I GAINED THE WEIGHT BACK ep. 5 Nothing fits anymore...

[@MadeleineOlivia]

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[@roserosa8276]

You are gorgeous and as we age our body goes to changing that we need to direct. Instead focusing on weight gained, direct your focus in shape your bodybuilding to muscle.

[@erinnafriederick7340]

You’ve got no idea how many women you’re helping by posting this. I needed this sort of content so much, thank you 🤍

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I'm here with you ❤

[@erinmcginnis640]

Yes thank you for having the strength to post this. This has been very helpful to me.

[@vegan.rex_8]

Girl, nothing to be embarrassed of. Social media has created a fake standard of beauty that people fall for. You are beautiful regardless ❤

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you ❤

[@DesignGuy17]

I’m a guy, and that November 2019 video you made has always stuck with me. I am not a naturally lean guy. I am thick and my weight fluctuates a lot. But I always think about you saying we have to accept where we are at, and not deny ourselves nice outfits simply because we should be losing weight to fit into our nice “smaller” clothes. It’s really helped me!

[@jimmyjeopardy]

Maddie out here single-handedly teaching us all that we should love our bodies. Love how real you are, you're really are a beautiful woman inside and out but like you say, there shouldn't be the pressure on how we look and it shouldn't be such a focus. All the looks were great on you and I love the long boots!

[@MadeleineOlivia]

You’re so sweet thank you ❤

[@alexmcginness8859]

Ugh girl, hearing you talk about the pooch area is bringing me to tears. It’s the area of my body that I am most self-conscious about and I have a really similar body type to you. It’s so insane how we treat ourselves sometimes. Leaning into the learning and acceptance you’re teaching in this video. 🙏🏼

[@MadeleineOlivia]

It's so hard but honestly we all have to realise life is so so so much more than the shape of our lower stomach! It literally has zero impact on our lives. Thank you, these comments make me keep making these videos!

[@Ubrennan]

Oh Gawd

[@cd4266]

For a women who had a serious eating disorder from 14 years old…who had anorexia and nearly lost her life. Who got well but still for 30 more years had that secret issue with body persecution.. who had lots of life traumas and ended up taking herself away from everything to live in Devon in the middle of nowhere for three years to heal.That hung on to all her clothes from to size 6 to size 14 and felt if I got rid of them I was somehow getting rid of my soul or the person I was when I was tiny… but now I have healed I have got rid of clothes that are attached to triggers and clothes that I haven’t worn in years and restocked my wardrobe with clothes that make me feel comfy that bring me a relaxed energy. I don’t mean all baggy but relaxed in how my mind feels when wearing them! Just get rid of anything that starts your brain thinking about your size or a negative triggers. X

[@Cozywithkale]

Thank you for sharing so much about your stomach. My stomach is never ever small or flat no matter how skinny I was. It’s been my biggest insecurity for most of my life and to see you normalizing it is so refreshing

[@BettyBarnyard]

I can't tell you how much I appreciate your vulnerability, this is soooooo important to show the reality of the thoughts that we so associate with our physical body. Looking back at old photos I've had that same moment of whoa body dysmorphia is WILD. The body we have right this moment deserves to be loved too. We cannot hate ourselves into liking our bodies.

[@misse7095]

You inspire me. I’ve been putting off going through my smaller sized clothes for YEARS. Today is the day. Thanks for your honestly and healthy mindset.

[@pauladavey4467]

How cool is that?! Enjoy the process!

[@beamac]

Maddie I had to stop the video to just come here and tell you that you are so brave for doing this! You cannot imagine how helpful it is to watch this and hear someone go through the same I go through and have the same thoughts..really thank you from the bottom of my heart, you are doing great ❤

[@catherinelaws77]

This is honestly so refreshing! I’m turning 30 this week and my body isn’t the same now as when I was in my early 20s and this helps me to realise that that is completely normal and ok. I don’t need to beat myself up about gaining a small amount of weight. What matters is how you feel and being happy in life. Thanks Maddie!❤

[@sueleeg3215]

Almost my entire closet is a size or two smaller than i am now. I also have a tote full in storage. When you were talking about those blue jeans. I have a pair of Levis i wore 20 yrs ago. Saved with the belief i will get back into them. It was the thinnest i had ever been and i felt so good in them. Who am i kidding? I will never wear them again. This series has been an eye opener and just want to say thanks for doing it.

