I HAVEN’T BEEN COMPLETELY HONEST WITH YOU & BIG GARDEN CHANGES

This has been the longest gap between videos…
The past two weeks and the past several months I haven’t been my true authentic self and I’d like to talk with you about what’s going on.
We’ve made a huge decision about the vegetable garden! And I’ll share with you my continuous headache and frustrating journey trying to get monetized with KZbin 😩
There’s lots to catch up on and I’ve missed you all so much 💜
#homestead #fibromyalgia #chronicillness #garden

[@marystipe3877]

I’m so sorry for your suffering. I have fibromyalgia, among other health issues, and I completely understand your situation - you have completely described my life, and my husband’s, in supporting me. The need for breaks, the draining fatigue, the cognitive challenges (particularly during a bad pain cycle), the constant battle to not to succumb to depression. I’m amazed at how very similar our journeys and experiences are. I hope you can find a way to get the gardening boxes to move forward. Know that you are not alone, and that you are such an inspiration in both your strength and humility. God bless you and fortify you both.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you so much Mary 🙏 I am so sorry that you are suffering too. Fibro folks all have different lives but painfully similar at the same time. I sincerely appreciate your kind words and support 💜

[@belleraduechel7510]

I SO appreciate videos like this! One of the reasons i started following you is because I can relate to you! We homestead in town (rural Nebraska), and I have Ehlers-Danlos, a genetic condition that affects conective tissue. I am in the same health "boat" as you. Im 50, and it's hard to be this disabled already, lol. I try my best, but my husband has to help a lot! He's 66 now and a cancer survivor, so hes not what he used to be either. I have two adult kids, and got a surprise at 40, so we have a 10-year-old as well. Anyway, I love watching homestead videos, but when I see these gals cranking out 50 pints of anything in one shot, then making a full meal, cleaning up, then running around some more, it's hard! I really appreciate your videos so much! Thank you for sharing your life. You inspire me! :)

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I’m so sorry for your health issues and happy to hear your husband is a cancer SURVIVOR! Your words means so much to me because I try so hard to be “real and authentic” and show that we (mainly me) homestead with challenges and it isn’t always perfect. And when someone who can relate to the situation as much as you do, gets it…kind of validates I’m staying true to myself and the viewers. Praying for you and your family’s health and I appreciate your support 💜🙏

[@LoriKreykes]

Your honesty can help others!❤Take care of YOU, we will all be here with open arms! Blessings to you and Frank!

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you Lori 💜 I so appreciate your kindness!

[@GardenandGrub]

I understand what your saying. I have fibromyalgia and autoimmune disease and it is difficult to garden in my little bed. But my garden also gives me happiness. It causes me so much pain and alot of fatigue, I get alot of help from my family, but if I don't garden I have nothing left. I also started a channel hoping I can retire from my job because it is too physically demanding. I know it will take time but I have to do something. I totally get the fibro fog, It is frustrating. Hugs from Ontario

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Sorry to hear you suffer either fibro too… My garden does bring my a lot of happiness. I’m usually very content and at peace when I’m in there (I block the world out) I’ll go check out your channel!! Thanks!

[@MaryinWilm]

I am so sorry you are in pain. We are exclusively in beds now and are able to plant more densely so there are almost no weeds to pull! It is just amazing how much easier it has been and I have just added a little at a time. We are also adding in more green stalks as well. I did my beans all in green stalks this year-- three plants to a pocket, and they have been overflowing ❤ Please take all the rest you need. Huge hugs❤❤❤❤

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

That’s so encouraging Maryin! Ever since it clicked with me about the raised beds I’m kind of looking forward to it now ☺️ I’d like to add green stalks eventually as well! Thank you so much for your kind wishes 💜

[@MaryinWilm]

@@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead the green stalks go on sale if you subscribe to their newsletter and my neighbor has had hers for ten years now so they last!

[@kathyweber2571]

Never apologize for your pain.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I appreciate your support 💜

[@sofiazografou7238]

I like your channel and the way you are talking to us. May God give you strength and show you a remedy to fibro. Please take care!!

