My Total Hysterectomy Experience | What to Expect After Laparoscopic Hysterectomy 6 Months Post-Op

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

As I head out on my morning walk today, I'm so thankful the surgery is behind me. My life is so much better now! 😊

[@KimberleyJackshaw]

Lol Randy.. had to giggle at that. By the way men lose testosterone as they age it's called andropause which is similar to menopause in women. No matter the gender we both carry estrogen and testosterone. And we both carry many other hormones as well. You're doing great Renee. I went into peri menopause at age 45 while actually on the birth control pill. I discussed the history of my cycle with my doctor, she thought it was just weird. She never considered that the reason I was put on the pill in the first place was my cycle started at age 11 then stopped completely at age 15 .. no one tested me for PCOS .. but looking at my health and life now in hindsight pretty sure that is what it is/was.... I'm like you thankfully no pads or tampons to carry etc... no cramps etc..

[@brendagonzalez391]

Thank you for your videos, they are very helpful! I am having my surgery next month, I will have my uterus, fallopian tubes, and cervix removed. I hope this question is allowed, my concern is intercourse after surgery. Is it painful? I'm scared. Please advise

[@mamoonabi8718]

Did you get anaemic? As your hair looks like it wasn't affected?

[@rowena9575]

Thank you for sharing! What a blessing to hear all this ahead of my surgery. Really appreciate your honesty.

[@happysilence887]

Do you have to use the patch that you put on after a hysterectomy

[@ThatDarlaGirl]

I am 47 years old. On October 31st, 2023 I had my hysterectomy. The doctor took my cervix, uterus, ovaries and fallopian tubes due post-menopausal bleeding and fibroids. Your videos on your hysterectomy journey have been helpful to me in understanding what I have gone through and what is to come.

[@Melissa-nx8tt]

Hi, how was your recovery?

[@josielopez281]

How long after your consultation was your date set?

[@ThatDarlaGirl]

@@Melissa-nx8tt It went well. The doctor that did the surgery was excellent.

[@ThatDarlaGirl]

@@josielopez281 Two months after my consultation I had my surgery.

[@dinapalkowski8146]

I have a prolapsed uterus. 1 Dr recommend a laproscopic abdominal surgery remove uterus, fallopian tube's, ovaries, keep cervix the 2nd Dr recommend a uterus removal from vaginally. Just uterus. What is better abdominal laproscopic surgery or vaginally

[@lorij9649]

Hi Renee and hello to all the women. I am 69 and will turn 70 November 12th. I have Never had a Hot Flash. I had no problems with my period. It was regular and On Time Every Month! I Counted On it! I believe I felt and feel fortunate that my Body was working properly! I missed it when it tapered off and out at around 48 years of age. I started my period 5 days before I was 11 years old.....So Menopause for me was a Breeze!! No Problems! I feel so Happy and Grateful that I can write this.

[@ebonycook8539]

I just recently had a hysterectomy one month ago removing my cervix, uterus, and felopian tubes. So far so good. I feel amazing!! I'm 47 and I had multiple fibroids. I feel ten times better.

[@MinnesotaCabin6]

Thank you very much for your hysterectomy series! I found your channel before my surgery, and it was, by far, the best resource that I found. I knew what to expect and what questions to ask. I am now 3 months post laproscopic hysterectomy and I've watched your videos over and over and over. You are a blessing to others!

[@kellyl7610]

At age 32, after the birth of my second son, I stopped having periods. I never got them again since I had become pregnant. I went to the doctor and was diagnosed with Premature Ovarian Failure which is basically early menopause. It can even happen to teenagers. I had never been so excited in my life to know that at age 32, I was done having periods!!! And I never experienced any menopause symptoms either. No hot flashes. Nothing!! Win Win in my book!! That was almost 20 years ago and I'm still loving it!!

[@ShaynieB]

I wish!!! I just had a hysterectomy… i was done with periods and fibroids!

[@kellyl7610]

@@ShaynieB I just simply ran out of eggs early. No explanation why. I call my youngest son, "my last good egg" because he literally was my last egg that I possessed. Haha!!

[@Terry8885]

You're video is so encouraging for me, thank you. I started menopause at 50, now I'm 68 and having problems with a fibroid tumor. I have heavy bleeding and pain on my right side just above my hip. It puts pressure on my bladder and bowels and I pee all of the time. Sometimes I feel as if I have to have a bowel movement, but then nothing happens when I go to the bathroom. I feel bloated a lot as well. The gyno told me it's unusual for post menopausal women to have fibroids like this. She said she thinks it's been there for a very long time, and I agreed. It's probably been growing for a long time. A hysterectomy is most likely in my near future and I was so fearful of it, but after watching your video I'm encouraged and feel more confident that it's the right choice.

[@jammiegarner-th5zv]

I will be 46 in 4 days and I am scheduled for a total hysterectomy in the middle of January. I have had mixed emotions mainly for the cons. I cannot begin to express my gratitude to you for sharing your journey. You have helped me in many ways because of your courage sharing details that I fear.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Hi Jammie!!! So glad my videos have been helpful. Looking back on my journey and what led me to the surgery, I honestly had no reason to be afraid. Now that it's all 10 months behind me and I feel like a new person....I'm so glad I had the hysterectomy. It's been life changing for me. Hoping the best results for you 💗

[@Ameliaspersiancats]

Stay strong 💪

[@flare720]

I found out yesterday that I will be having a partial hysterectomy in about 2 months - I am terrified - I have just started researching the procedure on KZbin and this video is definitely helping me feel more relaxed about the idea… how did your surgery go?