[@mariabuhne1130]

Madeleine, first of all, adore this series. And second of all, not only is it evident that you’re taking such good care of your mental health, but you are STUNNING. The care you’re putting into you really shines through 🖤. Hugs from Canada

[@ShakespearesLanguage]

This is one of the most important KZbin videos I’ve ever watched - during my PhD I went from being 155lbs to 215lbs (i was 130lbs as a teenager so 155 felt HUGE) - I’m now 30 and around 178lbs and I’ve just been ALL over the place lately - really helped me to watch this

[@christapoulet363]

I just loove your philosophy! I'm 51 and I've never been happier with my body image even if I've gained weight lately...I go thrifting, I do a lot of layering, my clothes are comfortable and I pin images of women who are around 50-60 and all that really helps! Thank you Maddie! You look beautiful!

[@MaisaPenetra]

Madeleine my dear, I follow you for years and there’s SO much I’d like to say but take this: that black dress is so stunning on you, that I (somebody with a similarish body) took photos of my tv to make one for myself. Thank you for being so vulnerable sometimes, thank you for the video :)

[@sootyginger4388]

We all are a different shape with age. Get rid of all the small clothes and wear clothes that fit. You look amazing.

[@Amatory0]

the fitted black jeans you put on at 11:40ish in the video are super flattering (imo). you should keep/wear them so long as they're comfortable for you to wear!

[@TallulahMorgana]

Yesterday, I had the revelation that I am finally at peace with my body and brain. I tell you what, it was a much more beautiful feeling than any dress size or academic exam grade could have given me. ❤ xx

[@AJ-wl7qz]

Love your attitude!!! I realized a while back that most people are to busy worrying about their own appearance to really look at anyone else’s. So wear what you want that makes you feel great and get rid of the rest. Life is too short to wear uncomfortable clothes.

[@meganjoy9225]

Thank you for this! My struggle lately is realizing that I look my age! It’s funny because I’ve never cared about aging but all of a sudden being in my 40’s and looking like I am shocked me.

[@amiestepp5270]

Hi, I'm 42. This is very relatable 😂 My 9 year old told me that I'm starting to look like Granny (my mom) and I needed a moment to collect myself. 👵

[@clairejones8295]

I never thought I cared about aging either and I think I looked young all the way through my 40’s. At 50 it really hit me, how I truly looked middle aged and a lot of my friends were close to 60 😢 I am still working on accepting the aging process and how my body and face have changed these last few years (and my neck 😂). These videos are so nourishing, and helping me to accept who I am inside, that my life is so much more than how I look on the outside, and perhaps there is a freedom for us if we can get to a space where we can truly accept our humanity and that we are worthy to feel good about who we are and that our value as women is not tied up with our appearance. Thanks Maddy

[@Summerrose400]

I’m 57yrs yet in my head I’m 28yrs old with long brown hair, so when I look in the mirror and see a grey haired old lady is quite shocking. I no longer dye my hair so need to just accept I’m old er therefore look older. Sometimes self esteem is not about weight or body shape…it’s about our feelings so we need to work on those feelings. Thank you to giving me a kick up the backside and just love me grey hair and all !

[@Summerrose400]

I would love to see you do a ‘ try on’ video as your style is great and would give me some tips.

[@Laura-g1c1l]

You're shocked because social media makes it so that people who have aged naturally (as one should), all of a sudden look abnormal. Am sure you look like anyone should look in their 40's and remember that is normal and that aging is a privilege that not everyone gets to do.

[@AlanaV.]

The fact that you are actually filming what hundreds of us do quite often is amazing. I can so relate to this video. Thank you.

[@Mimi-is9ku]

I'm sorry for not watching your videos as soon as you posted, i know this would help your channel out. But i save these until i've got time to snuggle up on the sofa and watch it uninterupted, your a safe place! Thank you for being so real and lovely 💛

[@anrettas]

Maddie I can't begin to describe how healing it is to watch this; you're so sweet and encouraging

[@sebimefferland7377]

Just a big THANK YOU! for being honest and making weight in any direction ok.

