"I Am A Trans Lesbian Polyamorous Therapist!"

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[@kennethmccarley8336]

I don't want to be treated by a therapist who is more mentally messed up than I am.

[@a.s.9708]

😂😂😂

[@sarahdarakjy7653]

Came to say the same😭 how the hell you gonna help me when YOURE fucked all the way up yourself???

[@i_brought_a_flower]

That'll be hard to find 😂 they're some of the most messed up people in general

[@OhDontMindMee]

This is happening so much in healthcare. Been to the hospital and you will see nurses with stupid lanyards that have all their thousands of pronounces and their job position in small words cause pronounce more important 😒 I would never want a trans nurse as my nurse. The blind leading the blind

[@hifijohn]

A therapist's first patient is always themselves.

[@daashazireael6613]

Why does the trans woman lesbian have a freaking beard?!?!

[@EllanaWolf]

Don't for get the meat and two veg.

[@mrqs1549]

I’m asking the same question.

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

You presume logic and reasoning?

[@davidbernal6881]

Fetish and attention seeking behavior.

[@aeh3253]

Because trans - women are men.

[@reallysearching]

If someone asked me if I wanted to go to a non-binary therapist, my response would be "No - I am *looking* for a therapist - I'm not a therapist myself."

[@Clint52279]

Ha! Patients walk out of a session saying, "I feel bad that his transition was met with such hatred. I think we left off at a good place, though. Maybe next week I can help him work through... wait a minute!"

[@reallysearching]

@@Clint52279 😂😂

[@PatricenotPatrick]

“Non binary therapist” 🤔 oxymoron

[@mortuaryartist]

Trans lesbian polyamorous. That’s called greedy where I come from

[@mrqs1549]

With a bad facial hair!

[@CHN-yh3uv]

That’s peak incel

[@arima_song]

I'm not against polyamory per se, but when these people say that they're polyamorous - that's definitely a red flag. Normal polyamorous people are out there living their lives in the real world, not trying to make content out of the labels they've picked up for themselves.

[@carrington2949]

Why do I need to know about someone’s personal sexual situation at home from a so called therapist?

[@kit76149]

@@arima_song I don't necessarily have anything against what consenting adults chose to do, but with people like this and the woke teenagers online yapping and saying harem headcanons are somehow progressive and being poly is more progressive than evil "heteronormative" monogamy and "you hate poly people if you disagree with me"... I can't help but be ticked off by them as someone who takes loyalty and being faithful to another very seriously

[@dougcherney7981]

Hell no I wouldn't want to see a non-binary therapist. That would be a huge red flag

[@weswolever7477]

More red flags than a Chinese military parade 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Gimmetimetothinkdawg]

@@weswolever7477lol

[@AnaCarolina23y]

totally. it gives "i'm mentally unstable vibes"... definitely not what we look for in a therapist

[@fromchomleystreet]

To be honest, just being a therapist is beginning to look like a red flag.

[@julia-ff9kt]

Perhaps he's a therapist because that's his hunting ground - the vulnerable? Stay well clear I say.

[@AWholeBeew]

As an actual lesbian, I'd NEVER sign on for a therapist like that. Besides the obvious creepy ick factor of being alone in a room with a clear man claiming to be a lesbian and feeling more like prey than a patient, the last kind of therapist I'd want is one who is not only nuts, but who also hasn't even worked out his own issues. How could I trust a guy with so many clearly unresolved issues to help me deal with mine, and who is actively harming my community with his clownshit nonsense?

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

I am not a lesbian but I agree with you 100%. I wouldn't want to be alone with him either because he is obviously straight and has no moral bounderies, judging from the polyamorous part. The word Prey describes it very well.

[@elperrodelautumo7511]

Exactly. Someone gets it

[@rozsmith369]

As a actual lesbian myself, i 1000 per cent agree with you.

[@OhDontMindMee]

A lot of the comments people have been saying are eye opening. A lot of these weird men saying they are trans are actually straight. I do not condone the trans ideology whatsoever but I’m in awe. Some of those men are truly straight and just trying another way to be a predator/perverted.

[@BrokkrtheDwarf]

@@ankavoskuilen1725 These days 'poly' means 'I can't commit'. Like 'ENM' it's code for someone who uses others. One person is the 'nestmate' paying the bills or providing some other stability. The other person lives in a promiscous lifestyle. Imagine being entirely happy and comfortable holding a relationship with one person potentially for the rest of one's life, not being driven by a 'need' to find what these people call a 'unicorn' or to sleep around constantly. I liken correct poly to be akin to riding two horses. If you can't ride a single horse, what are you doing mounted on two? By the way....those two better get along as well, or they won't run at a similar pace and you'll get thrown. This analogy is why nearly all those relationships fail. They rush in violating trust, boundaries and consent which are critical for any healthy relationship -- even basic friendships. It's also why, despite being polyfi, I keep that shit to myself for the most part. Those people are sick in the head and leave a trail of destruction in their wake and I don't want to be associated with ther ilk.

