I Can Have Younger Black Women Now That I Am Older And Affluent

[@lizzyforevermore4]

Dont pray for a rich man. Pray to be a RICH WOMAN. A TRUE WORD!!!!!

[@TruestLovely]

How about both? 🤷🏾

[@missrain5164]

@lizzyforevermore4 Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 no middle man energy ❤❤❤

[@lizzyforevermore4]

@@TruestLovely baby you could definitely do both. But make sure you good before than

[@susiebear3316]

Exactly

[@susiebear3316]

​@@TruestLovelyNo, thank you. I value living alone when I am older, I would rather have other women roommates who are not male centered😂 Golden girls please!

[@JukuduB]

Remember ladies, whatever you do, dont get fetishized, exploited, or have your time wasted!!! 💥

[@chayo4537]

How would you know youre even being fetishized? You guys are talking as if you know like you've experienced

[@soppres7406]

Listen BM fetishize, exploite, and waste BW time 24/7/365, and abandoning them with children. BW have gone through enough struggling. Enough is enough.

[@JukuduB]

@chayo4537 Of course I have been. That's why I can comment. Have a great day!

[@lolomora9056]

This is not about black or white.....Cuz sis, rich black men think the same way and think all they need to bring is money to the table. Never rely on a man for your livlihood

[@missmarie4151]

A lot of these old rich men already have adult children lined up for their inheritance plans. Meanwhile that girlfriend gets nothing once they pass or just peanuts. A man is not a financial plan.

[@beewest5704]

I have even seen kids keeping inheritance in courts for years knowing the young lady has no other resources& will soon bankrupt herself. So that even if she gets anything it will all go to debt.

[@shopece8807]

Someone said BW free yourself from the shackles of broke men. Yes! Also, have your own always!

[@studabakerb]

It’s predatory and insulting to be purchased. It’s horrifying that he felt free and entitled to not only say it but framed it as a compliment. Absolutely abhorrent!

[@marinab.8590]

I get you! I am 49 years old and take excellent care of myself. I was introduced to a 78 yo man that thought that just because he had money l would immediately be into him. I didn’t need to be courted by him because all l needed to know was that he had money, a nice car, a nice house etc. l said nope 👎🏽 l am not that woman because l have my own money, l love my life and no 78 yo man is going to buy me. I was sooo insulted by him assuming I was the type of woman he can spend his time with when he is bored, no sir! I have a GREAT life full of friends, live in an awesome house, have my dream job.the list goes on. Anyway, l blocked him.

[@phiakate]

He kicked out girl should have been smart enough to understand her survival is at risk. She should have shut up and gotten ready. Nod and smile until you have choices.

[@ynmonroe]

Yeah I was honestly confused by that one. I mean, I feel bad for her but did she never consider what would happen if they broke up? Why think that he was just going to be like, "okay, I understand"? You can't even call them roommates since she apparently had no protection and her name wasn't on the lease. It's sad that she was in a situation where this was her reality in the first place, but how did it make sense to break up knowing you're dependent on this guy financially? I would have expressed upset but played along until I didn't have to anymore. As an aside, I never understand why these types of girlfriends and wives don't hide money. I mean, does all of the shopping money need to be spent on new clothes, shoes, and bags? SMH. Though I have never and would never be okay with being "kept" (personal preference not judgement), if I were I would be thinking end game. Even wives need to think that way if they are not financially secure or employed.

[@stilljocelyn_]

I absolutely agree with him. Just because you dating a man that’s affluent doesn’t mean you don’t have your own money. BW we need to free ourselves from the shackles of making broke men comfortable with approaching us with NO resources.

[@Childfree334]

@@stilljocelyn_ Exactly 💯

[@simplyameeraj]

🎯

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Yess!! They are so afraid to just admit that and a lot think they don’t even deserve it! Nonsense!!

[@TheKittsPajamas]

This!

[@susiebear3316]

​@@KurosakiLuvar01Exactly

[@RikkiestAndTikkiest]

There seems to be a lot of confusion around dating and money. When you date for marriage, yes, you need to date a man who is both capable and willing to support a wife and family, but you simultaneously need to be a woman money can't buy. When you are priceless, money can't buy your love, only excellence from a man can earn your love. That excellence will include generosity, as well as all the other things.

[@attitudeproblem6462]

Ugh!😖 _No one_ is safe! This is why when they have money and Women _still_ say no, males get EXTRA pissy.

[@thrill102]

That whole situation is so disrespectful and disgusting. I really hope women wake up and stop seeing men with money as the ultimate goal. Men with money is NOT the ultimate goal. YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY!!! Make achieving your personal best your ultimate goal.

