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The purpose of this video is not to compare my story to anyone else. I am very aware that there are lots of people who have had extremely challenging experiences and have gone through far more than I could ever imagine. The purpose of this video is to connect. I believe our power comes from our story. It is where our greatest lessons lie and those lessons ultimately lead us to our genius and what we’re meant to teach the world. By sharing this with you, I hope it creates a greater sense of connection between one another and I truly hope it empowers you to know that YOU ARE WORTHY, exactly as you are.
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[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Thanks so much for watching! I appreciate YOU so much! ❤️❤️❤️

[@v2diariesbakewithvanitha73]

Love it wen you share things like this ✌️appreciate you for whatever you do

[@AyaEgbuho]

We appreciate you! 💜💚💙

[@alisiakrastelcoach]

My daughter always says, “be brave.” You’re being brave.

[@alisiakrastelcoach]

Scrunchy on the wrist... that’s when things get real😀

[@CleverDoughKids]

You have my heart Sunny ... always! Thank-you for sharing your story with us. 💖

[@nikkirotundaful]

“When you teach little girls to do as they’re told, and be good, and be perfect, in the moments that matter, it’s really hard to find your voice.” Thank you for sharing this and being vulnerable. I relate so much to your story.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Thank you so much! It means SO much to me! ❤️

[@AskhErBiDoY]

Sunny, seeing people relate so much with your story, and I'm like Wow. This is an amazing platform. I'm glad to be a part of it. ♥️

[@bradhouston4734]

Hey any tips/thoughts on how to parent a daughter better? I want her to be her best self, but not to feel the need to be perfect 🤔

[@aziyanasar894]

@@bradhouston4734 the best way to parent a child is not parent.Be his/her best friend. That's all they need.

[@planetfuelsaver9394]

@@bradhouston4734 give a Lotta love, acceptance and let them be their own people. That's what I've done and I have two great adult children now

[@aledelice2119]

''That little girl who is always waiting on the hero... finally became her own'' - that's so beautiful and empowering, thanks for sharing your story, it was very inspiring

[@AstroForumSpace]

I'm pressing the applause button, can you hear the clapping? Be yourself and finding yourself is one of the hardest thing to do in life, and you did it.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

This means so much to me 💛

[@marcustheknight]

Did I watch all 41 minutes of this? Yep. Did I enjoy every second of it? Yep. Will I watch it three more times? Most likely.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

lol, i love this

[@marcustheknight]

@@SunnyLenarduzzi and I LOVE YOU, Sunny! You are a real one!

[@ruchika.1201]

Same. I'm watching it the second time already.

[@HeartStormMedia]

I'm here for it

[@jayelenecatala2368]

Qq

[@bonniejohnson1578]

"That little girl who was always waiting for the hero, finally became her own." I love that soooo much. Thank you for sharing your story. xo

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

❤️

[@PollyANDTHEOTHERSIDE]

That was the most inspiring thing you said Sunny! Thank you! It is truly time to be our own HERO! YES!!!

[@TeslaMartin]

I was almost screaming in awe at this point

[@Corrans]

At 41 I still feel like I am the girl waiting for the hero...because we have been socialised and conditioned to be this way. We wait for Prince Charming and the Knight, it's in all the books, fairytales and romcoms.

[@JessBlanche]

I really liked you before, but now I’m a fan for life. You’re a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing so authentically.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

That means so much, Jess ❤️

[@FreyaGem]

Thanks for putting this out there, Sunny. It's so helpful to hear what others go through in the struggle to find/make their own path in life. I've always been working on self-growth, but since my dad died two years ago it's been a deep dive, and it seems like the layers never cease to need peeling back. At almost 40 years old it's still difficult for me to just be myself when I'm around people I'm not close with, and in business/work, ah, forget it! It's the hardest place for me to be myself, but it's what I am needing terribly in life right now to feel at peace. Thank you for the inspiration and the reminder to keep going and not give up. We all have to go through our own muck to get to dry land.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

this means so much, thank you 💛

[@relaxingmeditationsounds9544]

"There is power in your story, there is power in your voice, there is power in showing up 100% as who you are". Well said Sunny!!!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Many thanks ❤️

[@relaxingmeditationsounds9544]

@@SunnyLenarduzzi Stay connected and bless you!

[@AskhErBiDoY]

@@SunnyLenarduzzi ♥️♥️♥️

[@livingindxb]

Love 💗 Mum and Dad they are always there for us . But to your story it’s worth loving yourself . And I got this thought in my mind .. we don’t known some one well until we know someone well. Stay powerful you are amazing .

[@veronika_olson]

As I am trying to dry my tears , this thought came : your bravery & courage to share your true story is unlocking someone else’s prison right at this very moment 🙏❤️ I had dark thoughts for my birthday approaching and now I see the light in the end of tunnel...thank you ❤️p.s. I just joined your course ...so excited to be there and learn🔥

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Beyond grateful to hear these words from you and have you a part of our family, Veronika ❤️

[@readingsbycara]

*Be blessed.* Veronika, Sunny, and all. ♥️

[@EvergrayMedia]

I’m in Authority Accelerator and feel soooo silly for not joining sooner! 😭😊 My favorite part has got to be how accessible Sunny is (just ask a question and she pulls you on a call)

[@heather.zenplify]

“...unlocking someone else’s prison...” What a beautiful way to put it. ❤️

[@katrinadoxsie9773]

This was beautiful. It randomly showed up in my feed and I clicked on it intuitively. This has been my whole life. I left an abusive marriage four years ago after years of studying psychology and gaining self-worth. The triggers are always there, but they are my responsibility. That's a game changer. I cried several times throughout this. Thank you for sharing. I didn't have a great childhood. I saw weak women putting abusive men above us. Children learn what they live. I am so freaking proud of myself for breaking that cycle.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I'm SO freakin' proud of you too, girl!!! Sending you big love 💛

[@Adventureswithbecky]

That is huge that you did break that cycle!

