I Asked Out 50 Girls On A Date As A Nerdy Introvert

I asked out 50 girls on a date as a shy nerdy Asian dude⚡️
My goal was to overcome the fear of rejection and proof that rejection is something you should actively chase.
Hope this video inspires you to go out there and talk to your crush or strangers in general.
🍀 Good luck on your own journey, you got this!
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[@wreckingbear69]

While it's harder beeing introverted, the fact that this guy is handsome as fuck definitely helped his case

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks I guess 😂😂

[@Liapjr]

And he's not an introvert.

[@PanikNT]

this guy aint no shy introvert, we dont claim this guy.

[@David_PhamDP]

I was but I evolved

[@Mirak-el]

​@@David_PhamDPOh oh! You too! I know what you mean dude! I think I'm one stage further into the evolution tho. I've been going out raving lately and all that stuff! It's pretty cool but since I'm an introvert I don't befriend anybody but I think, I think what I really need is to have a reason to have friends. Maybe like grow an IG or something.

[@kyodizzy]

I agree 100%. He's far from "shy" or "introverted".

[@shavaizahmed9210]

@@PanikNT 😂🤣

[@ange34]

Bruh what

[@yccn410]

As a girl I really admire what you did. It’s not easy to take the courage to ask someone out with the risk of being rejected. Excellent job!

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks haha I was hella nervous :) but it was fun

[@ovyle]

And as a guy, I know he cried every night 😭

[@eddy0603]

Look at this guy's face If i look like that i won't think i'd ever be rejected lol

[@onebyone4530]

Getting rejected is the risk? Hahahaha bruh

[@UserRobot215]

Obviously you admire that an attractive guy did this, if he was short and unattractive you wouldn’t have admired it

[@ramanchakraborty4839]

I think no matter how attractive you are, its definitely admirable that you had the courage to go and ask 50 strangers the same question. Nice video man!

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks a lot! Was really hard hahah

[@ramanchakraborty4839]

@ yeah man, keep challenging yourself more!

[@prostohodim]

I Asked Out 50 Girls On A Date As A Tall Handsome Shy Introvert. Man, thats preposterous

[@David_PhamDP]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Koki1897]

bro is lucky to be handsome, if i asked 50 girls i would be probably consider as creep :(

[@David_PhamDP]

No I think it depends on "how" you ask them, I know plenty of dudes who are not considered 10 out of 10 nd still get a bunch of yes

[@UserRobot215]

Same, I’m short and ugly so it wouldn’t go well for me either

[@Final_Boss]

Man looking like the protagonist straight out of Persona 5, building his harem.

[@David_PhamDP]

😂thanks dude

[@heymanhaha]

8:34 thought you were a Squid Game participant for a second

[@David_PhamDP]

HAHAHHA yeah I get that a lot

[@Genie98997]

Props and well done. I think to make this more fair/interesting, you should start by asking if you have a boyfriend/married and if they are, then don't ask them or they don't count towards the 50. You've got this

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks dude!

[@frommars8247]

bro said himself as an introvert while doing full selfie face youtube channel, so u need to be someone living alone in the forest to be introvert nowdays

[@David_PhamDP]

Naw I’m naturally introvert but I trained myself

[@arjawabagusofficial]

Introvert is different with shy, introvert just lose energy when socialize, they are not a social anxiety

[@jinsilverknight899]

corrections and truth: u have to date in order for you to get to know them,doesnt really matter if both of you are totally strangers to each other, just think about it thats why in early 20's blind dates are pretty open to everyone....

[@David_PhamDP]

I disagree, if you are not their type they will not agree to the date in the first place

[@Tomtom12654]

That’s quite impressive. As someone who sometimes has social anxiety, I’ve found that socializing isn’t really as hard as it seems the more you do it. But I have to admit that asking people out like that is probably a different story ;) Great job 👏

[@David_PhamDP]

You got this!!

[@playstationplusfilm316]

Bro giving me inspiration to approach and date girls. Nice video

[@David_PhamDP]

So glad it helped you! You got this :)

[@siegfreidx1633]

before the video even started i need to see how this guy's looks because thats all that matters

[@David_PhamDP]

Looks def matter dude, but I know plenty of average looking dude pulling insane girls. If you dont look "good" work on other aspects of you that can compensate for that.