[@femmefatale71]

It’s all in the language. He did not say “court”, he said “HAVE”. It’s gonna be a no from me, dog.

[@beautyininsanity421]

I have never, ever, outside of right-wing evangelical or fundamentalist circles, heard any man use the word "court." And why do people have to aim for marriage...? They absolutely don't. If those girls are working the finesse, let them. What is this weird assumption that we always have to aim for a ring on our finger???

[@femmefatale71]

@@beautyininsanity421 Common sense applies sweetheart and who mentioned marriage? Court in context means, pursue and invest without a guarantee of access to my body. If they want to be that sure they can “have you” then they need to hire proffessionals with a guaranteed happy ending, A man declaring he can “have you” so confidently is not a flex. They shouldn’t even know if you’re into marriage or not at this stage. Even if marriage is not for you which coincidentally it isn’t for me that does not mean it’s easy access. Regardless of the race or income of the man. Self respect and self worth is priceless and trust and believe the real flex is having your own but still making it known the bare minimum is for them to overtly impress you. It’s just common courtesy really-for those raised to value themselves….

[@hayaq9991]

My father raised 7 daughter and 3 granddaughters and when my sister got older.. he was advised the other 6 remaining granddaughters..we all grew up to be morally sounded women but he always said “if your going to be a H O E, don’t be a dumb one”.. I would of put cash to the side for the rainy day bc in that field, there’s always raining days and weeks or months

[@susiebear3316]

I don't care about any of that how did your father treat your mother?

[@hayaq9991]

@@susiebear3316 first why do u care about any of it and secondly he loved her before she died when i was seven..

[@beautyininsanity421]

Yikes, that's actually pretty misogynistic...

[@manifest2203]

The problem is he said “younger” black w4m4n.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

I don’t feel flattered by it but I don’t feel offended by it. At least he’s offering something. 🤷🏾‍♀️😂 Also, just bc you date someone with money doesn’t mean you can’t still make your own money. In fact, you can use their money to invest in yourself.

[@videofan1010]

This is how I feel. Black women get approached by some of the brokest men on earth, lol. At least he has money...

[@beepbopboop7727]

Its so sad that a bit of money has women like 😍. Our standards are on the FLOORRRR

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@beepbopboop7727 You obviously didn’t learn anything in school. I said very clearly it’s not flattering and I def didn’t say his money makes him attractive or makes me want to be with him, so no it doesn’t have me like 😍. I simply don’t see anything wrong with what he said.

[@Childfree334]

😂😂😂 I love my white male friends. They are intelligent, educated, generous, funny, never let me pay for anything, and are a great resource to growing wealth. Befriend the right white man, and the sky is the limit.

[@susiebear3316]

Exactly, and most of them don't do it in a transactional way that black men readily do. Most black man won't even consider helping black women in this capacity.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

That's any man with money😂😂😂 You need to travel more

[@Childfree334]

@@loveusyendi.7621 I have been all over the world. It is not ANY man with money.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@loveusyendi.7621It CAN be any man with money but that’s not reality. She’s speaking from reality.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@susiebear3316Facts!

[@daishawilliams8301]

I think he meant that younger women in general won't give him the time of day unless he is wealthy but women should have their own plan just a in case something goes down.😊

[@missrain5164]

This man and the billionaire who said black women are for grown ups are two different types of men. This man is looking for younger impressionable black women because when most men talk about wanting young women we know what they mean. Also it’s good to want a provider but this type of men are just looking for play things and nothing else. Have your own first or use them to build something for yourself 🤷🏽‍♀️you need to learn to play their game if you must deal with them.

[@zero1188]

You really let a billionaire feed your ego and thinks he cares about BIack women? They say all that and majority still marry white. They use BIack women to look good in public

[@missrain5164]

@@zero1188you are right

[@TheKittsPajamas]

What’s wrong with being a play thing? If that’s the lifestyle a woman wants and can use it to make her future better, so what?

[@kevinc3342]

That guy never said that - the lies...

[@chayo4537]

Ok.....

[@ami-ps4em]

Yeah his comments definitely rub me the wrong way 🤢 He thinks we’re all on the same type of time as the sprinkle sprinkle girls on social media 🙄

[@Bila2718]

I did not understand it that way. I think that he mean’t that he wanted to be established for the type of woman he wants. It doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to make your own money while you are with him.

[@purevenus6359]

“Women” he didn’t specify a “woman”. I got the vibe he wants more than one…. And probably at the same time.

[@1984reed]

​@purevenus6359 That may be true but he still views black women as something of value to work hard and present something too; in other words "The Prize".