[@Esther.1983]

I’m a woman. I’m a police officer, love cars, motorcycleracing and home inprovement. Doesn’t make me any less of a woman….

[@NiaLaLa_V]

Exactly. I even protested being called a tomboy. I am just a female who likes motorcycles.

[@Nurtherwen]

That’s bad*ss

[@Esther.1983]

@@Nurtherwenwell thank you 😊

[@kim2306]

You sure? I think you might be confused, you should look into non-binary.

[@Esther.1983]

@@kim2306😂😂😂

[@janeismyname588]

“Encouraging people to refuse to accept themselves, won’t heal them.” BOOM.

[@seraphlord6772]

The trans-lesbian therapist would have been kicked off Lesbos island.

[@francorodrigodequentino]

Lol😂

[@hayloftii]

lmaooo

[@saia126]

Honestly if I go to therapy im not going there to know about her/his sexual preferences or gender. Just imagine "Yeah.. i came here to talk about the bullying i suffered when i wa- AH YES I UNDERSTAND YOU AS A LESBIAN POLYAMOROUS TRANS PERSON, I SUFFERED A LOT TOO"

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

And we know that it would go there - without question. It would probably take even less time than you inferred, for the bearded Shirley Temple to make it about himself. LOL

[@saia126]

@@bobbiejojackson9448 "I know you are feeling bad but, look, at least you don't have to go through what I, as a mentally divergent trans lesbian with asthma suffer, so remember you are so privileged, period. I mean, look at you, as a cis white man how can you be so unaware"

[@Mickeyella123]

​@@bobbiejojackson9448 I had a trans woman offer to sponsor me in AA once. It's already weird to offer to be someone's sponsor. I was worried about seeming transphobic, so I said yes. Literally every time we talked, she made it all about her difficulties being trans. I dumped her within a week. Awful.

[@joefreeman3087]

This part right here. It's like I didn't choose to be depressed, but they chose their labels.

[@jilliansamael881]

THERES DOORS SHE CAN NOT ENTER (not the white house doors tho) 😂😂😂😂

[@TanyaRando]

The creepy polyamorous therapist is dangerous!

[@arwenstrong2818]

Yup. Someone poly has no business doing therapy. Over 70% of women in therapy experienced cheating that broke their hearts & this person's philosophy sees extra-relational sex as positive.

[@Valkari22]

@@arwenstrong2818 or SA, a therapist always talking about their sex lives could easily trigger people who have experienced that kind of trauma. This kind of behavior shows a lack of boundaries, how the hell are they going to help people establish boundaries if they can't even be bothered to have their own?

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

​@@arwenstrong2818Poly ppl can be therapists and some are. Their are many different types of therapist. Your clients/patients should never know what goes on in your personal love life as a therapist.

[@arwenstrong2818]

@@dynamitesparkles1457 They'll still have trouble connecting with 70% of female clients, whether the patient knows or not. The therapist could end up not taking that heartbreak seriously, and therefore will likely invalidate the patient, which will limit their healing. It's not like the patient is going to ask.

[@kate7896]

​@@dynamitesparkles1457very shortsighted of you

[@MizrahiChick]

A therapist who must announce their sexual preferences, pronouns and delusions ? Main Character syndrome.

[@renaissancemom817]

I’m with you, Marcus! “Hell NO!” When searching for a therapist, I avoided anyone listing pronouns.

[@teressebirkett3387]

Me too. I looked for the most regular person I could find

[@karite2]

I do not want therapy from someone in a clearly worse mental state than I am.

[@CindyShapa59]

Couldn’t have said it better.

[@nanaanan4731]

I also agree that this movement is making the LGBT community look crazy! After all we did to gain social acceptance. We’re just normal people, who want to have families, etc. Got gay marriage legalized, and then WHAM! Who are all these people? This “trans ideology” and the people who follow it have attached themselves to our community. You’re right. It’s for attention. I think that transhumanism is at the root of the ideology, and riding the coattails of LGBT acceptance. IMO

[@melissamurray8307]

I think the vast majority of LGBT members are like you. It’s just too bad that the “activists,” are the ones making you look bad.

