a hysterectomy because of the heavy bleeding. I am most concerned about hormonal therapy because I am on breast cancer medication.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thank you....so glad my videos are helpful. You would certainly need to talk with your doctor and do your own research regarding HRT. Your menopause symptoms would determine which hormones you need. Best of luck to you 💗
@debrajackson1480 Жыл бұрын
Well, that was scary! So glad it wasn’t abnormal and happy the hormone patch is working so well. Waaay back when I had my hysterectomy my HRT was Estradial injections but I was so happy to have them. Glad you have a patch. These videos will be such a blessing for the many women that are facing surgery. Job well done, darlin’. 😊
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Debra!
@patriciayoung37713 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I enjoyed your videos..63 and there are some things I got to go through. 🎉🎉
@TheCrustyBagel Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I just got the call last week that they can schedule me in 4 months sooner for my hysterectomy and Im taking the appointment. Now Im on the fast track to getting my surgery in a week and a half and Its a blessing to be able to listen to your experience. Youre covering everything I've been worried about. Thank you so much!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I wish you the best!
@anitabearchum6622 Жыл бұрын
Hello i just had a robotic Liproscopic total hysterectomy thursday nov.30,2023 and im still pretty sore and swollen i found ur video just want to thank you it helped me get mentally prepared. Today is 4 days after my surgery
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Hi! Hope you are feeling well and on the road to recovery. It takes time. Give yourself that ❤️
@pammcquaid Жыл бұрын
When I had my hysterectomy years ago my doctor did warn me about bleeding but he also said things maybe look good on the outside but healing inside takes longer ❤
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
So true! I may look better on the outside...but I'm fully aware of the trauma inside and it needs significant time to heal.
@beverlygarner7996 Жыл бұрын
Great video for reality of this surgery. Tho I have not had surgery, I have been on Bioidentical hormones for over 20 years. At the age of 62 I became a RN, am still working at the age of 76, and could not have done this without the hormones! Great video diary!❤
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Oh wow! You go girl!!!
@angelawalker4283 ай бұрын
I thank you so much for this video because today is 4 weeks after my hysterotomy and I saw blood when I wiped, and yes I totally freaked out and was headed to the ER. But something said look up what you are experiencing and your video showed. So I will wait it out. No pains, no cramps, just blood. So I will calm my nerves and wait for my doctor office to call. Thank you Renee
@WelcomeToMyCurls3 ай бұрын
I freaked out too with the instant pain and blood. But turned out to be nothing. So glad you found my video and I could calm your nerves. It's good to call your doctor just to make sure :)
@kristinanncreations224 Жыл бұрын
When I had gall bladder surgery I had the same small incision and had the same issues with the sutures and ended up using tweezers to remove stitches that stuck out. It was like pulling super thick coarse hair but afterwards the getting randomly poked stopped. Thanks for all the great information you put out.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
WOW! I would pull that stitch out if it would pop through the skin. So far it's still inside 😳
@jamiejackson3922Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@mrs.c5471 Жыл бұрын
I never bled, but today I noticed a pain like you described, like a splinter in the incision above my belly button. But I haven’t bled.. And I’m 8 weeks out of the same exact surgery you had
@wandajewitt20312 ай бұрын
Hello Renee, I wanted to say thank you. I think I’ve watched your hysto videos about 3 times a piece by now in preparation for my own at the end of this month. It’s nice that there is a ton of info out there but I will be having the same procedure so I keep coming back to your videos. Your way of explaining your experience is fantastic. You are precise and to the point, which is how I am. Thank you very much for taking the time to put this info and your experience out there! ❤
@WelcomeToMyCurls2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! I'll be sending my best wishes to you for your surgery
@Painter931 Жыл бұрын
Good luck to you hope this HRT is the right way to go. Make sure to get your mammogram regularly. When the HRT doesn't work anymore the effects of menopause aren't that bad it will fad away in time. Now is the time to start taking care of yourself eat good food and exercise regularly. Menopause sounds scary but it's just as it is named "change of life".
@bonitaharrison4736 Жыл бұрын
Very honest and straightforward and well received.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@feleciadavis5275 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Renee! I am having a laparoscopic hysterectomy on April 5th and your videos have been so helpful for my preparation. I am 57 years old and post menopausal. There is a strong possibility that I will not be able to keep my ovaries, and I have been researching hormone replacement options. I love your "realness" and I look forward to future videos. God bless. ❤
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Oh Felecia! I'm so glad I could help you be prepared. If they take your ovaries, you may not have the severe symptoms that I had because I was not in menopause before the surgery. Perhaps your body has adjusted and you simply need hormones for all the other benefits. Sending good thoughts and well wishes your way! ❤️
@DonnaS459 Жыл бұрын
Hi Rene....My Sis just had a Total Hysterectomy.... yesterday.... I had her watch your video last week to prepare for it....she came home from hospital this morning (The Dr had to open her up the old fashion way cause her Fibroid was the size of a newborn babies head)....but I'm going to have her watch your video today... Thank you for being you....your awesome❤️
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Oh my Donna! I'm sorry to hear she had to opened...but glad she is doing good and home from the hospital. Fibroids suck! Pass along my well wishes to her please 💕
@DonnaS459 Жыл бұрын
@@WelcomeToMyCurls I definitely will...Thanks Again❣️
@lorij9649 Жыл бұрын
Renee, this video is a gift and many women will be blessed by this information and benefit. It is a true Miracle how our body knows how to make adjustments and heal from surgery, allow patches, change in hormones and helps us get regulated again. God created a masterpiece.
