Why Being With The Wrong Man Can Make You Look Ugly

Women share stories about why being with the wrong men can make you ugly

[@Cynophileandavianenthusiast]

It happened to me too. My ex's friends actually told him, " she blossomed after you were gone." Lol,....best revenge.

[@staceyranee5756]

Absolutely the best!!!!

[@happyd1479]

Imagine being so evil and abusive you can watch someone(who you claim to love) disintegrate in front of you

[@shanellem6310]

My ex-husband did just that. The wife before me died of lupus. She had it before marrying him; but, was managing. After marrying him, she was in & out of the hospital. She literally wasted away. The kids (her son & his kids) later told me that he could have saved her. She needed surgery & she gave him power of attorney. So, he refused it & told her she was being selfish by trying to hang on & to just let go. So, she did. In addition to that, the kids said he made them watch her pass away. They were 12yrs, 12yrs, & 9yrs old. Her son was really messed up emotionally after that as he was now an orphan. His Dad had died a few years before. I never saw him the same way after that revelation.

[@girlofanimation]

​​@@shanellem6310 what the actual f... That's horrible. That woman must've gone through so much and become too dependent on him through psychological conditioning. Those poor kids. I hope they were able to get away from that evil man. I'm glad you got away before something like that could happen to you.

[@vanessarichardson110]

​@@shanellem6310WTF! 😳 Thats some of the craziest, most evil hateful thing I've heard. Omg, that's sickening.

[@libfuzzy4629]

@@shanellem6310that was a whole demon!!!!

[@T-Laydie]

This happened to me when I was married. I was overweight, constantly exhausted, my acne was out of control, and my hair was greying rapidly. The day he moved out was my first full night's sleep in years. Over the coming months, my weight started to come down and my skin improved. 6 month's after we split all my grey hair have return to jet black. It's a testament to what prolonged high levels of cortisol will do to the body.

[@VendieSolde]

Yess!! Same! I gained weight, stopped doing my hair, dry hair, dry skin, stopped caring.

[@danec2572]

Yall just got lazy, and then got fat

[@florencebawden5079]

I ran into someone at the weekend who said 'wow you look better every time I see you!' powers of being single lol

[@lizzyp174]

Same!!! Even I can recognize that I look younger now than I did 12 years ago when I was still with the ex ❤

[@plinko84]

I love this for y'all. It gives me hope that life will improve long after my divorce. I'm looking forward to being happily single. ✨️🌹✨️

[@bm5_5_5]

Here for this 🎉❤

[@melissa-qe7fp]

The part that really grinds my gears is that they literally seek you out when you are at your most peaceful, most content, most happiest to stress you out. No one can convince me that they dont do it intentionally

[@SandySandy-p1g]

Nah they definitely do. There are men that have admitted they have gotten with certain women with the intent to destroy them smh.

[@belizeanbaby]

🎯SAAAAME, I AGREE

[@adrier675]

Facts

[@ashaduplessis2772]

Energy vampires. They see the light within you and Rather than let it illuminate them they seek to dim it😊

[@2okaycola]

Yep

[@elsugga3736]

Having a man is a curse at this point

[@nini65078]

😭😭😭😂

[@sg5720]

Having the WRONG man is a curse. 🤷🏽‍♀️😊

[@elsugga3736]

@@sg5720 girl bye

[@3DSuccess]

LOL

[@amandasunshine2]

​@@sg5720 lmao #yesallmen are the problem 🤣

[@mikochild2]

And then they'll ask why we couldn't do that while with them. Sir, we didn’t DO anything except get rid of you.

[@B.Harper7]

@mikochild2 100%% because we had dead weight of an overgrown toddler raising cortisol levels that tells our body "we're running through the jungle from a tiger! Stay alert even when sleeping/ resting, continuous overuse of brain power and management skills to orchestrate the day in a way to piss off said overgrown toddler the least- since they can't control their emotions and have zero emotional intelligence.

[@RedDeadReverie]

I gained so much weight during my last long term relationship with a narcissist. He got me pregnant (had a miscarriage) and I gained at least 50 pounds. I lost all the weight after we broke up and feel so much healthier. After he’s gone I started taking care of myself again. He made me feel so ugly and I used to model lol. Don’t let a man drag you down!

