Woman Says Most Of the Lifestyle Creators Are S Workers

Woman says most of the luxury lifestyle creators are s workers.

[@reginayfavors]

So all the male content creators on Instagram are not S workers? Black women don't have to sell themselves to make money. We have ideas, businesses, education, etc. Where is she getting this?

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Thanks

[@RawrB3riii]

Thank you for saying this. Everyone is always trying to double check how women are getting things. Meanwhile men out here renting houses, cars, prop money...but they ain't blasting that constantly.

[@objectiveintuition77133]

Been meeting a lot of dl male sw’s lately 😏

[@cocoace7587]

​@@objectiveintuition77133 Of course, that's where the BIG money is . I bet men get paid 2 or 3 times more than women . 😊

[@M-atk]

A lot of those male insta baddies/ influencers are gay4pay Or a quiet bisexual.

[@brookew2403]

Giving up your 🐱 for “words of affirmation and a wish that won’t come true!” I’m sorry but I hollered at that part 😂

[@LifeAboutToya]

I love Africans when they spit facts lmaoo😅

[@TheGhostofAbigailMills]

She was absolutely right, and I'm glad she said it 🤭

[@brookew2403]

⁠@@LifeAboutToyaand everything they say sounds so poetic!

[@graciam3020]

That part lolll

[@mysticmoves999]

Lol but my good sis ain't told no lie lol I had to say ouch because I fell for it but it still was hard facts 😅😅😅

[@colleenmariet]

I’m here for “stop giving it up for words of affirmation and a wish that will never come true.” 😂

[@GGoddess95]

It’s so dangerous to assume all women who are comfortable in life are SW’s. The reality is: Trust fund babies exist. Women who date and marry wealthy men exist. Women who have advanced degrees and high earning careers exist. Women who own and operate successful businesses exist. Women who save and invest their money well exist. This is not denying that SW’s exist, but too many women, especially black women, work hard to earn the comfort they have in life. BM by and large do not provide this comfort and actually create financial distress and expose women and children to poverty. This is backed by several studies and stats. It breaks my heart that younger BW feel that their value lies in their body only and will use this rhetoric to justify selling themselves. When you sell yourself, you sell your soul. SW can ruin your life due to all of the dark energy surrounding that industry. Women have come up missing, stalked, unalived, became addicts, developed mental health issues etc. all because they put a price on their body. That is NOT how you create and maintain abundance.

[@ruthiemill]

Some people are incapable of thinking critically 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. They’ll just put everyone in one judgmental box without any facts whatsoever 😩

[@heyizz]

I had a disgusting experience of moids assuming I was a SWer when I was having a nice dinner. With my FATHER. I got so mad I paid for my own dinner but I would've decked them if only I didn't run the risk of facing jail time.

[@GGoddess95]

@@heyizz I’m so sorry you experienced that - that’s absolutely horrendous. I used to be friends with a girl in undergrad who could NOT mind her business. She was constantly pointing other people out and poking fun at them for no reason. We were having dinner one night and she pointed out a younger black woman with an older black man and immediately assumed she was a sugar baby. I was so disgusted by her because there was nothing inappropriate or intimate about their interaction. They literally looked like they could be dad/daughter or grandfather/granddaughter. I stopped being friends with the girl soon after. I think it also speaks to the fact that people aren’t used to seeing black women with healthy or close relationships with black men generally.

[@heyizz]

@@GGoddess95 I'm not a black woman but the 🌽 brainrot has absolutely consumed men to the point any young woman with someone decades older than them is not potentially seen as a daughter first, although I can imagine it's worse for black women. It's absolutely disgusting and that is why I don't feel sorry for men when they complain about being lonely. They did it to themselves.

[@JocelynJocelyn]

This is the comment i was looking for ! Yes some of these may be SW but some of them are actually providing for themselves or are provided for….black luxury is real and doesn’t always have to come with some strings

[@Peacepeacelovelove]

So for a BLK woman to have money she has to be selling herself? The jealousy and envy is at an all time high ladies, even amongst family. My mother spoke with me on the phone the other day, and mentioned that a family member felt like it was inappropriate for me to be posting luxury photos, considering I’ve had a few financial problems this past year. I let my mom know that I do me, don’t have any kids, very little bills, and most of the items that I wear are things that I bought when I did have much more money, I’m not apologizing for leveling my life up, to appease family members who made bad decisions their entire life..people see what they want to see👑

[@turquesa_8056]

I really am kicking myself because I have wasted a lot of money on my family and have nothing to show for it. But when I am broke they don't bother me.

[@DorisPayne348]

You’re trying to fool people as if you STILL have that type of lifestyle! Thats the problem🤷🏽‍♀️

[@PickyVickyVindictive]

I mean if you're with some dude as old as your grandpa?

[@jenniferterry4665]

That girl was right how a lot of them are selling it but trying to portray to their followers something entirely different. If it doesn’t apply then let it fly but quite a few of them have been exposed. The YT who was exposed by Kodak Black for being flown out and being broke, Tiffanery(or whatever her name is that ended up with Floyd Maywhether) and many more do it.

[@SibsM93]

You're missing the point. Also she said "a lot of" and "some of". She didn't say ALL.

[@Ebbbb131]

Giving it up for money is better than giving it up for words of affirmation! My woman is bold and real!!!!!!

[@justinebailey5333]

Yassssssssss so many be sold on a dream

[@SmileyAdventures]

Clock it!

[@phiwelove]

If money is what you value😂 also there is a difference between being in a relationship with someone who gives you money, love and words of affirmation and being with men for money in exchange for sex.

[@annieothername]

@phiwelove the only difference is if both people in the relationship view it as such lol but I think the point is there’s no shame in it. Do as you do to get what you desire 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@objectiveintuition77133]

💯

[@Childfree334]

Absolutely UNTRUE. I have never had to sleep with men for them to pay for anything for me. When men want to be in your company or want to spend time with you, THEY WILL PAY. Just ask the OF girls. Men pay for their lifestyles without ever having met them or touched them IRL.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Exactly

[@JaiK64]

Thank you! Coming from a married woman I have had dudes hand me money, buy concert tickets, etc etc etc just to be "considered" as an option "IF" I ever get a divorce because they think I'm "the one" for them 😅😂 some men are just crazy 😂

[@helena3631]

Men pay for $20 a month only fans subscriptions and buy the women things off her wish list but they complain about 304’s lol these women women wouldn’t make money if these incels don’t subscribe moms you these same men don’t take they women in dates and complain about money but have a OF subscription lol

[@babyg7796]

I agree with you, my ex paid for everything it I was expected to be a “good girlfriend.” But referencing the OF girls is still apart of s-work. No they don’t physically “touch” them, but they are still selling nudity, sexual acts performed on themselves & sexual fantasies which still legally falls under the s-work umbrella.

[@kalimbaayinde25]

😂😂😂😂

[@Ilovetheodore1717]

I don’t like how she pin pointed black women. Like we can’t have money unless we selling 🐈. Women get educations and start businesses, just because women won’t tell where they work or what they do doesn’t mean their money isn’t legitimate. I smell jealousy!!!! And even if a woman is selling 🐈. That will never be MY business because it’s HER 🐱, not mine. No one is ENTITLED to her 🐈’s information. lol.

[@boitshokomabaza]

my opinion exactly

[@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear]

Right?