[@HansDester]

I have never met one other person who has had the same thoughts as me. I have been trying to explain this to people for the last 8 years. These crazy people hitching a ride on the LGBT train and it is 100000000% rooted in transhumanism, which is NOT Transgender. These people believe they are evolved and better than the "Binary" people. This is dangerous movement and it honestly scares me. I feel bad for the LGBT. You have been hijacked. It's not even about LGBT, they have thrown BIPOC in there as well! They have their own movements. I'm sorry for what's happening to your community. I will always support the LGBT, but that's it only the LGBT, not the rest.

[@wintermoon7003]

As bi myself, I feel the ugly feeling rearing its head so I come watch Blaire, Buck or Marcus to remind myself that there are sane ones out there. Now I just need to find a gay guy! And NOT Brad Polumbo. Or whatever his name is. He has some of the WORST takes I have ever heard from someone who claims to be center right. No, he's more leftist than center or center right! I hardly ever agree with what he says, not that I need to but I feel like I should at least watch someone who I can at least agree on some points with. The only thing I ever agreed with him on were the insane tiktoks. But when he actually would go into his political views, they were always more left leaning.

[@alex-qd6of]

​@@wintermoon7003Brad is what Republicans used to be like, before the party was infested with mad cow disease. The modern unhinged right, would have thought Nixon was a big lib LOL I like that Brad is a heterodox thinker. No one in his audience agrees with everything he says, and that's a good thing.

[@underalions2023]

The community is LGB

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

Talking about being involved in sapphic love while having a whole beard is another level of delulu. I can’t even take this man seriously, much less hire him to be my therapist.

[@ericvogt3993]

The most heartbreaking thing about this is that there are therapists out there who genuinely want to help people... and the people who need them are being discouraged from seeing them because these creepy sex pests have convinced them that this is what "therapy" is.

[@bluewolfwalking]

Creepy sex pest - lol! 😂

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

I prefer my therapist to have less issues than me. Thanks

[@Brenda-wj2db]

Well at least hide them better

[@thebusdrrivertohell]

That.... Therapist... Strikes me as the type that'll break therapist/client confidentiality the second one says anything against the cult.

[@0hffs]

yup, I think I just went through this myself, I have no evidence but I mentioned that I was LGB only and called to leave a message for my psychologist to get back to me and nothing.

[@kryptofreak74]

Or abuse their authority over you...say you're a danger to yourself or others... have you committed.. terrifying. So many members of the cult exhibit narcissistic tendencies and love to control other people, no one like that should be given a position of power. It's dangerous. Remember what one of them did to the Vancouver (g)rape clinic?

[@arwenstrong2818]

Someone poly has no business doing therapy. Over 70% of women in therapy experienced cheating that broke their hearts & this person's philosophy sees extra-relational sex as positive.

[@0hffs]

The funny thing about this is that it's IMPOSSIBLE to believe they'd have no personal bias

[@arwenstrong2818]

@@0hffs Absolutely, most go poly because they convince themselves that monogamy "doesn't work."

[@lez0n]

Try being a therapist trying to work with client’s who are nonbinary and poly and their primary concern is relationship drama and jealousy. Kind of hard to present that this has rarely worked out historically and is why the majority of the world opts to settle down with one partner eventually. I mean you are free to be in any relationship you wish but expect to put in more emotional work the more partners are involved. Every choice has its downside.

[@OhDontMindMee]

@@VuDuGrrrrl8075this is the dumpster fire stuff I would see on Reddit. People there dog on anyone that has boundaries. They hardcore shame straight men for having boundaries for women but they’ll dog on anyone for healthy boundaries or even boundaries that may reveal that person is insecure. For example if a man says he doesn’t like his gf or wife having male best friends. Everyone on there will say he’s just insecure and needs to get over it or it’s a red flag and she needs to leave him. He could be insecure but that shows he knows what his limit is and it’s not wrong to ask that in a partner. If the partner can’t do that then I guess work on it or move on but he is not in the wrong for stating whatever boundary it is. These are the same people that support those in a poly relationship which is completely lunacy. These same individual will be dumbfounded when they get cheated on. Not realizing the way they navigate relationships is not right or they’re the problem.

[@janeismyname588]

No I’m not talking to a therapist who pretends to be the sexist and delusional “non binary” bulls***. & Marcus, you describe the logic flaws in this SO WELL.

[@scotthix2297]

I had several psychiatrists and therapists over my younger years… some were not by my choice but all of them were in some kind of analysis or psychotherapy themselves. The point was, if you’re dealing with people’s lives and mental health, you need a way to check yourself as you go along.

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

Can you imagine being a kid who is ordered by their parents to talk to a mental health professional or someone court ordered to talk to one and Lucy the male lesbian walks in? 💀

[@helenaawdry8916]

Disaster!