[@peachesandpoets]

It happened to me. Please take heed. Stay away from them. I'm still trying to fix what he broke

[@TP-pq3nt]

Praying for you!

[@kaleidojess]

I understand women who choose to be single. Relationships have been more destructive imo.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I love the purple hair 💜

[@conniemcmillian7010]

4B Movement ladies 🚺

[@B.Harper7]

🦋🦋🦋🦋 💖💖💖💖💖✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️ I don't think ppl have used butterflies, but we're doing it damnit!!!

[@Armelleee]

Forever ✨️

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

It happened to me with my ex. He would constantly criticize me and would even tell me I needed to change my hair products and the clothes that I wear. I also remember back in college I was underweight at 106 pounds and I only weighed 106 pounds. Thank God I left him and found a better man. Now my skin is clear, my hair is healthy and long, and I’m in great shape now and weigh 139 pounds now.

[@TouchnotDAnointingof136DZion]

Greetings and Salutations. I've known this for years about the Patriarchy Brotherhood Manosphere a k.a Sons of Baal. They're job is to spiritually drain the women of all our creative energy and Holy Spirit of Christ Consciousness. As well as our Innocence and purity. I know this from experience. This is how the drain you Angelic Divine Feminine Eternal Souls of your youthfulness, Innocence of heart and purity. It's called transfer of energy: a k.a Vampires (Fallen Sons of the fallen Adam a.k.a Sons of Belial a k.a Patriarchy Brotherhood Manosphere. They're your enemy. I promise you.... Trust no man.... Know no man by his flesh. They're the fallen and this is their heaven on earth. That they've made a hell on earth for the women, young girls, children, animals, the mammals of the seas are not even safe from the Masculine Energy destructive nature. They put us women against each other because we are a tribe and force to be reckoned with. When the impregnate you.... That's your 18 year sentencing bof struggling. Where he abandons you if he can't rule over you. As punishment for denying the him as your idol (Son of Baal/Belial) devil. Refuse to worship them.... Start to loving each other as Si-stars again. In Heaven...we're the Si-stars Angels that are a force to be reckoned with. Match that energy here in the Earthly Kingdom. Refuse to bow down and become The Sons of Baal/Belial (Patriarchy, Manosphere/Brotherhood) matching devil (His fallen Feminine Angel Angel a.k.a Jezebaal. I have suffered violently from the Patriarchy all my life. I suffer even now as I type out this message for you. I wish never to be in a Heaven where these devil's are allowed to continue to exploit women and little girls. I Am a Amazon.... I pray that one day my Tribe... Our Tribe of Amazon's reign as a league again on our own private hidden Island within the New Heaven on Earth. I do not wish to dwell with men.... They're the sons/sins of this Earthly Kingdom. The destruction of woman.... Emity between the Serpent (Patriarchy/Brotherhood Manosphere/Fallen Sons of the 1st Fallen Adam/Men) offspring and the woman Liliths (Lily of the Righteous Covenant between Heaven & Earth a k.a Earth and Sea) seed... In the book of Genesis Our Heavenly Most High Almighty Elohim regretted creating men... Everything in them is thoughts of evil and how to exploit the woman. Making her and her daughters a slave to man's many unending diver lust. I like Lilith renounce bowing down to any man... They came from us woman.... Not us from them. I am no daughter of Eve. I bow down to "NO" MAN (IDOL). I WORSHIP NONE. I AM A DAUGHTERS OF THE RIGHTEOUS WOMAN. .. THE LIBERATED WOMAN... THE ONLY DAUGHTER OF OUR MOST HIGH DIVINE ROYAL FEMININE HEAVENLY MOTHER WISDOM.... I AM A DAUGHTER OF LILITH....I BOW DOWN TO NO MAN. NOR HIS DIFFERENT TRAPS OF RELGION FULL OF MAKE GODS. THEY'RE IN LOVE WITH THEMSELVES AND ARE BEIBG EXPOSED AS SECRET G@Y MAN LOVERS ON THE SAME SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS THAT THEY STONED MY SI-STARS UPON FOR ALL THE WORLD TO SEE THEIR HATE FOR THE 1ST DAUGHTERS TO THE EARTH: THE INHERITANCE OF OUR ROYAL DIVINE FEMININE HEAVENLY MOTHER. YES...THE INDIGENOUS (BLK) WOMAN. MY SI-STAR QUEENS AND PRINCESSES. MY TRIBE... When praying.... Pray to your Heavenly Mother and the 144,000 Si-stars they are also under some form of bondage or attack in this Earthly Kingdom. Where men unjustly rule of the Divine Feminine preaching his doctrine es of devils (Reincarnated Fallen Sons of the 1st Fallen Adams a.k.a Men/Patriarchy/Brotherhood/Manosphere). As you can see... There's a war between the genders. Make ever man prove he can be trusted. Trust no man.... Known none by their flesh.... Do t tell them everything. They're in alliance against the woman spiritually. To tell you... You tell all. Keep a secret place where you have emergency money. Tell onevman or woman about this unless they've proven beyond the shadow of doubt that they're of your Tribe. If not... You'll suffer the consequences and wonder how were you sabotaged. They have an unholy Anti Christ Consciousness womanizing exploitive unfaithful treacherous spiritual nature of their Fathers....Devil's. Manipulating women to procreate with them. In order to extend their bloodline of devils. I've suffered violently passing many Heavenly test, trials, obstacle courses in this School of Life and it's many different Teachers representing one of the 12 grade houses (12/Tribes/12 Star Signs/12 Angelic Attributes/12 Months of the Hebrew year/12 Ages of The Most High Almighty Ancient of Days Elohim Time Clock which includes the Chinese Zodiac a day to the God's visiting this Kingdom is like a thousand years being away in the Heavenly Realms). I'll stop there.. I've poured out a lot of energy here. I must maintain the energy I have left to carried out the many other tasks upon my list today. THEREFORE... I SALUTE YOU AMAZONS THAT ARE AWAKENING FROM THE SPELLS OF MEN... SHALOM..... 🕊️🕎👑🕊️🐑🌺💐🐏🏮♍👸🏿👸🏾👸🏽👸🏼👸🏻👸

