i got laid off from a job for the third time but i don't care

[@derickmoncado]

the market is absolute dogshit right now, there is no company loyalty, the interviewing process is so broken, it's just... we live in hell honestly

[@bbmadeline]

yes, thousands of ghost job postings out there. also many companies know they are going to hire internally but are still required to conduct external interviews.

[@naturestruck8090]

@@bbmadeline yes, this sucks.

[@samweirich5973]

I've been involved in the hiring process as a manager, and I can confirm that companies post job openings and conduct interviews with no intention of hiring. The reason why they do this is: 1. A company with zero job postings on their website looks bad, they post openings just to maintain a fascade that they're performing so well they need additional help. 2. Managers conduct interviews just to fill their calendars with meetings so they can appear like they're actually working... they're not. We all know most managers are useless and spend most of their days in pointless meetings. The sad truth is that they're using candidates as pawns in their game of corporate politics. For those who went on interviews and didn't get the job, don't blame yourself, it wasn't your fault. Most likely the company had no intention of hiring anyone.

[@TheLeesto]

@@bbmadeline I think that's true and I think this is part of why: after 3 years of hard work and sacrifice I got my big promotion. 6% - whoopee doo. I was offered a 21k jump for the same job at another company recently but turned it down because of a few red flags. It was eye opening to see just how underpaid I am. hiring internally means a company gets to exploit their existing underpaid workforce whereas hiring externally means having to pay more. everyone should act their wage

[@oksana5393]

​@@samweirich5973 Thank you so much for sharing it! It was eye-opening for me.

[@susanhuntington-z1v]

I got laid off Tuesday after being told 4 months ago that my job was safe for at least a year. I got divorced 8 years ago after 26 years of marriage. I raised my kids so, despite my degree, jobs don’t want a 58 year old with not a ton of job experience. I live in Northern VA so my rent for a tiny 1 BR apartment is $2700/mo. I get $1200/mo in alimony. I’ve been at this job for 3 1/2 years and it felt like family. But since I was given the news, only 1 person has asked me if I’m okay. Even my immediate supervisor hasn’t asked. I’m so hurt, but I’ve come to the realization that nobody matters. Companies don’t value employees or give a crap if they are going to be okay.

[@PRS247]

Susan, they might all be afraid to ask you if you're okay, because what are they gonna be able to do for you?

[@angelveganfitness]

@@susanhuntington-z1v Sorry about your job loss. I’m 36, and never had a permanent job. Just temp jobs that end abruptly. And I’m getting old. I don’t think companies even want somebody nearly 40 either.

[@karl28560]

Should have stayed married. Now you'll know how your ex-husband felt paying you as alimony! Your divorce was probably planned before your marriage!!!

[@ryanyoung9202]

@@karl28560 JESUS !!! Karl, really is that NECESSARY

[@occultstainedglass1752]

STOP sucking money from a person you threw away! What a freeloader complaining! Go live in a car or find more work...

[@MichaelOrtega]

You have the right attitude. Your voice is valuable to many people. that is what matters. Congrats on 1k subscribers btw. Keep it up 👍

[@bbmadeline]

@@MichaelOrtega thank you so much for your support! 😁

[@metalmike570]

@@bbmadeline Maybe join the military, many women do well enough in there. And because of her bachelors degree she could go in an Officer, and after basic training she would be Lieutenant Rodriguez. She already likes going to the gym, and that's a part of it, being physically fit.

[@JasonReborn-hc6lx]

All Americans get paid too much. If anyone doesn't like it we can import someone that does. HA HA HA HA!!! America is truly doomed!!!

[@neleven4154]

I think the point of this video is she doesn't want to for the man anymore..................​@@metalmike570

[@justing6594]

Gave up working 10 years ago. Don't care anymore. I'll go live in a tent if I have to.

[@ThePurelutz]

i live on a bench and eat grass and insects for food

[@IbHustln]

I call it goin full Ted...

[@KAH-7]

You'all may be making fun, but I'd been "forced out" to that in my past.

[@benjaminpauldimedio1683]

Good go live in tent that will teach something

[@justing6594]

@@benjaminpauldimedio1683 I will.... I'm bringing your mom with me.

[@jackwilliams3343]

Workers need to quit shame ing each other and realize we are all getting squeezed by the Uber rich .

[@metalmike570]

I think she should join the Army, she's still young enough to join!!

[@8anby]

@@metalmike570 The US military does provide a lot of opportunity for people to get out of bad situations. But considering that bad situation is just general existence in the United States, I'd say it's time for the ultra-rich to stop hoarding their gold - you know, rather than joining the army they'll eventually use against you.

[@metalmike570]

@@8anby Then you'll end up working for the corporate world? This lady thinks she might be able to be an infulencer here on KZbin, and people do but then the question is how long can she do it. I see that some of them are able to do this for years and I'm very impressed by them.

[@metalmike570]

@@8anby And because of her bachelors degree she could go in an Officer, and after basic training she would be Lieutenant Rodriguez.

[@AllenHarris-u5o]

I hope so, I saw a lot of jealousy directed to Harold Daggett, ILA boss during the current strike since ended, he was shamed for owning g a big house, a Bentley, a Rolex, etc. He is old and worked his whole life, served in the navy in the mid 1960s and started in the ILA in 1967 as a mechanic. If you don't have nice stuff after 60 plus years of working, it's your fault.

[@Anonymous-cl2es]

I hate my current job but there isn't anything better out there. It's miserable and I went to college and not even working in the field of study.