[@jerseygurl1213]

Hi! I had my hysterectomy 9 days ago and I feel good! A lil pain without meds in the last 24 hrs, Other than that it’s not as scary as what I was participating it to be

[@mchazzie]

I am three days out from having a huge cyst removed and a total hysterectomy. I just want you to know how much all of your videos helped me before my surgery! Just like you, I’ve never had a surgery before, and I’ve never even spent a night in a hospital, so I was terrified! Your videos really helped calm me down and ease my anxiety. Thank you so much for sharing. Paula

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Good morning Paula! I now it's scary....I was extremely anxious on the morning of my surgery. You will get through it and be better on the other side. Best wishes to you 💗

[@tammicudmore-ray6120]

Aww that will be me on the 19th! Huge cyst and total hysterectomy!! Having watched Renee’s videos I am actually quite excited now for my surgery! I feel like that will be a positive turning point in my life and I will be free of fibroids and cysts and pain and heavy periods yada yada yada! Sending you tons of positive healing energy and love ❤️

[@juliemackenzie1978]

I didn't have a hysterectomy, but I went through menopause with very few symptoms. Similar to all the women in my family. Although, I share your opinion about no longer having periods. It is a freedom that is so enjoyable. I started going through peri-menopause in my late 40's & fully menopausal at about 52...I love my life without that monthly issue. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

"that monthly issue".....I like that term!

[@rachelandersen4211]

I had my hysterectomy almost three months ago. Your videos have helped me a lot before and after. Also, I found your channel because of your hysterectomy video. Now I never miss one! Thanks!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Glad I could help! And you're hitting that wonderful 3-month milestone when you actually start to feel great again. Congrats!

[@rachelandersen4211]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls i had some complications and I am still waiting to be cleared by my doctor, but I already feel so much better! I don’t regret it! I just am ready to have my life, body, and autonomy back

[@donnakotoff9949]

All those organs removed are located below your Umbilicus. The best thing you can do is exercise and strengthen that core. After menopause is when you get that spare tire that goes around to your back! You can start by just holding your stomach in and trying to imagine your belly button touching back toward your spine and holding that a few seconds. A strong core and good posture (which you have already) will keep your insides healthy and your aging strong!

[@MrsE123]

I’m struggling with the shortened torso and have the back fat I never had before and a crease above me belly button. My under wear fits different too. I went to the physio and he gave me some core exercises for diastasis recti without even examining me. I’m petite and always been slim but I know have a fupa and protruding lower tummy. Other wise I’m feeling great after my hysterectomy.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Same.....I need to start working on this before it gets out of hand 🫤

[@Delightfulwoman20]

Hi, I am 38 and recently had a partial hysterectomy due to endometriosis and Aden meiosis with adhesions . I’m so glad to have the heaviness gone and heavy painful bleeding gone. Thank you for sharing your story with us ❤

[@luzhernandez5321]

Hi, I am 39 years old, and I am debating on whether or not to have a full hysterectomy. My doctor is advising that I remove both of my ovaries because of endometriosis. How are you doing after your surgery, and how has your endometriosis progressed with you having your ovaries?

[@poojadhanesha4892]

I am suffering from stage 4 endometriosis my age is 38 and going for laparoscopy let's see how it works after that.

[@alexandraabraham5990]

Bonjour 👋🏿, j’ai 46 ans et je vous écris du Québec( Canada). J’ai eu mon hystérectomie totale il y a 7 jours . Jusqu’à maintenant je vais bien. Je suis extrêmement contente d’avoir écouté votre vidéo et vos commentaires. Votre expérience est rassurante pour ma convalescence. Je tiens à vous remercier pour votre partage. Merci 🙏🏿!

[@debrajackson1480]

I had a total hysterectomy at 36 due to endometriosis. It didn’t take long to get the right script for HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) Felt so much better. No more pain. Healed nicely. However, it did take about a year before I could comfortably lay on my stomach because my surgery was not laparoscopic. Overall, surgery was a great decision for me. Thank you for sharing your experience. So glad you feel great!❤️

[@boeingbwoy]

How is your libido?

[@allisonpryor7621]

What HRT are you talking?

[@MitziFreeze]

Thank you for this, this is an inspiration to me. I'm about to be 37 next month and I'm also having a total hysterectomy next month. I'm a little nervous about taking hormone therapy. But I have no doubt we will find something that works for me

[@jenp.7459]

I’m having a partial hysterectomy in seven days. I’m very excited because I’ve had my period for about three months. I have fibroids, cysts in my ovaries and endometriosis that has all the sudden developed in my 40s. I passed two decidual casts last week, which was very scary. Anyways, thank you so much for your videos. They are very helpful as I am gearing up to go to two pre op appointments in a few days. I appreciate you very much. God bless you.

[@nicolemanson203]

Hi Renee! Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I am 52 yrs old and just had a complete hysterectomy on 11/9. Like you I had fibroids. I also had cysts on my ovaries, severe scar tissue from an ablation in 2009 and light case of endometriosis. I am on recovery Day 3 and so far our stories are extremely parallel. It’s good to know what could happen, what’s normal and how to stay positive moving forward in my recovery journey. Everything you described I have experienced except I have had light bleeding everyday. I see my dr next week for my 2 week follow-up. Can’t wait to start feeling energized and good! Until then I am taking it slow one day at a time. No rush. ❤️‍🩹

[@nancystinger7393]

Us women go through so much !!!! The Randy shower story is hilarious. The worst part for me was right before menopause with extremely heavy painful periods before they stopped . I have heard that some women go through a grieving process because of their periods ending. We all are so different yet have much in common as women . Glad you are healing well ❤️

[@ShaynieB]

I went through a slight grieving period of knowing I wouldn’t be able to have kids (even though I never wanted kids) and that was about 2 mos before I had my surgery. But I have an amazing husband who has been my rock through everything, and he helped me through it and was right by my side. My recovery has been amazing because of him. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😭

[@russell00]

I'm two and a half weeks post my TAH + oophorectomy. My story is very similar to yours and I totally agree with you 100% about the ovaries. I'm 53. I didn't want the perimenopause symptoms even without my uterus. And as far as I was concerned I only had a few egg producing years left before I would experience menopause anyway so I was just delaying the inevitable. And I happen to be an oncology nurse. Ovarian cancer is difficult to detect and doesn't present a lot of symptoms until it can be quite advanced. I don't want to go into details or unlock a new fear in anyone. This is how I feel. In essence, in the capacity of my profession it's one of the cancers that really scares me. So, I completely applaud your decision. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. It's one of the only ones that I have been able to relate to fully.