[@neverlookback1244]

That’s good for glad you found a good man since not all men are toxic

[@michelledavidson1781]

I went down to a size 1/2 at 5'11. Within 3 months of leaving, I gained 30 lbs And men wonder why women go through a "glow up" when we leave. They get angry because they don't accept that they were the cause of your slow death. Men say, women "hit the wall" after 30. Honestly, they are that wall. I look so much better. Years younger. Stress will kill you.

[@BP_Excellent]

Indeed! The men are the brick 🧱 wall

[@SandySandy-p1g]

I remember when I left my ex even my boss told me “You look and seem so much better since you left that man”!! I felt so dead on the inside while I was with him thank God I am out if that situation.

[@lizzyp174]

I weighed 90 pounds at one point, had incredibly dark under eyes, horrible acne, terrible insomnia. My confidence was below the floor Soon as I split with the ex, my appetite became normal, quickly gained a healthy weight, even my terrible allergies disappeared It's amazing how your body is screaming to let you know it's not the place for you

[@ITSCRYSTALRENEE]

I am a victim, too. I felt like I was dying a slow death. Toxic relationships, no Bueno.

[@B.Harper7]

It truly is like the Frog swimming in the slowly boiling water not realizing that it's boiling alive. Imagine how confused the Frog would be if it was it's friend putting it into the pot. That's why it's so hard for us to realize what abuse is happening at the time. We want to believe that they're good people and would never do such a thing, and slowly realizing we needed to save ourselves and get the fck out 💖💖💖💖💖✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️

[@Childfree334]

Absolute truth. Mental and emotional health manifests physically. That is why HBP and stroke are so prevalent among black women.

[@patriciahercules6852]

Stress hormone caused belly fat which leads to diabetes

[@kdani4777]

If he doesn’t improve your life, HES GOT TO GO. Life is amazing, single with peace. Don’t ever believe the lie that you need a man to be complete or fulfilled or happy. Life can be so wonderful “alone.” And there is so much human connection that abounds. Also, don’t believe the “happy couples” online-no relationship is perfect and most people break up

[@angeljohnson234]

I experienced something slightly similar but the man I was with effected how I performed at work. I was so miserable that I wasn't sleeping. I couldn't perform at work and my colleagues said I was "not nice to be around." As soon as I broke up with the man I was with, I started sleeping better, my performance increased and I even got a bonus at work. My colleagues said I was joyful and they were happy to have me back.