[@weehc]

Lol it is because u still handsome. Alot of ladies not even give u a chance to go out a date if u r ugly. If u r ugly, u can ask 1 billion girls also will get reject at the start.

[@David_PhamDP]

Looks def matter dude, but I know plenty of average looking dude pulling insane girls. If you dont look "good" work on other aspects of you that can compensate for that.

[@SolidoNaso.]

@@David_PhamDP Copy pasting the cope reply to everyone who says looks matter is kinda sad. Nobody said anything about average looking dudes. Imagine being a 5'3 dude with an ugly face and being told to "just work on other aspects tee hee". Ridiculous stuff.

[@UserRobot215]

@SolidoNaso. I’m that guy except I’m 5’4 lol it’s beyond over for me

[@SolidoNaso.]

@@UserRobot215 Yes it is. It is the sad truth. Do not fall for tall or attractive men telling you "Oh it's your fault! You just need to be superman and women will love you! I know a 5'2 short balding Indian janitor that gets all the IG models!" Never fall for it. Women will say it, men will say it. Even other undesirable men will say it to cope.

[@prescottosegie]

David Ima introvert to the maximum and I respect that you ask these ladies on a date. Keep up the good work dude

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks man! You can do it too

[@prescottosegie]

@ your welcome and thanks dude I appreciate it 💪😎 happy new 🎊 year be safe

[@yuwa2151]

They said yes not only bc you're good looking but also polite and not creepy 🤪

[@David_PhamDP]

Glad to hear that :)

[@christiangarciaaaa]

Gonna try this out soon, thanks for the inspo 🙌

[@David_PhamDP]

Ofc dude, good luck

[@clean082]

Yeah like sometimes you just yap and the conversation goes smoothly somehow. Great content David 😆

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks!!

[@vlogbyday]

This great, im also an introvert , this helps , where did you film this? also the reason im on here is because i watched your you should make a youtube channel video ,and thats exactly what im doing, thanks bro!

[@David_PhamDP]

You got this bro! I filmed this a couple weeks ago

[@aiden4203]

Im a straight guy and id go on a date with you no cap ur majestic brah

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks G

[@necryeopyre9577]

Wow! I couldn't tell at all that you're a shy intovert if you didn't say so. Props up to you man! Could never get the courage to do this.😅

[@David_PhamDP]

You can! I am like this after a lot of years of practicing :) you can do it too

[@lschwaier]

good job dude, this is something i wanted to do at your age.. never did, and paid the long lonely consequence..

[@David_PhamDP]

Never too late to get started!

[@friendshipnerd]

Very cool. Would be interesting to know how you approached them and how long the conversation was before you asked.

[@David_PhamDP]

I asked them if i can film and then asked immediately!

[@imark182]

Asking them with a camera is crazy lol

[@David_PhamDP]

Yeah haha obviously I asked for consent :)

[@beng7469]

Bro this is so motivating, my recommended has given me a banger video 😌🙌🏼

[@David_PhamDP]

Let's gooooo

[@c.j50]

As an introvert, watching your video was great, great job. If I were to do the same, I would have had to be alone for a few weeks afterwards☺

[@David_PhamDP]

So glad it helped you! You got this :)

[@c.j50]

I really get it, but it took me many years to understand myself. Always feel welcome if you have thoughts or reflections.🙏

[@zackstorm2888]

That's exactly what Noah Kagan says in his Book A million Dollar Weekend: Go chase rejections

[@David_PhamDP]

I love that book!

[@Mirak-el]

F YEAH! THAT SOUNDS LIKE IT! THAT SOUNDS LIKE THE FUN! That being said me personally, I'm not about that number's game.

[@AmilDiligent]

You are inspiring me to come out of my comfort zone frl 😂. Part 2?

[@David_PhamDP]

If this video hits 100K I will make part 2 :)

[@socku5850]

He built his confidence in approach women. This also help with handle rejection. this. For me, it might be kind of difficult because of how i look and with a speaking impediment.