[@rachelparker8239]

​@@Kathleen-vl5wsI would think the whole thing was a joke 😅

[@LaLunalesca]

When I went to rehab at the beginning of the year. One of our counselors mentioned a psychiatrist hanging up on her for calling him sir. She was calling on behalf of a client and you'd think helping someone in treatment would be more important than being "misgendered".

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Just like the poly person: it is all about them, not about the client.

[@nanaanan4731]

3:06 Agreed. Why is the therapist even telling us all of that about their identity? All we need is your name, and your credentials. #Doing2Much

[@sirbaronvoncount4147]

Seems like the kind of therapist that talks about themselves during your session

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@Clint52279]

I wonder how many times the creepy straight guy "therapist" says during a session, "I know when I decided to transition..." or "As a transwoman, I feel..." or "My transition was about finding my power..." or "I think it's important to share my transition story..." I, I, I... me, me, me...

[@daashazireael6613]

Love how the trans lesbians topic for the week is about himself instead of things for his patients. I had a therapist like that and she would go on and on about herself and her issues. I had to switch.

[@kellysouter4381]

Non binary just sounds undecided.

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Or like a broken computer.

[@justme-tj3jt]

I would not see any therapist or counsellor who made it all about them. I don't care what you identfy as, I'm there for me not the counsellor. As a counsellor myself that's ethics.

[@wintermoon7003]

Between the gay men purposefully seeking out a Christian baker for their wedding cake, and the NB people denying science and forcing gendered stereotypes on people, I stopped from going full liberal because I just couldn't support that crazy train. When I saw that, I jumped off and I'm someone who would have fallen victim to their ideas if this was a thing when I was growing up. Because I was a tomboy and hated being a girl. But as I grew up, I discovered my feminine side and am happily a female! Based on my own lived experience, I felt like these NB people were just mocking my existence basically. Because I couldn't just be a girl who likes masculine things. Because of how I was as a kid, that helped me prevent going full liberal and I thank god every day I never went full liberal. I always felt like people should be allowed to be people and do whatever they please as so long as it doesn't infringe on other people's rights. I ALWAYS held that belief which is why I was originally very supportive of the community. Plus, I'm bi. But when they tried to force that baker to bake a cake he didn't want to, I felt like that was crossing the line even if I didn't agree with said baker. I put myself in his shoes and thought how I would feel if I was made to bake a cake that I didn't feel comfortable with. No one should be forced to do anything, regardless of the discrimination laws, which is why I was glad that it went in his favor!

[@HandgunSafe]

Personally, I think it's best if therapists don't present with oddities, and don't draw attention to themselves, and don't require a person to have to make all kinds of adjustments.

[@DesiGerdov-tp9md]

Nice pfp

[@HandgunSafe]

@@DesiGerdov-tp9md What do you mean by "pfp?" I studied psychology. I saw plenty of the wrong people going into clinical psych.

[@gloss93-nh5sl]

That means that your profile picture is nice lol. Pfp means profile picture ​@@HandgunSafe

[@HandgunSafe]

@@gloss93-nh5sl Cool. You should check out what some of the online urban dictionaries say about pfp. Acronyms can be confusing.

[@KryptoGraphVideos]

I think of any therapist discloses their sexuality or gender identity to their patients, they probably aren’t centering anyone but themselves. So run.

[@Scrambled.eggs_]

I went to therapy as a teen and had a non binary therapist for about a year (ive known i was a lesbian since i was 11 and still am) and every single session she would question if id questioned my gender identity and ask my pronouns

[@BloodrealmX]

That's sickening. I'm sorry you had to experience someone trying to forcibly change your gender.

[@nariyat]

As a Christian conservative from a family of Christian conservatives, I absolutely love you and your channel! I empathize with the struggles you face in gender dysphoria, and while in your position I would personally struggle between my own beliefs and the sorts of choices you have made in your own life, your choices are your own business and I respect you and the direction in which you have taken your life regardless. I love to hear very rational, logical points made by someone who lives a very different life from mine, and a perspective I could never otherwise understand. Moreover, your views and actions are based in reality; you have never required anyone to play that pretend game of believing biology is malleable, nor have you demanded anyone to use certain speech around you. I have heartfelt respect for you, versus the QIA community, for these reasons. My parents (Christian boomers) have struggled with the LGBT lifestyles which go against their beliefs (not to mention the QIA), but regardless they live the values they taught me: everyone is God’s creation, whether or not you agree with how they live their lives. God’s creations are special, and all are deserving of love and grace, no matter what. ♥ It’s God’s job to judge, not ours. Again, though, they respect views based in reality, and my mom has even watched some of your videos with me, and also appreciated your perspectives. That’s far more than I can say for her and my views on the QIA To anyone reading this, I will never claim any religious person agrees with or demonstrates these values, so don’t come at me with “not all.” I only know that these are the behavioral standards taught by the Christian Bible (my parents both have Bible degrees, genuinely) and they have always lived their faith in their actions, and in that way are my baseline standard for my own beliefs and faith. This is true Christianity, whatever anyone else has said or misrepresented. And now that I’ve said my piece, I’ll get off my own little soapbox. Keep up the great work, Marcus! ♥