@mitchelleparchment920 Жыл бұрын
Am a Jamaican I did this surgery August 29, I feel so much pain whenever I had to poop, am glad I've watched this video so I'll more understanding on what to expect. Thanks a lot for sharing your experiences ❤❤❤
@realcarmen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your hysterectomy story. I just had mine on 08/16/2023 and you are helping me through things. On this video it is funny you said before we go to sleep we watch an episode of Frasier ... my husband and I do the very same thing. I feel I can't sleep without watching Frasier. I wish you well with your continued healing.
@pjdowell2 Жыл бұрын
I had a vaginal hematoma, it was visible and the pressure was painful. It finally had to be drained in the Dr. office and the relief was instant! Did not expect that!! The estrogen patch was a life saver for me but was not available until twenty years after my hysterectomy! I no longer take hormone replacement since I have entered my "senior" years and still occasionally have flashes/night sweats but they are easier to deal with. Medical advancements are wonderful since my surgery 33 years ago.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Oh gosh.....I knew having the hematoma drained was a possibility but mine resolved itself within a week. But it HURT SO BAD!
@starguevara6617 Жыл бұрын
Hi, I will have a hysterectomy and a bladder lift. Thank you for continuing giving us this precious information. God Bless you ! For helping women !
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@sophiathomas1819 Жыл бұрын
Hi dear, I felt the same kind of bleeding today, i really got panic. After hearing ur experience i feel so relieved. Thnx so much God bless you
@nitanalleyclark802 Жыл бұрын
Hey Renee! Glad you are doing better, I am glad your scare wasn’t anything bad, but I did laugh when you were talking about what your PA asked you! I have an appointment in May to see a OBGYN and I am dreading it!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Oh girl no....nothing has been in there!! 😳 I always dreaded my appointments too but you gotta do it. Put your blinders on and just get it over with
@JennieRose8 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh. Only 4 calls? Since my hysterectomy 2 weeks ago, I think I’ve sent messages and called about 10 times. 😂thank you for sharing!
@CindyChestnut-r6u5 ай бұрын
Thank you! Peppermint and peppermint tea helps with gas
@brookeb5568 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I had a similar situation happen with the bleeding at around the same time. It scared the kaka out of me. I’m almost 7 weeks post op now and have been scared to go no 2 since then because I’m so scared I may make it start again. I’m sure it’s probably in my head and hopefully soon that will go away. Mu appt is Thursday to be checked so I hope everything looks good. I’m on the patch too since I have no ovaries and I am getting a slight rash from it after a few weeks. I’m going to talk to the PA and hopefully we can get that figured out.
@MustardSeedish3 ай бұрын
I'm just over two weeks out of my laparoscopic hysterectomy. I'm feeling pretty good but I appreciate the heads up what might happen. I've been taking Estradiol for a while and it's life changing.
@marys.2570 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad it was nothing serious. Thank you for being so open and honest.
@annegreenwood3624 Жыл бұрын
you look so pretty love your hair glad your on the mend thanks for sharing another great video
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗
@jeanjacobs9965 Жыл бұрын
Greetings Renee! Whew! That was definitely a scare! I'm so glad you're okay. I had a vaginal hysterectomy and one of my stitches pulled loose when I dropped my pillow and picked it up. That was painful, but nothing as dramatic as what you went through. Bless your heart ( and I mean that sincerely) ! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
@isamen6847 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow. So happy you are recovering. When I go threw menopause I'll take what will help. Thank you for the updates and happy to see you are okay.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Menopause can be miserable.
@jenniferlee7167 Жыл бұрын
You are healing very well, Renee. I am glad that the patches have helped you as there is nothing worse than hot flashes. I used supplements to get through them. You must do what works for you. Keep monitoring your condition. The estradiol may work now but you may feel differently in say a year. Your hysterectomy is very new. You are making great progress!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
The patch is working wonderfully!!!