[@David_PhamDP]

No excuses, you can do it too. It needs pateince and courage to change :)

[@juliomarques3242]

I dont know about you guys, but I think that the main reason I would ask someone if they would go on a first date with me as strangers is to get to know them, like, isn't that the point of a date? to know the person? Also if the girl thinks that Im gonna be the same person chatting on instagram as the person in real life, she's very wrong. Thats why if you guys like to chat online, make it a real conversation, in real time, not taking more than 2 minutes to respond right?

[@David_PhamDP]

🎉

[@TheOne_isGOD]

as a 33yo asian american viet myself. i used to wear glasses. remove them. get contacts. glasses LITERALLY change the shape of your eyes and nose and middle are to uglier. after 3-6 months your face will be better. trust me. i got no girls with glasses . eye laser was the best thing i did

[@David_PhamDP]

I should consider then!!!

[@InstantKiwi1005]

​@@David_PhamDPNooo! Try a challenge first by putting on 100 different glasses and ask your tribe witch they prefer lasering at a to young age has to be redone later on Btw all my friends, but one, had glasses - but I always prefered the neerdy greeks, so I am probably not representative ;)

[@CASLochana1111]

Thank you so much for this video 😊

[@David_PhamDP]

OFC!

[@Xavy_OO]

You have my respect bro.

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks appreciate ut

[@noneofyourbusiness918]

Great video David. I believe your success rate would be higher if you didn't emphasise on the complete stranger part 😂😂 Your mindset is very good, I'm confident you can get a much higher success rate with a bit more experience! Cheers 🎉

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks LOL hahaha

[@yuwa2151]

I feel like lately women just started bragging their Asian boyfriends like it's latest iPhone

[@PurpleDoritos666]

Good. Asian men need more love

[@David_PhamDP]

@@PurpleDoritos666true

[@Mirak-el]

I mean Asians are the cutest race imo I'm kinda glad they aren't getting slept on

[@daquieshakeaundra2854]

@@Mirak-el WTF cutest race So black are what then ?🤨

[@jacobthesettler7616]

I can't do this, bro. My energy is going to drain very fast. I'm 38. I only have 2 relationships just cuz the girl are interested in me.

[@David_PhamDP]

Start small, work yourself up

[@SergioTobal]

And with what are you recording? With a phone? I would feel weird recording and talking with her at the same time. And at the airport, you are both on the scene, but they look at the screen sometimes, so I suppose they can see themselves.

[@David_PhamDP]

Yes I film on a DJI Vlogging Cam :)

[@amoswang1473]

Ken Takakura chasing golden ball ❌ Ken Takakura chasing girls ✅

[@David_PhamDP]

LOL hahah

[@rhythmandacoustics]

I think when you say "date" they are thinking a formal dinner date. You should ask, would you go out or give your number to someone like me?

[@David_PhamDP]

No I wanted to challenge myself

[@skidwirks7660]

Loved the closing comments

[@David_PhamDP]

Same!

[@NamiSan-o3i]

Give me that confidence gang😂

[@David_PhamDP]

You gotta develop it by taking action bro

[@antondelafuente]

How did you handle the filming? Did you approach them with the camera already rolling? Did you ask first? I’m guessing you probably even approached more than 50 because some people didn’t want to be on video?

[@David_PhamDP]

Yeah exactly! I asked for permission first

[@duckieman69]

Bit weird if U ask three people and go to all of them lmao

[@David_PhamDP]

I don’t care :)

[@friendshipnerd]

​@@David_PhamDPHell yeah

[@Schwrtzxd]

23 missed calls.....

[@David_PhamDP]

Yup!

[@duckieman69]

You should do a proper date with one

[@David_PhamDP]

I should!

[@Leumar1990]

How did you do to talk so casually? Chit chat is my worst point

[@David_PhamDP]

Practice, it's a skill. When I first started I was akward as hell now it comes naturally

[@held2417]

Hast du auch vor, die Personen die du gefragt hast zu Daten ? (cooles Video ❤)

[@David_PhamDP]

Maybe :)

[@Leandra-ek9om]

This is soo inspiring for me 🤩Maybe I'll talk to people at the airport too because it's so boring there😅(i'm also very introverted so..) Why has this video like 530 views?!? There should be more!