[@nickh.4917]

Thank you for your views. I’m not being sarcastic. I appreciate your viewpoint. I am also from a conservative Christian family and somehow I turned out gay. But I find it hard to accept the trans movement. But at the same time I draw on the Christian teachings of acceptance (although sometimes without agreeing).

[@nariyat]

@@nickh.4917 I can’t say I fully understand what it’s like to have gender dysphoria, or even to be attracted to the same sex, but God loves you regardless of the things you struggle with, and if he loves you then I should too. We’re all human, and therefore imperfect. You won’t always agree with someone’s life choices, but we’re all God’s children. This is why I so appreciate Marcus (and your perspective too), because of the intent to live the best life possible and be the best you that you can be. Thanks for replying, Nick, that touched my heart. ♥

[@noah1502]

can we talk about the misogyny coming from luce? like he really thinks that lesbians are some pure "cute sexy innocent magically fairy time" and that he can not be the "big bad scary patriarchy" in relationships with women by identifying as a woman. like hes been taught if something gives him bad feelings that means hes not that thing. can we talk about how narcissistic this movement is? if you dont like what you are, you cant just DICTATE what you are to others! he really thinks that him 1. fetishizing women and 2. fetishizing lesbians and 3. not wanting to be scary or bad in the eyes of women means that he is a woman??? he is literally exhibiting some of the most misogyny! by fetishizing women and lesbians!!!! hello!!!!!!!? hello!!!??????

[@kit76149]

Being an incel using women is fine as long as you claim to be a "polyamorus lesbian"

[@lux0071]

Yess!! And under all that facade of accepting lesbians, he would be the first to turn around and say that all lesbians like d*ck🙄

[@sirbaronvoncount4147]

I notice they never produce any real stats to back up the “lifesaving care” claim. Don’t you think they would if they could?There are many issues facing children today and this is not even in the top 20 statistically speaking

[@0hffs]

Literally been seeing children who suffer from bullying dropping like flies all week. NewsNation just reported a 12 yr old soo is. cide . check it out

[@0hffs]

REAL Trans lives are valid. They exist. The problem I have is that EVERYONE is now Trans and it's an attempt to have laws say it's okay for them to have surgeries on kids that the gov would pay for. Absolutely no. MENTAL HEALTHCARE without the gender ideology.

[@kristinjoni]

My brother (in the 80’s) wanted his nails painted because I had mine done. My mom painted one finger with blue paint. He was happy with that. He wanted cabbage patch kids and my little ponies because I had them. He had a “boy” cabbage patch kid and a blue pony. In return, I played in the dirt building forts and we made Lego things and matchbox car tracks. He is now the most manly guy I know. He owns a construction business and is a great dad. He builds engines and owns a giant boat that they spend summers on (he’s built boat engines before). If he was parented by a lib - he may have been told he was a girl and would have missed out on his life. Liking girl things doesn’t mean you’re a girl. I never wear dresses and I like hiking. Fav colors are black and blue and gray. I’m 100% woman. I’m tired of people thinking these things change you somehow.

[@denisadellinger4543]

I am a Christian and just learning about dysphoria has opened my eyes. I have compassion on them. They really suffer. You gave a good argument about not seeing transgender therapists. The male lesbian with the full beard really gets me.

[@seraphlord6772]

There needs to be a Harry Potter parody where Marcus is Harry, Blaire White is Hermione, and Buck Angel is Dumbledore.

[@DeviousFink]

Blaire is McGonagall 😅

[@screamingsole]

yes hahaha

[@VHS_Broadcasting]

This needs to be a thing, someone put this to JKR, I’m sure she’d be onboard with that… 😂 (Watch the craptivists have a meltdown)

[@carrington2949]

Why do I need to know about my therapist’s sex life? Why mention polyamorous at all? I wouldn’t want to hear “Hi, I am a “like to hit it from the back”, cis- het therapist. 😂

[@maniacmatt7340]

"life saving medical care" dude hasnt read any article or study in the last year huh? Specifically the part that transing a child makes them much higher to off themselves. Great work Marcus!