[@Tuyine]

Thank you for sharing this info, I have a consultation for hysterectomy one week from now, i’ve been experiencing perimenopausal symptoms for 3+ years already, originally my thoughts were to keep my ovaries because for whatever reason a majority of the time I hear that that’s better, but honestly with how I felt over the past 3+ years I think it would be better to have the ovaries removed as well

[@uksarah66]

Hi there Renee, thank you so much for posting such honest videos about your hysterectomy experience. I’m due to have a total hysterectomy in 2 weeks, and am absolutely dreading it. Watching your videos, I now know what to expect and can be prepared for it. I also now have great hope that this is a good thing, and that once I’ve recovered I’ll feel better, the worry will have gone and I’ll be good to go for another 30 years! Sarah (England)

[@alanaquincannon2592]

Thanks for your videos! I had full Laproscopic hysterectomy in May I feel better now ! I am 74 so didn’t expect a stage one cancer! I went through menopause in my 50’s. Thanks for your videos I do t feel so alone!

[@MrsE123]

This video is so helpful. You are the only person who has talked about the gap between your hips and ribs shortening. This has happened to me and I know it’s after the surgery but because I’m slim people think I’ve just put on weight. I’m 15 months after my hysterectomy and like you I feel great. Just trying to strengthen my tummy muscles as safely as I can. Please keep updating us on your progress, it helps so much x

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Oh wow.....so it's a real thing!! I swear the space is closing between my hip bones and ribs. My pants are sitting higher on my waist. It's crazy stupid and I don't like it one bit!

[@MrsE123]

Surgeon didn’t tell me that this could happen before my operation. At least I would have expected it. It’s has prompted me to started looking after my core and posture. You are great thank you for your videos ❤

[@biocatalyst2021]

Even I did not know that this is something because I had asked my dr if there will be any change in body shape and she said no. Let's see, I am in my 3rd week post op.

[@melissamurray8994]

Hi Renee! I will be 50 in a month and had a radical hysterectomy in 2019 due to uterine cancer. Everything you shared is exactly how it went for me too, I can see a change in my abdomen/waistline and thought it was in my head, now I know I’m not crazy. Love your videos, thank you for sharing. I waited 1 year before taking hormones & regret it!

[@madhavinaidumazumdar2782]

I just had my Total Abdominal Hysterectomy done on 17th April and today on 25th Im doing well by gods grace and walking all by myself and no pain at all. Stool passes normally so the best and only mantra is to drink minimum 2.5 L of water apart from the other liquids consumed during the day. Eat healthy and return to your normal diet with lots of protien, fibre, fruits and veggies

[@Andiswig]

Hi Rene! SO happy I found your channel. I’m 55 years old and had a total hysterectomy Nov 20th, 2023. I also had a very large fibroid and I’m happy it’s out of my body! Thank so much for sharing your journey, it’s helping me tremendously through my recovery. I’ve shared your story with friends as well. ❤

[@rosalievitale3340]

Thank you for sharing!!! I am 3 weeks post op & look forward to feeling better every day! My biggest complaint now I’m exhausted!!! Can only do a little and then I have to relax!! It’s frustrating & I’m sure it’s all part of recovery! My 2 week post op appointment went well

[@almajimenez7740]

Hi, I had my laparoscopic hysterectomy 5 days ago and only have my right ovary. I am feeling good for the most part. Your story made my decision easier. I want to thank you for sharing your story and your journey.

[@margaretfranklin255]

Hi,i had a hysterectomy in January,i am a thyroid and breast cancer survivor,so i was having issues for a few years and one doctor did a d and c,he did but i still had bleeding.finally i got a doctor to do a hysterectomy.all my issues have stopped.im doing well now.thank you for this video ❤️😊and that you are doing well also 💕😀

[@MitziFreeze]

I'm 36, and I will be 37 in January. I'm having a full historectomy next month. I'm a little nervous, but I'm looking forward to my new life, pain-free and happy, and with no periods! Hormone therapy scares me a little, but I'm sure we will find something that works for me.

[@cherylt4806]

Hello neighbor, from Nashville. I found your channel recently when I was told I have to have a full hysterectomy (in about a month.) The fears, concerns and anxiety are real and I appreciate hearing about your journey. It's good to hear from someone who has been through it. Looking forward to when I can put this firmly in my rearview mirror too.

[@Parrotheadrenee]

Keeping you in my prayers…mine is scheduled for 9/19…we can do this!

[@cherylt4806]

@@Parrotheadrenee you are in my prayers as well. Yes! we can do this!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Hi neighbor! My surgery was done in Nashville by Dr NumNum......a highly regarded Oncology Gyno Surgeon. I knew I was in good hands. I understand that the fears, concerns, and anxiety are real. My best advice is accept that you are having the procedure. Wrap your head around what will be happening to your body and understand you will need time to heal. When your mind starts to wonder off to the "what if"....stop yourself right then. Don't go there. The morning of my surgery, I was so nervous I basically was not present. I just blocked everything out and forced myself to get to the point of anesthesia. Once I woke up, I was fully engulfed in the pain but had prepared myself for that moment. I wish you the best and will keep you in my thoughts. Just know that you will be ok. It will be over....it just takes time. 💗

[@cherylt4806]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls thank you for the encouraging words Renee. Much appreciated. (my surgeon is in the same practice as Dr. NumNum. I feel very confident in them.)

[@rosannahughes4008]

Hi Renee, Thanks for sharing. When I was 40, I had a hysterectomy but kept my ovaries. Last November, at age 66, I had my ovaries and a 2 inch cyst (on left ovary) removed. That procedure was so much better, better in surgical advancement and in recovery. I think it took me 8-9 months before I no longer felt any pains or funny feelings from that last surgery. Thanks again for sharing and helping many who might be confused or afraid to take the next step in getting healthy.