[@nedumnwanze4120]

​@@1984reed As chattel

[@kimleemoon]

@@nedumnwanze4120 better than bm coming to bw with nothing but crumbs and expecting to be treated like KANGS!

[@user-do1qf8rm7b]

That’s what I heard too

[@lifelikelisa]

I’m kind of surprised by some of the comments in the comment section. This guy thinks he can buy people. That’s disgusting. I want a man who can help me build a stable future, not one who buys me diamonds. We can pay our bills, plan our retirement and take an annual vacation. I don’t need a yacht owner. I need someone who isn’t lazy or bad with money.

[@Lilzki]

I agree. He made my skin crawl.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

He said he wants to spend money on ppl. A person doesn’t own you bc they spend money on you. Sounds like that’s what you were taught. Sad…

[@lifelikelisa]

@@TheKittsPajamas No. That’s not what I was taught. I’m just smart enough to be able to identify people who think like that and that’s how this man thinks. Sad that you can’t see it!

[@lifelikelisa]

He literally said, “Now that I’m…affluent I can have younger, black women as well.” He’s basically saying, “Now that I’m rich, I can get the newest, shiniest model and more than one.” What he didn’t say was, “I’m now at a place in my life where I can afford to treat black women the way they deserve to be treated.”

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@lifelikelisa A person doesn’t own you bc they spend money on you. Sounds like that’s what you were taught. Sad… Unless he’s locking women in a basement, they can leave whenever they wish and they don’t have to do anything they don’t want to do. Doesn’t matter what wording he used, any woman he deals with has choices and freedom. Sad that you can’t see that.

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

“Billionaire in the making”🎉🎉

[@Priscilla_Boye]

🙏🏾

[@Childfree334]

Sorry Priscilla, but I disagree with you. I don't feel insulted by what he said because it's true. If I'm going to be with any man, my FIRST requirement is him having fat pockets. As a black woman, I am tired of being told to settle for struggle. Bring on the wealthy older white men who can at least do something for me in exchange for my time and labor.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Ok I hear you.

[@seochr]

Employment is literally exchanging your time/labour for money. So why would you have to sleep with him too? He is so creepy You DO deserve more... and that's having a real connection AND financial stability... not just one OR the other. If you choose this man, your bank account won't suffer... but your spirit will 😢

[@TiannaEss]

This!!! I’ll take his money on top of having my own money! Thank you!

[@Childfree334]

@@seochr My spirit won't suffer because I don't believe in your religion. I don't do anything for men or with men for free. I learned male nature a long time ago, so my spirit and conscience are just fine.

[@seochr]

​@@Childfree334 Agreed... your choice is your choice! But let's not protect the entitlement of (old) rich white men because of your own needs/wants

[@daishawilliams8301]

He views women as objects.

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

That's what I got out of it, too. We're a commodity to him.

[@susiebear3316]

​@@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables & y'all turn a blind eye to the fact that black men 👀 us as a commodity times ten have you all forgot about hip hop culture🙄

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@susiebear3316Preach!

[@kimleemoon]

@@susiebear3316 exactly I was going to say the same thing. We’re just commodity to all men including bm. You might as well deal with a rich one.

[@missrain5164]

Or have your own and live life on your own terms 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Cantetinza17]

I agree I heard the same thing. To add to it; also gave me "As long as I have money I can get a young BW or BG and I can treat them however I want." This is why I say get your own money! Be your own savior. Stop using your body for financial security and nurture your brain. Did that chic really think she could live with him and not be in a relationship with him?! REALLY?!

[@Caseinpoint-f8z]

Old bm say the same thing but they are broke too 😂

[@Alyssaj1236]

they do!! lol

[@tamiausten873]

For those saying she's wrong, there's a case of 2 women who went missing after going to meet a rich guy in Nigeria. These young women are just his final victims because there's others and one survivor came out to share her experience and how she escaped. Look up these Dubai and yatch escapades, it's about young women getting involved with things they didn't expect with affluent men. Look at Diddy, he has many victims, male and female because of his money and power: they all thought Diddy was their way up. Many people who have dug deep into Bey and Jay will say she's staying because he's rich and powerful, we all know that he was big when they met and the age difference between them. It's an old story, this thing about rich men having express access to women only because they have money. Please let's wake up, this is just another dynamic that resembles the slavery power structure : whoever pays your bills calls the shots and it better be you paying. Not everyone will meet those with genuine hearts 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kimleemoon]

Now report how many women were harmed while going to meet a poor man. I bet the numbers are the same or greater. Men, in general, are dangerous and women have to be careful. It doesn’t matter if he’s rich or poor, women need to stay safe.