[@vklewis640]

Wow! My heart is full. I’m much older than you and have experienced similar. True, life is short and I want to make a difference in this world. I want to leave a legacy. I want to impact many with the voice God has given me. Yet I struggle with low self esteem and low self worth. I have not give up but I am surely tired. Ready for a change!!!! Thank you for sharing! ❤️🙏🏽

[@Mayneza]

Sunny! I felt so identified with your story and I truly appreciate that you were brave enough to share that side of your life because as you said, your true power is in your story, and your story inspired and empowered me to do the same (as I also struggle a lot with perfectionism). I believe social media needs to be more authentic and less appearance because at the end of the day the human and imperfect side of us is what truly connects with others 💝Thanks so much for being YOU!

[@NavigatingYouTube]

Its so ironic how we seek perfection in so many area of life like our careers, but when we are struggling internally, we as women will sometimes "punish" ourselves with relationships that are bad for us because we don't feel "worthy" of perfect love. 💔

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

❤️❤️❤️

[@AskhErBiDoY]

I'm glad an influencer like Sunny sees the value in using this platform to share stories like this. Someday I'll probably interview you on my channel But until then... 😂

[@jennalane2596]

Could tell you had done a lot of inner work before you even mentioned it in this video. I have too. Your courage gives me courage to speak out more about the treasures I found in my darkest time through that hard work. Praying you receive even deeper levels of freedom from shame and unworthiness as you continue to share vulnerably. You are loved Sunny!

[@AbundantCoachAccelerator]

It's funny how when I hear someone else share their stories that feel scary to them, I think "I feel you and this is soooo human, and part of our experience", but when I have to share my OWN challenges - they feel so BIG, HAIRY and SCARY in my head. You're such an inspiration, Sunny! Well done and Thank You for sharing your story.

[@delissasyrimi]

I'm seeing this 3yrs after your post, and I'm in tears. Your message really hit me. Thank you for sharing.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Glad to hear! You are welcome.

[@LilyKat]

"i felt worth when i was busy and productive" felt this so hard. i'm trying to step back and take a break. thank you for being so real.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

You are worthy ❤️

[@LilyKat]

*@Sunny Le* narduzzi * thank you*

[@HeartStormMedia]

About to go check out your channel now based off this comment alone🙌🏾👑

[@HeartStormMedia]

Would've never gussed you were 5'1" wow. Your voice and PRESENCE is very tall though

[@LilyKat]

Heart Storm Media thank you (:

[@IWantYoutoBeHappy4Ever]

"When you meet your soulmate, the work is just beginning " This is the truth and I can so relate to this!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

100%!

[@joerichmond98]

I had a bad anxiety attack while driving. I was 2 minutes in and not knowing what else to do, I just said "help me, Jesus". In about 2 seconds a feeling of complete calmness went from the top of my head to the bottom of my feet.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

💛

[@deenadanielle]

I’m so sorry about your friend and sorry that you went through such difficult experiences, but like you say they make you who you are and you’re proud of who you are! It’s not possible to look back and regret when you feel comfortable in yourself. I didn’t know how much I needed to see this video. I just got out of a 3 year relationship that sounds very similar to the toxic one you were in. You sharing your experience makes me feel so much less alone. So thank you for being brave and vulnerable! 💗

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

So grateful to hear that ❤️

[@VeronicaVeeTV]

This was BEYOND the best video you have ever uploaded... And I have been binge watching you for years. You have taught me so damn much, but this video was truly a story of emotional victory. Nowadays, the world needs more of this. I truly value you, your content and your spirit. Thank you for inviting all of us into your not-so-"sunny" side of the street💜 relatabley inspiring doesnt even come close. Your imperfection has made the perfect journey of self discovery, growth and embracing your inner lioness, that so many women go through quietly... You made it okay to SPEAK through the pain, beacause it allows you to WALK into your light! And imma hang around for ALL of it! Bravo mama...bravo 🌞😍🌞

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

This is so beautiful, thank YOU ❤️

[@EvergrayMedia]

Yeah I get the lioness vibes from her too!

[@charmw8313]

I love this message !! I was thinking the same this week; “if you don’t like yourself, how can you expect others to?” Hearing you say it reaffirms this

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

100%!!!

[@AskAngelaBrown]

Sunny, that took a lot of courage and you went to a really deep place. I am so proud of you and I'm sending you a big virtual hug. 💖💖💖

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Sending you big love! ❤️

[@JaclynHarper-HD]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and for sharing your story. Your voice is heard. You've resonated with so many of us I'm sure. You are so appreciated Sunny. What a journey you've had so far.