[@txspacemom765]

It's the stress...constant stress and chaos. I realized now that I come home from a very stressful job, I make dinner, have a nice tea, read a book, take a walk and hang with my cats. When I was married, the best way I can describe my ex was he was "noise" and constantly mentally, emotionally, and financially stressing me and putting me into a state of non stability. When I left, I slept for 8 hours NO INTERUPTIONS, I could eat when and what I wanted, not having to be criticized for making something someone doesn't like or them eating something else, not hearing the banging around, just noise in general, was stressful. I felt so ugly when I left. I had constant diarrhea, always weird illness, body aches, my hair was falling out and other things. It's true.

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

This is so true. The best celebrity example of this is Liz, the ex-fiance of Big Ed from “90 Day Fiancé”. She started gaining weight and looking way older than her years the longer she stayed with him.

[@xletragedyx]

Just watched an interview with her. She looks really good again now

[@thenativeconservationist]

Yes!!!

[@yinaortiz2305]

Same here. After leaving my husband I dropped 15 LBS. Glowed up naturally.

[@theijeomalyons]

Can I just add....this is why it is IMPERATIVE to create a self care routine....not the TikTok version....but a routine that truly pours into you and upholds your health on all levels! This self care routine has the power to repel the man off you and you are telling the universe that you want so much more...so much better!

[@lookatyou5809]

It's the before and after a bad relationship that gets you. I gained so much weight dealing with my emotionally abusive ex. This is why I don't walk away anymore, baby I run! Any sign that a man won't handle me with care, I'm out.

[@CitySlickerButtKicker]

Make it trend: Toxic Relationship Before and After pictures!

[@ajlocs2361]

This is so true I am 48 now, but in my twenties I thought me loosing weight and my hair breaking in the center of my head was because my damn naive ass was in love I needed to be with this person. We were meant to be because look what happens to me when we are NOT TOGETHER. I also had migraines constantly and loss of appetite. Baby girls let me tell you these signs are your bodies way of telling you to get the F away from that person! Our body knows trouble apparently before we do! Listen to your body don’t betray yourself. The right man will not cause all this unbalance in your body.

[@mumlikeme5806]

I had the most swollen face and bumps on the face. The PH was off. I was gross 🤢. Honestly the wrong man will make you a ugly mess

[@l3lloz]

No lies told! Been there unfortunately. Lost weight and I’m already petite, and extremely bad stomach pain over anything! The stress was unreal, walk away!

[@genevieveaniko6492]

The first sign is usually dark circles and/or bags under the eyes... That you just can't get rid of.

[@SiddityPrincess]

I've been saying this for a while. I see it all the time. Even with strangers, you can tell a woman who is spiritually beaten, stressed out, and just have no time for self or self-care. And the woman who mentioned "friends" shes right! FRIENDS too!

[@r.e45]

Not she had to get Invisalign after the relationship….bwahahahahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣 On a serious note; Spiritual transfer is real ladies! Opening up your womb to different spirits will change your appearance! BE MINDFUL! Team Single~

[@xletragedyx]

She said she had TMJ during the relationship. She was probably grinding her teeth in her sleep bc of the stress and anxiety

[@Enriquez2222]

It took me close to 5 years to recover from my ex…. The after effects lasted a bit longer than the relationship which was two years. Left the relationship when I was 18 and everyone would tell me I looked 25. My skin was discoloured, I was crying all the time, I had no time to look after me because I was constantly defending myself from him, entered the relationship at 125 and exited at 200+. Now I’m 24 and everyone thinks I look 19, my skin is so nice that people think I’m wearing makeup half the time, I have more time for me, I’m now 160 and wear a size 8 almost the same size I was in high school. I haven’t been this happy in years

[@bubblesactivated]

Sis same. I’m finally reaching a level of peace after 5 years of being in therapy, understanding where i went wrong, and accepting what i should never done again. I was 125 in my relationship. I’m 145 and i don’t look big but im not happy with how my body has turned out. I got diagnosed with PCOS which has not helped with my hormones and weight. I just ordered some weights and i have a jump rope. I start this week on a year long training of just getting back to my track body

[@bres.4806]

❤❤❤ I'm so happy for you.