[@rhondacharlett8216]

@WELCOMETOMYCURLS. Hi Renee - I found your videos after being told that I needed surgery. My pathology report came back as precancerous so I had a total hysterectomy as well. I agree - leaving the ovaries, tubes, and cervix can all lead to cancer after the fact. Plus, for me, being post-menopausal made it an easy decision. Once everything was removed, however, the pathology came back as Stage 1B in the uterus. While the cervix was noted as nonmalignant, who is to say that some cancer cells didn't get into an area not put under the microscope. So I am now biding my time and healing before I see the Radiology specialist. I am coming up on 3 weeks post-op tomorrow. I can't thank you enough for being brave and speaking out and taking us on this journey with you. Although everyone reacts differently, you have helped me understand what I went through, what I am currently experiencing, and what I can expect in the future. You are awesome! Thank you! ❤

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

You are so very welcome! Best of wishes to you....always ❤️

[@cindycan13]

Hey, my next step is brachytherapy also. endometrial cancer. Surgery went well, recovery is going well. It's good to see someone more my age, I'm 64. Also a 1B. I would like to stay in touch.

[@rhondacharlett8216]

@@cindycan13. I am 64 also. I just passed week 7 post-op and got the thumbs up from the surgeon to resume normal activities. Yay! I start my brachytherapy next week. While I would have preferred to be Stage 0 or 1A, I feel blessed to be at 1B and not worse. Praying the brachytherapy puts an end to any "what if" concerns that are lingering. Hope your recovery continues to go smoothly.

[@cindysinicki8390]

Glad you are doing well, I am also. Just 2 weeks post op. A bit concerned about brachytherapy side effects. But happy to be moving forward. My email if you would like to stay in touch with such a simular situation.

[@rhondacharlett8216]

@@cindysinicki8390 Is your email yahoo or gmail?

[@Mymamy]

I had a complete hysterectomy at 34, I was so young, i had the full abdominal surgery so my recovery was hard.. I started Premerin right away and it was my wonder drug!! Love your channel

[@positivecarma52]

I went through menopause in my early thirties, hot flashes were the worst! Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

[@melissarice3234]

Good morning! I wish I had found your videos sooner! I am 2 weeks post total robotic hyst. surgery and was curious about the experiences of other women. Thank you for sharing and I will continue to follow.

[@SarahRenz59]

First of all, that burnt orange looks fantastic on you! Love the new couch; can't wait to see the full reveal when you finish redoing your office. Lastly, make sure to keep up your core exercises (when you feel up to it) and Kegel exercises, as a hysterectomy can make you more prone to bladder issues down the road due to weakened abdominal muscles. I laughed at your story about the estrogen patch and Randy being afraid of getting "girl hormone cooties" from it!

[@caroldebiase9532]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am having a full hysterectomy in February. It will be robotic laparoscopy. Your videos help ease my mind. I did a lot of research and didn’t want to over think this . I only watched your videos. Don’t want to look at others. I am in a good place now. Thanks again for sharing.

[@Sylvia1976]

Renee, I had endometriosis frim my 20’s and 30’s. My sister and I think my mother did as well. Long story to short I ha a hysterectomy st 39. My mother died from a stroke. Dr’s in the 90’s would nit give me hormones because of that. Believe it inot at 67 I am starting to take Estadiol. Omg what a wonderful med it has been! It took work to get it , but that’s a whole other story. So happy for you and me too!❤

[@AIP0702]

you made my cry when you said you can wear white pants ..I am scheduled in december..43 and kids done and fibroid and bleeding is the issue. Ur channel is a godsend to keep listening the positive things..and calm my mind.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Oh my! Just know that you'll feel so much better after you've taken time to heal...and you can wear white too 💕. And I just bought a white bathing suit that I'm super excited to wear on my upcoming vacation. Best wishes

[@pameladevos1754]

Thank you so much for posting this. I am 39 and have BRCA2, I already had a double mastectomy and reconstruction and now its time for the full hysterectomy. I am very nervous but your video has made me so much less nervous!

[@adivap9901]

Thank you for your update, my fibroid caused urine retention and continued heavy periods. I had to wear a catheter in July and for future had to learn self catheterisation. I had continued anemia, always tried plus triggering asthma and flu all the time. Had an emergency situation in July which prompted a hysterectomy in September now. You give me reassurance here, thank you.

[@juliearmstrong5734]

Omg! Your stomach looks amazing!🙌🏼🤛🏽💪🏽👍🏽🙏🏽You're getting your physique. I'm still recovering.This is 9 days of my recovery. I'm 57, and thanks to you, I'm learning more n more everyday.God bless your courage n strength💪🏽👍🏽🙏🏽❤️.

[@debbee18]

Just watched your other video about your surgery. Glad to hear you are taking HRT. I was on HRT a year before I had my hysterectomy. So glad I did! Thanks for sharing your experience.

[@Stacia1975]

Renee, thank you so much for your transparency regarding this! I'm so happy that you have a great post op result! Your videos regarding this are very helpful for those facing this situation/surgery! Thank you for all you do for us! I appreciate you so much! 😁

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Thank you for saying that 💗

[@makeapennycry]

I have a hysterectomy scheduled in about a month and taking it all out and I’m petrified. I am 57 have many fibroids and endometriosis. Your videos however have made such a difference in my being able to be brave enough to go through with it. Thank you.

[@Hope-ot1xy]

I had a total hysterectomy at age 50 due to extremely heavy bleeding. I was so anemic that I was almost given a transfusion. The doctor tried a D and C and even birth control pills to stop the bleeding, but it wouldn’t stop. I was scared as well, but I got to the point where I really had no option. My hysterectomy was such a relief. I know the idea of it can be scary, but pray about it and know that you are making a decision that will change your life for the better.

[@a_m362-g7x]

@@Hope-ot1xy hey was your heavy bleeding due to fibroids?

[@aliciatapia5645]

Thank u for sharing. I just got my surgery on 14 th of this month still recovering but I feel much better. I still have a long way to go. So let’s see how it turns out. Only my lord knows but I know that he will heal me. Like he healed u. Stay strong and god bless u always.

