I Got Catfished in Paris

[@lacee_93]

The fact that this is who millions of women are seeking guidance from (per some of the comments) Is frightening. This is a perfect example of how this story could be flipped around and made out that the man took advantage of her when she was vulnerable. Except, she willingly went to stay with a STRANGER, Didn’t speak up when she felt uncomfortable but yet made a whole public video about the encounter to millions of people. And the same women that are feeling so bad, do you tell your daughters “stay in a situation you are uncomfortable in” or do we all tell our children if you feel uncomfortable GO. Did you expect him to be able to tell you were uncomfortable and tell you to go home? You came out there to see him and had s*x on your own free will. If I was him I’d have no idea you were uncomfortable lol.

[@ErikExeu]

I recommend Matt Wash' analysis here on YT, published 27 August.

[@webdesigntutz]

@@ErikExeu😂 🤡 both are trash

[@tnachkebia]

Sometimes people take wrong steps and still are not possible to stop doing it. It is not easy, especially when you are that young.

[@Liz-rt2rh]

Victim blaming

[@handlebar4520]

I'd say they're both as bad as eachother. The guy seemed pretty scummy, but she should've been more careful with who she chose to sleep with. You do this sort of thing enough times and you put yourself more at risk of having bad/dangerous experiences like this.

[@justinskinner7483]

As a father of 2 young daughters, I pray they don't grow up to become this stupid.

[@Sheyshel]

If you treat them with dignity, they won't.

[@NAjq5db]

as a father of 2 young daughters, i hope you learn how to speak to and about woman more respectfully. also bruh, what are you, a middle aged man, doing listening to call her daddy lmaoooo. you're not the demographic my g

[@justinskinner7483]

@@NAjq5db you are so brave for defending call her daddy…. What a massive simp you are 😂🤡🤡🤡

[@Ban00]

@@NAjq5dbpot calling the kettle black. the irony

[@NAjq5db]

@@Ban00 how you fool?

[@coop039]

Long story short: Rich guy PAID for her trip, was not attractive in person, but she felt obligated to stay and sleep with him. Easier to play victim than own up to poor behavior.

[@Zikmandu3]

Literally admitting that she relied too heavily on her emotions and lacked the assertiveness to end the situation…

[@7eyesopenwide168]

It’s always the horrible channels that have so many subs. Says a lot to me about humans.

[@kodyscot9360]

she just got 125 million from SiriusXM...what a world.

[@ohjaydee]

Riiiight??!!!

[@jinnindo]

Check the dislikes on youtube. Every video of this channel is actually wildly unpopular. (Here after the kamala million dollar+ set fiasco, btw.)

[@The_Comedian556]

“My choices are not my fault”-this chick

[@acwilson4714]

So, you fly to a foreign country to stay with a stranger... You're very fortunate you're still around to complain.

[@barbaradelgado3039]

And she was unemployed with no money depending on this stranger 🤦🏽‍♀️ and her parents knew and let her do it…like what? My momma would have slapped some sense into me like girl are u stupid or dumb? Looord

[@JoshuaPlaysMusic]

If you choose to stay...it's not a "catfish". You willingly jumped into the boat.

[@judah-beats4314]

Maybe dont hookup with strangers 🤷 why does she have a platform? Ill never understand why this braindead story has gotten traction

[@denise26100]

it is terrifying that this is becoming the norm for western women

[@swisscheeseplease97]

@@denise26100oh well. Nothing I can do about it. Ha.

[@JoshuaPlaysMusic]

And why would she willingly share this store on the internet, for millions of people to see???

[@ErikExeu]

@@JoshuaPlaysMusic To make her husband proud of her?

[@kodyscot9360]

she just got 125 million from SiriusXM...what a world.

[@jeah84]

Crazy, how she didnt felt guilty for sleeping with matt without telling him about hpv.

[@candicecorbin4690]

Smiling or laughing when disclosing trauma can be an indicator of embarrassment or shame

[@JoshuaPlaysMusic]

@@candicecorbin4690 apparently she wasn't embarrassed enough since she decided to share the story with millions of strangers.