[@lynseypeters]

I think the black jeans with fitted cream top was lovely on you and was very flattering. The black dress was great on you too, can be dressed up and down. The last creamy coloured outfit was gorgeous, the turtle neck absolutely suited you and was beautiful with your dark hair and red lip. I think the outfit was nicer with the longer coat. I felt this video so much, I had tears in my eyes. I've always had body image issues, previous spell of an eating disorder, and curently feel terrible in a lot of my clothes, mainly jeans as I've put on a little weight recently. Trousers have always been the thing I hate shopping for because I hate the thought of having a buy a bigger size, even though I know the sizes in shops are crazy, never the same, and usually all on the small side. It just can really make you feel crap. Thank you for this series and helping us not feel alone 🤎

[@elizabethemmerson4295]

You are so right! I have adopted 80% whole-food, 20% soul food thinking. I don’t think of food in good and bad terms but what foods will nourish my body. Your message should be out there as much as possible and is very freeing for women ❤

[@ssedarius]

I love this series. Thank you for your vulnerability. You're helping me with my weight gain struggle. X

[@claireelliott9195]

Your story shared with transparency, authenticity and grace - been watching your channel for a good while and had to comment on what you have shared today which I think will help lots of viewers, well done and thank you xx

[@rachaeljones5767]

I've gained two dress sizes due to cancer treatments and medication that i will be on for just under three more years . I'm blessed that I am here and my hair has grown back. I've given up looking at sizes on clothes and just rather feel happy in something that is looser and comfortable , which I think looks more flattering than wearing something that is way too tight x

[@susannak7483]

Maddie this series has been so incredibly helpful! I would like to see a video on finding well-fitting, comfortable and pretty undergarments. I am also curious about your thoughts on shapewear.

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I think I’d love to do this one next!

[@estiejoy4854]

This series helps me so much! Been watching you for years - I remember when you got those jeans even! And it's so freeing to see other people accepting their bodies too 🩷 you're making a big difference with this content!!

[@LuciaDeGiovanni]

You are giving Nigella vibes, and I LOVE it! As someone who can barely get above the 100lbs mark (I'm 5'4"), seeing your body, a woman's body, is inspiring. You are absolutely gorgeous.

[@clareb8015]

Why can't we just accept that a "woman's body" can come in any shape and size.

[@LuciaDeGiovanni]

@@clareb8015 TRUTH! I've been made to feel like I am not, having to shop at the little boys section of stores.

[@RomyHouston-y9v]

And it is cold a lot in England so you can have lots of different jackets and scarves over that all black look! Your spirits seem very high and it is lovely to see!

[@RomyHouston-y9v]

How many times can you hit the like button for a video!! Great job on this one! I also think the black boots with the last two outfits (red and all cream) would look very sophisticated!

[@danshibuya6593]

Thanks SO MUCH Maddie for this series I can't tell you how much it means to me and how impressed I am you're doing it, it is so important to see this reality that I certainly have lived with my whole life, we must fight it and we must help younger gernerations of girls and women to improve their self-esteem and stop being obsessed with each others bodies. Radical self love. I desperately need it X

[@Christina_Paz]

So, this is one of the few times my devices listening to me has actually led me to something great! I've had struggles with accepting my weight gain for much of this year and your video here is such a blessing. A couple of days ago I put on a dress that I actually liked because it fit my body well and accented my curves that I try to hide so much. I actually felt beautiful, which is something I haven't felt in a long time. I'm excited to go on this journey with you, to better self acceptance and self love.

[@MadeleineOlivia]

I am so happy! Feeling beautiful is important and I’m sure you looked beautiful in your dress. So happy to go on this journey together ❤️

[@amystubby]

The fitted dress with the brown boots...10/10!

[@sallywinterbourn1780]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. You have no idea how much you've helped me!

[@PascallePointing]

The black jeans are gorgeous on you! Sharing these moments and thoughts are so helpful. I’m about to give birth in 4 days and I’ve already having thoughts about losing weight after. These videos have really helped me remember that any size I am is okay ❤

[@Feeeebos]

I never really know what to say out of fear of saying the wrong thing but I do want to say I see you as just the most beautiful person inside and out. It seems like just about all of us are struggling through the exact same feelings and your openness on this is so genuine and helpful. You’re so brave and awesome!!!! xx

[@Dontletthemdullyoursparkle]

Beautifully said!