[@David_PhamDP]

Thanks a lot :) keep sharing pls!

[@Leandra-ek9om]

@@David_PhamDP I will😊

[@rafadnan9796]

love the vid man, I really need to do a challenge like this myself. How did you actually record these without making this awkward camera in their face?

[@David_PhamDP]

I asked them for consent first 🙏🏻 and then asked

[@rafadnan9796]

@David_PhamDP you said: "I'm filming a video for yt mind if I ask you a question?" Damn I'd imagine the number of rejections was way higher because people don't like to be on camera. Mad respect

[@You2lessgetit]

maybe i should try this

[@David_PhamDP]

Why not!

[@ActualizeYourPotential]

1:35 why would you do brother dirty like this lmao... not a homie

[@David_PhamDP]

LOL

[@kyodizzy]

I'm sorry, but these are clearly clickbaits claiming as a self-proclaiming "shy introvert" - the way he speaks on camera and to everyone is far from it. It's like Trump saying he has social anxiety. A true introvert wouldn't even be able to hold the camera and film strangers this comfortably.

[@David_PhamDP]

You my friend just need to realize that introverts can train to become extroverts, that's exactly what I did

[@kyodizzy]

@@David_PhamDP I know... Just like professional athletes aren't born professional - it's from training. It's like Mike Tyson claiming he can knock out 50 guys now ....when he used to be a scrawny weak kid. The title should be "as a former introvert" because you clearly are nowhere near that now.

[@ChoweyChoo]

​@@kyodizzy UHH. Doing extroverted things doesn't automatically make him an extrovert. You're too dense to impose your perspective on him.

[@duckieman69]

Bro is like fire took a L

[@Myself_myst]

I was doing my Homework📚........ But after this im kinda laughing🤣

[@David_PhamDP]

Why 😂😂

[@Myself_myst]

@David_PhamDP cuz it was so funny seeing the girls reaction and even ur reactions plus when u were celebrating the fact that Asian boys are finally in the handsome list

[@David_PhamDP]

@Myself_mystHAHAHA

[@Myself_myst]

@@David_PhamDP 😂

[@daninspiration4064]

Columbia girl is super nice and fire prob the best looking one

[@David_PhamDP]

:) she was kind

[@Iloveseasideyes]

Do part 2 pls 🙏

[@David_PhamDP]

If this hits 100K!

[@ЛарисаМаксимовнаМаксимовна]

I'd say no, because a handsome guy like you wouldn't do it to me unless it's some scam 😂

[@David_PhamDP]

Hahah why you say that 😂

[@ЛарисаМаксимовнаМаксимовна]

Just low self esteem ​@@David_PhamDP

[@Nanohamage]

do people say they're introverted nowadays just because they think it sounds cool? word is kinda losing its meaning

[@David_PhamDP]

Nope, I am introvert naturally but I trained to be extroverted

[@Nanohamage]

@@David_PhamDP my guy you're not an introvent then you're different person now. it's like saying i am naturally weak person but i trained to be body builder and then post video "how i deadlift 400pounds as a weak person"

[@hellodddd33134]

You on the FBI watch list now

[@David_PhamDP]

HAHHAH I am I guess

[@tyronmccool1765]

As a shy introvert I wouldn't even look into their eyes, you're brave introvert💪

[@David_PhamDP]

Yeah had to work a lot on it

[@uno228]

Such a handsome man asks average women to go out....

[@David_PhamDP]

Average?

[@uno228]

Don't wanna be rude just honest, I'm from Russia, our men have much higher standards and women have much lower standards than in the US or Germany ​@@David_PhamDP

[@shavaizahmed9210]

Is that USA?

[@David_PhamDP]

Yes

[@being5743]

Wait...., you're an introvert? and you're asking strangers? to have a date with you? Did the meaning of an "introvert" changed already?

[@David_PhamDP]

No I am naturally an introvert but I trained for years to improve my social skills and this is the result

[@teacherangry121]

introvert and shy are two different things, introverts can still do things like this, but introverts just need time to themselves to recharge.

[@ActualizeYourPotential]

lmao telling the person you already asked 4 people and she is the first to accept is.......... 🤪🤪so not smooth wtf...

