I don’t trust men, but let me explain …

[@JoeyiOi]

As a man, you don’t gotta feel bad about how you feel. I’m sure other men feel the same way about other men. Depending on the man and the situation we’re in. Doesn’t mean we’re scared but we’re on the lookout!

[@sinnad07]

Thanks for sharing your story. I'm a person who loves listening to other peoples stories and perspective. I get a lot of smaller youtuber's suggestions from youtube's algorithm and every now and then I'll click on a video and listen to what they have to say. It's very interesting to me, and gives a lot of insight on other people experiences growing up in life. Sorry to hear about your upbringing and the trauma you have to deal with growing up. But from the looks of it seems you have already started the process of healing from it, self love, thinking positive about yourself. Hope to see your growth.

[@eliandrus3136]

K, I hope you find people IRL who are worthy of your trust and vulnerability and who honor you with unconditional love. You are such a bright, fun, and sensitive person. Thanks for sharing this with a bunch of weirdos on the internet.

[@eliandrus3136]

Ps - no like or reply necessary. We like you just the way you are. 🤜🤛🫶

[@13superdude2]

Ι am a 20something yo male and I just realised last night that I don't trust people either at all. I have a belief that people want to hurt me, and this comes from my relationship with my parents and their behaviour. A lot of pain. It's sad, beautiful, and awesome (because this knowledge will help to free me). Cool video, I love it when people are honest.

[@fluffyribbit1881]

Put not your trust in princes, nor in the son of man, in whom there is no help. His breath goeth forth, he returneth to his earth; in that very day his thoughts perish. Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God:

[@genx7006]

Let the judgment begin! (I need to watch the video first.😅)

[@gomer2813]

I think a lot of men would agree with you. And many women, too. It's not really too crazy to distrust men. I think the best thing is to get very good at handling men. I don't trust men. I do not like men. I don't have any male friends. I really hate the fact that I have to overcome women's lack of trust in me, and that women misunderstand me because of bad experiences they have had with other men.

[@szellllest]

Funny thing. I too do not trust people but for a different reason - we are too easy to corrupt and there are predatory people that take advantage of you being good. I wish it wouldn't be that way and I wish we would live in an environment where the values of the many are actually valued? I am not sure if I make my point clear 🙂

[@MrYevelnad]

knowing audhd then hyperfixation and RSD just clear up why I have a fucked up attachment issues. I myself don't trust people. I can be friends with them but honestly I just feel it is only on the surface level with no depth. At first glance I can easily gauge who I can be friends with. Always ask why I can do that but seems like it is my RSD activating everytime I meet new people filtering the good one and the bad ones. And my hyperfixation is just insane, I easily "fall in love" and damming part is I also easily "fall out of love". So when that happens I always question myself if is for the dopamine only. That is why I steer clear away from relationship not to hurt anybody again and my RSD aint helping. Instead if adds fuel to the fire.

[@abdulkarriem967]

Hi K. Thanks to all of you who do this introspection, who sees the "BUG" and does something about it. I'm sorry we ha e to go thru this abuse, I have to commend us for changing from this type of conditioning and not adopting it. Or even changing it after realizing. The other side of the coin is not nice, where you take it into your adult married life and practice the abuse on your family. You know a case of the abused becoming the abuser. Thanks, I love you all, take care ❤✨️

[@abdulkarriem967]

Trust is not easy, even if I love the whole planet unconditionally. I find it impossible to just trust anyone as they are stuck on materialism or their distorted views and beliefs. As children we don't have a choice we can't remove ourselves the experience as we bound. As adults we can make conscious changes and choices of what resonates and is good for ourselves. Happy debugging😊

[@user-qm7nw7vd5s]

Is that an apron you’re wearing?

[@karlhowellbehr3042]

I don’t trust women but there is no need to explain. 😂

[@nexuslite]

That was very well said. You are very smart and possibly just correctly diagnosed a global relationship problem, not just your own.

[@SamuelCannon-hp2sy]

Ok, you pressured me to act😂, thanks. I could talk to you all day, and I have many points of focus that we could discuss, but I just want to know if you have ever practiced the art of forgetting? Let's be clear, I'm not saying things that happened to shape us didn't have meaning, but why horde so many fractured/painful memories? We as humans have the capacity to reshape our existence all the time. We learn to better our education, health, wealth, etc.. who says we can't forget the topics you're discussing now. Ruminating is always good to help analyze points of one's self to fix. So when you acknowledge this issue, ok transmute to, it holds no place, forget it. You end up loving the invidual you are at that point. People can still hurt us, like us, love us, but they are just reactions of something in them. There's no more extra thought to be put in it. My point is that everything will be new, even intimacy, but approached as the in the now new you. I once told someone a way to overcome fear. I have many methods, but I want to give you this thought. Most people fear the unknown, so learn about it! If your home is prone to have a certain colored snake that pops up, research it, and you may find out that it's not poisonous. Fear is gone. You can still be cautious of a bite, but you have a new feeling of ease. I don't trust people, but it's not an overall worry for me either. I also love them too. My duality in this is for my peace of mind. I filter in what I want and filter out what isn't necessary, yet I love the foundation of wisdom that is left in my existence now. I like that you are pushing yourself to know more of yourself. It's a beautiful thing. Take your time and always never put a limit on being better than the day before. Keep your conversations coming, thanks!

[@Autodidact-t5c]

I dont trust women either due to past experiences

[@swedishpagan2150]

It's getting old you know, do you even trust yourself?

[@craigwhitham6680]

1:002 that's the key part when you talked about controlling...when this happens by either the male or the female(at least you acknowledged it goes both ways) it's never a good thing ☝️

[@MajinErick]

Judged! 😂😂😂😂 Ok. I'm watching.

[@janco333]

Maybe you are just hanging out with untrustworthy men.

[@ambitiouspurr]

Sorry ur very cute but aint NO WAY im sitting thru 1 hour

[@Nemesis_69-i9l]

When you realize what a deadly crime against humanity monogamy is, you'll start to trust women less as well.