[@lilbench5834]

Its Ok Happens to Most

[@codetheirfuture]

Welcome to the club.

[@mudkip6]

What did you study?

[@mudkip6]

I hope you get that job

[@MADMOGtheFrugal]

Most aren't

[@keibw]

I’ve been laid off from the last three jobs I’ve had. 2020, 2023 and 2024. It certainly doesn’t make you feel good about yourself but at this point I’m just numb and don’t believe in job security anymore.

[@Catholictomherbert]

While the circumstances you've described are indeed disheartening, it is important to maintain resilience. One must remember that challenges in professional life do not define one's worth. Every setback is a lesson, an opportunity to adapt, and perhaps reevaluate one's path. Do not let the concept of 'job security' overshadow your potential for growth.

[@Kale_shreds]

Me too girl. I’m 27 with an environmental science degree and I’m done with job hopping from evil corp to evil corp. I gotta do my own thing to own my own things.

[@alexandermcbrien264]

Oh that's not bad for your age

[@bidencockboy7608]

Sounds good. Loser

[@metalmike570]

I think she should join the Army, she's still young enough to join!! Maybe you as well.

[@Wally-o7o]

@@metalmike570 eh

[@metalmike570]

Whatever happened to getting married - after falling in love, and then settling down with the right man?

[@andyt1974]

I got laid off from my job 2 years ago. Unless you are prepared financially for it (I wasn't), it is scary. Especially when you have a family to keep afloat. It's tough and depressing. But you have two choices, either let it keep you down or you push through it and get back on your feet (you will). I was lucky. In the end i was hired within 30 days of being laid off. It wasn't the best job, but it got me the confidence I needed to move forward. Always plan for these things. Save money when you can. And she's right, once you are past this you will have learned something about yourself and will learn to be more resilient.

[@kathrynpaigebabin]

My best friend recently said F it and flew to Talum Mexico for 2 months signed up for dance classes and volunteered for the sea turtles. She came back in great shape spirit and mental health.

[@yourgirlfae]

You’re hilarious

[@candy2325]

Is she able to to survive financially?

[@TheFracturedfuture]

​@@yourgirlfaelol

[@imbrandon16]

That’s the most privileged shit I’ve ever heard

[@_heresjohnny]

Ok tone deaf - that’s called privileged

[@ahzootube]

I love this now “oldschool” way of KZbin videos. I wish you good luck! If you have the courage and skills to share your vulnerability and talk about your life situations, you are already ahead of many of us employed and silent.

[@TimothyWard]

Definitely go after your KZbin goals! The engagement this video is getting shows that people enjoy watching and listening to you and your point of view. Subbed!

[@bbmadeline]

@@TimothyWard truly appreciate your support! just subbed to your channel as well. love the topics of your videos.

[@arrowhead455]

6 jobs in the last 6 years. Before that, 1 job for 18 years. I don’t even blink anymore.

[@fooled4less854]

My dad is exactly like you. Loyalty to these companies is finished.

[@metalmike570]

It seems that you're getting closer to retirement. 😆

[@Richardwestwood-dp5wr]

I can't even remember how many jobs I was fired from, over 30 for sure; but I'm single with no kids and worries and I don't give a quarter of a rat's ass about it. Right now I'm chilling watching KZbin drinking coffee and smoking a cigar my buddy the super of the building gave me. Cool 😎

[@picadosinferno]

I'm sorry but being fired 30 times is not right, I'm not a employee model at all but I was never fired, I don't know, maybe you should look inside, the problem could be you.

[@laminage]

I was fired too but it was because I had a hard time taking directions and learning properly. I later discovered that I was borderline dyslexic and have a mild case of ADD. I got help, and my organizational skills together and it's helped alot. I stop and take time to concentrate and stuff which has helped me alot.

[@soulrebel6309]

Did you ever get fired on your day off?

[@ivannajizinue3377]

That is not something to be proud of

[@8bitky43]

Yeaaaaa youre the one giving us a bad name, this conversation doesnt involve you.

[@JohnCarter-qv1ie]

I've been a tradesman for 50 years. Master Carpenter and stone mason. My grandfather was a builder who taught me the trade. I then learned block, brick, and stone masonry. I take tremendous pride in my work and work ethic. People wait for me to do their project. Self employed my entire life! DON'T BE SCARED!!!

[@Thecraftyblacksheep]

Thank you for this comment. It’s inspiring

[@JohnCarter-qv1ie]

@@Thecraftyblacksheep l have a lovely home on the Eastern Shore. Just got a new kitten. Spanky! Orange Tabby! Screaming for me now!

[@melgonz.6962]

You had the privilege of having a career already paved for you, with a personal one on one trainer built in. You cant compare your life to others.

[@JohnCarter-qv1ie]

@@melgonz.6962 No one wanted to work for my grandfather! Complete ball buster and cheap as hell! I was forced to work for him. Left home at 18 and went to work as a laborer mason. You don't know shit!

[@TLA123y6f]

@@JohnCarter-qv1ie So, you're input to a person who is going through a hard time in life, struggling, traumatized is to brag about how wonderful your life is? Narcissism is alive and well in this country. You just proved it. Not surprising since our "leader" has got psychological issues a mile long. So fit to be president and run a country. We are soooo screwed.

[@rasheidwade225]

I have worked over 30+ jobs since I been 18 and I am 32 now. Just got laid off from my city job in August and just recently quit a physical demanding job last week. Personally I would rather work for myself than under a company who considers you a number rather than a asset. Climbing a corporate ladder doesn't benefit nor excite me. I want nothing more out of life than to work for myself and under no one else.