[@j4jennyful]

And she had the audacity to say he was okay and didn’t have it. THERE IS NO TEST FOR MEN. Unless they already have progressed HPV with sores. Like…she “researched” and still couldn’t properly relay the correct information which I will say she has a duty to do if she has such a big platform. At least make it a learning experience for others smfh.

[@Fett60]

​@@j4jennyful and she also had the audacity to say it's not medically harmful to men. She deleted that part in the Spotify episode, not sure if it still exists on KZbin.

[@jamesgill6213]

did he make you "fly across the world" ?

[@c_r_i_ss_y]

Girly, maybe there’s a lot of nuance to us women, but let me tell you: NO woman would go the lengths you went to and equate it to: why didn’t I leave? With all my respect, this is just gross and sad, and you need some real help to even begin to comprehend that the message you’re sharing is so tone deaf and disturbing. Cheers

[@neonlights777]

This girls days of popularity are definitely numbered

[@Fett60]

Paris Man is Shane Vitaly. She had an old vlog with pictures of him in it, and people on the internet were able to match up his tattoos with Shane Vitally. He recently deleted a lot of his social media, and she has since deleted the vlog.

[@qr5vy]

This is so pathetic. She explains herself and behaves like a twelve year old would.

[@BaldwinVoice]

The modern woman, in a nutshell

[@brookebaumgartner3684]

Just a note for the girlies with vaginas - HPV affects 80% of sexually active women (and 90% of men), and it is *impossible* for men to get an accurate test for HPV, so it is incredibly easy to spread. Most women do not know they have it and have no symptoms (which is the case with most STDs), but it can show up in an abnormal pap smear and of course lead to cervical cancer, infertility, etc. (which is why it's so important to keep up with your pap smears every year!). I cannot stress this enough, IT IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED ABOUT. There is a high likelihood that you were vaccinated for HPV as a child (especially if you got all the other common vaccines). This vaccine only really covers the most dangerous strains, so HPV is still incredibly common, especially in yours 20s. There is a lot of shame and stigma around contracting STDs, which is why so many of them (especially HPV) are misunderstood. I know this because I had a similar experience as Alex that resulted in a colposcopy that was (thank god) benign. It is incredibly stressful and scary, and it's unfair that we have to deal with this. I was lucky enough to have a doctor who really spent time with me and educated me on all the facts. She expressed her own personal frustrations about how uninformed people are about sexual health and it's because it's been such a taboo topic since the dawn of time. Side note: She even said that having HPV isn't something that I am obligated to disclose to future (male) partners (however, if you are sexually active with other women it is probably something you should disclose), because it often leads to anxiety and shame that is unfounded and unnecessary. Obviously this is just a suggestion and it is always better to be open and transparent, especially when you see a future with a person, but if you decide to disclose something like this it is SO so so important to be educated on the topic so you can also educate your partner(s). Also, if your partner is expressing any judgment about your diagnosis, leave them. That is a red flag. Thank you Alex for sharing your story!!! This is such an important topic and it's so great that people are finally talking about it. I don't want to invalidate your trauma because it is 100% founded, but I also don't want people who watch/listen this to spiral. Lastly, ladies: Get tested often, get your regular pap smears/well woman exam, find a doctor you like and trust (I have a great rec in Brooklyn!), and be gentle with yourself and your partner/future partners. 💖 P.S. It is literally impossible to know who gave you HPV because it can be dormant in your body for years. It's likely that this asshole catfish had HPV and potentially spread it, but you could you have also gotten it from any other sexual partners. And male partners have no way of knowing. ANYWAY, I'm just a common bitch who lived most of her 20s as a horny girl in NYC/LA. Do what you want, but don't judge yourself/slut-shame yourself, ever.