[@jeneaneherzog4626]

I’m glad you’re starting to let go of the worry! For ONE thing you’re strikingly beautiful& TWO the stress hormone (cortisol) caused me to gain weight in my middle over the last 30yrs. I think every woman on the planet has body issues… just glad we’re talking about everything& learning to figure things out! Thanks for all your help!!! 💕love your videos! Been watching for years!!! Keep’em coming!😁

[@beccasabaka8116]

GIIIRL YOU LOOK AMAZING!!! The feeling of freedom wearing clothes that fit verses fitting into clothes is like none other ❤🎉

[@msGoodventure]

Defininig yourself as a bodytype one grew up with hit me do much. Thank you for this series!

[@samantha-kemp-therapy]

Love your points about the way you will talk to your children

[@stephaniemena93]

Madeleine I can’t thank you enough for doing this series! I’ve struggled with my weight/body imagine since around the age of 13/14 and I’m now 25. I too have been through an eating disorder and still have a complicated relationship with food and my body. It’s so refreshing to see and hear someone talk about this and the positive mindset that has helped you. And as you said, throughout history the ‘beauty standard’ of women has changed and it’s about navigating all the information and social media of the modern world

[@TheMakeupBee]

At some point in 2021 I was successfully losing weight, I was finally closer to a "healthy" number on the scale. I got pregnant and had a missed misscarriage because the pregnancy wasn't viable. Later at the highest weight ever I got pregnant on the first try and had a pregnancy with zero complications and I only gained the few pounds that are recommended for a normal pregnancy and lost them again right after birth. My baby is now 15 months old and we are both super healthy. I am 1.75 m tall and around 90 kgs. I should be around 20 kgs less supposedly, but I am eating a varied fun and healthy diet and my tests all come back great. Even tho I don't look skinny, all is good man. My body still does amazing things.

[@syuill3444]

When I was younger, because I was unhappy with my weight, I would delay everything until I lost weight. I essentially delayed being happy for a good part of my younger life. Eventually I learned to enjoy my life as it happened, enjoyed my friends, food and more. While there are always ups and downs in life I have found balance. Good to see you on your positive journey Madeleine!

[@ThePnkpantha]

that black split dress look phenomenal on you. I kno u say u can b self conscious abt things but even u recognising that u looked good in it is something i wish i could do. As a UK 10 i kno id be considered average sized but everything i put on i can find something to pick apart & b pissed off at abt myself. This series of yours & seeing ur confidence & how u overcome anything ur not confident abt is definitely helpful & hopefully i can start to accept myself as i am.

[@ThePnkpantha]

omg and as women we always want what we've not got. At 5ft 3 I would LOVE to be 6ft. I have poker straight hair & id LOVE curly hair. My best pal has curly hair & she hates it. Why are we like this 😭

[@counselingonthealameda442]

The striped t-shirt looks great tucked in ! ❤ Love the red shoes:)

[@hazelrogers2455]

Thank you for this video Maddie . I have actually lost weight which whilst makes me feel good mentally I’m not me when I looked in the mirror . Having found both my style and colour in my 60th year ! I now have discovered this neutral palette is not for me . I like pops of colour and I suspect the top you talked about is more about the pale colour that does not suit but in a colour that suits your season it would feel totally different . Am loving this series so thank you for bringing this issue to the fore .

[@nml1930]

As an older/wiser woman, i think it is great you are doing this. I am one of those shorter women & always half wishing to be taller. It’s all such a bother honestly. You cannot please others. It is hard enough being a woman. Now i do what is best for me.❤❤😊

[@laurenkwh]

As women, it’s perfectly natural for our bodies to fluctuate in size and shape over time. And as we become women, our bodies evolve. You had a girl’s body, and now you have a woman’s body. It’s a beautiful thing! I love the outfit with the striped top, jeans, and red Vivaia shoes. Very much my style and something I’d wear, as well. It would look great with a red or navy blue cardigan.

