''I knew I was depressed, but I refused to accept it' Toyin Abraham sits

Toyin Abraham lets out on deep and soulful conversations on the very first episode of the show with Chude Jideonwo.
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[@Itsmisola]

Depression Depression Depression!!!! Thank you Toyin for sharing you story with us. It gladdens my heart when I hear success stories of people who overcome depression, anxiety & fear. It's really is a battle. The greatest battle in life is indeed the one we fight within us.

[@Jumokeomojola__]

I just love this woman 🥺❤️❤️❤️I love her so much she said when it comes to matter of the heart you cannot advice anybody just pray for them hmmm

[@powerhouseofprayer5]

Pain push you to progress if you manage it well and God on your side

[@Sogie23]

Waooo, true talk GOD bless you

[@ambberhill1090]

Depression is real, Toyin appears happy all the time and makes people laugh but in her privacy she was fighting depression. Let's all just be kind, you don't know what people are going through. I am happy she had the right people around her. It's okay to change your friends, they might not be helpful to you. Alicia Keys also mentioned how she had to reorganise her life and it meant people around her had to change. May afflictions never arise again for Toyin.

[@peaceful_dolapo]

She is so intelligent and articulate. Loved this open interview ❤️

[@adepeju4944]

I can relate. Atimes we cannot explain how exactly we are feeling.

[@dunnio1031]

Well done!! Your interviews are always soo deep.. Looking forward to seeing interviews of Mo Abudu, Linda Ikeji

[@bunmispeakstv]

This came at the right time....exactly what I'm going through right now.... Its 2:17am at the moment,sleep refused to come... Thank you chude for this interview... I've always loved you ma'am Toyin

[@titiada7773]

You will be fine,try talking to someone. Hope you get there soon 🙏

[@Ocbabs]

I pray God answers your prayers.

[@oritsedamilolahephzibah6427]

Listen to apostle Joshua selman messages,am sure you will be fine

[@Joyuswealthbiz13]

Same here too 🥲🥲🥲

[@abimade5698]

God's peace be with you

[@folakemipraise5408]

Depression manifests in different ways: For some it's withdrawal, some excessive talking, excessive shopping, excessive eating, excessive eating etc. Just pay attention to your body and actions, and open up to the right people. The world is getting more complex and the chances of many people going to depression is high. Ensure you are not alone for too long!

[@chidinmaorie7700]

Alone how

[@folakemipraise5408]

@@chidinmaorie7700 Being by yourself. If you suffer depression and you are by yourself most of the time, you are prone to all kinds of thoughts which might be dangerous. Get company, Get help, talk to someone! Music helps too.

[@eseagboola8704]

You're very right about excessive talking. Your comment is an eye opener

[@folakemipraise5408]

@@eseagboola8704 Thank you

[@samsungmalaysia-up9mq]

Sometimes that true alone time might just be what you need to start to breath properly without any pressures or need for validation. There is no one route for everybody

[@everydayfamilytvshow]

The Holy Spirit is the solution to depression.Just invite Him and watch the peace that overshadows and overwhelms you. Thank God for you mum ire.Your joy be permanent

[@OlabisiImpactLight]

I had to click the video when I saw Toyin, God bless you ma

[@feliciaakabe9364]

I suffered depression for about 7 yrs. ThankGod for healing me.

[@selbeeintimacy348]

7 YEARS!!! What happened?

[@sunflowerlovesbees]

you are loved , you are protected and you are respected

[@feliciaakabe9364]

@@selbeeintimacy348 was just in a bag place mentally. Became diabetic at d age of 8. Was hospitalised a lot. Had to be taking insulin 3 times daily. I felt alone. Welll now I'm better

[@feliciaakabe9364]

@@sunflowerlovesbees God bless you

[@selbeeintimacy348]

@@feliciaakabe9364 Wow that was really a lot, sorry. Thank God you are better now!

[@jirehchannelnetworks1180]

I know exactly how depression feels like .it's the worst experience anyone can go through coz it destroys you where nobody can see except you and God. I truly thank God for healing me ❤️😊

[@FaithAdegboye]

Her gown is beautiful. Sir Chude I love your works and I learn from your hosting skills

[@emilyoluwashola3279]

Listening to Toyin is inspiring, watching her is motivating...I am hopeful and believe it can only get better 🙌

[@victoriaamoye]

In life I think it is the fear of someone taking advantage of you that brings anxiety and depression. We all need someone we can trust in our lives in one way or the other and we have to give the allowance for people to be human as we are human. Learn to let go, love yourself and forgive yourself for mistakes of your past and protect your heart for your future.