[@kennyav25]

I will never financially depend on a man, I work very hard for the kinda lifestyle I have but I will never be with a broke man neither .

[@hanatirk4375]

Women should focus on making their own money. Please please don't depend on men for money. Go get your education and have a respect for your self.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@hanatirk4375 So you can’t get an education AND date a man with money? I can’t with y’all! 😂😂😂😂

[@hanatirk4375]

@@TheKittsPajamas of course you can date them, but don't depend on them. I don't think this is that hard to understand 🙄

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@hanatirk4375 Yet you felt the need to say don’t depend on a man as if it is hard to understand. Clearly you think women aren’t intelligent enough to know that they can date a man with money while also having their own/still doing what they need to do for themselves. Clearly you think women are not capable of knowing to not depend on a man.

[@VixxKong2]

You can do both. Many of the women in the circles of rich men already have their own money.

[@veganbutterfly3652]

Men think of women as merchandise... the more money they have, they feel they can have any woman they want.

[@DarthFurie]

I wouldn't do it and I had a big problem when my sister did it, she was with a man decades older than her who ended up passing away after a handful of years. But now her son has a trust fund worth millions, a house, land, and part of a profitable family business. Her son is set for life and her retirement was completely sorted before she turned 30. But a lot of women seem to be naïve about what it's like dealing with very wealthy men, yes they are mostly looking for young and impressionable women, and it is NOT all roses dealing with them. My sister had her share of sorrows during the process of that relationship, and made sacrifices for her son's sake

[@TheKittsPajamas]

I don’t see how that’s any different from working at a job you loathe to make sure your kids’ needs are met and their future is bright. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Plus dealing with a younger man with an average income will come with sorrows and sacrifices as well. So good for your sister! Sounds like she made the right choice!

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Well that's a different scenario. My lover and I have been together for 11 years, I'm 33 and he is 57. I didn't have to make any sacrifices because I am genuinely attracted to him and vice versa. People need to stop treating this like a hustle

[@DarthFurie]

​@TheKittsPajamas sure, if your only other option is a low paid job you hate. My job is fulfilling and pays well so I never felt like dealing with a crappy guy to get on. Met my husband as students and we built our way up. My sister still has to work though, now that her guy has passed. Her son is inheriting the wealth and she'll be fine once he gets access to his trust fund, but that's not for about another decade

[@DarthFurie]

​​@@loveusyendi.7621well, the reality is for most it IS a hustle. Most early/mid 20s women are not seriously checking for someone old enough to be their father unless there's a bag involved. If y'all are happy then it doesn't really matter what other couples do, enjoy what you have 🌸

[@sotired9790]

Sounds like a man is a man. I'll take the one giving trust funds.

[@BlackEnchantress]

BW better start asking these WM or other Non-Black Males questions, about why do they prefer BW? And it's not because well people in this society are dating interracially, No the Question is Why?

[@ds37215]

Preference for certain physical characteristics exists.

[@susiebear3316]

When youall develop the same level of scrutiny for the most conquered weak ⚫️Males on the planet then we'll take notes from you🙄

[@loveusyendi.7621]

I don't see why more of our sisters can't be patient and find a good sophisticated honorable black man with money. Some act like they don't exist 😂😂😂

[@niratomas579]

@@loveusyendi.7621because they are over 2 million more BW than BM. Even if every BW got a BM, over two million would still need to date out if they want a relationship🤷🏽‍♀️

[@loveusyendi.7621]

@@niratomas579 Some of our sisters aren't even trying to find a good one, they just talk crap and switch sides. Some black men as well

[@kylamyette]

If a BW wants to be with a man like him then cool that’s her choice, but it’s men like him that feel entitled and this is where it gets dangerous. Just because you have money doesn’t mean you can have whoever , yes more women will be drawn to you but it doesn’t mean you can have every younger BW

[@teoleno4019]

He wants someone to take care of him, now that he is old and unwanted by his own community.

[@roshellegouldbourne787]

How much does he have in his bank account?

[@susiebear3316]

So what? How many dustys do this? Moreover, they don't have the capital and they still want young black women. Stop trying to be offended on the behalf of blackmills. Because they would not offer you a fraction of what dominate races of men would offer you.

[@Truth-Teller414]

Ww are notorious for dating and marrying rich old white men, so I highly doubt he’s unwanted.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

Sounds like he can take care of himself.

[@loveusyendi.7621]

There's nothing wrong with taking care of each other, regardless of their age. It's all about there being real attraction and chemistry 💯

[@VendieSolde]

I agree with you Priscilla.