[@Daydreamerr13]

I do not agree with this laize faire attitude toward High Risk HPV at all. This is a serious STD that remains dormant in your body for the rest of your life, and the research currently is unclear why some people’s bodies immune suppress it for life, while others do not. It is incredibly irresponsible that Alex basically just admitted she was not disclosing her positive HPV status to her now husband. Just because doctors tell us we don’t “really” have to disclose hpv because it is so ubiquitous does not make it morally or ethically okay to sleep with anyone and not tell them you are positive for hpv. Everyone’s body will react differently to this virus, whether they are vaccinated or not. There is no guarantee. So, to treat it so cavalier the way a lot of women, OB’s do- really aggravates me. This shit is serious as fuck. And, you can have clear paps for decades, get pregnant, or have a stressful event and it pops up. And no, i do not believe in that 80% stat that ppl throw around to normalize it.

[@LaFonteCheVi]

This person has a lot to be ashamed about

[@magnificentvillain3506]

“Do what you want but don’t judge/slut shame yourself ever” is the single most irresponsible and utterly stupid beyond comprehension sentence I’ve ever heard. And to think you wrote such a lengthy epic about blaming the society while disregarding the consequences for your actions. Not judging and diagnosing your actions is what caused the issue in the first place. Smh.

[@donaldotrumpo828]

You got the herp don’t you and you’re just trying to cope

[@Daydreamerr13]

@@magnificentvillain3506 this is literally the result of the insane “sex positive, be a slu*, “feminism” of the last decade. The sold young girls under the age of 35 this ideal that hooking up & causal sex was taking the power back , that non-survival sex work was aspiring, be a SugAr baBy, hoTgirLsummer. It was a fallacy, they hang it up at 30 and leave their “feminism” and “radicalness” behind when in reality it was never empowering in the first place but always centered men. For the last decade, ever since that stupid free the nip era. And now, we are grown and seeing the repercussions of that “movement”. But, the young girls today are waking up to it and im proud of them. I was fed that dream, but now i know better.

[@emonbui]

But who forced you to travel to another country to meet a literal stranger on such circumstances?

[@courtneysnyder4093]

Let me get this straight, instead of just sleeping with random guys in her local area, she flys around the world to sleep with random guys??? Wow, maximum effort wh*re right there.

[@tiffanie7139]

What makes you think that she hasn’t already slept with all the local guys? I’m just going to assume that’s why she’s moved onto having to pick from around the world now.

[@ytehrani3885]

What is wrong with this woman? I hope any young girls watching this understand they have a right, an obligation and a duty to take care of themselves and get away from any man or men who stand in their way, physically or psychologically. If you find yourself in a potentially dangerous situation, get the hell out as fast as possible. And, if you have to engage with police, find a female officer. Demand to have at least 1 female chaperone you when engaging with authorities. Lastly, don't do anything Ms Cooper tells you. I wouldn't trust anything she says. There are far better role models than this woman.

[@davismichaud507]

This 304 is a clown 😂

[@kaiqueen3892]

Pushing 30 with this little self awareness is a little hinky

[@mauricioherrera6157]

Take some responsibility for your part on it

[@alexhatfield4448]

Girl you did this to yourself.

[@alrogers9014]

You all need religion 😂

[@Nutz_Deez]

Or a tire iron

[@The_Comedian556]

The women in the video does that’s for sure.

[@joshuajuarez3471]

This girl here needs so much love and guidance. But now it’s too late. Damage is done. Now it’s damage control and mitigate the consequences

[@ST-mn6nw]

Do you even know how expensive an apartment is in paris?

[@ashleyb.529]

But hasn’t she been open about her promiscuous behaviour in past and hooking up a lot and sex and different people in her college days and early twenties the math isn’t adding she could of gotten HPV anywhere you can’t just think u got from that one person if you were open in numerous videos over years that you slept around and so not cool to keep from husband

[@Daydreamerr13]

@@ashleyb.529 exactly

[@freedomfan3277]

When I heard this drivel, it made me think that Islam has a point.

[@BaldwinVoice]

Another perfect example of Schroedinger's Feminist. Both empowered and brave while simultaneously claiming victimhood.