[@DoyinVoice]

100% 🙌🏾

[@gailz503RV]

Depression is real. Thanks for sharing your story Toyin!! God bless you🙏🏻

[@kingamar8780]

Beautiful background….where is the place?, Chude is doing Brilliantly .

[@a.jbezaleel6354]

He who feels it,knows it better....and very unexplainable sometimes.went thru my own share of fear,anxiety,depression,rejection,hearing voices and constant panick attacks the whole of last year.(2021). But in this same year is when i understood this word of God:i will never leave nor forsake u,i will deliver u out of trouble six times,and on the 7th time,i will make u untouchable.not given us the spirit of fear,but of boldness,power&sound mind.

[@adabaibe2009]

When the mind is down it attracts people who are not usually good for you. You become vulnerable to everyone. Past traumatic experiences, bad habits, burnout and not creating a calm and balance in life leads to a lot.

[@Ayshat]

Before she changed her last name, I thought she had the most unique last name, Aimakhu. And 'Oshin' as well

[@princessayomideademola5105]

I just love this side of Aunty Toyin am seeing The carisima and self esteem is 100 %

[@Nr_Oladele]

Chude!!! Thank you for bringing my sweet momma to your channel 🥰🥰 the section was power, thank you for being open for help when you needed it @Toyin Abraham!!!! I love you 😘💕❤️

[@adebayovictor9922]

Toyin make a film from this your story. I would gladly b a writer of the movie

[@wavystomz2542]

Depression is real... And those negative thinking does a lot...I pray God comforts everyone in this situation..Thanks for giving hope out here ma

[@adejokeakinyemi3835]

I'm happy for you today,, where u are now and what u have become gives me joy anytime I see you or hear ur name,,I love you overdose

[@falolababatunde3258]

Excellent!... I enjoyed this!... "I'LL RATHER HAVE A CUT THAN HAVE A PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEM"... It's good to have a sane/sound mind. Kudos!

[@joyceozemoya7968]

Thank you for bringing awareness to mental illness. I am a therapist and I understand how difficult it is to share your story. Depression is real, it is not a disease of the rich or poor. I really appreciate your honesty. God bless you

[@maryjoefms]

Depression is a destroyer. And Its the voice of the stranger(the devil). I thank God for reviving her JOY back to life.

[@olayinkasonaike2027]

JESUS is the Answer. A deep relationship with the Holy spirit will deliver and Sustain you.

[@pacesetter7710]

Depression is like thief in the night. One never knows when it can creep up to steal one’s joy. Thank God Toyin has support to get her through it. Mental health is not discriminatory, it can happen to anyone. Chude is also a great listener and interviewer. Love this. The best part is when Toyin said “I don’t need pity party”. Strong support network helps a lot.

[@nedgetravels818]

Well, having a pity party is relative. I am a mental health support worker. Sometimes you use the strong support network method, hmmm, it breaks them the more cos they can't go at your pace. It worsens it in some cases. The pity method helps as well, you have to study the client, and keep cognisance with which best suits their personality. Above all, Empathy heals depression. And you trying to bring one out of depression can get drowned. Above all.. constant positive affirmations heals a depressed person. There is a very thin line between depression and being happy. It usually starts with lack of self satisfaction, lack of love and Empathy from people around you, fear of the known and unknown!!!! Practicing gratitude, helps as well, but that's during the healing process. It is tough. May God help us all in this journey of humanity.

[@fancyface2848]

@@nedgetravels818 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Very well said. If you know, you know. God bless you and what you guys do, in Social services.

[@funkesobowale5543]

@@nedgetravels818 thank you for sharing

[@bakarerahmat4895]

What if you don't have anybody around you to cheer you up or anybody to talk to 😭😭😭😭 I hope I can also find happiness one day

[@boofarms5714]

Dont worry, its well with you in Jesus name

[@sandranwani6695]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.I cannot play. I felt it jare but you did very well

[@sholaeoladimeji6411]

This interview with Toyin as healed me. You make me discover whom i am, i need to take a bold step. I need a new life, i need new friends i need to change a lots of things about me. Thanks Toyin for this life changing inspirational words.

[@segilolao4156]

Hello

[@segilolao4156]

Hello

[@orjichristiana4010]

Ones circle is key. She had to change her circle

[@TrudyJen]

Watching this, I see myself, it been a journey, I am not totally healed but am working towards it.