[@Thewellnessagent]

Thanks your videos helped me. I’m 44 total abdominal hysterectomy 1 week ago. Cancer prevention , my mom passed in 50s from ovarian cancer

[@mamas-jeep1984]

Had my hysterectomy at 41. I'm 55. Developed osteoporosis... hot flashes... wrinkles.. menopausal stomach, weight gain, muscle loss.. etc.. But I am now on ozempic and 25 lbs dwn. Along w exercising❤🎉

[@LibrariansRus]

hi mamas jeep im 41 and my surgery is in 2 days theyre leaving my ovaries but ive been having hot flashes so will def complain about them

[@alexasasmr6126]

Your videos have helped me so much. We would love an update now and how HRT is working for you at this point.

[@jrangel75]

Hi Renee. I read somewhere that after a hysterectomy, the spine can collapse which means your lower rib cage can now sit on top of your pelvic bone which will cause the waist line to widen as well as your hips. I’m sure your doctor will mention that. That’s the one thing I’m nervous about because I already have a short torso so I don’t have any more waist to lose. 😂 My procedure is scheduled for next month due to an enlarged uterus and fibroids. If you have a 1-year post op update, that would be awesome. Thank you for posting this update!

[@Chopsyochops]

@@jrangel75 did you waist collapse? Or did you get your core muscles back after surgery recovery to protect your spine and ribs from collapsing?

[@drcravins]

Thank you! My surgery is in the morning (930 AM). I’m hopeful, especially because I should be able to keep my ovaries. I am taking a lot of time off from work and looking forward to resting.

[@WWGWGA-bi2rv]

I went on bioidentical HRT at 40 and weaned off at 65. First 6 mos. I was fine but after that very slowly lost my eyebrows, hair thinned, got depressed, insomnia, severe joint pain, but the most horrible thing was I lost my energy and zest for life. I’m back on them now for one month and I’m better but still need tweaking. I tried different diets like keto, even carnivore and intermittent fasting and could absolutely not manage my hormones in my own. You are younger than I am and our stories are different but I’m just so happy too like you that I just take a pill and the guesswork is gone. You may have to have the dose adjusted as time goes on and might not always want that patch. It got to be a nuisance for me. ❤

[@jasminebenitez3936]

Renee thank you so much for all of your hysterectomy vidoes. Im 46, im childless and i have a scheduled hysterectomy next month. I have mixed feelings of course because of all the suffering I’ve experienced with all of my fibroids. Throughout the years ive had them removed during our fertility journey. However as ive gotten older the fibroids have grown and they’re now in places that are hard ti get to. So my only option is a hysterectomy. Enter the grieving process of not having a child. But again i want to thank you so much for these videos ❤️they are so helpful

[@naturallycandacemarie]

@@jasminebenitez3936 how did your surgery go? ❤️‍🩹🙏🏾

[@elb5535]

Hello, I am so grateful to hear that having a hysterectomy is not that bad, it gives me relief to know that if after my biopsy I need to have it done it will be way better for me. I am tired of being tired and anemic, I have a lot of fibroids and for months I had been feeling really sick, my lower back hurts and now I know why I have to go pee so often. I was kind of scared but after listening to your video I feel more positive about it. ❤ Thank you 🙏🏻

[@cindycan13]

had a complete hysterectomy 2 weeks ago, lower lymph nodes were also removed. I've got endometrial cancer so I will be moving on to brachytherapy radiation. Feeling strong and recovering well

[@cindycan13]

I'm 64

[@mindfulness_with_shavon]

I am 4 days post op after having a supracervical hysterectomy (I'm 50) after suffering for way too many years due to fibroids. I didnt find your videos until I returned home from the hospital, but they have been a Godsend ever since. Thank you for your transparency and willingness to share!

[@yas5489]

I'm 25 years old, Nonbinary and I really want this surgery to get rid of my gender dysphoria. Thanks for sharing your experience with us

[@noorhamid3071]

Hi, I'm going for my Total Hysterectomy nxt month Dec'24. Thank you for sharing your recovery journey. It helps me to stay positive on what to expect after my surgery. Even I know individual body will experience differently yet I hope everything goes well for me too. Again thank you 🙏

[@madhavinaidumazumdar2782]

Hi Renee I underwent a Total Hysterectomy at 44 years of age last week and seeing your video ladt minute just last week gave me a lot of encouragement. Thankyou for this positive outlook. Post 1 week of my surgery Im doing really well and keeping myself well hydrated with a healthy diet and ample of rest with intermittent walking as well. Unlike urs mine was an Abdominal Incision but all credit to my surgeon for giving me a pain free experience

[@thilaks5666]

Hi Renee, i am 46 and yesterday (3/1/24) i just had my uterus and one of my ovary removed due to huge fibroid and ovarian cyst. I'm still unable to accept this happened to me. Your journey had given me little hope and encouragement. Thank you.

[@Nisestory]

You look great !! I am 3 wks post op. Partial Hysterectomy posterior anterior vaginal and bladder repair with a Burch mesh I’m walking slowly but am recovering nicely. I’m feeling pain when urinating but I’m sure that’s from the mesh. I had given birth 5 yrs ago and my baby was stuck in my canal …trying to push him out. That reshaped some things down there. The doctor lifted my bladder etc and made repairs. I’m just happy that I did it. I still have my ovaries but had cyst removal Fibroids endometriosis… Intercourse was painful. In nut shell I am just happy not to be hurting. Not rushing anything The people in my home are going to have to work through this and take on the household duties

[@allisonpryor7621]

I had a complete hysterectomy also 6 months ago. I’m 49. My hormones are still not balanced. I’ve used the patch and it caused irritation and pain on the site. Lately, my doctor has been treating me with an estrogen gel. I’ve been on .25%, .50%, and now 1%. I just had bloodwork done last week so hopefully that will show us what my levels are. I swear my hormones are causing me to feel crazy and cranky as well as tired all the time. Thank you for posting your journey.