[@laughoutmeow]

Self employment ain’t sunshine and rainbows

[@MarthLuna-wq3ny]

@@laughoutmeow yet it has more options and growth if persistent.

[@tylerdurden3618]

Lol if it was that easy to work for yourself, everybody would be doing it, 90% of the population can't do that

[@genx7006]

"The next direction or chapter" could be sleeping under a bridge. I don't say this to be mean or cruel. It's the new reality. There are tents everywhere now. People are living out of broken-down cars. The economy is in free fall, and no one is acknowledging it.

[@karagraham9764]

@@genx7006 not until after the election

[@parler8698]

Election year

[@lilbench5834]

I knew i shoulda bought that Van

[@provisionalhypothesis]

I've got a job. Ninety five percent of people have a job right now dude. While I would say that it's not the greatest job market I've seen in the world it is far from being as terrible as some people make it out to be.

[@genx7006]

@@provisionalhypothesis Just because you have a job doesn't mean 95% of people have jobs. 🤣

[@zuttoshow]

Congrats on your newly monetized channel! While making content can be its own struggle, it's definitely been a worthwhile experience overall. Keep at it, your positive attitude is infectious!

[@bbmadeline]

you’re so sweet. wishing you heaps of success, you deserve it. keep manifesting. ⭐️

[@Jason5818UI]

​@@bbmadeline Universal blessings to you... stay focused and determined the previous jobs are just stepping stone .KZbin platform could be your purpose in terms of fulfillment and financial prosperity

[@BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife]

I was laid off 3 times in 9-10 months and I’m over working!

[@metalmike570]

Hang in there, say prayers to the Lord sometimes.

[@BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife]

@@metalmike570 Thank you 😊

[@gummywormjim]

I just hope everyone else who is going through employment struggles can find peace and flourish in a place where they are valued. It's a lot to hope for, but I still hope for it.

[@dennisgenovese227]

These jobs today suck! I’m 49 and unemployed and never want to work for anyone no more.

[@simemsayss4395]

The Keynesian money system is your boss, you'll always be controlled by the debt money system. It doesn't get better, we worked our selves to redundancy. They worked us so hard, there's no work left, so now they have to destroy it and start all over again.

[@roythousand13]

How are you going to earn money to live? 🤔

[@jaybrown7811]

Try to start their own business​@@roythousand13

[@mjsteward5508]

I'm 35 and I been laid off my job too but I'm gonna continue to fight and never give up my goal.

[@AlejandraBecerraR]

The mindset is how am I going to earn money to sustain myself, instead of I’m not working for someone else. If you are your own boss great but this message can be understood in a different way. Not here to hate, just share another point of view ❤

[@poptartdom]

I've only just watched this one video and I'd say your content is already interesting. Anyone who engages in real talk, I like to watch.

[@platanopower9568]

I generated $30M last year for the company - and this is my 4th lay off.

[@anitius101]

That really sucks. I feel you 😢. This job market sucks.

[@dral22]

I agree with you. The majority of people in America do attach their job to their identity. Sad in a way. It's usually to seem more important, especially if it's a career that sounds prestigious. They'll brag about it online as if they're more important than others. Furthermore, i appreciate how honest you are and your transparency in regard to mental illness. I myself have experienced it and am still going through it. Some people assume it's a light switch that you can turn off whenever you feel like it. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way. I recently discovered that i have AVPD, so i can totally relate to you. I am still trying my best to stop avoiding certain family members/friends who love me unconditionally. Anyway, my intention was not to make this too long. I am new to your channel, and you have a new subscriber. Please always remain authentic. A person like me truly admires that. God bless you 👑 🙏🏾

[@shirleygriffin7672]

There is more lay offs coming in America. Not surprised....sleeping late this morning

[@genx7006]

One thing I have never seen in the US is large numbers of homeless women. If I saw homeless in the past, it was always long-bearded men, never women. Now I see homeless women everywhere.

[@metalmike570]

I think she should join the Army, she's still young enough to join!!

[@blastedmcgraw152]

I left Chicagoland for good earlier this year. Lived there over 40 years. DO IT! The pace of life and the way people act there is just soul-crushing. I wanted to get out 20 years ago and do wish I had gotten out sooner, but life doesn’t always work out that way. I’m in a small town in New Mexico where I have sun, mountains, and a relaxed pace of life. Never been happier. Again, get out of there!! You won’t regret it. Best of luck!

[@KAH-7]

Unfortunately, as beautiful as Santa Fe is, I being a Chicagoan too, the Police down there are some MURDERERS with badges⁉

[@KAH-7]

@blastedmcgraw152 Unfortunately, as beautiful as Santa Fe is, as a Chicagoan myself, the Police down there Are Some MURDERERS with badges⁉

[@nikkis8102]

Sending you positive energy! Keep going! You got this!

[@bbmadeline]

appreciate it, same to you!

[@fueledbymusic3]

Being a youtuber is hard to advance. But I just post videos FOR FUN. I just consider my youtube channel A HOBBY. As of now, I have 64k subs and make about $500 a month. I also been laid off. 4 months ago. Having a hard time finding a new job

[@AllenHarris-u5o]

64k in subscriptions only adds up to $500 a month? That's one avenue I'm not pursuing 😮

[@goldbrick2563]

@@AllenHarris-u5oyou are shortsighted. If gilbert achieves 120k subscribers, his youtube income doubles. There are billions of people in the world. Easily gilbert could have 1M subscribers. Thats 8k/month in the least. As he gets more subscribers, he gets more views on all his videos as the new subscriber watches his catalog etc. there's endless ways to monetize your audience off of youtube. Create a product, sell it to your audience or simply recommend a product to your viewers and collect affiliate link money. Many other ways as well. Keep going gilbert.