[@Fungigi]

It sounds like shes mad that her stuff makes NO money. It sounds like rage bait for red-pill men to make them feel better for not making any money. Let it go sis. Figure out how to work remotely, save, invest,etc.

[@theijeomalyons]

End of story 💅🏿

[@helena3631]

This the biggest sex workers is white women …if you’re going to date men don’t date a broke man these women are doing well for themselves and men go after them men like to flex on women that have they shit together and buy her things and put her on to other business sad to say the more money I make the more men are willing to pay for dates and random purchases mind you I already have chanel, Ysl, Louis Vuitton that I brought with my money I am over bags I am all about investment ie personal trainer ,buissness etc and what people don’t know that thier women that make over 10k and date men for money and keep they own money for investments .. what these women don’t understand is u get more out of situations when ur not having sex dating a man that spends on you is not prostitution meeting guys and he ask for sex…these guys want to spend zero but want to invite you back to his house so have the most fun you can and have he take you on a good date and get what you want because after they have sex with you your getting nothing get all your stuff upfront after sex these men have post sex clarity and you will get cut off .. most of these folks in debt that are traveling and buying designer are in credit card debt .. my associate from college went to Dubai,Paris Thailand and all the places that folks is going now back in 03/04 they are in major credit card debt and student loans they net worth like -300k don’t be jealous of other people you will scream if you knew

[@adellturner3846]

Genuine question. Why are ppl so invested in what others are doing ONLINE?

[@NamasteInYourLane]

Because it's online and we can see it. Lol we will never live in a world where people don't have an opinion about what they see.

[@Zucchinis7]

Because of what the lady at 6:48 and the lady after her in the white top said

[@adellturner3846]

@@Zucchinis7i listened and…my question still stands. why do ppl care? If I see something online that I think is cute. I like and keep scrolling. Or if they have a link. I can purchase. It’s never: ‘what are they doing to get that?’ How did they get it?’ Why don’t I have that?’ Bc idc. Now! If they were trying to promote a “business” then I’d understand. But then again 🐱 is one so…

[@CookieC23]

The spirit of jealousy and comparison!

[@isalisa909]

Because it’s online. If you didn’t want people to care or say something YOU don’t agree with or easily will offend YOU then you shouldn’t put it online. But people especially women love competing with each other online

[@elinile2311]

I never understood why people are quick to shame women for sex work but turn a blind eye to male sex workers

[@SmileyAdventures]

Misogyny def plays a role

[@djlivvy46]

They turn a blind eye to the male customers too, yet they are the reason why the industry even exists in the first place.

[@TheCarnivoreSoprano]

This.

[@naediggs4816]

​@@djlivvy46exactly!! And these male customers are why women get r/ped, mol/sted and p/mped to turn them out and FORCE them into SW, also!!

[@susiebear3316]

​@@djlivvy46facts

[@Cantetinza17]

Yeah, she's not all wrong. I have a friend who used to work at a luxury store. She said a lot of the time they buy it and return it, or rent it. As for the old men I'm pretty sure they are putting out. I say if you provide your own bag, then you don't have to "get the bag". Also if we would teach our daughters to not be impressed by money we might be able to prolong unnecessary experiences. Think to yourself, why does this 60-something year old man have interest in my 20-something me? Don't let men fly you out nowhere! Even though it's the men seeking them out, they don't have to comply. They don't have to take the money.

[@isalisa909]

Like Kat Williams said “you can always say no”.

[@JaiK64]

The first girl sounds super jealous of those women's lifestyles. Why is she worrying about these women and their luxury lifestyles. Not everyone is selling or even has to sell the cat to get a man to do great things for them. And for the ones who are selling cat for the luxury lifestyle, so tf what! And I repeat, SO TF WHAT!!

[@helena3631]

This she want to live that lifestyle too but she doing sex work for free .. I had a women years ago when I was dating get jealous of me when I stated my boyfriend takes care of housing an I so other stuff it’s not like I didn’t have the money I was traveling RN at the time she was mad that I was not splitting bills 50/50 mins you she was always complaining to me that she was paying more like 70/30 she became very mean spirted and jealous because I wasn’t in the same dynamic she was in that she agreed to do.. I think most black women agree to 50/50 because we want a man and that is the only way since the males in our community don’t feel they should provide anything and the women become resentful… I learned my lesson in my 20’s never discuss relationship dynamics with women I haven’t vetted because these women are miserable

[@LLove-fi9xp]

I was thinking the same thing. Like if you can't sell yours just say that 😂

[@LakeishaLifestyle]

Yea some of them did sound salty. What other people doing with their bodies is their business.

[@DorisPayne348]

If they sell their cat and end up unalived, SO TF What!

[@kylieking8163]

@@DorisPayne348ops

[@studabakerb]

My parents, especially my dad’s opinion is that girls who’ve never been provided, protected and cherished by their fathers and taught that they have precious and sacred value and shown healthy relationships from their parents end up in sex work. He’s coming from a clinical psychologist perspective in statistics. The amount of abused and forgotten girls is a crisis on the planet. These girls grow up not knowing their worth and statistically if they were sexually abused they believe it’s normal to have men sexualize, dehumanized and demean them. Having wealth is not synonymous with prostitution but it is absolutely alarming the superficial and sexualized lifestyle content online and listing to the women tell their stories of sex work is heartbreaking and terrifying. Predatory men and abused women are an epidemic.

[@s.tiaira9081]

No lies told

[@Daydreamerr13]

Facts

[@NamasteInYourLane]

Girl, that is patriarchal BS. Most people in general who aren't protected as children can end up in toxic situations or develop dysfunctional characteristics. You don't have to be a psychologist to know that. Most women and girls are harmed by the men around them. That includes their fathers. Women and girls would actually be safer amongst a community of women to protect them. This idea that men are natural protectors is a lie created by patriarchy. Men are naturally selfish and self serving. Females are the true protectors. If you look in nature, it's the females protecting the young. Not the males.

[@seabreeze4559]

repetition compulsion

[@audrablue515]

No wonder women are wanting to remain single and child free if they grow up in these kinds of households. It all comes down to men's bad behaviour that has long term consequences that society doesn't see until it's too late.

[@beyfan878]

I hate that other women assume a woman's wealth must come from men or selling sex (which if a women wants to do that - that's her perogative). It diminishes women's accomplishments. Some of us have parents who made smart financial decisions. People in my field earn upwards of £200k before bonuses, mid career in the US salaries of $700k are not uncommon and that's before quarterly bonuses which can easily be 7 figures annually. And most people usually have other streams of income. And this is why I am glad, I stay off social media. I keep my life private bc it's clear I will be accused selling my ass or drugs etc., when I have so many letters after my name, my parents set me up financially and I have multiple streams of income. I work hard and play hard. I hate that this is coded specifically at BW too.

[@shakirasmith6454]

Thank you for this comment!! 👏👏🫶🏾❤️. I say black woken can’t have anything 😒🙄. We are the most policed group on this planet.

[@LPcapricorn1980]

I know people gonna come for me for what I'm about to say, but it's definitely a bunch of pick me's that are most concerned. The same ones that will scream from the mountain tops how they got their own, then be demonized by the very men they are trying to impress for being a so-called "modern woman". It's jealousy and very performative. No one should have to explain where their money came from if they don't want to. And you're right, this narrative that BW can't be born into money, moved up the corporate ladder, made good financial and business decisions is so out of pocket.