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Doesn't fit the narrative. Never let the truth get in your way.

[@saoliath5000]

Id prefer to have a therapist that is more or less mentally stable as like, a base requirement for even considering them.

[@nickh.4917]

Oh yeah, I don’t want to help the therapist through issues.

[@CorvinusAnimus]

Im a therapist and Im happy to say that I dont believe that a little boy who likes to play with dolls and wear dresses automatically makes them trans. I believe that there are still feminine men and masculine women, trying to force someone to believe they are trans when they are not does more harm than good.

[@beckicave7611]

Me entering a room "I'm here for my counselling." "Hi. I'm a non-binary, lesbian. I'm your therapist." I sprint back out of the door.

[@ItsWhatevers14]

This is why I have yet to actually try to get a therapist. The wokeness is penetrating the medical field more and more.

[@annamossity8879]

It was tricky before, it’s become a circus now. I have a few friends who are therapists and they tell me that the reason they got into the field was to figure themselves out. And they’re normal! The sessions are about the clients! It’s called professionalism.

[@theinternal]

I'm nearly 50yo and over the course of my lifetime I've come to the conclusion that way too many people choose professions they're totally unqualified for due to their own personal issues. Becoming an "authority" in a field vindicates and reaffirms insecure, needy people who don't know how to deal with themselves. They make their personal issue the core of their professional identity way too often. No wonder the community of "professional therapists" is full of broken, insecure, needy narcissists looking for affirmation and praise from their patients while doing absolutely unproductive, one could say destructive, work. Despicable.

[@dinosaurwoman]

You said it, Marcus. A therapist is supposed to treat a patient and put themselves aside. If any therapist told me their pronouns, heterosexual or not, I'd walk away. Clearly, they are more about themselves than they are practicing their profession.

[@i.b.640]

My husband's sadness is absolutly my responsibility. As mine is his. We are a Team and take care of each other.

[@MrDevilFlash]

A non binary therapist? This is literally the patients running the asylum!

[@mareksimon1220]

My uni professor of clinical psychology said once said: "Therapists are psychologists or psychiatrists who failed their studies and cannot legally call themselves psychologists or psychiatrists. So they mask their incompetence as therapists." That's why I would never seek out a therapist. They didn't go to school for 4 years, shadowed experienced doctor for 2-5 years while being trained to provide good quality care for the patients.

[@homesteadgamer1257]

Also very strange how it was pushed so hard through the 70s - early 2000s to "love the way you were born", but that was thrown out the window in broad view of everyone and replaced with one line from the animated movie "Robots": Why be you when you can be new?"

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Apparently it is too difficult to be yourself for a lot of people, which is sad.

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Apparently it is too difficult to be yourself for a lot of people, which is sad.

[@joyseegers5783]

Thank you for giving credit to us conservative Christians :) I grieve whenever I hear one of the looneys talk of us being hateful. I say it alot to you , and will keep saying it . Thank you for being a voice of reason. I believe you are making a difference in peoples lives

[@daashazireael6613]

Now if my therapist had shitty blue green hair then I wouldn't want to be their patient.

[@KR4NKENW4G3N]

When you said "A vajayjay" in such a calm tone I laughed 💀

[@SummerStars18]

Ohoh! You were brutally honest here and I LOVE it! And anyone who goes to that guy...well yeah they'd need therapy just for seeing him.

[@mickyr171]

So if my happiness is not dependent on them which they are correct about, why is their happiness dependent on me using the correct words to describe them, if they are going to feel like they're loosing who they were because I use the wrong word then they are infact the one who needs help.

[@georgeloveless4176]

If I began therapy and this guy walked in, I'd get up and walk out. I would then file some type of complaint with the corporate office. This is just too much anymore and it's not getting better!! I really enjoy your channel, your work and your point of view. The world is lucky to have people like you! Thanks.

[@kryptofreak74]

You'd probably get charged with a hate crime...

[@christracy2144]

5:55 I swear, I heard your eyes roll so far they fell out the back of your head and hit the floor. Lol

[@kim2306]

As you've stated, therapists should not be divulging information about their personal life unless you have a great connection with yours. The fact that that guy makes being a poly lesbian his identity seriously scares me, and if he is licensed, should be reported.

[@scottbutkowski5803]

Marcus, You continue to impress me with your intelligence and insight into these issues. Your take on therapy and " therapists" is very advanced. You are wise beyond your years. Keep up the great work. Your community needs you sorely. The rest of us just think you're really good guy! Stay safe, Be well!