[@AfreenMansoor]

I think I needed to hear this today! THANK YOU SO MUCH! I was almost crying as I was listening to your story. Although I cannot relate to you exactly but I am at a place right now that I needed to hear a vulnerable story! You’re a hero! 🧡

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I'm just honoured to hear you needed to hear this, thank YOU ❤️

[@emilyatherton]

I can't believe how similar our life stories are. I can relate to many of the situations that you’ve been in and would’ve had no idea if it weren’t for this video. I feel a whole new depth of connection to you, even though we’ve never met. I don’t normally comment on many things but needed to comment on this. Thanks for your vulnerability and proving that showing up as yourself is so powerful. So much respect.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Means everything to hear that, thank YOU for sharing this ❤️

[@tanuvijoe5523]

Hey Sunny! It takes a lot of strength and courage to open about one's struggles and put it out in public! Thank you for doing this! I was having a bad day and I came across your video and I feel better, I'm understanding what it is like to accept your flaws and that it's okay to not be okay and how you always come first! Thank you and sending lots of love and light to you! Keep growing and keep being you!

[@WealthProtectionLady]

Wow! Just Wow! I'm 60, and I related to everything you shared. I was an overachieving girl. I was lucky in that my dad was in the USAF and each time we moved, I was able to reinvent myself to be who I wanted to be. It took a lot of work, but I ended up with a relationship from the age of 14 to 50 that was toxic and eventually ended in divorce, thank God. I worked my butt off making a billionaire of my long-time boss while my then husband hadn't worked for 15 years of our marriage. Why I stayed, I'll never understand, but my kids came through it all in a healthy way, and that's all I care about. That was when I was 50. I'm getting ready to get back on top of my life and YOU are helping me do that. Thank you for sharing your story. It's so common, but we don't talk about our previous lives. I related to it all!

[@homelyheart]

Thank you 😭❤️ I’ve been masking and hiding my whole 48 year so far life... yes, I feel soooo empowered yes, thank you, yes, I’m with you!!!! All the way, rock on legend!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Yes! Rooting for you ❤️

[@homelyheart]

Sunny Lenarduzzi 🙏❤️💕☺️

[@spiritsoffashion1689]

Sunny, I wish I could convey how very much your story resonates with me. I went through so many similar situations, and I still am fighting many of these old battles and patterns. Thank you SO MUCH for having the courage to share your story so that others, like myself, feel empowered to share their own stories and to strip away those layers to the essence of who we are. At one particularly low point in my life, the song "Hero" by Mariah Carey was on the radio a lot, and I swear that song helped me through! Thanks again for being you!!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Love this so much! Appreciate your kindness

[@AyeshaNoelle]

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable! There is definetly POWER in your story ❤️ Btw I love the “revenge success”, people hate to see you grow and succeed when they are stuck

[@mirandaschermerhorn5264]

Thank you so much for being so brave and sharing your story with so many; I really needed to hear this, especially this year. I just turned 22 and I have been feeling ashamed of my accomplishments or lack of accomplishments I did or didn’t make when I was 21 and recently feeling like this year will just be a sad repeat of last year because I struggle with thinking that a lot of my value is based on accomplishments and future success. But reading God’s word tonight and then now watching your video and you realizing that your value doesn’t come from accomplishments it comes from being your full self and who God says we are which is valuable in His eyes, and remembering to embrace every win and also every struggle with open arms. Thank you so much for this reminder, that I pray I will keep remembering. ❤️Blessings to you and your fiancé!

[@natachathebeau3702]

Thank you so much for sharing..... I can so relate to having lost my voice and to much of the rest of what you have shared in general .... I have balled in the doctor's office too (and he blamed me too) ..... other than having a great family and a few other details you shared, I can relate to much of what you have gone through, I had a stroke at 20 years old, have burned out more than once, the last time I had a nervous breakdown a few months later.... ..... I so get this video, I also collapsed, and I'm now climbing back to my feet .... addiction to toxic patterns is so much more common than we admit (have you ever tried NLP and Time Line Therapy(R) ....best mental health tools out there). It is so important to do one's own shadow work in order to truly see the light

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Absolutely! Keep going ❤️

[@ReginasVoices]

Sunny‼️ Sunny‼️Sunny‼️Thank you for this! I feel like you were telling my story, OMG! Connected with you in more ways than one! The toxic relationships in my early 20’s, looking up to parents and an older sister who was ABSOLUTELY PERFECT but I was always looking for love and validation in all the wrong places😔. Always been tremendously ambitious until I had a nervous breakdown and crashed and almost burned in 2018, which is when I found the love of my life and I found you and hence my KZbin and New Me journey I’m on now‼️‼️. Even still, with the inner work I’ve done, I’m still evolving but on a very similar path as you right now to simply my life in general and BE ME! Again!! Thank You for sharing your story and yes, now that I “know” you, like really “know” who you are and what you’ve been through, as opposed to the epitome of perfection I thought you were is very empowering and has brought me to appreciate you even more!! Love ya girl! Congratulations on this breakthrough for you!! You deserve to be celebrated❤️🌹🥳🤩🤗

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

My pleasure, Regina ❤️I'm so honoured it resonates with you

[@TreasureBooks]