[@likachambers6465]

I am exactly the same!! 4.5 month post op on the gel and tired all the time… I feel that it never will end😢 I am (was) very sporty and energetic before. I am not a complainer either but hope I will feel myself again. You must be 1 year post op now. How are you feeling??

[@kameko839]

in next month i will have open surgery . Dr will remove my hysterectomy, fallopian tubes due of fibroids size 18cm . Thank you very much for your sharing . I felt much better after i have watched your video.

[@Destroyess003]

Thank you! I was looking into ablation but I see more times than not it leads to a hysterectomy. I hope and pray my outcome will be like yours. Thank you❤

[@homegoogle3553]

Same for me. I was scheduled for the ablation, my 2nd day of my period last month was so bad I called the Drs office and said PLEASE cut it out. I’m scheduled for my hysterectomy 3/27.

[@cramperella]

Thank you! I’m going to have a radical hysterectomy in two weeks. This lessens my anxiety.

[@Chelle81]

Thank you so much for these videos. They really inspired me! I am so worried about this hysterectomy and singing you up, happy, and healthy makes me feel like I can do this. Thank you again.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

You can absolutely get through it. It's not easy....the first month is pretty miserable. But it will pass and you'll be much better on the other side. Give yourself time to heal. Rely on others to do things. Don't push yourself. Best wishes to you 💕

[@paulahughes7158]

Hello. ❤ I’m 7 days post my hysterectomy found your channel very informative and reassuring Thankyou for sharing your journey.xx

[@virginias7742]

I went to full hysterectomy. I use BioT bio identical hormones and I’m the happiest I ever been !!! ❤❤❤ I had my hysterectomy at age 40 , is been 7 years . I feel fantastic. In my pellets I get 6 , 6 mg estradiol pellets and 137.5 1 pellet of testosterone. I highly recommend BioT over synthetic hormones.

[@sweetybiswas2875]

Your videos are helpful.. I had my total hysterectomy surgery this January 15 2024...thank you.

[@tihpromotions]

That is the key “listening to your body “ regardless of how long it has been. I am 15 month post opt with a total hysterectomy. I gave myself a year to heal and I needed the full year although I was totally healed in 8 weeks. That was according the doctor but I listened to my body. I’m still trying to see which vitamins and supplements give me the best energy . Every now and then my energy leaves me but b 12 seems to help. I had a successful surgery

[@stepheniemorris1077]

Thank you so much for all of your videos. I'm 43 and will be getting a laparoscopic hysterectomy in the next couple of months. Your videos have eased my mind so much. Thank you for sharing your journey. ❤❤❤

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

You are so welcome!

[@rlord7053]

Your videos have been a help and I appreciate all the info! I'm 45 yo and 48 hours post hysterectomy. I was able to keep my ovaries. I can't wait until I start hiking and going out with my friend's again. I really was suffering badly during my periods. Brain fog is a real thing!

[@KimRabideau]

Hello! Thank you for sharing your journey. I found you a week after having the same surgery you had. I also had fibroids, 2 of them totaling just over 10 pounds. I had just turned 60 when I had my surgery in June of this year. I went through menopause around age 45 without much difficulty. I started having a lot of pain and discomfort about a year ago. Finally one day it was so severe I thought my appendix might be about to burst. After an ultrasound the fibroid’s were discovered and the surgery discussion began. Like you I decided to have it all removed. I have a family history of uterine and other cancers. I really did not have any trouble making the choice to have it all removed. My surgical journey was much like yours. I also had laparoscopic surgery. I was able to go home home within 3 hours of the surgery. I was sore, but managed the whole recovery with extra strength Tylenol and Motrin. No pain pills! Within 3 days I was able to get in and out of bed on my own. The bed was my biggest challenge since I have a tall bed and I’m only 4’11. 😅 The one big unforeseen thing that happened to me was that I got shingles in my lady parts! YES. Shingles! The pain of this when I urinated was more than I could stand. At first I had no idea that this wasn’t normal, I just thought it was probably pain from the vaginal removal of my uterus. By day 4 I couldn’t take it any longer so I called the doctor. She was in surgery for the day. The nurse recommended getting Aquafore to ease the pain. That didn’t help. I couldn’t even put it on because the pain was too bad. The next day I called the doctor again. They had me come in. My doctor streaked when she saw how raw and sore the area was. She had never seen this happen in 30 years. She biopsied it. The result was shingles! The only thing we could figure out was I must have gotten a small abrasion during surgery and with the added stress of my dad and mom being I’ll, plus the stress of the surgery it created the perfect storm. She put me on a medication that started helping within two days. Thank the Lord! She said they should not come back. Again, thank the Lord! I’m now five months out and doing pretty well. I do get sore and have a stinging feeling if I lift too much or cut the grass with the tractor. I do notice that the area around my incisions gets really red after a shower every day, my whole belly across the area gets red. It’s kinda strange, but not painful. I also cannot rest my hands on my belly yet especially at night when I’m lying down. Thank you again. You were a guide to me in my journey and I appreciate you for sharing your experience.

[@tracylynn7580]

This video is right on time! I am 4 days postop from a robotic laparoscopic hysterectomy. I have also developed a pretty nasty hematoma at 1 of my lap sites. I feel like I can relate to your story. I am 51 and also had to have infusions for an extremely low hemoglobin (5.7). I’m currently filling my time with reading & trying to take it easy. I’m reading Verity now. I so appreciate all your videos on your hysterectomy, it’s was what lead me to your channel!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Ohhhhh the hematoma! They are horrible! It will cause you to need more rest and a bit longer to heal so take it easy. Don't lift a single thing! Love that you're reading Verity....Colleen Hoover has soooo many great books. I just started a 5-book series by by Gwen DeMarco....the first book is called Sophie and The Odd Ones. I'm on book #2 now. Highly recommend!

[@tracylynn7580]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls I will add it to my list on my kindle! Thanks for the recommendation!

[@tresacarey7197]

Thank you for sharing. I just had the biopsy waiting for results. My family is making me nervous about the effects but I've heard you feel better.