[@mollysingleton1533]

These comments.. I feel like people missed the point or didn’t listen to the whole podcast. I talk with my friends all the time, and most women that I know have been in situations where they slept with someone because they felt like they had to (not in a non consensual way, but in a way where they were uncomfortable but couldn’t voice it). And as far as getting an STD, thank you for normalizing talking about sexual health and STDs. I was in an 8 year relationship and my cheating partner gave me one. It can happen to anyone and regardless of the circumstances, there shouldn’t be shame involved. You are doing a great job of giving yourself grace. You stayed in an uncomfortable situation for a week, I stayed with a lying and cheating man for 8 years. Sometimes we do things we can’t explain. But we are better off now m, and stronger. Thanks for sharing 💕

[@The_Comedian556]

“Sometimes we do things we can’t explain” That’s called being dumb sweety.

[@The_Comedian556]

🤷‍♀️☕️

[@desilorajr2713]

“Women do things they can’t explain “ That’s called being dumb . Women lead with their emotions. Women want to be independent and leaders but they don’t want the accountability that comes with it . Then yall want to complain about guys 😂

[@igbatious]

they should call this podcast the vocal fry network

[@MusicManatee]

Uhhhhhhhh what the actual fuck?

[@Daydreamerr13]

I don’t think it’s right that she didn’t disclose to Matt…. That’s insane.

[@jeah84]

Thats crazy no remorse at all

[@southpaw8040]

Because accountability is a woman's kryptonite.

[@candicecorbin4690]

And did he disclose his body count to her

[@JoshuaPlaysMusic]

So much of this woman's life is "insane".

[@Daydreamerr13]

@@candicecorbin4690 body count and std is not the same

[@wendig4196]

Pretty sure the procedure you had was colposcopy, not colopscopy

[@hustlehustlehustle]

sounds like she had a lobotomy

[@gittefeingeist9720]

Well, name the one smart decision made in this entire experience. Unbelievable.

[@desilorajr2713]

She's so independent and strong, until she's uncomfortable, then she's just paralyzed and helpless Being a leader means taking accountability not leading with your emotions. I can’t imagine any guy would take someone like this serious 😂

[@gillianaliko8520]

Please where is this set from?!

[@khorns1]

Found it! Googled the name embroidery on the sweater it’s MadHappy brand and it’s $110 for the hoodie and the sweats are $150

[@gillianaliko8520]

@@khorns1 thank you!!! 🥰

[@peachnightlight]

😂😂😂

[@agriffith2631]

Accountability.

[@ceceparra]

She literally did not answer the question about the Witness album

[@jeragenhope6822]

OH NO!!!! On a sweet vaca to Paris you didnt get a huge hug and had to sleep on a mattress with sheets and the toilet had a slight malfunction????? OMG!!!! How many years of therapy??? That guy should be in prison for life!!!!!!!!!

[@echakamonjok]

Happy birthday!!! 🎉 Have the best, most lit birthday!! You’re incredible Alex. That’s all I’ll say cause I have no other words. Love the podcast! Welcome to the 30s. I can’t wait to be 30 next March 😭❤️

[@Solaris1970]

Maybe that guys is telling his friends the same story? Incl. that he's got an STD from someone he barely got to know.

[@arongilbert5828]

304

[@bravingthehallways8169]

"Its no longer catfished if you end up willingly givinh up the goods"

[@paigebashista4049]