Thank you for sharing this powerful story Sunny. About a year ago I did a "Get to know me" video where I shared my story, without actually meaning to achieve anything, I didn't put any thought into what I am going to say, it all just came out. And when I uploaded, my community reacted in such an amazing way, and I connected with so many people, and so, so, so many people shared their stories with me. We ALL have a story, but I guess not many realize that THAT is where the power is, THAT is what makes you YOU. I just resonated so much with this video. Thank you

[@jitakshis]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with the world, Sunny! 💕 I can only imagine how scared and nervous you must be feeling with this video. I’m sure almost everyone can relate to what you just said and trust me when I say this “It’s so powerful and amazing what you just did”. I’m just feeling all these things in my heart and mind atm, I need some time to think and absorb all the great things you shared in this video. But just wanted to say you are amazing for doing this💕 Thank you so much for giving power to all the listeners and speaking the truth. Love you for this 💖

[@nkechiajaeroh3577]

I love this , I listened from the beginning to the end. My take away: “My story is unique and differentiates me from every one else!” Thank you so much, Sunny!❤️

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

100%! It absolutely does!

[@HonestlyPlusSize]

Oh how I feel for you! I think we are so many that have similar stories, it is so much more common than we think. Mine were very similar but actually almost opposite, if that makes sense.. I was always told how pretty I was, how well behaved and perfect I was and my parents were always told this about me as well. So for me this was a big thing to live up to and to not lose face I got terrified of making mistakes or looking silly so I just did not do the things I wanted.. I stayed safe by not standing out in any way, not top student, not good at athletics, not good at dancing.. well you know. The boys were very interested but I ran away, afraid again to not be what they were looking for really... Good of you to share this, it is always good for people to see that "the perfect people" also have or have had struggles... Hugs to you x x x

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Sending you big love! ❤️

[@HonestlyPlusSize]

@@SunnyLenarduzzi 🧡💕

[@trinawright9449]

Thank you so much Sunny for your authenticity! Your story did help me see the past versions of me that too sought her worth outside herself and to love her that much more. She is why I am the ME I am now. It was also helping in my on-going sharing of life with my two daughters that are 16 & 13. I know the pain and freedom that can be found in loosnig someone -- my husband (and dad to my 4 kids) died suddenly in an accident 10 years ago. It changed me! My 16 year old also at her young age recognizes the positive growth she has gained from the experience. I am in You Tube for Bosses and love your flull expression. Keep shining your light brightly!

[@karimkherani-kk7444]

That was so impowering. It took a lot guts to just let yourself hang out there. All of what you have been through will make you stronger and wiser. Thank your for sharing.

[@RezaMolavi]

Dear Sunny. Thank for taking me with you to this emotional journey. I cried along with you as only genuinely painful experience only can. All the ingredients in your life have gone into this beautiful recipe that is SunnyL. I am glad you have come through the tunnel shinning brightly. There are more tunnels ahead, but your strength will carry through the other side. Thank you for being you.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Your empathy is SO appreciated ❤️

[@abeerghosheh1640]

Omg I just watched this. At first I thought 40 minutes there’s no way I’ll get through this whole thing, but I have never related to anything more in my life. I had my first panic attack at work where I was trying to be perfect all the time. I’m so glad you are sharing this because I think a lot of people think they’re not going to be happy until they are validated until they are something big but in reality you only really need your own validation. It sounds super cliche until you actually realize how little we love ourselves. Thanks for sharing 🥰🥰🥰

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Thank YOU for listening ❤️ I'm so grateful it resonates

[@mrnetworkrealityshow]

Me too

[@ClayDisarray]

Aww, Sunny. Thank you for sharing your story. It's weirdly comforting to know that other folks have been through the wringer too, and have come out stronger and wiser for it.This is how you triumph over adversity (or adversities!) Congrats on all your success 💙

[@KrishanPatel]

‘Be your authentic self’, I have that motto on my desk where I film most of my videos. It’s a reminder to show up as me an not someone’s version of me. I am glad you shared your story because you are going to help many others struggling through many situations. I spent my 20s hiding my voice who so I could fit a mould off what I thought I should be, but I’m getting old and I just don’t care. I am finally showing up for me. However I still need therapy to get past some traumatic moments in my life. I am a work in progress, but I can say I am finally here😊! Thank you for sharing your story😌!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Love this!! ❤️

[@MsDoryLinda]

I'm half way through this video and I have to pause. I'm in tears with you 😢 When we look back and see versions of ourselves that see so little value that we'd be willing to settle for situations with red flags 🚩it's sad but encouraging that we have the grace to say that was then and this is now. THIS video makes me realize why I felt little resistance to trust and invest in your course when I came across you late last year. Thank you for sharing this side of you. Thank you for being a mirror. When we do this especially here on KZbin it gives so many others the permission to do the same. You're holding space for me to go deeper too 🤗

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Appreciate you more than you know! I just keep reminding myself of my WHY and it keeps me grounded. I know by sharing my story, I will empower others to know they are worthy of being seen and heard just as they are. I support you!

[@MsDoryLinda]

@@SunnyLenarduzzi thank you, this has definitely empowered me. 🧡 Now I fully understand the meaning behind you saying you are here to empower others to use their voice.

[@Msdizzylizzie]

"There is power in your imperfections." Shook me to my core. 💖✨

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Yes, girl!!