[@David_PhamDP]

I still got it :)

[@ActualizeYourPotential]

yes you alr got the yes, but if you actually meant to go on a date with her, you already killed the vibe by making yourself look like a playboy and by making her feel cheap and easy since shes the only one who said yes out of 5 women

[@13skyburger]

introvert my ass...lolz

[@David_PhamDP]

Yeah you can't believe it, but that's how hard I had to work on myself

[@jagicyooo2007]

@1:51 FRIENDZONED BRUH

[@David_PhamDP]

😭

[@jenn3270]

¿Irías a una primera cita conmigo?

[@David_PhamDP]

hahaha

[@jenn3270]

@David_PhamDP be my first rejection of the year😅

[@MrRedTech]

He's gaslighting himself

[@David_PhamDP]

Why 😂😂😂

[@RxRip01]

What’s your height?

[@David_PhamDP]

178 cm

[@RxRip01]

Drop skincare routine 👑

[@Ezukie]

Broooo 😂 being extrovert

[@David_PhamDP]

Hahah I was nervous as hell

[@rhythmandacoustics]

This was in NYC? Why so many Asians?

[@David_PhamDP]

NYC is diverse LOL

[@madailengee8435]

Du benimmst dich nicht wie eine schüchterne Person

[@David_PhamDP]

Viel Arbeit steckt dahinter

[@ashgg392]

To all the guys, stop doing this, it only boosts women's ego.

[@David_PhamDP]

Hell naw it boosts mine

[@durch_als_Lurch]

Mach das in Deutschland und das Verhältnis wird verdammt scheisse

[@David_PhamDP]

Ja das liegt an den Deutschen

[@dearcyborg272]

Bro, what if those 50 girls said "YES?" 💀

[@David_PhamDP]

😂 that would be great

[@dotmusicsiam2254]

No disrespecto but 4:08 isnt that mommy khalifa?

[@David_PhamDP]

Who?

[@dotmusicsiam2254]

@@David_PhamDP Joe

[@Bheckma-1]

Algum Brasileiro?

[@David_PhamDP]

Brazil!

[@Akib-xy1pr]

3:03 nah bro you going to jail ☠️☠️

[@David_PhamDP]

He’ll naw

[@oqi1199]

So cringe 😬

[@David_PhamDP]

You jealous :)

[@mishi144]

I got excited and thought this was about a lesbian girl asking other girls out because relatable but no : ( Still, it's hard as an introvert.

[@David_PhamDP]

Why would it be from a lesbian girl? My channel is called David Pham hahha

[@okayokay2376]

Damn low key I thought that at first too just cause of the videos that pop up on my feed however I think that this was a pretty good video lol

[@AngeloOrendain-v3d]

asking a date just for a challenge? be a man bro. asking for a date is a serious thing for a real man. then you don't have plan to go on a date just ask bunch of girls for a date. -____-

[@David_PhamDP]

Ok pc warrior thanks for your advice

[@AngeloOrendain-v3d]

@@David_PhamDP can't accept advice? pc warrior huh? that's how you respond to your viewer? attitude lol. let's meet then. I challenge you. and it's keyboard warrior if that's what you mean. Let's meet face to face boy.

[@jonathan9916-ht]

Well, he said that he got their permission to record, so the girls probably understand it's mostly for an experiment

[@joshuakim03]

my dude, the rise in popularity of Korean entertainment doesn't mean more popularity for you. you're not even Korean u vietnamese. don't be delusional and think you're gonna get girls because people are obsessed with Korean idols and actors.

[@daquieshakeaundra2854]

chill, don t hate your asian brother For us yall look the same Your Korean ego is too much

[@David_PhamDP]

You must be hella jealous to spread this much hate HAHAH

[@David_PhamDP]

He jealous :)

[@joshuakim03]

@daquieshakeaundra2854 yes friend, i am not hating, just saying he delusional. also, why do people keep saying all asians are same. all asian countries have different nationalities. Koreans are different from southeast asia its not an ego thing its just everything from the culture to the language is different. just because spain and france are europeans don't mean they are the same.

[@joshuakim03]

@@David_PhamDP don't be too sad your not korean bro. its ok, just embrace your own culture and identity