[@underthemermaidmoon]

The jeans that fit look great! Your journey resonates with me too! Your attitude is great! You are beautiful!

[@juliarhrmyr]

I once saw a reel that dealt with the topic of "flattering clothes", clothes that have "the right shape" etc. And it ended on the sentiment of "The right shape for whom?" Essentially, I think we need to get rid of the notion, that clothes need to be flattering. Is it comfy? Do you feel good wearing it? Then it is flattering clothing. End of. As someone who was a teen around 2010, all I was ever taught was "Accentuate the smallest part of your body, camouflage the biggest parts, show off you legs, bla bla bla". Looking back and looking at 2010s fashion through today's POV, I realized what a load of bs all that was. Anyway, my point and what I've learned is: Wear what makes YOU comfortable. Not society, your friends, family or partner - but you. 💌

[@amystubby]

9:40 those jeans look amazing on you, and the outfit is adorable. Maybe try a jacket with a cinchable waist if you need one? It will give your waist definition and lengthen the overall vertical line, as long as its long enough. You're stunning!!

[@nightreader1264]

You are great! Your body just changes. When I turned 40, I went up a whole cup size and could not wear any of my 8 1/2 size shoes, now a nine. 60- my girls, breasts, are even fuller. Lifting weights have helped, but your muscles will grow! Totally with you on this.

[@Alis-Nicola]

Thank you for sharing your journey Madeleine. As a post menopausal woman it’s been so hard to come to terms with the changes in my body and the weight gain that seems to appear overnight. But I’m giving myself some grace and trying not to obsess about it. I’ve decluttered everything that doesn’t fit and bought preloved items in a bigger size. If I lose the weight again then that’s ok and if not that’s ok too.

[@YueDreaming]

Girl you look stunning in the black trousers and white top with the ankle boots. No need to feel uneasy about the fitted look as long as the clothes are comfortable!

[@mandyhackman9740]

Thx for this. Often people don’t understand that the health issues dieting is supposed to “fix” are super common to be results of chronic dieting and disordered eating. I haven’t restricted for over 15 years, but I definitely had tons of ibs symptoms and even a heart issue that was instigated by that time. It’s more common than not with chronic dieting- particularly it’s a huge strain on the heart, which it is wild to know that firsthand and hear so many folks recommend dieting and restriction for “heart health”. I simply can’t square the idea of any supposed health or social benefit being worth diving back into the physical unhealthiness I experienced at that time (much less the mental health issues and social isolation that comes along). Thanks for being vulnerable out here and speaking on this.

[@gaylefisher7045]

You are so pretty, you look great and showing women how we are more than a number on the scales. Love this series ❤

[@lcgibson]

I am loving this series so much, thank you for this

[@blackjag121]

Mads, I think you are beautiful and too hard on yourself!! You have a beautiful home and husband. They are your structure, foundation and peace. Enjoy it

[@kathleengausden2392]

At last a realist who we can relate to. Stunning and beautiful young woman!

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Thank you Kathleen ❤️

[@makingforts]

Madeleine, I hear you on feeling this way. I struggled with an 11 year eating disorder and I still struggled some days. It's easy to fall back into negative patterns. I am so proud of you and you will gain the love for yourself 💗

[@rebekahkasper6126]

Thank you for your honesty and your kindness, to others and yourself. I have been walking through ED recovery for about 13 years now and have been on the journey of making peace with this meat sack that houses my soul 😂 we are rooting for you!!!!

[@GeorginaPiper]

Thank you for your lovely video! What I noticed the most is how you wear the best colours for your skin tone! You look and are absolutely lovely and I feel super inspired. Thank you!