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thanks so very much Sofia 💜 That’s the only way I know to be and I sincerely appreciate the prayer for this debilitating illness 🙏

[@Birdhouselady]

I'm turning 70 in 3 months. I've had 12 operations. Raised beds save me. Mine are thigh high. Don't make the 24 in high ones. You will regret it. Take your time building them. Do it right the first. I have fibromyalgia, spinal stenosis and also need a operation on my spine. Raised beds help me a lot. Good luck. Good health

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I hope to make them high as possible but we can only do it bit by bit ($) I’m very much looking forward to having them 😀

[@40yogibear]

Thank you for your honesty💕and I have osteoarthritis and I couldn’t move my head I was stuck looking down but my doctor asked me if I wanted to see a specialist and he sent me to take a course in pain management omg they helped me so much and my garden is my happy places.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I’m so happy you found relief! I have been to pain clinics, neurologists and more. My doctor is referring me to a pain therapist now but can take up to two years (in Quebec) I want my garden to be my happy place again too 🥰 Thanks for your help 💜

[@justmenicole4842]

Don't apologize, no need! I am starting to recuperate from an accident , and if realized how I have been bending over for others, and that a percentage of those people are frustrated for their own issues with me not being available to work. You do what you need to do! And also I have garden boxes too and some in-ground.but I bought grow bags at dollorama ( the one in Chateauguay or Ormstown always has some fyi) and am using those .they are quite big and if grow my potatoes and some of my slicers in them .will get more next year! You should look into them ❤

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

So sorry to hear about your accident! I wish you a speedy and permanent recovery 🙏 I did get some grow bags from Amazon this year and they are awesome! I’ve filled them with all kinds of things. I’ll check out the Dollarama too! Thanks Nicole and you take care 💜

[@marystipe3877]

@@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead it might be hard to transition to the grow bags at first, because maybe it’s not what you envisioned for your property design or KZbin presentation. But, you can definitely raise them up, and people love YOU. That’s why they tune in. Like you said, there are many gardening channels out there. People tune in because of YOU. Your viewers will learn along with you, however you choose to do your planting.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

@@marystipe3877 I have actually surrendered and looking forward to the changes we will be making in the garden. I know I can’t go through this again and converting to any form of container gardening will be easier and will let me to continue to enjoy my love of gardening! Thanks for the encouragement and input 💜

[@lynfischer460]

Sounds like you need to listen to your body and Frank ! Just recently my husband and I had to down size a little,love flowers I had to switch and start putting into planters a lot easier on my back and I did cut back a little on how many and it’s working now I have time to smile 😊 again. Grocery stores are a chore I put an item in the cart after looking at the price for 5 minutes and then I take it out then my husband grabs it back off shelf in puts it in cart . We will be watching your videos when ever you feel up to sharing with us. Thank you 👧🏻

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I started so many flowers from seed and they all didn’t make it in the ground (or make it at all) I did as you…I put a lot in pots! I’m not even sure zinnias like pots but we will find out 😂 I always appreciate your kindness and support, thank you Lyn 💜

[@jrctneon1964]

Thank you. Thank you for all of the videos you do. Watching you gives me the confidence and will to go out into the garden. I don't suffer the same as you do. I only struggle with my depression and POTS but watching you is uplifting. Thank you for being so open and allowing us to be most closely apart of your life. I hope you are able to get the KZbin thing sorted out. Hopefully someone leaves a helpful comment. All the love and stay safe ❤

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Don’t minimize depression and pots as “only.”Depression is a daily struggle and a friend of mine has POTS and I know what you’re going through. Thank you for your kind and supportive words💜 (🤞🤞just sent the KZbin thing again 🤞🤞)

[@karlbrown947]

Im so sorry to hear this. Its also very good to see people such as yourself have the courage to sit down like this and be open about yourself. You never know how many others may be going through similar things and this helps turn know that they are not alone. I believe that God is leading you towards a path where you may be able to explore other possible remedies such as natural plants and that you can continue to document your journey and keep us all informed. Follow your heart - don't stop gardening; the answer your looking for is being laid out for you.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you Karl! Your words are very kind and encouraging and perhaps you’re right…maybe this is all Divine intervention 🙏

[@belindaalderson9341]

Ask for appointment with a rheumatologist. I’m in Canada and I learned I had lupus and rheumatoid arthritis plus two other things . I’m getting better care . Fribro is always the first diagnosis. I will pray for you

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I have a rheumatologist and of all the doctors I’ve seen he puts all the blame on fibro. My family doctor who I saw this afternoon is sending a referral to another specialist and doing more blood tests. The referrals in Quebec take up to two years…

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I so appreciate your input and prayers 💜

[@carriecreates1207]

Great healing thoughts are coming your way !

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you so much Carrie 💜

[@lindalaporta5883]

I too have fibro. I so get what you are going through. You have to give yourself permission to live at your own pace. Your subscribers will understand. There is so many of us out there experiencing this same malady. Hang in there.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thanks for the encouragement Linda 💜 I’m learning I don’t have a choice anymore, my body will set the pace now..not my busy brain 😉

[@janeschultz9951]

I’ve missed you too! So very sorry you’re going this! I would help you if I was closer! Your honesty is appreciated and I hope you find some relief!