[@bres.4806]

​@@bubblesactivatedYou should try the keto diet. Alot of women who are diagnosed with PCOS say they swear by it as far as weight lost and maintenance.

[@HD-Australia]

My marriage to my narcissistic ex husband gave me 10 years of cystic acne on my body that antibiotics did not cure. About 25% of my hair fell out. I was very thin because of stress. These ladies are 100% correct

[@B.Harper7]

Oh my fcking god is that why I got cystic acne?!?!?!?!?!!!!! I've NEVER had acne problems (thank you genes!!) Except around my jaw on my period. But in the last two fckin years of the relationship I developed legitimate cystic acne!!! It was the craziest thing, and now three years out it's finally going away!!!!

[@HD-Australia]

@@B.Harper7 I was finally referred to a dermatologist who cured my skin, including fading the scars, by prescribing me oral Vitamin A tablets (Accutane). It worked & "dissolved" the fine lines on my face, so I ended up looking 5 or more years younger.

[@jennyjones-tw5hp]

My mom is now dying because of her years of abuse. She’s got the cortisol hump and body and is now in liver failure. But she chose him over us (my sister and I) and now they have each other.

[@maryannspicher]

I’ve done some research on this and it turns out that if you are genetically predisposed for any disease that runs in your family, stress can be the trigger that turns that gene on. In my case it was my thyroid. I found out mine was shutting down, just as my doctor left the practice. Being in between doctors I had to do my own research to answer questions I had until I saw a new one, and that is some of the information I found. If you look at a graph of my thyroid function, my last relationship going downhill and my thyroid went with it. And if you get sick with a toxic partner, often times they leave you. It’s truly sickening how many women I’ve read about who have gotten cancer of other serious illnesses, operations, etc. and as soon as their men could get out the door they left. Stay safe out there!

[@immakitty88]

Happening to me now. I don't know how but I'll get out. I have to

[@erobinson5942]

Just think about how much better you will feel when you do ❤

[@immakitty88]

@erobinson5942 I know but it's complicated unfortunately

[@Armelleee]

​@immakitty88 we got this! ✨️

[@Iamchristaelaine]

Please 🙏🏾

[@GrantDiva]

I understand, love. I'm going through the same

[@Changes81]

This is true for family relationships also

[@purplelaketafahdhali7753]

My hair was breaking, and dry. I was always tired, thoughts were clogged and muddled, so sad and lonely. Never again. I choose me. Today, tomorrow and forever. This includes bad friends/family as well. Ladies, please pay attention to your body and feelings. They are telling you important things.

[@MsRenaissance]

And the worse ones are the covert Narcs who have a carefully crafted, image of just being the greatest guy in everyone's eyes but behind closed doors he's the dev!l from he||. I know a guy who will post things like, "We have to respect each other even if we disagree" or "A person can become so blinded in trying to destroy another that they end up destroying themselves". And all his followers are like, oh you such a great guy. What they don't know is hes posting that because hes dating multiple people and when they find out about each other and contact each other he blocks the one doing the contacting. In his mind the person is trying to destroy him by contacting the other people he's seeing and he's the victim. Such a s!ck manipulatator.

[@sydneywhite7250]

I had frequent migraines and felt like I was aging so quickly. I had depression, anxiety, panic attacks. Crazy how almost all of that disappeared when I left his ass… and a year later my skin is looking so much better too. Who says you can’t reverse aging? Drop that toxic man

[@B.Harper7]

@sydneywhite7250 A 60yr old friend divorced 6 months ago, she already looks 15 years younger, this shit is INSANE!!!!! And she's not doing anything different! She simply doesn't have cortisol running through her body 24/7.......