[@gee_emm]

Lol. Aoki is Russell & Kimora Lee Simmons's daughter. 0:34 It came out a while back she is dating a much older, wealthy man. I don't think she's a sex worker, just naïve, misguided and working through her daddy issues.

[@helgapataki4156]

Some do sell 🐈 🍆, some scam & some fund their experiences themselves via hardwork or planning ahead. A lot of people don't have a place to stay or live w/ family but promote/ post a lifestyle. Some have HELP w/ their bills or lifestyle. Just live your own life cuz baby you'd be SURPRISED! I remember a family member said to my Mom, "you don't know what it takes for me to be me" it wasn't until years later we saw the effect that her lifestyle took on her appearance/ health & til this day I ain't seen #beauty like her ever #JustBeCareful ❤

[@PaperMario64]

This is just another opportunity for catty women to feel better about themselves by putting someone else down. I am not defending frauds and scammers. They always expose themselves eventually. I feel like the tone of the ladies is not concern. It’s just them stroking their ego by shooting down others.

[@solisinvictus4238]

See, I don't care if people want to do sex work. There's nothing wrong with that and sex work is work for sure. However I don't like the misleading behavior of influencers. That's the point for me. I used to be naive myself and then I quickly found out no These Girls Aren't getting this stuff for nothing that's what rubs me the wrong way acting as if this is all this manifestation and it's just falling out of the air

[@EunMin-yt1xx]

Exactly. 💯. They should own what they do.

[@nanomia]

THIS

[@LoveMe0516]

I can definitely understand that completely, that’s extremely disingenuous of them and many influencers do it.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

Exactly! Don’t have any shame in your game!

[@princesskrazy13]

So here's the thing, we are ALL selling ourselves in some way shape or form. We all just decided what we feel comfortable selling.

[@WalkingUprighteously]

Hmm, never thought about it that way! 🤔💯👏🏾👏🏾

[@chanellover2143]

Big difference between selling your body and selling a product you created in a business. I suppose you had poor parents and they never taught you the difference

[@sherikaglasgow1714]

@@chanellover2143I think the op is referring to how we literally sell our bodies and minds for the right price. It’s called ‘working’. Except this type of ‘work’ is socially acceptable

[@Michelle.1952]

​@@chanellover2143 and yours never taught you reading comprehension or better yet, reading between the lines. If they had, you'd be able to decipher that she wasn't referring to products in terms of the other things we sell 🙄

[@Eric-ej3oy]

...and we love it. Its in our DNA and its been passed down like the religion of Christianity from generation to gene to gene. Thats to also say, we love what we hate and hate what we love.

[@Egg_Apron]

Before patriarchy the Priestesses lived in temple complexes to serve their Goddesses. Part of that service was initiating m3n into the sacred sexuality practices of their culture. The men visited the temples and brought appropriate gifts. There was great reverence and reciprocal relationships were part of the experience of sacred s3xuality. This is where the word "prostitute" was first used as an insult, because patriarchy was determined to degrade women's sacred Sisterhood and Goddess s3xuality. It's wrong to shame women for demanding a return of value for our work, no matter what kind it is.

[@objectiveintuition77133]

💯

[@rachaelalys]

!!!!!!!

[@neema1]

Women are educated. The have skills. They have businesses. They have huge platforms that make them money. They have sought high paying jobs. Why is that woman saying women living lavishly are selling they 😾. Yes there are a few of those but lets not generalize as if women are not working hard out here

[@tjaspire]

She is not saying that women are not educated or that they can't have nice jobs. She is addressing the women who are dating men for money, and the women who have funds but no explanation of where they got it from. They flaunt their lavish lifestyle, but they are not sharing what they did to get that bag. She is comparing women who sleep with men for financial gain/lifestyle to se× workers.

[@dulcemaria22120]

We would save ourselves all this headache by not worrying about what others are doing with their money. And the girl talking about food stamps is adding to the stigma of using ebt. Unless you have many kids, you wouldn’t even qualify for food stamps making the max in unemployment.

[@chayo4537]

Ebt is there for the people to use if you need it. You dont need to have children. You could be a single person working and still qualify for ebt. I know a lot of people who work 2 jobs have children and still use their shit. Its there for a reason. Shame the government where all money comes from babe.

[@rosewatersweettea]

S work is work so let’s not shame the oldest profession in the world. I was a dancer for 3 years and it’s hard work, sales, marketing, consistency, communication skills and staying fit and gorgeous for your job is not easy. Pretending you aren’t one is a whole other subject.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Thank you ❤❤

[@helena3631]

This they shame you for doing it for free but if you get everything paid for your judges remember it’s not your body as look as they’re not trafficked and doing it because of thier free will I see nothing wrong

[@ari-ql4gs]

This part, and shaming it makes girls that were trafficked into it or regret it less likely to try to get out. Because they feel they have no help or support and everyone just assumes theyre a greedy goldigger and dont need help. Demonize the buyers, not the sexworkers. The reality is a lot of women, especially black women cant even get help when theyre in financial crisis. So they gotta do what they gotta do sometimes. But yeah, I agree about not lying about it when you have a luxe lifestyle.

[@SibsM93]

Your last sentence IS the subject. The girls be pretending and showing off on social media. I'm pretty sure you didn't pretend to be a waitress while you were a sex worker. I completely agree that sex work is also work.

[@MsMoniqueLynn]

As a sex worker of over 10 years I can say knowing how men made this entire system to have access to women they normally wouldn’t have it is a type of oppression too since it usually only affects women and benefits men. But as long as we live in this system women shouldn’t be punished and criminalized for it.

[@suzettewilliams1758]

If theyare selling kitty, then it is a business.

[@marcelrobinson]

I am sorry, but that is an unfounded and unreasonable take. I find it hard to believe that most of these women are dating older men solely for financial gain. Many of these women are well-established in their careers and they are not frivolously spending money. The assumption that these women are involved in sex work is just as absurd as assuming that I am dating a woman who is 55 or 60 simply because I want a PS5.

[@tjaspire]

Sir, as a woman, we are telling you the truth: ANYTIME you see a young woman dating a significantly older man, there is money involved. It doesn't matter how well-off she appears. If he didn't have money, she wouldn't be there. That or somebody was inappropriate with her/she had an absent father, and now she has daddy issues. Those are the ONLY reasons, with extremely rare exception. Generally, we are not naturally attracted to old men. You have to ask yourself, why else would they be with an old dude when they could have a young buck in his prime. Please don't be in denial. Now, I personally don't believe in that lifestyle because I think it's gross. I'd rather work for mine, and I'm not dating anyone that I'm not attracted to. But that is the reality of why young women date old men.

[@marcelrobinson]

@@tjaspire Women are diverse individuals with their own unique experiences and perspectives. It is important to recognize that using terms like "young buck" can be inappropriate or questionable. It is unfair to categorize every May-December relationship as solely based on financial reasons, as relationships are complex and multifaceted. It is true that nobody wants to be in a relationship where they feel like a financial burden, regardless of age. It is also important to consider that not every relationship dynamic is a result of trauma, and that different people may have different reasons for being attracted to someone older or younger than themselves. Furthermore, it is worth acknowledging that women may have worked hard to achieve a certain lifestyle, which could include buying expensive items or going on trips. This may involve years of dedication to their career, financial planning, and making personal choices such as delaying or opting out of having children. Each individual's journey is unique, and it is essential to respect and understand the diversity of experiences among women.