Know your worth beautiful ladies please .... genuinely, if you need another woman to guide you through the process of gaining the worth you must believe about yourself, and to believe you must be of control over the mind you are ironically only of full control over.. please hmu anytime!! I care so much about helping girls view a life for themselves that is true happiness, I hate seeing/hearing the demeaning and belittling for self ); it hurts my heart .. I've been there; I have empathy and relate ... learning to be in control will allow you to set boundaries for yourself and to which don't allow someone else or yourself to cross those boundaries... once you have a experience with gaining the power of that feeling for not allowing the boundary unnoticed or abused you will feel an emotion that shows how much power you have within and as you continue to gain more strength you'll see the worth as now true and the true value of worthiness is one so inspiring and validated within... you will never feel "someone else's feelings of being uncomfortable" should ever ever come first before your own inner moral and belief and worth and comfort... self love should always come first... and if you're in a place in life where you feel you won't have ability to control the actions for yourself; maybe wait to travel far to meet someone you don't know... the choices you make for yourself are of your own control and the choices you make directly relate to the emotions you live life with!! Worth is a huge emotion that will give your life beauty!!! No longer live by being conformed; you deserve divine life... renewal of mind will help guide to your purpose, and transform, recreate the life meant for you to live

[@ChantelleVH]

Happy Birthday

[@magnificentvillain3506]

“No one should ever feel what you did”. Are you hearing yourself? Is that really what you get from this? No one in the first thing should do what she did. Her decisions led to stupid actions and those actions had terrible repercussions. If anything, women should learn not to fly halfway across the continent for a week and have “unwanted” sex with strangers they barely know.

[@sophiawells2005]

is the miley episode only sound? ive been looking for the video but i haven’t been able to find it!? love you btw and will be listening to this asap 🫶🏼

[@larinhagoddess]

yeaaah I wanna know too

[@ladybug2413]

This video is actually why I tuned in to Alex.

[@susiek454]

WHY ARENT THESE VIDEOS THE FULL SESSION? That sucks

[@godsblossom]

Clickbait. The title is like "I got pregnant" but then saying No I'm not.

[@jonathanmitchell9886]

Or (and I know this is the very possibility that neither side wants to acknowledge) she enjoyed having intimate relations with the guy just enough to stay. I've been in that situation, and the women admitted as much. They weren't crazy about my looks when I got there (even though I'd sent them accurate photographs beforehand), and we were never going to see each other again. But, for the few days that I *did* stay over, I was good enough. It happens. It's vile that the guy passed on a bug to her, and he absolutely should be called out for that. Otherwise, it's simply one of those situations that didn't work out.

[@user-kx2fc2mw5v]

I believe incels call this "Chadfishing"

[@The_Comedian556]

So she’s the female version of Andrew Tate basically.

[@tdc9136]

If vomit came in human form I now know what it looks like and what to call it...daddy

[@kirasoleil]

thank you for sharing your story! how you didn't shed tears re-telling this one is beyond me, but your vulnerability & bravery needs to be recognized!! this is so powerful for people, young & old, to listen to. happy birthday!! 💖 (oh & can't wait to watch the pod on youtube in '25. congrats!)

[@Chubbyguitarist01]

Wtf are you talking about. There’s nothing brave here. It’s all stupidity

[@michelleb9588]

Ok where is this hoodie from!!

[@tahiNZ1]

Where’s the purple tracksuit from?

[@vinnythornton2930]

Women like this are EXACTLY the reason why men (such as myself) are so turned off by the idea of dating. I’ll be 43 on Oct 31st, I’ve been single for the past 7 years, and I’ve dipped my toes into the dating world here and there, and in the, aside from using women for the one and only thing they’re any good for, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

[@D3Sofficial.]

So many bad decisions in one video

[@smokey2174]

Wait a minute, isn’t she married ? Why is all this happening in the first place. Was this something that happened a long time ago ? That would be a nightmare for sure.

[@khorns1]

I was literally thinking the exact same thing…

[@MandyRoy425]

Long time ago considering she talked about being broke.

[@YomarisCastro]

That story is from her past

[@jowiens32]

Feels a little click baity to mention Paris like this was current while she’s married.

[@echakamonjok]

Ofcourse. In the episode she talked about it being in the past when she was a little younger and living in NY.

[@khorns1]

Does anyone know where her outfit is from?

[@jubalharshaw24]

Imagine how annoying she is when she's drunk

[@sadiemarciano6226]

Thank you Alex for sharing this story. 🥺 nobody should ever struggle through these battles alone. This episode could be used as a tool for educating young women❤️ Sorry the medical providers you dealt with were so cold.