[@Sheeba1982]

Maybe you can get some sponsors? 64K subs is a lot!!!

[@SeriouSXXFireworks]

I just watched a channel that has 10k subscribers and he claims he made $3100 in one month and he seems very legit

[@Toyota4Life]

To be honest with you anytime I left the job either under my own wheel or got let go every situation that came after was better in hindsight sometimes certain things as negative but it’s actually a positive that’s starting to happen

[@bidencockboy7608]

I went pp on my boss. So he let me go

[@Simplyhowiseeit]

I don’t enjoy it, yet insurance companies seem to always hire for adjusters, sales and customer service. It’s boring and annoying but it’s work. Maybe this can help someone.

[@73wdg]

Your video really helped me today. I am literally having a nervous breakdown about some of the things you are talking about. I am 51 years old and starting from scratch again and It just seems impossible. Thinking about trying to just keep one's head above water...

[@bbmadeline]

sending you love and light. you're about to enter in an amazing new chapter.

[@dionbrooks4981]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@gangly_fox]

if you dream on something enough intention, your dream will start to manifest.

[@cocochanel6495]

I really agree with your assessment about the corporate world. This is actually a systemic problem in the Western World. This throwaway attitude of human resources is rempant.

[@ga1actic_muffin]

Yup. Im from the game industry and mass layoff is just par of the course now. Now when i get laid off since its pretty much guaranteed in my industry after every project is completed because the executives want to maximise profits so they only higher big teams during crunch time. I just try to think positively and treat it as a little vacation and get back into work 3 months later when the next opportunity comes through. Lol sadly this is about the only thing devs can do to stay sane since game studio's aren't unionised.

[@waterbug1135]

Haha... my first job was creating Atari 2600 games. Worked at 14 tech startups in all kinds of things. I often left about 2 weeks before a layoff. Only once did I stick around for the layoff. The last company I worked for was struggling, been in startup mode forever. I finished the project (DVD authoring), cashed in their stock and decided to take a few months off writing my own product. Never went back. That was 22 years ago. Loved software and creating products, but love the freedom even more. Mostly what I've done for 22 years is slow flip houses. Working on house #4 now. Planning to sell and move to SE Asia next year. What a wild and fun ride.

[@Acdc671]

Can you tell me why they (all game companies) just don’t make anything anymore? And when they do they’re just awful.

[@CocoaPuff01]

Should've majored in accounting

[@lordblazer]

@@Acdc671 poor business plans and even worse product planning. it's rarely the devs and QA's and often QA suggestions and recommendations get utterly ignored and the product flops.

[@soulrebel6309]

No wonder gaming sucks nowadays...good job buddy

[@dezfacts8839]

I came across your video in my feed, and I'm so glad I watched it. I'm already intrigued and eager to follow your journey. I believe the positive changes in your life and newfound confidence are less about astrology and more about your personal growth. It seems you're realizing that this is the one life you have, and you're taking charge of it… owning your path. Congratulations on that realization!

[@TimmyFrank-m2h]

Yes. Self employment is the best advice you gave yourself. Once you do that, even if you earn less money. You will never want to work for someone ever again. Best wishes to you.

[@CuteeCupee]

So many good points you’ve brought up here. I’m laid off yet again. And it’s exhausting to add in more than one extra pressing issue like mental health or lack of support. I’m so sorry. I have some of these same problems and I can only offer words of support. These mental health issues are no joke and can take a perfectly healthy person and create major distress. It can affect relationships and career, and then we suffer in silence due to stigma. I know it’s difficult to pick up the pieces all while stressing about paying bills and cover housing. It’s best for me to go one step at a time because otherwise I get overwhelmed at the uncertainty of it all. I hope that you have great success and abundance in life whatever that means to you. You can make it happen.

[@AmaryxYT]

I just work at temp jobs and Walmart spark as a last resort and KZbin and it's been nice! I don't have to completely wear down my car and I can work a W2 gig on the temp agency and still be able to file taxes. I had a warehouse job and it was terrible.

[@GeeGee19]

Do what I did I sold my house sold my cars gave away my furniture and retired to Colombia at 48 years old. Life it to short to work until your mid 60s when your useless. Come join me

[@l0newolf-33ce]

In my opinion, following what you’re passionate about is never a bad idea. It may lead you to something else that you didn’t even see coming. Life is too short.

[@CasanovaPugilist147]

A new change of scenery and a focus to live and chase your best life did me wonders in my life. Maybe it's what you need. Moving out of my city and being out on my own forced me to grow so much.

[@sebastianziernicki8641]

As someone that lived as a nomad for 4 years, going to a foreign country and trying to establish a life is not easy. The Internet has glorified it a lot. If you're struggling in the US adding language barriers, no support system, and a new environment is not going to be easier in any way.

[@jonesmorales-tu6kq]

I've lost over 10 jobs in 1 year ... I dont care

[@Ali01007]

10years?

[@MikeBree]

My God, change your profession or something!! No way !!

[@Ali01007]

@@MikeBree take it with a pinch of salt.