[@tjaspire]

​@marcelrobinson Sir, I took the note on "young buck." I could see how that could be interpreted as offensive, although I was not indicating any particular race. But you're a man, so I'm not even sure why you're debating me on women behaviors. Yes we are all unique, but some qualities are innate to all women. And I'm telling you from a woman's perspective: there is no benefit to a young woman dating an old man, except for his money. That is the sad harsh truth that many men can't accept. If a man is old, she is attracted to the money and/or the lifestyle he provides her. Exceptions to this are minuscule. Any man who thinks otherwise is delusional.

[@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358]

@@marcelrobinsonwomen ARE diverse. We’re not partial in liking old men though. I can assure you of that. Please stop coping.

[@marcelrobinson]

@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 who is we? Are you claiming to speak for all women?

[@Immortal_Empress]

There’s a whole deep dive about how the girls trip drama was over exaggerated for clout….

[@JocelynJocelyn]

The first girl was not lyinggg !! I have known a few girls like this; they have tried to initiate me before i stopped that friendship all together. And men are so used to it now i was accosted by an older gentleman offering me $500 for 2hrs….COULDNT BELIEVE HE SO BOLDLY ASKED ME THAT….WHILE I WAS AT WORK! Crazy times we’re in. It’s getting more and more transactional in these streets !

[@JocelynJocelyn]

These women were non black btw

[@celestialbunny]

i know it's not the point but $500 for 2 hours $500 is nothing these days. would have asked for a couple hundred more

[@JocelynJocelyn]

@@celestialbunny lol as a God fearing Christian woman I disrespectfully declined that offer, reported him to the store manager for sexual harassment and hes been banned from our store.

[@KayNaude]

Prostitution is the oldest profession. These men aren’t being forced at gun point. It’s a willing buyer - willing seller market. S work is work. In the bible Jesus forgave prostitutes. Who am I to judge if the creator is well aware of it?

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Thank you ☺️

[@phiwelove]

No ways. I always find it stupid when people say God forgave prostitution to justify it. He also said do not prostitute yourselve. He also forgave murderers and adulterers but that doesn't justify it or mean we should turn a blind eye to it.

[@MsMoniqueLynn]

It is also a form of oppression since it benefits men and affects women. But women are still being criminalized for it which only shows it’s not a profession. I’ve been into all kinds of sex work and I’ve learned to never give a cut to a man that’s why I stopped dancing.

[@KayNaude]

@@phiwelove I’m not really justifying it right but the world hates women who sell their own bodies but will forgive men who gRape. One gave consent and the other violated yet the one who gave it willingly is crucified than the criminal. There’s also a link between child zectual(censored cause KZbin) and women who grow up to be prostitutes. There are so many layers to why some women choose to sell their bodies.

[@susiebear3316]

​@phiwelove gi f your misogynistic sky daddy

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

I see that the main reason people point successful women as SW os because they're not transparent about how they make their money. Which I understand to some degree, but some people just don't want to reveal how, because they have business that rely on secrets/unexplored niches.

[@pynklady11]

Unpopular opinion I find sex workers in general to be smart and strategic. I actually kind of find it dumb for women to NOT be compensated for capitalizing off of their sexuality or feminine essence. It's the oldest business to have ever existed. Technically, even in a relationship or are exchanging sex for a form of security or money or "love."

[@chanellover2143]

If they were smart or strategic they would be marrying rich and truly kept rather than going from man to man and decreasing their value.

[@TheRazorTongue]

@@chanellover2143some people don’t want to kept or prefer variety. And focusing all your energy on a single person all the time can be more exhausting than parceling it out for short periods on a schedule of your choosing. Another way to think of it is would you want to live with your boss if you got paid more money even if they can still give you orders/requests?

[@TheRazorTongue]

@@chanellover2143And someone having multiple partners doesn’t decrease their value, but it does gain them experience. Men who only want women with little or no experience usually have ulterior motives. We have a strange dichotomy. Men are valued for their experience while women are valued for their inexperience. And realize if youth and beauty are the currency in which measure people then you’re losing value no matter what. Virginity is only held to be sacrosanct when someone is in their childbearing years. After that nobody cares nor impressed by elder virginity. EDIT: And realistically speaking when it comes to virginity most males are simply lining up to be the first person to disappoint her. And any guy with skills like that angling for a virgin probably has ulterior motives.

[@kylieking8163]

@@chanellover2143ops

[@kylieking8163]

I don’t mind being in a transactional relationship with a man but jumping from man to man nope that’s just dirty but I’m not judging. I have tried that but it’s not for me . Kudos to the ones who can

[@JaiK64]

8:12 I do not agree with this because selling cat IS a business. Just because it's not the business you approve of doesn't make it any less of a business. Seccs work is one of the most successful and longest running businesses in history.

[@chanellover2143]

You’ll be tossed aside like a pile of trash the moment you age, and by then you’re screwed. Anyone who invests genuinely and saves isn’t in this profession.

[@shopece8807]

@@chanellover2143 milfs in SW do pretty well actually esp the adult film star milfs.

[@objectiveintuition77133]

@@chanellover2143that’s not even true, these men try everything from old women to people with disabilities.

[@Iamblahblah111]

Exactly, I’ve been doing phone secks work for almost two years now never having to get nude or interact physically with my customers and the most ironic part is that now I can afford health care savings food and extra money for traveling and stuff

[@AshaHassell]

Some of us actually have jobs! Yall need to take a break from social media. Yall hating on other women for no reason. Everyone is on different levels, if you watching and feeling jealous, thats a YOU problem! Leave these women alone!

[@AhhhsoNeo]

This.

[@Eric-ej3oy]

Jealousy and envy is a ugly human emotion but somebody gotta be. Lol

[@haahmayan9637]

They still sell cat though 😂 it’s disgusting a girl in my country the Bahamas died she offed herself and was a s worker

[@jenniferterry4665]

@@haahmayan9637BW are always trying to condone dangerous, Self-harming BS amongst each other. I don’t understand it. smh

[@justacoginthefkery]

This. I started working from home during covid & ppl started assuming I was doing s work out of my house or OF because I wasn't leaving the house for work. I was designing t-shirts & taking online courses FFS!

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

I know for a fact that some are "working girls," BUT I do also know that many are _not_ because I've been in online circles where these women work hard and enjoy their life. The ones who are not (i.e., they have a legitimate career) make it very clear what they do for a living because it is a point of pride for them (as it should be).

[@belizeanbaby]

AND THIS IS WHY......I purposely distance myself from "girl groups" & im ok with not having alot of or no lady friends. Now I do have one which i cherish but I LOVE that ive always been a natural confident loner🤷🏽‍♀️. Everybody can't have the same job & I didn't hear NONE of those girls say they offered the one's they're judging a JOB or BETTER ONE...😐

[@objectiveintuition77133]

Not all sw’s do sw out of desperation… where in a day where marriage is stupid and seccs and affection are still in high demand

[@belizeanbaby]

@@objectiveintuition77133 I agree with you 100%

[@Iamblahblah111]

@@objectiveintuition77133exactly when I started doing phone secks work I already had a job/ family support and CHOSE to quit not I can make what I used to in a month in like 3 days to a week

[@SmileyAdventures]

I remember when some people assumed I was a SW because I’ve been to 38 countries and some of those countries I’ve been to 2-4x. Never laid on my back for it. I’m just talented and good with planning. But at the same thing, who cares if there are women that are SWs and providing their own lifestyle??? I don’t get it. If it doesn’t impact me, who am I to judge?