[@RonaStyle]

All I have to say is I love you. I always admired how you built yourself up, but after I heard all your story I admire you even more. SO MUCH MORE. You are a strong woman and getting stronger and stronger every day. Thanks for that video ❤

[@missmatti]

I can relate to so many parts of your story especially “needing to be perfect”, being side-tracked when you are not loving yourself / true to yourself and as a result also attract relationships that aren’t the best if you need external approval all the time. I remember years ago when I just desperately wanted someone to say to me “Matilda you can do it! Believe in yourself. You have what it takes!” but because I didn’t fully believe in myself I subconsciously wanted approval from the naysayers in my life. When I decided to love myself and live my life for me I noticed that some people I used to hang out with and used to think were “fun” no longer were fun to me. I still deal with being perfect on and off but I’m more accepting of myself and my mistakes today.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

It's constant battle, but I'm proud of you for looking inward ❤️

[@TrendingTopicSeries]

One word: WOW! I watched this video with much attention. My girlfriend came in from work and she saw me watching this video..and she ended up watching almost the whole video with me. Wonderful video 👌👌✨

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

WOW. To bring others into this as well? That's special, thank YOU.

[@blueshelties]

I am with you all the way, all the time. That frizzy hair little girl is one fabulous frizzy hair woman. Meeting you has made my day, my week, my month. #TeamSunny all the way.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Leslie, you're so kind ❤️ Appreciate you so much

[@llcuniversity]

Sunny, this video is so touching, so beautiful, and so powerful in so many ways. I'm so moved and inspired. Thank you for all the work/therapy/self-care you've done in your life to be willing and able to push "publish" on something like this. Damn, I'm so inspired right now! Your video makes me feel even more empowered in who I am and a reminder to continually trust my intuition and have those challenging conversations in life. Calling in the One: thank you for sharing that. Even though I'm a guy, I immediately grabbed the paperback and the audiobook to read together. The reviews are awesome. Thanks again! Also, your frizzy hair is freakin' badass!! Keep rockin'!! -Matt

[@HangingWithHelen]

Wow!! Like so many others, this resonated with me in so many ways. Frizzy weirdo who straightens her hair. Started getting panic attacks and not being able to sleep even though I’m an amazing sleeper! Work work work and always looking for validation on the outside. You have come to the realisation so much faster than I have but that’s ok. I feel like this year, with all the crap that’s happened in the world, has been a game changer for me. And you’re story has just confirmed I’m on the right track. My little KZbin channel is where I get to be me and share my truth and I will continue to do the work necessary so that I can own my truth and be who I truly am, while feeling worthy of the success I achieve. Thank you Sunny!! 🙏❤️

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Means so much to hear this, thank YOU ❤️

[@RyRobio]

Thank you for sharing this. It's extremely relatable especially when you go full on success revenge mode. I myself struggled with being myself and after watching this you've made me realize there's no reason to hold back your real self and being imperfect is better than being perfect. Embrace it and love it Thank you for this amazing video again nd I hope you stay blessed Sunny

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Sending you big love!

[@BensonGitau]

I’m so sorry for your friend Mendy. Oh men! I was excited about this story time in the beginning and as you shared more, I became sad. I think you are very strong based on the expenses you have shared. Keep your head up. Many young people are getting strokes and other health issues and research has shown it’s based on processed foods. You are a great story teller by the way.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Thank you Benson ❤️

[@diandra7476]

I said in my comment I had a mini stroke at 30. Tia. No one talks about it. Every doctor I know I try and get them to ask about tia on their intake forms. Panic disorder will lead to this. I guess I should make a video series about it. I’ve actually had 3 now.

[@BensonGitau]

@@diandra7476 I am not a doctor but my wife is a nurse. This could be related to the processed foods that we eat that contain extreme amounts of cholesterol. 94 million adults in the US have high cholesterol, which blocks the ven causing a stroke.

[@VeraJMDotCom]

Ohhh Sunny you are such a beautiful person. You inspire me to open up more and I'm learning these lessons at 45. You just made me feel not so alone in my struggles. I'm a recovered workaholic and just now standing up for myself and actually taking care of myself. After blood transfusions I realized it was time, I now walk 7000 steps per day and love my Fitbit. I eat healthy and pray over my life. It's been a real learning curve to actually take care of me. Love you to bits Sunny and love where you're taking us ❤

[@AgnesMann]

OMG, you did go through some self-discovery there. I wish you all the best. This only proves that no matter how happy and smiley people look, deep down we all deal with some difficulties and some might just be more able to come out of it strong, and unfortunately some cannot. You are blessed to have good parents and a support circle you could turn to so thank God they have been by your side in the time of need. Stay blessed and as never doubt yourself again. SO MANY PEOPLE looks up to you as an Idol. It's time you do too and never stop believing you are worthy of all the success and love. x

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

100% - appreciate your continued support and love 💛

[@alyce-kayruckelshaus1224]

It seems like the more you share of the real you, the more we actually love you. I'm starting to think ... when we don't share our real selves, people can't really love us, because they would be loving someone that doesn't exist. ??? And by the way, in case no one else has told you, your hair is super cute that way. I have stick straight hair and I'd kill for hair like yours! Thank you for being brave and making this video. You've given me a LOT to think about (and I already thought I believed in and was practicing authenticity ... but you've taken it to a whole 'nother level). You're amazing. Seriously. Don't stop being you.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

This means so much to me, thank YOU! Appreciate you ❤️

[@thislifereconsidered]

This hit home for me. As a stroke survivor in my 30s, I realize how much I had been living a “shiny” version of myself and how I perhaps needed to go through that experience to get a second pass at living authentically. I make it daily work not to waste the chances. Long time sub, but the first time it’s touched me to say anything. Continue your journey of education and inspiring.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

THIS 💯 beautifully said. I'm so grateful to hear this.