[@redscorpion9325]

Yikes 😬

[@jonesmorales-tu6kq]

@@Ali01007 no 1 year

[@waterbug1135]

I worked as a software engineer in 14 different tech startups. Most failed and I quit just a few weeks before layoffs. Did get laid off once. My view was always I worked at Me Inc. #1 Get skills that make me as valuable as possible. #2 Take the crap positions no one wants and kill it. That gives you a rep with managers and executives. Then you get the better projects and management remembers you can also do the crap jobs so when crap times comes you stay. #3 Watch how the company is doing. Short term and long term. I want to be at a growing company. Companies never grow forever. #4 Always be looking for your next gig. At least once a week at least for an hour research job openings. Not just in my field. What's becoming hot. Should I start training for the next hot thing. I got out of software after 18 years to flip homes. Did well in software, even better flipping homes. Most people I've known are dumb lazy. I try to be smart lazy.

[@CasanovaPugilist147]

make your own software or app.

[@thehopefulbudgeter]

I’m an introvert and I realize every job I’ve had, I’ve had anxiety. There’s gotta be the perfect jobs for introverts! Smh. But off topic I love ur nails and lippie color 😍🙂 I’ve never had luck finding the perfect/amazing boss. Like ever. 😐😑

[@bidencockboy7608]

Cry me a river. Pansy azz

[@intalek305]

Laid off 9 times in 13 years, and to everybody else I am a useless piece of crap who doesn't deserve anything because I am still meager financially. Doesn't matter how many times I have reinvented myself to succeed in order to have it ripped from me, doesn't matter that I have had 3 employers steal thousands of dollars from me, doesn't matter that I have worked up to 120 hours a week before. Because I am older with few assets I am a broke dusty failure to everybody around me. At the end of the day, know who you are first and foremost, remember how people treat you, and remind yourself that eventually the cream rises to the top.

[@cherfromtn8225]

Your worth is not in how much money you have. I wish you the best. I am going to share my Christian belief system--which you are free to ignore. This is just how I feel . To me, your worth is having a relationship with God and doing what He wants . You do not need to be wealthy to display the "fruits of the Spirit" in your life. You do not have to be wealthy to volunteer or help others. Billy Graham, a preacher who spoke to thousands, once said the janitor who cleaned up the auditorium had an important job and God valued them both equally. This is a different way of viewing life. When we die, the relationship we have with God will determine our status in eternity--not our job or accomplishments. Jesus said the road to Heaven is narrow and few will find it while the road to Hell is wide and many will be on it. I am thankful I grew up in a Baptist Church with simple rural people. Few were wealthy, but they were good, solid people. I am in that kind of church NOW--no perfect people, just ones who are trying to give God a place in their life. I will give you an example of something that happened to me recently. I gave some money and Macdonald's gift cards to a homeless man standing on a street corner. I found out his name was Jeffrey and the housing board was going to meet to consider his request for subsidized housing the next Wednesday. I told him I would pray for him on that day if he would pray for me because I was as having surgery for breast cancer that same day. As I drove away, I heard him asking the Lord to heal me and to protect me during surgery. My surgery went well, and I think God did not care if a wealthy man or a poor one was praying for me. I appreciated that prayer. I also did pray for him, and I hope to hear he found housing here before the terribly cold weather hit. I am also praying that once he got his housing settled, he would find a full-time job. To this point, he had only had temporary ones. Not having a place to stay makes it hard to stay employed. I believe our lives down here are really a test--to show who we really are.

[@JoesLife89]

I work for the government, pay is ok but good benefits and I probably will never get laid off.

[@dr.abrahamthomas6434]

Dude.. appreciate the confidence. But this video is not about your privileged life

[@NateTheGr8ness]

I wish I COULD have a government job! I'm sure the benefits are awesome. There's always a bunch of hurdles and obstacles they put you through just to get ONE government job.

[@metalmike570]

I was in the Army 12 years, and then the Reserves for another 8. I had no idea but this was my career, and I ended up with a pension, VA loan - buying my home, VA Compensation and VA madical benfits. Retired.

[@metalmike570]

@@NateTheGr8ness Join the Army for a few years, and you'll get the government job after that.

[@RedFox-oj8xh]

So you are a mailman

[@Airbender-kl7cu]

Yes, self-employment is the Key to stress-free, financial freedom 👍

[@Aldo-d6z]

Self employment is a great plan. Only problem with that is you need $. And plenty of it. Good luck

[@dionbrooks4981]

Entrepreneurship is definitely not stress-free I've been an entrepreneur for over 20 years It's a Grind and it's hard ....working for somebody is an easier path sometimes

[@StrawberryJamJam29]

As an entrepreneur, it can be financial freedom if you do it right, but it's not stress-free. You have to be organized, manage your time well, and be comfortable with having to take on the role of 10 different people until you can hire.

[@CBBBJ]

Applying for jobs is kind of tedious these days too…I’ve applied to a few places and none of them get back to me or if I do follow up they suddenly filled the position..I had two jobs at the beginning of the year but got fired my second day at one because I wore shorts and not pants but I had moved and honestly misplaced a lot of my clothes but I could’ve gotten pants the next day…& then my second job fired me by saying I didn’t show up to work but I showed up the day that they told me to and I wasted $$$ ubering for my training cause I didn’t have a car and was taking the bus…they pretty much lied and said I just didn’t show up but I’m in a free will state so they can fire you without a reason

[@6MAJORXWEIGHT6]

Baby girl reach out to your parents to hold you down for a little. Don’t feel like that. You don’t have to live on the street. I’m sure they’ll welcome you with open arms. Much love from Atlanta.