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

At end of the day ...men will treat you like one...especially when they are not in love with you....she can hold out for as long she wants but this is reality...so what she is saying is pointless

[@icantwiththis]

So what? This girl thinks shes better than others bc she just woke up and figured out how the game is played?

[@nanomia]

becasue they're encouraging young girls to do the same. sex work is not for everyone how teaching young girls that they need to sleep with old men to get money is not playing exactly by patriarchy rules?

[@lunav9827]

So you don’t think it’s wrong steering younger woman the wrong way? Atleast be honest

[@elena3476]

​@@lunav9827 litteraly when did she say that?💀 thinking your better bcs you finally figured out the game most ppl already knew is kinda dumb

[@lunav9827]

@@elena3476 I never said I’m better all I said is these woman should stop steering the younger woman the wrong way. These girls want to join the party then get shocked or scared when they find out the truth . & this is literally how you can get someone trapped in that lifestyle

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@elena3476 It’s because they don’t say the quiet part out loud. People who don’t wanna talk about their finances don’t post on social media. People who DO wanna talk about their finances will probably post some “what I do in a day in the life of a *blank*“. These girls wanted to show off living the lap of luxury living in the height of society and telling girls to be ✨delulu✨. That they’re a 🌸lucky girl🌸 and it’s all 🌈manifestation🌈. THOSE are the disengenuous ones. People say it’s no one’s business, but come on. It’s 2024. People who want mass engagement on their profiles don’t post things to have people just mind their business and keep scrolling.

[@melaniebailly3145]

The jet pictures are a scam too, people just rent a place that looks like the inside of a jet and take pictures there.

[@cookie22100]

Baby girl at 9:54 says that she couldn't even afford a can of tuna, but that home shes in looks like she owns the tuna factory. 😂

[@HauntedCadaver]

Can you explain the joke?

[@cgcosh3967]

She couldn’t afford a can of tuna in college. That is what she says.

[@HauntedCadaver]

@@cgcosh3967 yeah, but how does she look like she owns the factory?

[@MsFadir]

Not "she owns the tuna factory" 😂😂😂 I was also 👀 it. While she was was walking around what seemed like a living room. Looked so nice 😍

[@MsFadir]

​@@HauntedCadaverIt looks like she lives in an expensive place, as in, someone that owns a factory and makes a lot of money.

[@tinkerbellrochester7021]

I had my own business and,owned my house and car. But they werent fancy. This was before I was 30,unmarried. I didnt start out with granite counter tops,I had to save my money up for the upgrades. I find it amazing that young women now are jet-setting all over the place without doing the back breaking work I had to do just to get small upgrades in life.If your business is sex just own it,embrace it and move on.

[@EunMin-yt1xx]

Exactly. 💯. Women who have worked or earned their own luxury are likely to be older. And not super young. It is hard to stay super fit when you have a stressful job. Only stressful jobs pay $$$. Just so everyone knows. There is no such thing as a low stress job that pays $$$$.

[@LPcapricorn1980]

​@@EunMin-yt1xxnot accurate at all. My last job, though it was a contract(temp HR) paid nearly 6 figures and I did maybe an hour's worth of work all day every day. Plus I'm a vet and receive compensation for that. Also, there are lots of tech jobs that are low stress and you just monitor a screen all day. Many people are able to work two tech jobs concurrently for this reason. Who on earth would willingly sign up for two stressful jobs?

[@daishawilliams8301]

I used to always admire these IG models and influencers and I always wish to be like them when I was a little girl but now that I'm older I realize what did they do to get that money because they didn't do it positively they did something strange for a piece of change.😊

[@princessofperfection]

You sound extremely jealous lmao. Wives are selling themselves FOR LIFE for a little 5k ring, just to be treated like a slave. I'd much rather be a SW and actually be spoiled and appreciated, instead of being a disrespected servant to an ungrateful man and some ungrateful kids.

[@turquesa_8056]

You do that when you are married too lol.

[@zoe0187]

At least they are getting paid instead of proudly giving it for free.

[@haahmayan9637]

@@turquesa_8056no you don’t 😂 that’s not in the Bible so stop spewing bs!

[@Enriquez2222]

@@haahmayan9637bruv, marriage is a business. You’re selling your body to your husband, he uses you for sex, free labour and to birth his children. And you do that for free while others prefer to get paid. No body cares about the book written by a bunch of men, stories copied from other more older religions twisted to control those who cannot create their own path in life.

[@turquesa_8056]

This seems like sour grapes on the first girls part. It really screams I want a sugar daddy too b

[@Daydreamerr13]

Nah it dont

[@Aileenwasright]

I love how we trivialize any criticism women give each other as automatic jealousy. 🙄 Not everyone wants to humor disgusting men for $$$

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@Aileenwasright Exactly. Unless we’re always 100% down for women, then we’re always bitter and jealous. Advancing, the sisterhood by supporting women and whatever they want to do while dragging the sisterhood down by calling other women bitter and jealous when they disagree. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LoveAndSnapple]

It really doesn’t. It’s just like when young men want to drive expensive sports cars, live in big houses, and live great big lives when they see financial gurus peddle big dreams to them. They fall for the same okey-doke and are disappointed that it’s all a ruse or the steps to get there aren’t what was projected.

[@turquesa_8056]

@@Aileenwasright No they don't but why does it bother other women so much that some women do? Who are any of us to gatekeep what makes them happy? If they are fine living that life then let them live. It isn't affecting your day or mine. Did it affect your ability to pay your own bills? Did it affect your day to day in any way? No, so let them live their life and you live yours plain and simple. Everyone wants to judge me while judging these lifestyle creators like a bunch of hypocrites. 🤷‍♀️

[@BeautifulEarthJa]

8:40 lol! agreed but they are LYING about being sex workers, that is the argument, not that they shouldn't be sex workers

[@bealambwouldya]

Personally if an old man came to me offering 10k a month to be his sugar baby. And the first day to prove it took me shopping on a private jet. Why would I deny being his sugar baby 😂🌝 like sign me up. 🎉 this obsession with what other women do in their personal lives is annoying. Like she’s giving bitter & jealousy

[@bealambwouldya]

The first girl is giving she can’t get it & secretly envies other women that do. Also on the basis of the men she entertains

[@EunMin-yt1xx]

What if the man was married and had kids? Would you still do it then?? Most likely. Lol. Most sugar daddies are married fathers, you know that right???

[@EunMin-yt1xx]

​@@bealambwouldyaI disagree. I think the first girl is pointing out the dishonesty. It's true, if some young very attractive girl is posting all this luxury photos, where is she getting that money from?? It can only be from a few means. 1) SW, 2) Parents, 3) her own work/job. The thing is, a young very fit woman is not likely to have a job that pays that well to afford luxury items. So unless their line of work is posted on their IG profiles, one can guess it would #1 or #2. It's true influencers can also reap $$$ from brand deals, but I am assuming it would have to be after certain number of followers. Also those girls may be posting those luxe items to attract men who are in that circle.