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you Jane, you’re so sweet 💜 If you lived closer I may have taken you up on your offer 😉

[@belindaalderson9341]

So sorry you’re ill

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you Belinda 🙏

[@Stinson.Homestead]

My sweet friend, I am so sorry you have been in such pain. You really don't owe anyone an apology or an explaination. Life is hard and much harder for some people. You are such a sweet soul and I appreciate your honesty and being real in your videos. At the same time, I know how hard struggles can be and how hard it is to talk about them. You are such a very special lady and I'm so proud to be your friend. I'm praying that you will find a doctor that can help you. I also pray that there will someday be a cure or at least a special medication to help you and all who are also suffering from fibro. Lord Jesus, please make a way! Hang in there friend! Please keep me posted when you can. 💜💜💜

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you Carolyn 🙏 Your heartfelt words are always a continuous support and encouragement for me 💜 Sending prayers to you always…

[@Stinson.Homestead]

@@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead 💙💙💙

[@sheritaggart4778]

Yes see a rheumatologist. I have lupus and your story sounds just like mine. But the meds I’m on now have really helped reduce symptoms. Fibromyalgia is never a “stand-alone” dx It most generally accompanies another autoimmune disorder, as a symptoms of autoimmune Don’t give up yet it takes a while

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Without knowing officially what you just said about fibromyalgia…I said exactly that to my doctor on Friday. I said it just can’t be fibro at this point!! I do have a rheumatologist but reading all the comments he doesn’t sound comparable to others. Always shrugs me off Thank you Sheri 💜

[@hollyu48]

As we age it’s harder and harder to garden, like you I hate the thought of not being able to do it anymore. I have committed to buying one new raised bed once or twice a yr. We have our two in ground plots planted but this may be the last yr.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

I’m kind of in denial about the age thing 🤣 I’m really hoping the raised beds make the difference but it will take us a few years to completely convert it. Thanks Holly!

[@kathleenhardwick7650]

Do what is best for you.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thanks Kathleen 🙏 That is a new concept for me but I’m learning 💜

[@belindaalderson9341]

I understand .

[@connydijkstra7781]

This is my first time that I am watching your channel. I am going to look back in the other vlogs. You are a Nice person but health issues are something you can’t do much about it. I am not a homesteader but I have a allotment and I also struggel with my health so I can understand How bad itmust feel for you. KZbin and editing takes a lot of time. You can ask people to buy you a cup of coffee or make a wish list on Amazon so you can have more raused beds! Or approsse a company who is selling raised beds and ask if the Will sponsor you and name it in your vlogs. Stay strong 🙏

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Welcome to our homestead Conny! I love to hear that people garden on allotments 😀 Thank you for your advice and support 💜

[@marcospolo9]

Try 90 days of carnivore. What do you have to lose?

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

That could be an option thanks!

[@Marsha_B]

Sorry to hear you’re are having problems with them diagnosing you with fibro and not looking at anything else. I have fibro as well as systemic lupus and more. If you want to try herbal I’m asking you to research on your own moringa (moringa oleifera) supplements - you will notice an improvement in under a few weeks trust me. Take care❤

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Marsha, I’m so sorry to hear you’re dealing with so much! Thank you for the tip!! Going to check it right now 💜

[@bonneymoseley1159]

Please go see an herbalist hon. God put plants on this earth to heal us. I have RSD, Fibro, and mifacia. Arthritis is also a part of me. I won't take pain meds, but the herbalist can give you herbs and nutrients that can take the inflammation out of your body. I was in bed 7 years my friend. I wasnt living, i was just existing. My prayers are with you. I will be praying for you to get KZbin to set you up and promote you too.

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Gosh Bonney that is a LOT! I will look into it. Maybe there is hope 🙏 Thank you so much and I will pray for your health too 💜

[@bonneymoseley1159]

@@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead AS I am praying for you too! I feel for you! I know what pain is. It can be so debilitating.

[@carmens5541]

Never be sorry for not feeling well, I wish I could give you a real {{gentle}} hug in person 💜 I understand it SO, SOOO well, I will check up on you on Instagram later this evening. Maybe someone on here could help you with the you tube/tech issue, I know when PA Brown started his channel there was an issue with the monetizing thing so don't automatically blame yourself, maybe just a glitch or something but I hope you can get something soon, you have an amazing channel and I know you put A LOT of work into it. You are in my prayers Colleen, never give up friend, downsize if you need to but NO giving up, and when you go in to rest here and there , just throw a blanket down on the bed and lay down dirty, hehe, I do it all the time 😉

[@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead]

Thank you Carmen 🙏 Great idea about the blanket 😉 My brain is so scrambled I couldn’t even think to do that 🤦🏻‍♀️ I sent off another review to KZbin this morning…🤞🤞🤞🤞maybe 9 x is the charm 😂 Thanks for your uplifting words and prayers and I’m sending them right back to you 💜