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Being with narcissists for sure had made me uglier & fatter

[@Jae-by3hf]

Congrats on 30K 🎉 I know that you wanted 50K, but this is such a great achievement 🙌🏽 heres to 100k more 🥂

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Thank you so much!! ☺️

[@bm5_5_5]

Some men will block your blessings for real. I have BLOOMED like never before in the last 2 years. I love it here 🎉❤

[@kimclark1352]

Men like this are just energy Vampires. When I got away from Him life much better

[@squash6497]

It's the d3ad eyes/cold stare in every single one of those pictures. I had the same Oppenheimer Eyes in 2013-2015. Finally got the light back in them, and rhe right relationship only made it grow brighter

[@xletragedyx]

I had the same, and the right relationship does help. I'm glowing up right now bc I'm about to see my husband for the first time in 3 months (military). I'm getting more excited and glowing more every day.

[@amandasunshine2]

I weighed 300lbs with my ex. And he had the nerve to criticize my weight! On my birthday! I developed insomnia.

[@roxywyndham]

The fact that I’m going through all of that single…… I’m not the right person for me 😭😂

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

Lol! Any type of stress can do this to you fr. Stress is quite literally a killer.

[@xletragedyx]

Get a self care routine. Take time for yourself, do things you enjoy. Relax. If you want, do nothing. Take the stress off

[@DoveRichardson]

facts!!!!! I've been single for 3 years and I'm looking WORSER. 😢

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

I’ve been single my whole life and fat since I was a baby lmao

[@kgs2280]

Maybe it’s stress at your job? That’s how my health started going downhill. It started with my skin. I developed excema on my hands, then it went to my arms and, fortunately, just a little on my face. I didn’t even know what excema was when it started, but after I left that job it started getting a little bit better, but I don’t think it’ll ever all go away. That was the most stressful job I ever had. Or, it’s possibly a family member or a friend that you just can’t seem to get away from. Look at ALL your relationships.

[@mesha0932]

Wow this is so true. This is exactly part of why I’m divorcing my narcissistic husband.

[@malyacelle9096]

You are beautiful !

[@IAMABUNDANT888]

FACTS! This happened to me. It also happened to my ex's sister-in-law. My ex's brother literally cheated and broke his wife down enough to give her cancer, and then death. NOT WORTH IT.

[@xletragedyx]

Ugh sounds like a toxic family if two brothers were so awful

[@IAMABUNDANT888]

​@@xletragedyx​@xletragedyx Yes it was. These men thought their looks were everything. So glad I got out. It took me a year to become ME again.

[@Diana734]

Neglectful Men age women faster.😔

[@2okaycola]

My ex is ratcheting up stress all day w comments like DID YOU LET THE BABY OUT FRONT? Where is one of the cats? Why are you so stressed out?

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

It’s deliberate so you can’t relax. You are to Do the same thing to that bastard. Luckily he’s an ex now.

[@Melly16yr10]

4B movement ladies and peace ✌️ of mind 😊

[@BP_Excellent]

Yup!

[@Armelleee]

Forever ✨️

[@whitneylawrence1337]

Yep. Toxic relationships will f$&@ you up!

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

0:23 All Of that happened in my relationship. Then I put him out and it all started to reverse. My skin cleared up, I’m losing weight and gaining muscle. My hair looks more healthy and my clothes all fit better. It was so obvious. The changes started to quickly after he was gone. When you have peace of mind you can thrive

[@sandysand284]

The face dimension is a real thing. I feel like my fave is less feminine and I feel like it’s the stress

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

My mom looked older than her twin with her ex husband. Now people think she's my sister after the divorce 😂

[@Steph_1215]

God bless you and your mother!❤❤❤❤

[@squeenx]

I'm not gonna deny that these women felt how they felt but I didn't find any of them to be "ugly". I think they just felt that way because of the garbage men they're dating.

[@beewest5704]

Cortisol caused by stress is one helluva mfker.