[@gb917]

​@@bealambwouldya Older men's standards are low. I'm sure she could get it. But no one is jealous of someone who has to take old sperm in exchange for bags and shoes.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@EunMin-yt1xx Thank you. Everyone is talking about letting women do whatever they want to and to mind their own business, but still hold onto nasty patriarchal labels like “bitterness” and “jealousy“. Those labels always seem to be reserved for women who just aren’t “girls girls“. That we have to agree with everything that other women do. And you’re right, it’s not about approving or disapproving on what other women do, it’s the transparency behind it. Like babe, if you’re a sugar baby, just say that. If you provide escort services, just say that. I think a lot of young girls leave these things out of their bio and just provide the images so that when or if they want to integrate into regular mainstream society, no one can say for a fact that they were indeed doing sex work. People can make assumptions, but without any concrete evidence no one would ever know. While at the same time wondering how a 19-year-old girl somehow ended up in Turks and Caicos but doesn’t come from money.

[@Reese2336]

This generation is cooked. Prostitution is not a flex and will never be. Promiscuity creates soul ties and those women tend to end up spiritually depleted.

[@princessofperfection]

HAHAHAHAHAHA, I'll remember that while I'm shopping in Barbados with my SD.

[@beeha8133]

So do soul ties only happen to women because we seem to talk about soul ties when it comes to women’s sexuality and never men.

[@StrawberryCakeStudiosYT]

@@beeha8133there was a video I saw recently talking about how men have soul ties or get tired of sleeping with all these women… it’s finally catching up to em. Lemme know if you want the link

[@MsFadir]

​@@StrawberryCakeStudiosYT Please share.

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

That is not the point....firstly we don't live these girl's lives so who are we to judge...if you were born in the streets without parents or neglectful parents its easy to fall into such....life is not rosey...we are all human but we don't live the same life....and why are you focused on them...that surely says something about you..

[@Themandimoore]

I believe she only speaking about a certain GROUP of women!

[@Michelle.1952]

Sure, some are sw, buy i think ppl honestly underestimate how much influencing can pay. They work with companies that make millions even billions per year so 10k+ for one campaign is nothing for them to receive. I struggle with the frustration i feel when it seems that ppl are gatekeeping they're success but honestly i understand. As a woman (esp) 🖤, this is often the assumption when they see your success. Everyone attributes a woman's success to her proximity to a man or she has to show proof of years of hard labor. We as women identify way too much with struggle and it's so unfortunate. Also these women who look down on sw probably also think that being intimate with their partner is a duty in a relationship, especially if he's paying all the bills. But that sounds like sw to me...

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

1. Sex work is still work. It's no more exploitative than any other profession. It's the stigmatization that makes people demonize it. 2. People need to learn what we mean when we say, "What I eat doesn't make you shit." 3. Pocket watching is ridiculous and reeks of envy and jealousy, and it's not cute.

[@llolla110]

I feel like a lot of people are really in support of S work. Haven’t been in proximity of it or a lot of women that are in it are in denial and are trying to cope with flexing on the internet. Do what you want in life . Idc. But if you get mad about getting cat called or touched incorrectly . S work will eat you alive. It literally ages you. The women I know that do it are very mentally unstable because of the work. So if you are ok with crying yourself to sleep every night and using dr*gs to cope then go for it 🤷🏾‍♀️.

[@princessofperfection]

LMAO I'm literally in business school and my tuition is being paid for by my loving parents, I'm happy as hell, and being spoiled by every man on my roster. You vanilla girls really be making things up about SWs to help yourselves cope with the fact that you are unable to get the princess treatment you wish your bfs gave you. So when you see a SW getting it, you have to convince yourself that she's *actually* miserable to quell the jealousy lmao.

[@llolla110]

@@princessofperfection I knew one of y’all gonna get offended by what I said even though I literally said idc 😂. Baby girl I’m an American black woman who lives in west London . I’m around affluent people all the time because of my career path (actor) . I have literally told I should be a model several times so if I wanted to be a sugar baby and get flown out ( had a lot of opportunities) I can. I’m just warning people that these rich men will chew you out . If you on a boat in Dubai and you are told to do something you don’t want to do it’s not an option to say no. They will in alive you and beat the charges because rich men run the country there

[@llolla110]

@@princessofperfection I’m just saying when S workers are flexing, say the good things along with the bad things. Yes the ysl bag is nice but also tell them how you almost got or actually got R worded when a guy you were with wouldn’t take no for an answer. That’s all I’m saying. If me wanting to warn people to protect them makes me vanilla so be it 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@princessofperfection]

@@llolla110 Obviously you do care, since you wrote TWO separate paragraphs, hoping I'd read them LMAO. I read the first sentence and stopped because it was a lie; you definitely DO care, and are very jealous. Have a good morning, girl, because I certainly will. Now, let's see; what dress am I wearing to brunch today with my rich boyfriend? Muah

[@llolla110]

@@princessofperfection mmmhhh something about the way you are typing is letting me know you don’t live the life you are talking about for real because the actual S workers know what I’m talking about. P.s : stop calling him a trick if he only buys your food 😘. Have a blessed day ❤️

[@unpopular2]

Everyone’s Morals Are Different 😊 In A Relationship If You’re Sleeping With Your Man & He’s Taking Care Of Your Bills & Things It’s The Same Thing In All Actuality .. He’s Not Taking Care Of You For Free & Your Not With A Man Unless He’s A Provider 9/10

[@lunav9827]

lol not really the same because your men hopefully actually likes & cares for you. & if you’re a sham then you’re working you deserve to be taken care of

[@missbae_]

I thought Kelly was lying at first , but I KNEW for sure she was lying when she mentioned the ebt story!! Nobody is trying to go to a restaurant with ebt, pure rubbish…Telling all those lies when simultaneously trying to get us to see her luxury background…people really are crazy as hell lol

[@cocoace7587]

It's illegal to sell body parts . So , no one will admit it in writing. 😂

[@LoveAndSnapple]

We gotta be honest with ourselves. A lot of people in the comment section saying that sex work is work, but honestly, is that what you’re promoting to your daughters? I also hear that a lot of women are professionals and make their own money and not mind what other women are doing. Is that what you want for your nieces and sisters? You can say “sex work is work“ until the cows come home, but just saying it isn’t going to do anything. You have to really advocate for someone when they’ve been doing sex work for 15 years and they call you for a reference in the office. When they want to be taken seriously as a political candidate. If they feel like coming back to the church. You can’t just say “sex work is work” for people who are away from you, but wouldn’t wish that for the people who are closest to you. Sex work is the oldest profession. But the women who participate in it are considered the scum of the Earth. And don’t get me started on “what about male sex workers?“ You know damn well no one gives a damn about male sex workers. One of the many double standards between men and women. And yes, let’s not be stupid. Sugar baby content was incredibly viral not that long ago and there were plenty of creators pushing sugaring and escort content onto many young women. Many young girls who haven’t even given life a good honest try asking what websites to go to. The lady in the pink tank top is right. If you’re a pharmacist, a lawyer, a corporate spokesperson, whatever then people are very proud to put that in their bio. But whenever I see a sex worker’s profile and she’s loud and proud with it, you can definitely tell that she’s a sex worker. Some people say that sex work is bad, but I’m with the pink tank top girl: If you’re a sex worker just say that.