[@Fifesthreads]

Ohh God this is me🥺😭 please help me. I've been suffering this for the past 3 years now. I've been to the therapist several times but nothing seems to be working 😭

[@Asa_Jojo]

Pray pray sis pray

[@Lannan3067]

God bless you ...I have been there.This is a hard thing to explain to people because they only know the text book meaning of depression unless they are in your shoes or experiencing it personally they will not know. .People take it so lightly. 🤷 So, it is good to have good friends and people around you who truly care about what you are going thru...Glad that you shared 😊 People associate mental health with being crazy but that is the furthest from the truth..Mental sickness is just as important as physical health and it can affect any one ...it does not discriminate.🙏🙏

[@abimbolagold.ashabi971]

I really do enjoy this Session 😍🥰🥰👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼

[@sunnyecheletv]

Please when are we having Mercy Johnson on the show???

[@NaaKewty]

Africans don’t really know what people going through depression go through….depression is really underrated. All I can say is depression is really real because I also went through it…. I finally had the courage to talk about it on my channel and people kept saying “ you were going through things and never told anyone “?? Let’s be nice to everyone because we actually don’t know who is going through what🥰🥰🥰

[@asantewaaagyemang4988]

I'm going through same for 4 years now. There's no one but Jesus helping me each day. I encourage myself with songs, Christian and educative movies and THE WORD of God. I can't afford professional counselor, i have no person to talk to. I speak to Jesus each moment the sorrow becomes intense. I find solace in preaching God's Word and counselling others in pain. The success in counselling brings joy. Sometimes, i need a counselor myself and i ask "WHO COUNSELS THE COUNSELOR? THE HOLYSPIRIT HAS BEEN MY STRENGTH. I admit i really need professional help.

[@sharonisicheri2646]

This made me cry, someone really gets it, I am really inspired& relieved..'and she came out' struck me...

[@joychetachi]

She was really real... Very real You will see it

[@stanleymessiless9717]

have been suffering from Generalized anxiety disorders since my childhood till date but many people say I'm always afriad but the don't know what goes through my mind and my life but I just want to tell everyone suffering from mental health that we are stronger than what we feel . Everything this woman said it what happened to me since 2019 till date but i have now find a way to fight my fears but believe me mental health never stopped my self esteem .

[@bolarinwarc3927]

It's well with you

[@lovinaphilip5382]

Please go for a therapy 🙏🙏🙏

[@stanleymessiless9717]

@@bolarinwarc3927 thanks very much

[@stanleymessiless9717]

@@lovinaphilip5382 I'm on it thanks very much

[@adeolafashola2732]

Fantastic interview. Chude, amazing listener. Thank you Toyin for sharing your experience.

[@bakarerahmat4895]

What if you don't have anybody around you to cheer you up or anybody to talk to 😭😭😭😭 I hope I can also find happiness one day

[@BeautyByOla15]

Depression is real, only the person going through it can explain it all. Glad she was linked to the right people to assist her in getting better . It’s sound like schizophrenic but when you are work with the right people , who don’t sell you out and let you open up about yourself without any judgements you can overcome even the impossible I pray it does not reoccur and things move forward for her and her family. She’s right when it comes to the matter of love you can not advise them. She’s right o .

[@modupeidowu3188]

God forbid . The Almighty has done it for her. Joy, happiness, and above all these, I wish her love.

[@tamarakeipreyedekpen1007]

No, she will not have a relapse. Thank God, hers wasn't even the severe form of it. The severe form of it is a psychiatrist case. And treatment is drugs and therapy. It is very expensive to treat. That is why when a person feels downcast for no reason....the person should talk, talk to a mature and understanding people.

[@Stylebynikkylad]

Hummmm depression is a bastard ...expecially when you are surrounded with the wrong people ...I learnt something today ..change your settings , bad habits and discover yourself...thanks

[@asedamercy3095]

The interview was made for me! Thanks so much Toyin.

[@michaelolabamiji6810]

What a wonderful interview..... Have a more from Toyin today First, if you want a better thing for yourself, you need to change some people in your life. And when it comes to the matter of heart, you can't actually Advise anyone. Thank God for your life Toyin.

[@adaramajaomotolani8104]

I just love Toyin Please keep making us laugh 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗🥰🤗🤗

[@balogunolabimpe2220]

I love you Toyin. Is unfortunate that our Country, don't believe a lady ought to come out of abusive marriage. Even the bible says we could divorce on infidelity.

[@humidg355]

We all have a dose of depression A bad experience can push it out. Good music & books are good. Be around positive friends who are good listeners and have good habits. Most of all get to be friends with God

[@adesoyeshakirat8114]

So happy to hear this❤️ I pray I overcome what I'm going through presently

[@oyinlicioustalks2777]

Depression is actually real have been in this state before. To leave in fear isn’t good at it’s not good for our health thank God I came across this video I need it.