[@natashak3387]

After an unsuccessful ablation last year I am having a partial hysterectomy in March to stop bleeding. It won't cure my chronic iron deficiency anemia, but at least this they will be able to stop this bleeding. I have been requiring weekly iron infusions for over a year. Looking forward to getting this surgery and recovery behind me. I asked my surgeon about spinal anasthesia, but my Doctor said no. So general anasthesia is the way to go. Thank you for your time!

[@saimabano22]

So so so helpful your video, thanks a ton for sharing...we all need to know each other's experiences specially when it's such issues

[@laceystrattonwhitehead1199]

My surgery is in 4 days. The only thing Im stressed over is I have so much going on with work, I cant be out for long. So Im just praying that I heal up quickly so I can get back to work

[@cwright2536]

Thank you for these videos. Ita been 12 hrs since I've had my full hysterectomy . And I keep getting asked if I have any questions . You provided those questions and feel informed. Feeling informed reduces the fear. Cause knowing is half the battle.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I'm so glad my videos were helpful! Best wishes for a speedy recovery 💗

[@hvr2423]

Dear Renee. Had the same surgery last week and just stumbled upon your video. Beeing unsure if it was right to get my ovaries removed I would like to thank you for your honesty, it eased my mind. Going to get some estrogen at my doctors appointment next week and taking it slow from this point onward. Thank you

[@GotAngerMgmt]

Thanks for sharing this! I was skeptical to watch "subjective or personal" perspective. I literally scrolled past your video and others to only watch videos shared by doctors. I didn't want negative information prior to having the procedure. But to my surprise, your video was extremely helpful. I'm a doctorate student, married, 45 yr old woman who had a little concern about removing my ovaries for mood and intimacy issues. I experienced chemo induced menopause 2 yrs ago for breast cancer. Now I want to reduce the risk for distant recurrence along with the fibroid issues and pelvic pain. Thank you very much ❤

[@Piscesmoon83]

Watching your new video now!! I am so glad you are feeling so much better!! And are able to do “all the things”❤ I am now 7 weeks Post Opp and finally feeling normalish I can not thank you enough all of your videos have helped me Tremendously since I found out in April I needed a hysterectomy. Bless you and take care!!! Sending lots of love to you Renee!!! 🥰

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Yay for 7 weeks! You should really be feeling better now and starting to be active again. That's wonderful!

[@jolynbranch1211]

Hi, Renee. Thanks for this video, very reassuring. My surgery is scheduled for next Wednesday, 9/27/23, so I’m busy trying to figure out things like what I can wear home from the hospital because I know my stomach will be sore, and how to make things easier for my husband since he will be doing a lot of things I usually do for a while. I have endometrial cancer and will have a total hysterectomy. I’m praying the surgery will be the cure, but I won’t know until after the biopsies are back and the cancer is staged. Needless to say, I’m really nervous about that! Something you mentioned in this video really caught my attention, because I’ve been wondering the same thing about changes in my belly for a couple of years now. The difference is, of course, you’ve already had your surgery. A couple of years ago I noticed a little midriff pooch, almost overnight. I was 74 years old then and have always had a flat midriff area. Any fat I had would accumulate in my lower belly. I went through menopause in my fifties, so I didn’t think the change in fat location was caused by hormonal changes. I did discuss it with my doctor, and since then another doctor, but have not had a satisfactory answer. Basically, they can guess at things, but they don’t know why it’s there. Over the last couple of years, the bulge has gotten progressively larger, without a weight gain to explain it. I am at a loss to understand and it’s large enough now that it affects the kinds of clothes I wear and I’m becoming self conscious about it. I’m very active, but no amount of exercise or even weight loss affects it. I would be very interested to know what your doctor says when you ask him about your little bulge. Would you please be so kind as to let me know, or cover it in one of your videos? I know all bodies are different, but perhaps his answer may give me some insight into my problem. I’m a little worried now, too, since I’m going to have a hysterectomy next week, and wondering if it will eventually make this bulge even worse. BTW, you look great, and I can see by following your videos how much you have healed and improved over the last six months. I’m so happy your hysterectomy has been a positive experience and that you’re feeling so well and happy now. I look forward to being there six months down the road, something to look forward to! Thanks again for sharing your experience. It has been very helpful to me to have some idea of what to expect with my surgery.

[@Nisestory]

Hope your recovery is going well 🙏

[@annmorrison-th9lh]

I’m 2 days post surgery of my hysterectomy. Thanks so much for the videos. They helped me so much to prepare. So far, very very good!

[@sheilahelms7887]

Thank you for your videos. There isnt alot of info out there. I am 43 and 3 weeks post op from my total laprospic hysterectomy. I still have my overies but not my uterus, cervix, and tubes. I was feeling great and the 3 week mark yesterday my stomach got real sore and full or swollen feeling again, woth alittle more tinged spotting when wiping. Of course it raised my anxiety and scared me. Hoping its is just a 3 week thing and will get back to normal soon. Your videos has helped me alot on calming my anxiety and helping to know the next stages of recovery. Like i said there isnt alot of info out there.

[@suesmith7088]

With any surgery alot of how a person gets through it is attitude. And more important is prayers.

[@kaydellstewart5132]

Boy am I glad I found your videos tonight. It’s after midnight, I’m still awake and I’m a little concerned as I’m having a uterine biopsy done tomorrow, starting the process of a hysterectomy. I’m excited to have it done as I’m still having a period.. I’m 65 years old 🫤 I know, I know! just worried about the pain and the process of a hysterectomy . Doctor said they will try to hang onto my ovaries depending on what the biopsy says tomorrow. And a tiny fibroid was found at my last ultrasound, 2 cm. Thanks for the videos. You’ve eased my mind I think I can go sleep now.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

So glad you found my video helpful! Best of luck on your upcoming hysterectomy. You'll feel so much better after it's said and done 😊

[@isiscarito5763]

I just can say "Thank you" for sharing your experience. So glad that I found your channel and these videos, they have been so helpful. Blessings to you 🌷😊

[@dorarubio2584]

Hello mrs renee today I had my tubes & uterus removed thank you for sharing a your tips they really helped me i will be you fan forever ❤️ Dora

[@geselagrendel630]

Hey Renee, thanks for your update, health issues are always worth talking about. I think if you can help people out there or reasure them then I'm all for it!😊 I've suffered most of my adult life with Endometriosis, changed my Gynecologist at about 30 and went on a medication to stop my pariods. No bleeding, no pain right. So now at 52 I've not had a pariod in over 20 year's. Best thing that ever happened to me, it's been so worth it! See what happens when I go into Menapaus. One issue though is I really think the older we get we seem to get a little tummy fat! 💖🤗 Love to you all from Germany.