[@babyg7796]

While I do agree with what you’re saying, I think what you were referencing is not what the original creator was referring to. A lot of these girls are following the IG Baddie lifestyle and the rap girls are glamorizing it when it really is S-Work and a lot of us are ignorant to it. One of my best friends from high school….had us thinking she was going to Dubai with our other friend for a “trip.” Girl one of the girls slipped up and exposed that they were the “entertainment” on these yachts. I don’t know specifics but after that one trip she went off the deep end and is heavily into the nightlife now--but the bags, hair, make up, and apartment is always LAID!👀When I tell you I was BIG ENVIOUS because I work 3 jobs and still couldn’t afford a girls trip…when I found out that’s what it was I was so happy to take my ass back to work lol

[@LoveAndSnapple]

And see that’s the whole point that EVERYONE is missing. Is that yes, you can be envious of what they seem to have, what they seem to be able to do when you’re in the dark. But as soon as the truth comes out you’re like oh… No, thank you! It’s not about being bitter or jealous. It’s just the transparency makes the decision better. Because everyone has a choice you can see her and be like oh I don’t mind doing that too! Or you can say no thank you I’m go back to my 9 to 5. It doesn’t make us any better or worse off than the next woman but transparency is key.

[@tandzilebhembe1255]

Truthfully speaking I don’t support any type s work at all but idc like if that’s the life they want let them be that’s none of our business and another thing I don’t like how people think you need to sell yourself to have a good life some of us had fathers and mothers that spoiled us and some have good jobs and some are just lucky enough to be dating a or married to a generous rich man.

[@wadana2116]

Ok y’all doing a lot in these comments. Yes there are women that aren’t sex workers that can afford the life but a lot of the insta famous 20somethigns of all nationalities are high paid escorts. I support the naked hustle but they lying acting like they got the things they have selling tummy tea

[@MsFadir]

"Tummy tea" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jenniferterry4665]

These comments honestly show me why b m say the things they do about us. We’re always condoning the most harmful/dangerous behaviors amongst each other in the name of the “sisterhood.” We can call each other about EVERYTHING ELSE besides this? Give me a break 🙄

[@MsFadir]

@@jenniferterry4665 Everything in the name of 'get that bag' 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

@@jenniferterry4665I agree with you !

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@jenniferterry4665 Oh my gosh, yes! I wish I could like this 10 times over. Why is it that with anything else women bring the hammer down on other women to the point of Pickmeism, but when it comes to self preservation, it’s “mind your own business“ and “it’s giving bitter and jealousy“ 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@coolida23511]

I love the fact that you actually display the handles of the stitches. A lot of people don't do that and it's extremely annoying.

[@ten25.]

She’s a hater- who cares

[@vcutler4735]

Some folks just dont post their job because even if they post to social media sometimes some parts of their life they like to keep private. Or for their employment they have to keep a certain amount of secrecy about where they work. The people who start throwing alligations of S work just make it clear they are bitter and jealous. Like you see someone posting and your first thought is to be jealous and petty? Ok girl enjoy sitting in your unhappiness.

[@chanela.7786]

Same LinkedIn is the only social media where I’ll post my job and even then I haven’t updated to for my current one🤣

[@vcutler4735]

@@chanela.7786 I have seen people stalked via LinkedIn so it's honestly smart to not put your current employer on there!

[@cjwilliamsvi]

Second reaction video, I remember that story. She had nothing to back up those claims she made about the girl. The room was dirty, yes. But that doesn’t mean the girl was selling 🐱. She had no evidence to back up that claim.

[@squash6497]

Many of them are trust fund kids from the beginning, and have the connections to meet rich guys to start with. It's a lot easier to become a lifestyle or fashion influencer if you live in a well-lit, aesthetically pleasing house or flat. Who's gonna watch a morning routine in a dark basement apartment or trailer home?

[@zero1188]

This is true to a certain extent. Basically its i was hurt and used in the past, now im going to hurt them

[@StrawberryCakeStudiosYT]

Get therapy 💖💖💖

[@celestialbunny]

hurt who

[@celestialbunny]

with s work ?

[@iceprincess2134]

I just assume most of those that never talk about their jobs either have rich parents or they're up to their eyeballs in debt and it's all fake.

[@srideout91]

She is not wrong. I encourage people to look up Dubai porta potty models. It will give you an insight of what these women do to get their designer goods and vacations. These women are willing to grade themselves and the most disgusting ways to get these labels.

[@Daydreamerr13]

Lol this is old news since 2017. I remember this convo on tumblr back in the day. Its been known lmao

[@LPcapricorn1980]

I have had plenty of people think I was doing something strange for change when in reality I was in the military and had my everyday corporate job....so basically two incomes. I would buy whatever I want, take trips a few times a year(sometimes back to back) and bought my first house and sold it for a nice profit. I just let them think what they wanted to think. Yes, they actually asked me to my face a few times how I'm affording all this and I just played into the joke. It's no one's business and more importantly.....why you pocket watching!?! If someone was funding my life....how does it affect any of you in any way? Sounds like envy to me. Also sounds like the manosphere talking points. Newsflash, spewing off their talking points won't get you Scooby snacks to make them choose you.

[@TrustingTruth]

I agree that this narrative is damaging to those of us who ARE NOT S-workers and actually work and grind the normal way to pave the way for ourselves while being celibate and waiting for the right man. It is shocking how many people don’t know how to travel on a budget or how many people don’t know how to invest. Compound interest is a blessing as well.

[@bluehibiscus502]

So people are out here really believing that men are spending their money on those females & getting nothing in return???🤣🤣🤣.

[@adminRQ]

When will people learn to mind their own business? Whether or not someone is giving affection in exchange for money, power, or status....is NONE of my business. I know that marriage is legalised sex work, plus the women who marry usually end up in deficit. And they aren't selling their bodies, they are selling a service. People who think female sex workers are "selling their soul" are forgetting there are ppl whose job is to protect corporations that poison the groundwater and lead to the deaths of millions. Companies that persuade mothers in rural communities to use formula, which is free until the breast milk dries up. Then babies die like flies. And then all of our "fast fashion" is made by enslaved children. And worse. But that's apparently all legitimate, "legal", capitalist labour. The hypocrisy and misogyny directed at female sex workers leaves their industry absent of legislation to protect the workers. Sex traffickers get very few legal consequences. Victims of pedo rings are actually JAILED when they escape their abusers. Women who fall for the respectable bullshit truly think they can offer up sex workers as sacrificial lambs, but TRUST that patriarchy comes for ALL of us.

[@LPcapricorn1980]

They never ever judge the men who fund xes work. Only the women. The same men who get online and talk about these women are the same ones who have paid subscriptions on OF. Then the pick me's shout from the rooftops how virtuous and pure they are and work hard and have their own money....blah blah blah.....whilst the same men demonize the pick me's for being modern women and proclaim how much they don't care.