[@blessingecoma9233]

Praying all those passing through depression get victory on a daily basis in Jesus name.

[@Bouqui_TV]

Amen

[@farafad4485]

Amen

[@oluwaseunafolabi5405]

Amen

[@sinmiloluwakwentua4783]

AMEN

[@ugoo4364]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@tojuirone1997]

It's d way chude says yes for me

[@nwododeborahnchedochukwu9739]

Most times I think about suicide, I cry alot, I don't like people around me

[@mariamtolulope8178]

I enjoyed every bit of this interaction. God bless you really good Chude!

[@Toksgg]

Ummmm, Toyin, your story touches the heart. You are beautiful, strong, intelligent, compassionate and really gifted in what you do. Thank you for sharing this story, it will definitely help someone. God bless and continue to strengthen you. Much love. Chude you are the bomb, really.

[@MISS_SHERRY]

She’s a great actress love from 🇺🇸

[@shakeeratabbass9983]

Depression is real , it comes anytime either you are rich or not , something will just hook your mind & put fear / sadness into ones mind , but if you can pray fast & rebuked any evil thinking about life , you can quickly overcome it & back to your normal self , May God continue to strengthen you my beautiful & hardworking baby girl , forward ever , backward never

[@vickieogb1262]

Facts. I always tell my husband that we underestimate the power of speaking in tongues, speaking positively and praying in relations to sad moods and all, we keep moving positively daily 👌👌

[@teesrecipeandmoore9506]

Yes! Prayers and holding on to God’s words does wonder!

[@teesrecipeandmoore9506]

............It’s a fast pill to depression but then It’s also good to visit a counselor for follow up.

[@nimotaiyabodebankole9735]

Dearie! Thank God for His unabated mercies on your life

[@accra-jajaaugustina6616]

Thank you Toyin.. A great actress.. Loved the interview.. And depression is real..

[@love8416]

I so much love this session with Aunty toyin Thank God for your life ma God is definitely taking you to a greater place

[@sunnyecheletv]

Please talk to Mercy Johnson

[@glamempire568]

Beautiful ma'am.I love you and thank God for your life.I suffered depression too but I didn't get anyone to help.God and music helped me that's why I love music so much

[@deby2925]

Depression is so real, at a time i felt i was better of dead but thank God for healing I'm in a better place now. We need to learn how to be kind to people, some are fighting silent battles behind close doors.

[@joyceamatakyi8418]

I can relate oo, just pretend to be the most happiest person to the world but dying inside

[@ThePhebes]

Hello Toyin, thank you so much for the awareness you have brought to mental health illness using your experience to bring enlightenment to what is seen as a stigma in our society, I applaud you👏🏼. You are intelligent, a beautiful and strong black woman, continue to be you🙏🏼. I also wanted to say that some of these symptoms you said you experienced such as the feeling of being low, fear, depressed…resonates with me.The depression could may be peri menopausal symptoms, research has shown that some women begin to experience some of these symptoms from their middle 30’s. More so, some of these symptoms can begin to surface even though you continue to have regular periods. Pls research online and you will find a lot of resources and information that will also help alongside the help you already have in place. Much luv xxx

[@ThePhebes]

2 Timothy 1:7 “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind”

[@creditriskkrisoralchris7490]

Her last words are deep

[@calebcadainoo]

This is very deep 🔥🔥

[@cocobuhtr]

I’ve been there before, just as explained. Absolutely nothing in this world makes sense to you. It’s insane but I overcame it with therapy, writing, talking about it and yea I prayed.

[@Temiladeiye]

Strong woman!!! I celebrate you strength ma Thanks chude for the chat. It's amazing watching this

[@ObaahemaasRecipeHub]

I just LOVE this woman🥰🥰🥰

[@biancaihua5841]

I can't wait to meet Toyin Abraham; she's so humble 🤗❤️💞💗.

[@bolatay2502]

I have met her twice in her apartment,she is a very good person, very down to earth, her openess is her key to success. She is too plain and that is what is working for her, her heart is pure

[@adeseyeowosho7681]

I saw her many years ago in London

[@Niftyabby]

Depression is very real

[@remilekunogundowo7086]

Wowww! I really enjoyed the interview and feel now that depression can only be conquered with all round positivity.

[@blessingjennifer24]

Love the dress and the pose. Jesus is Lord over depression.