[@cocoace7587]

He has the right idea . He should teach a class to broke men & encourage them to leave women alone . I don't see a problem , younger BW are his preference. Just like young & ANYONE except BW are BM's preferences. She looks beautiful & relaxed . 😊❤

[@abundantcreative3307]

Your skin is glowing!

[@ultimateenigma6038]

Sis, thats not what I got from it. He is saying affluent white men know they must be affluent to date black women. I could be wrong tho!

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Ok

[@FA9082]

Lol you don't need to have money to date black women. You just have to APPEAR like you hare money. Black women all flock to the guys who look flashy and don't put any time into assessing his character, but most of these flahy guys are just pretending to be rich😂

[@user-lk1ew3gr1d]

That is a lie​@@FA9082

[@Anon___65]

@@FA9082if you want to speak down, speak for yourself

[@TiannaEss]

@@FA9082thanks for confirming that a lot of men are masking.

[@MissJ619]

Listen....Find a rich man and use HIS money to fund your life. If he gives you an allowance SAVE IT. If he gives you expensive bags, SAVE THEM so you can sell them, use them How they use us, period. DONT spend it all, SAVE!!

[@BlackEnchantress]

Rich Men are gonna want something in return... and that is "S3X". Men usually always want something in return but men can always use "S3X" against women and black mail them behind their backs as they dangle that piece of cheese 🧀 and set a trap against the woman 🪤. Men always have the upper hand against women so Becareful with the advice that your giving out to women.

[@pinkstarlightchaos3076]

Also, learn how to invest some of that that money.

[@XxxfjrQueue]

That’s only selling ur body

[@blas8866]

Is he saying black women are gold diggers? Ew, it’s giving master and sl4ve.

[@flutatious_music4]

That’s what I got from this 😷

[@Truth-Teller414]

Gold digger is not an insult. And when did master ever pay us? They just took it.

[@susiebear3316]

No stop cause a lot of y'all play Master/slave with black males give them out of wed lock children. Moreover, black men were the first slavers of black women in girls stop with this narrative already. BM Were beat by their own game. When the Atlantic slave trade took place! However, none of y'all talk about the Sub-Saharan slave trade

[@susiebear3316]

​@@flutatious_music4 you're not qualified to speak bm don't see anything else except for exploiting BW

[@TheKittsPajamas]

Bw we need to start digging for gold! I’m tired of seeing bw pull out all the stops and use every trick in their bag for free!

[@tjaspire]

Hot dog! 🌭 When did this happen? Are we a hot commodity now? When did this shift happen to where all these different men suddenly find us attractive? 🤔

[@Da_Chert]

He just hunt on unprotected young ladies. That's just disgusting 😒

[@SynamonSugar]

None of the generous men I’ve ever known were black. That’s all ima say 🤷🏽‍♀️🌚

[@DanitiaAfonsoewa]

Exactly a man is not your financial plan get your money up ladies 💰 💵

[@flutatious_music4]

This is not flattering AT ALL. You can switch out the man, but the game is still the same. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@chayo4537]

Ok.....

[@satoshistand]

Say that again

[@nicole6839]

I agree with you

[@kelseyhahn4737]

To each their own I’m not judging 😂

[@ThatsBrisWorld]

Priscilla’s narration of the old guy saying he’s affluent and can have young black women 😂😂😂😂

[@southernb3ll5319]

Priscilla you better SPEAK HONEY ❤🫶🏽👏🏾👏🏾

[@Risha-Rene]

Tony Montana: In this country first you get the money, then you get the power then you get the women 💯

[@shopece8807]

"Pray" to be be(come) a rich woman with a rich(er) man.

[@IAMHERE486]

I don’t really have an issue with what he said but I’d look into his background.Was he married to a BW or in relationships with BW before if that’s his preference?Many WM all of sudden once they become old and ugly will start dating BW and pretend like they have money.

[@apollo10yearsago66]

EXACTLYY!!!! When it comes to older white men, you need to find out the race of women they dated when they were young and in their prime. A lot of white men exclusively date white women when theyre younger, but now that theyre ugly, balding, aging w erectile disfunction they begin to pursue young black women and become entitled because they have money 🤢🤮.

[@shrelltaylor9270]

All men think this way they’re literally on the Internet every day saying the same thing but he just said it a little different and his preference just happens to be black woman no difference in the way other men think, it is what it is

[@AlekcisIwiye]

The only problem i have with this is the fact that he said "young." Why young? I dont want a broke man, but i also wanna be a wife to a healthy marriage minded man. The whyte man is not serious.