[@blurhapsody1739]

Laying down with someone just because they’re cute and paid you a compliment is worse in my opinion. I’ll take the corpse man and the bag for 200 Alex. 😂😂😂

[@tallglasscocoa6105]

Jackie Collins author made a career of telling women who dated single and married rich men who gave them money to spend time with them. Having a young beautiful girl on your arm get you in places.Women went to Harvard, Yale, and Princeton to marry men.Actresses, Models did the same thing. They saved their money and reinvented themselves as businesswomen from being sugar babies.

[@pris1378]

i just have one thing to say: sex work is real work. and one of the most dangerous lines of work there is.

[@Michelle.1952]

Dealing with XYs in any intimate way is dangerous. Ask all the virtuous and honorable women who've been unalived by their partners.

[@nhvkuy4675]

It's not a work. No work is allowed to have such abhorrent conditions and such dehumanisation like prostitution and porn for example

[@Iamblahblah111]

@@nhvkuy4675if you have to pay taxes on it, it’s work… doesn’t matter whether you agree with their lifestyle or not

[@ruthiemill]

People forget that life is a choice. People are out here making their own grown choices. All we have to do is mind our own businesses, stay hydrated and raise our kids against anything you think is bad in society. All these rants and they are selling something for views on social media as well, right?

[@Eric-ej3oy]

Some dont actually have a choice. That is, the luxury of choosing what they really want. Its much more complicated than that. You are a easy said, easy done person. Lol.

[@ruthiemill]

@@Eric-ej3oy I respectfully disagree. It’s a choice nonetheless. Like they say, there are several ways to skin a cat (no pun intended here). It all boils down to which method one chooses. Unless you’re coerced into doing anything, you actually are making a choice.

[@Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard]

This is a fact.

[@momococo2496]

I’m not saying some women don’t have funds etc but I’ve met some Instagram influencers/models etc and a large majority of them are selling 🐈

[@witchingbrew3]

Look at the metaphor of Finn in the hunger games. Won the games and shows off the fabulous cushion life, and President snow was prostituting him off. I know that's an extreme take but it reminds me of that let them eat cake met gala tik tok conversation recently.

[@danielragin2880]

The City Girls is an example

[@themissmay]

I’ve been at Stripper for almost 10 years. Not really sure what the tone of this video is going to be but I’m not gonna waste my time on it. Making generalizations about sex worker strippers whatever you wanna call it. Is a waste of time.

[@chanellover2143]

I feel sorry that your father never loved you enough for you to see how you should be treated and to respect yourself

[@RAYVENUS5]

The women on the thread actually seem like they respect the upfront honesty of the sex workers and the strippers. It's the women that lie about it, that the women on the thread seem to have the problem with.

[@Queenbbyj]

⁠@@chanellover2143she doesn’t need your pity keep your condescending narcissistic bullshit to yourself

[@Enriquez2222]

@@chanellover2143honey just say no one’s ever valued you enough to spend money on you.

[@gb917]

​@@Enriquez2222Strippers are valued?

[@knowjusticeknowpeace15]

65 years old is a “corpse”?

[@colettemallory3813]

Your makeup looks great!

[@MoonAddict2024]

I don't have any issue with women being sex workers, in fact I often jump to their defense. But what I do have a problem with is lies and fakery. The issue isnt women being sex workers but them claiming to fund their lifestyles with being an influencer. There is btw whole documentaries out there who looked into how many influencers are actual sex workers..

[@Jae-by3hf]

I find it interesting how you all got so offended by a specific point that she was making…these women are deceptive…thats the problem! They are also encouraging and in some cases teaching young girls who may not be able to handle this way of life to do it! This will get girls killed! But being offended and showing off makes more sense! If you got your own money & are so rich, why are you bothered by this womans take? She is a black woman, so she is speaking on black women! Some of you get so offended over things that don’t pertain to you and then point fingers at others who do the same! 🙄

[@BWTM]

9:06 ✊🏾”Make sure that you make his pockets cry” 😅

[@bre9502]

Don’t forget the hustlers who work multiple jobs, the ones with government assistance, the educated, those born wealthy. Just because you would have to peddle cat to get that lifestyle doesn’t mean everyone else does.

[@bee17142]

Tbh I don’t believe anyone is shocked by this.

[@shamekiawalker6358]

Priscilla is looking especially beautiful in this video

[@hellohey000]

I don't know who that first girl is watching on social media but we aren't watching the same ladies. I am focused on content creators with substance. Like Jaz Jackson (she sells the fitness belt). Dominique A. (She is a nurse who does vlogging content and sells wigs). And other amazing entrepreneurial women who are living the life because they worked for it. If all she sees are Instagram/OF models then that's something she has to work out within herself. Because It's giving random man angry at gay men for living happily in their truth, while secretly wishing he could join them. Otherwise, Stop worrying about what other people are doing and go find your bliss, baby.

[@BWTM]

😂 12:59 The Jones ain’t even keeping up with themselves! 💯

[@jlcii]

If they are sex workers, that is their business and their choice. As long as it's between two consenting adults, who else's business is it? Homegirl in the first video just sounds like a self-righteous, judgmental hater. While you're talking about someone else, go get your own bag, honey 😮

[@islandpersuasion4690]

2nd oldest trade in the world. Never gonna stop, impossible for it to stop lol.

[@susanmarks416]

12:10 I've yet to have a job that PAYS $700/wk, nevermind UI, and I've been a homeowner twice. FFS! Also did you notice the square footage of her place as she was doing circles around her place while talking. What does she do for a living?

[@lob1248]

Young women are not helpless, they just have the eye on the wrong price. Stop selling yourself for cash ladies, money is a resource, not God all mighty 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@vanessarichardson110]

Im genuinely sorry it took so long for yall to catch on lol. Make sure yall get your iuds, it may be free or low cost casue abortion is illegal.

[@njmoonfrost6145]

I guess I’m a SW worker now lol. Good gods some women are CEOs, and other high working jobs. Not everything has to do with s*x 😂😭

[@TheCarnivoreSoprano]

Im not mad at sw at all women or men. They are doing better than a lot of people. And many I've encountered enjoy what they do.

[@prettypearls26]

8:32.. and when you’ve worked towards it and you and your crowd can afford it you will buy them mam. Or you just don’t want that brand.

[@beeznhoney4323]

_Supply vs Demand:_ Without a demand for a certain thing there wouldn't be anyone interested in being the supplier😐

[@6ftNaturalBeauty]

11:05 Kelly is an entire hata out here

[@theconsciousearthangel]

It isn't always like this. If you have good energy and are an interesting person then you have other things to give. I've been on yachts, etc and I didn't sleep w anyone or do anything sexual. Some of our yachts were rented for video shoots and we were models and just a part of the video. It's never this black and white.

[@ss-ds2dn]

"My body is a temple" Um aren't most religious buildings of worship open to the public with minimal rules?😂

[@Priscilla_Boye]

🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Enriquez2222]

Come as you are and everyone is welcomed 😂

[@LoveAndSnapple]

Temples are sacred spaces and when entering treated with respect and dignity. Not some New York bus station.

[@ss-ds2dn]

@@LoveAndSnapple you're expected to act with respect and dignity in any public space. But the real point is about who's in charge of entry. Temples are usually open to the public unlike private places. A better metaphor is "My body is a billionaire's penthouse. Any unlawful entry will be met with met with deadly force"

[@LoveAndSnapple]

@@ss-ds2dn You could also say that it can be opened…For the right price. 😏