[@antoniobranch]

The boss never gets fired.

[@deez4evs]

The boss also may not take home any $ if there’s no revenue or clients or if business is slow.

[@Aldo-d6z]

That’s why he’s “ THE BOSS” . DUH.

[@cherfromtn8225]

Managers do get laid off. You have obviously never been through a company merger.

[@dj33781]

You've got this, Madeline! Wishing you all the best, you'll be successful I'm sure of it.

[@bbmadeline]

@@dj33781 much love to you. ❤️

[@DistractedDaisy]

Listen mija, nobody thinks you will be here later until you are here later! Save money, the future self will thank you for it because she will have more possibilities!

[@IzzyChopChop]

I look to be around your age (28) and this spring, I was laid off from work for the 3rd time. The first time, I took it hard as I was a naively, aspiring career woman and I was only 1.5 years into the workforce. The second time was in 2022 and I learned to not care by then, shrug, move on, and file for unemployment. A job is a job now a days, and I only care about work so that I can make just enough money to live within my means.

[@vee10403]

I’m here to encourage you! You are a good presenter and you have “it” for being a KZbinr. I don’t think it will take as long as you think it will. Just be yourself!!!

[@DaDaLFG]

I got laid off back in august and I felt the same exact way, it’s a clear sign from our creator letting us know that we can personally become better.

[@32ninjavanish]

That's life. I haven't had a long term career in 6 years. I started to notice things change back when Obama was in office and things slowly got worse until people started getting laid off or fired, companies got shut down, etc. I was fired from my last job after 7 months of working there. They kept saying that because of the economy they don't have enough work.

[@kli9005]

So you noticed things getting worse under Obama but not the disaster that happened under Bush? The economy drastically improved the 8 years under Obama.

[@kli9005]

So you noticed things getting worse under Obama but not the disaster that happened under Bush? The economy drastically improved the 8 years under Obama.

[@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961]

You blame Obama but what has your orange lord and savior Trump ever done for you?

[@kli9005]

Obama came into office when the economy was in a recession. During the recession, many lost homes and jobs. The economy turned around under Obama. This is a fact by all measures. Trump was handed a thriving economy.

[@mysticrose123]

Girl, the universe is preparing u for your next big thing! ❤ lots of light and love.

[@bbmadeline]

totally, thank you rose! love and light to you as well. ✨

[@bethanysaxton7351]

The universe as you believe in it does not exist. There is only your Creator, Jesus Christ and Satan. Please understand that unless you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ you by default belong to Satan. Everything that is going on is spoken of within the Bible and is only going to get worse. Please turn to Jesus Christ. Acknowledge that you are a sinner in need of a Savior; repent of your sins; leave the things of the world behind and surrender your life to Him. The window of time to repent is closing soon. What is coming next is going to be devastating. Please humble yourself and cry out to God. Please turn to Him. It is too late for me but may not be for you.

[@MB-xv7er]

Lmao my next big thing became being homeless haha

[@Stephanie.Hudson]

I was laid off in August of 2022 and I’ve had two contract/temp jobs since then. We’ve depleted savings/investments and my husband’s 401k. We’re depleting mine now. I’m thankful we had those. We have a special needs daughter and with the layoff, we lost our insurance and her medicine is not being covered by the state, as most think it is. I wish you luck in your next steps as I think I need to do the same. It’s time to pivot. I just need to get off my ass and do it. ❤

[@timothythompson4036]

Unfortunately, this is now normal. These corporate jobs are not stable. You accept a position and you get laid off 6 months later. I started my own business 13 years ago because the corporate world has become so unstable.

[@ishaw9894]

Your channel is about to blow up!!! Thank them for letting you go.

[@acr4715]

😆

[@BenSolo777]

Nah, my heart is with you. I know how it is. Started working around 2020, and I was always a hard worker. I did more than I should've, and I thought that would land me promotions. Never got a single one, but to be fair the places I worked at were toxic. People call me lazy but I'm just fucking burnt out after putting that much effort just for someone new to be promoted cause of favoritism. I hardly go all out now, because I only have so much energy and patience for these jobs now.

[@tammym7734]

You keep pushing and moving forward and dont worry about these trolls on here that are negative!!! Good luck to you! I’m subscribing!

[@janellblair9924]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. The job market is awful right now, but maybe this is a sign to go all in on social media.

[@bbmadeline]

thank you for your kind words and support.

[@gailainsley6939]

Social media doesn’t pay well anymore either. It’s too saturated.

[@xxhubdubzxx3468]

@@gailainsley6939it does u just going to have to stand out more

[@gailainsley6939]

@@xxhubdubzxx3468 Look at those who had a million subscribers and were considered ‘hot’ back in the day. Their channels are quiet. The truth is, trends come and go. Everyone has their time and social media is the same. It’s less lucrative now than it was back then. Many KZbinrs have covered this.

[@MikeBree]

Better stop listening to tik toker, online isn't sustainable!! 🤷🏾‍♂️💯

[@AG-so4gl]

I was let go many years ago, I promised myself never again.. Saved up substantial savings over the years, now I work on my terms.. Very empowering..

[@HollySpiceTV]

I quit my job and I dont care either! Every job i had was toxic! Job = just Over Broke ! Not worth my energy

[@3USRNAM3]

holy shit, the relocating part is SO relatable. I'm thinking the same exact way. I'm so done with my town, I gotta go see something new, experience new views and people. it's the time now. I wish you alllllll the best!!