[@temianne8788]

Hmmm, God bless you mama Toyin. I love the word "Willingly" Most times, all that I do is to focus on my counselor's mistakes, I never have the willingness to leave my state of depression because I feel good in it while I still leave with my agony of bitterness and pain. I so much love this interview 💝 God bless your home.

[@taiwoibrahim1394]

Am going through this depression right now to open up is had for me bcs people around me if I tell them what am going true the next day I will hear it outside and is way me down

[@maryammikail1178]

@@taiwoibrahim1394 Please talk to someone outside those circles. May Allah heal you my brother. It is sad, our society doesn't help the matter

[@mayowabello7206]

hmmm this is what am going through know. i prayed i will overcome it and tell the story

[@OloriAdeolaa]

You will come out strong in Jesus name. Amen

[@adjoviotchakpa2850]

Dépression is real!! I was in the same position year ago. Thank you for cheering ma.

[@anthoniaagawereh7239]

She is indeed very bright.

[@omonzeu.2911]

Thanks for sharing...thoroughly enjoyed this episode for many reasons including the rendition at the end 😀. Thanks to the guest, the questions, and #withChude 👌

[@ifeomangene6148]

Thanks for sharing your story

[@diabosalma8594]

I got called by a female friend to come help her with her upcoming business which she wants me to manage 😊so I called my bf from her house informing him about where I was and he was like what is that business that your brother can’t help you with if u need it and I got cold like even you as a bf u can’t help me and you are vexing . I got home and started thinking about everything and his words 😢 I just burst into words cos over 5 yrs after tertiary and no better job rather my friend is the one to employ me?????? I couldn’t control my tears but wished to die 😢 Pls let no one who can’t help you depress you just do that small or little job to survive

[@favtormag]

I love her so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@angelategga9740]

My dearest sister and favourite actor of all time. Pray that you continue to grow in wisdom and strength of the Lord. Your experience is worth sharing and to learn from.

[@omobolanlereachel9004]

I’m happy to be here💃🏾

[@sharifatumohammed3384]

What was the cause of her depression?

[@sharifatumohammed3384]

What was the cause of her depression?

[@ebunoluwaadeoye1234]

This is what am going through am just scared of everything and I don't know why

[@faithatilary4506]

So sorry dear. U will b fine trust me. And it is well with ur soul okay b strong 💪 okay. There is nothing God cannot do okay.

[@diabosalma8594]

I got called by a female friend to come help her with her upcoming business which she wants me to manage 😊so I called my bf from her house informing him about where I was and he was like what is that business that your brother can’t help you with if u need it and I got cold like even you as a bf u can’t help me and you are vexing . I got home and started thinking about everything and his words 😢 I just burst into words cos over 5 yrs after tertiary and no better job rather my friend is the one to employ me?????? I couldn’t control my tears but wished to die 😢 Pls let no one who can’t help you depress you just do that small or little job to survive

[@raysibrahim8339]

Depression is real… be kind to people.

[@diabosalma8594]

I called a female friend one day and found out she was crying so I gave her sometime to cry cos she couldn’t even talk 😢 I called again and learnt she was depressed because a male family friend asked her when she was getting married and he again asked if she is happy being single 😮 ……. Like who asks such questions while the male friend is just cohabiting with lady and he is even a thief and a scammer who scams even his friends and people around him😅such a stupid person should not depress you…….

[@princessabiola8667]

This is really wonderful show that helps alot👏👏 bravo Toyin you're indeed worrior 👍❤️💋

[@ruthayoola7532]

This thing call depression eats silently, And sadly enough; most times, it's so difficult to walk away from that thing that keeps you depressed! God help us all!

[@dieumerciloveroflifemzelle4217]

Those are neurons you know neurons are fragile just like cereals if you shake it it’s going to mix up instead if getting preserved stronger and tougher, that’s why they say your brain becomes smaller with age unless you preserve it keep it healthy and wise and do sport to get all the stored toxins out! But always give your brain his needed energy ! May god protect us and give us wisdom! And sweetness ! And avoid us head trauma and family trauma physic or non-physic every minute every second eveywhere for years forever to me and my family ! Beautifull simple living Life ! Armed yourself wity your bravour courage! Smile when the Other half sent throu god ! May god protect us from low energy empty energy and frustration and depression and depressed people and actions! Amen

[@halimahadebayo4731]

I would rather have a cut than have psychological problem coz cut you will treat and it will heal while psychological problem can leave the biggest cut ever........... True talk Toyin

[@pricelezife6862]

Thank God for your life....sounds more like anxiety and depression. Your testimony is permanent Aunty Toyin. ❤