[@rebeccamolloy1936]

I love this series, I just paused the video at the point where you are talking about the fact that plus size models always have flat stomachs, it has always made me feel worse because I thought I was finally being accepted by companies using plus size models then I realised they still look nothing like me . I have struggled with eating disorders, as a result I have yo-yo dieted and my weight has been 9 stone at my lowest and 18 stone at my heaviest leaving me with hanging skin and stretch marks everywhere. I call these my battle scars now as I am trying to embrace my body. I have been roughly the same weight for 8 years now, putting on some recently as a result of menopause and HRT which I do sometimes struggle with. My point is I am so grateful for you sharing your vulnerabilities, this menopausal almost 52 year old feels so validated 💚

[@josiesteed7573]

i have also gained weight back to what I was pre-vegan days. I struggle with not letting it get to my head and I struggle to eat healthier food. here with you ♥️

[@AmandaLynch-p7y]

You look lovely in your new clothes so keep going xx

[@harleen222]

Maddie, you absolute treasure! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and fears with us, it resonates with me so much. I really struggle to put effort into my dressing when I put on weight. But I realised a while back that there are some amazing vintage looking pieces that make me feel great whilst being more curvy. I look at inspiration photos from gorgeous and stylish women from history which makes me feel good about myself. I think you look absolutely stunning, and especially when you aren’t hiding yourself! ❤ Like the black dress is just absolutely gorgeous!!

[@nykkeebunny4103]

As someone in the same situation, if you have anything that doesn't fit you but you love because of the fabric, keep it and reuse the fabric. I have a dress and a top (and many other things) that don't really fit but I love the fabric and they kind of match so I keep them so that one day when I feel like doing a project I will use the shirt fabric to expand the dress where necessary.

[@justforyoualwayz]

I love this video. The red and white stripe shirt looks fabulous on you. The coloring works great and the neckline is super flattering on you. ❤

[@Aleatoire9]

This is such a good chat and thank you for sharing your vulnerable thought process. I’ve gained weight in the past 5 years and I’ve only recently gotten rid of too small clothes. I’m also healthier now than I was before - I hardly ate, was always bloated, and was so tired when I was smaller. I feel physically better and stronger now but then I see a photo of me and feel like I just look unhealthy and “bad.” Society is gross 😢

[@beautybrightPOP]

Thank you for making this video! I am in my 40s and I’m done with rejecting and judging my body, especially as I get older. You are doing an unbelievable job leading the way for women! Seriously it helps to know that we are not alone and have other women speak out. The other day I was in the supermarket in my shorts (after a hike) and I just thought this is me! I don’t want to hide who I am anymore. Let them all see me! It’s a new journey, a new day, let’s begin! Yay 🎉❤

[@itchystitchy]

I feel your pain. ❤ I love your red striped breton top with the new jeans and the red Vivaias...so my vibe. The top is good for layering under cardigans, too! The black jeans you tried on second look great on you-the test is if you can sit comfortably and eat a meal without feeling uncomfortable so you're not miserable wearing them. You say they are stretchy so that helps. I love the brown knee-high Vivaia's with all your dresses. The turtleneck looks elegant on you - no double chin. I think the turtleneck outfit wit the camel coat would look amazing with the brown knee-high boots.

[@SCmagicmagic]

I went from 64kg to 78kg with new medication and weight training. I went from skinny to body builder and I couldn't be happier. I look and feel so much healthier .

[@Dontletthemdullyoursparkle]

I love that you are talking about this. I've always been so self conscious of my shape as I am slim but have big bum and big curve in lower back but I also have belly pooch that sticks out like you. I am slim and couldn't understand why my belly stuck out like that. The two things that I have finally found that do reduce it a bit are running and pilates. I have noticed my belly is flatter. Also although my belly is that shape sometimes even when not bloated, eating food that doesn't bloat you really helps too. I love that you are accepting and embracing your body shape. I love that you have been brave enough to show your figure off. I love that you explained that it is normal to have a belly pooch. I am so grateful to know that someone else has the same belly as me. You have a great figure and look very beautiful and womanly. Thanks Madeleine x ❤🎉

[@Britbabe53]

The black jeans look so much better on you than the vintage light blue jeans. The fit is really nice. A jean with a elastic give is so much more flattering to us all imo. I would look for those stretchy jeans any time I was sizing for jeans.

[@peitho9408]

This series is amazing - thank you so much, Maddie! 💗

[@dsm_796]

Love this! As long as you’re healthy, who cares about the size you wear? You are beautiful and inspiring. ❤

[@Ejcfarley]

Yesssss embracing the beauty of your body right now. This video is so relatable ❤❤❤

[@Emmz88]

I love these videos! I have struggled with food and body image since my early teens a few years ago, I was completely burnt out from calorie counting I decided enough was enough I wanted to take the steps to live my life not obsessing over food and how small I could make myself It was a scary transition, but the best decision I’ve ever made. I now say my weight is none of my business!