[@maggieslifeisawildride512]

I went through menopause naturally and it took over four years for my body to finally adjust. It was horrible...the whole shebang of night sweats, irritation, and I had a horrendous period that lasted 90 days which made me anemic! I am so glad it's finally done and my hormone levels have settled down. It was definitely a wild ride...Lol! I still get a hormonal surge every once in a while but all-in-all I'm doing good. Thank you for sharing your story because it is a important discussion to bring out in the open. As women we need to feel free and safe to talk about the crazy stuff that's part of being a woman.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

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[@nicolahodgson2978]

Renee thank you so much for these videos. I am now 4 weeks post surgery (exactly the same as yours) and all of these videos have been amazing, I went into this feeling so much more positive. Apparently when I came round after the anaesthetic the first thing I asked was if I could start my HRT 🤣. So glad you are doing so well xxxxx

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

LOL yes.....get the hormones ASAP. So glad you are feeling well and my videos were helpful. Thank you for letting me know! 😊

[@katywalker1048]

I still have my nexplanon implant but went off my patches. Will know what my dr says on Friday

[@carolinagirl3110]

I had a total abdominal hysterectomy in 2015 (age 45)….I thank God for my Primary Physician because she was concerned during my physical and sent me for further testing and an OB/GYN….I only thought that I was getting fat 🤦🏽‍♀️….I started having heavy cycles but never had pain (only discomfort)….my entire preop/surgery/postop was very smooth and I had the best team - they were in awe!….I do not miss that monthly cycle and have no regrets in getting it!

[@angiemc8593]

It’s funny you talk about bladder problems, I was always going to the toilet, thought it was just me and normal. . I wasn’t even aware I had a huge fibroids, until it moved and blocked off my bladder and needed surgery. Six months post surgery and feeling so much better. Glad to hear your feeling great too 😊

[@vessyioannou259]

I am having this done in about 3 weeks. You are my inspiration in general. I am subscriber from before. Hello from Australia 🇦🇺

[@janeebledsoe3931]

I have a hysterectomy surgery coming up soon due to prolapse of my uterus and bladder which causes a heavy dragging down feeling in my vagina. Also I am looking forward to not having to wear my pessary. I appreciate you telling your story very much. ❤️

[@muffininthelowcountry]

I’m one of those women that messaged you prior to my hysterectomy. I had it on May 3rd. I also had my ovaries, tubes, and cervix removed. I have women asking me that same thing “ why did you let them remove your ovaries “. I had cyst on my ovaries and chances of ovarian cancer was concerning so my doctor suggested removing them. I was on oral estradiol but have switched to pellets. I have Testosterone and estrogen pellets. I feel amazing. I feel like I did in my 30s. I’m 52. My husband is a very happy man. 😂. The pellets are a little pricey, but at this point, I would give a limb so I could get them. Thank you for posting your journey.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

That's fantastic!!!! I am also interested in the pellets....that's something I want to talk to my doctor about on my next visit. The patches are great...but I do swim on most days and I'm concerned that the estrogen is getting diluted by my time in the water. But with summer coming to a close, I'm going to wait it out and perhaps make the change next spring. So glad you are feeling wonderful.....I am too! And yes....my husband is a happy man also 😂

[@Piscesmoon83]

I had cysts on both my ovaries I was originally told I would keep 1 just for hormones, but I kept both and the preformed a ovarian cystectomy and was able to keep mine.

[@katieferrell6756]

❤😊 hello my friend I am new to your channel watched a few of your videos so far and I just want to say thank you for sharing your story especially your hysterectomy story! You are so beautiful and I love hearing you talk and share your story and also I love your dogs. They are so precious, my name is Katie I’m 43 and I just had a hysterectomy literally last Thursday this is day four and I am so happy and excited. I got this done. I was in so much pain. I had also fibroid cysts that made my periods very thick. I was just so ugly uncomfortable very rough shape I’ll say just so much pain with having feeling horrible. I had to wear triple pads, poise, pads, etc. so as I’m watching this I already had my hysterectomy. I’m on day four. I’m doing better still sore and achy. I’m taking pain medicine and resting. Thank you for your encouragement on your channel. It’s been very helpful, and I’m so thankful that I got this done praise the good Lord he got me through this I pray that you continue to get your strength back each and every single day God bless sweet friend. May you have a merry Christmas can’t wait for another video.❤❤😊God is Faithful and Good !🙏🙌😊

[@MsMeandmusic]

Hi Renee I’ve just watched your videos on your journey after your hysterectomy. I’m 48 years old and 3 weeks over my hysterectomy but I have my ovaries and it’s been difficult, but watching your videos has really helped especially about the bleeding. Thank you for sharing

[@sarahrickman6609]

Hi Renee! Im so thankful for surgeons hands. I just had a total hysterectomy on the 22nd of March. I am sore but getting around. I havent showered yet but prior to my hysterectomy I was dying with endometrial cancer so it was total. Day 4 everything is starting to feel again. I have found because I'm still taking opioids that Im taking senna tabs and colon cleansing tabs and man that has been such a help. Ive already stepped down from hydros. Now its tramadol and ibuprofen but I feel so different like very calm but I definitely attribute it to my Lord Jesus. Im wandering if Ill need that estrogen patch or not. The surgeon took my nodes too. Not all but the two closest to the area. Im praying I dont have lymphodema. I think if Im careful I will be ok. Gott watch the sodium. Thankyou for your videos. They helped get me through and just eased my mind.