[@sg696]

I wish you nothing but the best. You can accomplish your goal. You know what needs to be done. Just work enough to cover your needs and focus on your channel. You are obviously intelligent and capable. I can discern that from the content of this video. The fact that you are not responsible for anyone but yourself gives you a huge advantage. You are a survivor. I am rooting for you. Nothing to be ashamed of in getting laid off. That is not within your control. I am almost 50 and responsible for three kids and a disabled wife. I feel like everyday of my life is a struggle. Thankfully I still have a job, but making ends meet is still hard. I can’t give up, because I have too many people depending on me but that doesn’t mean there aren’t days where I just want to crawl into a hole and die. I keep telling myself things will eventually get better, but I am doubtful. Whatever happens, I have to keep going.

[@bbmadeline]

appreciate you for sharing your story as well as for being so positive and compassionate. phenomenal blessings are on the way to you and your family. it won’t be this way forever.

[@athenasparthenon]

Stay strong y'all. You're valid for being sad and angry about this situation.

[@gregoryguerrier963]

Most people That complain about getting laid off are usually only willing to work Certain types of jobs. I.e. white collar.

[@Shellxo420]

Girl I’ve been interviewing for the past 2 months && I’ve been hired for all! It’s the not calling back or manager isn’t in right now! I’ve been doing self employment for awhile but I slack because of me always worrying about things not turning out right! You got this tho and I got this! I think it’s a sign for me as well. ❤

[@MNpale]

In America, we have no idea how bad companies can treat us. I was on Reddit and someone said that a global company had to do layoffs. In a single day, Americans all lost their jobs. Other countries had negotiations and severance. As i recall, it took some other countries 6 months to layoff employees in other countries. In other countries they have to have a damn good reason to let you go. Not like here. We really need to get on these politicians about workers rights. There’s nothing beneficial to society to have people lose their jobs overnight.

[@MeghanSAmaya]

That’s not actually true. Unless you’re in those countries you have no idea what goes on and what does not. I currently live in Mexico and wages and longer work days are a norm. Some places only give Sundays off. So it’s all relative. They also usually never get a severance package and they don’t have unemployment benefits of any sort. You’re just SOL if you lose your job.

[@emjay313]

Sis, we have it good on this side

[@lawrencegaceta4839]

I applaud your steadfastness! Specifically, looking for opportunities of what the universe has revealed to you. I would add/share another calculation to your next future endeavor. Having been laid off multiple times, I also include my human capital time to the calculations. For example, looking at my current age, how many years I desire to work to make enough money to place myself in a position to purchase some cheap land. That way I can pay my self my rent, saved money goes to paying down obligated debts, leverage square footage to grow healthy food, and just grow old. It is feasible to find owner financed property everywhere in the United States. I purchased 5ac. of land for $210 a month 9% interest on a $14k owner financed plot of land. It will clear and free in 3 years time. I am wishing you all the best going forward! "Stars shine brightest in the dark"

[@AMNIyes]

2:15 It feels so unsafe to have kids in this economy! Imagine being laid off and having mouths to feed. Im also 30, no kids no pets.

[@Mark.Kenlock]

That’s a great video Madeline! It takes hugeeeee strenght and courage to share and open up about everything you just said. Don’t attach yourself to any diagnoses, they are just “variables” built during the years “assigned” to those that happened to have bugs in their source code. The moment you have started your journey and learn about it, it has been already half of the job! You’ve got this! Keep it up!!

[@chillingsworth4384]

Working 40+ hours a week at a job you don’t even like, knowing you’re barely even going to be able to cover your bills every month, isn’t exactly motivational.

[@TrashBinTreasures]

Amen girl! You are seeing the light now. Chase your dreams! It's okay not knowing what's next! You will figure it out.

[@postcodeox278]

It must be hard to be laid off for the third time. I am sorry that you're going through such a bad time right now. I pray that you find another job soon. God bless

[@Onetakelifestyle3323]

She is a woman she will be fine 😂🤦‍♂️. Men go through this everyday and no one gives a f*ck

[@Blackdadican]

These companies definitely do NOT have loyalty. I always have the mindset of doing just enough, never too much. Subscribed to you, Queen!

[@RamenNoodlePackets]

Yeah, I hear you, I don't give a shit about most things anymore, been around grinding for 37 years in this insane asylum. No phucks to give left. The nukes could start flying right now and I'd just sit on my balcony, drink a beer and watch the fireworks.

[@NuanceFinesse]

I appreciate that you are realistic, it is definitely a slow process. I know that you can achieve the goal of becoming fully self-supporting from youtube, just keep making authentic videos like this one! I'm subscribing now, small step towards the goal, lets go

[@7SideWays]

Great outlook. Very calm and mature. I stopped punching in to do my own thing at 31 with a small child. You got this💪

[@bbmadeline]

congrats! that is so empowering, very proud of you.

[@Micahsophia]

Did you have a saving or you just took the leap of faith?

[@FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle]

I worked in a toxic environment for 10 years before retiring. I will never work a 9-5 again.

[@jujusmagicalmoment]

something more magical will happen for you❤

[@bbmadeline]

same for you. ⭐️

[@bidencockboy7608]

No it wont dipshlt

[@boisterouspanda]

@@bidencockboy7608 Oh no, did Biden's failures make you lose faith in the universe? 😆😆

[@geovani__marketing]

Good luck. Stay focused. Listen to positive audiobooks every morning and write your goals every day. How you react to this setback will determine your future.