[@wavyykeke5277]

How do these people get licenses?!?!

[@Xaforn]

Reminds me of how some preachers get licenses as well; there’s some seriously scary creeps out there. Always through an organization it seems.

[@kentuckywildcatgobigblue7190]

Luce: "I'm a Trans Lesbian." True Lesbians: "We don't accept!!!"

[@danniellefenton-johnston8123]

The answer to that therapist is hell no

[@trahapace150]

Why the fck would a therapist tell you about their poly lifestyle......

[@user-wn1wv1uy5y]

Hmm, if I pay a therapist I want him or her to put my disorder or problem first, not theirs. As simple as that.

[@terriray1384]

I've had some awesome therapist over many,many years. No one has never said anything as cra cra as that one. NO WAY I WOULD GO THERE!!I would run out the door and I have arthritis.

[@helenetrstrup4817]

The first time I watched this clip, my reaction was. I wouldn't want to see a therapist who needs their own therapist. And I will repeat myself. No lesbian with respect for themselves would sleep with this creepy dude.

[@al0.1]

"Hell no" 😂😂😂😂

[@elauraw9076]

Do these people realize they are appropriating and belittling the pain of women who suffer from hirsutism? It's very ableist.

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Yes, right, but ofcourse it isn't about women with hirsutism. It is about them. The only word they really love is me, me, me.

[@DB-rp2gj]

I'm not going to talk to a therapist period. Last time I did she wanted to focus on my bf and my family when I was clearly going through shit that had NOTHING to do with either. I don't have issues with my family and my bf isn't treating me like crap. Can we now get onto the fact I want to die from going out to shopping?

[@ankavoskuilen1725]

Not all therapists are like that and your feelings about shopping really need to be addressed. Maybe a therapist specialised in phobia? It seems to me that that kind of therapists are more based and practical. I wish you well!

[@mat.b.]

Spot on! I've been saying this for a while so its refreshing to hear someone else lay it out so well.

[@lilo_920]

Trans women identifying as lesbians is questionable to begin with... but to do so while sporting a beard is obnoxious beyond belief. I don't even think most people would care if these people were in touch with reality and just happy being themselves, living their lives in their own unique way. It's the fact that they aggressively force their way into the woman category that puts people off.

[@Yuukichan1888]

As a trained counsellor in the uk it isnt a protected title so anyone can just call themselves a therapist counsellor or psychotherapist without qualifications

[@Valkari22]

I refused to see a therapist that was religious based on my own trauma, It's your mind and body you get to choose who you should see and be as picky about it as you want. Just like I don't go see male doctors for my female needs, does it make me sexist? No, it's just who I'm comfortable with, and if you're not comfortable with a therapist therapy will not work.

[@carlapierle8623]

You nailed all of it! This coming from a straight white female Christian Conservative.

[@XxMissLadyBlissxX]

I’m a woman who grew up as a tomboy and still dresses masculine and prefers things that are stereotypically associated with being “male things”. If I grew up now I’d be told I must be trans and the fact that this is happening to so many kids for simply liking things outside their “gender” is scary

[@norbertzillatron3456]

This reminds me of the classic joke, where someone paints the door with "Psychotherapist" split in 3 parts with "the" in the middle. Would be quite fitting here.

[@missychan63]

Did I just stumble upon an ad for Better Help? Whatever the hell Luce is should immediately have their license yanked. How are they going to help others when they are so clearly screwed up themselves?

[@AliceRose413]

As a “conservative Christian” I appreciate your content. I’m subscribed to both you, and Blaire White. I may not advocate for certain lifestyles, but as you alluded to, I certainly do have deep compassion on individuals who experience gender dysphoria. I can’t imagine the pain and confusion and ongoing stress that must create. I personally battle with body dysmorphia.. and while I know it is not quite the same, I can empathize with feeling deeply uncomfortable with my own body and having to do my best to “accept myself” even when I’m constantly reminded of my insecurities. I appreciate the perspectives you share. When individuals, like the ones you showed are the “voice” of all people with different “sexual identities”, it can make it a lot more difficult to feel any type of compassion and not outright disgust. But you’re a voice of reason and you seem level headed enough and sure of yourself. I wouldn’t wish gender dysphoria on anyone and those are things I pray about. That people battling with that will feel loved and valued for who they are. That they will embrace their identity in Christ and accept the deep love He has for everyone. That we are all created in God’s image and he didn’t make any mistakes and we live in a fallen world that is filled with pain and distortion. I battle with very deep, heavy insecurities that have greatly taken a toll on my overall mental health.. and I see this as another area of deep pain and uncertainty and a feeling of not belonging or being “good enough”. I pray for healing and security and peace and protection. Especially for any children battling with these burdens and for them to have a “healthy” support system.