[@olive6679]

What i heard is that i will never be my first choice's first choice. Since bw are my preference and bm are often bw's preference, i must incentivize choosing me. I think that if young ww were his preference, he would say the same thing. He's grimy because if bw are his preference, why can't he get one his age? A woman his age will likely vett him as a man, not a payday.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

All men want younger women. Just bc bw are his preference it doesn’t mean he’s suddenly going to not want a younger woman. If ww were his preference he’d still prefer a younger one. You’re not making sense sweetie. 😂

[@Ravenboppityzoppity]

I'd spend my summers at a rich man (or woman's 👀) poolside but I'm taking my butt back to class come Fall semester idc. I can enjoy the generosity of good company but I still want my own!

[@beautyininsanity421]

People can't seem to understand that you can do both, lol.

[@franciebelcher4594]

A woman that provides her own security will always be safe. Handing your safety over to a partner has and will always be a gamble. Only u can depend on you 💯% of the time.

[@chinesefood2222]

My goal in life is to take rich while mens money and put it into Black Women owned businesses 😌💅🏾 I’m probably trash but yes, you can buy my time and my company but like a good restaurant, I reserve the right to refuse the energy of people who don’t uplift and empower me 👸🏾💵💰

[@XxxfjrQueue]

Sad 😢 to see people saying these kinds stuff and thinking that’s it’s good

[@RealThisisA]

He is bold and entitled. I agree it is not something to be proud of.

[@user-lk1ew3gr1d]

He wants a babysitter

[@sotired9790]

A rich old man can get a young woman.

[@FoAl-h2b]

What do you use for your skin sis 😍

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

There is nothing wrong with what he said . We have to understand that men (all men) base their worth by the amount of money they have. Have you ever met a nice and loving broke man? He’s mad and angry, and the gf/wife better not make more money then he will be cruel and harsh towards her. There was a study done where they placed a man in a room for a certain amount of time. Then the men were asked “what did you think about in a quiet room ?” What was the response? Money -sex-sports- of absolutely nothing . Meanwhile the same was observed for women . How did the women respond? They have a LARGE variety of things they thought about 🤔 That’s just the reality for men , collectively . This man just so happens to like BW. What does the ENTIRE manosphere say daily? That supposedly women hit the wall at 30 and they want younger women. So when you look at it in a broader sense, he wants younger (vast majority) , he has money , and he dates which in other words he has aces to the women he wants . So he really just validates the statistics on the vast majority of men and what they want and value .

[@m_b_s_l]

I think in every country men belonging to majority will speak like that about women in minority. So it’s a patriarchal mindset

[@Blaquediamond87]

No flattering but. We get upset when we say we have no standards. Now blk women have standards and its showing. But thats even negative to say i guess. Honestly this is America and if he liked white women hed say the same thing about him being old. They think this about women in general. Especially in the white community. Thats only dates young blondes. It seems were always getting upset no matter whats said. We have a lot of damage. I get it. Im working on myself and not everything is because im brown.

[@roshellegouldbourne787]

Thank you. I made a comment about this as well. It seems that Black Women get triggered over EVERYTHING. One minute we don't want 50/50, she made a video of a Black Man ADMITTING that Black Men only go 50/50 with Black Women....she was mad. Now a Man says he must have money to date Black Women, SHE MAD, 🤬. Sometimes y'all need to just chill, how can y'all live in a constant state of anxiety?

[@missrain5164]

The man just called us 304’s politely and it went over your heads 😂😂😂😂

[@TheKittsPajamas]

This!

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@missrain5164Ok and? I don’t know about you but I happen to enjoy sex. If that comes with money, even better!

[@susiebear3316]

​@@missrain5164 Who developed the word 304 dumi🤨 Yes, the same demographic of men who come up with a new word like this to degrade us every few years. The same man who gives us various diseases and out of with lot children. The same men who tell the world how we have no value. That we're loud ghetto and stinky. And they don't want anyone else to want us so that we can continue to keep our standards low. No one's calling Bwoman 304's but BM. Ive dated yt men and grew up around white people my whole life. They don't have the same type of smoke for bw as BM PERIOD. Stop with the propaganda.

[@mimi42428]

No thanks I'd rather have my own money

[@aliciahughley7508]

The way he said it, it sounded more like a fetish.

[@EricaBeee]

You read it wrong sis.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

I didn’t take it that way honestly. I am reminded of the guy (I can’t remember his name) who said that black women are for mature men or something like that. Basically that if you want a black wife you better come correct. He was being 100% real with the way things are and knowing who he is, what he looks like, and where he is in life, he know he has to bring something extra to the table, in order to have the company of a woman, a black woman whom he respects not to let her go without.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Ok thanks for your perspective

[@EunMin-yt1xx]

No he said young blk women. So all he is saying is he expects sugar daddy sugar baby dynamic in that "relationship." If that's acceptable to the woman, so be it.