[@moonlightstargem1006]

I’m now having nightmares about my brother chasing me in my dreams!!! He’s a demon chasing me everywhere in the dream!! Sometimes i cannot escape him. It used to be my dad mom & my brother who were all demons in my dreams! I don’t trust my adoptive family

[@hayaq9991]

I had an Islamic marriage so there was no dating and it was a short engagement.. the first cycle in that marriage I would lose my ability to walk while on my cycle and then I started peeing on myself before we would walk into the house even if I would use the bathroom 5 mins before going home.. i travel back home bc I married a foreigner and my systems got worst.. I went to an energy healer and she told me your womb is warning you, then my doctor confirmed emotional and psychological problems could cause physical problems and most of the sti are really caused by emotional and mental chronic problems..the healer fixed a lot but I stayed for another year and a half .. then struggled w feminine problems for the next 10 years until I became aggressive about it.. but what surprised me the most was the medication the doctor used to finally fix my problem.. the insurance had to manually authorized my medication a few times..there was no sti involved but she it was bad Now I look at human interaction totally different.. I don’t want to be touched or even stand too close to ppl.. bc ppl energy could f u up.. and his new wife has the same problem.. she is always going to the doc for feminine issues and her cycle of messed up

[@Callimo]

I hate to tell you this, but if your vaginal flora is constantly out of whack and you were with only one man, well, he wasn't only with you. 👀

[@pishtash88]

I was looking at video we made a month prior to breaking up. I was unrecognizable. My face was so round, I had bad acne and had gained 45 lbs since we got together. A lot of the weight gain was stress but also he loved to make sure I was "eating good". I believe he wanted me fat. After the break up, I lost 30 pounds without even trying.

[@dclarke1896]

Facts! Everytime I try to be in a relationship I get fat, my hair starts falling out, I get dandruff the list goes on and when I am single I start glowing, I get lots of rest and feel so peaceful.

[@1922badone]

This is real and the healing/ recovery process is long. Run while you can!

[@ZOI123-w4o]

I don’t think it’s just the guy. I really believe it’s that many women haven’t been taught true respect and boundaries, while understanding the nature of men and women.

[@lob1248]

Absolutely agree. I’ve never suffered from BV, I had the occasional yeast infection but BV? Nope. Since I got with my husband I had that almost every freaking month! I gained a lot of weight and it was so hard to start losing weight. He left two weeks ago and I already lost 5lbs since that day. LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!

[@adwoasam9237]

Thank you ladies for sharing your stories. You are helping people who are listening.

[@jazzyj6640]

Yup! That means he’s not good for you. 😊

[@theee1111]

This is the reason behind the "big back" epidemic.....I promise..

[@BP_Excellent]

True!

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Yes

[@simonesills6388]

This is so true. I didn't even recognize myself afterwards

[@ShaeDaily]

I Love that women are telling the truth! I’ve been here!

[@hannah44282]

They don’t realize how much other women it helps.

[@jams1070]

8:25 ‘something’s wrong with my friend’ that’s so real the care she had for her my heart

[@ariahlea]

God delivered me from a toxic relationship 4 years ago! I was so stressed because this man would degrade my style, clothing choices, and have wild tantrums over silly things. Our very last argument, he cursed me out for having to push back a date because I had finals while in college!! I blocked him and never looked back. His parents want us back together but they do not understand the dark side of their son! These days, people always tell me I have a glow when they run into me. 🥰🦋

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Trust, they know the nature of their son. They want to dump him on some poor girl to “fix him” because they failed to do so as parents.

[@AzuraShad0w]

Everything mentioned is true , my cortisol was so high that my entire body was swelling , I had to wear a size 38 because my skin was sore and clothing would hurt , yet when I stepped on a scale I only weighed 56kg . I couldn't wear makeup because it felt heavy and painful on my skin , my face & neck became darker than the rest of my body , hair became really thin , I aged 10 years in from 2020 to 2022 .

[@lemonsa1804]

Happened to me too. Severe cystic acne, worst TMJ, tinnitus, muscle loss, back aches, brain fog, and mentally declining. I was 22-27 years old then!!! Now I don't have any of those issues. I have a few grey hairs years later, but damn, never been more beautiful and confident. Grateful for waking up and for realizing I deserved to be healthy and happy. I wish fewer women had a savior complex when it came to sad and broken "GROWN MEN."

[@AminaAhmed-n8g]

They will think they can do better so they leave you after upgrading themselves

[@tracyjacksonjackson4221]

RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY FROM THESE PEOPLE!!!! DEMAND TIME ON YOUR OWN. i WOULD GO AS FAR AS TO SLEEP IN ANOTHER ROOM!! JUST DON'T GIVE THEM ANYTHING.