[@joshuajuarez3471]

Wwwhhhaaatttttt!!!!!!!!

[@magnificentvillain3506]

@@joshuajuarez3471 Oh we’re really doomed!

[@denise26100]

educating young women on what being a selfish degenerate leads to, absolutely lol

[@The_Comedian556]

The only thing she’s educating women on is how to be a dirty 304

[@marygassman-baltierra3530]

Alex - I'm watching the entire episode. You are too hard on yourself! You were young and took a chance! I'm so sorry for everything you went through ❤ Thank you for sharing your story. I can relate to so much of what you shared.

[@jonmeans2637]

You are no victim . Stop

[@TheHanow]

She have no shame or that story was all fake i refuse to believe that someone can be this stupid and reckless with their life .

[@cnath3466]

This is just nonsensical rubbish. Alex Cooper does not seem to be high on sincerity or intelligence. She's clearly crafty enough to misuse her attractiveness, but I hope young girls don't succumb to her unthinking 'advice'.

[@mage1413]

lmao people actually supporting her

[@faisalwardak2647]

Women must be saved from theirselves

[@rose_quartz_loveandlight]

the best most powerful episode yet, women need this, please keep platforming women's health, thank you Alex ❤

[@7eyesopenwide168]

Really???? This is not powerful. She’s fake, shallow, demonstrates what’s wrong with women today.

[@vinnydurham8964]

Lol

[@johnnyvt9]

me me me me my happiness me me me meanwhile destroying countless other lives an having 0 empathy

[@7eyesopenwide168]

@@rose_quartz_loveandlight no wonder women are so weak. They adore it in others.

[@hustlehustlehustle]

women need this as an example of how not to act, right?

[@ChristySandhoff]

Total waste of time.

[@BeBesAllotment]

I am praying for all the listeners of this podcast and the host because they are walking a very thin line of destruction. Being a woman is a beautiful think, when walking in humility, grace and poise. The actions that are condoned in this podcast is destructive and never going to lead to true happiness. Sexual immorality to the point that you give yourself away for free even to someone you do not like? you are worth sooooo much more than this. Please Please DO NOT see any of this as thriving or something to aspire to. YOU ARE WORTH MORE. I say this all our of love, your purpose and value is not found in feminism nor anything in this. please please think would you want your daughters to do this

[@nothingness863]

961K subsribers, 372 likes. ahahahahahaha. ahahahahaha. ahaha.

[@jvo3777]

This podcast is disgusting. Seek Jesus. Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." -John 14:6

[@Vinox32]

Woman killed chivalry.

[@jeffan6557]

That was intense (hfs)

[@NoDirectionHome.]

Vacuity.

[@ohjaydee]

Can we cancel her already? Good lord. At this point, people are just hate watching, right?

[@Yeagirl1000]

Ew

[@sophie3084]

❤❤❤

[@StephonnMaliekOfficial]

😂😂😂😂

[@caronmorris33]

I found out I had herpes when I was only 20 years old. I had been with the same guy since I was 17. This is how I found out he cheated on me was from the doctor appointment. I didn’t tell a soul for over 10 years. The shame and embarrassment I had from being cheated on and getting a permanent STD was crippling. I know now that I was never wasted goods, it wasn’t my fault, I trusted my partner! But the shame and embarrassment I have carried with me ever since. This was the most real and relatable episode. Thank you for sharing your story. So many of carry these kinds of secrets ❤

[@denise26100]

This is why you stay a virgin until marriage and marry another virgin. Wow who could've predicted that this was gonna happen.

[@trini7738]

I’m 28, got diagnosed with HPV a couple months ago, you have no idea how much this episode ment to me, my favorite one ever, thank you for sharing your story ❤

[@joshuajuarez3471]

Wwwwhhhaaatttttt!!!!!!

[@donaldotrumpo828]

Gross.