[@bbmadeline]

100% consistent journaling, meditation, therapy, exercise, personal development books, a healthy diet and time in nature has worked wonders. just subbed to your channel, thank you for your kind words.

[@geovani__marketing]

@@bbmadeline Hopefully, my story inspires you. Four years ago, I hit rock bottom in every area of my life. I was unemployed, sharing a room with my mom, chronically sick all the time with gut issues, and had no friends. Fast forward to today, I make over $100k per year, live in one of the most expensive cities in the United States, and am in the best shape of my life. Listening to positive audiobooks in the morning and writing down my top 10 goals in the morning and at night changed my life.

[@couldbeAlex]

Yep, we all need to find a way to get out of/off the plantation and be self employed. I quit my last job after 3 weeks on Sept 13th. Thankfully God blessed me with a new opportunity shortly after. Especially in Tech, it's time I stop relying on other companies for money and employment.

[@goldbrick2563]

Just subscribed, youtube rec'd ur video. I like your attitude. You are a leader. Keep going forward with your intuition

[@goldbrick2563]

11:20 do you speak spanish? You could go to mexico city easily. Spain of course, countless spanish speaking countries. Sorry if i'm assuming too much b/c of ur last name

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

I haven't had any fun lately, You bring me joy!I love the kind and generous heartwarming atmosphere that you create, your kind, easygoing, warm vibe. I like the essence how you live on. I need to be true to myself and find a job I am passionate about. I want to find a way to live as who I really am.

[@ST-rj8iu]

Just went through a re-org and got a new boss. It is brutal. I have had 6 bosses in 9 years. It is hard. Hoping things work out for you.

[@angelveganfitness]

People are monetizing in a month. Believe you can do it too! People are getting little checks..

[@LovelyJordy]

I’ve been laid off before. It doesn’t feel good. What I learned is to never attach too strongly to a job, so move on quickly as soon as another better opportunity reveals itself, and to always put my financial health first always. FU money makes situations like this easier. Wishing you luck.

[@thecuriouscaseofkianathoma8354]

YOU GOT THIS! THIRTY FLIRTING AND THRIVING!!!

[@neleven4154]

The algorithm gave me your video so keep it up!!! You are very engaging and easy to listen to. Manifest it girl!

[@kimberlyskye2024]

It’s just that most people would like to be self employed or monetize their life cause 9-5’s often suck and are never fully secure however the reality is most people won’t be successful on KZbin to live fully off of it just due to the numbers. It’s always good to try though however until you see financial stability from it you can only do it as a hobby

[@anewresolve1]

How I've tried thinking about my own channel is the reality of how consistency compounds. A lot of people were doing videos for as long as they were, and then for whatever reason one video they did ended up being the means to help them become more known, which obviously would help that goal of KZbin being one's full time job. They had that habit or lifestyle of doing videos consistently and the specific video that helped them propel was just part of their normal routine. Don't know if that helps or adds to what you were thinking about, but it's helpful to me. If we're consistent, eventually what you do will become something more than what it is now. Learning a new language, a new skill, building a history with a new friend, saving money, and so on. But anyway, I wish you the best and thank you for the thoughts!

[@bryangrant9282]

You need a husband as much as I need a wife. Having a spouse is the only way to survive this economy.

[@annaclarke7643]

How is that chatup line working for you? You never know, someone might take you up on that!😂

[@frostytipsasmr]

this video was so real and so relateble, i appreciate u for this!

[@ChrisBcards]

You're waking up Trinity. Follow the white rabbit. You're on the right path and being guided in the right direction. Intuition is key. Im feeling the same energy. Love this video your speaking so much truth and im going through the same ish. Yes its the universe closing a door and guiding you to a better door to open. I too have the same YT dreams and know you will blow up, keep faith! Its time to start putting that loyalty and work in for ourselves. Sub'd and liked and sending positive thoughts. ❤ Extra Chris B

[@FallacyAsPraxis]

Madeline, its nothing to panic about. As you said, just confidently look to the next opportunity. There's no such thing as security anywhere if you're punching somebody's clock. They can and will get rid of you at any time they want. Do what you need to do and stay loyal to yourself.

[@johnbrown4949]

I understand but your lucky you still have parents. If I were you I would go back to my parents and save money! Now one cares you live with your parents but you. You may have moved out too early. Your parents won’t be around forever, that’s the hard fact of life. You better use their help if you can because you truly don’t have anyone but them. That’s what family is for. Being “independent” may have gotten you into this situation, you may have to reflect on that.

[@dionbrooks4981]

I disagree. She did everything right....She went to school got a education.. She became independent what she supposed to do. She's 30 years old now. I get it. She wants to be on her own and create her own life ..i do understand she does have parents. She's fortunate, but sometimes you want to figure out your own way in life. That's what makes you a grown adult.

[@10leomessi]

​@@dionbrooks4981that's also what keeps people working until they die. We've ingrained this sense of "Independence" in our culture that it makes people feel like they can't go to their parents' home for a period of time. It's a different story if they truly don't want to help you out but that's just sad. Why have kids at that point if you're not willing to help out your own when they're going through major struggles in life.

[@dionbrooks4981]

@10leomessi I do get that as well if you got parents you can count on that's a blessing I've been there in my life I had to move back home when I was in my thirties for a brief period of time.... that's the way this world is built for you to work into your last days .. your generation probably won't retire....that's okay just enjoy things out of life that you can... buying a house raising a family ....family vacations that's the way life is built Peaks and valleys