[@wynonadavidson2645]

This series is really helping me accept my new postpartum body 💓💓

[@roserosa8276]

I gained so much weight after covid period and has been so hard. It’s very hard and difficult to complete tasks nowadays. I am always fatigued and out of breath. I do not want to get used to this weight I am start walking and controlling my intake (mostly quality of food and drinking calories). My goal is to be able to move around without pain, breath well, feeling well at the end of the day.

[@fernandafonseca4746]

First video i,ve seen from your channel. Thank you for doing this ❤ It reminded me that our bodies changes and thats not something necessary wrong

[@MadeleineOlivia]

Welcome to my channel! ❤️❤️❤️

[@cathylynnpietranton]

Maddie, I love you in the last outfit with the beige coat. The red coat is beautiful, but the longer coat looks better with that particular outfit.❤

[@mollyhoyer3356]

I'm so glad you really addressed height and finding clothes that are the right length in this video! As a fellow tall girly (only 5'10.5", though, sorry! always wanted to be 6'), I honestly get pretty upset whenever Lucy and Yak try to send you pants when they're out of the long sizing! In my opinion, it's disrespectful of what you bring to the table as one of the creators you work with to not give you clothing that actually fits you properly. A better brand for really inclusive sizing is Good American - they're expensive, but the pieces are such high quality and if you want something long, they've got you covered!

[@luciamariarossi4120]

you are so pretty, charming, smart and compassionate that you'll always be beautiful (regardless of the size of your trousers!). Thanks for all you do! Big hugs

[@kathryn9400266]

Thank you for mentioning the "accepted version of a body type as you gain weight". This is something I've really struggled with as a plus size person. When I look at plus size models they never have a double chin, their stomach still looks flat, they don't have stretch marks or much cellulite, they have the big bum and boobs that are deemed attractive... and that's just not the reality for most of us! I'm also tall like you and being tall and putting on weight can mean the weight is less noticeable for a while but if you put on a lot of it, like I did, then you start to feel like you're taking up too much space in all the ways possible. And being short and plus size starts to look like a blessing. It's so awful how we're made to feel this way when we should be able to take up as much space as we need to.

[@tarotofmylife3331]

Great video! This is all too relatable for me and having someone talk through it is so helpful. It helps me highlight my inner dialogue and of course, to slowly embrace the heavier but healthier and happier me. Please ignore the other commenters giving their ‘helpful ‘ advice about going on restrictive diets or how you should lose weight to be more healthy…I hope they don’t affect you as they did me when I was reading them. It just kind of showed their lack of comprehension and erased the beauty and meaning of this video. Sending you much love ❤

[@mariainesrodrigues3515]

I didn't know how much I needed this video! Thank you, Maddie! 🫶🏼You are so gorgeous, and that dress is super cute 🩷

[@lorit5046]

Girl you know your body and when you feel good. Do you! You are gorgeous!

[@irismeeow]

highly recommend also sitting down every time you try on something to see if it fits. i've kept and worn skinny jeans in the past that literally upset my stomach because they were so tight sitting down. now i always try stuff standing and sitting down to make sure i'm always comfy :)

[@RDGirl-l6f]

Girl!!! You are so brave and I thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!❤

[@1sweetperfume]

Crying through the jeans part, I feel you so much. We can get through this, mind over matter 💔🙏

[@abbeysplotandkitchen5393]

Love an all black outfit 🖤 you are oozing Nigella vibes in it with your lovely hair!

[@michellehooper661]

Well done on this series, it’s motivating and regarding feedback on the outfits, your words are saying how good the outfit makes you feel - go for it, as if it makes you feel good wear it. Love the black on you and red really suits you. You’re inspiring and I’m going to try and wear my fitted clothes more, I tend to avoid them for the same reasons you mention worried you. I tend to choose baggy tops. Go for it! Wear what makes you feel good - what a great example you are setting to us all ❤❤

[@joartuk]

I struggled with eating disorders my whole life. I recently gained weight. I am all over the place mentally about it. Thanks for the video