[@denise26100]

ewwwww .... men stay away from these biohazards lol

[@The_Comedian556]

Yuck

[@mauricioherrera6157]

Lack of accountability, men lead woman follow

[@LadyBGlam]

~Hi, Hello, bonjour and enchantée, DearAlex. I'm Bea. I definitely don't understand why some people (attention seeking type, perhaps ?), so,why these persons spend their time "catfishing" other people around . . . !?? I have listened & talked (I'm a psychoanalyst / against pills) to a lot of humans, but I don't recall having met with that kind of "catfishing person", at all. Interesting though... So, there's that ----------- I had a special professional request about your podcast. Would you allow me to send you a private message regarding podcats in general ? Thank you very much in advance. Kind regards, Bea (LB.G) 💓 🎶 ❤

[@hustlehustlehustle]

Shame on the guy for doing the catfishing, but once you are there and you realize he's not who he claimed to be, it's on you. You are no longer being catfished.

[@doughope761]

I did not realize that so many Quakers and Puritans watched KZbin until I read the comments. While I think that the vast majority of comments are from people who watched some or all of this KZbin clip, it is doubtful that many watched the entire podcast which is more than an hour in length available only on Spotify. True, she did not make the best decisions, but they are the type of decisions that millions of girls in her generation have made. But, unlike Alex, they typically do not talk about it which is something she encourages near the end of the podcast. Sure, she could have just kept all of this to herself but that is not what she is about and never has been. The reason she has been so successful is that she is not afraid to talk about any topic at all and is completely transparent and speaks the truth even when it hurts. Based on the size of her following (she has the number-one rated female podcast on Spotify; ~4M followers) there are likely hundreds of thousands of women who she has helped gain understanding and insight into issues, emotions and experiences that are part of everyone's life. For all the Amish and Mennonite out there, what you are uncomfortable with is that women are not "supposed to" not only act like that but also not talk about it, although more than likely, they are okay with men talking about, and probably even do some back-slapping accolades in response. Sorry you don't like female enlightenment but you should probably get used to it because it is about time that women have frank discussions amongst themselves. The difference between Alex and all those other conversations is that she was brave enough to open up about her mistakes in order to help other women avoid them or at least think twice. She's made it OK for women to open up, and not walk alone.

[@Liz-rt2rh]

The comments on this video are disturbing. I’m so sorry you went through this, you did not deserve any of it. The amount of people victim blaming is so disgustingggg. Women have to be perfect in situations where they’re manipulated or taken advantage of otherwise it’s always her fault not the man’s. The focus should be on what the man did wrong. Imagine Alex is your sister, daughter, mother, cousin, friend, etc, would you treat them the way you’re treating Alex? If the answer is yes I truly feel bad for any person who’s shame and blame you out upon them wrongfully. Seek self reflection and betterment, not just for you but for the people you are hurting.

[@handlebar4520]

I'd say they're both at fault. I understand she had a bad experience and the guy was being scummy, but she did something stupid too and could've been more careful. The most effective way to avoid situations like this is to take matters into your own hands be careful with who you sleep with. You can't make bad men like these guys completely disappear, so the most effective thing you can do is be careful with who you sleep with. And to answer you if Alex was a loved one who had this happen to her, I'd definately feel sorry for her, but I'd tell her she should use this asa learning experience of why you've gotta be careful and look out for yourself, especially around situations like these.

[@rudawg310]

🍩

[@seanhenkin5685]

It's called karma

[@aaliyah8215]

oh!

[@PeterMarkmann]

I appreciate you being so open.. but can I please fix those shelves for you?

[@diannacruzcamacho9083]

It happened a long time ago! Before she even met her now husband!

[@prcms-q4g]

second plsss pin ❤

[@Roscoe_Scoe]

Why not go get a hotel in another area if Paris? Enjoy and catch a flight when you ready to leave. You didn’t have to hangout with that man if he made you uncomfortable. She a sexy worker.

[@ilikeguns15]

1 month old clip, 56k views, and 443 likes (at this time)... Makes me REALLY miss the dislike number because I think I know what the ratio would look like. Aaaaand the comment section didn't disappoint.