[@GIGI-lv1qt]

This happened to me it’s a real thing I’m just now working out and getting my beauty back now I’m dating and men will say you are beautiful and I find it hard to believe them I didn’t know he did a number on me mentally anyone who reads this I hope it helps you to leave sooner than later

[@oluochanyango7920]

"I miss her..." 😭😭

[@kgs2280]

It will even get worse if you stay. That’s how a lot of women get immune diseases, which can kill you. I speak from experience.

[@VendieSolde]

This is so true!!

[@Unshakable369]

Priscilla, you look beautiful an peaceful my sister. Love the topic never considered now I see it.

[@SuperDev1n]

The grey tooth sent Me.

[@jijianais4606]

you made it to. 30k followers and its June....go get ittttt

[@angieliyah1484]

I had eczema breakout on my face during my last relationship. I had never had eczema before and I was 42 when it popped up. It was initially a small dime size, then it took up my entire chin and was going into my cheeks. It was flaking and turning my face purple. Cleared up and has not come back within months of us breaking up. He was stressing me out and I don't think he had good hygiene so his beard would prick into my chin when we kissed and just f*** my s*** up :-( He was also mentally draining, I was so thankful when he left. I usually miss my exes for a little while - all I felt was relief.

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

NPD’s are good at doing this.

[@chickenfeet9558]

My daughter is married to a narcissist and I think he is also an alcoholic. But if I say anything she gets mad at me. She could have done better. I can’t stand him, but she will have to find out for herself I suppose

[@Que_te_mporta1]

Now I feel bad because I’ve never been in a relationship and I feel that I ve become uglier with time.

[@ShaeDaily]

Also getting drastically large or small! I’ve done both in bad relationships! 2 times was enough. I’m so much better now.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Literally watching my best friend go through this in real-time. Will not let his useless bummy ass go. Affecting her hygiene and all….😔

[@AztecPsyche]

This makes me wanna tell my story, sigh

[@Ms.K_LaTrailera]

Unfortunately, this is true. The unwanted stress that is put on your body can age you. I was dealing with a demeaning so - called man who had drug/ alcohol problems and was freshly divorced, and it turned out, I didn't really like him 😂😅😂. I left for my sanity and never looked back. Beautiful ladies & gents, cause there are also narcissist women out there too, please leave for peace. Stay safe ❤.

[@HeyThatsMe3]

This is why I will and can never deny God. My relationship with a narcissist lasted a staggering three months because God pulled me out. And honestly He warned me before hand and I was disobedient and tried to walk around Him. So honestly I deserved that three months of hell. And now here I am a year later still trying to pick up the pieces.

[@sosoc2616]

I lost weight from the anxiety he brought into my life.

[@vanda3393]

True happen with me after a toxic relationship

[@ginafrost1385]

Thanks for the video

[@jfreeman2422]

It's true!!!!!

[@Emilyb21-dm3bf]

I had this when they never complimented me put me down and just didnt make me feel good. I had sours wonky eye it reflects parental relationship for me i was emotionally abused and neglected. I had to be alone to love me so i never put my self worth and how i felt in a persons hands. They could make or break me its a sign you need therapy you need self love and leave soon as they make you feel bad cause they make you think it you trust yourself and leave. You will meet a nice person but you have to love your self and not allow someone to have control over your well-being self love.

[@xletragedyx]

They make you tired all the time, and sick.

[@TequilaButler-j4h]

Look for the book: Ashy Men Will Make You Fat. Read the book 📚.

[@MadamKaiju]

And the men asking for my number wondering why I'm not married or have kids. Nah, I'm good.

[@ladyinsane25]

Case in point: Liz and Big Ed

[@CallMeErie]

Please check out the song “Pretty Without You” by Vicki Vox. It fits this topic perfectly.💖

[@BP_Excellent]

🎶I’m so beautiful without you. Now my skin glows and it shines like glue…pretty without you🎹

[@bm5_5_5]

Thanks so much for the song recommendation it’s fab ❤

[@CallMeErie]

@@bm5_5_5 You’re very welcome.😊

[@CallMeErie]

@@BP_Excellent 😊 🎶 🎵 🎤😊