[@colleenwynia]

Sunny, I’m Deeply moved by your vulnerable share of life’s journey you have endured. You are an amazing women and soul and I’m so happy you’ve come full circle after such tremendous pain. I know that entrapment so intimately. So so much ~ not knowing I was seeking external validation in my working hard and relationships and funnily also in sports & fitness. With toxic abusive relationships in the lives is the women in our family I swore Up & Down I would never go through that. ~guess what? I sure did ! I resonate and send you so much love ❤️ for your courage !!

[@clarah]

Thank you so much for sharing your story and posting it here! I can relate to so many of these situations, I’m here crying my eyes out now because I’m in a bad place, honestly probably never ‘not was’ in that place... thank you again for your strength! ❤️❤️❤️

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Means so much ❤️ my pleasure!

[@xo_kryptoknight4147]

Wow what a powerful story Sunny, I really related when you left your friend's wedding crying. I was in a relationship last year where I felt the same way. I was jealous when I saw my friends starting to get engaged/married and that envy turned into a deep sadness when I realized that was not something I believed that could happen to me (but I DESPERATELY wished it was). I got out of that relationship because I realized our values didn't align and I was tired of giving up my all, only to feel neglected. I'm in a happier place now, and I'm in a way better relationship. but wow that story hit home for me

[@mickeymouse2able]

Imagine keeping relationships secret because it will not be accepted by family or public. I'm gay and came from ultra Machismo conservative Latino family. So when people bemoan their relationships and cry etc. I'm like "you have straight privilege". Ugh

[@DaianaVashakidze]

I'm so proud of you for not shying away from making this video cause it is the easiest thing to just say no and keep it to yourself. But i believe in activism and that's what you're doing in this video. Also I didn't know a lot about your character outside of all the business stuff and it is refreshing to finally see who you truly are. Inspiring ♡

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Aww... thanks so much! I appreciate you ❤️

[@Starkstastic]

Your courage to show up is inspirational. Continue to be seen! We acknowledge your worth because of your wonderful heart and soul. I hope you feel proud and I'm sure dozens of others in this community and in your life would be proud of you too. Hope you continue to experience challenging but beautiful moments of growth this year!

[@gintaredainelyte]

I was crying watching your video. I can't believe it. It just seems like listening to a lot the same things that I was and still am going through. Thank you for sharing. I love you even more now. And it gave me strength to stand for my own self worth without running the 'winning formula' of just abandoning my needs 💜

[@canalcristaoprofetico]

Wow amazing story and great life lessons, Sunny, well done. Remember that out of all the F’s, the most important is faith. People, things, money, investments and hobbies can let us down, but God never does. To find out who you are, you need to find out who you are in Him. God bless you😘✝️

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

❤️

[@angelssoundzone1861]

Totally agree with you. Faith and spirituality are very important.

[@ttbeauty1015]

Sunny, I respect you so much as a KZbinr but even more as a person. This video was raw & real but so relevant to what many women go through ❤️

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I appreciate you ♥️

[@randygivens8421]

You have inspired me to take on my challenges yet be vulnerable. It is so hard but we come out on the other side so much stronger and better. Keep fighting the good fight!! Thank you for being a bright light for so many of us who struggle with life trials.

[@ManifesttheGreaterYou]

Thank you for sharing your story Sunny I could resonate with so much of what you shared as I was working on growing comfortable in my own skin. I have taken some time personally to get back to what brings me joy, similar to the 5 f’s you shared (love that btw) and work on myself. Thank you so much for being brave and sharing your story with us. Continue to shine and spread your positivity 💕🌟 congrats again on your engagement and so happy for you!

[@gillianzperkins]

Loved this ❤ Thank you so much for sharing!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Appreciate you so much for taking the time to watch ❤️

[@miriamcastilla]

lol - I literally asked my doctor once ' Can that (STD) be from 15 years ago?" and never once thought my husband had cheated on me.. My doctor must've thought I was a total idiot... These sorts of toxic relationships are so common & so soul-crushing. But look at us now!!!!! :) PS: Oh yeah - revenge success.. I did that too. Revenge is a great motivator - not the healthiest thing, but who knows... spite might just be part of the healing journey..

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

oh my word! I'll never forget that moment, I was so convinced and it didn't even cross my mind that he could have cheated. I'm sorry you went through that - but revenge success sure does feel good momentarily, I do think it's a part of the healing process.