[@IAMHERE486]

Why does he want BW now that he’s half dead?

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@IAMHERE486Who said he didn’t date bw when he was younger? Him saying he knows he has to have money if wants a young bw does not mean he’s never dated any bw before, it means he doesn’t think the younger bw will want his old behind unless he has money… AND HES ABSOLUTELY CORRECT.

[@sotired9790]

​@@EunMin-yt1xxWhy slander young women with calling them sugar babies? And to him, a 35 year old could be young.

[@Kuncous]

1:15 where is the lie thou?! Life must be really good if that reality troubles your spirit. So good for you.

[@user-zz4pm5ll9r]

@Priscillia. I am confused by what you said. A man MUST have resources. Yes, as a Woman we should have our money but if I am dating a white man he better be in a very good financial situation considering white men come with privilege from birth.

[@EunMin-yt1xx]

Yeah but that guy said young blk women. So he is objectifying and obviously looking for sugar daddy sugar baby dynamic. You can say what you want but that dynamic speaks yo the kind of man he is. And what that relationship will entail.

[@missrain5164]

@@EunMin-yt1xxthank you.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

@@EunMin-yt1xxOk and? What’s wrong with a sugar baby situation if you’re not looking for love or long term? What’s wrong with being paid for sex? If I’m having sex with a man I’d much rather he have money then not have money. A man without money can be just as controlling or abusive, sooooo….? Like wtf are we talking about here? 😂

[@loveusyendi.7621]

Not all white men come from privilege at birth, please erase that thought. I grew up in a well-off suburban area where every race lived and had money.

[@TheKittsPajamas]

He’s attracted to bw and he wants to spoil them… what’s the problem?

[@Alyssaj1236]

I'm trying to figure that out too! If he wanted ww, no one would bat an eye but since he said bw, it's an issue! He knows he couldn't be with a black women WITH standards if he was broke and that's how black women should move.

[@prettynpetty8342]

It’s only cringe because he said it out loud. It’s an unspoken thing. Wm’s entire image is being wealthy. It’s literally why women from any country mess with them. They have money and therefore power. It is what it is. He’s right, I wouldn’t mess with him if he didn’t have money for a multitude of reasons, not just because I like money and security. He just should’ve kept it hush hush.

[@kitkat261]

He is just gross, don't fall for dudes like this. Decent men who want a relationship would date near their age. He only finds value in a woman's youth. He only wants to be a sugar daddy or whatever. I know it works out for some people, but it's def not a plan. It's nothing but transactional until you get traded out for a younger woman/richer man.

[@rudijax]

Single women keep other women single.

[@rudijax]

If women in general didn't flock towards rich men, just for being rich... Then this wouldn't be a thing. So yes you're wrong.

[@maryamshaaban74]

I'm not black but I am upset about this. Even black women should be insulted. He's treating women like rewards, not people. Like the higher the level you get to in a video game you get better prizes or something. I was in several situations when some man commented how I'm better because I'm of a certain look, cultural background, etc. It's upsetting to me because you ain't in a shop, shopping for better quality item because you have more money in your pockets, and upset that this means they view other women as lesser just be they come from a different financial, cultural or ethnic background. I'm not against anyone being picky when it comes to picking partners, but you thinking that someone is better because of something so trivial, that they didn't contribute to is stupid and dehumanizing, because this isn't what makes a good partner. If anything, he's just sexualizing and objectifying all women, but SPECIFICALLY black women.

[@Childfree334]

I disagree. Beautiful and young women are REWARDS for men who have their sh*t together. It doesn't take away from our humanity one little bit.

[@maryamshaaban74]

@@Childfree334 I see your point. Beautiful and smart and all of those amazing qualities, yes. Black or white excludes all other women that aren't, making it seem like they are of lower value for their ethnicity. Young is just creepy, especially for a man of his age. And there's a difference between a man realizing how rewarding it is to have a woman by his side than to solely view her and other women as mere trophies, it implies entitlement. I'm rich and have my shit together so I deserve or should have a woman, black or white or whatever. Good on you for going ahead in life but it doesn't mean that this should earn you a woman and you can claim her whenever you want.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@Childfree334 I agree. I look at it like once you reach a certain financial threshold then you are “rewarded“ with stepping into the arena of being somebody worth dating and taken seriously. Women say they don’t want men approaching them who can’t support a wife and children but when he finally says the quiet part out loud, it’s like he’s not allowed to say it, even though that’s exactly what women say they want.