@melissaphillips3088 Жыл бұрын
Such helpful information for all women out there. Thank you 💕
@carlaharris4879 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness i just found your channel its soooooo awesome. I love your videos on Mexico 🇲🇽 ❤
@tammiel3812 Жыл бұрын
In 2003 I had the same surgery and at 10 weeks post surgery my surgical site in my vagina dehisced! I started bleeding as you did at the same time and another doc had examined me and said I was healing. I was having bleeding from 4-10 weeks and my belly button incision got infected from the strips. With the 10th week, I had felt a horrible tearing and ran to the bathroom with bright bleeding and flow. I ended up in emergency room and within 20 mins I was rushed to surgery for a laparotomy and a repair to the vaginal cuff incision. I was septic and had fluid inside my abdomen. A hole from the outside to the inside of my body via my vagina! I was told I would have died if I hadn’t come in. Pain tells you something is wrong and please don’t ever ignore it or take more pain meds to control it. Always call you doc or go to the emergency room. I literally survived and three older ladies had this happen in the same office at 10-101/2 weeks post surgery. I was 29 year old when I had my hysterectomy with one ovary removed. I was 105lbs at the time and physically fit. My life flashed before my eyes that day. I ended up with a 7” incision from my pelvic bone straight up my abdomen. I live with this scar and adhesions that cause pulling on my bowels. I had a tear in my sigmoid colon that also needed to be repaired. Scar tissue will be a regular occurrence and I’ll continue to have colonoscopies to make sure I do not have scar tissue building up. Do your doctor’s research ladies! Ask the I,portent questions about any malpractice claims! This is not to scare anyone, to be informed that it can happen and more than 5,000 ladies had it happen! Check it out and be prepared to do the deep research before you decide on a surgeon and a hospital. Be well and God bless
@susanbarber6208 Жыл бұрын
I had a hysterectomy at the age of 40, the best thing I had ever done…I did take HRT approximately five years then I did not need them any more.
@greetingsfromwi9819 Жыл бұрын
I had my hysterectomy 3 years ago. I had the big incision and I called the doctor a few times. I have had hot flashes for a couple years before that. Trying to sleep is the worst. Haven't started any therapy yet since I'm only 51 but it could be in my future. Hope you heal soon.
@christineschwenker5824 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations,you are heading in the right direction! Take it slow!
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@AdsMum100 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience Renee. Sorry to hear that you had a scare, but thank goodness your doctors PA was able to reassure you. You are looking so well, best wishes x
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@Ubertechgirl66 Жыл бұрын
That was really scary!! I would have freaked out too. Good for you for not going to the ER! I’m also on that patch. Same strength. Mine is very small and round and called “Dotti”. I also take a progesterone pill at night. That also helps with sleep and night sweats.
@dianadefore5984 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! This happened to me today and I'm 2 weeks out. I freaked out because I had a clot. I did have some bruises after surgery. I called the doctor too and she didn't seem concerned but said if it was heavy or didn't stop to go to the ER.
@sagarikapanda2211 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing ur experience. I panicked today. But after watching ur video , now I understood that it's ok to bleed a little.
@ProstMahlzeitNZ Жыл бұрын
I think it’s great that you share your story and it’s good to see how much and fast you are improving! 😊
@islandgal500 Жыл бұрын
Your talk about bleeding or a pain issue weeks later has been very helpful! Getting surgery in a month (cancer cells found) and will be far away from home without an escort and will fly home on day 3 after the surgery. I live alone and am in my 70s, so need to be as prepared as I can be for all possibilities. Doctor and hospital are a long distance away when at home and my Doctor's office takes forever to get back to me too. Not prone to panic, but still would be very concerned about bleeding/pain that long after surgery.
@lemir3559 Жыл бұрын
Good luck to you!
@sanjeevdeshpande2186 Жыл бұрын
Good Luck and God Bless! You will be fine❤
@MariaRamirez-nx2kc4 ай бұрын
Your videos helped me so much! Today I’m 2 weeks post op and it has been a ride. Not a pretty one either. I had a yeast infection from all the meds and then I developed an incision infection and back on antibiotics. Doing better and hopefully a start feeling more like myself next week.
@sherryc2443 Жыл бұрын
So glad you're feeling better, and the bleeding was a good thing. Thank you for sharing Renee ❤
@Sapphierrrrwitdapawz Жыл бұрын
Hello Mrs. Renee, I'm due to have a hysterectomy this November and your videos have been so helpful for me.
@ossier2796 Жыл бұрын
After regular menopause you can have spotting but I don’t know after a hysterectomy I’ve never had one. Hope you’re better soon.
@cozyhome3077 ай бұрын
First of all, you are such a pretty lady. 😊 I’ve been binging some of your videos on this certain topic. I’m preparing for a visit with my doctor soon and I wanted to talk with her about possibly having a total hysterectomy. I’ll be 43 soon and I’ve been having issues with female health for years. Now, I feel as tho I’ve slipped into perimenopause hell and I’m not here for it. Your videos have been so helpful! ❤
@MarlaLukofsky7 Жыл бұрын
Love the details. All honest. So real. Love it. And sorry about that onslaught of comments about HRT. Yup. I trust that you have made the right decision for you, after your homework. Educated decisions are the best. It's a personal one. Keep the reels comin'.
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that....thank you.
@linamartinez3412 Жыл бұрын
Hello Renee how scary. I’m glad everything is okay. I didn’t have any of that happen to me but I do believe we all need that information and everyone is different please take it easy. I’m glad the patch is working for you. ❤
@WelcomeToMyCurls Жыл бұрын
I know....it really scared me. Wish I had know that bleeding can happen 4 weeks into recovery.
@beckyriley2674 Жыл бұрын
I had a hysteromy about 25 years ago, I was worse on the patch. I took myself off of it. I've never had a problem.
@kellybuettner5216 Жыл бұрын
So glad you’re Doing well! I love your videos! Love from Colorado!!!❤