[@BellindahGama]

I love the vulnerability in this video. We are all human beings with such important stories to tell. Thank you for giving me the courage I needed to be vulnerable in my own videos. I’m so proud of you! 🌼

[@therootedfruit5350]

Thank you SO much for sharing this!! This is so timely for what I needed to hear literally TODAY! Thank you for your vulnerability and bravery, it’s amazing to see you using your platform to use your voice in an amazing way! Something you probably would’ve never done years ago!! I’ve always loved watching your videos but even more recently I feel like I can really connect with what you’re saying! I’m also a frizzy hair girl, I grew up straightening my hair too! Wasn’t until my adult years that I finally started embracing it more :) one day I’ll post a video with my natural hair and not care so much! Thanks for being an inspiration to be totally myself! :)

[@Toys4YouJucariiPentruTine]

beautiful sharing, Sunny! Many people can find themselves in your story. Hope u reach the people that need to hear it!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I truly hope the same ❤️

[@AyeshaNoelle]

Mindy would be proud of you! You are truly so special and inspirational Sunny! I hope you will continuesly see what a lot of people see and know that you are a beautiful person in and out❤️ You are valued!

[@nehanagpal22]

Super...words fall short

[@annaatanasova8868]

Completely relate to you...the toxic relationship I had was the worst and best thing that happend because after the end of it I started really to find myself! Sending you lots of love! ❤ Thank you for sharing your story! You are not alone!

[@kellylahuis3589]

You are such an amazing and beautiful woman and you would never guess that you went through all of that now. THANK YOU for sharing it. It just shows that you never know what is going on in someone else's life.

[@jeniturner1612]

I cried with you, Sunny. Mom’s are a blessing, that’s for sure. ❤️ thank you for this.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

100% ❤️

[@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach]

I watched the whole video! ( that says a lot!) *I am with you!* *I am proud of you!* *and I thank you!!!* You are incredibly brave for sharing this and you just went way up to the top as far as admiration goes. (not smoothing that you are chasing anymore! :) *This is going to help so many people!*

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I genuinely hope it does!

[@ckhanahan]

This brought me to tears, both from sadness while remembering those same lack of self worth feelings and the horrible experiences that followed them... and from happiness that they all happened the way they did. Our traumas and the way we deal with them is what makes us! Thank you so much for sharing ♥️

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

thank YOU so much for opening up and sharing with me. ps- have you joined my secret group yet? It's free and it's an amazing way for us to connect deeper :) sunnylenarduzzi.com/secretgroup

[@ckhanahan]

@@SunnyLenarduzzi Just signed up! Looking forward to seeing more content from you!

[@yournextfifty]

Thanks for sharing your story Sunny! I have two little girls and I sometimes worry about what life will bring them as they get older. Bullying is no fun. Here's to teaching our children to use their voices!!

[@Izimira]

You should be very proud with yourself, Sunny! You’ve grown so much in those years...Very, very inspirational story! Thank you.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Many thanks, Iskra!

[@sleepandrelaxhd]

"No one is going to save you. . . No one cares as much as you do about your own life" Sunny you've elevated yourself to a new level and I truly hope one day you step back and appreciate what you've contributed to the world so far. Though you aren't perfect (no one is) you illuminate great vibes and energy. I'm with you! I will show up more and speak in my own truth. We all have stories that connect us. . .thank you for sharing yours.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

This is SO beautiful ❤️I appreciate you more than you know

[@DanceCat7]

I am sure I am not alone when I say that I related to so much of your story. What really spoke to me was how calm you were until you got to the really difficult parts, and then the tears came. Such real and raw emotion! It's amazing how that happens when you talk about something so deep and painful - all seems worked through, and then it smacks you in the heart again. I've done that, and felt shock at such intense emotion. This is something people need to hear and see and know . . . it may seem like someone has it all and has had a great life & childhood, but then there is the traumatic effects of believing you need to be someone else's idea of perfect. It happens to all of us, I believe. We need to know we are not alone!

[@leeimmerzeel3481]

Sunny im blown away about your video of yesterday. I watched it to the end. This was so moving, authentic and vulnerable. I feel this is a message the world needs to hear. There so many of us feeling ashamed, embarrassed, lonely and afraid. You give us power to be ourselves, share openly and touch other people’s lives and experience healing ourselves in the process. Thank you so much. Warm regards and blessings Lee

[@relentless2685]

“Life is so short” this is so powerful, thank you so much for sharing this Sunny!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

💯

[@chinwude_]

Its remarkable how we can relate to your story in some way. Thank you for your transparency, Sunny. 💕✨

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I had a hard time sleeping last night - I was SO nervous! Thank you for being here! 🙏

[@leehettig]

Thanks for sharing your story Sunny. I've been watching your videos for a while. I'd love to work with you one day. I live in Vancouver. Your story is touching. Your vulnerability is endearing. Very authentic. You know even as a man, I can relate to a lot of the trauma of high school bullying, feeling "not normal", "not lovable", "not enough". It's crushing. I can't imagine what it must be like for kids today with social media. The frizzy hair thing is hilarious! Your hair is fricken amazing! Love it. The whole "find your voice, know your worth" is a message so many women need to hear. You rock! PS: The story of being at the wedding and feeling so low while telling yourself you're never going to have that. Ugh! That was sad. Not that I felt sad for you. I mean, I bet it was sad at the time, but look at you now! But because I think a lot of women have that exact experience at weddings. They're quietly miserable in their relationships. Or single. And want so badly just to be loved and cherished. Weddings can really shine a light on this wound if things aren't great. Gotta find THE ONE! Powerful story.