[@flutatious_music4]

This is my take on this video. I personally think that men are not understanding that when women say we want a partner that’s financially stable, we mean someone that can help with the supplying of resources we both need to survive. We’re not necessarily looking for a savior. And even then, if all he can do is throw some money at it, what’s the point of building a relationship? If you have to buy someone’s affection or attraction, that’s not love.😅

[@TheKittsPajamas]

Oh I’m a reward? I’m a prize? Great! Someone calling me a reward/prize/trophy is not an insult to me. The only way that type of situation would bother me is if I’m looking for love. If I’m not looking for love or emotional connection, then I’m happy to be your reward that you like to spend all your money on while I squirrel away. 😂

[@PrincessCollins2023]

This whole video was FULL of “She woman man-hater 🦹🏿‍♀️” vibes! 😅 Like chick in the brown was hella projecting, the blonde hair chick is scared to fully love a man. Baby girl who got put out didnt vet that man properly and sweetheart at the end has a hard time finding a man worth a damn… the ONLY one I agree with is sister girl with the pink bonnet cuz she was speaking FACTS ✅. 😅 Idk 🤷🏽‍♀️ about anyone else but I have met some pretty good guys in my life so, I knew there were men out here who wanted to love and devote themselves to a woman. I’m married now, but in my pursuit to find my soulmate I knew what I wanted, prayed 🙏🏽 daily for the marriage of my dreams and kept a positive outlook on love 💕. If all you do is hate men then you’ll NEVER find your one true love.

[@beautyininsanity421]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@onycagayle4485]

❤

[@thesilentdiva]

I don't have a problem with it because even though I do my own thing I'm a gold digger so that's fine

[@T.C556]

It’s nothing to be proud of but did the guy lie tho?? How many videos on YT showing young BW showing off a lifestyle that is a result of this?? What is ‘sprinkle sprinkle’ all about. It’s sad but true for too many.

[@thetravelbug6869]

Why are some of you mad . BW need to stop this fake upset , what he said was not bad , he is right smart BW should not go out with broke men at all and this should be your standard. I was not upset at all, I totally agree with him and am on the same page. Some of you are just upset because he is a WM I think.

[@indoora]

He does not want "A black women" he wants many women. He is not looking to find wife but to play around, he would have stated that but he did not. He already had that life in his youth so now he can play.

[@beautyininsanity421]

Don't you know, every interaction between the sexes has to end in marriage, or the world falls apart!!!! (All these comments show is that BW are so desperate for marriage that they'll project this desperation onto just about any other BW in any sort of quasi-sexual proximity to a man. It's super cringe and embarrassing.)

[@TheKittsPajamas]

He thinks that he needs to be worth a bw’s time and energy… what’s the problem?

[@gigif169]

Cringe

[@shawnni3014]

Wow

[@peapod6747]

1) I would be insulted if he said " black women want me because im a white/black/green/blue/yellow/poor/broke/ugly man whos willing to be with them. All i need to do is be male for black women to date me" by saying hes in the 1% hes saying black woman have high standards. Thats waaaaaay better than saying we have no standards or low standards. For me, its a compliment. 2) a man is simply a job. Some rich men are careers. Only pickmes view relationships as something where you sacrifice and get nothing. If you are dating a rich old white man and you are young and beautiful compared to him, and you arent making double what you would by working a regular 9 -5, you are dumb and are playing yourself. A cash allowance from a sugar daddy is your salary. You should be treating it like a job and should be investing in a IRA or 401k for your retirement. Or at least starting your own business.

[@FelicMore24]

🍹🍹🍹🍹💯👍

[@angelawilliams5153]

Clearly looks at women as a transaction. No thank you

[@IAMGROOT4EVA]

Ummmmm 🫤🙄

[@goddesshathor7313]

Money marries, I hear in certain countries men are marrying 9 and 10-year-old women so in their broke at that so um. Well

[@healingv1sion]

A 9 or 10 year old is not a woman 😬

[@sotired9790]

How are you calling little girls women?

[@damieo8139]

Trust in Jesus, no one else. All other ground is sinking sand.

[@itzyogurlEleanor]

Proberbs 31 days do both

[@cyb11114]

Idk man this is the most confused I’ve ever felt in my life

[@AnastasiaBeaverhousn]

Soooooooo the YOUNG Black female wearing the matching flannel PJs with her YT Great grandfather because she loves him???!!🙄🤔🥴 OR, hear me out!! Because he's OLDER, RICHER and damn near one foot in???!!🧐 YT guy told NO LIES!!!!!!