[@Queenofthatank]

I had a case manager that was non binary what i did was start talking about how people who claim to be non binary make a joke outta trans people. I also started talking about how they basically made my progress turn into a political talking point. That i was perfectly happy telling people "hey so im not a traditional female but im okay being a masculine woman and if you don't try to push stereotypes on me would really go along way in you respecting me as a person. My name is Tina and that's all you need to know about me." People would tell me "I feel like im talking to a man but then i look at you and see a beautiful woman. You're like the best of both worlds." Now I'm pushing myself into the closet because i don't want to be called anything but my name which took along time to deal with.

[@seek_to_understand_]

Marcus, could you include longer content videos? Like on Mondays or something so it's not an everyday thing cuz I know that’s a lot of work and life balance is important. But yeah, longer content videos would be amazing!!

[@NapaValleyVegan]

These young adults just break my heart. Where did all these mental health issues come from? It seems they are trying so hard to be unique and interesting so they make these sad & ridiculous scenarios & labels up. They simply come across as desperate and self-hating. What caused this generation to feel this way? I am much older, a GenX. Many of us had shit parents, divorced parents, working parents that we might run into once in a while at the dinner table so we pretty much were forced to raise ourselves. We should be just as damaged but we never identified as victims! We just got on with it.

[@goobydoot]

If they look somewhat androgynous I'm fine with not knowing how they "identify" but basically if I went for therapy somewhere, and they listed preferred pronouns after every therapist I would turn around and leave. If I walked into a therapist office and they look like this guy, I would also turn around and leave and they better not have already processed my payment

[@CynthiaMoon23]

I would not only not see that therapist; I’d RUN!

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

"I Am A Trans Lesbian Polyamorous Therapist!" Perhaps a space is missing... "the rapist" incorrectly spelt as "therapist".

[@lissabrown8213]

I am a christian conservative and I am subscribed to your channel. I have been watching Blair White for a few years, that's how I found you. Love what you do here! ❤

[@Xaforn]

And Buck Angel too!

[@kaki_maki403]

No offense but how tf is a non binary therapist gonna help me unpack my emotional issues when they can't even figure out if they're a man or a woman? 😭

[@esthelaheredia9664]

It must take a lot to go through your journey and still speak about what you speak of but honestly, we needed you! We respect you and we truly love what you stand for. Bless your little heart

[@discrd7269]

Thank you so much for what you're doing. I'm so happy that you stand with Israel, it really made my day. But all your other work. I'm so glad to have you on the internet, finally speaking truth as trans person. When I say those things, I'm transphobic. You apparently too, but people accept it way more. I love you, love watching your videos, again, thank you. I'm sorry for small donation, money are rough those days. Also, English is not my first language, so excuse my mistakes please. THANK YOU .

[@WithaHardar-mn9mp]

I am a straight, white, conservative male. I come here to watch because Marcus speaks with a common sense and dignity that is very needed in these absurd times. The willingness to not only look at the world but to look at herself with such honesty and courage is rare indeed. Respect.

[@dinosaurwoman]

Orange hair: As a therapist, a man's sadness IS your responsibility. He's there to get help from you, not to be ridiculed for it, which, quite frankly, is a pretty manly thing to do.

[@Michelle-vs3fz]

I'm Christian, and I know gender dysphoria is real and I emphasize completely. My step daughter is a mess and her friends are all appropriating it. Caught her trying to tell my daughter, her little sister, what non binary is and I about exploded. My daughter loves doing nails but also playing in the dirt, she was actually like maybe you're non binary! No!! I can't with all this. Smh

[@dianenewhook9501]

How would a biologically male person know anything about Sapphic love? Incredible. It beggars the imagination!

[@daniel.leinad041]

this therapist needs a therapist.

[@gloriastroedecke2717]

He was talking about himself when he was talking about sad men,right? That's what I got from that " theme of the week".

[@Beegeezy144]

KZbin ghost-unsubscribed me. Just shows how powerful your voice is. Keep going strong, bro. 💪

[@Cr1tical86]

He's the therapist you go to when you want less peace of mind and you're looking for a more unstable way of life filled with unhappiness.

[@TheAJACHOURSHINGLER]

Refusing to acknowledge basic biology is not only transphobic, but is also homophobic and biphobic as well. An argument I use all the time!

[@anniereddj]

You're the BEST!! LOVE your videos! Thank you for all you do!!

[@SwankemasterSupreme]

3:19 “life saving medical care” doctor help my balls ain’t balling.