[@BUSINESSCHICMAMA]

Thank you for sharing your story-this took a lot of courage! So many people need to hear this because we live in a world where everybody is watching the highlight reels of everybody else’s story not the dips, hardships and the “backstory’. God bless u sending lots of love🙏

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Appreciate you more than you know! I just keep reminding myself of my WHY and it keeps me grounded. I know by sharing my story, I will empower others to know they are worthy of being seen and heard just as they are.

[@fledglingwriterscommunity8534]

"That little girl who was always waiting on the hero finally became her own." -Sunny Lenarduzzi Listening to everything was worth that one sentence!

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

You are your own hero ❤️

[@agonyuncle7913]

Well done! So proud of you. I can imagine how hard it was to share but you nailed it !

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

I was so nervous! Thanks so much for being here ❤️

[@mcamilaparral]

When I first got into this video I went to the comments and all I saw was people saying how they cried watching it and I was like Nah pff I'll watch it but I'm 100% sure I'm not going to cry.. like why would I? And yet here I am wiping my tears of joy for you sunny :) It makes me happy that you're happy and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Because I've been going through a really tough and challenging time, but this gives me hope that with time everything is just going to get better ❤️

[@CounselorSue]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know it takes a lot of courage to do so. I’ve always said that it takes more energy to keep pain in than it does to give it expression. I’m a retired counsellor and so much appreciate all you shared. I’m also a person who was on one of Oprah’s shows (her 45th book club) and afterwards had lunch with her and had an amazing conversation with her than changed my life. I have a KZbin channel which has taken me some time to find my voice, my niche but… being creative has always been important and of course I’m a counsellor, a retired one but my interest and love of psychology, why people do what they do and how to live life, all of that has not stopped just because I officially resigned from counselling. So, my KZbin channel has been a work in process but more recently has been a marrying of creativity and psychology, how to live life. So, once again, thanks for sharing your story. Most definitely there is power in story and… it frees us when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and real. (My channel: CounselorSue Creativity & Living Life).

[@KarriePorterBond]

Okay....pausing at 14:40 because I can't wait til the end to write this comment. I could literally take this video script, nearly down to the letter, turn on my camera, say all of it, and it be 100% true. You've basically lived my life. This is crazy! From looking up to your mother to being the weird awkward kid with the microphone (in my case an old video camera with a built in microphone my uncle gave me on which I would make movies and talk to it like I was being interviewed for a documentary), to the "not quite what I meant to happen big moment" with my high school boyfriend - who was also the popular athlete in school and the girls being mean to me because he was "the catch" and who the hell did I think I was being the straight A student and weird girl who hung out with the science nerds and took every AP class I could fit into my schedule - to the need to be the good girl to the desire for praise...... Then you said "If I don't have work, I don't have worth". GUT PUNCH to the soul there. OMG. That is me. You just defined a very deep entrenched feeling. That is my go-to. Sure sometimes it's necessary to get something done, but I also know that I use it as an escape to make myself seem valuable to those around me. Okay, continuing to listen to the rest, but I had to share this. I've got goosebumps.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Are you kidding me?! That's WILD. Thank you for hearing me out ❤️

[@aziyanasar894]

I was waiting for someone to come into my life and light up this entire life. Feels... like a STUPID idea. But yeah at least I recognised it from here.Thankyou

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

Glad to hear this helped!

[@posturebalanceandfitness8429]

Wow. Just wow. Such an amazing story that I can resonate with for sure! Thank you so much for being so vulnerable! You and your experiences are not a mistake, @Sunny! You were created who you are to help other people. Our suffering is wasted if we do not grow and share. I am praying that God will reveal to you the ultimate Truth that will set you free. May the Lord Bless you and keep you and may His light shine upon you.

[@jeffieren6453]

I’m so glad you shared this. It was weird to watch only because my jaw was dropped pretty much the entire time because i felt like i was watching someone else tell my life story. Down the the mindset, perfectionism, bullied by girls in HS, bad/toxic relationship (down to the details!), losing friends, and the realization process (which I’ve just started this past year). I definitely resonate with this so much. Bless you.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

this is what it's all about for me. Thank YOU

[@joannewamaitha5822]

I sincerely hope that every lady in sub-Saharan Africa...whether young, middle aged or old... will somehow stumble upon this video.

[@RobertoBlake]

22:31 yeah that hit hard, that’s probably me right now actually... 😅

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

The struggle is real 😅

[@SavorAndSleep]

@DominoBroc Effect Roberto did an interview with Sunny years ago. That interview is actually how I came across Sunny :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/gXm9hKKCh5yena8

[@FibromyalgiaUniversity]

It looks like this video is 3 years old yet it is absolutely awesome. It is funny when people dare to be vulnerable. It actually draws people in. I really do appreciate you sharing that and you are the perfect you! I pray God's peace over you and your family.

[@TertiaRieglerEmbodiment]

When you teach little girls to be good they can’t use their voice when it matters. Boom. We all have our battles that we fight. I have perfectionist triggers too. The pattern shows up at the most unhelpful times lol!. Learning to use my voice and trusting my inner wisdom is a journey that I treasure and am grateful for. Our power lies in who we become when we do the inner work. 🙏🏻❤️ thanks for sharing your story Sunny.

[@SunnyLenarduzzi]

My pleasure ❤️ Means so much for you to hear me out